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If you objectively measure my views with a type of political barometer I fall strictly into the liberal camp, but more akin to the views of my liberal parents who grew up as staunch Democrats in the 1990s but actually more progressive with respect to things like gay marriage and rights. Yet in this day and age to the online left this is insufficient to their interests bordering on "far-right fascist" territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/26 09:18 PM
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They might be perfectly willing to date or sleep with a liberal woman while having no intention of taking the relationship all the way. You don't need to see someone as politically compatible for marriage just to be interested in them short term. Yes for sure. It's not my thing but it's still easy to see it has nothing to do with "knowing their ideology is a losing one", more just it makes perfect sense not to bother to bring it up esp for short-term shit considering how easily offended many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/26 07:02 AM
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I personally wouldn't ever date someone who's views I foresee to be incompatible with mine in the first place, but there are guys out there who don't care or just want sex. This is still separate from debating the merits of conservative vs liberal ideology(s) themselves. OP has connected them to push an anti-conservative narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/26 06:34 AM
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People really are so invested in their own camps they reach hard to say the only reason some men might withhold their political views is bc their views are "abhorrent". As if the current political climate doesn't encourage reactive knee-jerk volatility, policing words, and the inability to disagree. I'm still left of center and hesitate to ever even say something like "trans people are less than 1% of the population" in case any acquaintances are taken aback and read into things, and these aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/26 06:20 AM
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Many men don't find our importance as cannon fodder or workhorses to be flattering either. It's not a patriarchy-only thing it's how humans are hardwired - to simplify our value down to our base primitive roles in a tribe or group trying to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/26 03:43 AM
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So your point is that conservative men will say they aren't conservative bc they know some liberal women will see that as a dealbreaker. Meaning many men will say anything to get laid or avoid taboo statements to keep confrontation at bay, we already knew that. There's nothing in this, or in the fact that liberal politics are much more acceptable in many regions, that argues against the actual conservative ideology(s) or supports left-leaning ones as you may have intended. If you wanted to debat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 11:03 PM
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I think the 'pissy' look translates to striking to me. I guess that's the nice thing about looks is you'll find someone out there who likes what you've got as long as you try to take good care of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:54 PM
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I have arched more feminine eyes and brows and have always thought lower set ones like his are better on men. For some reason I find them more attractive on women as well, although not to the hunter-eye level that blackpillers support. It's been surprising to find most women don't even really care for hunter eyes but they look cool to me. Maybe a grass-is-greener effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:50 PM
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Many such cases online. I assume everyone is crazy, a shill or AI til proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:42 PM
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the more you know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:28 PM
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or maybe just raise your standards redditors have notoriously low standards or just talk bad about people they dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:27 PM
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Different standards then, I haven't seen many. Clav has been in the news nonstop as cannon fodder, every time it's like "Clav was mogged by __________" it's never actually a guy better looking. Mainstream just likes to shit on the bp incel demographic. I don't disagree a lot of them might deserve it, but that is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:22 PM
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I'm not talking about actors or models, I'm talking about the average LA guy or even above average. Although frankly the models there are mostly just skinny and tan or not particularly striking facially. We aren't talking about the top-tier internationally known ones. To reiterate, Clavicular's reputation belongs to a demo that is heavily stigmatized. Incel loser, blackpill, heavily misogynistic, not just "he's an asshole". Take any random model and attach this rep to them they'd be socially shu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:11 PM
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It's pretty simple. Goodlooking dudes do well with women. He gets a lot more rejections bc he's famous for being terrible and women virtue signal on camera. If nobody knew who he was, yea eventually they'll realize he's an autistic trainwreck but that's beside the point. I go to LA all the time, "tons of men hotter" lol. I'm not even a fan of clavicular he's annoying af but I know people are deluding themselves when they talk shit about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 10:02 PM
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His fame has actually nerfed him. If he wasn't preceded by his dumbass blackpill tool reputation he'd just be a random very goodlooking guy and few women would respond to him negatively until perhaps they got to know him. Not to mention there wouldn't be filming so they wouldn't virtue signal and act disinterested for the cameras.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 09:49 PM
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If you pass the good-enough threshold facially everything else like height, body, pheno, charisma, and status carry much harder. The most sexually successful men I know are all okay-looking effortlessly extroverted charismatic guys. They aren't ugly, but/so they excel hard bc of other qualities. Many women absolutely have bad face as a dealbreaker but their engine is driven by their perception of him as a man through the entire package and his actions. Also, most men can pass the face threshold …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 06:36 AM
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" as soon as they realize they’re losing an argument." Maam you passed this point ages ago. That social worker there yet? Tell your boo to blink twice if he needs help. What you pulled out of your ass was 100x worse than what I ever said to you (oh no I called you crazy, bc you're acting crazy) but we know the mods love siding with women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:41 PM
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Why would I need to acknowledge it's wrong when it's 1) obviously wrong due to me pointing out your hypocrisy and 2) you didn't ask and it's not part of our conversation? Just admit you're just looking to insult and point fingers at anything and everything because you were in panic defensive mode. Again, I hope your husband is fucking ok bc hooooly shit they def need to send a social worker or two over yonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:13 PM
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Dude honestly looks exactly like your type. I'm increasingly feeling like whether a guy is a chad or not in your eyes is whether or not your comment is intended to criticize or uplift.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 10:18 PM
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Oh you mean on the same level of calling me a pedophile based purely on your emotional state? Just LOL FOH "Chad's mom". For the record when men talk about false accusations, it's you they're talking about. I pray for your 6'4" husband and his well-being lest you get upset with him one day and tell the police he's been touching your kids bc you can't win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 09:30 PM
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The fact that you assume I am okay with sexualizing children just bc I didn't say I wasn't in our back and forth that has literally zero to do with my opinion on that speaks volumes about how fucked up and grasping for straws you are. My response was to highlight your hypocrisy. You're not okay and you're deflecting like crazy. Nothing you're typing is that of a stable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 09:21 PM
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You might have to delete your account bruh LMAO what level of spiraling insanity is this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:53 PM
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Slight tweak. It's "Retarded Chad does well on dating apps so don't tell us our problem is we're retarded."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:44 PM
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The MRA sub is just an all-purpose sub for any men who are mad at women. The thing is, misandric subs are still widely allowed so femcels, radfems, FAs, 4Bs etc have places to go that are more specific to their views. For the male counterparts, there's like one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:38 PM
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They have a variety of different core values but the priority is to fight back against women or feminism. That's the case for any gendered or polarized group online. They don't know or care what they primarily stand for, it's just reactive and attacking the opposition wherever it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:11 PM
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There are quite a few MRA who still want to go back to traditional norms, but their priority is more just attacking feminism. They'll highlight feminist hypocrisy and talk about how it's not actually seeking what it's meant to do on paper, but they also don't like what's on paper in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:00 PM
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"Don’t think I haven’t noticed that you never pushed back that men who sexualize children are wrong. 👀" How desperate are you? LOLLL from 0 to batshit crazy in less than 60 seconds fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:48 PM
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You seem awfully defensive, a shrink could have a field day with your comment chain here indicating massive deflection and projection. Clearly I struck a nerve. Let's not even get into how disingenuous it is to use the word 'Chad' with its common knowledge semantics on a sub like this and play innocent victim when people side-eye that shit LOLL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:32 PM
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just...give it up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:24 PM
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LOLLL whatever you say ma'am, but <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:21 PM
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Heh didn't your flair used to be "Chad's mom"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:29 PM
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Personal responsibility is important, but if something begins to affect [more than] a certain percentage of the population something else is going on society or environment-wise. Obesity and opioid addiction are decent examples. Both issues need to be addressed even if it means the victims often made their own poor decisions. As far as dating woes go a lot of younger people are poorly socialized because of the ubiquity of the internet. Even older people who weren't previously affected can become…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:04 AM
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People from the south tend to just run syllables together. Reminds me of how comedian from TN Nate Bargatze was saying how he grew up pronouncing 'oil' with just one syllable like 'ohl' instead of "oyle" like I just assumed everyone said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:55 AM
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It's not like I don't understand some of the nihilism in young men but I don't get the appeal of being a NEET either. I was completely free for a few months a few years ago and it was nice for a bit but I realized I'd go crazy without some type of purpose or routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:43 PM
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I'm half asian half white, born in the US and parents also born in the US so I'm a few generations in. I always envisioned Lebanese men as more feminine but I know as much about the Middle East as you know about the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:35 PM
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Regionally a very similar vibe to Colorado but not Colorado, very white and outdoorsy, big on tanning. Ironically aside from LGBT it's surprising how conservative they can be so I guess when I said progressive I meant more just in terms of sexual orientation. My image of Turkish men conjures up those images of goodlookin dudes but they're chiseled and masculine with beards, not bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:31 PM
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I live in a progressive area...bears seem pretty popular in the gay community. But maybe it's different elsewhere. There's a running joke that in red state areas the few out gay men are really fit b/c "not anyone can just come out" vs a very blue state.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:23 PM
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I seriously doubt the high standards part, I get hit on regularly by gay dudes of all types and as flattering as that is I notice they hit on and stare at other guys too. A lot of these dudes are into the bear-type as well which, as a layman unfamiliar with the specifics, I would say I'm pretty much the opposite of. It's more likely as you've said in the past, maybe gay men have low standards for in-the-moment visceral attraction or sex but are much more picky about LTRs, also why so many gay re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:13 PM
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Man I really don't get where the idea that gay men have high standards comes from ("if a gay guy hits on you, you know you're hot"), I can't think of anything lower unless you're talking about deformities. Must be nice, just come to the US and hit up a red state it's literally every dude. I guess the caveat is most of them would either be homophobic or heavily closeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:01 PM
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A lot of it also comes down to distribution of mental resources and priorities. It's easy(er) if you don't have a family to take care of or aren't overworked or stressed, and there's argument for attention better placed elsewhere as well on other things constructive, such as in your case expanding culinary repertoire or reading more books. After a certain point health and fitness becomes more about aesthetics, law of diminishing returns and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:49 PM
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The gamechanger that put me below ~13% wasn't really how I was training although staying active completely changes your body chemistry for the better, but more like how your hormonal profile also changes if you just get used to eating certain food or less of other types. You simply stop craving junk as much and feeling hungry when you shouldn't. It's definitely different for some due to genetics but for example in your case as a guy with decent mass and metabolism even 2500 cal may feel like sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:43 PM
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You don't need to give up good/guilty pleasure food and sugary drinks to be fit and lean, you just need to moderate and be smart about it and establish new habits, although I agree different people have different TDEEs and body chemistry so it may be harder for some than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:35 PM
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I think men if they aren't desperate and being honest also are probably only attracted to 20% of women as dating prospects - not in terms of just needing a hole in the moment. If anything seeing 1 in 5 women or men as potentially dateable actually seems high. The difference might be that men have greater variation in who the top 20% is, but I've also heard the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:30 AM
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Most people are also stupid and lack discipline but it's not wrong to want or even demand someone who isn't stupid and has discipline if they have it themselves. I've heard the whole "most women are overweight so if you want a fit woman you're entitled even if you may be fit." But we don't tell women that wanting a man who isn't a fat chud is out of their league since most men are fat chuds. The solution has been to critique men and tell them to get up off their ass and get better. Many feminist…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:20 AM
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Heh not grandpa age but maybe I'm almost there in your neighborhood where the average age of a first-time parent is probably in the early teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:53 PM
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Tf? How else would you compare online vs IRL blackpill validity if it's not online dating/matching vs real-life interaction? Why tf would meme posting be in the conversation at all. Is the insane reach in the room with us now, smh Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:48 PM
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....still not an example of IRL...you said one thing then jumped to something else as a gotcha which is confusing So as u/OfftheRedSand said, there are plenty of average dudes with average women in public Not saying looks don't play a significant role, but it's clear they are [even] more signficant in an online medium where the only way to assess anyone is primarily through static images.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:42 PM
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It's a no-brainer tall guys do well online and you specifically stated BP is even more accurate IRL....but your friend showing you his matches isn't an example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:35 PM
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Just another mental post from OP to feel more normal and validated. Textbook example of hating maleness and everything about one's [previous] self and building up anything female or woman related. Literally everything OP writes is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 10:58 PM
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My preoccupation is not with innate biological differences, it's pointing out disingenuous and deluded arguments and premises, specifically in this case the overemphasis on socialization that fuels the narrative of most far-lefties or progressives, from a bigger picture. Many of my comments are rants about stupid and polarized views, this just so happens to be one about innate biological differences between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:21 AM
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I'm not proud to be a man or obsessed with "biological superiority". I don't think men are superior to women. It is however, ironic and telling that when I say 'men and women are naturally different' in sociopolitical debate it's taken from some detractors as me saying men are superior to women, almost as if they already think a man's associated traits are superior. They're the ones thinking that, and thus offended that women are associated with nurturing, not me. That's why they have a tough ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:23 AM
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It's unnecessary to even bring in math or curves. A young child knows. Something tends to be like so. Not always. But more often than not the case. That's it. I'm going to say these people aren't actually dumber than children but have adopted certain stances out of willful denial and coping bc of their politics or hangups. The brain is incredibly powerful and can train itself to believe what it wants to believe. I actually would not be surprised in the slightest if many academically inclined peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:52 PM
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The irony of it all is by feminists doing what they do they actually devalue the contributions and innate nature of women; they also do this by focusing on how much women can prevail and succeed in traditionally male roles which shows they themselves value male-associated virtues while complaining that women are undervalued.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:40 PM
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Just seems like something a 2nd grader could grasp, idk. A concept not much more complex than object permanence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:18 PM
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Outside of absurd feminist echo chambers Oh you mean like many parts of the main thread heh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:16 PM
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Why do so many people find it easy to agree that men and women are physically different "and that's it." Like yes sure physically different absolutely, but somehow it's unthinkable that temperamental, cognitive, neurological, or psych profiles could have evolved to be different as well? Absolutely no way the sex that evolved all the biological structures, extra bodyfat and softness for carrying a child could be more nurturing, absolutely no way the sex with more mass and musculature could be mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:01 PM
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My knee-jerk reaction is idfc ban these dumbass teenagers. But then you realize, most adults active on these platforms are stunted people who act like dumbass teenagers so... It honestly feels like everyone is either a shit-for-brains, snake oil salesman or shill bot. I keep spamming "not interested" so idk why my algorithm is still fucked. It still wants to show me far-left and far-right engagement-bait from the same pages I've vetted if I even ever click on anything politics related. My person…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:59 PM
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Most guys are not overly skinny...it's the opposite if we're talking about America. Even in upper class areas where everyone is less overweight. Most guys have a formless soft look which is due to higher than ideal BF regardless of weight. Most guys aren't athletic, most guys refuse to eat right, sure. I'd say if you're already skinny the ideal is more to just hit the gym and make sure you build a little mass while maintaining leanness. Overall the takeaway is still being on the lean and thin si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:35 PM
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Unless the guy is very skinny and overly narrow-framed, fairly lean guys with some athleticism win out mostly. If you're already thin it's not that much effort to make it to the gym a few solid times a week. My theory is a lot of men feel invisible to women and blame it on high standards because they're stuck in this borderline chubby formless middle ground and are afraid to hit any cardio or cut for fear of looking "too skinny" or being "victim weight". The result is 99% of men who lift regular…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:14 PM
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The bigger truth is most liberals are conservative-lite, esp if you talk about the American political spectrum the entire thing is very innately right-centered. In recent years we've just grown so accustomed to outspoken far-left SJW redditor types so we think that's the norm. The trans stuff is a small minority of the left-leaning population hogging the conversation for self interest or brownie points. Libs still, often secretly, agree with what the Democratic mouthpieces would have supported i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:20 AM
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It's the lack of self awareness that baffles me. I deviate from the norm in some ways as well (who doesn't?) but I take this into account and adjust accordingly when debating in different contexts. Many literally single themselves out as divergent due to their myriad of labels so I don't know if there is also a lot of blind arrogance or delusion mixed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:59 AM
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Sure there's degrees in everything, but there's a broad or universal definition of bad in bed, like the guy who obviously doesn't care about her pleasure or doesn't know what he's doing. Given the choice between this guy and a less goodlooking guy who knows his stuff, most women will choose sex with the latter. The thing is women don't choose partners primarily based on quality of sex as it's just one piece in a fairly large equation. To reiterate the funniest thing is a competent guy's mediocre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:12 AM
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Many women will agree no matter how physically attractive a man is, sex is not going to be enjoyable if he doesn't care or is bad in bed. Which I always thought was weird bc women can bring themselves off fairly easily while alone - suggesting a lot more plays into the fantasy than raw looks. Hard to invest in the narrative that gets her juices going - e.g. he's a wild rebel she's tamed to become deeply devoted to her needs - when he's actively the opposite of it in real time. I think if it came…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:35 PM
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It's less talked about but guys are often the same way as both genders esp nowadays are steeped ad more obsessed with achieving their respective ideals. On lifting forums I would hear men say that 'men are better looking and more aesthetic' or that women need makeup so as not to look formless or soft - usually with a makeup-free Sydney Sweeney as an example. A lot of these people are just deluded or obsessed with achieving the beauty standards prescibed to them. They aren't actually gay/les as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:31 PM
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Heteronormative standards are just fine and accurate in dating as a general rule if you're neurotypical and attracted only or primarily to the opposite sex. I won't ever get all these people online arguing that their subversive preferences are superior and work better and then admit they are neurodivergent or with outlier orientations sometimes in the same sentence. Asexuals arguing sex is merely a social pressure and not important, lesbians or hard-femme-leaning bisexuals arguing it's more natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:29 PM
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Heh I wonder if anyone is crying that men are unjustifiably forced into relationships bc that's the only way these men can get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:22 AM
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no like they bang, top and bottom, body parts touch, fluids transferred bitchking has the ball knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:23 AM
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Even flirting means I'm leaving as long as I know about it. I don't understand men with such little self respect and dignity that they're ok being with someone who acts that way or might not be satisfied with them, regardless of fault. I don't really have problems attracting women but even if I did I'd rather be alone than deal with that. I don't doubt there are people out there who would call me insecure for not being able to handle "a little flirtatious banter here and there" but idc. There's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:42 AM
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The fact that he hasn't quit, tried a different area, or even seems to be fazed by the things like scowls or yells tells me he lacks self awareness to the envy of onlookers. Yea he's still failing but nothing bothers him - doesn't sound like he even knows that he's failing. Is he autistic? If only he could learn how to channel this resilience and unbotheredness productively. I've always just waited for obvious signals from women or actual approach/conversation, which is a lame non strategy, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:18 AM
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One thing I realized is there are way more indian people in western online spaces than I thought imaginable. I've lost count how many times it was like "wait, you're indian?" Subconsciously I always assume it's some dude or chick commenting from down nowhere america street. Vs China both the world's most populous countries but they have their own social media or internet bubbles that's prob why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:34 AM
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was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:33 PM
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His flared nostrils were there originally. His nose after surgery removed the flares but also made his nose smaller and more feminine looking, which nerfed him in the eyes of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:32 PM
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"Coaches don't play."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:31 PM
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I mean, the setting often greatly impacts your value to begin with so this is a no-brainer...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:20 PM
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It depends on the tone or established dynamic between those involved, men are not often serious when insulting each other and women are also not often sincere when encouraging each other. I talk major shit to my guys all the time but I'm always there when they actually need me. I've heard this thrown around lately, on average men LARP hierarchy but gravitate toward equality, women LARP equality but gravitate toward hierarchy. From observation I wouldn't say it's always the case but there's some …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:19 PM
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Do you say the same about the manosphere trends criticizing women or only the ones from women that you agree with and benefit you? Point being something trending among the opposite gender means nothing considering the average intelligence and social awareness of the populace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:15 AM
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Chronic problem of this place has always been disingenuousness and lack of understanding leading people to misidentify themselves eg redpillers saying game and personality don't matter and people who identify as bluepill just bc they don't like redpill or want to defend women and argue with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:47 PM
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LOL the self-hate and misandry from some trans-women to the point of creating entire fantasy worlds and fanfic is truly something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:05 PM
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"I have my own schedule, had a couple raids and a meetup with my guild homiez so why can't you fix your own dinner?" after she gets home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:49 PM
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i mean, it's not annoying when normal logical people comment and answer lol like take some of your own advice dun be so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:28 AM
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just go worry about your own life dude, maybe more lifting and def more lurking, less commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:22 AM
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sure bro, i don't know what type of benefit or security someone could get either emotionally or physically from a relationship not sure why it's so hard to believe people with selfish intent exist and and disrespect their partners, so there are terms used to describe various behaviors. A 10-year old virgin with zero experience can understand this but you have this pathology of being disingenuous and feigning ignorance just to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:56 PM
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This is 2nd grade level logic that isn't getting through. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:53 PM
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If you're "talking" to someone while in a relationship with the intent of eventually trying to get with that person while not breaking it off with your current SO, the key element is proactively choosing to stay with your SO for now so that you have the benefits and security of a relationship instead of being honest with them and not sacrificing their time, resources, and emotions. Although not as blatant as having sex with someone else, it still involves a break in trust and the unwritten contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:49 PM
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You know people decide to break up, look elsewhere or feel dissatisfied for all sorts of reasons right? I feel like this is actually something you would say in a response to someone else tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:42 PM
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I'm saying the SMV of anyone is irrelevant if we're talking about why monkey branching is terrible. The original comment posed if monkey branching was cheating most likely bc there is dishonesty, lack of communication and betrayal involved in monkey branching. It's not just breaking up with someone because they want someone hotter or richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:38 PM
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quick google says "Monkey branching in dating means holding onto a current partner while securing a new one before ending the relationship." Which makes sense, there's nothing in the metaphor that suggests the next person is [necessarily] better; the physical act of monkey branching is literally holding onto something so you don't fall while trying to jump to another thing. Point being the smv of the new partner or the desire to break up isn't the shitty thing about monkey branching, it's the di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:28 PM
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Monkeybranching is specifically more like purposely holding on to someone just in case while looking for someone else, which many people deem to be unfair or shitty to the first partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:23 PM
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Women's issues and bad men: Men need to be allies, if you're not part of the solution you're part of the problem. Hold other men accountable, 'men need to understand some of their friends aren't good men' 'if you don't say anything you're just as bad as they are'. Men's issues and bad women: Women aren't a monolith, women aren't responsible for men's problems. 'Why don't you guys just help yourselves?'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:19 PM
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I live in a very progressive area with many women identifying as bi or lesbian. There are obvi bi women who lean toward women and true lesbians but I've lost count of how many of identify as such but are still obviously strongly attracted to men through their behavior and dating choices. It's hard not to wonder just how prevalent lesbian-identifying women are who are traumatized and just dislike the fact that they like men. In conservative regions, if ppl identify as LGBT they have struggled int…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:47 AM
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"they’re bearded because everyone here is but one is super skinny" is that what u guys call an otter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:06 AM
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No offense bruh but your type/beautiful face seems to be the actual stereotypical bearded fat chud that your narrative picks on. Whenever you bring up a "super hot guy" I never know what to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:54 AM
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Taylor Hill is the most overglazed overrated woman on looksmaxxing subs. She's skinny so she has angular small features but just give here short hair she's practically ordinary. Good body and height though. 1 in a million, I see more pleasing women in an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:37 AM
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Doesn't all this just support blackpillers' suspicions that people will just focus on the guy's ugliness above all else and that they attribute the worst traits to the guy just bc he's ugly? I disagree btw, just saying this is hurting your narrative. It's insulting and proven wrong many times a day here that women can smell toxicity on toxic men, from the words of women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:20 AM
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cut body fat to sharpen facial features, grow out hair style it like an emo douche, dye dark or black, stand in a corner and look sad but show jawline, profit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:26 PM
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yea or you're just straight up not in a place to spend time with a new person bc it's very stressful even if they're attractive and cool, a phase that can unfortunately last years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:03 PM
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take the hint but don't feel too bad about it if you bought into the 'men will never reject a woman 99% of the time' lotta dudes just like their version of peace or are increasingly unwilling to trade their comfort to venture out of their zone, i do it all the time and it's rarely bc the woman falls short, might actually be a problem for the men to work through internally but i think women are similar bc of instant social media and the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:51 PM
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Apparently she just treated her job like she was a drill sergeant or some shit. I get the finances collapsing part but technically if money wasn't a problem could they just use it indefinitely without issues (as long as they don't OD)? Like finance bros with easy and regular access to coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:08 PM
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I've had some weird trainers. Had a woman who was somehow stricter than all the others and kept insulting me and calling me some Twilight looking pussy like lady I'm not from your era. I'm always curious if it's the actual meth or opioids that destroy people pharmacologically or just how the rest of their life falls apart because they just keep chasing their next fix. Probably synergistic and both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:02 PM
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There are tons of worthy guys for you on this sub then it's a buffet u must be in heaven lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:57 PM
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My personal trainer just quit one day and everything was hush hush but I heard something bad happened and they just sent a new guy but I suspect drugs were involved. Not quite the same probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:52 PM
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I imagine suicide and decline of mental health or turning to substance abuse are probably linked from stress or something depressing about the job. Especially as a vet you have all this easy access to those powerful drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:49 PM
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Suicide rates for dentists, pharmacists, and veterinarians are higher than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:46 PM
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not going to further entertain all this irrelevant melodrama you just threw up for the love of the game you really should know and do better, but I'll concede you have a very creative imagination, maybe Tyler Perry or Love Island are looking for screenwriters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:44 PM
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Your entire argument hinges on a blackpilled premise. My experience and observations do not show straight women having "really, really high standards, like the point where only a fringe top 3% of men would do it for them". Your sources conclude bi or gay male brains share similarities with straight female ones but straight women still fuck average men with charm or other qualities so where's the significance. It's also not like gay men have esp high standards....and on a tangent bi-men don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:41 AM
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It does get old. That's why for many people it's just a place to waste time now and shitpost instead of participate in any meaningful debate bc they know it's pointless At the very least for people who've been here awhile, it's a space they are familiar or "comfortable" with and they already know how all the back and forth is going to go with every played out issue that's brought up again. The main thread is like the same 4 things discussed in a loop. I find myself restating my views in debates …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:24 AM
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"Imagine thinking someone of Chris Brown's talent and wealth aren't rare. The fuck?!" Not what I said. To reiterate, assholes who do well with women are not rare. They don't need to be rich or goodlooking celebrities. They don't need to be Chris Brown. Lemme know if you still don't get it. "Being an asshole can even help since it conveys assertiveness" that sentence says otherwise. Observing that being an asshole can help some men do well with women means I want to be like those men? I've seen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:01 AM
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Saying feminists demand more from men bc they care and know they are capable of more is like saying assholes who insult fat women care about them more than people who don't insult them bc they know she's capable of becoming more attractive and living her best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:18 AM
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This place was never meant for finding solutions as admitted by some of the mods themselves, and also if you're going to say the men aren't here to be persuaded you might as well say that about everyone bc that's what arguing on the internet is. You point out that the other side has nothing but circular arguments by design and they say the same about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:08 AM
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Isn't it the most harmless of all the kinks? Maybe bc feet are so common or ubiquitous...would be weird spending time with a guy who got hard every time there was a cup or mug.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:22 AM
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i thought you'd be well past getting angry over this place
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:20 AM
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makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:54 PM
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Nothing's guaranteed but it greatly increases your odds....that's it. It's going to be different for you or any other guy bc idk what they're working with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:47 PM
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If you're hopeless with social interaction it's not going to make much difference but having social circles automatically sets you up for potential interactions potentially leading somewhere, potentially. For instance if a woman is looking for a guy, someone she interacts with regularly whom she feels some attraction to and feels comfortable with is going to be that much more convenient and appealing of an option than someone else or like a stranger online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:42 PM
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That's literally how I feel when clubbing or going out with gay dude friends. I try to take all the ribbing and teasing goodheartedly. They said I could be an honorary gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:38 PM
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Many assholes hit it off well with women without being rich or even goodlooking for the love of god stop bringing up chris brown lol. They are not rare and not exceptions in any definition of the word. I don't fantasize about being an asshole, I do just fine being a decent dude. I go out of my way to be decent bc of my own principles, if that turns some women off that wouldn't even matter to me since I'm not "nice" to get women. That doesn't mean I don't observe arrogant disrespectful blowhards …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:24 PM
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I wasn't following the chain or OP so no idea who or what is on what side, just responding to what you said and adding my 0.02 about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:12 PM
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Succinctly put. I need to practice brevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:38 PM
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You can put him in his place for being a bitch. Maybe he deserves it. But he's still going to harbor resentment if you imply his assholery is perpetuating his virginhood for good reason. It's not just something people tell him online but society does it as a whole to men - eg if you don't do well with women have you tried being a feminist ally? A better listener? Because theyre unattractive broke assholes So...the problem is they are ugly and broke then. Because hot, rich or charismatic - or sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:33 PM
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Most men with half a brain know that non-asshole guys can succeed at dating bc of other traits or qualities. What they resent is being talked down to and told they aren't successful bc they are misogynists or assholes when they observe misogynists and assholes succeeding regularly also.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:20 PM
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I have zero respect for anyone who forgives cheating or thinks it's not a big deal. Either you lack a spine, are desperate, or never had respect and true commitment to the relationship itself eg trashy or into this new age open relationship bs. I'd maybe draw the line at judging 100% of people who choose to work it out or stay together after it happens, but I couldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:16 PM
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Almost upset at you for insulting my friends, but you're probably right, they aren't great to date long term as most are still shallow and looking to have fun. I don't have a problem with short term stuff but if we're talking marriage or LTR it's something I'll have to deal with later. If we're being honest I have a real problem with the dating culture and values in the west, and you can call me a hypocrite because I'm a product of it and have partaken. My definition of manipulation is also not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:22 AM
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What is it about my experiences that are so unbelievable to you? That I've watched socially competent men pull, goodlooking men pull, funny men pull, but somehow the line is drawn at self-important assholes? There are girls in my circles who literally admit to being attracted to assholes despite hating it, and also fully knowing these aren't the guys they'll settle down with later. Ofc, you can say "I dun believe you" That's fine. Like I said, it's a trope for a reason. I claimed the only types …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:06 AM
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Bruh I just told you, all types of men can succeed with women, from experience and observation. But I've also observed a guy who is simply cocky and arrogant and kinda douchebaggy also has a sizeable market. Please show me the inconsistency. When did I ever say that being like this is the only way to succeed with women? I'll wait. Also I really don't know what you mean by online algorithms, I try to stay away from social media shit. All my conclusions are from what I've experienced and seen IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:53 AM
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.....I have not been talking about women dating men who revealed they were assholes later. I was very specific about this. That was never the centerpoint of discussion. Every time that has come up it's bc you brought it up in this gigantic thread. WTFFFF good lord remind me why I came back here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:42 AM
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Just reiterating my edit, you have a very narrow convenient definition of what an asshole is. He doesn't need to be constantly yelling, pushing, and insulting people. Just someone who acts arrogant, more important and more intelligent than he actually is, suffices. I don't know why your premise is the guy being complete batshit vs a seemingly normal guy when the woman starts to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:24 AM
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Like I said, it's just more blatant in school. All that bullshit hierarchy, gossip, etc doesn't go away, it just evolves into new forms in every circle or workplace. Anyone with social awareness can see this vs seeing it thru the lens of "kid who throws hands at school" but now "all grownup now and cool now". Maybe we just coincidentally have vastly different life backgrounds and experiences. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:11 AM
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Projecting security and the reality of being insecure coexist all the time. Asshole men are often of course very insecure, but their behavior convinces women they are the opposite. I've never once implied these bullies were actually what they clothed themselves to be lol. That's literally the entire point. They act secure and so many women think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:51 AM
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Semantics then, since there are so many insecure and immature women out there that it's kind of pointless to say "if all women were mature and didn't have mental issues assholes would be much less successful." FTR there are many fucked up men as well, but we're not talking about men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:40 AM
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I edited my previous comment to add a paragraph that I'm not sure you saw, but this was it: The asshole archetype involves a man who often acts like he's always sure of himself, sure that he's always right, sure that he's better than everyone. Him acting like a man who is always right and always better is enough to convince some women that he is actually always right and better. Simple as. You saying it's just b/c they like men who are always right and superior, not the asshole behavior, is spli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:28 AM
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You just can't stop splitting hairs. Can men be assholes and still fail at generating attraction? Yeah. Can their asshole behavior actually work in their favor? Also yeah. Often enough that it's noticeable. Sure, one guy was unconvincing about being a tough badass and the other one was convincing. What does that prove. Take a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:14 AM
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To many women, especially the immature or damaged, a man who is confident and a man who views himself as above all - or women less than - is practically the same man. The effect is the same. We don't seem to be getting to each other and I need to go out for chow. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:01 AM
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"If a person can come in without a certain quality and achieve the same result as a person with said quality, then it isn’t that quality that led him to success" ....That's weird that you write this. So if an asshole can come in and achieve dating success because he's seen as successful or dominant then by this logic it's not the success or dominance that matters, it's the illusion of it. Which I don't agree with and actually you destroy your own point by saying this. Also I never said it's goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:51 AM
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Nice guys who are well adjusted with good social skills usually don't struggle with women. Being an asshole is absolutely not required. Being an asshole does work on some women. Some nice men with bad social skills are upset bc they are told they struggle bc they are assholes while watching assholes get women. Multiple things are true and happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:36 AM
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I'm not saying the man is consciously trying to mimic other qualities. Just that at the primitive level, the traits of an asshole are often interpreted, sometimes within seconds, as a man of high value. It's not just achievement or dominance, drama and unpredictability as themes common in the lives of assholes is appreciated as excitement. That's what I mean by splitting hairs. Saying she actually prefers excitement and dominance and not the actual asshole doesn't mean much when asshole behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:31 AM
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I edited out things that I thought were excessive or redundant, my point has remained consistent and the same. "If being an asshole isn’t required in order to be dominant and high achieving, then being high achieving and dominant is what made them attractive." Being an asshole can effectively mimic and signal to women that the man is high achieving or dominant. Being actually high achieving and dominant also, unsurprisingly works. I don't know why this is tough to understand and I don't get how …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:24 AM
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Haven't watched either, it's hard enough for me to make it through a movie sometimes and those shows are like 5 seasons each. Heard good things though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:02 AM
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"It's not full assets that men are attracted to, it's their lizard brain signaling fertility." "It's not height that women are attracted to, they're responding positively to perceived dominance via a primitive cognitive process when they see a tall man." How many more hairs do you wanna split.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:54 AM
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Yes and that’s exactly my point. It isnt until later that their assholedom shows. And it’s not what got the woman interested. Their assholedom doesn’t show until after they’ve slept with the woman My point is more it's not as in-your-face and blatant. Like snide remarks and attitude vs punching someone in the face on the playground but the assholishness is still very clear. Less blatant as in they aren't going to yell and cuss at you across the cafeteria or campus. or jump you after school. Im t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:32 AM
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Why do you believe these traits require being an asshole to require? Huh what. Not sure if I'm reading you correctly but I never said high success, achievement, status etc required being an asshole, just that being an asshole can be misinterpreted as being a man with those qualities. Doesn’t really exist. And when it does exist, it’s with women who are as equal of assholes. Not sure why that would even be a concern to men. I personally am not interested in dating asshole women. So I would have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:21 AM
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Maybe as a kid Gussy is cute but when I think of the name Gus for an adult I just envision a big bumbling oaf. Augustine sounds so regal like he's a big deal lol. The long names above also sound epic when for example you as a parent yell for him to go clean his room or get down here right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:17 AM
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...But it is, either on its own or in conjunction with other traits, what makes them appealing [to the non-insignificant amount of women it works on]. Their asshole behaviors are mistaken for traits desirable in men such as dominance and high achievement. As for your 2nd sentence, there are some men who show their true colors later, not always the case. When I say being an asshole works, I'm mainly talking about men who are assholes from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:06 AM
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A lot of names you hear all the time are shortened versions of much longer names I think are so much cooler. If your full name is Hieronymus, Bartholomew, Maximilian or Augustine why would you ever go by Harry, Bart, Max or Gus, I won't ever understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:31 PM
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I dunno why it's so hard for many to admit that even non-goodlooking assholes appeal to some women, if only because of inexperience or all sorts of psychological issues that cause asshole traits to be misread as high value, high status, high achievement and ambition or excitement. It's an unavoidable truth people don't want to concede because they can't do it without bad actors promoting and justifying asshole behavior or losing ground in the gender/pill war. The bottom line is for some women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:21 PM
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Suffice to say if it was vice versa most people would agree the guy was being a dick about it and call him out. Unless greater context reveals he was harassing her I don't see why she chose to be a cunt vs just ignoring him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:56 AM
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I have an older buddy we all "looked up to", in college he was the rowdy frat boy type, saw women as nothing but belt notches, pretty much an annoying blowhard though we kept in touch. Now he has a couple young daughters, suddenly talks about how he's stressing about how to keep his kids away and safe from all the toxic masculinity in the world. Our circumstances deeply change our interests but not everyone is aware or will admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:22 AM
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Reported for witchhunting the entire blue pilled PPD male population
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:30 AM
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"Austria! Well then...gday mate~Let's put another shrimp on the barbie."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:23 AM
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Doesn't the fact that there are ppl who identify as non-binary or trans because they are biologically female but feel like they have the traits and inclinations of a male (or vice versa) mean they believe males and females are inherently different? If they believe in a scientific basis for roles given to men and women that's one thing, but my experience is almost 100% of them don't. After all these yrs with quite a few LGBT friends, I still don't completely understand. If you believe gender-asso…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:13 AM
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It can be objective or subjective, the key is that she perceives him to be better in a way that she esp values. Whether he actually is isn't too relevant. For a great deal of women it's finding a man who exhibits exceptional dominance and competence in the realm in which she chooses to reside and flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:11 AM
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Many debates about what "hypergamy" is but at is core it's simply feeling attracted only to men the woman deems as "better" [than them]. This is going to be highly dependent on the individual woman's values. A woman who prioritizes financial stability is going to see men with money as better, one who spends a lot of time on image-heavy instagram and spends her time compensating or insecure re: appearance is going to look to conventionally attractive men in whatever niche of choice. You also just…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:32 PM
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RP works because women inherently want that power imbalance or illusion thereof. They want the man to be better than them and it is literally viscerally exciting to them. There's a reason it works even when the people who wear this convincingly are out-and-proud pieces of shit, and why it doesn't matter how respectful and caring a guy is if the woman sees him as lower. If a man can't make RP work, it means he can't convincingly pull off the illusion that he's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:14 PM
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Ideally she thinks I'm ugly and broke yet still likes me for who I am. Genuine personality-based attraction is the only thing that matters. If she likes you primarily for your status, money or looks, it means it's a matter of time before she's looking at other attractive high status men after she gets bored. If you are just after sex, shallow shit is fine. If you're looking for anything more, be ready to jump ship bc it will go wrong or fizzle out. Even if she doesn't leave or betray you, her bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:45 PM
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My point is there is no inconsistency or confusion in what these men are complaining about. When these men ask women to lower their standards, they are always talking about shallow things like looks, not character or personality. If you disagree with it that's something else I don't care to address, you can argue with someone else about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:06 AM
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.....again, their argument is obvious. You can disagree with it but you either disingenuously or actually misunderstood it. Which is hard to believe considering how long you've been here. Your original comment tries to highlight an inconsistency I'm not seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:53 AM
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Where's the inconsistency? Obviously when they're talking about lowering standards it's shallow standards like looks or height, "choose better" means if you start prioritizing deeper positive traits over shallow ones maybe you won't find out later he's an abusive piece of shit. I feel like this is obvious esp if you've been following PPD discourse for so long. You can disagree with the argument but at least start with the correct premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:50 AM
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I've been assaulted physically and sexually but the times I was hurt and impacted the most were emotionally and psychologically - the effects linger to this day and probably won't ever go away whereas I don't even think about the physical transgressions in the past. But I've never had to live in an environment where physical assault and abuse was a constant, point taken. It's prob different for women for whom personal safety is a much bigger issue or being socialized to link their value with sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:58 AM
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I would rather be beat up than fall victim to some of the clandestine long-game deception and savagery some women pull - even and especially on each other. Modern law says physical autonomy usurps all, probably for the best, which is why bullying, verbal abuse and social isolation or exclusion is perfectly legal but placing an unwanted hand on someone's shoulder is assault. Probably you can argue the worst of violent crime is much worse than the worst of psychological abuse...maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:16 AM
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My most downvoted comments in PPD history were when I talked shit about Waffle House. Gave me an idea of the demographic here x)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:11 AM
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He's worked in the sex work/entertainment industry for over 30 years If everyone from the opp sex you meet is a lame POS maybe it's you or where you choose to live, go or work. I'd say the same to a man who calls women whores while routinely frequenting literal whorehouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:14 AM
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"A man's value is in his wallet. You can make a man go crazy for you and beg for you if you tell him he can't afford you" "...Because in the end, that is all they are worth to themselves anyway" I feel so bad for the world you or this DJ lives in to be surrounded by so many pathetic men to believe this is remotely true. I feel that way in general about people who post here describing the opp sex in the trashiest way, like where tf are you guys situated lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:08 AM
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Seems like sugar dating has always existed, they are just upfront and calling it what it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:02 AM
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Difference is if you're a woman who truly struggles to get any options you have to be a real trainwreck nutcase or 1/10 or both. As a man you just need to be average looking and socially awkward. That's why there are more incels than femcels but the femcels sound worse and more unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:58 AM
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Far left or far right, you see increasing support for shamelessly misleading propaganda, appeal to emotions over logic, mass mobilization of state resources to draconically enforce rules and crush dissent aka fascism. The left's "tolerance" and the right's "small government" become laughable at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:52 AM
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No amount of impressive bibliography will matter since most terminally online people just want to be right. Those who dig themselves into trenches without logic are not going to be swayed with logic. Just unload your thoughts into the digital space and log off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:34 AM
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The vast majority of men struggling do not lack hygiene and are genuinely just regular decent people. Telling a man to take showers and be kind and respectful literally does nothing unless you teach him how to generate attraction first. Which is why a man who generates this attraction through his looks or social skills and is otherwise a not so kind person will blow the former guy out of the water. Your "general but broadly applicable" advice is applicable to almost no one. Again why the RP thri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:08 AM
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copied from my edited comment: "I wonder if you tell women to just stfu, stop complaining, and figure it out when they run into too many shitty men or misogyny." Hilarious victim blaming just bc the victims happen to be men and you're on an anti-man streak. Then again, we seem to live in different areas. You seem to be around a lot of fat trashy people, which probably means your image of the opp sex is a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:01 AM
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I don't understand, at the core, blaming someone who asks for advice and then getting bad advice alongside gaslighting and making excuses for said bad advice. Yeah, sure, eventually it gets annoying so it'd be nice if some of these men just gave up or caught on, but this really just seems like another convenient excuse to dismiss men. I wonder if you tell women to just stfu. stop complaining and figure it out when they run into too many shitty men or misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:53 AM
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....Then these internet strangers should stop dispensing advice like they know what they're talking about. These online spaces are full of people lecturing about how men should act to be successful like they are experts, shutting down all other speculation, and then when told their advice didn't work it's like "Well gosh how was I supposed to know, Idk you, be thankful i said anythingg!" If a woman doesn't speak for all women then she shouldn't talk and act like she does when lecturing dudes. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:17 PM
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The amount of women I've met who obviously love muscles and athleticism, who also find the idea of a guy going to the gym to sweat it out with his bros to be repulsive is something else. Wanting a man who is already inherently genetically superior is one thing, but it's not like they don't know that the men went to the gym a lot to get that body she is so attracted to. I liken it to men ridiculing and being annoyed with makeup and hair routines in women but absolutely desiring and preferring wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:08 PM
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The goal for guys is to appear to have the best genetics, not to be the biggest eye candy. Same for women. Guys just care less even if they know she's wearing makeup or heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:07 PM
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Internalized hate. We also often most dislike in others what we dislike about ourselves. Nobody is more outspoken about hating fat people than other fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:06 PM
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It's actually the exact opposite if you're talking about mainstream and dominant culture. It's in these online pockets where debating these things is not immediately shut down that it appears women are more criticized bc these are the only places men are allowed to do it. Even then, men defend women and their interests and standards all the time here. You can't even name me one female poster who consistently does the same for men. If you truly believe the OP it's prob bc you're stuck on that man…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:34 AM
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Yea understood, variations of "hostility toward them" vs "self hatred toward oneself". From what I recall you don't have problems attracting women but insecurity and anxiety work together to constantly keep you dissatisfied and unsure of where you stand. It's usually the more intelligent people who tend to be unsure and sometimes the dumber people who are inherently confident, for what that's worth. The brain is there to keep you alive, not happy, and your brain is an effective one working again…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:50 PM
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you have deeply rooted anxiety and insecurities which produce a synergistic effect, and people feeling reflexively competitive or hostile toward those around them "doing well" is probably very common even though many won't admit it at least you have a good sense of self-awareness so you recognize this innate human part of yourself and can keep it in check, much more than can be said for most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:39 PM
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Why is it always the same hat and why is it always some form of fried chicken with them Just bc you're weird or socially stunted there's so many other bad choices you can make food and fashion-wise it would seem to me esp from a group that prides itself on individuality and not being like the unenlightened sheep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:36 PM
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your type if he was fatter with less definition
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:25 PM
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Plenty of people maintain good figures from their youth well into their 30s and 40s bc they stay active, we act like it's normal for things to go to shit and say 'the body just changes over time', esp if you haven't had kids I thought you had high standards? You don't know what "let herself go" means? Bruhh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:23 PM
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I mean you're obviously shaming the guy bc of your jab at how he "doesn't understand how bodies work" when the context is she voluntarily let herself go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:12 PM
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Women befriend you so they can one day fuck you or LTR you all the time. One of the most annoying things is how people will try to get with someone and if things somehow don't work out they refer to them as a "friend" as some shitty generic placeholder label and the other person is just like whatever and does the same. Women do seem to be more cutthroat about it though...if enough time passes and it's clear the guy isn't interested in something more she'll be more likely to just cut off any dyna…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:04 PM
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Also no offense to the dude I responded to but I don't get why anyone on a sub about heterosexual dating and dynamics should take an aromantic asexual individual's opinions or critique seriously. I always like to recall a highly upvoted popular post a great while ago on Unpopular Opinion by an asexual woman titled "CMV Sex is overrated." Peak Reddit. It'd be like if I went to a gay sub and started talking about how men aren't worth dating, I don't understand the appeal or why they complain about…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:43 AM
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Based on your flair are you the Wario of u/Arrowdodgingace Also why would it suck more than being bi or gay. People are unpredictable and untrustworthy regardless of sex or gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:23 AM
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chicken breast, a little fish, greek yogurt, whey protein shake, scrambled eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:21 AM
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Zendaya is overhyped but Stacy to me, and what pushed her from cute to bombshell was finding out she's 5'11" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:39 PM
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Is Zendaya hated? I guess anyone who is super glazed and overexposed is going to get some pushback but it's nothing like the backlash with the Rachel Zegler or whatshername....the mermaid or the elliott thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:07 PM
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Things like kpop, anime, board games are not in themselves "lame" (eg asian pop is just regular pop in asia) but they invite weird neurodivergent people in non-asian countries because if they were normal they'd be normies into normie shit. Heh, offended some weebs and stans no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:52 PM
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In those spaces the guy with remotely functioning social skills and regular hygiene is the Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:48 PM
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No twisted panties, I just like to argue. Your taste is "valid" but reddit has a lot of people who talk like their preference is normal in order to sound subversive. I have some weird opinions too but I know it and can calibrate my arguments accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:43 PM
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Book is much better but the books are almost always better. I didn't think the first few movies were bad though. They'll always bring feelings of nostalgia and be iconic to many older people. The special effects from the first two (mid to late 90s?) especially hold up well to this day and arguably look even better and more convincing than the effects in many new movies, in large part maybe bc we're comparing well-done animatronics [and little CGI] with mass produced CGI.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:25 PM
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Zendaya is way overhyped but that might be the worst picture of her I've ever seen. Is that her top right? I don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:04 PM
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"This one just is. I’ve found like 300 lbs obese men attractive and had crushes on them. " No offense then, your opinion on his looks can't really be taken seriously in a post like this since your taste is far from the norm. It's almost hard to believe you are around enough 300 lb men to have developed crushes on them, but I guess we just live in diff areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:53 PM
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That's not cap that's literally a huge reason why people mock and dislike him, whether you agree with it or not That being said the internet is just full of outspoken pricks who are down to mock the misfortune of those who oppose their politics. Whether the victims were actually good people or not seems almost irrelevant as they'll find a reason to justify hating you regardless. All this talk of "look at how well-spoken and respectful our past politicians were, republican or democrat" as if peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:36 AM
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A common rebuttal is "It's just nature and biology. Men need to accept that women just find most men unattractive and only like the top men." While bypassing any discussion about modern day entitlement, delusional expectations, socialization trends, etc. I don't think these same women are silent and okay about their male partners being naturally polygamous or looking past her toward hot 20-somethings once they surpass their 30th and 40th birthdays. The biology squad becomes real silent after che…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:24 AM
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Both the lookalikes look better than the original celebrity but that's just my take. Maybe bc the lookalike faces are filtered to maximize symmetry and minimize blemishes. JFL at TRM rating that guy a 6.5, but TRM's gonna TRM.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:10 AM
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I'd agree Dunham's more attractive, I just think this guy's softer or more feminine features are also to a lot of women's liking in my observation. I mean it's more feminine but still masculine if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:38 AM
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So laughable it's not worth a response. But you are autistic so...I can't be too harsh on you and you def aren't alone here. Reminder you seriously suggested this guy is "no one's" cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:55 AM
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Coming from someone who says they find a large % of men physically attractive and then saying this guy is "immensely unattractive" it's hard to take you seriously aside from just assuming it's just some weird thing on your part or you're heavily factoring his other traits into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:52 AM
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Most underrated comment in this thread but nobody will talk about this bc frankly the sub itself prohibits this type of discussion. "He's just not my type...I dunno what it is" x)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:40 AM
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I see many women date men much worse off in the looks dept. What's your idea of handsome, if you could choose an example that is somewhat similar to him, for easier comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:37 AM
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There's something about his persona, methodology or the way he's coming across that is offputting. Or maybe some of what the guy in the vid himself speculated, that it's visibility or algorithm. How deluded and isolated from society do you have to be to think it's his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:10 AM
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He's goodlooking enough that he's "enough" women's cup of tea, it's ridiculous to think it's his looks getting in the way when it's mos def something else, as there are [much] uglier dudes in relationships with women everywhere. I'm hesitant to even think it's bc of the apps bc there are uglier men who have met women thru the apps as well. I'm going to go with the default tried and true assumption that he's not as socially intelligent as he (or the OP) thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:39 AM
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....It's not like people have a problem shaming ugly men who want pretty women or old men who want young women. So how is this different, idk preference vs demanding is the key here, everyone wants physically attractive partners but if you're at the bottom don't be surprised if people laugh and call you entitled if you refuse to consider anything less than toward the top. And if you'd rather stay single than compromise, that's your prerogative but then don't go "i have a right to have any standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:06 AM
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It has never stopped happening throughout modern or any history and it happens now. For all the "fuck the patriarchy" attraction is amoral and women like the winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:32 AM
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I didn't edit anything. You responded to the wrong comment, which I had already deleted bc I was like "why bother", but I know which comment you were responding to. TLDR wanting a tall man and wanting a light skinned person aren't the same discussion regardless of your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:40 AM
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Perhaps it's silly to you bc you lack comprehension. Preferring tall guys can be heightism, preferring lighter skin can be colorism, that doesn't change the fact that they're different conversations with the latter involving much more historical context and discussion. To me longstanding prejudice based on things like race or ethnic background adds a whole nother debate the PPD mods frankly don't allow. The tall guy thing invites more discourse involving all that pilled gender war shit this sub …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:08 AM
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It's a different conversation those aren't the greatest comparisons. Demanding a tall guy is protested by men because of entitlement, SMV inflation, trait immutability etc. and demanding a light-skinned partner invites conversations about engrained racism or problematic standards. They aren't the same regardless of your specific views on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:42 AM
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The diff is it's much more socially acceptable esp as a female preference when they say they only want tall men. Requiring light skin is more taboo and problematic at least in public discourse. I think in general women's preferences are less shamed than men's. For instance the body positivity/shaming police won't come for you if you say you want a tall guy even as a short woman - it's just "well duh ofc" moving on - but not the case if you insist on a thin woman [esp as a fat guy, respectively.]
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:29 AM
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It's more like average men have it harder than average women that seems to be the topic of argument 24/7. But yes there is that premise of the average man being just a decent guy who wants a chance that isn't always true. But honestly I haven't met too many lonely yet entitled POS men on here. There are assholes on PPD, but they are the guys who brag about their lays and talk about women like notches on a belt...ironically these aren't the men struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:25 AM
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You're probably just doing your thing but anyone who says this in all seriousness is projecting hard. Normal people don't take pleasure in mistreating others, but the people who believe [most] Chad-aspiring men would do this are the ones who would enjoy doing the same thing given they had the leverage. The more likely explanation is simply many people want to be attractive and desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:14 PM
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yea but i don't do it all the time, some people here clearly do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:02 PM
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Yeahhh I didn't know that for the longest time. I maintain there's something about the OG game (SF2, not SF1 lol) and its visuals that has a timeless charm that can't be beat or replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:46 PM
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nashville is tough to beat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:44 PM
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i believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:37 PM
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My friend said Kentucky is Tennessee Jr. (nm she changed it to Temu Tennessee)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:36 PM
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sure jan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:30 PM
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LMAO Normal as in not being terminally online and miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:28 PM
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I mean, in their defense, they are normal with healthy social lives And not the unhappy type to see everything as an opportunity to engage in sociopolitical argument
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:25 PM
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nah, i can't leave you guys alone i have plenty of gay friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:21 PM
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seems pretty relevant since I hear people complaining about our opinions on it all the time nobody lives in a vacuum, our actions and thoughts affect all those around us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:18 PM
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Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:16 PM
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There are a lot of things about the LGBT narrative I disagree with but I'll credit you guys for doing a lot to move the needle and change public perception. That in and of itself is impressive, whether I like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:15 PM
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I haven't looked at it in that sense admittedly. For some reason I've always thought the original 8 characters eg Blanka and Sim were the most unique and innovative but then when you do some deeper research they were all based off of preexisting comic or pop culture references as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:13 PM
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My annoyance with men has increased greatly in the past couple years. I'm not any less annoyed with women, my annoyance with men is simply catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:09 PM
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I suppose I was exaggerating, I googled it looks like it's only Manon, Marisa, and Zangief. But notably I'd like to point out the Korean characters in many FGs speak Korean - but not always, the least they could do for someone like Chun Li who's been there from the beginning is have her speak Chinese lol. Like have them speak English like most of the other non-Japanese characters then if anything else. They really be looking at us as just like 2nd tier Japanese people x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:00 PM
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A lot of men feel the same about women and makeup. It's just that in the moment men who are just looking to quickly get their dicks wet don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:57 PM
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I have. I was saying/complaining, why do so many fighters speak in their native language but the other non-japanese asian characters often speak Japanese lol. Couldn't throw in some Tagalog or a putang-inamo in there? Even longtime veteran Chun Li still speaks Japanese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:48 PM
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I'll agree with you just bc you're a Street Fighter champion. I also don't get people who say they are bi and then basically refuse to date one of the genders they're allegedly attracted to. I'm not buying the "it's just socially more acceptable to date like a straight person" explanation anymore since they are often so super strict about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:44 PM
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"150% of young people in 2026 identify as LGBT" It's more just like how trendy it is to call yourself gay now....dudes sayin "yeah i'm kinda gay/bi" just b/c they'd fuck an attractive rebellious chick with short hair who says she's nonbinary and hates gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:33 PM
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One of your main points from your data was that less educated men have more sex. Book smarts often leads men, who are often neurotic or introverted to begin with, to the faulty approach toward dating I described above. Higher education or iq doesn't positively correlate with social competence in the first place so I don't get why you even posted those links.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:45 PM
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Once again, posts like this show people have no idea what good social skills looks like. It's also not bluepill at all since mainstream doesn't teach men good social skills, it just tells men to be nice feminist allies. In reality developing an attractive personality if you aren't born with it is harder than developing an attractive physical appearance. Some smart men struggle especially bc they have leaned into their book smarts their entire life causing them to approach social intelligence inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:37 PM
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jfl@ being okay with being an objectified cum dumpster with zero autonomy at the hands of old or giant ugly men - they'd keep you around even if you were unattractive and had no worth to them bc why not - just to own the young male virgins on PPD. Mfs really be thinking these men are going to be hottie chads and not depraved brutes and sociopathic grandpas with years of scarring after proving themselves in conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:39 PM
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LOL the "back to nature" argument. I suppose you are in favor of harems, normalized rampant r@pe and half of pairings being involuntary at the whim of the most dominant males which makes "the burden of selection falls entirely on the female" all the more laughable. The lives of most men and women would be immensely worse. These dudes "meant to reproduce" aren't fantasy heartthrob types, they're big ugly brutes and old crusty leaders with social sway. You don't get to the top of the pack by worry…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:45 PM
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Right, so you get my point in how women talk about other types they "prefer over Chad" like shorter guys, chubby guys, nerds, whathaveyou. But these types are rejected regularly exactly because of the type they are. A woman who [allegedly] prefers nerds over Chad won't reject Chad given he's a good enough person, but a woman who prefers Chad over nerds will reject nerds. Makes it difficult to take any of it seriously. I'm not saying not being a Chad will doom anyone to virginhood obviously that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:27 PM
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Nobody rejects a chad for his chadness eg being tall, being athletic, being conventionally attractive despite all virtue signaling women online swearing it's not their thing; if he gets rejected it's for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:10 PM
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boring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:09 PM
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He has a point though but it's nothing complex it's just insecurity. Women in general prefer tall(er) men but the ones who are truly height obsessed to a ridiculous degree are always short women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:03 AM
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it’s just no man or woman would want to date someone just because they are kind, Right. So it's weird and unfortunate that 'be kind' and similar advice is a common broad default response in the mainstream to men who struggle to get dates. It goes beyond this. Along with the condescension is the insulting inference men are struggling because they are not kind or are misogynists, further inferring they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:52 AM
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Drunkposting here everyone says women each have a different type and nota llwomen like the same things yea sure but no woman has ever rejected a guy because he had abs like 'oh that's not my type' if everything else clicks. "I really like him but he's too tall" Yea maybe not her type? Maybe? But somehow not a dealbreaker. Meanwhile other things like being short and having bellies and dadbods which many women swear are "cute" are dealbreakers constantly on sight despite him being an upstanding pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:32 AM
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Even in the US there isn't a big difference in how men and women vote in line with birth control and similar issues. It's more about values and ideology. Misandrists will respond with "we hate those women also" like yea easy to say in defense but then why are there just 10980398 angry posts about men taking away their rights lol. Almost just as many women as men voted for Trump in '24 but we know where all the hostility is directed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:37 AM
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Nah. But standard response from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:28 AM
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Young naive men are told by the mainstream being thoughtful and empathetic are very important to women and if they struggle it's bc they lack these traits. The fact that so many people refuse to admit they are virtue signalers or liars is important and addictive to highlight. Would be much more palatable if you just honestly told men being kind and caring are admirable traits everyone should strive for even if these traits alone won't help much in dating. Instead men not only feel deceived, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:20 PM
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10/10 trolling i'll give you that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:19 AM
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You must be on drugs. You've commented a lot on what type of guys you think do well with women and what guys don't and why you think so. Doesn't sound like you believe your own argument and you just need to sober up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:10 AM
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Then we have different definitions of luck. Needing to try multiple times isn't bad or lack of luck, nor is it even an example of a struggling man. If your point is some men may need to try more than others, then yeah that doesn't even need to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:07 AM
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Not trying to be mean but this is truly the most deluded take I have ever seen on this sub and that is such a high bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:48 AM
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If they are trying and failing, that means they aren't as socially competent or attractive as they think. Or live out in the middle of nowhere. This would never ever happen in a decently populated area. A primary thing I've noticed is struggling men vastly overestimate how good their social skills are and think they are coming across as normal and well-adjusted when they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:53 AM
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...What? I'd challenge you to find a single socially competent attractive rich guy who can't find anyone. Only way he's single is if he wants to be, or somehow is around almost no other women. To say it comes down to luck is completely removed from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:42 AM
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I have a few friends who collect/wear expensive watches as a hobby. Kind of a shallow hobby to me - as a persistent defender of gaming - but whatever floats their boat I guess. I suppose watches can be kind of nifty. Also you might just be doing your shtick but why is there this thing among gay men where they insult/criticize each other or get the ick if they do/wear things that are "too gay". Is it like from the same source of internalized stigma that makes some of them fetishize straight dudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:40 AM
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I've had it many times as I'm a fan, but is butter chicken something many Indian people actually like or is it a "popular among white/nonindians" thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:26 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:21 AM
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You like him in spite of it, not bc of it. Or...you like him so everything else about him becomes endearing. Don't act like you'd be checking for his ass if he was a bus driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:20 AM
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I won't ever believe the dadbod c0pe until I ever see or hear of a woman rushing to overlook major red flags in a guy bc his dadbod is just so hot it's worth it - you know, the way some do with other traits like if the guy is tall, ripped, jacked, facially handsome/pretty, high status or powerful, despite being an abusive nazi. Women who are okay with dadbods if they like him enough for other reasons? Sure, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:46 PM
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I already have the stomach definition of the right picture. If some think it looks bad, so be it. It's not for them. No complaints from most other women though so far, it's never been a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:32 PM
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Bluepill is still wrong. Charm and charisma have always worked, but the mainstream doesn't actually push this to men - or at least tell them much in terms of how to go about it. When they push personality it's about being kind and caring, a good listener, respecting boundaries, being an ally. Which can be admirable traits, but as standalone they just don't do much in the way of generating attraction. It's an attractive personality that works, not necessarily a "good" one. The Redpill, for all it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:14 PM
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I don't think anyone has said men love autistic women. They say autism and social awkwardness hurts women a lot less in dating than it hurts men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:52 AM
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Being single is superior to anything less than a solidly happy relationship which I believe to be a minority of LTRs. Even a mediocre one you have resigned yourself to is an incredible net loss against your life satisfaction and fulfillment. As a single person you may not necessarily be happy, but at least you are much more free to explore and pursue it vs having a giant variable in the equation weighing you down every day of your life requiring constant navigation and stress. And we aren't even…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:33 AM
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The blackpill has "become mainstream" but the bluepill is basically just absorbing it and making it meaningless just like what it did with feminism. It's just a bunch of blue-pilled or liberals using the word 'mog' or 'maxxing' in their everyday NPC convos and these words have lost all their meaning or power. Like they'll say someone mogs Clavicular even though they obviously dont (or didn't, pre-surgery anyway) just bc they don't like the guy, and use -maxxing for basically anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:52 PM
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Holy shit, standards must have dropped sharply in just a few yrs either that or this is at some rural redneck college where everyone is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:37 PM
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