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ARPBOM/r/askMRP01/06/24 01:09 PM
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We did the opposite when kids were younger (also have 3) moved into a bigger house in a gated golf course community with our neighbors all being seniors. Fast forward 12 years later and we are mostly empty nestors - wife took up golf and we play together usually every weekend. Was a great decision !! Also my kids got to play golf, pickleball and entertaining friends at the pool cabana that they bring over. They loved it too and we had zero neighbor kid friends.
/r/askMRP11/12/25 02:29 AM
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Whole Foods > everything else Steak, fruit, vegetables, unprocessed potatoes That’s it Eat that 80% you will be ripped
/r/askMRP28/09/24 08:25 PM
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Some great replies here; one thing you should do at 61 is get. Blood test and check your testosterone; do this for you. Low T will kill all your gym efforts.
/r/askMRP10/09/24 06:51 PM
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Did your wife have childhood trauma? Look into avoidant attachment (many videos and books on this). I’m also 51 and my wife has never initiated. 20% or so of women have avoidant attachment from childhood trauma. Not initiating is a sign of this.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 12:47 AM
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Wait she’s pregnant..! Dude focus on you and be more beta to her - trust me don’t fuck this up, my wife still holds it against me 20 years latter —- you didn’t touch my stomach or talk to the baby …. I hear it 20 years later
/r/askMRP28/08/24 12:11 PM
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Are you gaming your wife? Do you start to initiate in the morning?? Go work from Starbucks for a day and don’t tell her where you are going; start flirting early Go to gym 5 days a week and do functional body building. Also if you have young kid(s) Might be extremely difficult as that’s where the focus goes for many years Wait until mid 40s and things may change and will be 3-5 times a week !
/r/askMRP28/08/24 12:09 PM
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Spoken like a guy who has never had his testosterone crash. Also if your T crashed punching her In the face would be the exact opposite of what would happen. My T crashed to 47 due to a prescription medication. Trust me it completely changes your entire being. Women pms’ say stuff and have no control over it Be a dick and use it against her or maybe laugh it off and go do something for yourself and make her feel more comfortable
/r/askMRP03/08/24 03:29 PM
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It’s definitely true about the hormones -Just give her a little leeway and laugh it off. If you ever have your testosterone crash it will give you a complete new perspective about your wife and hers.
/r/askMRP03/08/24 03:10 PM
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You may need to learn about attachment style. If you are married to an avoidant attachment wife (like me) it’s very difficult to get the emotional connection you are looking for with red pill. Sex will increase but unless you learn why shes avoiding an intimate connection red pill may back fire.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/24 10:39 AM
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It’s hormones. It’s impossible to describe to a guy; until you start having hormonal issues… She should seek out treatment or supplements Also it’s very difficult but you have to really keep your shit together those days
/r/askMRP02/08/24 02:58 PM
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I actually hired Athol Kay as a coach and had about 6 hour long sessions with him. The #1 thing out of all this red pill stuff (for me anyway) is by a high value man. Get your physical, financial and emotional health in order first. The no more Mr. Nice guy be a he’s core Alpha I’m not sold on, it sorta works but can back fire (again for me) the thing that helped the most was spend a ton of of time and energy “dating” again. You need to keep her mind occupied all day with thoughts of you - not i…
/r/askMRP24/07/24 05:07 PM
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Also what if she reads that more when ovulating and that ramps her up ? Again your reading way too much into that (I did too 10 years ago - so can’t throw too many stones at you )
/r/askMRP25/06/24 01:54 PM
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How old is your wife? Do you have kids? My wife has always read these and also watches “reality” crap like the bachelor I like sci fi and fantasy but it doesent make me want to slay orcs or be a space pirate You’re reading too much into this. Own your shit bd don’t let your wife get bored. That’s it.
/r/askMRP25/06/24 01:52 PM
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Definitely get with high value friends. I started ruck walking with an old buddy. We do 2.5 miles with 25 lb vest. Sometimes we victim puke about the wives and sometimes we talk about movies or politics It’s great 👍🏻
/r/askMRP07/06/24 12:59 AM
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Correct
/r/askMRP02/06/24 01:54 AM
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Well it was a 10 year patch lol
/r/askMRP02/06/24 01:54 AM
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