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| 15 | Questioning redpillHow many happy tradwifes over 30 do you know? How many over 40? The „wall“ redpillers say women hit has nothing to do with looks or age. It’s the threshold of mental maturity. Women start questioning more after 25, recognizing their need to assert boundaries and stick up for themselves. You’ve just begun waking up. That doesn’t mean you need to leave your husband. It just means that there’s more to the world than you thought | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/26 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Questioning redpillI hear you. What you’re looking for is r/girldinnerdiaries We share our food and our stories there, we support each other, call each other out and share resources. Sane women from all over the planet are waiting to hear you, embrace you and give you reality checks if needed | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/26 07:02 AM |
| 6 | Questioning redpillRedpill is misogyny. You took that shit in and internalized it. With that comes a whole lot of abandoning your own needs and self respect. Many women wake up from that kind of conditioning after 25, and start questioning men, the patriarchy, and realize they’ve been submitting to a system that opresses them. Untangling yourself from that mentally and physically is a journey, and I’m glad you started it. Your worth as a human is not determined by other people, not by your weight, the coloring you… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/26 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Taking the first steps to un-redpill myselfIm talking women you’re NOT romantically interested in. An auntie, a grandma, a mom. A lesbian, or a woman who is just not your type. It’s important you learn to value women apart what they can give you or be for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/26 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Taking the first steps to un-redpill myselfIf you really want answers about women’s behavior and choices, you gotta stop listening to frustrated men (who are looking to take your money for another mewing / negging course). Talk to women you’re not sexually interested in. If you can, have a tea with an aunty or a grandma. Older women used to be younger women and they have lots of experience. Stay humble and open and trust the older women. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Are men not competing for the top 5% of women as well?Yeah, the (ex) redpillers are mostly under 20, and those seem to think that having kids or not looking like a teenage fawn makes a woman worthless. Hope you’ll find the curvy mature lady of your dreams! | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Are men not competing for the top 5% of women as well?The downvotes on this are insane lol. How dare You have an individual preference and be happy with it | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/26 05:08 AM |
| 8 | Are men not competing for the top 5% of women as well?This. These boys are conflating the preferences of an app’s algorithm with what women want. All women, generally. Because generalizations are only wrong when they’re about men. My take is that redpillers are desperately trying to find ways around developing a personality and growing up to be proactive and interested. It’s a weird fantasy to achieve the looks and income that will make women jump on them. It’s almost like they long to be the passive part in the dynamic. Just sit pretty and let the… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/26 05:07 AM |
| 30 | Are men not competing for the top 5% of women as well?No, lots of women are open to dating medium ugly guys if they have a good character / humor / charisma. Also, lots of women are content being single. So if the guy a woman wants isn’t available to her, it’s likely she’ll just stay alone. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/26 10:46 AM |
| 5 | How to move forward after the red pill?You were in a cult. Cults only thrive when their members are isolated and feel like they need the cult. Redpill isolates men to sell them programs that promise making them less lonely but actually make them more lonely. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/26 08:24 AM |
| 3 | 24f and I want to break up with my bf 25m bc he's redpilledYou’ve not focusing too much on ideology. Your boyfriend is in a cult that makes you his enemy by default. He can and will get out of there when he wants to, but you can’t influence when that’s going to happen, and it’s likely that he will get worse over time. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/26 08:01 PM |
| 2 | my 25f bf 29m is very much into redpill ideology and idk what to thinkThis is the exact way to go about it. OP check this out and make a plan ahead of time | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/26 07:00 AM |
| 7 | How do I detach ego from women/relationships?Face your fear, move out and be completely alone. In some left over hunter gatherer tribes, young men have to leave the tribe for a period of time before they become a man. They need to learn to survive and provide for themselves. Living alone isn’t that scary, and there are tutorials for everything you might still need to learn about managing your own household. Once you’ve done that, you won’t be dependent on finding a woman to take over the work that your parents have been doing for you. You’… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/26 12:53 PM |
| 3 | my 25f bf 29m is very much into redpill ideology and idk what to thinkIdeally, she packs the most important things while he’s gone and leaves while he’s gone too. Every minute she stays he will try to make it harder for her to leave | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/26 06:39 AM |
| 10 | my 25f bf 29m is very much into redpill ideology and idk what to thinkYou need to leave now. Get a hotel room, crash on a friends couch. Men like these will hide your keys / id / birth certificate. You saying you don’t feel unsafe yet means you already know you’re not safe. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/26 08:17 AM |
| 12 | my 25f bf 29m is very much into redpill ideology and idk what to thinkA breakup doesn’t need his consent. You break up with him, you’re broken up. If he doesn’t accept that, that’s his problem. Make sure your family and friends know, get a new phone number and block him everywhere, and prepare for him to stalk you. These guys can get really dangerous. I’ll repeat; you broke up so you’re already broken up. Him being like „no“ doesn’t change that. If you don’t stick to your decision after this behavior on his part and stay, he WILL become abusive. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/26 08:16 AM |
| 10 | How do I stop my brother from becoming an incelYou get him away from the screens and into the world. Take him for hikes. Go fishing. Do dude stuff. Incels happen because of a lack of male role models and guidance. Show him how to be a man. Tell him you’re proud of him. Hug him. Make sure he doesn’t need to feel seen and validated by strangers online. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Emocional Baggage in womenWomen over 40 are quicker to reject men because they have lived and learned. That pisses men off. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/26 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Dont know how to not resent women when having a small penis? (Please help)„No woman sticks around just for oral and fingers“ Are you aware that lesbians exist? They don’t hate women bc they don’t have a big penis. There are trans men who pass as male and still have a pussy. They don’t hate women bc they don’t have a big penis. There are men who have birth defects or had horrible accidents who don’t have a penis at all. They don’t hate women bc they don’t have a big penis. Get over yourself. You actually are hating yourself for having a small penis, and you project tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/26 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Leaving red pill behindYou’re being targeted by propaganda botfarms. Quit social media, start reading books and attend hobbies with normal people. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/26 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I (28F) are at loss as to how to help my boyfriend (28M) that has fallen to the recent redpill content craze. How do i pull him out of it?That’s like asking how to get a lion to not want to eat you. Leave him. Read this book; https://dn760009.eu.archive.org/0/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy\_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/26 07:04 AM |
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