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Can't expect starving people to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:40 PM
6

It's often not literally hate. That's self serving oversimplification of the emotion. Let's say no man ever dated you, nor been your friend, nor worked with you and neither been your classmate past elementary. Would that affect how you view men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:53 PM
6

It's often not literally hate. That's self serving oversimplification of the emotion. Let's say no man ever dated you, nor been your friend, nor worked with you and neither been your classmate past elementary. Would that affect how you view men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:52 PM
1

You say facts say women are willing to be with average men. Why don't we see this in dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:42 PM
1

I didn't say "never any others" necessarily. Getting a girlfriend back in your school, staying with her till marriage and starting again from scratch in your 30s is very different and considerably harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:40 PM
4

Everything men do for women is taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:35 PM
2

I was joking. When ugly who tries a lot has no success, he is often told he is too desperate and that's what pushes women away, not his ugliness, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:21 PM
1

It doesn't matter if you don't value the interest or you reject it. It's still an interst. Business interest, career interest, romantic interest, sexual interest. Makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:17 PM
1

Women can "sense" the desperation! Both trying and not trying is wrong, but only if you are failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:59 AM
1

It you don't even have to do anything most of the time, don't you worry your job will be automatised?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:57 AM
6

Woudl you empathise with someone who experiences bullying, but only as long as they don't hate those who bullied them? Warning: this is an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:56 AM
1

Yeah. If they bought your shit, you'd earn a lot and become rich. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:20 AM
1

Being alone is better in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:02 AM
1

I think no woman deserves a dollar from such thing. Does it change anything? My only point is that if the complaint is "they are not earning enough", the reason is "men are not paying enough". Just like if I complained about my salary, I'd be saying my company isn't paying me enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:02 AM
1

Who wants to attract with money?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:51 AM
1

most women don't have what it takes to become a top earner Because men are not paying enough to make all women there rich effortlessly. You can't escape this fact and you're just proving me right with such complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:46 AM
1

They are unhappy about something else, but keep pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:42 AM
3

That's just more platitudes. At some point there is no motivation to work on yourself, you stop seeing a way out (if there ever was one).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:39 AM
1

It does. All your extra words basically express a dislike that men require some effort instead of just throwing money away for whoever and whatever's available. So ideally, a woman would take a quick selfie of her naked body and got rich from that effortlessly. If only men simped more. it's not a viable way for most people to make money Because as I said, men are not paying enough. As someone who has enough disposable funds, I am happy to not contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:29 AM
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It's refreshing to read this instead of the constant echo of "nothing has changed!".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:20 AM
1

I really like how the most common complaint about onlyfans is that it doesn't pay enough, basically its entire fault lies within men and women selling themselves are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:17 AM
2

But prey only gets negative experiences out of being that. Women absolutely do not get only bad outcomes from being attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:04 AM
1

man who can attract one woman for a relationship can attract another This is absolutely not the case. A lot of average men get lucky when younger and would be far worse off if that ever failed. The dating market also gets very different as you age and what is left behind gets worse and only more demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:02 AM
2

As a woman, you need looks, which is basically don't be fat, clothes that won't hide it and using some make-up. As a man, you need good looks as a base, fit body that requires a ton of work, right personality, masculinity conforming, plenty of success in your life, being able to approach in the right way and get through all the hoops. And it can still not be enough because you did one thing not perfectly and she got an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:58 AM
3

Why is the consensus that dating apps "not work"? Men are there and willing to match. So why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:49 AM
2

What is a positive experience, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:46 AM
12

How many succesful men live in celibacy? Where are all the millionaires and stars who can't get a date? Why do they still need to engage with women despite achieving so much? There is no independence. And never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:43 AM
2

I want to do it and I do it. Not for the group, not because of others, but for myself. Not everything is a group effort. Of course only male friends can do anything about it, but definitely not women. This has became such a classic, but I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:40 AM
5

So you'll shame when it's justified because someone doesn't act accordingly to your unreasonable expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:37 AM
15

Because you'd totally be happy and nice and kind about it. You wouldn't feel nor express any negative emotions about being in such very negative situation and those who do must be inhuman monsters. Really makes sense, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:35 AM
11

Most people would also choose once over never.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:33 AM
2

Great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:32 AM
10

It's very hard for women to not add any value to man's life. A short conversation and a hug from a woman would add value to my life, that's how dire it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:31 AM
10

No, you don't gotta be happy when you are failing. This is how women think, you substitute reality with how you feel things should be. A man doesn't want it, it's not natural for us. We would rather identify with our failure than with the delusion of success. Be who you wanted to look up to as a kid. What are the chances that includes some romantic or sexual success? I didn't look up to virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:30 AM
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Which pill ideas it goes against? What pill tells you to not do those you listed? Or you want a strawman to justify this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:24 AM
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Why do you assume that everything can be fixed? I am ugly, autistic and inexperienced. The absolute last thing I want to is to talk about it IRL, with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:17 AM
1

Do you know what analogy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:13 AM
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I never argued women want it or should want it. All I said it is still an interest. Even if you don't like it. Huge virtue signalling going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:10 PM
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I wouldn't call any woman interested in me who I am not attracted to like that. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:54 PM
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I have never claimed otherwise. But that doesn't mean everything will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:37 PM
4

Baseline that's became out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:26 PM
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What if I already know why? Now there's no value in it. Better to keep your dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:26 PM
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It's not outdated at all. Women still demand that. The common complaint of single women is that men aren't providing enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:18 PM
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What world? The world didn't change for men. Men still have to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:17 PM
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If someone is interested in you, it's an interest. What you do about it or how you value it doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:34 PM
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Doesn't matter how you judge it personally. It's like billionaire saying "I don't care about money, so I am not rich".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:26 PM
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Someone being attracted to you is not humiliating. No wonder you hate male heterosexuality with attitudes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:24 PM
-2

If someone offers me a job, they are still interested in me working for them even if I don't value the offer or don't want to work for them. Of course I get downvoted for such simple logic because it hurts women's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:23 PM
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A woman prioritizing her man is a massive affront to the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:03 AM
-4

Wanting a steak doesn't make all other food dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:56 AM
1

Oh, it's really a mystery why young single woman wouldn't be as troubled or bitter about it when compared to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:54 AM
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Men don't have an luxury of massive in-group bias. It's every man out for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:47 AM
3

You don't need vocabulary for things like: I am forever alone and it makes me miserable. But why would I pay to say this to the therapist who can't do a thing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:46 AM
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A man is interested in sex with you. It's still an interest, even if you don't value it. So it means something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:41 AM
-6

That is still an interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:40 AM
2

One day you will find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:38 AM
3

The other women say men will take anything, so that doesn't sound a like lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:23 AM
6

Right, women find most men not attractive enough, so they have to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:19 AM
1

Hitting a wall doesn't mean becoming unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:14 PM
2

No, it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:14 PM
2

Not any guy. Just most of them, because it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:30 PM
3

Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:21 PM
2

Nope, being unattractive is real and makes my life worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:39 PM
1

You'd be rather single than date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:31 PM
4

Of course it does. If you have a problem, you want to know why and if you can fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:30 PM
5

Inexperienced virgin men have good reason to find out why they ended up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:24 PM
0

Men aren't hypergamous as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:22 PM
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I don't care what people think. I am below average as a 30+ year old virgin without any experience with women. The logical conlusion is that people who are alone are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:21 PM
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I am below average, but I know "average ass people" who are as alone as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:56 PM
13

Things have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:32 PM
5

Yeah, right, good looking men simply have more luck than ugly ones. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:12 PM
1

The biggest false equivalence that has ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:07 PM
6

Oh really, why? Why would anyone be put off when men get so validated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:07 PM
3

The conspiracies come in play when you realise it's not only about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:52 PM
2

Deeper relationships with other men won't change a desire for intimate relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:51 PM
1

At some point. They're single because the men they want won't commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:01 PM
2

What is an example of cruelty?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:00 PM
2

Or it's a shit-test, a rule to be broken for the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:51 AM
5

This place selects for women that have a problem with men. Many of them don't even pretend to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:51 AM
15

I don't use that language. And again, you either have empathy for someone in that situation or not, without putting up conditions. Empathy doesn't mean agreeing with any associated behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:57 AM
-5

You can abandon someone or something you have no duty to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:30 AM
-1

Have you ever tried to police woman's language when it comes to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:59 AM
-5

Yes, it is. You even frame it as an punishment to men with shit like 4B.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:53 AM
2

Again, empathy isn't about how often you empathize with someone's situation but whether you can do that. You don't have to normalize or justify your lack of empathy to me. I know it's common and I wouldn't expect it, especially from women. Just don't pretend you have it and it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:10 AM
13

You can significantly influence your luck in other departments like career and basically earn it. That doesn't apply to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:02 AM
7

Try being rich yourself. Gender equality is such a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:59 AM
1

Empathy isn't about the frequency, but rather about the possibility. By saying "Why would anyone?", you imply everyone is or should be same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:58 AM
-1

And of course you think everyone is like you. You don't have to prove it anymore, I was convinced from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:51 AM
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I do not know why do you think "most men of PPD" don't see that. I know average men who simply met their future wife at school, in a male dominated study field no less. And they aren't no Chads either. But if we admit that some do get lucky, we must also realise that majority won't. Every lottery has more losers than winners. So I am not sure this is helpful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:47 AM
3

If you can't lead with things that matter, things that don't matter are unlikely to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:42 AM
10

How many women are disposable compared to men who are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:41 AM
0

Exactly, you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:37 AM
2

You can't even admit that looks matter. You are here to troll and look down on men, don't pretend otherwise or that you have any empathy. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1gsrmww/comment/lxs8u9g
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:31 AM
7

And most women are attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:19 AM
7

I have never got any attention from women and it never forced me to stalk or even pursue them. Why would I force interest where there is unlikely to be any?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:18 AM
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Unless it's the experience of being celibate and not liking it. Then it's endless stream of "you are not entitled, sex is not even a need, it's completely your fault, you are evil, you must deserve it". Maybe some platitudes and cheap advice on top of it. Very validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:14 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/27i151y75t1e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ee6ad3677dcbaa17bb2c98c0f87a08febf04cefa Why are women so often this much clueless about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:07 AM
1

social pressure to present an attractive wife to their peers A very woman's assumption of what men are like. There is no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:05 AM
1

Would you say that only those 5 extra young men struggle in dating or it's more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:04 AM
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Most single men are basically starving for women. That's a long way from being obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:59 AM
3

No, you don't have to do any "trial and error" like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:56 AM
10

I think you demonstrated what I would call "half-way empathy". You recognize there is a problem but you don't want the responsibility of being the cause nor the solution. So we get responses like this that completely miss the mark. I am gonna repeat this forever, but friendships can't compensate for lack of romance or sex and men who do lack sex and romance often have friends, and still have desire for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:53 AM
3

Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:48 AM
0

That's being realistic as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:21 PM
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Then there is a problem of supply and demand, and your previous comment is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:25 PM
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It seems you hit such a sensitive spot with this idea, that women can't even engage with it. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:16 PM
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Autistic men don't date while autistic women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:07 PM
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Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:37 AM
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You should not be outraged anymore about that women can get away with more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:36 AM
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Oh, there is power in it. It just doesn't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:29 AM
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Shit test. She wants to be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:27 AM
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Considering nobody wants to actually debate in that thread, can someone elaborate on this: What we want is for men with whom we share a relationship to value things we do and not only things we are. Why is it so bad to be valued for who you are instead of what you do? I have my own thory, but I'd like to see other views.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:19 AM
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Their sexuality is different. I have only provided a reason why women often want men's sexuality to be as same as theirs and shame and demonize it when it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:06 AM
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Yeah. Mostly the same problems. Europe, even in the east, isn't some traditional paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:36 AM
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What we want is for men with whom we share a relationship to value things we do and not only things we are You ask that while valuing men for what they do first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:48 AM
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This is correct. And there is a big reason that fuels women's dislike of men's heterosexuality. If men are attracted to woman's looks and looks depend on age, that is not a secure position to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:31 AM
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What makes her strong or independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:58 AM
0

Doesn't mean you'll ever meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:50 AM
1

If more men get little likes than women, there is again a mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:42 AM
1

It's called sexuality and sex drive. Don't you have it? Don't you ever see an attractive person and wish you could be intimate with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:28 AM
2

It's not about "ASAP". The thread is about 30-year old virgin woman. Enough time to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:23 AM
1

This is possible, I am just saying those get only stronger if you get with them half-way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:10 AM
0

Which doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:09 AM
-1

You can have sex in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:08 AM
3

It's easier for average woman to get with high value man than for average man to get with high value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:08 AM
1

Pumping and dumping is even worse, because you didn't get to have one. Humans fall for what they can't have even stronger. Read the story, the Stacy and Stacy widower were just hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:05 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:58 AM
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Sure. idk about that You don't know it's easier and more common for women to engage with high value man than the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:56 AM
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A rare case where genders are swapped. It's reasonable to assume there are more Chad widows than Stacy widowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:48 AM
1

It's still liking, as opposed to hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:44 AM
4

open relationship 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:43 AM
1

I don't own a car currently. I don't need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:27 AM
1

There's more to reality than your bubble, which is most likely filled with the same man-hating women as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:20 AM
2

Why must dates be expensive? People have dated without having jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:07 AM
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I don't think this is what young people care about when it comes to their dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:54 AM
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You're all Chads and Stacies compared to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:24 AM
1

I have already listed examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:24 AM
1

You're lowering the bar for the rest of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:17 AM
3

What bias? Those are all things bluepillers here say, often directly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:15 AM
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I don't know. They must be so selfless or forced. Dating and having sex with someone you don't find attractive for no actual reason. Would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:06 AM
1

What generational curses?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:52 AM
1

The statistics from dating apps show women swipe right on like 5% of men. Seems like they know how to exercise their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:51 AM
-1

Everyone going to gym is partly or fully motivated by their attractiveness to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:51 AM
1

You have time to think before sending a message.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:47 AM
1

You can express it in different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:42 AM
1

It doesn't definitely happen. Attractive women have no reason to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:39 AM
1

I am asking if a beautiful woman is dating an ugly man, why is she doing it instead of being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:38 AM
-1

You are attracted to manipulators who can make it seem in the way you want. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:37 AM
1

Too desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:36 AM
1

Charity means you don't get anything back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:27 AM
-1

But every man who is seriously pursuing women has to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:26 AM
1

Single is 100/0.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:23 AM
1

Women don't do charity. Neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:16 AM
1

He better be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:10 AM
1

That part makes sense, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:07 AM
1

The "attractive woman with ugly man" must be an urban legend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:06 AM
3

They always want the opposite you think they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:55 AM
3

Just like I fail to see how not having "universal healthcare and free college" has to do with dating. It stops people of opposite sex from being attracted to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:24 AM
0

The difference is redpill tells you to become that man, bluepill will tell you it's not necessary. It's full of such contradictions and nonsense. I have been around enough to notice all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:19 AM
2

Countries with far worse economy and bad or none social policies usually have more children. It's cultural first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:16 AM
0

I have always thought blue pillers had more self respect because they refused to change for women Wow, so not improving yourself is actually a good trait you admire?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:14 AM
2

Nah, bluepill is: - be yourself - have good personality, be nice - looks don't matter that much (ugly people date too, go to Walmart) - differences between men and women are obscured It does oppose red pill, or there would be no distinction and bluepillers wouldn't be mad about its existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:10 AM
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It should really be listed by country in Europe, because those things can differ a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:03 AM
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Sleeping with and having children with is obviously different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:56 AM
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What makes USA's gender relations worse than Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:35 AM
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Humble brag for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:27 PM
1

Why are women like this when it comes to man's hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:05 PM
1

So yes what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:15 PM
1

Not as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:19 PM
1

Yes, people who don't vote are irrelevant when it comes to elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:01 PM
4

Just because I eat meat doesn't make me any less of a vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:59 PM
1

In close elections, things like this matter. You're dishonest as hell. I hope this trend continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:55 PM
2

So? Why those that give a shit shifted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:46 PM
2

Femcls don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:45 PM
1

Also don't look at any sexual content or focus on other things in your free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:38 PM
1

https://preview.redd.it/0uyn036g9a1e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6a62a9083cbbaefa2e1392717dc5e94934ab6f3e What's up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:36 PM
1

I am very lazy and undisciplined person. But when I drop something, I drop it fully, it stops existing to me. Maybe it's some autistic superpower. Before this month I was masturbating daily, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day, so it's not like I already had no libido or low interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:19 PM
2

You should have better ways to spend saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:11 PM
1

16 and counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:10 PM
1

Well, I don't need any. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:08 PM
1

I am not fit like muscular, but not really fat either, I do a lot of cardio. 6'4" / 190 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:54 PM
1

Yes, every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:43 PM
1

Sorry, edited. I have a great job that pays well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:36 PM
1

6'4", below average face, white in white country, above average face, introvert but have friends and like to go out and party.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:25 PM
1

What stats do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:23 PM
1

Thanks, gonna put it on t-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:10 PM
1

I do programming and worked only for small start-ups. Like around 10 or less people in company, all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:10 PM
2

No, I have education and have a well paid career.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:06 PM
2

Also never had a female friend, never had a female coworker and haven't had a female classmate past elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:00 PM
2

There are lower levels than KHHV. I've never been on a date, never approached and never even used a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:44 AM
1

Not if it doesn't benefit her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:30 AM
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She destroyed him. I don't see a path to recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:29 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/p7t2fc7i091e1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5f6c5370466f3be6ba5c37932fa1c323dc25bc9e Brutal hobby pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:24 AM
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It's all built on hypocrisy and the idea of being morally superior no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:09 AM
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My post is about his haters, not his fans. I didn't say all women hated him, but those who do, often hate him in the specific way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:51 AM
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You won't see them calling the billionaires on their side "incels". This is different and the hate IS amplified by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:50 AM
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The hate is coming from straight liberal women and they always attack his weirdness along with his sexual/romantic life. Even in very stupid way like the woman in my screenshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:48 AM
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<image> Women seethe about Elon Musk because in their view his success is undeserved for being autistic and weird. Just being like that should have sentenced him to sexless loser's life. They see an objectively succesful man who is also weird and this is an inexcusable contradiction, dare I say it, even abomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:41 AM
0

That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:12 PM
1

Sad. I do enjoy any season, but there is something about cold winter air when being out that makes you feel more alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:06 PM
1

I am not in position to have standards. I am in position "get insanely lucky or die alone".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:58 PM
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As a full-year cyclist I simply wear face cover from neck to eyes and never cared how it makes me look. You can combine that with a scarf. But honestly, women can look very pretty in winter. Especially like how the hair is both hidden and coming out when you're wearing hats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:57 PM
2

Can you honestly say that you've never done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:45 PM
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Okay, so what do I do with my loneliness? I don't discuss dating IRL, I never complained to anyone about it IRL, I don't bother women in any capacity. But I am still a human and I need some outlet, so I created this account. And even here I do by best to respectfully engage and debate. I could be posting in some echochamber, but that never appealed to me. If that's still much, well, too bad. There were less lonely men before and there was no social media. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:44 PM
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that every human comes with their own needs Pretty sure my relationship needs are mostly the same as any other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:38 PM
1

https://c.stocksy.com/a/ivA500/z9/1233658.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:36 PM
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Women don't realise how much they are telling on themselves by posts like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:26 PM
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This. No sweating, no scorching sun, you can always dress up more to offset the cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:24 PM
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Sure, that can happen. It can still be enjoyable, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:20 PM
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I meant it more like they could be more evenly matched despite what age difference may suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:09 PM
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You're just confirming and adding to what I said. So you may recognize that a loneliness is a negative state, but one is not allowed to feel and express negative emotions about it. Which is absolutely unreasonable expectation to have. Either you can empathize or not, if you can, you don't need a bunch of rules for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:05 PM
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More than average man of my age for sure. Yes, I have been to some. I am from Eastern Europe, so many other European countries. It doesn't matter, this is not what defines someone's romantic and sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:00 PM
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because of the massive difference in maturity What if there isn't one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:51 AM
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Yes, that's why I am saying that. Also depends what is interesting life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:43 AM
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Unattractive people are, as you are well aware, unattractive in person as well, not just in photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:46 AM
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The very same women who either don't use dating apps or reject most men there (those are the direct reasons it doesn't work for men) - they exist in real life, too. So what's the actual difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:55 AM
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What have you failed in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:05 AM
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We are not even having an argument, that's only your framing of this. You posted your story, I posted my opinion of it. Your story is not an example of hypergamy. You didn't repeat anything I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:02 AM
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Some women can't imagine men having their own interests instead of constantly catering to what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:46 AM
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I've never had a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:45 AM
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You don't even know if that man (if it even was a real story) is a redpiller and his rejection was motivated by that. Also, I am now 100% sure you had different accounts here before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:45 AM
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What a projection. Please quote me where I said men should be desperate and commit to a woman no matter what. It's you women who complain that men have no standards and would be with anyone rather than single, but the moment man rejects a woman, you can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:42 AM
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Women must always get what they want, don't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:32 AM
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Thank you. The second half will be tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:31 AM
2

Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:25 AM
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Why do you think posting a random comment of mine is an argument here? Can't stay on topic? I must have hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:17 AM
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They didn’t have sex at all. They didn’t even kiss. They didn’t even romantically hold hands. So being a friend with someone who wants more is stringing them along. Sometimes tell me you wouldn't have this view if genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:12 AM
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Actions like "not wanting to date someone"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:11 AM
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Winter outfits can be cute, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:09 AM
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Isn't it more likely he had none or horrible experience with relationships thriughout his life? Rather than not wanting to commit because he read it on some red pill forum? Look at all that loaded language: feels alpha that he was able to deny a relationship he was using her for an ego boost Nobody is more furious than a woman being rejected. All the entitlement you accuse men of is right there. Also, if they didn't even have sex, he didn't "strung her along".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:07 AM
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You said "I just feel better", I am wondering why and where is this "need" coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:58 AM
2

Why is it better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:57 AM
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It's so sad not being able to show off?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:54 AM
2

Half of NNN done. I wonder how many of you completely abstained so far this month. If it's not a need, it should be easy, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:50 AM
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the option to get their money up and you can get a woman that way Would you like to date that way personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:27 AM
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Who agrees? If you are unsuccesful, people vilify you. You'll be called entitled, your needs are not real needs and you're messed up for having them anyway. Your situation is inherently fixable and it's your fault for not fixing it. You'll get horrible advice and platitudes. Your complaining is unwelcome even though they'd too complain in the same position. You get put in the same category as insane mass shooters so people can easily justify their natural hate against you. You can't seriously ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:25 AM
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dating/sleeping with them Who is them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:18 AM
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There are male virgins, so women should stop whining about being wanted for sex. Same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:14 AM
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there ARE women out there who will find you attractive, even if you think you're ugly Okay, let's assume that's true. Now how many of them are single, how many are near you and you can possibly meet them, how are you supposed to know which ones are those if none ever show you any interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:10 AM
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I am confident because it never did anything for me and there are more important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:06 AM
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I think being desired and pursued is a privileged position.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:04 AM
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Why do you think I expect anything to happen? Even if there were somehow more around women around, why would it change anything for me personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:03 AM
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It is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:12 PM
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Of course I am not interested, I work hard enough during the week, so I can relax on weekends, meet with friends and family, have some fun as well. I never asked you for examples, I know what volunteering is. All of this is just a way for you to "prove" I have bad personality, so it can justify my failure. I know many people in relationships and I know how they have met and got together. And they didn't need such "solutions".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:10 PM
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Worked out how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:04 PM
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I don't give any advice and don't believe anyone can give some on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:43 PM
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You can like animals without wanting to work with them. Going to animal shelter with the main goal to hit on women is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:42 PM
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Never heard of anyone doing that, it reeks of desperation. People meet their partners doing things they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:03 PM
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What makes them good?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:00 PM
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College education and going on trips is absolutely irrelevant to one's dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:00 PM
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Not places you can go regularly unless you work there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:59 PM
2

Where's more women than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:47 PM
2

Is this a parody of bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:46 PM
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That could mean from 0 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:46 PM
0

Is it so bad that 5/10 men are an example of a virgin now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:46 PM
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Are there good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:35 PM
2

So privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:26 PM
5

This is the aspect of female nature men misunderstand the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:52 PM
2

Succesful women are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:51 PM
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Women don't want an average man who has his shit together. It's boring and no drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:50 PM
2

And where did that lead you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:48 PM
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Personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:47 PM
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Read a post made by autistic woman talking about her life difficulties. It's very relatable. Read at the end: I was never attracted to anyone and I don't see any point in relationships. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:44 PM
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It matters more when women do it when you are attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:37 PM
2

Men on PPD are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:36 PM
3

Exactly. It's "just be yourself" on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:28 PM
2

Wasting 3 month salary like it's being said here on piece of metal is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:27 PM
2

How many people have you asked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:24 PM
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I never actively looked and never experienced anything. Ended up as 30+ kissless virgin. I don't know any man who didn't have to try hard for a relationship to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:44 PM
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There is absolutely no need to be friends first. If you want someone who is single, you should let them know as soon as possible. Someone else could get them before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:55 PM
1

And what is needed for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:14 PM
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They also use prostitutes often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:12 PM
1

So AI won't have headaches before sex? Sounds like an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:11 PM
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And why should you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:50 AM
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No idea why that's relevant, but I am sure you have zero idea what I am like or what I like, except going off your stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:02 AM
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If he weren't active on dating apps matching with you and asking you out, nothing would happen. Good for you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:56 AM
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You didn't care, then you post this. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:35 AM
2

So you approached him and make it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:34 AM
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Is it the real horror that the men would have an usable alternative to women's rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:07 AM
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It's still leading on with friendship and women do feel manipulated and betrayed and hurt when men push for more. It's not just "memes".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:03 AM
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slowly build a friendship with them and then ask them out in a date And be the nice guy who pretended to be a friend? Anything you can say here leads to the same end. Women don't want us and women don't need us. No matter where, no matter how.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:57 AM
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Women don't carry their sex toys in public, why do you assume men would?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:52 AM
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The vote was withheld from most men too. Obviously, you forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:49 AM
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Still more comfortable than having two weights on your chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:48 AM
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So if you hide it, it's okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:39 AM
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The reproduction isn't the point here. The reactions to sexbots are way more negative than to porn which is basically normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:38 AM
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What are the vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:38 AM
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Why is it wrong to invest in your sexual pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:37 AM
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Both genders envy each other for what they don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:37 AM
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Why is a man who jerks off to "teen stepsister double penetration hardcore gangbang" porn considered less depraved than a man who wants a sexbot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:15 AM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:10 AM
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Also get told they should not approach, so they go to dating apps, where they get rejected as well. So why shouldn't they base a world view on the rejection? I mean you want to reject many men, but also expect those men to just live ther lives like they are not experiencing that rejection. Can't you understand that your actions have consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:09 AM
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Women weren't nice, so men got less nice. Now you'll be even less nice and so will men. It has become a cycle. Therapy won't get any man out of celibacy. It's a dead end and perfectly encapsulates why you'll keep losing young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:04 AM
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That's more shaming. So you do care. Why is fucking a sex bot inherently worse than masturbating to porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:01 AM
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If you don't care, you wouldn't have to shame it, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:56 AM
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That's what woman can do, man not seeking it and not trying to make it happen will end up with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:51 AM
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The point is women who are rich are unlikely to be with poorer partner which is not true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:49 AM
1

So you see, they can affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:48 AM
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Yes, they can choose to be single instead of settling. It's not like you can't reject someone when dating so how is it relevant you don't know it at the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:45 AM
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The majority does, but still, more women date up than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:31 AM
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It's a common thing among men who are aggresively trying. You don't notice men who aren't doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:30 AM
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Of course you didn't have that idea, women are wonderful and only men have bad qualities and do bad things. If you dropped that religious belief you'd see world more clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:24 AM
1

Now look at mental disabilities and try to guess which one is the worst in terms of sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:22 AM
1

How is the movement inflitrated when black pillers don't even identify as red?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:17 AM
1

Can you tell me what are the beta traits omegas lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:16 AM
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It's still a scale even if you define it as a mix. Those traits are opposing each other. A man won't be both exciting and stable, confident and shy, unreliable and responsible. Obviously when seeing at as a spectrum, it doesn't mean there can't be space between chad and beta pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:14 AM
1

Did the election affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:06 AM
1

Which feminine traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:13 PM
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Not only they don't suffer as much, what you described might end up working as an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:06 PM
2

Very relatable. For me little alcohol goes a long way in socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:45 PM
2

What do you need to fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:38 PM
2

Autism doesn't define all of one's personality. So it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:38 PM
2

these young men, already stewing in their digital echo chambers of women-hating content, encounter something like 4B, it doesn't make them stop and think – it just confirms everything their favorite influencers have been telling them That's likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:34 PM
1

What about those you haven't "dated"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:11 PM
1

Alpha doesn't have to be rich. It's beta who needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:10 PM
1

Why can't beta have a well paying job?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:54 PM
2

I believe only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:50 PM
1

I would hate a romantic relationship What exactly would you hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:49 PM
3

Betas can't play the field. They have to commit or remain alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:46 PM
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By necessity, not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:37 PM
2

A lot of men are in bad relationships. Relationship isn't automatically an success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:29 PM
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Nobody's falling for this. Attractive man always has options to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:28 PM
1

You indeed want them, when it's time to settle down and fun phase is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:26 PM
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the chads are the real losers Very funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:25 PM
1

romantically and sexually successful Nothing what I said denies that. Success is fleeting and doesn't make you immune from future failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:23 PM
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The study doesn't matter, the words were just loaned to explain already existing divide. Doesn't matter if we call it alpha/beta, exciting/safe, unreliable/responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:21 PM
2

What is the insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah, they have no problem generalizing men when it suits them. Men are evil, men are dangerous, men only want sex. But men can be alpha or beta? Nah, that's too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:15 PM
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Selecting how? By swiping left? Just because they want chad to stay or commit after he has done what he wanted, doesn't mean they want the true beta. The beta gets divorced, cheated on, dead bedroomed, abused, disrespected and nagged. Women often want completely contradictory things, it's called having a cake and eating it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:11 PM
2

Not really. I know many omega men, they are virgins or not far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:08 PM
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Being hot, getting laid and being omega doesn't mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:59 PM
3

This is a quality thread even if I don't agree with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:58 PM
4

This. It's a backup solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:55 PM
1

There is no need to bring wolves into it. Alpha/Beta is here to explain men's sexual experiences and outcomes. And it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:53 PM
1

Why would an omega be gorgeous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:51 PM
3

Most women prefer these men Let's be real. Most women reject such men until they find use for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:48 PM
1

It's not stupid, it's an uncomfortable truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:44 PM
1

Yet so many guys will whine on here all day about how women preferring to stay single is shitty and how picking the bear is misandrist Both of those are true. You think more shaming will get men in line?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:41 PM
1

You don't know how every person means it. If someone is average looking adult but going years without sex and relationships, they are unattractive as well because they aren't attracting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:22 PM
6

"Are we dating the same man" comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:00 PM
1

Why do you think it's related to looks only rather than someone's romantic or sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:59 PM
1

Why pretend that nobody is unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:49 PM
1

To get to know them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:40 PM
1

Why is there not a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:27 PM
1

Which exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:26 PM
1

How many? The women here like to say how casual sex is rare and not worth it for women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:26 PM
1

13th day of NNN: the asexual phase has begun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:24 PM
-2

Yeah, destroy your relationships, that will surely help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:35 PM
2

It existed before, if you didn't have any sex, then you can't be affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:32 PM
0

His vote doesn’t matter Agreed, I hope they'll realize it next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:31 PM
-2

You are saying you are gonna avoid sex. So that is what you are going to avoid, no? Or you'll have relationships with no sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:28 PM
-3

Men like who? Most men don't get any casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:44 PM
-6

Like you have centered men before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:43 PM
1

Nobody who knows me ever saw me with a woman. They know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:22 PM
2

Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:21 PM
1

it's like branding yourself as a loser. Not having sex makes you a loser anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:50 AM
1

I would choose real woman any day But will she choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:49 AM
1

sticking it to average to ugly women who they hate What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:20 AM
3

Don't forget about age-gappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:17 AM
2

Alpha has confidence, beta as its opposite does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:46 AM
2

There are men with traits like that. It's not just an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:39 AM
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This is probably a case of humble bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:38 AM
1

My position: men prove themselves to women through any means available, including effort or force Your position: No, men never do anything for women, they expect "bangmaid slaves" for free No, you can only prove themselves by the arbitrary rules I choose, those ways that I dislike don't count No, women aren't prizes to be earned I can't argue with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:25 AM
2

If you don't do anything as a man, you won't have a relationship for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:17 AM
1

Obviously there is. Relationships don't just happen without doing anything. I know that better than anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:40 AM
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Assuming you live in the west, what is the rampant violence you face as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:33 AM
1

Again, you are only saying it's not just because you dislike the fact it is. There is nothing more to add here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:24 AM
1

Your raging and condescending response confirms this was a waste of time. You simply can't think beyond your own female focused perspective that centers what women want and nothing else. One can prove yourself by earning it and one can prove yourself by taking it in a conquest. Both require effort and capabilities. It's not a stupid argument just because you dislike that it happened or that it's not favorable to women. It's a historical truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:10 AM
1

Posts like yours simply flex your own success without providing any general path to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:36 AM
5

Men don't date only for sex, but sex is a major motivator and building block in a relationship, that's why dead bedroom is considered negative instead of neutral or positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:29 AM
1

just being ND + having little experience Those aren't even fixable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:27 AM
1

You know very well what I mean, you just disagree anyway on some triviality. I really don't want to get deep into violent side of it all. Men who defeated other tribe in battle and took their women also proven themselves to them as stronger and more capable. But you are so self-centered that you think only women compromise and men get free benefits doing nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:22 AM
0

I don't think you can truly understand it. I am not saying there are some good solutions. But you can't expect people to not react in any way from being in that situation. Even if the reaction is just to make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:13 AM
1

It's not the same problem, even if there is same feelings, but those do not matter. You honestly can't equalize someone not getting the best possible partner there is with someone not getting their equal or someone not getting anything. Men are objectively failures for not having a relationship. I've never seen myself differently because of it. For women it's always a choice, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:10 AM
4

Why is it always the ugly ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:26 PM
1

I think there is a difference between a starving person and a person on a diet, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:23 PM
1

What exactly makes them celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:16 PM
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Status?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:05 PM
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It'd be easier to find an unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:01 PM
13

I am pessimistic about this. Men will continue to fall behind and drop out. Half of political spectrum sees them as evil privileged oppressors, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:59 PM
1

You don't make the rules, nature did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:47 PM
1

That's what desire is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:42 PM
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It's a benefit exclusive to women, even to those that will never use it. Men have nothing like that to unite them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:32 PM
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Men will always find a way to make everything about them. This one finished me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:28 PM
1

Men want most women, women don't want most men. So there is clearly a conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:22 PM
3

Striving for higher quality of life is very rational. It's why you aren't sitting in a cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:17 PM
1

What happens if two people want opposite things for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:16 PM
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Any scenario where it ends up positively for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:14 PM
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I read some random threads in twoX and it's way more hilarious than I'd expect. It's like a self-unaware parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:13 PM
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We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:09 PM
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If a woman needs something a man would typically do she can hire it out. Having a bf or husband is a waste when most men see women as property. The irony is surely lost on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:01 PM
2

a woman not finding a man to meet her standards is an equivalent scenario By your logic wanting to date a supermodel it's an equivalent scenario to wanting an average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:59 PM
1

I covered that in "by any means available".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:49 PM
1

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:45 PM
8

Most single men literally don't do any violence. It's not a thing that happens because every woman can get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:43 PM
3

So undesirable and desirable people should or do act the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:41 PM
1

Men's nature is to prove themselves to women by any means available. Women's nature is getting with the most proven man. You can easily see how civilization suppresses both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:39 PM
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If women are able to act in their own self-interest, so can men. The fuck did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:31 PM
1

You can feel useful while burning and looting another village and you can feel useful while designing an electric car. Read a history book for once, then maybe you will appreciate what we have today. Nah, you won't anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:26 PM
1

Where the hell did I say "men should get whatever they want"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:19 PM
8

Why would you need to drop education? Is just not going above your level impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:18 PM
3

React in what way? Typing words is not harming you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:15 PM
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but at least we need to be honest that women want to end up with a provider, and if we as a society don’t support men in this role, we will end up with a lot of single and childless women Well said. But how can you support men in this role?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:14 PM
-1

What were the coercive forces?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:12 PM
1

You can justify anything with free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:07 PM
1

What do you know about being undesirable to make that judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:06 PM
1

gave nothing I guess everything you take for granted today, including the very device you express your ignorance from along with the infrastructure you use daily just fallen from heaven. I guess all the relationships of the past were just constant abuse and enslavement while men sat on their asses and did fuck all for their families, communities, societies or their countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:05 PM
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Did I say it was your "fault"? You made the false equivalence, that's what I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:00 PM
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Keep telling that to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:57 PM
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It was a compromise on the nature of both. I haven't said nor implied it was equal for everyone. It led to unprecedented progress, prosperity and innovation. Women got everything you today take for granted and can't even appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:55 PM
2

There is a double standard because there is no big subreddit dedicated to men that would get away with the same speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:47 PM
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That depends on number of rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:43 PM
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Did I argue otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:42 PM
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If you hit someone and they hit you back, it clearly means they have deserved your first hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:41 PM
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Care enough to mention and discuss it, yes. But it's not like most men lived in some period of sexual abundance that will now end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:39 PM
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I am not interested in your strawmans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:38 PM
2

Men complain about the obvious double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:37 PM
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It's the latest fad, of course people will discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:32 PM
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Or push men who were doing good into doing worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:32 PM
1

Still cheaper than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:30 PM
0

whenever there’s a single man there’s also a single woman That's absolutely not the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:23 PM
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You are not an authority to decide whose complaints are legitimate. I don't use "the worst slurs possible". I am for free speech, so either allow men to do the same, or enforce rules for everyone, no double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:48 PM
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The society and even civilization was built on men and women making a compromise on their nature. That only works if both sides participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:45 PM
1

I am saying the women who join OLD behave in that way. It doesn't matter what their motivations are or were. If some women join OLD to truly find a LTR yet end up in ONS or situationship, does it change anything? The results are what matters. And women have enough choices and powet to influence theirs. It's not just luck because some men are getting too much lucky and some men too much unlucky. Glad it worked out for you, but that doesn't override the failure of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:28 AM
1

Most men are nothing special. That's the point. You didn't have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:33 AM
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Why would average woman try to hit it off with average man if better men are available? This is the crux of the issue. This is what has driven the women's decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:32 AM
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You can't point out reality of things while leaving half of the equation out, you haven't mentioned women at all, like his failure happened in some vacuum. There were a few thousands of women over the year who seen his profile and made a decision. Now, you can argue a different photos and profile would have made a difference and it's legitimate position to have. But I am allergic to this total lack of accountability. It didn't just happen with nobody actually participating in it. Why can't you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:29 AM
1

Of course I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:21 AM
1

What she said is basically why give average man a chance if above average men exist. That's what the competition means. But it's all women competing for the same small share of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:19 AM
1

You might be overestimating supply and demand here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:16 AM
1

So it's not fault of women who swipe him left holding out for someone better? It's just because there are tons of guys like it's some closed off competition? Why are not tons of girls there as well to even things out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:14 AM
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People try to gaslight that women don't care about looks because in that ancient OkCupid stats they messaged men they have rated as unattractive. So why would one need great photos if looks are not that important to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:11 AM
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Like don't get me wrong, he doesn't look bad, but in the land of Tinder you are either 10 or 0. There is no room for the middle. His 1% match rate proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:06 AM
3

Average is basically getting equal to ugly now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:59 AM
1

All men want sex. It's women who decide which man gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:55 AM
-14

Do you really expect men to just be okay with everything no matter the change? Now that would be a negative view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:39 AM
1

It'a missing the reason why does she want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:19 AM
1

Are you expensive to please?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:07 AM
1

I never said simps is all there is to it. The women ruin themselves. It's always their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:06 AM
1

I don't think the problem of this age is that teens and young adults have too much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:37 AM
1

This is absolutely laughable tale. Nobody heard of that obscure woman's forum made in 90s which maybe a hundred people knew about until men have made "incel" go fully mainsteam. It's always been a huge reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:36 AM
1

Without them, things would normalize. With them, it all gets worse. And you are mistaken if you think simps only go for undesirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:33 AM
4

Incel -> Femcel Redpill -> Female Dating Strategy MGTOW -> 4B We need some original ideas at last.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:20 AM
-18

Basically, you want to do whatever you want, but also face no consequences from such actions, like everything stays the same. You take what you have for granted and want even more. But the real horror is that nothing's ever guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:16 AM
-3

You really made some great points here. There are so many examples that came to mind about this. In none were the people who wanted to be left alone actually left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:11 AM
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And to stop pandering to them. Pandering how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:02 AM
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Why do you worship women so much? I never see any woman acting like this for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:59 AM
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Nah, I don't agree with this narrative. It's simps that made everything worse for men in a first place. They enable and reward women's worst decisions. Especially by being their backup plan. Anyway, once you're filtered out, you have no reason to care how many others are. So women's standards and options get irrelevant fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:52 AM
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Most men are unattractive to you and you have no need nor use for them. No need to dress it up in "morals".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:44 AM
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The men venting about women in the same way would be banned. It's a huge double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:38 AM
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No, you have to agree with anything that benefits women! And don't you dare to be miserable despite having miserable life, it HURTS my feelings which are more important than yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:21 AM
2

Then argue with those who say it instead of those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:09 AM
2

Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:58 AM
2

Women couldn't message those on the top as much because for them nearly nobody was on the top, but the best looking men still got more messages. Just not as much as best looking men. It's not a first message, but total message distribution. https://web.archive.org/web/20100812053446/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:57 AM
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Because that's how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:36 AM
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Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:04 PM
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Oh, they exist because female autism is a thing. I am just complaining that they are never in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:57 PM
1

I am going my entire life without any sexual or romantic experience with women. Not even kiss, not one date nor even holding hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:54 PM
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I have pretty strong autism to deal with, so excuse me for not feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:48 PM
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Or maybe women simply messaged them back. Simply messaging doesn't guarantee any outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:47 PM
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It's time for women to provide for men!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:45 PM
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The effect is opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:44 PM
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Why are there no weird normies among women? Women are either ultra conforming to normal and neurotypical with hobbies like fashion, travel and netflix or you get whatever is going on in this picture. This is why I am dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:43 PM
0

That's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:38 PM
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I have friends I spend my free time with. That's not the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:20 PM
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You made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:16 PM
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You must be the only one around here with empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:15 PM
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It's like going into luxury shops and looking at expensive things you can't afford as a broke person. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:12 PM
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The last thing a "sexless scrooge" wants to look at is a happy couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:09 PM
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I don't. I am a weird person who is into normal things. I fit nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:08 PM
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You choose to have sex. You choose your birth control. Your constant victim mode is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:07 PM
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As a psychological self-harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:06 PM
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I do genuinely believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:04 PM
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That is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:54 PM
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If you're average, you have to seriously pursue women. You underestimate how easy is to completely fail in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:52 PM
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Succubus detected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:30 PM
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People meme too much about it but the benefits are there. Every nut costs you mentally and physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:30 PM
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No nutting. Better to not take any risks with sexual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:28 PM
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Join us and you will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:26 PM
2

I know people who spent their entire or most of their 20s in relationships that ended up as marriages. They could have waited. They could have tried to have a "fun" phase or chase novelty or freedom. It can work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:18 PM
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That's some crazy tech. Yet men have nothing beyond a rubber.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:08 PM
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Even with hairy legs, most likely. By waiting you are missing on happiness you could already be enjoying. Never understood why people put up such blocks for themselves. Either you want it or not. Life is short.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:06 PM
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I wasn't really being serious with that. But it usually fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:01 PM
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Relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:57 PM
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N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:56 PM
1

Not to simp, but I believe you can do that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:54 PM
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Then you still have hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:52 PM
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You had a different account before, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:51 PM
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Making him stay is the actual hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:50 PM
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Anyone saying more isn't black.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:49 PM
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Lmao. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:43 PM
1

What are you waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:43 PM
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It shows that your attitude is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:42 PM
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Nice guy is an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah, me for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:33 PM
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These are supposedly the nice guys You're doing the same thing you dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:28 PM
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Everyone prefers someone they'll be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:26 PM
1

Are you the lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:13 PM
1

Then what's its purpose? You can move on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:37 PM
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Women do it too, she is just virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:36 PM
1

Dildos give orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:27 PM
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because im not obese so that makes me one of the good ones Easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:27 PM
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There was a 5 point looks scale, the bigger number means more attractive. If you truly don't care about looks, why would you give majority 1 and 2? Wouldn't you just rate randomly or everyone as average or something? How am I supposed to gaslight myself here that it wasn't a legitimate rating meaning those men were seen as well as rated as unattractive? It's also reasonable assumption that if I found someone unattractive, I won't want to pursue them unless I am really desperate. You are trying h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:55 PM
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They have that power regardless of how much time I spend on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:38 PM
2

Women like dildos more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:34 PM
1

I take a lot of photos, but almost none of myself, surely less than 1%. When I see some woman's instagram which is often just endless portraits of her self, it really drives home the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:50 PM
3

Why didn't young women shift as much? Could be deeper than economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:47 PM
1

I can't decide to not want relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:42 PM
3

And some people take this clown seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:28 PM
3

The young men are shifting conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:24 PM
1

I obviously have many of those and none of those is as appealing nor valuable nor meaningful. Even the richest and most succesful people aren't living in celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:18 PM
3

You have to hate yourself on some level to debase youself like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:13 PM
5

Women convincing men in the west to hate themselves as a group, along with their own nature and heterosexuality, to put women and their interests first is their greatest success. But it seems it now started slowly but surely crumbling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:07 PM
2

This is a made up carricature rather than what being a long term celibate man is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:01 PM
6

It is trolling and I think you are trolling too by taking it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:56 PM
1

What more is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:54 PM
6

Only the sex strike is funnier than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:46 PM
1

Yes, they obviously would, that's why men work out instead of starving themselves to remain skinny and weak. Extreme doesn't necessarily mean looking like Hulk either, but rather something like Thor. I wouldn't argue arm hair is a big turn off, but just being hairy is generally associated as masculine so the less hairy woman is, it makes here usually more appealing than the reverse. Obviously there will be men into any possible combinations of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:45 PM
1

I mean, you also know that if you shave, it increases your attractiveness rather than lowering it. If I got extreme muscles, it would still do the same for me. You can call out the extremes, but they are not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:31 PM
2

Things are often not what they seem. Many relationships are dysfunctional and hanging on a thread. Many times people are miserable but not enough to take a risk on changing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:27 PM
1

What about make-up? Was it also "forced" on women by marketing? I know you're arguing that because you don't want to shave. But it would be like me calling muscles on men pushed by Hollywood and fitness gym industry because I don't wanna work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:25 PM
1

Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:19 PM
1

Is it hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:11 PM
-3

If they aren't, it's kind of a statement on how things society wise are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:02 PM
0

They should be present in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:58 PM
1

The point was, just because there is someone or something catering to some preference, it doesn't mean they invented that preference on their own for their own gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:55 PM
2

Women would look like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:45 PM
1

What traits turn you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:44 PM
1

I only take orders from myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:40 PM
1

And with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:40 PM
1

Any success?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:38 PM
1

Directly attacking your own body like that to deliberately feel pain is the worst by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:38 PM
-1

It can't be properly studied due to duality of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:36 PM
-1

Relationships often involve settling and compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:29 PM
1

Do you think men liking bigger breasts on women is just marketing done by plastic surgeons?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:27 PM
1

Self-harm is deranged and I hate how it got normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:25 PM
3

Men really have no red flags for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:17 PM
1

Sure, but it caught on for a good reason. If men really liked women being hairy, it would go in opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:13 PM
5

There is difference between main and only.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:10 PM
1

They can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:08 PM
4

And where did OP say that? You read his post about sex and went straight into shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:07 PM
2

you would have to hit the jackpot to find one irl though There is always a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:01 PM
-2

The classic shaming narrative is that a man who wants to have sex with women doesn't see women as people. It's called objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:00 PM
-3

You just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:58 AM
1

Men were always more hairy than women. It's not a corporate conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:58 AM
0

Can you go one day without shaming male heterosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:54 AM
1

So? Those are irrelevant. It's like gay man swearing off women, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:51 AM
1

they have a low sexual appetite There is always a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:38 AM
4

I would settle for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:37 AM
3

https://i.redd.it/lg8dfzht820e1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:34 AM
2

Chads are relevant because women will break any rules for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:32 AM
1

Times change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:32 AM
1

It is equivalent because it's masculine trait to be hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:00 AM
1

Who is mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:59 AM
25

Nobody does. You are supposed to figure this out by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:49 AM
1

Why would the behavior between men and women be the same? Okay, so let's say women aren't stimulated by visual stimuli. So one would expect, that instead of making the decision by visuals alone, they would try to get to know the person more. So you think women are more likely to ignore looks and match up anyway on dating apps than men? Attractiveness predicts if you get into a relationship at all. Obviously once relationship is formed, other traits and actions influence its success as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:44 AM
4

A bunch of words just to conceal the fact that most men aren't attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:38 AM
3

I though most single mothers weren't even married before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:18 AM
15

Not everyone has a niche environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:15 AM
18

Classic bluepill with the contradictory useless "advice".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:13 AM
1

First you say: The majority men and women get married within their lifetime. Now you admit it's plummeting, but they live together anyways, right. You "nothing has changed" people don't have a coherent argument. You are deliberately making yourself blind. It will be a big shock when it finally hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:06 AM
5

Of course you don't. If I am employed, then there can't be an unemployment problem. If I am rich, nobody is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:46 AM
1

Soon you'll feel like a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:43 AM
2

Brutal. His personality must be excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:38 AM
0

You can't oppress women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:36 AM
1

I have my own 20% and others have different 20% No, you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:33 AM
4

I see this take often, why do you think this makes it any better for women? "Well, you are not attractive to me, but I guess I have to settle and be with you anyway". Also it's not that men only messaged attractive women, just the greater share of messages went to attractive women, just like one would expect to. You are supposed to pursue the people you find attractive more, that's how attractiveness works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:31 AM
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Over 2 million people got married in 2023 Marriage rate has been dropping for many decades. So there can still be and is, way MORE failure than before which indicates a problem. A problem doesn't mean everyone is failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:28 AM
2

I always felt "responsive desire" is just trying twice as hard for the half of the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:24 AM
1

It's combination of not having to overthink and not giving a fuck if you do something out of place and also having an excuse if you do so. It makes such a massive difference for me that I usually prefer to drink when I socialize, to various degrees of course. When I am sober I am at my worst socially, so the only way is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:22 AM
1

All porn in relationship is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:14 AM
2

This is it for men, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:11 AM
3

Yeah, it really shows here how women have no issue with women's shitty behavior as long as they can excuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:10 AM
7

If you are not interested, don't engage and waste someone's time like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:06 AM
1

Women want you to correctly guess their very volatile feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:19 AM
3

She'd still prefer that over you not having an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:58 AM
1

Using a cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:53 AM
1

For me, it is. I like being free from my nature for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:50 AM
2

I thought both young men and women today dislike calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:39 AM
2

It's hard to love women if none of them ever loved you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:07 AM
1

You need two for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:01 AM
1

Looks aside, women simply are assumed to be heterosexual, men must express their heterosexuality or the opposite will be assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:00 AM
2

Come on, it's not that aggressive when a woman does it. Woman always want a man that other women can appreciate. A bit of jealousy and protecting what's yours also strengthens your relationship. I was very drunk one night in a bar, sat at the wrong table and random stranger woman who was also very drunk leaned into me and took a nap. This is the biggest physical contact I have ever had with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:47 AM
1

who are perfectly nice guy Please don't do this, it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:37 AM
3

Boyfriend is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:36 AM
2

Internally she's proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:34 AM
2

Maybe porn should show the dating process leading to the sex without the ability to skip? So there'd be no sex in most videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:33 AM
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No man was ever oppressed because presidents have been men. Apex fallacy is really that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:21 AM
1

Do they know you're asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:15 PM
2

Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:11 PM
2

Rate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:09 PM
3

Hypergamy is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:07 PM
1

Me too! No woman is worthy of my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:05 PM
36

Instead of finding lower standards elsewhere What if the foreign women simply offer something you don't? Then you would be the lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:03 PM
5

What a great discussion this was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:54 PM
3

It's a fact. Just like rich, middle class and poor exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:47 PM
5

So what did you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:41 PM
10

Yeah, how often do you really see women criticizing women compared to those self-hating men? That in-group bias is strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:25 PM
6

So all men get same amount of sex? Or you're just disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:22 PM
1

Masturbation is, without any doubts, not sex nor its equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:22 PM
3

What if women decide to take men's rights away? Didn't think of that, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:20 PM
1

I thought it's inherent and self explanatory that in order to truly abstain from something, you must have had an interest in it first. If not, it's a meaningless act.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:19 PM
1

Doesn't that also validate the idea of sex bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:12 PM
9

A small minority of men are getting a lot. Most men are getting some or little. And a growing minority of men get nothing. Still confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:10 PM
3

The real gap is access. While I admit there are women living sexless lives, for almost every one of them it's a choice that can be easily reversed. But not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:05 PM
2

Asexual abstaining from sex is like a heterosexual abstaining from homosexual sex, there is no effort involved for it to be considered a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:02 PM
2

You'd be disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:56 AM
4

Saw on X: "Imagine starting a "not having sex" contest and your opponent is men"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:46 AM
7

Are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:41 AM
2

I am sure nobody is trolling and it's all completely serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:33 AM
6

Sex is not a need. You are not entitled to sex with no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:32 AM
10

Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:31 AM
16

We claim you can't declare "I won't fuck you anymore" like something's changed if you never fucked us in a first place. Seriously, what is so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:21 AM
3

No, as a single male majority subreddit, this would be first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:17 AM
3

Irl every dude I know gets laid People usually tend to have bubbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:16 AM
2

Women really telling on themselves with it. Is it truly the only bargaining chip?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:13 AM
2

They don't say you should not do this. They say you will not do this anyway or that you have been already doing this to many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:29 AM
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Where do you see someone talking you out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:50 AM
3

Men who do this self flagellation are revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:28 AM
7

What is it with women and threatening to do things they have already or always done? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:22 AM
1

Porn is bad. The less porn, the better for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:55 AM
22

we don’t really care about men if we already have ways to make money That really says a lot. Now what do you think men should do with this piece of information?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:35 AM
2

Porn is disgusting and creates addicts. It doesn't make anyone happy, just sedated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:22 AM
1

Waiting for this superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:21 AM
1

The status helps, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:20 AM
5

I wish I had it so I wouldn't have to live as an virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:36 PM
5

I just wanted women to understand things can suck for men too. Just a little empathy. Will they ever? Can they even?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:16 PM
1

I think this narrow categorization is a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:07 PM
2

That seems to be the female consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:59 PM
4

You can be conservative on some issues and liberal on others. Mind blown?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:58 PM
1

What is "socially acceptable" is not the same for everyone. There are actions in the middle where attractiveness of the doer does make the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:57 PM
1

What does acting trashy mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:54 PM
1

Sex strike, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:04 PM
1

How do I act? I didn't lose an election.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:58 PM
7

Most don't have no woman to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:59 PM
1

Yeah, it's way different perspective. But I kinda like being on the edge rather than constantly "satisfied".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:53 PM
1

To explore the difference and challenge yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:34 AM
1

What about love, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:23 AM
2

7th day of NNN, the effects are here: I get angry and irritated very quickly, I sleep worse and the dreams keep being lewd. The pressure is there, but not strong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:22 AM
4

That's what it is. Have you ever been addicted to something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:14 AM
2

It's hard and miserable when you have sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:08 AM
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Such services won't make women want nor need the men that are currently not wanted nor needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:59 AM
1

The cigarette or the revealing clothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:30 AM
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As I said, that can only affect you if women were willing before. It's getting mind boggling at this point how you women don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:29 AM
2

She's really showing that smartness off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:53 AM
1

Why is she with him? No career, icky gaming hobby...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:27 AM
2

The legendary nerd chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:18 AM
1

It might be less than other groups, but the change is still massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 AM
1

Could be a case of too little, too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:26 AM
2

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:25 AM
0

I guess people never hide or lie about their true feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:19 AM
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What force can men today use in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:15 AM
1

I don't think a guy from Middle East is that relevant to perspectives from men who live in the west just like you. But whatever goes, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:11 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:09 AM
-4

It's only women who think what you said because you are never truly single anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:06 AM
1

So you're basically saying AWALT, no matter who they vote for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:04 AM
2

Society is healing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:00 AM
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You'd have no sympathy even if the guys here were perfect whiteknight feminists. Nobody insists someone is a whore with 1 body count, you don't have to exagerrate like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:59 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/35lcbhlggfzd1.png?width=380&format=png&auto=webp&s=afd66890c72d095b71ec88e5403f375fc5e7c759 When you go conservative to own the conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:57 AM
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Maybe more and more men qualify. Have you seen how many young men shifted to the right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:54 AM
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What force can men use in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:53 AM
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Not everyone believes in a positive change for themselves. Makes it easier to do negative changes for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:52 AM
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More selective doesn't matter when you have been already filtered out. When will you realise your empty threats are empty?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:50 AM
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You deserve nothing and you are worse than bear, but you have to vote for my interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:48 AM
1

Seething comes in many forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:46 AM
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There is some point, where it can't get worse. One can't be more celibate than just being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:43 AM
2

Saw a chart where young men shifted strongly to the right. Some other groups could be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:41 AM
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Being in the same space means nothing if you are not able to succefully approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:40 AM
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You'd have no sympathy for men regardless, as any woman. All of what you said is just a reversed version of what men say about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:35 AM
1

Decent quality pics is the euphemism for being physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:32 AM
1

just settle for a relationship without its basic building block Great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:31 AM
2

Some people win at casino. Doesn't mean most won't lose and trying more is not going to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:25 AM
-1

Friends and family won't compensate for not having family of your own. Even the cats show you need companionship that lives with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:23 AM
2

Women enforce those rules today despite not having to rely on it. Princess treatment? You can't keep using history to excuse today's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:17 AM
5

but Trump will not solve your celibacy I guess that doesn't matter when you can still take a swing at those who seem to have "caused" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:33 PM
1

Patriarchy is when women vote for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:28 PM
1

As a tall women enjoyer myself, I support this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:32 PM
2

The male privilege is real!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:20 PM
1

Maybe not everyone wants easier or any casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:32 AM
2

So much for not being a sex object, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:27 AM
13

Just don't have sex, it's not a need, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:04 AM
1

You don't understand it, women MUST oppose men, or they are controlled and brainwashed. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:24 AM
3

Always has been. Except lucky few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:21 AM
2

Electoral College is simply an array of multiple popular votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:20 AM
4

You can't lose what you didn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:19 AM
2

Women tend to stay silent, they don’t proudly and confidently advocate their opinions What year is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:18 AM
4

I don't care about casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:29 PM
1

Even if it was, what does it change for someone who is struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:49 PM
1

It's like employer giving advice to their employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:43 PM
4

Women love to reduce the issue to "men want to have a lot of casual sex" so it makes men look unreasonable and greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:41 PM
1

Average can be easily skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:39 PM
3

That's the common view of everyone, men are used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:38 AM
1

I am not arguing with it. It just sucks to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:04 PM
-3

Would you purchase a car without taking it for a test drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:03 PM
1

It's not something men explicitly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:58 PM
3

If you're not religious, then why wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:57 PM
0

I don't doubt any of that. Yet more and more women are choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:54 PM
0

You know how many men do want that in a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:52 PM
2

Rich + ugly = desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:49 PM
5

So it took 8 months to realise he wants sex sooner than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:43 PM
-1

How would a man know you're boring without knowing you already? If you even are?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:42 PM
-11

It's not a common insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:41 PM
5

People like you really enjoy pretending to care but you always tell on yourself. That last sentence is just golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:55 PM
1

That's why purity is important. I feel way better on NNN.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:41 PM
2

Why doesn't it apply there as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:37 PM
5

To discuss topics and share opinions, which I can't IRL. It's very therapeutic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:36 PM
6

Young women in american cities now outearn young men. Where is the wage gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:34 PM
-2

if they so desire Very big if.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:32 PM
7

I can tell you why I am here just fine, you don't have to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:28 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:24 PM
2

Dating apps should have been for us but normies ruined them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:17 PM
7

You have women in this very thread complaining about men who tried to pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:17 PM
2

I specifically don't expect women to ever empathize with men on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:16 PM
1

You should take it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:16 PM
1

Are we supposed to take pity on men No, nobody expects any empathy from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:14 PM
1

That's the power of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:09 PM
1

So he knew your name? That is also a contact info.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:08 PM
1

Go out and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:05 PM
1

what are you supposed to do? He even messaged me after Maybe not give him contact info?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:04 PM
1

Do you go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:02 PM
1

Nobody approaches you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:57 PM
1

I agree. Women want a winner. To win you need to put effort to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:53 PM
3

just a few times during the week days Women really live in different universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:51 PM
3

You can just not use that buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:22 PM
2

Most single men are closer to incel than to having regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:57 AM
1

That's a great question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:46 AM
3

So if it's one has been socialized into it, it must be followed? So why any changes happened at all? You know men have to do way more than "just" propose. To even get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:45 AM
3

Every single one of them. Then they talk about equality and how feminism benefits men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:22 AM
6

Gender norms are bad.* *But only for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:21 AM
9

So it's not relevant as an example of what men in general do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:57 AM
7

You already admitted this sub is not representative of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:50 AM
2

Does your husband view you in the way you described?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:49 AM
2

So most men can still worship women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:48 AM
26

Men on this sub are not representative of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:43 AM
–

Just like you feel cheated when you don't get commitment from the ideal man you totally deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:10 AM
12

It's almost never mutual, so women have always, willingly or not, took advantage of this. And it's not even about not being equal, women can catch up with men in education and careers and still demand a "superior" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:08 AM
3

This is very funny, you are very talented, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:02 AM
4

Could you go on 16 first dates and never feel a connection? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:52 AM
1

The opposite is being proven every day. Women dislike, demonize and shame male heterosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:35 AM
0

Self-improvement to alpha is worth it. Self-improvement to end up a beta backup plan husband material is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:30 AM
1

What makes it hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:09 AM
2

You are beautiful, just not to me Really a great thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:08 AM
7

You can masturbate without porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:33 PM
0

Yes, I am supposed to believe that no young woman ever has one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:23 PM
9

both getting what we want What if that's impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:46 PM
2

I am of the opinion women (of my age) don't exist for me at all. Because it sure seems that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:55 AM
2

It's not nonsense. If women aren't in my life, I can make a conclusion that I am not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:46 AM
0

You didn't, so nobody ever does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:38 AM
2

You were saying one cannot have an opinion about women unless he has plenty of experiences with them. I am saying that a fact a man has little experiences with women is also a statement about them in relation to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:36 AM
2

Why women aren't and weren't among my friends, classmates and coworkers? Has I personally stoped any of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:31 AM
2

I’m not some prude that thinks of sex as a chore and I have no idea where you got that Maybe in the previous comment where you said it's reasonable to have sex as little as once a month and men should be happy with it anyway because of other benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:30 AM
2

Sure, not meeting women influences my opinion on women. One simply has to wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:22 AM
5

They will preach about how sex isn't important and then shame the hell out of someone for not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:19 AM
1

It's not supposed to be equivalence, it was supposed to show it's a meaningless point. So what if it was code? It can do what it's designed to do just fine. Even if I acknowledge reality, and I did, you will simply throw other men's opinions at me. Are there some who are delusional? Of course. Again, so what? You wouldn't date them in a million years, nor any other woman. So delusions is as good as it gets. All that wall of text truly shows how you don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:20 AM
1

And women who use vibrator or dildo are fucking plastic. Does it change anything? Fucking a robot isn't in ballpark of having sex. It's an emulation and many if not most know that. It's often you women making up such assertions which is just low-key shaming language. In your view losers deserve nothing and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:24 PM
1

There is no other goal than to challenge myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:07 PM
1

Nothing's pointless or everything is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:33 PM
1

Mine isn't as well, but sometimes I need to challenge myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:23 PM
2

Never was I proud about my masturbation, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:12 PM
1

People will really sexualize anything, even a complete abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:11 PM
2

That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:10 PM
1

I am a virgin, if I get to dream about sex, I am not going to hold back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:08 PM
2

It wasn't wet. Obviously I can't fully control story in my dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:03 PM
1

Sad. I like the benefits, even though it doesn't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:02 PM
2

It is not a kink for me. I just try to live for a month without engaging with my sexuality at all. So no edging. Not even looking at anything that would lead there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:01 PM
3

Second day of NNN, I already dreamed about sex. Off to a great start. Thankfully sex is not a need!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:48 AM
1

I have no illusions about both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:47 AM
2

Why the fuck would you share this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:43 AM
1

That's not my experience and I did my time when they were around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:42 AM
3

You are forgetting male desperation. You can be any kind of pilled, pussy can still override that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:40 AM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:34 AM
2

Women don't do any charity, most men are paying for it. It's just not as direct as with an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:27 AM
1

If you are ultra masculine you are allowed to act a little feminine and this is supposed to show women as more diverse in what they want compared to men, which is bullshit anyway, because most men won't get past the first condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:09 AM
2

Women are already locking that experience in the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:04 AM
2

Tell that to those that get no interest and no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:31 AM
3

So the fact remains, most women are desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:24 AM
4

Nice backpedaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:19 AM
5

And below average men aren't at all. You just confirmed hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:12 AM
5

Most women are desired. Your problem is by who and in what kind of arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:00 AM
1

How can you even compare this to the sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:58 AM
2

Buying sex is disgusting on many levels. Buying a machine which will emulate sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:54 AM
6

Computers also used to be weird things for experts, now everyone has one in their pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:49 AM
2

You should realise that the range of attractiveness doesn't start at average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:48 AM
1

You know barely anything about men here, it's such arrogant projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:43 AM
7

The social legitimacy is only needed if you want approval from others, but they don't necessarily have to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:42 AM
1

You really expect the woman to not complain in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:40 AM
7

The AI would be "settling" for you. It shows again and again how most of you don't understand what settling is about. AI can't settle, because it will offer the same experience to anyone. Settling woman will not do that for the partner she settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:38 AM
1

She already confessed it in the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:26 AM
1

Yes, we have all one day decided to not be likable and therefore lost all access to interaction with other people. Just world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:25 AM
2

There is no "women who will sleep with anyone". Sleeping around doesn't mean there is no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:24 AM
0

People weren't as hostile only because you are woman and you admitted that you were looking for that hostility. Wasn't also your point that most people, except feminist women, will agree that it is a need?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:04 AM
1

The self control applies to whether you try to interact with the potential "another person".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:00 AM
2

u/-Shes-A-Carnival Well, the conclusion is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:14 AM
1

If it were not, would you ever care? Would you ever call yourself a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:10 AM
3

Being childless and single isn't really a pressure for change in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:37 PM
2

Are you pretending it's one-sided decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:33 PM
7

If libido is sex drive, then it's fueling masturbation just the same as it would fuel an approach of potential sexual partner. It makes no sense to separate those, unless you want to use in a belitting way. Most people here say that. Many times it was said to me directly. Make a thread about how sex is a need and you'll see the outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:28 PM
7

What if that man is porn / onlyfans addict and has multiple orgasms every day? Still a low libido? Also, majority of people here say sex isn't a need and one can be happy without any.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:49 PM
3

Of course. What a tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:48 PM
7

Nothing men can say or do can change women's biologically derived preferences. This is just one of them. Gender roles are here to stay and women will make sure of it. Men who won't approach are unlikely to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:46 PM
8

Man with any sex drive can always just masturbate as much as he needs. I thought sex isn't a need?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:44 PM
6

You can have desire for sex and not do anything about it. Is the idea of self control foreign to you? Since tomorrow I will not masturbate for a month. That doesn't mean I won't have desire to do so, quite the opposite, it will be very much amplified. Yet I will resist, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:42 PM
1

It's just a made up carricature and has nothing to do with any communities. Come on, this was low from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:39 PM
6

Men being viewed as the oppressor in power is precisely why there is no leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:38 PM
7

So redpill worked on you? Damn, that explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:33 PM
1

They simply take it for granted. There is not even any room for it to be different. It just must be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:31 PM
3

You can be open to or inviting approach, but you can't really demand it from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:30 PM
6

Unlike women, men have zero leverage, so there won't be any change. And as your attitude here shows, you will have none of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:23 PM
1

So you admit it's an extreme example?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:20 PM
9

Well nobody is happy or content about it, but sex isn't the exclusive outlet for sexuality, so nobody is literally forced to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:18 PM
7

Not sure why you make connection between libido and approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:02 PM
-2

Yeah, totally a more common position than what I said. Anyway, this is about "gender roles for thee, but not for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:51 PM
-2

it would be better if women approached more So deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:28 PM
-6

How can one demand women to approach? Do you approach a random woman and tell her to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:24 PM
5

Very original idea, OP. I am sure we'll see a lot of empathy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:21 PM
1

You don't have to tell me there are different levels of struggle, it's an useless point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:20 PM
1

Obviously the struggle I mean is about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:02 PM
2

If the goal is to have multiple partners, why marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:45 PM
1

It's like you're saying one can't be tall or short because average height exists. While there is some overlap, most men fall into one or another and their romantic or sexual life proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:30 PM
1

Then you'll struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:28 PM
1

You gonna seriously argue the traits I listed aren't appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:27 PM
1

You can't be both exciting and stable, aggressive and passive, loud and quiet, confident and shy, leader and follower. Opposite ends of the spectrum. I don't have any alpha traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:29 PM
1

You need to be solidly above average to really stand out. Most people are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:54 PM
1

It makes zero sense if everyone is a mix of alpha and beta or that they are not contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:52 PM
1

I don't believe it varies so much. A man who is tall, handsome face, fit body, succesful and rich will naturally appeal to huge population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:32 PM
2

I really don't think that women spend such time before swiping for those to count so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:29 PM
1

That was not my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:27 PM
2

Those matter AFTER one passes the initial looks stepping stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:18 PM
1

If someone is unattractive, they will be unattractive in any photo. A better photo won't turn a 4/10 man into a 8/10 man you want. "It's not you, it's your photos" is a convenient excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:15 PM
3

constructive criticism Yeah, that's surely what you're doing here instead of raging at unattractive men for the thousandth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:12 PM
3

Yet you don't say what you want to see. Many experiments showed that being Chad alone can override even many negative qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:10 PM
2

The villains in movies are usually ugly for a reason. We assume negative qualities to ugly people and positive qualities to good looking people. Everyone does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:06 PM
1

Messages equals getting laid now? Most men get barely any matches, so who is ignoring who?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:04 PM
1

Should they have ignored the most attractive women? That's what being most attractive means, you get the most attention. That's why women had groups of "are we dating the same man".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:04 PM
1

Why don't you own it instead of going to such absurd lengths of defending it? It's what you think of men anyway. Is the problem it shows women not being as wonderful as they are supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:01 PM
7

And does that story get him any success?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:53 PM
4

Any man who expects anything from a woman without working hard for it is a fool. Only the best get anything close to chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:53 PM
1

I have no idea why you think those additional facts somehow make that situation better or more favorable to women. Men prioritized the women they found most attractive as one would expect to and women ended up messaging men who they rated as below average rendering the rating either meaningless or having to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:44 PM
2

It's how it usually gets perceived anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:34 PM
1

He contradicts himself in the same sentence. And just because he never seen it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:28 PM
2

I am saying that as an ugly man. It applies to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:27 PM
1

Then why would you even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:24 PM
3

You are literally proving what I said. You are a fat woman being together with a fit man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:23 PM
0

I have my opinions and express them just like you and everyone else here. You can only blame yourself for your inability to discuss something, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:08 AM
3

One can figure it out and still complain. Plenty of women complain about mere existence of male heterosexuality, what men want and how men act.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:06 AM
2

Doing what? I attacked your strawman that "chronically unfuckable" men think fat women have it bad in dating somehow. It's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:03 AM
1

I do this shit every year, so I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:58 AM
1

The opposite will happen, you'll be horny as fuck at the end of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:54 AM
2

So it's love of your life or nobody ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:52 AM
3

Would you still find your fiancé attractive if he got fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:49 AM
4

Nobody says fat women are undateable. Only fat men are. It's another proof of female privilege and male desparation and lack of any standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:49 AM
0

Do you consider yourself asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:44 AM
2

You are well aware even if the difference isn't that wide in terms of singleness (and some of single men are not really single), there is way more men struggling than women. You can't honestly think that average 18-30 woman and average 18-30 man face the same conditions and outcomes in dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:44 AM
6

average woman cannot find a decent competent man with a good head on his shoulders to date It starts to make sense when you realise she doesn't want her average equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:40 AM
5

Why would "autists" argue with this? I agree with the list and I know I can't offer most of those to woman as an autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:36 AM
2

Why haven't you found someone you're attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:34 AM
-1

How one looks has plenty to do with what one is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:52 AM
1

Sometimes just being someone new is the upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:36 AM
1

mid to high betas who have enough alpha traits to keep her sexually attracted So some convenient hybrid of opposing traits that doesn't exist. Like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:30 AM
4

I would be willing to be anyone who would be willing to be with me. Funny, there are other posts here saying that men aren't that desperate to be with anyone without standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:23 AM
2

Romantic and sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:21 AM
3

So what I said to you is accurate. A man can't be lonely if he doesn't want female friends. Because that's all you'd offer to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:50 AM
3

Explain what you meant by your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:08 AM
5

Male loneliness is what women think it should be so they have no part in it which they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:30 AM
6

Women are much open to such friendships, because the cost/benefit ratio is good enough. For a man it's not, doubly so if he has nobody for romantic or sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:39 AM
1

Yeah, that never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:34 AM
-1

So? She wasn't replying to OP and his post is about dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:34 AM
1

I thought the porn equivalent was romance stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:25 AM
1

If nobody else wants him, why should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:24 AM
1

You don't know any people in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:17 AM
1

There is a huge population below mid but everyone always forgets us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:16 AM
1

Sounds depressing. The last thing you want when you have no success of their own is to stare at others'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:15 AM
2

That's kinda brutal. You're dating her for long?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:13 AM
9

women don’t seem to size men up in the same way But yes, you do. But while men would sometimes like to have more (dating their female friend), you are sometimes satisfied with exactly how it is (just friends). And sometimes you want more too, when just sex is not enough and for a man it is. There are such mismatches all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:12 AM
2

Why do you reduce men's interest in women to "sex for free"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:06 AM
10

Every relationship has a transactional aspect (what you give and what you get) and women aren't magically innocent of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:38 AM
5

No, you don't have your own top 20%. You mostly want the same kind of a man. Men have way more diversity in their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:31 AM
1

They are not prioritizing families and the trend is negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:29 AM
1

That's an arbitrary definition you made up. It's not a binary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:36 PM
0

It's a delusional expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:35 PM
3

Why is there a rage, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:34 PM
0

I know, but today when woman have a choice, this would be the traditional choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:25 PM
-5

It's about priorities. LTRs over being single, family over being independent, home over job, children over being childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:33 PM
-5

In many ways, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:10 PM
2

So what do they want? You didn't really answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:45 PM
0

It seems women can't be traditional at all without turning into a carricature picked out from a hundred years ago. Is it really all or nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:29 PM
5

Exactly. Why is everyone acting or going along like it's some major redpill view? Did I miss something? Redpill used to be first and foremost about playing the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:22 PM
2

So they actually want dominant women or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:17 PM
-10

It's a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:15 PM
-2

When did redpill make the rule that women can't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:11 PM
-10

Where are you getting those extremes from? In none of relationships I know, the woman is not allowed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:09 PM
1

Being single is better than bad abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:55 AM
1

What you say isn't making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:36 AM
1

Nobody is worthy of anything they might demand. There are always limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:26 AM
1

It's not strange to me at all how you don't see it for an one-sided abusive situation it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:18 AM
1

If he lost weight, they'd be looksmatched. But he compensates with status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:16 AM
1

You know what standard is? It's you must be or have X or I will reject you. Men aren't enforcing such standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:08 AM
6

Women are always worthy of any effort they demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:49 AM
7

A wise man once said: you think you want this, but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:30 AM
4

Don't befriend women, so you won't end up hurting them. https://preview.redd.it/utuckrdj8nxd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=863884f9cf25c60210023a3328ba4a588d8e294c
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:58 AM
10

Is there such morality in women who are into criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:54 AM
1

No men maintain such standard, what the hell are you talking about? How would that even work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:26 AM
1

Sure, but that doesn't really help you if you can't find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:25 PM
1

There is some corellation. Causation, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:46 PM
5

Young women are definitely taller now, I see it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:48 PM
1

You can if you want to. My best isn't good enough for what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:26 PM
2

Because one just can't? Every alpha can downgrade to being beta, but not every beta can upgrade himself to alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:23 PM
2

Think harder, what is the dichotomy of situationship man vs. relationship man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:17 PM
2

King of manlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:14 PM
2

Why not be two opposite things at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:14 PM
2

Someone who never attracted anyone is objectively unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:21 AM
20

It's related to BMI, but it's mainly an appearance thing and what it says about your personality and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:14 AM
1

I think people deserve reality, truth over lies. If you suck, it will be an negative one. If I am unattractive, there is no point in pretending I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:10 AM
1

That's not what settling is really about and why men express a dislike over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:58 AM
3

You really don't understand settling at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:47 AM
7

Must be fake. Women are totally capable of loving and lusting for the "relationship material", it just takes time of course! u/EulenWatcher
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:51 AM
1

If I preach drinking alcohol is bad then get wasted...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:43 AM
1

Well, if you never dated, would you expect them to assume you lost it casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:42 AM
1

Maybe it's obvious on women, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:18 AM
2

I guess it feels good to be sexually appealing despite all the messaging to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:17 AM
1

Every man is a v-hunter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:06 AM
1

Women can "objectify" themselves however they want. It's only wrong when a man does it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:05 AM
1

Would you want to hire someone who promises he will do bare minimum at his job but will totally try to be a hard worker over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:02 AM
6

So being approached for a relationship is okay? Or not because there is an expectation of sex in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:41 AM
1

Doesn't that sound like a black pilled view?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:39 AM
2

Exactly. A sexually succesful man who is about to get into three digit body count is never wrong, entitled or obsessed and any other negative quality - but a virgin surely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:38 AM
-1

This is just extremely poor subversion. Even if men treated "landwhales" like women treat unattractive men, which means a life completely devoid of any love, lust or even interest - then they could easily get out of it by losing weight. I can't self improve out of autism and inexperience and my poor looking face. You are also inventing arbitrary conditions, like what is genuine lust and how does it differ from a not genuine one? If a man wants to fuck an obese woman and does it, then it's a done…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:33 AM
0

You left out "not approaching". Men should live asexual life because god forbid you are disturbed by a man who isn't the perfection from your dreams. Obviously, it's a shit test, and men most likely to impose are also most likely to not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:23 AM
2

And is it a good thing considering what replaced the party life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:18 AM
1

Who is constantly discriminating women and how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:58 AM
1

This is not "men and women do it exactly the same" issue. Unattractive man thinking himself of as an attractive man and acting like one would get reality checked pretty fast. His friends wouldn't gas him up, women he'd try to get would see right through that unearned confidence. Only women are beautiful at every size, supposed to never settle from what they deserve. So what people think really matters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:56 AM
3

She is constantly idealizing women and tearing down men. It only gets more and more ridiculous and hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:49 AM
2

Why not? There isn't any equality in dating anyway so there is no need to pretend it is so and have same conditions for men and women which are wasted anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:07 PM
1

Because are weird in very offputting way. It clashes with the ideas of how man should act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:19 AM
1

Seems so. I wholeheartedly agree with what she said. I'd prefer a ND woman on same level of functioning as me, anything else would create conflicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:18 AM
1

Pale skin and black hair looks beautiful together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:00 AM
1

Could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:58 AM
1

Yet ND women in practice get with NT partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:53 AM
1

Yes they should. Life with sex is better than life with no sex. Nobody is entitled to relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:49 AM
2

It's low key humiliating going there without romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:36 AM
-1

Average woman is not unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:33 AM
1

So same as now with less actions needed. How is it not an improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:10 AM
5

I see you struggle with analogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:41 PM
2

I thought the difference between options you don't want nor prefer and options you literally can't take no matter what was obvious to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:40 PM
3

This exchange reduced my opinion on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:28 PM
2

But they are options. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:18 PM
2

Are you deliberately being stupid? You completely ignored my example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:12 PM
4

You're the one who suggested a man you don't prefer is equal to someone you can't date due to sexuality. If I go on dating app and all I get matched with are unattractive women, then those are my options even if I don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:05 PM
13

Those things become relevant after contact was established.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:58 PM
3

If most men aren't options, then you are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:57 PM
19

If women swiped on more men, men could afford to swipe on less women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:28 PM
7

You are probably the exact person that would argue there is no hypergamy. The absolute irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:27 PM
8

Sure, no man wants a relationship anymore. Every man behaves like a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:21 PM
7

You'd never tell a straight woman to just date other women if she can't find a right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:20 PM
5

I also refuse to buy anything because there are too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:18 PM
5

I didn't say all women get equal attention. But more than men (except the top 20% men) without any doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:16 PM
14

You want to eat. You'd prefer a burger. Doesn't mean a sandwich isn't an option. But dirt or literal shit isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:13 PM
5

How do you know it's wrong to torture animals if you never tortured one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:11 PM
8

It's disgusting to engage in sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:05 PM
8

She's obviously dishonest. Average woman is definitely not suffering from any celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:59 PM
11

Or you'd die a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:56 PM
12

They are still options. Option isn't limited to only what you want or prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:53 PM
2

Apps should get rid of the swipes for men because men try to match nearly with all of women anyway. They could monetize exposure instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:51 PM
15

Women inherently have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:34 PM
7

Yeah, so you need to exhaust any opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:08 PM
21

carefully choosing your goal and crafting the optimal strategy for it specifically Most men are at the mercy of a woman choosing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:59 AM
10

Match isn't a commitment to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:58 AM
1

Yet women like to say attraction takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:58 AM
4

Yeah, you can see that reddit's censorship wasn't effective at all in this matter. It was a huge mistake to push people from a platform with moderation and most importantly, actual opposition to the echochambers which have none of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:20 AM
48

What are men supposed to do? Reduce their 1/100 matching rate to 1/10000?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:12 AM
3

It depends on what the man wants. If only sex is the goal or long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:09 AM
1

Thankfully, because I am the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:11 PM
1

possibly Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:03 PM
3

The recent survey showed who is the real deal here. Single Man and proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:48 PM
7

Single males are fine, black pill is not There could be some overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:21 PM
3

This is the only usable subreddit with an actual discussion but nothing lasts forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:34 PM
3

Okay, so as long as I stick to complaining about how hard is to get a decent job, I won't get kicked?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:32 PM
1

Define normal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:31 PM
3

How is censorship not oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:30 PM
1

This is just more of the same. "None of us are actually invisible." That is precisely my point. And also that you don't really want to be. You tried to reduce visibility to only bad attention and to ignore that invisibility means also a lack of good attention which is very much required for satisfying life. It's just cherrypicking and I dislike it. It has nothing to do with "brain power" and I did not attack your intelligence. You can't separate good and bad parts from such things no more than y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:27 PM
3

Blue Pill is just something upheld for the sake of social stability So we will lose social stability the more people realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:09 PM
3

Can't be discussing n-counts, looks, loneliness nor any struggles or problems. It's not Nazi Germany, it's North Korea where everything is going great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:08 PM
1

A good idea for new subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:04 PM
1

I am glad to not have this part of autism. I love taverns and most crowded places.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:03 PM
4

This is the endgame. The misandry will be the last topic to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:01 PM
6

Just because someone is unemployed, doesn't mean they can't talk about job market or they don't reflect it. Maybe there is an economic crisis and jobs are very hard to find. But honestly, look at that single male graph. Let's say a tiny part of them is spinning plates and others had some experience before. That's still a lot of bodies to remove, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:56 PM
4

Or Purple. Or no flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:51 PM
2

Most people have zero understanding for my career, so I never expected that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:49 PM
1

The fuck. In my first comment you reacted to I said "Nobody wants to be invisible." Considering you are also not invisible, because you "get attention", so unless you don't want any, you also don't want to be invisible. All of this is just dancing around this fact. Yes, people hate being harassed and catcalled and other negative attention, but nobody wants to be someone who doesn't absolutely matter to anyone, because that is what it means and that's how I meant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:46 PM
5

I am not my job nor education and I don't want people to value nor be attracted to me for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:40 PM
15

Redpill is dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:38 PM
1

It's not complicated. But there are reasons to think that there a lots of bad relationships as well which involve settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:37 PM
8

I understand that and why it is frustrating for you to see the progress from succesful audience to more unsuccesful audience. I had bad jobs all my life until my current one which is perfect. I had a lot to discuss: pay was low, hours were high, work was tough, management was stupid, projects were bad... Now when everything is solid and I make decent money I suddenly have nothing really to talk about. It would seem like just bragging and people don't really want to hear that because the norm is …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:34 PM
3

I know. I am not fighting, I was just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:15 PM
1

Again, invisible doesn't mean I am visible to people I want to be but not visible to others. So no, you aren't invisible, stop butchering the damn language. And I wasn't describing my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:05 PM
1

The settling is not about what someone says, but how they treat their partner. Define average, because women multiple times rated most men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:03 PM
17

It's just funny, the core audience of any dating discussion will always be people who struggle or are unsatisfied in some way. You can see it everywhere else, twitter is full of it. If everyone was doing well, there would be nothing to discuss, the redpill would never even exist. Soon you might have no topics left to censor, but I guess you have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:01 PM
3

Did the single male share and that one specific pill grew too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:53 PM
22

Well, if you do a survey of what your audience is like and then tighten rules in a very specific direction only, it definitely seems that way. Like you are trying to curb a trend you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:50 PM
2

I don't know what's so bitter about it. It's absolutely natural. If I'd be able to get with many attractive women in my youth and as I aged, I could only be with a woman I am not attracted to, I'd be settling, too. And would definitely miss the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:44 PM
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