| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 977 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose you | 0t0her0 | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:10 PM | |
| 0 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this? | Fundamentals | 0t0her0 | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:05 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youWhat else can you do? Lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youIt is what it is, you gots to deal with what you got and those who will take it | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI understand literacy is an issue for many people, but I literally put in my post that you still have to be the one that initiates things | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youMaybe he’s not actually interested | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThen it’s time to start improving yourself. Get jacked, get a sense of style, resolve some shame, be a better product | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youObviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded. It’s right in the post sir | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youOkay | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Have you noticed you’re assessing her when you’re talking to her? Stop. You’re just having a conversation.Hard disagree. If you read her signs, it’ll tell you when to move or slow down | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI never said wait to find out if she likes you. I literally put in the post, shoot your shot, and if she ducks with it, go for it for real. But don’t waste time trying to convert or convince her when she doesn’t seem into it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youPeople keep missing it but right in my post I say you have to initiate and shoot shots. But just pick the ones that pick you and make it easy. Social skills don’t make you amazing to people that don’t like you. They just make you like able to those who you would connect to | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose you1) make yourself more attractive 2) have more fun and confidence | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThose are more than enough to work on | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThe dating game is hard 🤷♂️ keep trying | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI don’t have anything to do with what choices this guy makes. I’m sure you’re a catch, but at the end of the day he doesn’t hook up with you or isn’t making any moves, then I’m sorry, but he might not be into you. And I’d say that take this logic with you. Pick a guy who makes it easy for you too. Don’t hang onto the difficult ones | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youObviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded. It’s literally in the post my guy | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI literally put in the post that you still have to shoot shots and initiate. I’m not saying let them approach. I’m just saying to stick with the ones that made it easy | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI put in there that you should always shoot your shot and initiate things, but it only works if she guides things along. Like she’ll help you along with it. If she’s not interested, it’s going to be painful | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youJust because you’re into him doesn’t mean that he’s into you 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youKeep upping yourself til you find one with a bit of mutual interest | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youYou don’t need to, just long enough to find one that makes it easy for you | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youWell we hit the nail on the head. Get out there and get it | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youAre you well groomed? Do you wear nice clothes? Do you have anything interesting going on? Are you shooting shots at all? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youStart spending more time talking to women and learning what to look for. It gets really easy at one point | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youStill, I will take just having fun with the girl that’s literally placing herself in my lap, over trying to illicit Stockholm syndrome in the girl who might not be into it anyway | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youAlright, even if you’re right, it’s going to be incredibly difficult, and you’ll probably be in your own head trying all sorts of tricks and moves to make these psychological phenomenon to happen. Or you could just fucking have fun with the girl throwing herself in your arms | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI literally say in my post to shoot your shot and initiate lmao , what are you talking about. It’s about investing into the ones who are into what you got | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youAnd that’s my point. How much of that is rewarded? Not nearly as much as the guy who you actually want who you probably have to hit up and put work in for a little bit | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youYes charm exists, but it’s not some tool that just makes every single person love you. Like I said, it just kind of tilts those who have a little bit of interest in you into being more than that | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThat it’s 210% something you’ve been sold. I’m sure you’ve bought books based on the idea that you can charm everyone and just have the world obsess over you. But that’s not actuality. Do you know anyone who actually has every single person they know just giddy to know them? Everyone has haters. Everyone has people they just don’t click with. But maybe you’ll accept the idea that the $500 course you bought will really teach you to how to charm every single person on earth | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youBecause it’s just not possible. Drop the emo kid in a emo night and he’ll do fine. Drop him in a foot ball locker room and he’ll be an outcast | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youL take. You’re only going to be charming to some people. You can’t be charming to everyone | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThat’s what I wrote? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youHow so? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youKeep working on ya self playa. Dress nice, look good, Fat girls chase aggressively, but as ya level up ya shit you should get more cuties | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youAre you fat? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI would argue that this advice applies to most guys though. How many of your girlfriends complain about dudes smothering them vs dudes not hitting them up enough | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThen you have to work on your sex appeal | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 03:15 AM |
| 7 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youObviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded. It’s right in the post | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youSelf improvement baby. Who feels better? The guy who just got his black belt, or the guy who just got done killing a bag of Fritos? The guy who just launched his first small business, or the guy who just burned 6 hours on valorant? The guy who set a new PR in the gym, or the guy who just got done rewatching the office 12 times? The guy who just got his degree or the guy who backed down from telling his boss how he thinks he needs a raise? The guy who volunteers or the guy scrolling tik tok | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youWhen you learn to be more confident and express yourself freely, you start to pick up on more signs. People like confidence. If they see confidence, they’re more drawn to it | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youObviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded. Right in the middle of the post | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youNegative. Shoot your shot, but try to do it with women who are giving you signs. And even if they’re not, do it, but don’t put too much stress on it. If they want you they’ll make it easy. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 14 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youObviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded. Stop being illiterate | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 19 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youObviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThen what’s the problem? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 13 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youA girl can like you, but if you don’t know how to act on it, you have no game. Game is about how you act on that interest | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 86 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI would argue that if you don’t, you lack drive, purpose, and ambition. You should probably have something to work on and look forward to | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youAre you fat? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:47 PM |
| 424 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youSelf improvement until they do start choosing you. Improve your market appeal | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:47 PM |
| 36 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youMaybe I should correct my statement. You have to be bold and shoot shots, but don’t spend your whole night chasing her around the club or wherever trying every psychological warfare method to get her to like you. Put yourself out there, and shoot your shot, but if she’s not feeling it, don’t bother. Initiate, but let her chase. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?I’m not asking if she likes me, I’m asking what to do in this situation or if anyone has experienced something like this | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?This literally contributes to nothing and helps no one. Just down vote and move on if you’re not going to contribute anything at all | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?I literally said that the wink and the smile were probably better moves, but calling it out in front of numerous people is probably weird. So yeah I’ll give her credit, I just feel like vocalizing all that could have been weird | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?Okay, thanks | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:20 AM |
| 2 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?I never said I didn’t say anything. I would chop it up with her and everyone at the table. It would just kind of happen during down time and quiet moments | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:17 AM |
| 2 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?Look, I get what you’re saying, but respectfully, I don’t see how making a scene out of it in front of everyone is the way to go, especially when I just let this chick, and it’s just a bunch of friends hanging together. Maybe in a more private setting, but it seems kind of tone deaf to do that in front of 10 people, when I barely know the chick and don’t know what she thinks. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?Once again, super awkward when we’re literally surrounded by friends. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?I wouldn’t say I’m introverted. I mean I was literally at a game night with a bunch of friends. But openly saying “Let’s have a starring contest” out of no where across a table with people all chopping it up and focusing on playing a game is going to be incredibly awkward for everyone involved. Maybe the winking or the smile might be a better course of action, but I’m the one that kind of started it and I have no idea what she thinks, so it’s kind of risky and might kind of jack up the friends n… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:10 AM |
| 2 | I think I kind of have a staring problem. How do I fix this?I’m sorry, but all of those things sound incredibly weird to do in a group setting with a bunch of friends just vibing. And especially if I’m the one who initiated most of it | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:02 AM |
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