Apprehensive_Brief56 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Apartment Availability Issue Stand up for your rights. If the law says that one year of separation is required, then that's what the law says - not sure you can just skip months in a calendar year at one's own convenience. And she has to respect the economic impact that a one-year separation will have on you. She shouldn't get furious. She should be cooperative (within reason). Maybe she can help pay for a more expensive place for you if it means that much to her.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/21 03:30 PM
1	After doing what my lawyer said to do Be careful about recording phone conversations. Depending on the state, it could be considered criminal wiretapping. I'd consult with an attorney before recording anything where someone has a reasonable expectation of privacy.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/21 12:25 AM
2	After doing what my lawyer said to do Document. Document. Document. I'm sure he/she has told you this, but it's important. Some of this behavior is borderline criminal harassment.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/21 12:24 AM
1	My lease is about to expire, and I can’t afford to renew, is moving abandonment to family home? If you can't afford to keep your family home, then I don't think that you should worry about leaving your family home. What's more important is your overall financial health. I'd talk to an attorney for a consultation only and explain your deal, that you're probably getting divorced soon, you're over-extended, etc. If you haven't been served yet but have had 'the talk,' I would start sitting down with her and trying to work out an agreement -- work out an agreement before either of you file. The…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/21 12:18 AM
1	I'm a woman but feel I'll get better advice from men. Yall won't side with me because I'm the same gender, might relate to my position, and maybe hand me my ass on a platter but here's to hoping I get some insight Not worried about criminal prosecution - that's not the problem with "adultery." Rather, as your attorney said, it could make you look less perfect, less suitable as a parent. I think you'll still see your kids, but perhaps he could get a more favorable settlement financially. I say could, but that's not absolute of course. It might not change much at all.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/20 10:15 PM
2	I'm a woman but feel I'll get better advice from men. Yall won't side with me because I'm the same gender, might relate to my position, and maybe hand me my ass on a platter but here's to hoping I get some insight Although I am a guy, and as a guy, I relate more to the guy's side of relationships, that doesn't mean I have blinders on, and there are definitely a lot of guys out there that are shit husbands. It looks like you married one unfortunately, and for that I'm sorry for you. What you're asking are basically legal questions. What's legal isn't always what is fair; it's what the law says is fair. As others may have already pointed out earlier, these legal "protections" often protected women in the …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/20 06:09 PM
2	Why am I overcome with guilt? You're simply being compassionate, which is good. You can still love the person and not love how you feel living with that person 24/7 - there's a difference. Divorce is sad because it's the end of a relationship. But when you think about it, all relationships end eventually. Appreciate the memories of the past together - cherish the good ones. And hopefully, look ahead to good memories ahead.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/20 07:34 PM