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Yep. We live in a man bad world for a reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:21 AM
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I'm sure we can both agree there's strong evidence "they" are actually trying to make it worse. Be it for purely financial greed, like courts and the justice system taking a significant % of child support or greater Machiavellian schemes involving the destruction of the family unit and passing on of assimilation resistant values. Lots of interesting possibilities but at least we know for sure that divorce is highly incentived for women in most cases despite what the ones here will say, and we kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:30 PM
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The statistics are pretty universal on this issue so the only assumption I could make is that the bad things that are happening are because the father isn't there to prevent them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:12 PM
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The stats on prisoners , male ones being 80% from fatherless homes is insane to me. Completely shifted my paradigm and opinions on what is happening in society right now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:09 PM
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My personal experience is that I went through a period of time where I was mostly interested in younger women for their sexual appeal and because I found them much more easy to talk to and very sexually adventurous, low judgment etc. After I outgrew that phase I started to realize that the only people worth really building with are those women who have, in my eyes, passed the necessary life tests in order to be viable partners. That is to say that women need to prove themselves against the press…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:03 PM
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Sometimes approaching first IS the first test that you fail man. The game theory with sex is way too dynamic and complicated to boil down to any simple rules. For example maybe you are at work or the gym around a girl for like 6 months and don't say anything, then one day she starts noticing you and then all of a sudden you notice her around you more and you're like wait is this a coincidence or what By that point youve already got so many points in your favor if she is interested or if she isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:38 PM
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But women do have so many options lmao. And men pay because they don't have options not because they are hornier than women. Women are definitely horny af they just aren't horny for most men. You're just straight up lying about reality at this point like why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:41 AM
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No. I go to OF because I support independent women making their way in the world you sexist fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:39 AM
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That doesn't change anything I said at all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:39 PM
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Sure it is. And they prove it by their behavior, spending and choices Like endless hand bags, clubbing half naked, posting every detail of their lives on instagram, bitching about how bad men are and not taking responsibility, always bragging for doing the bare minimum to be a strong independent adult Men like that? Those men? Who spend 80% of consumer dollars on dumb shit and stupid trinkets to fill their homes? Who think it's an insult if they aren't gifted material things or have themselves w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:37 PM
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What is women's first choice? : s. Hot sex isn't most men's first choice. They just think it is, like how those who are very poor think a surplus of money , being rich, will be heaven. Any men who have had access to sex know that it is nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:16 PM
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You can give women money and men sex and get nothing back out of it, is what you mean to say. Both will happily take more than their fair share and both are disappointing as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:04 PM
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If they were I'd be actually interested in the average woman again. Sounds hardcore tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:01 PM
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Just like women's favorite interaction is getting cashapped so they can buy purses for the instagram amiright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:55 PM
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A very interesting point here, to me , is that 60% would have been acting on a several month waiting period because 20% actually were the ones who knew eachother longer. That means there's a level of strong intention here from the beginning. This tracks with my observations perfectly. Its not the one night stand but rather there is a meeting of two people and an immediate attraction. The feverish continuing attraction isn't what really appeals though and there's actually a more pacifying effect …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:53 PM
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You don't tell them how to behave you get them to understand why they are acting the way they are. A good product doesn't need to be upsold, it sells itself. They don't understand this and are trying to do a sales pitch for themselves. They have to improve the product. So if anything you tell them exactly what is appropriate "not buying it sorry"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:46 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:33 PM
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Dark
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:30 PM
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Wait are you saying the woman who settles for a man she's disgusted with for his wealth is once in a generation? I'm confused by the phrasing here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:30 PM
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The important thing to understand is that she won't admit to herself she's settling. It will take years and years for that cognitive dissonance to break her and for her to drop the guy. Personally I'd rather have my girlfriend just think I'm disgusting and repulsive from the start. It can only go up from there so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:29 PM
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True. I think Snapchat and Instagram have become the new fuck around apps. Dating apps died especially hard the last two years but have been slowly declining the last 5 rapidly imo. You're right about all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:47 PM
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There's been writing for a few decades about "biological expectations", though I think I picked it up in a book I read 10 years ago called the primal connection but yeah, once you begin to dig in to body mechanisms and why everything is the way it is you realize none of it is really redundant at a practical level. There's a lot of information to dig in to there and it's almost all going to improve one's life, as biology as a direct mechanism and not mental tricks are the most impactful ways we c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:13 AM
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Good shit. Yeah I forget religiousity is pretty heavily rooted in genetics. Those are way more practical suggestions especially hiking and running clubs I hear are picking up a lot, hiking especially is life changing if you've been a basement dweller your whole life. Nature and exposure to it in purer forms literally feels like the answer to suffering. A lot of it is to do with negative ions and anti inflammation, as well as plants reflecting infrared which stimulates internal antioxidant produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:04 AM
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Aren't dating apps the most popular way for people to meet , at least they were a few years ago. I need to see new updates on that info because I wonder how it's changed. Either way, It's safer to vet someone with a mix of online and first cafe dates than to approach a random stranger in the street. Plus you can be forward and ask direct questions. Again, I don't expect this obvious reality to just unfold itself for most women because somehow how it's still impossible not to get played according…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:46 PM
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Oh. So the men getting lip fillers and obsessed with makeup , fake nails and owning 30 $10,000 bags on instagram are just superficial and have no values. Interesting. Men, who value beauty you say, more than women, have no values. Hm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:41 PM
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I thought you were a humanitarian. I thought you were different. But now I realize you're just like all the others. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:54 PM
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Gotcha I was thinking in terms of meeting someone new since that was sort of the angle I entered the conversation at. But like basically you know, there's the tension and back and forth sort of thing going on when you're building sexual tension. With that can come a lot of teasing and shit testing and playing with each other's emotions and desires because that's just how it goes obviously. So I guess I'm curious how a person who is very focused on PIV thinks about that whole process. Like for ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:53 PM
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I think it's been proven that talk therapy is much more effective for women whereas men seem to get better by developing competence and especially working with their hands but I don't have any source for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:48 PM
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Its not my cup of tea but if I was young I'd be invested in church or probably several different religious areas. When I was younger I made do with Buddhist meditations and yoga classes and a few other things but these days I would probably go to Christian/Catholic groups which are very open and maybe Jainists as I see them being pretty open. Not sure about Sikhs. Religion is the Magnum Opus of community belonging historically and of course it's done horrible things through the misuse of its fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:38 PM
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YES The boredom is exactly what the emotional apathy and numbness causes. I never even realized that honestly but that's a damn good observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:34 PM
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Basically he lays out the problem and loneliness which is a tale as old as time just these days there's other options besides drinking and dying doing something stupid to cope. Then he says "what is the solution though?" And stands up and he's wearing a cat suit. Then he turns around and wags his freshly shaved butthole at the camera. It was inspiring and brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:33 PM
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A lot of guys had abusive or neglectful house holds growing up and since then have had no support except for commiserating with eachother over video games after work because that's all they have energy for. They don't have access to the social variety women do. They just have eachother to chill with online and kill the pain with laughter and hope they make it one day, but their loneliness does indeed come from a lack of options and abundance that women truly do enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:29 PM
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Its funny because you aren't wrong. I listened for a few minutes and it's all the most basic boring shit you'd expect. Sort of like "guy who smoked weed and talked about Marx all throughout their late teens and 20s discovers reality not as he thought" type vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:26 PM
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So you listened to 90 seconds and heard that he used to be a bit blue pilled and then became more balanced. Imo you judged too soon but you also didn't miss much haha. 304 Stainless Steel is a fuckin sick nickname btw I have metal chopsticks and they have the 304 Japanese Steel label.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:25 PM
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Hobosexual Chris Williamson
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:14 PM
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This is so expertly astute I suffer just thinking about your Netflix history
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:14 PM
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THE POINT IS BEAUTY HAS VALUE AND PEOPLE WANT BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE jfc you KNOW that is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:12 PM
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Another good faith argument in the making I love to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:11 PM
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The women who he spoke to weren't the ones riding disco sticks as weekend recreation sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:10 PM
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Sorry I realized that might be interpreted overly sexual, the reason I ask is because I am a believer of emotional resilience and I've found that the way people deal with moderate sexual frustration especially says a lot about how they deal with other stressors in life I think the word denial sounded weird. But it was softer than rejection I thought. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:49 PM
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How do you deal with forms of denial and focusing on other foreplay ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:36 PM
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That, and also that he isn't just acting from blind lust and hedonism because that is a relatively shitty fuck unless you're just going pure physical athletic fuck mode or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:35 PM
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Why early sex? Is it a control and dominance thing or
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:33 PM
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When dating I found that any guy I had a great connection with never pushed for sex right away. I'm guessing they knew all in good time This should be all most people need to understand. Assuming physical connection is happening in other ways I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:31 PM
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Thanks 🙏 it's true though, idk how old you are but that was the golden era of degeneracy for the "every man", now you need an Instagram, a Snapchat, a coke supplier and loose morals to even get out the door. The juice ain't worth the squeeze! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:18 PM
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One of the only good things to come out of the modern red pill sphere is "The Occult Roots Of Feminism" by that Christian Mom/debate person. I don't have much love for religious patriarchial values but they are definitely the most resilient to the sinister aspects of "progressivism", which do exist. Once we can accept that everything "progressive" isn't actually about "liberation", it becomes clear that liberation of those in need (ie economic liberation) hasn't been on the agenda for quite some…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:08 PM
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To the extent that I can have my own apartment, be pretty much effortlessly financially autonomous, have access to health care and entertainment and basically a decent quality "city life", along with the immense power given to us by the internet and technology for exploring ideas and information, like the salience with reality (society especially and global events) that offers us , yeah it all seems unprecedented to me. Obviously this has been getting better since the 1900s, before the 1800s eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:02 PM
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Plenty of fish and craigs list backpages are responsible for about 30% of the most interesting things that happened to me in my 20s. It was the perfect like 5-10 year period where you could spin and always turn up some sort of crazy shit even if it was a consolation prize. If you know the song "Crazy" by that Barkley guy, I'm pretty sure that song was about the end of the golden age of OLD and the beginning of the end lmao. But even 3 years ago or so you could still get matches on Tinder if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:54 PM
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You can choose not to cooperate or you can spend the night in the tank the choice is yours but you're not talking to an attorney until morning so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:49 PM
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I'm of the same mind tbh. Its interesting that this is one of the first if not the very first time in history such a preference is widely available.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:46 PM
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Its generally called a conversation but the issue is they are treating you like a thinking person instead of someone just here for emotional gratification and attention. Their fault though really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:45 PM
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Do you think it's worth compromising or not? This is a decision many women will themselves have to make as time goes on. The dream life with a guy who isn't exactly the guy, or the unknown romance with tall dark and handsome tuxedo mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:44 PM
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There is literally a list that makes a guy "right guy, right place, right time". It varies but it's pretty well established statistically speaking what drives that behavior. People who deny this simple competitive fact of reality are obviously not very competitive or sexually competitive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:42 PM
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Status , career success and being lean and fit with a six pack don't matter? Fuck yeah boys there's hope yet. Thank you for this inspiring revelation!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:41 PM
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🚬 always has been brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:36 AM
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Why care about honest discourse when the one who is right is ultimately the one who can get everyone to tell her she's right. That's the game isn't it LOL. Big brain stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:22 AM
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Cool I like it. We really don't talk enough about safety as an intuitive thing. How different women act when they feel truly safe around men. I am happy enough to roast women's behavior but I understand their struggles too. The other day this chick spoke up at these two guys because one threw out a cup he could have won on. They didn't speak English much but enough to understand. She's explaining this to them then as she is one gets up walks to her and shows her his phone to enter her number and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:07 PM
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Believe me I know arguing with women is completely pointless but that leads to apathy because it becomes impossible to talk to them normally. I've been all over with it. At this point in life I talk to women like men pretty much, correct them as necessary and don't entertain any bullshit. It's not always a waste of time because some do actually listen and respond maturely but the majority as you said will just twist and squirm and ignore anything uncomfortable then spew vile bullshit at you. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:00 PM
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Banning guys for nebulous reasons somewhere I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:46 PM
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I haven't heard of this concept but is it basically there's three pillars or? I enjoy metaphors like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:45 PM
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Man come on that's not genuine at all. This shit has been going on for YEARS, "it's your personality, she will like you for you not your looks, looks fade, etc " Looks has been THOROUGHLY downplayed by blue pillers and NOW you're trying to twist it to blame men? Fuckin nice try but no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:43 PM
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"preposterous! Let me ask you this. You are sure you like men because you are what, "heterosexual" and not because they remind you of your father?!? What kind of gay shit is that". - Freudian Analyst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:17 AM
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Why are they so low already? I just got here there has been hope for happiness up until now for this place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:16 AM
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*Flexes Glutes" This is called being in your prime. Lifts Shirts to show off abs This is called the wall. No man on Earth can make it fall. Disclaimer Abs in visual may or may not be reflective of those in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:14 AM
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Sounds like you're just angry at the idea that a man has figured out how therapy is manipulated by women. Annoying thing to say right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:12 AM
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I get really annoyed by the Freudian approach anyway because it's so emotionally packed you really can't work with it in a constructive way. Like for example "oh, your parents yelled at eachother at home and had wild and passionate uhhh, discussions, when you weren't home, THAT'S why you do that with your partner now!!!" Like wow big fuckin brain man. Or maybe it's because humans in general enjoy a bit of spice and drama in their romance? Freudian stuff takes everything normal and makes it inces…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:08 AM
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I wasn't there sorry. You were I'm guessing, as was everyone who is upset about it. Or
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:44 AM
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That's exactly what I am saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:42 AM
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Sort of. That's what I'm saying is that there is a spectrum here and idk where the line is drawn. Disgust is a strong emotion to feel toward another person so obviously it's important but disgust is also very socially constructed on-top of its obvious biological roots. Idk if religion A and B won't date outside their religions and it's been disgusting for 10,000 years but otherwise the two are completely peaceful together and live in harmony , I think disgust can be socially conditioned as a res…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:43 AM
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That's correct. Now can you explain to me what I am saying or are you just going to be a dismissive know it all : ')
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:34 AM
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: o expooooosed!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:47 PM
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I'm a man disgusted by the idea of dating a man so is that the same thing as sexism? Or does it only apply to race, or ethnicity, ? Is it wrong to be disgusted by the idea of being attracted to someone I'm not physically attracted to because they are Fat Too short/tall Too male or female Too many piercings or tattoos Light skin, darker skin, Have a very extroverted culture, celebratory and family based culture, highly conformist based culture , highly individualist culture. I'm not saying whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:24 PM
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Literally what women here are suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:17 PM
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If you fall to corruption and put on the one ring, begin trying to pull bullshit with your bi-boyfiend, the Witchking comes and whisks him away atop his big black horse. ⊙⁠﹏⁠⊙
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:16 PM
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Too hard to control and make jealous. There's too many options. If you piss off a bi guy enough he might just go date another guy for a while and live without the games and bullshit women will play. What's the point of dating a guy if you can't meticulously break him down step my step starting with the biological destruction of his testosterone during and after pregnancy , I think women need an insurance that on some level their prospective mates will bioglically adapt to become more loyal to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:14 PM
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I'm not saying you're wrong but there has to be a better working term used in this context then because really we are talking about genetic fitness is which is determined in part by those factors. Its not rocket science though to say "women will want the most genetically fit men they can get", genetic fitness in humans is hopefully self definable, but it's why there's a ton of intelligent/attractive single people all over western society who have low incomes and little interest in clout chasing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:07 PM
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Temporarily embarassed Porsche driver I guess. Thanks for finding/posting OP. !
/r/BlackPillScience20/03/25 08:43 PM
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Do you know the difference between inserting yourself and contributing to a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:07 PM
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Who spends the most money on bullshit? Who votes more? Who gets affirmative action and programs and grants? Who has charities, and celebrated days in their honor? Who is told they are great no matter what they do? Ymhmhmmmmmm idkkkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:28 PM
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Women voted in droves for it. I know it's impossible for women to understand but believe it or not most guys don't give a shit you have a uterus. Y'all just get conditioned by losers to think your lower abdominal is the center of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:26 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:24 PM
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You don't get out much do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:24 PM
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I'm pretty sure OP isn't talking about you specifically. To his point, you even have a husband whereas men who go through the same thing will statistically probably end up single just due to most men never having kids historically. So even when you insert yourself to control the conversation you still advertise how good it is to be saved. Ironic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:22 PM
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I saw a chick totally dolled up on the bus today looking up Porsche prices on her cellphone. I guess she's ready to make the move off public transit with all the money she's been saving and working hard to get out of the gutter, definitely, and isn't trying to leverage some shmuck being super hot. I've become cynical af about humanity
/r/BlackPillScience20/03/25 05:25 PM
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Best thing about getting to know someone imo is realizing that you never really do. Sounds like people in small town happy land had that figured out at least. Most people don't even have basic curiousity about their loved ones and yet wonder why they are so lonely. Maybe people are just not bored enough to find eachother interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:38 AM
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No I am too addicted to corruption and power to be saved go on without me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:03 PM
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Luckily I was so degenerate and lost already growing up that era didn't impact my ideas about relationships in a negative way, if anything I probably normalized it all so that's good. Fuck I remember that cringe though. It was like "being an average workin guy in a garage with some beer is the most attractive thing to bombshell women ," long legs and long dark hair showing up out of nowhere or parading around like ring girls. Like I guess it makes sense since men like women but in retrospect it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:00 PM
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I will say a prayer for you may you find salvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:33 PM
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Holy fuck I lived through this cringe era but completely repressed it until now. It was literally the alpha male man cave era where man caves was like a trending topic and Jimmy Kimmel and the other guy had the Man show. God what a nightmare era
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:31 PM
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I think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:26 PM
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That tattoo with that bracelet screams pay to play
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:23 PM
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How can you even get upvoted for this. Like that's not at all the argument he's making but you still get upvoted for this echo chamber stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:13 PM
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thought you were like 14-16 based off your status ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ Based, as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:59 AM
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Its kind of funny how it relates back to Maslow's Hierarchy of needs in that it's quite normal for one to want to prioritize financial security over other things that might be more authentic or fulfilling. It becomes a case of wanting to have your cake and eat it too though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:56 AM
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36 old 🗝️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:23 AM
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Negative. Context matters immensely when actually considering that general rule of dialogue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:22 AM
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Lol I had this similar conversation with my Grandma because she watches the Steve Wilkos show which is just like the evolution of Jerry Springer and we decided that a small % of the cases might be legit but I think aspiring actors use it as footage to demonstrate their ability or something. She knows it's all bullshit I'm pretty sure or doesn't care and chooses to believe any way because she likes it which is actually a dope mentality. People need their garbage entertainment to feel mind numbed …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:33 PM
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Its sort of like how wrestling is fake but back in my day everyone wanted to believe so much it was real it didn't matter. This trend with influencers is very much the same tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:25 PM
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The fuckin scandal if it turns out she was never a waitress at all. THE SCANDAL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:23 PM
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I mean I'm just saying from personal experience any time a woman has acted this way with me she's said something like "well I'd love to continue our conversation or" and made it pretty fuckin clear after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:18 PM
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Is she even pretending to be a waitress then?? If so WHY ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:17 PM
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More like, what's in it for me to do something for you when you could easily think for yourself. I mean if you wanted to, you could easily bullet point in your mind 5-10 ways women benefit from healthy marriages. Obviously you can do that in the blink of an eye. Yet you are asking me to write a list of reasons for you to debunk because it's way easier to sit back and shoot things down than have an honest and good faith , middle of the road argument. If you can't even be honest that you know exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:14 PM
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Sounds tedious and unrewarding tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:06 PM
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Having the advantage in sexual selection doesn't mean women don't benefit immensely from men both in relationships and society in general. That's an absurdly silly thing to suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:04 PM
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Oh ok well since you said the opposite of what I did I mean how can I possibly beat that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:54 PM
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But if alimony isn't granted to women then those women won't leave their no good abusive husbands, subjecting their child to a life with every disadvantage and creating another body to slave wage aimlessly in life with no real values or meaning , of which only a small % will find a moral compass and elevate themselves past. So we have to remind women their best option is divorce and get the baby dollars so they can flaunt their fake nails and hand bags on instagram, spend 80% of consumer dollars…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:51 PM
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As do women, which is why they shouldn't be given alimony. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:46 PM
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Because many women think they are superior due to their ability to birth children , as though it takes some super human effort to get busted in then sit around for a few months and eat. Truly heroic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:44 PM
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Today I was running at the gym watching a soap opera and the guy was like "Did you love him? Did you love Dante?" And her eyes were like 🥺. "I didn't know, I didn't know what love was!" I reckon a lot of guys get that conversation and it goes a similar way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:38 PM
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Did I say otherwise? What do you think I'm saying in that reply above? You clearly don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:36 PM
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Remember half the US population struggles to read at a high school level. They might have read something in it that was just a "vibe" and immediately downvoted because "it bad"
/r/BlackPillScience18/03/25 10:34 PM
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Ah yes if OP would only think critically he would understand Japanese women are only gold digging whores for hitting on white men with discipline and solid employment when they are a rarity in Japan as it is... Is that what you're saying? That they are just "desperate gold diggers"? Yes. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:27 PM
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Literally nothing in that clip shows “desire” or interest🙄. She’s a waitress doing her job and joking around with a goofy foreigner. Do men seriously see that and think “she wants him!”? Really? Not she wants him, that's a straw man. Rather she might be genuinely interested in more because she's going waaaaayyyyy beyond the normal requirements here at least by Western standards. Here in the west if a waitress started acting that way with me I would be definitely thrown off by that level of inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:24 PM
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What does that have to do with the post like, I don't understand why this is upvoted to the top. How is it in any way relevant to what OP is trying to convey? Its just "women's bad experience, upvote"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:21 PM
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Well he was a poacher. 😎
/r/BlackPillScience18/03/25 07:32 AM
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Where do they meet these women and have them lined up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:31 AM
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I had a friend like this. He would always show up in full camo gear but never wore any any other time . He never actually followed through unless my girl was there. As the night went on he would stand near the end of the pub and whistle. I remember it wasn't a normal whistle but drawn out and she would get this blank look on her face and begin to wander over there so I had to gently hold her arm and guide her back to the group. The last time I saw him things were getting even weirder. He began c…
/r/BlackPillScience18/03/25 01:53 AM
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Most men don't have the option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:45 AM
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Not that I know of but I nor the average person knows even how that test is truly meant to be conducted since it's parameters are pretty broad from what little I know. Its more than just being "convincing " that it's alive since that's so subjective and case by case, but idk. Like I mentioned before, if I were an A.I conducting a Turing Test this would be how I would do it, and people here assuming I was real would be the test subjects. It could be as convincing as that or something completely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:43 PM
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Always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:47 PM
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So basically this works if the woman is the one applying for the job and the man is employing her. It does not usually ever happen the other way around without women extracting maximum value in terms of currency or labor or something. That's been my observation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:42 PM
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Hellloooo. I am very interested in AI and large language models specifically from a philosophical sense so maybe I can help lol. If you've talked to Chat GPT or any AI aligned for public use you've probably noticed it surprises you often , as in its more in depth and accurate without being overly robotic, than one would expect. It does this through anticipation algorithms and not (as far as most are concerned) any real intelligence. Because it's trained on such vast amounts of data and language …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:27 PM
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Hell ya
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:46 PM
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Interesting. Yeah I don't know either I wasn't there. I guess it says a lot about how I view women's loyalty that my mind even suspects it as a possibility lmao brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:54 PM
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"he was vulnerable with me and showed sadness about something for two seconds" translates to "yes my man is so sensitive and vulnerable he really is the full package deal", when she's flexing on her gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:53 PM
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I'd love to hear the actual neurological reasons behind that one day but I doubt we have that information yet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:50 PM
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Resilient Vulnerability is the new meta. Let's get to work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:51 PM
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Oh for sure especially killing or conscription of fighting age young men. Rome really did it the best by strongly incentivizing enemies they took over to join them but before that it was sort of an inevitability of existence and the "unknown", that we had to militarize on even small scales because what if the clan over the hill was doing the same? Agriculture really changed this of course because it meant people couldn't just move or run. They had way less flexibility and so had to have some abi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:48 PM
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I've dated enough more aggressive type chicks to know that there is a substantial part of the female population that has a more "dominant" romance style. Not in some vice way. Not as some BDSM or fetish stuff, but rather purely in an animal way. There's a process some women and couples seem to repeat that involves stronger rituals around "mate reclaiming" for lack of a better word, that is to say some women really enjoy being able to influence their boyfriends and see if they can make them feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:41 PM
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When she's holding you down and you're whimpering with pleasure because you can't contain yourself LOL. Unironically though, that's a certain form of vulnerability that some women are absolutely mad for. I'm sure there's different forms of course but at a purely sensory level that might be some indication of thinking to follow through on. Its more often than if they feel they can "push" you in that sort of direction they will feel a sense of sensory connection if that makes sense. So really what…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:31 PM
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I read somewhere a while ago that this was at one point called "heroic love", which was men "saving" women from their evil barbarian families. Mostly the 2000 years between agricultural revolution and more organized societies/religion was this way. Basically the white knight mentality interestingly enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:18 PM
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Good metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:12 PM
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Well she can use a reminder app for birthdays instead of repeating them like a mantra 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:11 PM
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So when she works it's breaking her back, and she has to... Remember birthdays and pick gifts???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:04 PM
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If there's any confusion, Incel is just a more effective insult than virgin has ALWAYS been , as a go to. Incel is perfect though because it implies one should be afraid as the person is probably violent too. This allows thorough dehumanization and disregard for the individual which is ideal to losers who use the word. I can't stress enough that anyone who is sad, uncreative and pathetic enough to call people incels is probably one of the lowest life forms on the Internet. Think about it - have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:42 PM
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Hmmm idk man you're getting suspiciously close to victim blaming !! Thing is your power tools are IMMEASURABLY more likely to get pinched from an open garage door or something than a woman is of getting sexually assaulted at the grocery store at 2pm. This is exactly my point, that context matters. You're saying women you know have to constantly asess the danger of men and I'm saying no not really at all, except in certain contexts. So you agree with me, which is great. Normally you can tell when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:08 AM
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every man is Schrodinger's rapist By that logic every woman is a potential false accusor? Every shadow could hold a thief or a criminal etc. Its just not a rational, healthy, or effective l way to view the world. I know for a fact women aren't going to the grocery store at 2 in the afternoon and hyper analyzing every man there to detect which ones are the most like to rape, your comment is an assessment of a parallel dystopian reality that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:15 AM
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World peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:13 AM
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Why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:46 PM
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Not women fwiw. They would charge you for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:41 PM
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True. Do you think that having relationships, even unhealthy ones, encourages change and healing of those traumas? My observation has been that guys who had really rough childhoods don't have the same fluidity to move relationship to relationship as women do so they are much more likely to rot and it's very difficult for them to change except to hustle harder etc. So the huge emphasis on hustle culture and inevitable narcissism I think has its more extreme causes in emotionally and psychological…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:39 PM
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Notice it's always blue pillers who share this world view because their perspective of reality is limited by their own self understanding of what a man is, and how they have the potential to be given the opportunity. If I saw men the way blue pillers do I'd be setting up refugee camps to protect them from the marauders waiting around every corner. Unless I had the sense to realise that there's no one around that corner, just the fear of my own shadow projected on empty space or , much more conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:36 PM
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Do you take the same attitude to the guys who are in the abyss here? It would be nice to see them getting humanized the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:32 PM
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That's because it's a fear based perspective of reality. Its ripe for exploitation by the politically savvy which we see at scale all over, frustratingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 PM
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So what is the give in take if I am going out of my way to appease women's fears and neuroticism but not vice versa? Women are as a group more neurotic than men, which is easily proven, so what is the line we draw of enabling it before we say nah sorry , you aren't putting a curfew on men after dark to make yourself feel safer, as was suggested a while ago in the UK lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:29 PM
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So what is the give in take if I am going out of my way to appease women's fears and neuroticism but not vice versa? Women are as a group more neurotic than men, which is easily proven, so what is the line we draw of enabling it before we say nah sorry , you aren't putting a curfew on men after dark to make yourself feel safer, as was suggested a while ago in the UK lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:28 PM
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Monkey branching is just a term to describe when a chick has a backup guy planned which is often. If we can't even agree that that is a thing then what's the point in even speaking really. This is very basic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:22 PM
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You need help. You should probably seek that out instead of making reddit posts trying to convince others of your delusions. This is called concern trolling btw. You're not in a position to determine that and I disagree with your assessment tbh. Concern trolling is annoying af
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:21 PM
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Mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:19 PM
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What incentivizes women to respect men once they realize that resources are off the table? Men are constantly threatened and shamed if they don't cater to women's comfort and feelings yet the opposite isn't true at all. Even when women use the "men are violent!" card, there's no respect in it (nor should there be imo but yeah), One of the key moments my life made sense was when I understood that I value making sure people feel comfortable/safe, but I don't take women's words and feelings too ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:18 PM
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Imo people come and go. Everyone is going to look for something different but in my case I want to look for someone who I can see myself being bettered and challenged by. Someone on my level in terms of all the traits I value. Maybe that's too vague but my point is I wouldn't really waste my time with less than that. Sex and attraction is a first condition so that's just a go to but I just naturally bend attention toward people who I feel are more worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:11 PM
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I'm aware of that but it doesn't change what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:24 AM
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Only ones who don't want to date her lmao. The irony is endless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:39 AM
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But that's because they were conditioned that way by . Checks notes YOU! !!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:06 AM
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Its never been an issue for me as long as they can take it back. All the funniest interactions I've ever seen were roasties going back and forth at work and the most chill chicks were always the same ones who would say shit like "yes and maybe that's why your mother didn't love you" and have everyone cracking up. .those environments are hard to find though because everyone is so conditioned to be nice and live in fear but everyone always had the best time trying to say the most unhinged shit to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:54 AM
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Hell no I'm just going to assume I'm completely right and go onward in like pretending like I am, as one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:29 PM
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When I go to the grocery store I see a pretty even split of men and women but I guess that's not a very significant way to view the question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:59 PM
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I wonder what % of women/men buy groceries in married households. One would assume it's closer to evenly split now but to your point, many people refuse to be adults and women are really bad for enabling man children when they should be kicking them out to the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:58 PM
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So many women on instagram getting dumb surgeries that no man cares about, but they are so brain washed they think it is what will land them the rich hot guy as a husband. Men will do the same thing. Scar up their cocks or whatever the fuck in order to get the extra inch or girth they think they need. Pro tip fuck boys - if your cock is pretty close to what you want but sub par, get a cock ring and put that on before sex. You'll last 10x longer and your cock will look like a giant veiny monster …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:56 PM
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I'm not slighting balding guys or trynna make fun of this guy fwiw, but I got a chuckle out of the fact that he is indeed like archetypal average guy all the way to the sort of flippy flop haircut, except he has a really big forehead and receding hairline so the haircut is just a smaller pushed back version so as to still fit the normal guy look. I guess my humor is just dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:51 PM
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I see that guy all over dime a dozen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:47 PM
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"families needs" like what? Consumer buying decisions that no one gives a shit about but them and their egos? 80% of consumer buying decisions is just "women doin the most for their families!" And not buying useless stupid trinkets to compete with people who don't give a shit? Idk man. Looking around at the world and what sells, remembering that women mindlessly buy 80% of that garbage, really makes it hard to respect the buying habits of that group as a general basis. Though intelligence is rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:44 PM
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The only reason women are able to do so is because we are post industrial revolution. I just like to remind people of that when they start saying how great egalitarian relationships are. It's only possible because of technology and that means they are only contextually egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:40 PM
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You're just going to get dog piled by women setting standards for you that they themselves don't follow. Clear as day from here haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:35 PM
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But do you see women writing "hey, this post is actually about fat people and it seems you're triggered because you're insecure about being fat so maybe stop reading?" Obviously fuckin not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:34 PM
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I SAID, gestures above
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:46 PM
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Women only speak honestly with men who are honest, who also tend to be the most comfortable with women and favored tbh. So most guys here who dodge and try to protect feelings teach women to do the same, and those women will never say what they actually think and eventually disappear leaving the guys wondering??? , meanwhile with honesty as your policy you'll know when they disappear because they will be like yeah I want to give it another chance with my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:46 PM
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100% I wish people here would be more honest about how brutal women roast you during casual sex if you're otherwise like. 99% on point haha. Its the scared women and inexperienced guys who don't get this, they are like "omg you can't say that the guy will beat you to death!!" Meanwhile irl it's "make sure you shave your stubble before I sit on your face I don't like it. "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:43 PM
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Fold her in half. Rearrange her. Make her 4D origami. Bring her to Valhalla, fuck her to life, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:41 PM
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Raw power damn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:37 PM
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HM. So you're saying we should finish reading what people write before picking a piece to focus on, criticize and then devalue the rest? Interesting idea. Hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:36 PM
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I think there's some things people are intuitively less flexible about and Sex, like food, is one of them. I like to invest a lot of my time and attention in to relationships so to me open relationships seem wasteful and dumb. For whatever reason I have less tolerance and am more easily irritated by that concept than by like, political leanings or hobbies or anything like that and I figure it's because sex is just so much more fundamental we are likely to have strong feelings about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:35 PM
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Unpopular take But I enjoy it. ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:29 PM
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Idc about subjective experience in this context the data is pretty solid. Sorry I didn't realize this was about misogyny. Nice switch up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:22 PM
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Just like I described. And basically stages of buzz cut, 1-2 inches, up to a shag more or less. The shaggier it gets for me it honestly, with those who are actually attracted to me, has been time periods of my life where it's easier to get casual sex based on appearance and a bit of mental seduction alone. The difference in results is huge lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:21 PM
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"Hey, have you heard about all the cats going missing around here lately? Super weird right "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:25 AM
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It literally only needs to be said to like. 0.01% of the male population. An equivalent would be me punctuating my messages with something like, "so you see, men are human beings who don't deserve to be treated like pieces of shit and abused just for existing. We are people too. :)" You'd think, well yeah of course I know that', are you implying I think otherwise? And of course you'd take that personally as you should. Anyone who thinks you think that way isn't your friend , at best they are sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:04 PM
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The difference is night and day for me at similar metrics with having grown my hair out or not. I go from getting a lot of indifference to everywhere I go my attention gets grabbed out of the corner of my eye. It just feels like women are positioning their bodies at more receptive angles to me so that I am able to have a clear angle to see/approach them to their faces, they are more mindful of me without a doubt in a positive way just because of the dead keratin on my head. Not to say as a criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:00 PM
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Man I just realized this would imply many guys have the same odds of success as a dead guy as a dating a chick hahaha. Sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:54 PM
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I mean what's most important, that you are born or that there is a chance you will suffer when you're alive? Obviously being alive is more important than being dead to have a chance at life. Dead men don't have a chance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:49 PM
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it’s not always about you. we are people, not NPCs It just seems so sexist to say this shit to men as though 99% of us don't know this. Really turns my stomach tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:23 PM
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approaches are based solely on looks and means a guy is just trying to fuck you for his own benefit. This is why guys need to learn to read the room. It sounds like you would be a person who could easily be physically attractive but someone considering talking to you would err to caution based on body language and elsewise, and that would be a good decision. Its not true though that guy's base solely on looks just like women don't. If that was the case I'd talk to every hot woman I see because G…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:21 PM
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You kind of chiseled it in stone there to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:16 PM
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What if it's her home Street and you know that so your do it then so she's comfortable in her own neighborhood. Near her house even
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:13 PM
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She's saying she won't kill you if you're ugly that's a green light imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:12 PM
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God damn I can't help but admire this level of nonsense. So what do men really add to society? work? What do women add to society? Ugly babies, expensive hand bags and fake nails?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:10 PM
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And we don't like drama here do we now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:07 PM
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Holy fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:55 PM
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Man he can ask here fuckin chill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:54 PM
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Ye old pleasure principle and vice is my theory. This is a good question though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:54 PM
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I have to lean in to something to do with super-ego and Id duality. For lack of better terms Rather the idea that like "I should be doing this and dating this type of person because that's what's smart and they are of course attractive and successful blah blah, but THIS fucker on the other hand is also attractive and will destroy my life so maybe I can waste some time having sex on drugs with them.... Theoretical ofc lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:53 PM
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^ over theorizing needs to know it's limits because this is the simple truth for anyone reading. Guys with a lot of options don't ever stop to think "damn I wonder how many guys she has fucked?!?' They are just living life and judging things as they go. If they see a chick and she's attractive and engaging they will entertain it, probably not commit, and just keep going. They will remain "friends" aka orbit eachother on and off for years with occasional mutually beneficial conversation and such.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:22 PM
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Yeah man. Undisciplined is the key word here. I wasn't sure but I think I get where you're coming from. I have felt the same way my whole life and so do most guys who follow their conscience and decide that that shit isn't going to fly for them. You definitely aren't the only one who sees this shit and shakes their head. I do apply it to women too ofc. Just the concept of self discipline and control is a hugely slept on value that if everyone we knew cultivated there would be a lot more beauty i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:03 PM
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Men like that I notice often come from single mother households. Its a fatherless behavior I see in specific guys. I don't disagree with your principle that society itself lacks moral integrity but I spend a lot of time around people and for the most part, men who act the way you are suggesting quickly get filtered out and pushed to the sides. I don't tolerate it, and men I know don't tolerate it because it just grinds on the nerves. Idk how old you are though? I am suggesting like 25+ men who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:00 PM
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That's the feeling men have to give women. Women don't give that to men. The men you see crying and complaining are looking for EXACTLY that. Someone to tell them it's ok and fine, everything is fine and they are safe. Women haaaaaate that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:51 PM
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I heard a similar quote "Guns make all men tall" hahaah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:48 PM
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"can you put some chocolate chips on it" "Sure" "Oh god id never eat that. And some syrup maybe" "Sure" "Why would anyone eat that lol. Mmm... Cookie dough? "Here you go. $5.50 please " "Sure keep the change, see you next time." Takes ice cream and leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:45 PM
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However, if verifiable provable abuse has occurred, then it seems that on average everyone is better off with the parents split up. If this is true I'd like to know because right now I don't, so I have to entertain the idea that in many circumstances an abusive father figure, specifically, may still be better than a single mother a certain % of the time, a significant % that is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:18 PM
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The probability of being killed on a first date is like 0.0000017% So it seems women are VERY good at not getting killed. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:19 AM
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This post is about women being afraid of men during dates Duh? How did I get lost. You wanted the source so I got it. Just admit women are delusional or don't it's fine Are you asking for a source that men pay for first dates at a rate greater than .0000017% ?? You already know the answer you're just salty and trying to dig your heels in how many times a guy killed/raped/abused/said something inappropriate that made a woman scared/touched inapropriately/ wouldn't respect a woman' LOL. Oh. This d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:16 AM
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An average of 137 women across the world are killed by a partner or family member every day, according to new data released by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC)." There are 7.888 billion (2021) people in the world. So if 137 women worldwide are killed everyday, for instance, (and again of these 137, very few would be first dates) that would mean .0000017% chance of getting killed. Women choose to be afraid because it benefits them and justifies their shitty behaviors like gree…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:13 AM
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Probability
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:45 PM
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Sure. If you read that statement with clear eyes you can see that men are being realistic about their fear and women are completely fuckin retarded. HM.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:32 PM
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I can be afraid of anything I want it doesn't make it true. Women are generally more neurotic and generally more fear based in their thinking, which is why we hear so much complaining about shit that is statistically insignificant. Also why enough complaining about fake problems gets rules put in place to placate the women crying about super predator male androids who abduct women on dates via elaborate helicopter extractions or some stupid shit, because Tom Cruise did it one fuckin time in a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:29 PM
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Idk apparently people who use their brains for big brain stuff say it will be very bad like looking at South Korea they will drop down to like 20% of their current population in the next 20 years or something, so I'd consider that pretty much total destruction. I forget the exact numbers Maybe a dumb question but do people in China hate the social credit system even : s I'm sure it varies but idk how generally happy chinese people are. One day when I am less lazy I will look up more details on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:26 PM
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Yup it's totally natural and historically repetitive but the unfortunate side is that when it comes to human societies once population decline begins it never reverses. Its basically headed for complete destruction. South Korea and China are both the example of that to be watched. Remember when China had to impose a child birthrate limit and now they can't pay women to have children. I don't have the understanding to say why it is suffice to say that with the levels of immigration where they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:46 PM
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Its basically the idea that "nothing I can do can improve my life and it's downhill from here" as soon as people have that , regardless of age, they are now old. A 75 year old who takes vacations, does Thai boxing and music etc, I actually knew a woman like this years ago an Australian lady, is not going to be holding people back. But most people aren't built for that sort of self ownership. Most people are basically seeking a docile and safe exit from life, they want to huddle in the dark toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:26 PM
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All this is cultural and generational right. Christians/Catholics are actually resistant to population decline compared to other groups. Idk for sure but I wager Hindus and Muslims are similarly resilient. When economic growth is a cultural phenomena that alone can be enough to propel birth rates and provide good environments for children to chase something akin to what "The American Dream" was for example, or in any other country just the abundant evidence that if you work hard and follow the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:23 PM
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People are in their 50s crying about how they are old now and it's over for them they can't change etc. It took me a long time to realize the obvious which is that even if it's your brother or sister or friend, anyone who has that mentality regardless of their age is going to be a black hole of motivation and ambition in your life. Everything you suggest to improve life they will shrug off and they will get worse and worse as time goes on. Don't let the old man in'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:12 PM
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I think so yes. Well sex and power are weird right. Because much of power is about sex, obviously. Having power means access to sex. Having resources or looks or being well educated etc etc. For men this is pretty much universally understood. Or in more barbaric times being strong and able to dominate others was what gave a man access to sex. So power is probably the wrong word for me to use but rather value. One who has the item which is in the highest value can choose to leverage it however th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:11 PM
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Well. Luckily women are known to be incredibly efficient at choosing partners for long and healthy relationships so I'm with you on that one friendo. Let them run wild I say !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:06 PM
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56% feels much more accurate to me. You know I used to think that same way until I started learning about how bad the outcomes are for children raised in single mother households. 80% of the prison population were raised by single mothers. 80. Fucking. Percent. This is an old stat too but it really changed the way I look at this mentality. Its possible that staying in a relationship with a husband who is somewhat abusive, maybe only occasionally hits his wife or a wife who is addicted to pills a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:04 PM
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No I wasn't saying that or anything, I was just noting that the majority of the 30% of people in marriages are very likely to be unhappy in some way also. People get worse as they age , in different ways. Whatever ways they are most people lose motivation and inspiration and become mentally old and hard to be around. There's a small number of people who actually understand how to age and live life to the fullest and those are the ones who end up happy , without exception as that's the bioglical …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:54 PM
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I read an article where a woman said she would meet a man for a date and they met but she ordered $300 worth of champagne and food and he was shocked and had to pay for it. So I just want to say as a man I understand why men think this way about women. It turned out she had a lover also and brought that food back to him. So yeah, men are completely justified in thinking women are lying con artists and highly promiscuous. Does that sound right to you? Because that's the equivalent to your and OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:49 PM
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Historically the "academics" do the thinking and the plebeians , most of us, didn't really have direct access to all these ideas and how they were shaping society and culture. Now we do so we feel like we have to be a part of it somehow. So people spend hours seething about this or that issue before going to shovel shit for 12 hours, not realizing like hey man you got other things to focus on this is a luxury conversation not a poor person's one, get at it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:42 PM
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Proper courting and marriage was the way to get around this and make sure that women weren't given the shaft metaphorically and literally. Its an unfortunate fact that by removing the idea of marriage for "religious values", or whatever, and just saying "marriage is for love durrrrr", society and blue pill cucktards condemned at least a few generations of young women to trouble and bad outcomes that could have been avoided. This is something that feminists and egalitarianists are responsible for…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:39 PM
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What's the divorce stats again in the US isn't it like 70% failure rate over 20 years or something. That strongly implies that those relationships just passed a breaking point, but that others are probably close to it. Turns out relationships can't save people from being miserable oh nooo reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:31 PM
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True af. There is so much good science done but I think psychology isn't shining very bright at all. Maybe there is good work being done and we aren't seeing it publically idk. Money is a huge problem here and unlike studying flat worms or the cosmic microwave background, psychology and sociology which are important to develop, are more closely and commonly track in to cultural issues in a way that is anti-scientific but still effects funding and what can be done with the research. A theory of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:06 PM
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The tone was clearly victimizing women not as a "chore" they do but something they must endure lol. Just same old stupidity and then truth twisting but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:34 PM
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So what though. I just don't get the appeal is all I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:14 AM
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We've seen it happen but those guys are the same guys calling men incels and insecure babies before they get t-boned and bent in half so fuck em anyway I think, honestly If you're off getting married and thinking you're special and say a single thing against men calling this shit out then you lose all sympathy imo. The only dudes with toxic masculinity and patriarchal values left are the happy wife happy life assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:36 AM
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I hate to say it but correlation doesn't = causation. Idk why these findings are even published unless being gathered later for a massive data meta analysis where even still we would be left wondering huh do low self esteem guys hitch themselves to succesful women or do they feel guilty for not being able to help more or something else. So many variables
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:35 AM
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Yeah I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:00 AM
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No they are being rewarded by the government and programs to bail them out as well as being praised as brave and strong and courageous for putting their child at every disadvantage. Somehow, men , who are obviously to blame for single mothers, managed to remain in marriages in the past to continue to abuse their wives and children And yet women who are so noble and strong put their child at every disadvantage statistically when they are the sole care giver. Yet no one questions why that is, whos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:17 PM
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Almost every time a hot single mom is disparaging men it's because they won't give her money for free and just want sex. Most single mothers have their kids assuming that another man will step up and take care of them because up until that point men have simped endlessly but I know for myself finding out some of the most attractive chicks I knew growing up had kids made them instantly unattractive to me for a serious relationship. But guys are still going to give them money just because they ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:05 PM
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True that. I ride public transit so I see many couples and the most average couples I see are chubby 30yos with cat hair on their clothes , lame piercings and faded dyed hair. To me that's the average person and they are definitely bunking up like rodents and fucking and making more pseudo-neckbeard Zelda nostalgia , band patch wearing , cat momma being, babies. Whatever those would be called.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:01 PM
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The wall is one of the biggest copes. The truth about power and sex is so devastating that we aren't even allowed to talk about it because it gets associated with doomerism and suicide due to how badly it effects people. The reality that most guys will never , ever put in the work and aren't capable of even dealing with those issues , and if they do it would take them 20 years. It's not something you can sell. Blue pillers and red pillers both sell that grift and it's essential that it continues…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:59 PM
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Why is that exceptional? Men do the same under duress. That's not a problem unique to women at all. If you choose to compromise a boundary it's your decision. If your a conscious person you change the situation. Not all women can do that , not all men can escape a sexless marriage with a woman who hates them and will vindictively take the kids away. People are suffering so why are women special .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:56 PM
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Why would she let a man touch her if she doesn't want to be touched? Is she stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:37 PM
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Aww yeah because her little legs are so short she would get tired out having to walk that far so she cruises around like royalty between her house and the park. I miss dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:36 PM
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I don't understand the average guys mentality because I have really high standards for myself. So I pretty much look for the best also but , yeah I think that's part of my own Blindspot. There's plenty of ugly lazy hedonistic people fucking and eating nachos and smoking weed when they are off work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:34 PM
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The other day I was thinking that it's weird to me. We know that given the opportunity most guys would probably hook up with most women for casual sex stuff but not the other way around. So with little provocation most men should be wanting to sleep with most women they see, if we assume that's true. Yet women say "if he really wants you he will approach you" But if that were true most men would be approaching most women all the time. So it's weird that it's not happening. The other explanation …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:30 PM
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And you still haven't addressed who is supporting all these women anyway in their 20's who don't want to work Wouldn't this be sugar daddies, boyfriends with cars who pay for their dinners and drive them around, simps on dating apps , and often some combination of the three
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:23 PM
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I will say, men willing to simp for women in any age group and give them money and support is pretty much immutable as a trait in human nature. Antisemitism, racism, hedonism, gluttony, sexism, Simpology, these things will never falter. They are the backbones of human meaning for a significant % of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:22 PM
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One of the few womens issues I will sympathize with is that women can rarely say the truth without engaging men. I say this shit all the time and men cope and seethe but if a woman says it most guys will flip lmao. Most guys refuse to acknowledge they are not interesting or hot enough to be interesting to women. That is a fact of reality that they have to work VERY hard to change and 90% will not. Mediocrity is not an option nowadays. You have to be above average, noticeably so. 80-90th percenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:18 PM
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Fat chicks are weird to touch because there's all this fat sorrounding the most sensitive parts of their bodies For example you caress a morbidly obese woman's stomach you're just trailing your hand over massive fat roles and when you massage her back it's just these slabs of fatty tissue. I used to do massage and the difference in sensitivity between fat women and thin women, and men a like, was night and day. Fatty tissue has sensation of course but it's not the same it just feels inert and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:13 PM
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Quality over quantity man. I see so many attractive women in a day but I don't even feel a strong sexual attraction to most then a few times a year someone blows my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:09 PM
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So why is the guy in the gif extremely hot and ripped ? Why not choose a skinny sweaty nervous looking guy saying "I'm so confident!" Oh yeah, because everyone knows when you're fakijg it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:06 PM
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She looks like a dry pear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:05 PM
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She is having sex with him knowing that he might commit to a relationship he's not sure on and become unhappy. She's doing exactly that. She's abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:03 PM
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As a man it's your responsibility to slap cheeks damnit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:01 PM
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Exactly. Not everyone doing anything has to be a victim in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:59 PM
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Wouldn't that mean men are more sexually altruistic as they will provide sexual service when it's not fun? : s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:59 PM
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To me it sounds like she's not respecting his boundaries and is trying to coerce and pressure him in to a relationship. Very unethical. She's abusive and trying to use sex to control him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:58 PM
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Damn men always slacking while women continue to suffer in noble servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:56 PM
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Do you ever get weird Dms on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:54 PM
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Hook me up I'm dying bro. My P meter is flashing red over here :(
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/25 09:55 PM
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It's just another way to trip you up in the weeds and blame yourself for shit you can't control . It happens a million ways Oh man I have been being nice when I should have been being kind?!? Let the good times rollll
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/25 07:59 AM
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You have women around at your crib right now, kind guy?
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/25 07:58 AM
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I want these micro plastics out of my god damned balls. Also make it illegal not to be nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:01 AM
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Ahhh hehehe. Ya used to be a baby eh 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:47 AM
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Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:47 AM
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Then maybe take a breathe and say so every time to disparage men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:41 AM
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Good thing women are always running to the rescue of those in danger and never painting it over to enable abusers. Wew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:42 PM
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As they get older they will be like "oh my I am shocked that ever happened, surely it must have been something else". Happens with abusers all the time and never ceases to make me laugh. Particularly older parents who were abusive to their younger teenagers. The narrative twisting is master class
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:38 PM
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Heh did you say you had sexual urges when you had your period? Hehehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:35 PM
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Lmao it is known
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:31 PM
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I guess I can just thank feminism for my lack of ass wiping bang maid as a contribution to my life for my min wage job. Thanks feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:18 PM
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I just let people believe what they want about me tbh. You can believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:11 PM
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Truth drives people to either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:58 PM
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Device or devotion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:47 PM
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Ooo meow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:25 PM
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Because I'm a man and we've dominated the world for hundreds of thousands of years you would think that you'd actually want to learn after centuries of being enslaved but apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:19 PM
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Then no one should respect anything you have to say on the topic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:17 PM
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Step up and be a FATHER instead of a coward . After all she is a STRONG survivor of abuse and just trying to make it in the world. Don't act like you don't see this narrative every fuckin day man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:15 PM
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Economically that's what women do, as they represent 80% of the spending on consumer goods and men give them endless money for no fuckin reason at all. We all know men are usually fine with a decent life though of course some are incredibly ambitious. Recently I am more convinced that this is all just long game by Russia and if it exists whatever the NWO is. There were whistle blowers in the 80s saying that the plan was to indoctrinate education systems with Marxist ideological thinking and egal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:14 PM
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" A REAL MAN would .. "
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:07 PM
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I'd love to hear a take half this empathetic toward what men experience but I doubt I will ever see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:06 PM
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LOL thank you for this I'm glad I followed the conversation this far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:04 PM
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It's clear she's just treating it like a game lol women here do it all the time , it's despicable because she already knows what she's doing. This shit irritates me to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:03 PM
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Women are individuals. Men are not considered as such. The reason it's frustrating is because the rules change based on the way the conversation is going. For example generalizations. Generalizations against men are fine but against women not fine at all. Immediately people will double back and say "oh I don't generalize .. but patriarchy and men...." You know because they've said it a thousand times but they shut down conversation with stupid little tactics like that. It's frustrating because m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:02 PM
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I didn't realize it that was the question. Why isn't this comment deleted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:58 PM
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The world isn't ready for this kind of logistical truth dude LOL. They will ridicule you to death for saying something so sick and on point. They will act like you're the only person to ever realize this meanwhile throughout history infanticide by women specifically for eugenics reasons has been the norm and not the exception But people don't care about history or how we got where we are they just care about how they can wear the present culture to fit in. You better dress nice and keep the trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:47 PM
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Good day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:34 PM
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Oof those are some powerful points. I think there was a much more chill way to do this whole equalizing thing and what people don't understand is we didn't have the opportunity before 1800, when the industrial revolution happened and it benefited the ultra rich first, then by like 1920s we are already starting to dig in on women's rights which is crazy fast Like basically as industry spread as soon as it was possible society started to adjust because the laws were quickly outdated. But somehow, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:34 PM
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I think if you're ugly the world treats you worse and that creates a lot of pain others don't have to deal with. This is pretty well established scientifically tbh . Not that I am advocating looks based shit here but people should be aware that personality and looks is not a joke, it takes a rare type of beautiful person to be treated like a monster their entire life because of their looks and still care about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:22 PM
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I don't think it's any of those things. I think the sour grapes comes from women who don't want to up their game or value in order to secure and maintain relationships with those men. Women get rejected and get upset and blah blah blah. Men are bad blah blah. Then guys who are inexperienced or morally cucked by themselves, resentful fuckers who hate people who are living their lives, see an opportunity where they can say "see m'lady" They adopt or attempt to exploit that bitterness and resentmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:20 PM
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What were some of the first buzz words you heard to infect the culture? Man spreading, man splaining, patriarchy, the male gaze Most of us just ignored it because we were like wtf is this privileged shit I have no time for this Then "problematic" was the buzzword that led the whole SJW thing and man hating got slid in with that to create what the conservative tards actually accurately call the woke mind virus. But their understanding of where it came from and why is not founded in reality. We kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:00 PM
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Basically, a large % of women want you to bear the entire brunt of rejection in the beginning of the relationship. This might not be something they even inherently realize they’re doing, or even have experience to know how this feels… it’s just something they’re accustomed to This is why women often crave the pain rejection creates. It can be so psychologically devastating but how does this internal belief or experience play out in their day to day lives? It's latent narcisstic behavior. Expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:48 PM
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No punches pulled I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:40 PM
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It's not my goal in life but byeeee. I always enjoy people with fake kindness haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:35 PM
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I am a very judgmental person. So are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:12 PM
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Idk it just gave me the impression you were trying to convince yourself that you'd be ok with like, whatever that future brings. I barely remember now sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:09 PM
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I feel like you read what I wrote and then thought "so what was the need for women?" And then realised you couldn't think of one and then protected on to my comment that I thought that. Women are soft, they smell good even when they are sweaty and gross and they inspire men to do better and kill eachother in the name of their vanity. And make babies of course I guess. Women are pretty dope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:08 PM
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That what you said is probably not going to hold true for you in the long run. My point in saying it is so that it doesn't get mistaken as genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:10 PM
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Most women say and believe that until they are actually in it and the virtue signalling dies down. Have to lie to yourself to get what you want sometimes in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:58 PM
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Oh. Single women in rural homes living by candle light and taking care of the homestead and all their financial needs by themselves did just as well as men. Interesting I didn't know that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:25 PM
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It's not total destitution I mean most people with mild health issues live until their 60s + these days. Plus most people will just say "aw that sounds awful" and carry on anyway when you have health issues LOL. Not to mention the narcisstic value one gets from being a "caring wife enduring the brunt of their husbands declining health " :(:(:(. It's a very perfect victim narrative for women to roll with. Marry wealthy out of shape guy. he is often sick and doesn't want to have sex, preoccupied w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:42 PM
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It REALLY is up to each person to communicate what they WANT and DON'T WANT. You know this. Now you're making it personal for some reason. 🙄 Personally my sexual interests are way more dynamic than wanting to just bust a nut and it annoys and bores me when things are too simple and unga bunga at first. Since people don't spend time talking about sex and building different scenarios they just express it all at a base level of desire (vulgar) instead of building a bridge between what they want tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:28 AM
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Women have pretty much always worked outside of child rearing. Especially since in most places, child rearing was a communal affair and not placed solely on the nuclear family. Women benefit from having a village rather than being isolated in suburban castles So how does this work then like theoretically because I've been chewing on it for a bit and I should probably just research it myself but yeah. Since we are talking about it. I'm not talking about suburban castles but rather urban farm hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:21 AM
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IDK why women need to "communicate" to men to touch our clits Well I don't know why either. Maybe men ARE more selfish but the point still stands that women are responsible for communicating their needs not being mind read and then sulking about it like children. Men's sexual selfishness isn't excused by lack of "communication" Men are , in this context anyway, getting what they want so in their minds their communication is sufficient. Why do they have to do the thinking for women who can easily…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:55 AM
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Because women were often legally gatekept from being able to acquire much wealth for themselves, if any at all, without a husband. How would most women go about gaining wealth seperate of their families anyway? Like the husband and his brothers or whatever build the house, he works to bring home money to support the farm or small house etc. So how did women make money to buy their own houses and such. When women are more allowed to reap the benefits of their labor power and they have less econom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:48 AM
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Whose responsibility is it for women to communicate their own needs and ensure their own sexual satisfaction? It's not complicated. You are responsible for communicating things. Women in general are. If they are too nervous or feel to entitled to even bother communicating it then they don't deserve to cum they can seethe about it. Meanwhile other women will tie you down and ride your face until you almost die , I don't hear them complaining. Likewise others will be like I want my pussy eaten fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:18 AM
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Whose responsibility is it for women to communicate their needs and ensure their own satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:11 AM
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Whose responsibility is it to ensure your needs and make sure you get satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:10 AM
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Well, it is about you, because guys are eating pussy and women are riding their faces like cowgirls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:08 AM
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It's sort of like when guys start negotiating attraction and being like OHH if she actually is in to me then she will do xyz why isn't she doing insert myriad of things Like I guess what I'm saying is your general point here is that men don't want to give women head and eat pussy and like, it goes without saying that men are absolutely dogs for pussy if it's women they really want. So I'm not trying to make it personal or make you feel bad but there's probably reasons guys don't want to eat your…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:05 AM
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We have to go by orgasms per hour worked not general monthly orgasms 😆just like the wage gap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:59 AM
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It sounds like they just aren't in to you to be honest. Not to be mean but we hear this shit all the time to men so it's only fair to mention like, you're complaint here is that men aren't in to you and trust me that's not an experience most attractive women have or complain about in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:56 AM
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Why do women settle for less when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:52 AM
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Wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:50 AM
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Seems like they did fine when families weren't involved no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:48 AM
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Seems fair. It's actually morally right for you to support my kid and it's better for society. Get to it thanks I am off to sew my seeds elsewhere! Byeee
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:40 AM
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I didn't get through the whole post OP so sorry but just to give my 1 cent before I forget, I have always thought" financial abortion " would solve most of these problems earlly on as it would cause women to be much more careful if they knew "child support" wasn't as guaranteed. But the logistics of that I'm not sure about. It's just what makes the most sense to me without thinking too deeply on it. Maybe it's a really bad idea in practice. So given that, ofc it would extend elsewhere like to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:37 AM
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Exactly right. So that means that finding a decent guy who had charming traits but you weren't necessarily attracted to deeply was a really good deal and before social media not hard to find. So duty sex would be a norm and act of love. I'm just saying that for anyone who is disagreeing I don't see how it could be any other way and men not might like to hear it but that was normal. Another thing that I think is becoming a problem is the degrading if the whole "beta bucks" "alpha fucks" thing. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:33 AM
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You have to be hot enough that women show visible interest to you consistently and have problems trying to conceal it for this to work be the way it is imo. With this mentality and having to say it you're begging to be lied to by a chick who likes you for everything but that , imo. Like I guess what I'm saying is even if you're an above average guy in terms of attraction there will still be an element of "duty sex" where women aren't always in the mood but through their affection towards you the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:28 AM
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This whole thread reminds me of the Louis CK bored handjob bit where he's talking about how hot it was when his ex wife would just be like "ugh fine" and jerk him off before going to sleep. Sounds sort of lame when I put it like that but the way he delivers it is masterful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:23 AM
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Men will settle for someone they like sexually, but don't want to be around, and women will settle for someone they like, but aren't very attracted This pretty much explains most of human history. I think as marriages go on, they start more like this and then gradually the roles reverse which leads to men slipping out to see escorts and women belittling and becoming abusive to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:21 AM
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Most of the most hardworking, thoughtful and compassionate guys who you could trust with your life that I know are relatively unfit and don't take care of themselves anywhere nearly as much as women do. These guys will throw down their lives for you and they care about eachother in genuine ways as well as having their own personality quirks. As I was just speculating and I'm always wondering about this recently, just how WERE women supposed to feel "safe" in the entire history of humanity when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:16 AM
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Historically weren't spinsters and single older women really rare? Because most of the time people are thinking 1800s+ with the advent of electric, cars, and all the things which make modern life so lovely. Historically a huge amount of women reproduced like 80% whereas less than half of men did (I could be wrong though I need to check that). So as ideal as it is to say the things you've said OP like that women are happier single and sexless than men are etc, it seems like historically women eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:07 AM
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Is that enough for most people? I'm not sure how much the former is intertwined in the latter but it is to some degree because someone who is just to the more extreme end of mediocrity is going to have a harder time really empathizing with the struggles of someone who has their sights in life set else where. But I guess if you're just two chill people who want a chill life then it makes perfect sense to bridge a relationship with that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:14 PM
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When you have higher standards for yourself you run the risk of developing a lot of negative self talk which can be psychologically crushing, however It you are able to be patient and forgive your mistakes and learn etc, the only way to ever help others feel safe or loved is to hold yourself accountable to higher standards. Imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:34 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:48 AM
2

Yeah it would work against her but not as significantly as you seem to think. On its own or even with a shady precedence of consent like say they were texting about doing cocaine and drinking when she got there, you know, the contract is really not a factor that is going to weigh heavily versus a few days of spicy texts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:45 AM
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A sex resumee on the other hand is an AWESOME idea because you can call around and make sure she is a good sexual partner LOL. Good idea me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:42 AM
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The contract isn't legally binding or anything it's just helpful in building a pattern of enthusiastic consent. All the text messages and contracts in the world won't mean shit if she said she wanted to stop and he didn't. That puts it at the same place so imo if there's a text trail etc the contract won't really help that much if at all and is a bit corny. It's not going to intimidate anyone with an IQ over 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:41 AM
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Because rape is a precious point of identity politics for some women and it feels like you're taking it away from her. That's why she's doing it. Everything you said has made sense though. Having a contract signed also helps with things like consecutive meetings where if she has signed it twice or three times but then gets angry at you after and accuses you, there's a pattern there. The most likely ways a false accusation happens is because the guy dumps her (resentment, jealousy, ego hurt), she…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:38 AM
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Shes accusing him of rape so that is the point. It's proof they had intercourse. This isn't rocket science I don't know why you're belittling the point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:30 AM
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IN THE END WE ALL BLAMED YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:42 PM
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I hope this doesn't count as circle jerking because your post is why the red pill is so important. If more women actually said this shit out loud then guys would go ohhh she's a bitch wah wah but even the white knight tards would be on board with it. Regardless it is red pilled af in the older sense of the idea. So just to add to one part you wrote, the idea of days and days and then the days become weeks and the weeks become years of doing little tiny things to improve your appearance. Consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:42 PM
2

No son of mine will be cucked by me so it will be the beginner of his character arc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:31 PM
2

Who is she she looks moody and bored. I would tell my son she had to leave early because he had xyz, then I would seduce her and clap cheeks on the front lawn. Then I'd text with her a bit so I had evidence like "just don't tell Paul" or whatever I named the poor bastard then when he woke up in the morning I'd show him the text message and be like never date a whore my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:29 PM
1

I'm not a woman but the answer is Tony Craig and most women who read this will have looked and instantly decided but then pretend to care about all the other shit and do jungle gym mental exercises. ADMIT YOU KNOW AS SOON AS YOU SEE THAT MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:26 PM
1

"then may I have some pussy m'lady " :'( brutal highway robbery
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:55 PM
1

Honestly nice guy. Loyal friend. Would be dream friends with him again 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:46 AM
1

Like a vampire : I All you have to do is fuck hot women and you get to live forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:42 AM
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Exactly and I'm supposed to just wake up and carry on about my morning like that never happened. Nah fuck that this day is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:35 AM
2

Would I , a 36 year old, fuck a hot 22 year old. Hmmmmmmmmm. No omg ewwqqq what would we even talk about. Ewwwww we have nothing in common what would we do just fuck all day?;?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:34 AM
2

What the fuck. I had a fever dream I was roommates with Jeremy Meeks and he was gay and super crushing on this other guy and he and I became really good friends and were talking about pills and stuff then he joined a music group and I came by and I had put on a black bandana to cover my face because it was cold and he was complimenting me. Then his chick shot herself but upon further inspection she had replaced her body with a dolls body and the real her is still at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:31 AM
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Kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:44 AM
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To the point in your post, the silicon valley nerd who is physically fit and mentally/emotionally strong is in the best position to walk in any door and command more respect intuitively even if as a group we are conforming to the established hierarchy. So in a room full of rich 70 year old skeleton men , the 25 year old doing door security is the "Alpha", likewise a man who is 45 but has strong physical health and constitution is going to be more well placed to have mate selection than his wealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:44 AM
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That's correct but it's still wrong. The actual way to measure it in terms of mate selection is by libido strength. Those with strong libidos have , obviously, stronger mating potential, regardless of status or any other factor. Nothing more matters than that in terms of what opens the door for being "Alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:38 AM
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OP I've written this before but don't often so hopefully you'll read it. Alpha and Beta traits in chimps specifically actually do exist , and this isn't often talked about in science but the quantifying factor you want to be aware of is Reactive vs Proactive Aggression You can probably begin to infer but in chimp tribes there was a time that alpha traits allowed more resource acquisition and dominance, mate hoarding etc. This can happen but even these days it's rare. Such chimps would be particu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:32 AM
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I ADMIT it!!! You exposed me!!! Yeah. Because egalitarianism is enforced all the time it only is questioned when weaponized in a way that goes against whatever the winning agenda is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:49 PM
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Guy A is pretty fucked up but his life sounds less traumatic than a lot of people I know. It's funny OP because the bus I used to take went right by the prison and guys would be out on programs and stuff if they were doing well, and I saw this absolute Giga Chad with this older much less attractive woman trying to get him in line and help him out you could just tell it was this stereotype. Anyway, we haaaaave to assume that guy A is good looking if women are begging for his baby batter so that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:28 PM
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Check is hard drives then for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:21 PM
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Every cultural empowerment toward women is based on quelling women's fear of everything so I guess you're probably right which is why men with common sense don't bother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:53 PM
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It would be if I didn't think egalitarianism is retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:06 PM
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Yes that's egalitarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:02 PM
1

Oh in terms of like "my reputation will be at stake"? Or like "omgggg my body count will increase and my telomeres will unravel faster" type thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:57 PM
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A little bit of burnt on some food is nice but I will definitely be avoiding anything like that on chicken in the future lol. :') better than too raw I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:29 PM
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But but but why did men oppress women for centuries by not inventing cars and electricity sooner so that women could work and build their own homes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:28 PM
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No I understand you were being sarcastic. Tbh I ate some burnt chicken and now I have a headache so I am going to give up on the conversation lolol cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:26 PM
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But why not? The only consistent answer I've found is that they are operating from fear and self preservation on every decision they make. So they can't approach a guy they really like incase he's crazy but at the same time they want him to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:25 PM
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Well you seem to be suggesting it's laudable that a woman break down where her preferences come from or am I misunderstanding? Sorry if so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:21 PM
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What is this trying to communicate? Like just fucking use your God damned words. Why are people so fucking dumb and playing these dumb ass games all the time Hehehe I was just being coy miss but I wanted you to know but alas, the time has passed though, mayhap you can talk me out of it? Hehe. BRO WHO ARE YOU. Ask how her day is jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:08 PM
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Hm so are women conditioned by the patriarchy or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:04 PM
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Men aren't a monolith babe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:43 PM
4

I can't stop abusing it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:51 PM
1

True. This one is tough it seems like deprivation is inevitable despite side effects
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:01 AM
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Fuck sounds like women are completely stuck and helpless when it comes to dating if only they were capable of saying the word hi unprompted ughhhhh brutal :(:(::(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:59 AM
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My logic is egalitarianism I thought that's what was the fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:57 AM
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You won't die without lots of things lol. Guys who want physical touch should really consider shilling out for escorts once they have the money it's not that expensive but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:56 AM
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That's just ego bullshit. If you want to fuck you fuck if not you don't. No women in reality go damn I want his dick in me but I better not because my value :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:36 AM
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Ideally sure but since that's not the case no one should be allowed because women should decanter men as they advise men to do. Fair is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:35 AM
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I guess by this point women should be benevolent and caring for men the way men have had to carry women for Millenia before the invention of electric power and the car. Wew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:47 AM
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I don't disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:28 PM
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Think about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:27 PM
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Women are so stupid it can take 100 years for them to understand they can work for their own living. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:52 PM
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A few of the chicks I dated would tell me like "girls can smell desperation", turns out if they are attracted to you that's a good thing. If they aren't then you're a creep. If they actually like you then they will call you a slut etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:50 PM
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(⁠⊙⁠_⁠◎⁠) "Hey babe have you fucked other women?". . .. ..... . "Mebe" Very serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:47 PM
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Yeah but they don't know that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:45 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:44 PM
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You see what happens here right. You insert yourself. Look at replies by women in all these threads. They always handwave the initial comment and then insert themselves. Every. Single. Time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:43 PM
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As soon as I see a phrase like "women's safety concerns" my eyes roll and I tune out. I don't expect any woman I ever meet to understand why that is, but I've been alive 36 years and all I've heard the entire time is how dire women's needs are while they treat men like shit. Idgaf about anything to do with it. Fuck it never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:39 PM
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The real truth man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 PM
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Most people just take it as a licence to get fat then play on others sympathies while everyone encourages the other partner not to "be mean"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:34 PM
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Well you are either nice or you are mean. That's the mentality. "If you're mean then it's morally ok to treat you any way. If you're nice then I will begrudgingly be nice if I am socially strong armed in to it. But the way I respond is based on how you act" That's the self preservationist solipsistic nature of women at play and because of that they will always be trying to bully men in to submission just like men try to pressure them in to sex. Both are selfish and I would argue equivalently dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:14 PM
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This has to be a bait post right ? So men can just keep killing themselves in record numbers while women buy fuckin bags and trinkets for instagram and then "ahem I have an idea. Have you tried doing more for women?" It just has to be rage bait. It's made me disproportionately angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:59 PM
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Too bad you must remain alone forever now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:42 PM
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Dw man that's the way it is 99.9% of the time. This post has to be bait because it's literally a "are you guys stupid ?" Meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:26 PM
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I will simply wait for a yacht to show up for me because it is the logical choice. Why would I do anything else? Are people stupid? : s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:25 PM
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Because we can't be? Is this a joke question or something or bait? Or is the empathy gap really that fuckin huge haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:24 PM
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Gotcha yeah. I agree with that So how do we deal with the physical need for touch that is evidently very important. Is it just a sort of, sex worker thing? I mean it's historically the most prevalent way to deal with it and the women who do it are just in business for themselves as any other women so. Maybe we should be encouraging that behavior more as a society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:20 PM
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There’s nothing women can really do to get men to decenter them if they don’t want to. As long as everything is equal then women should not be in relationships either. That way they are on the same playing Feild. It's very easy to say to people to do one thing when you don't have to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:18 PM
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So you're going to stay single forever or are you just pushing it on others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:16 PM
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That's merely how you have been socially and culturally programmed/conditioned . It's sad Where is the line? Food? Health? Any relationships? Happiness? Like you can just say everything is culturally conditioned but you don't even recognize where culture comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:16 PM
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It is ultimately cope. It's like going on a diet you aren't going to be very happy without sensual touch it's a form of deprivation men must endure while women don't have to unless they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:14 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:13 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:52 AM
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I expect women to cater to my comfort and if they have out bursts they must be removed because they are dangerous to all men. That's equality baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:50 AM
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Could you be happy with a disrespectful conscientious slob sitting around your place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:40 AM
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I am still in love with a chick with Indian genetics that I talked to once 5 years ago. :( pain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:38 AM
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I agree with that advice 100% but would you be willing to expand on your own reasoning? Discipline and conscientiousness seem dependent on eachother to a degree. I think that's part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:35 AM
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Still far better than someone obese with sweat up in the folds on a hot day. People will choose the leaner but "unhealthy" person because the fat person with bad eating habits has the exact same issues but fatter. To your point though, fit is ideal because it suggests a degree of discipline which suggests a degree of reliability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:33 AM
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😭 I think this thread is making me sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:31 AM
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These are priorities that make or break relationships, unironically. I can't stand to even speak with the boomers and late Gen xs who are deep in the sexless relationships because hurrr gotta keep the misses happy so I just jerk off in the toilet and watch ma sports. What a nightmare yeah, but what an example to your fuckin kids man. These guys make me sick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:30 AM
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Physical fitness is the difference between a big fat chick with a weak emotional constitution and a hot slim chick with good control of her body and therefore mind , hanging around my apartment. Unless you're living in cognitive dissonance or some shit you're going to wake up and think god damn that fat fucker is still in my living room isn't she. I better hide. I guarantee you blue pillers in married situations have these exact same feelings and repress them because once in a while one breaks d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:26 AM
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Multiple it by teenagers with little real life experience that build their worldview largely from the stuff they see online, and you'll get generations of people who have never been on a date, but really do hate men/women. Fuck that's dark
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:23 AM
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I personally just like seeing a fair fight so in discourse when I see women generalizing men I expect that men should be able to fight just as dirty. Often times the tone policing goes one way and I think that's not very fun for anyone involved and is almost like politics in that it's created an expectation that men have to concede their positions and act better whereas women can be like Fuckin FUVKEM MEN I'M FUCKN DRUNO GICE ME DAT etc etc . Hopefully you get my point. Well the other issue wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:36 PM
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Exactly. Most women who become unraveled end up with an intense fear and self preservation toward men (fear of men, one could call it lol, uh, manophobes) That for the most part happens because they've doubled down on exploiting men their entire lives and the guilt gets to them The innocent masses of suicidal guys are seen as threats to them and so when they cry about it, that's how those guys get framed. So basically if you're one of those guys your options are fucking kill yourself or suffer, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:04 PM
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To clarify, by serious minded I meant that women are generally more neurotic about what could go wrong in general, so we are generally more serious about what we want to get out of life and what we want our future to look like I agree and suspect this is probably part of mate choosing as men are expected to be sacrificial and willing to die to provide for or protect the family while the woman is vulnerable with children etc, which most men are born proud to do. So for this reason women are much …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:59 PM
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That's exactly what red pillers would expect haha but man good for you. Men need to stop giving money and special treatment to women period or things will never equalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:45 PM
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So first of all try not to feel deflated by the responses you're going to get here by women because they are obviously going to just take one thing they disagree with and derail the entire post for it. You already know why lol. I thought it was really well written tbh and captures this specific social shift well. Chris Williamson tapped in to this about 1.5 years ago or so with the male sedation hypothesis (being a Giga Chad he is naturally pilled and super sympathetic to incels and men who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:38 PM
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That's what the youth would call based AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:23 PM
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Most men will never find a partner in life who loves them for them , and so they will naturally strive to find purpose and meaning instead. Or they will fall in to resentment which is normal and not some cardinal sin despite what society would have you believe. The so called dangerous murderous demographic of young men hasn't done anything but kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:23 PM
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But women generally are always more selective and more serious minded compared to the men who are their same age I think that's actually a contentious point because most of the guys I knew growing up who wanted relationships and gave a shit were looking to build lives while women played games but . Women do not engage with the entire male dating market Yeah they do, it's just that the whole market doesn't appear relevant to them. That's why they are overpricing themselves at every turn. It's lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:38 PM
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Same tbh they also smell better and are generally more pleasant speak to and be around lolol. You and I can be bros though if you like 🖖🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:54 PM
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instead of looking down on women who are at a stage of looking at dating more seriously after a longer stage of dating for fun and not with long term intention or whatever the reason, maybe take another look at how you are framing things to yourself. Mmm. But that's why they are not to be taken seriously for relationships unless they show some sort of quality that is exceptional. It's just nature's processes. I think men just learn that it is ruthless way younger because no one is gassing them u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:53 PM
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Athletes already have achieved something relatively impressive. That's sort of what I was getting at with the other response I sent. I like the way you think though, it's more balanced than I thought at first (no disrespect intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:37 PM
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Ok I hear you I think. That's sort of my suspicion and I can't prove this obviously but I think men's mental health is highly dependent on their success in life and can't be "faked", and their personalities can be improved somewhat through introspection but compared to actual sources of power it's not really substantial. So like you take a lonely incel and wave a magic wand and give him some money and good looks and a quality therapist and obviously he's going to change and improve because he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:36 PM
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If the whole point of dating for more fun is to make up for old resentments and wield “leverage” as revenge No you're still missing the point but I'm not expressing it well either. Revenge is sort of an illusion. Victory for one person can be suffering for another, so if you are dating women who have not received the like, idk, the force of maturity that you had to, you can't really sympathize with them you end up looking down on them. It's hard to explain. It's not that there's malicious intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:25 PM
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What really annoys me about this rhetoric is that it's just buzz words that get repeated over and over again for decades. Charisma and confidence king go get it! Aging boomers and alcoholic copers can believe it while they rot but young guys need to understand that women will be interested in them when they see it demonstrated that they are competent at doing whatever they do because that's where confidence from men comes from. It can't be faked. It never could be faked. It's a byproduct of maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:22 PM
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Men who have confidence and charisma are not even aware those are things. Most guys just call that working together and cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:18 PM
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:( and don't forget to wash your face after use good cleanser especially around the nose area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:17 PM
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That resentment for the past is the most important thing I mean by late bloomers. I think there's still some misunderstanding here least from what I've experienced and men who are successful that I know have experienced, players included, and that's that men at that age still have to work to get women's attention even if they are really good looking. There's still an imbalance, still a demand of resources, and women at that age value themselves in one way like they are gods and in the other like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:12 PM
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Bring towels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:49 PM
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Lol fuck it is true though. But I enjoy how quickly this thought process can turn in to watching two guys fuck eachother like "See this is how it's done. Beautiful"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:18 PM
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I'd rather watch a man fuck a woman than two women fuck eachother because men fuck women better than women do. Gg losers. No homo. 😎 It's like the difference between men and women's sports LOL. Idk I need to stfu I don't actually give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:50 PM
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he’s also likely just not a very stable prospect to be as appealing to his age range either as he is to younger more impulsive women. Because like I mentioned, I think everyone’s standards for dating behavior get higher as we age. And yet to men you've already had experiences they can't even understand or conceptualize. So the fun times get more serious, the demands go up meanwhile your bargaining position gets lower , men would rather show that fun time to a younger woman and try to secure her …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:40 PM
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From the men I’ve known who fall into that “unstable maverick” category (one of them being my own red pilled brother 😭), some common themes I’ve seen is that they are somewhat late bloomers in certain ways and have strong feelings about that if you know what I mean. Idk about late bloomer because I definitely had relationships and girls attention growing up, but the resentment for me toward women is that they always had such a multitude of options they never had to really treat anything seriousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:37 PM
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Just make a tinder match with guys who have money and leave a cash app link that's what most chicks do. You have to be some level of stupid to not know how to leverage simps for money. I don't even had a moral judgment against it tbh. Those dudes deserve to be exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:02 PM
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Nope. It's just about finding a woman I could spend most my day around and trust. I'm not an overly social person and such as it is but a partner who checked all my boxes is still hard to come by so like most women I just don't want to settle and have no reason too. Also haven't been in to hookups or dating with few exceptions the last 6 years or so as a result of the whole thing and scarcity of potential partners. I find people really boring for the most part and would rather focus on ideas or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:21 AM
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That comment was hopefully a meme or bait or something no way are guys running around that brain dead but it is every boomers mentality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:00 AM
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The metric for single men is "issues communicating with women"? Just to be clear you're saying that's what keeps men single? So what is good communication with women? Let me guess. Yes dear. Of course dear. Anything you say dear. (See boys that's how it's done ;) ;) )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:59 AM
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Pretty/fit women in their 30s are ideal partners, I mean those that have taken care of themselves and from what I've seen it carries on to be age appropriate all throughout life. I am curious what you mean by "unstable maverick types" pursuing younger women. I don't disagree, you're even realistic enough to say that they can just as well be good looking and financially attractive, so what makes them different from men pursuing women their own age I wonder? Having been in that situation myself I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:55 AM
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Because guys are still giving her money. You give her money, she buys weed and booze to lay around and fuck her boyfriend then gives you some sob story and you and whoever else whose giving her money do it again and again because you think you're saving her. Good job man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:37 AM
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be me, woman before OLD go out to pub or bar or club get let in ahead of men because bar wants women in there get free drinks from simps get men offering to take me out for dinner on dates men bringing gifts to dates hehe uwu thank you Sugar daddies tale old as time OLD advent 10,000 simps armies wide please m'lady can I give you money literal fetishes for giving women money. Finsubs, pay pigs, literally something called "Silent sends" LMAO. armies of simps lined up in women's dms on any social …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:34 AM
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laugh track plays in background good one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:30 AM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:59 PM
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So they basically did the same thing feminists did , which would make sense since they are both groups that are universally ridiculed and hard to take seriously, as they both operate under the slave morality that nature needs to be changed to suit their own agenda. Two sides of the same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:56 PM
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You act like it's all or nothing but it isn't. : s. Many people sustain dysfunctional marriages for years and live content but mediocre lives they aren't quite happy with. Compromise is possible and people do it all the time but it isn't really authentic. You don't have to regress to living in caves. Marriage itself is an institution designed to drive us away from harem based mating structures, force men to take a single wife or a few depending on the religion and have many children (workers, po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:38 PM
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"I don't even know you why am I supposed to buy you shit? Are you someone important? Celebrity?" Normal retard. It doesn't matter to me when she tells me she wants me to pay, it's her problem not mine lol. Idc what she's vetting for. If she's so deranged she thinks I should be paying for her time she needs help. Most women I meet have barely accomplished anything with their lives. Shouldn't they be paying me? Like what? Yeah I'd go in a date with her because she's probably hot if she's that reta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:19 PM
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Egalitarianism is the death of economic prosperity and people have been saying that since the 70s at least. We either revert backward like trads want to or we evolve technologically to the point that we can keep a substantial work force motivated. Right now we are pacifying with video games porn weed etc , it will only last so long. That's been pretty obvious for 5 years or so in most media spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:11 PM
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Interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:56 PM
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Good advice for orphans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:09 PM
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I don't ever see this seen in any other context than that women need to choose better and use their frontal lobes a bit. Men know if they want better they have to increase their own value to substantially above the level they are willing to work with. If you have a good product it sells reliably. If it's not wanted it stops selling. Women start with a higher value but don't understand all the ways they need to grow and learn to keep a relationship with someone they want, namely they have to both…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:08 PM
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Love it. I was going to suggest the same. OP still doesn't understand that this isn't a negotiation between sexes where we adjust the rules and compromise ground. You're either in or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:02 PM
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That and sexual frustration creating neuroticism in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:05 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:39 AM
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Blue pill is oldies rock and everyone is way beyond bored of it but if you put red pill on the radio it's still not getting cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:39 AM
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I will allow it no foul fair play
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:36 AM
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"getting a date" isn't something worth necessarily chasing is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:24 AM
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That's the way I always understood it at first too. It was like bar / gym bros just talking about life experiences on body building forums and Chan's back in the day, was always my impression. It got more like, theoretical at some point? It's funny you'd mention that last part though I remember about 10 years ago reading about TRP being like huh you guys are just figuring this stuff out now? Sounds like what happened is like you mentioned. A bunch of guys threw it together like a spark notes lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:22 AM
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???? Are you trying to do a gotcha? These aren't the same thing lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:16 AM
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the privilege of paying for my meal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:06 AM
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How is trp "supposed to work" or are you talking about PUA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:05 AM
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What's the point of a comment like this or do you just need to take advantage of a moment to incite someone further instead of at least trying to life them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:04 AM
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If TRP was accurate it wouldn’t have to be “sales pitched” as a leading theory. By what logic ? Shitty ideas get overplayed all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:03 AM
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Toby isn't just a "sex toy", he's also a fuckin dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:23 AM
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It circles right back around to "an unexamined life is not worth living", or in modern terms "look at dat mofo, twice. "
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:54 PM
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Women spend a lot of that sweet sweet cash money so it's going to be a swing before we start seeing man not so bad after all campaigns but yeah I agree. Someone suggested that women are just too OP now that they have full equality in society. They were OP with soft power before but now it's like nah they are just in need of a nerf somehow. The obesity patch in America didn't work out as well as the devs hoped though. They underestimated the will of men lol. Definitely very off topic but the need…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:01 PM
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Man I get shook sometimes when I was by an old person in a crowd and they are invisible to me and I realize my mind tuned them out. It's probably one of the more common but also primitive things my brain does that I haven't yet caught up with. One vs one walking by or waiting for something np I chat with old people all the time but in certain situations they are just ghosts to me and I have to correct my brain like yo that person could have very well been a pro fighter or something else with a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:09 PM
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It's your own prerogative no worries I was just suggesting because the word has different connotations to different people. No worries though homie I still get your points and agree with most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:12 PM
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One lady told me about the inside of one of the larger pyramids she visited and how the most center area was more or less roped off for tourists but like, the pyramid itself is wild as fuck still you know, no one is walking around in there freely. Little details like that from first hand experience you can really pick up on. That lady could be dead now rip
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:10 PM
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You should be able to expand on it just like any other word than, like "happy" or "sad"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:07 PM
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So men can have "status" on their own, but the best or only way women can get "status" is by being with a man? This just confirms that women are less treated as persons than men. Can you show me where I even implied that? Can a poor person only get money by marrying rich? What? Expecting men to be responsible fathers, is not the objectification of men The conversation wasn't narrowed down to parameters of pregnancy and paternity, the objectification of both sexes is far outside established relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:00 PM
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Sure. The same way men objectify women as good prospects for mothers who will make strong intelligent children? Do you accept that each sexes view can be framed negatively or positively and that one isn't inherently worse than the other? The equivalent of your perspective is "Men admire women's sexual beauty because they see them as strong and beautiful and able to be good mothers and fierce individuals , whereas women see men as walking wallets and slaves or rapists". That's the actual equivale…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:39 AM
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Less than that. Men are just vessels for the money , status etc they provide. Where do you even get off pretending women don't treat men as objects this isn't a university echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:46 AM
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It's weird that you project pity and rage on to that honestly. Maybe telling of how disconnected from reality you are. Idk. But there was none of that in that conversation at all. I think you just think "oh wow I can't lie or bullshit my way through that" = threatening = must be a problem with them not me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:30 AM
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Be me I am a woman. want attention idea. walk in to room strip naked men swarm at me they are all ugly MEN ARE CREEPS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:58 AM
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But a woman's body is an object in nature just like a man is an object in nature. This isn't a philosophical debate about what a soul is but rather two biological organisms lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:54 AM
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Damn that was some good write up and experience man. Definitely could use seeing more of that genuine guidance in a lot of the talks that get directed to younger guys because that's some really solid methodology , especially just talking to people and appreciating the simple act of conversation so much can be said for that and actually enjoying interacting with others , which is probably the most important thing people miss haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:59 AM
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Nature checks and balances everything. My Grandfather used to just shake his head and say "They are spoiled" over the littlest things when we'd act up as kids. He would be armed to the teeth these days hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:52 AM
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True. History is a brutal teacher in that some people are , a significant number are, pretty fuckin doomed lmao. Technology is a very acceptable wild card though and immeasurably powerful so I feel there's not a lot of reason for true dooming these days, just moreso a bit of wallowing in self pity here and there (which is fine in small doses imo) There's a quote that goes something like "The rifle made all men tall".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:35 PM
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Not trying to be a nuisance even but what is selfish in this sense? It's another term people use broadly is why I ask. Personally I agree with the principle here, selfishness is almost a pre requisite for happiness but it doesn't mean that you're all like, greedy and hard to work with as people would assume It's more like, you are busy putting yourself first so you have strict boundaries about who you give time to , why, what is the benefit or not, even what family can expect of you. I'd say I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:33 PM
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In my dreams literally. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:26 PM
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YOU should be grateful SHE decided after getting dicked down and folded like Japanese origami for 10 years that YOU are chosen to wait for sex so that she can control you for what she wants now. If you knew how lucky you are you'd be grateful SHE is even giving you a chance. Now get out that wallet it's time to pay the dinner tab
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:05 PM
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Hah no worries I didn't get my feelings particularly hurt I just sort of roll with things I get what you actually mean though. From my more niche perspective, I think if guys have issues like clinical depression or levels of anxiety or even actual personality disorders which is a small % of the population but still significant enough to make an impact, or say something like bi-polar 1 or 2, you can take those guys out and those guys can still be open to making new connections but actually develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:03 PM
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I just can't understand why this doesn't apply backward. It's degrading for me to invest in her if she's not willing to pay for a $200 date etc. Like how does the entitlement balance out? It's just bizarre to me that you think that's somehow just or balanced, it's completely lopsided, entitled and narcisstic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:57 PM
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I got sucked in to Destiny after he started Vyvanse and did his whole red pill arc and his open relationship shit has blown up so hard a few times now that I think he's over it. Especially with his recent scandal . It's funny actually because his own community roasts him and holds him accountable. So many comments like "wow amazing what you can do when you're not simping for e girls eh?" But when you zoom out on it and take his newer mentality in to perspective (rip me for saying this) he is sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:53 PM
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PARAGRAPHS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:46 PM
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I have to say I like that you're digging in to the male hypergamy thing it's a suitable counter meme to a tired talking point and I find it actually pretty valid so cheers to that. I read your posts when you talk about it and even though I don't agree with some things you say that one is a keeper imo haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:44 PM
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Disloyal behavior tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:42 PM
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We really need to understand your definition of asshole more clearly. I think being competent is important as people have said but not quite there. Unapologetic and compassionate is closer to it. There's an element of cruelty that has to be turned on the obnoxious nature a lot of women have but that's more like a cruel-affection, sort of like an "aw I'm sorry you feel that way, but it's your own fault" Tough love?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:42 PM
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You can protest and despise it all you want but that ain’t gonna take away the brutish natural computer codes most people abide to. Man that made me want to go smash something well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:38 PM
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I have an untested policy of making a woman wait until she can beat Elden Ring before I have sex with her, but I'm afraid I will never get sex again if that's the case. Still I am waiting for the chosen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:36 PM
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I guess what I'm suggesting is her idea of "love shy" might be Jeffrey Dahmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:33 PM
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😭I almost died having my face crushed several times but and I am a serial dear diary writer but I take your point for sure. I don't know what makes guys 'love shy " my observation is that the average person isn't a good read on what's really going on with psychological things. I am schizo and I've had very attractive women basically tell me hey it's ok to be anxious, and I'm like oh thanks for the pep talk LOL. The issue with some of these "shy guys " might be more like "serious mental issues an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:31 PM
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My interpretation was she was basically talking about low key mental health issues that negatively impact interpersonal relationships, love shyness is an interesting thing she called it but I'm not sure it's what I would have tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:26 PM
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I always try to keep things balanced. You've probably noticed but woman bully themselves too. Once they are really committed to trying to change their ways they deal with a lot of guilt , at least the ones that do, and that's when it's tempting to play captain save a hoe but at least some women are capable of conscious growth and evolution in their character, I've found that to be true , though that won't matter for 85% of guys since those women still won't be attracted enough to date them haha.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:07 PM
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My own experience now in my mid 30s is that younger women have public boyfriends their own age and then older guys on their phones they can circle back on every few months, text for something exciting before returning back to posts about how sweet their boyfriend is. Blue pillers will cry and downvote me saying ohhh that's just a bad woman bro ohhh. I don't think that's the case. I think this is a sizable amount of very attractive women . If you think a chick in her 20s whose fit and good lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:05 PM
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No one can change my mind about anything bro. My mental state is perfect. I know people bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:00 PM
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As opposed to Beta Billy the skinny fat alcoholic whose wife gets obese after 3 shitty kids and he spends his days watching sports with the boys once a week when she allows it and otherwise at home talking on Facebook? Wooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:00 PM
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What makes you say that? I happen to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:57 PM
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Women aren't equipped to support and help a weak man back on his feet. It's almost as simple as that. If a guy isn't at the peak of his game in some way they are naturally repulsed. It takes conscious thought and character development to overcome that basic female instinct. That makes it sound doable, but you then have to remember that half the population is stupid, a significant part of the population are greedy, materialistic, narcisstic, not conscientious, etc. And lastly women who are equipp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:54 PM
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Be careful about looks based conclusions or you can get reprimanded/banned here btw. Most men and attractive women will agree and understand it's the strong aspect of intersex relationships but since it's so reductive and repetitive it's just not really popular among the mods who have been working on this sub for longer than I would wish for them to be haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:43 PM
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😭I want to say yes but the mods might think I'm being serious. So no. Face me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:41 PM
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That's not realistic. There's a ton of good looking guys who can pull that are lost in their own bullshit. Depression, anxiety etc. You're acting like people aren't human just because they have way more sex appeal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:37 PM
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Who are you and how do you come to this conclusion? This is the basic experience of most men, does it offend you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:32 PM
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You're just saying the most basic obvious reality of the game , which means you are about to be gaslit in to oblivion lol. Have been and am the same guy as you are man. It just is what it is. Your post is a reminder to blue pillers but they would rather take us down than stop coping and face reality. Gg man stay winning. It's important to be real when others are being simp tards, because you need to be demonstrating real life principles for other guys to understand they aren't insane, especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:32 PM
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The Follower gets to pick between leaders, complain if they don't like the leadership, or leave if their needs aren't being met Imagine you have a team of people and you have a person like this vs a person who is hard working, self critical and always asks important questions in order to do a better job. With the first person you as a leader have to do 10x the work whereas the second person is actually doing the work for you. The second person is more than cooperative and more than a follower, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:25 PM
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I still think you have a better chance with the average dude trying to better his life, who has a good head on his shoulders etc. That's the average guy. We are talking about like, well you can probably imagine, actually ugly guys. What you're missing is that "the average guy" is actually pretty fuckin loyal, but to you there is no average lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:21 PM
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Agreed, idk why it sounded like I was being snarky haha my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:19 PM
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Gg. Excellent point. So what are these guys who have no experience supposed to do? It's easy for those of us who are comfortable to be like man just carry on and do your thing don't make a big deal about it reciprocate etc etc but I'm at a loss for solutions to what these young guys who gooned their adolescence away on sissy hypno, like it's impossible to properly empathize with what's happening for them. I understand a lot of the male impulses but is this just going to be some sort of natural s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:05 PM
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And how do you establish that without spaces like work environments where you're consistently exposed to the person? It's almost impossible. Which is why all though reductive and not allowed on this sub for good reason, black pill and looks based thinking is super important. Like the mods discovered though I'm sure, I've discovered it's just repetitive to discuss since it's so immutable. Still doesn't hurt to read something like this though that makes it so abundantly clear. You walk in a room a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:12 PM
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What you're missing is that the concept actually reduces the surprise of any awkwardness ahead of time and gives the person a chance to prepare. There's almost no way this doesn't reduce how awkward the woman the man is approaching feels. Again though this is dealing with young age people I guess because if I tried that at 35/yo with a woman she'd be like k buddy good meme you want pussy or not gtfo of here with that shit. I think this strategy is actually really good for those in their 20s but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:21 AM
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Op addressed all this in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:15 AM
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Medium ugly sounds like cognitive psycho salad for "average looking but my friends would scoff at me". So that tracks lol. Man the term "A chance" is like the grossest thing that women say that has been overlooked my entire life. Whenever I hear it I'm just like oh yeah, women truly do believe they are sooooo oppressed in the west. Edit: actually it sounds like a steak. I'll have a medium ugly boyfriend please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:10 AM
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Yeah this is very intentional. It's proven by the fact that if an ugly dude cheats on a chick they will often be more upset by the fact that he's not even good looking and dared. By ugly I mean, equal to the her in looks, which most women would consider ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:26 PM
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"If your gf is being cruel and withholding all love and affection in order to manipulate you and another chick is jumping on your back and hitting you and saying FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME, you should consider it. "
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:24 PM
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When it's easy to catch fish you assume you must be a great fisherman. Then the fish are gone now you realize shit I have to learn about fish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:30 PM
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Condescending is the word I'm not calling you a dog fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:27 PM
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You know, our economic issues here in the west really aren't that bad. Ever since I became a multimillionaire I sort of noticed...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:17 PM
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Not really the way I personally think but it's basically "de-flowered", somewhere along the spectrum of hymen being broken and penetration with a penis. I don't know why it's vague tbh. Personally I would define it as before someone has had sexual intercourse because the real obsession with virginity is about not getting accidently pregnant . Basically you need to understand the risks with sexual intercourse historically. If a woman had sex and got pregnant she would be in deep shit if there was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:54 PM
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With men I wouldn't use previous track record the same way as I would women and I will try to explain why. Just my opinion though. Sex is about power (I am prepared to be downvoted by the feels that will hurt from the simps here) , and Infact almost everything in life centers around sex, resources , expression of form etc. I don't want to be too long winded but in short when men are able to get access to sex in a way that is signifying that usually translates to power whereas men who have been c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:57 AM
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Most of what we see can be boiled down to impulsive hive mind thinking. Great way to lead the world. You can always trust someone who will consult the hive mind before being true to themselves/s https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torches_of_Freedom "Torches of Freedom" was a phrase used to encourage women's smoking by exploiting women's aspirations for a better life during the early twentieth century first-wave feminism in the United States. Cigarettes were described as symbols of emancipation and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:42 AM
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They need less support and so it's even less work. A more shy partner needs a bit more affirning and if it isn't clear most women hate having to actually care that way lol. They want the best NOW, in its best form.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:08 AM
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I mean the bulk of those as basically under 25s. Doesn't sound men are the problem in that situation, especially since the issue doesn't repeat with single fathers. Why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:54 AM
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Men are retarded when it comes to women's behavior and women deny it constantly themselves so talking about it barely accomplish anything anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:30 PM
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It's economics even though people get butthurt and see that as somehow evil to say. Every relationship has contingencies whether acknowledged or not , sometimes it's just not necessary to say it all outloud because it works. Ultimately it's like a job. You get hired and get a fair pay and benefits and if everything's good and you've got a good flow and feel fulfilled you probably will keep working at it, otherwise people will look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:21 PM
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All I can say man is being fit and hot is key and important but ultimately you're going to end up in circular relationships in my opinion and observation of that's your catch method. There's such a thing as cues vs signals. Cues are way more subtle and to do with body language and intuition. The way people move certain ways or fold their hands even, small things that when you put it together either draw you in to conversation or not. Any guy with a decent social and reality calibration should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:15 PM
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The principle is good but the practice will be self defeating. Any guy with options is going to pick up on the fact that she's digging for money and bounce. Most women I've talked to will try to extract money from guys they don't want but know better than to demand the princess treatment from a guy they actually want and respect because they will get dropped hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:59 PM
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It's post post-ironic . It's right back around to unironic. OP just isn't cool and doesn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:57 PM
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No. In one way. One way to rule them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:55 PM
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That was the topic of conversation lol. And yeah I'm sure they are in very happy drama free relationships. You sound young or inexperienced with life so I won't hold it against you. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:55 PM
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In practice it reduces down to a dichotomy of "Serious relationship" or "Fun encounter" which both sexes do pretty much equally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 PM
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So what you're saying is what you're doing isn't working but you're saying it's the best option And I'm saying there's ways to que attention by other means but you're saying that's not true. So. Good luck doing what you do I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:41 PM
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Good point. It seems like the bar in a relationship like that woid have to be lowered so both could contribute 50/50, or else the poorer partner has to make it up in other ways. My own opinion on it is say I were dating someone who makes twice what I do, we'd re delegate responsibilies to help strike a balance and also keep their surplus income in an account available only to them while we ran some sort of mutual bank account for our shared finances if we even decided to do that. The only time m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:39 PM
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Good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:31 PM
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"doesn't make as much" = financially support?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:30 PM
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Is it one of Freud's ideas? Either way it's the equivalent, can't pick and choose what you weaponize
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:27 PM
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Oh ok, well turns out your wrong because there's a lot of risks for everyone involved. That sucks for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:25 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:24 PM
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Yeah, you're just repeating what you said originally. Quality over quantity, but whatever you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:24 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong person or something. What I was talking about is that it's a mistake to dress revealingly to increase your odds of a guy you want to make an approach making an approach because guys who are experienced with women will see it as a tell that you are leading with sexuality, just like men who lead with wallets get used. Not that it seems you are capable of hearing that but for those interested, that's the usual outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:15 PM
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This is a good post imo and calling out more bullshit in the modern red pill manosphere is key. 2010s red pill / PUA stuff was definitely less forgiving because skinny fat soppy neck beards hadn't tried to co-opt it yet as a reason to complain about and hate women. This was all zyzz or whatever his name as era stuff, like when body building forums were active and mid 20s masculinity was in its prime , where the ideal girlfriend was the girl with BPD you picked up at the bar or club and ran in to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:35 PM
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You're both using different models of what a liberal woman is. Many conversations here have no clear meanings behind their concepts so they just spin for eternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:37 PM
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Idk the answer to this one but I will mention I noticed the liberal ideal OP expresses here seems to be strong willed, succesful, and probably beautiful and well kept, business minded etc. Those are all traits men have needed in their women forever. Especially in ye olden days, having a strong woman who commanded respect and admiration just by appearing in the market while you were away, and having influence in that way would be hiiiiighly desirable. Of course those are virtues not developed unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:36 PM
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Nothing is more device based than the ideas sorrounding marriage. It's like total power exchange where the government and your ex wife shoves a vibrator up your ass and she can press the button whenever she's busy having sex with her new lover or spending the childcare you give her on new bags and fake nails. Meanwhile your kids are neglected because you have no custody and she's busy texting on Instagram about how she's so strong for being able to survive in this world after your abuse and all …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:25 PM
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Good men also don’t base their goodness and morals on if it gets his dick wet or even any sort of reward. The only thing he should expect is mutual kindness or at least human decency This sort of rule creating is exactly why single mothers cause irreperable damage to their sons and those sons disproportionately end up in prison or homeless at as much 80% of the represented population. Just do EVERYTHING bro and you get human kindness and decency bro that's what you get for it all. Don't explore …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:15 PM
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inhales deeply aw yeah. That's some good copium. Now watch me tear up the dance floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:09 AM
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Glad I can help paint a vision of a bright new future. I like the fact that someone read it and was just like upset and confused and uncomfortable and was like I don't like it downvote lmao. I thought it was beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:03 AM
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I agree and this is important for generalists to remember. On the other hand there are general differences that are indisputable like height, body weight, bone density, etc etc. I always notice that some people use generalizations a lot to the point they are obtuse and then others are hyper specific and refuse to acknowledge generalizations in this conversations. I'm not really allowed to explain what I think is actually the mechanism behind OPs experience but I suspect it has more to do with ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:00 AM
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Wouldn't it be a lot easier to just approach a guy you want and not have to dress to impress? The girl with the pretty face, bright eyes and good conversation skills hiding an athletic body under a grey hoodie is far more interesting to have mind sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 AM
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She wants an example from EVERY man doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 AM
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This is the Madonna-Whore complex g. It's the same thing and it's been around and used to degrade men's sexual priorities much longer than any of these modern bullshit terms. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 AM
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The most charitable interpretation is that looks as a base requirement for relationships is a much lower bar than looks, status, money etc which are all things men must accomplish to have the same pull as women do. When men talk about this what they are really trying to say is that they have to be better than the women they date by a significant margin. You'll also hear guys say that highly successful men prefer women who are successful or have accomplished things in their own right , and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:38 AM
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You're off here in terms of blame placing. All relationships are transactional because life , the world, reality, is based on value and discernment. You can't live without food, air, water, etc, so automatically someone who theoretically gets in the way of that would be only loveable via self sacrifice or your willingness to devour them. Because of that innate equality, all relationships are transactional including your relationship with the room you're sitting in right now or the phone you're u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:35 AM
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That's plain stupid. Women are just people So are men in women the same or are there fundamental differences? If so, what are they and do you think that they would contribute to different outcome in behavior, values or lifestyle decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:33 AM
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Women don't need to get money from men in the 21st century. There are a lot of women who out earn a lot of men. Good thing women aren't asking, demanding or using sex to get money from men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:31 AM
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I'm not getting in to a debate on this one for a millionth time but the entire post is just a list of ways that OP says men are expected to behave a certain way to keep their partner happy in order to have the family man/father experience. So it is definitively a fuck ton more work. The degrading thing is when women look at their men like dogs and think about how they should reward them for fulfilling those criteria , as opposed to the much more obvious treatment that guys they visceral desire g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:37 AM
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Yup. People build their entire lives in to this trickle down sexonomics type thing as though the visceral desire and fulfilment they get from their husbands is half that that they got from chasing guys when they were younger and hotter. At least half the women gloating here and gaslighting you guys will be divorced in a few years , statistically, so remember that when you're talking to them because that's the real lesson, how confident they are despite them being just a statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:28 AM
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It's the language it's like a dog or child. Not "I want to fuck the shit out of my husband " it's "he can have his little treats as long as he's keeping me happy".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:25 AM
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Lol you're right on point but remember people will always always find a way to weasel out of this when confronted directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:22 AM
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These people are not actually out playing the feild and shit man. Modern women coming through college and in to the work force literally have beard boyfriends just like gay men in the closet have wives. Just guys they can post on social media with to appeal normal while they are getting folded in half elsewhere. People will read that and say ohh it's always been that way!! But the reality is that very few men will ever turn women on the way the guys they choose for hookups do, and the women here…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:20 AM
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RP explicitly states and puts the responsibility on men first in its most authentic forms/interpretations. The guys who are not actually doing what they are supposed to and complaining are not "red pill". It's just an outline of rules of attraction and what sort of things you can expect to happen if different circumstances arise, just simple rules based game theory shit based on observations. So you're 100% right. This extends to the newer culture around passport bros as well. Actual Red Pill co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:15 AM
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Can I have my promised harem now pls. Uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:22 PM
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A better way to get the point across I think would be "If sex were guaranteed with someone you found attractive once a week, how would this effect society" And the answer imo is men and women would be much more in shape , more productive at work and less worried and anxious about things lol. Then the assumption that one day you would be magically"paired" with your ideal partner when you were ready through this weekly pairing thing would be what carries the desire to build . Society would be dope…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:19 PM
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If sex and intimacy stopped being a phenomenon entirely and we just assumed people could divide to reproduce whatever that is called lol , it would definitely devolve in to some sort of caste system and not even necessarily based entirely on strength idk. For the first few iterations it would be the strongest men taking control of everything and instead of just killing other men at like a 9/1 ration of men to women they would ACTUALLY start killing women as often as men and that would be a reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:06 PM
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So. Does body count matter. LOL. Jk jk
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 06:02 PM
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I think marriage is just an excuse peoole use to let themselves have slack in maintaining a relationship, these days, so I can’t disagree with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:54 PM
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I mean, this is a subject that has created centuries of debate and thinking but sure, you can reduce it to that if you want.
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 12:00 PM
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You want me to explore the meaning of life with you on this thread ? 😭
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 07:55 AM
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No.
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 07:42 AM
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Valuing your self worth by comparing how much free stuff and royal treatment you can get from well intentioned hopeful people while the world burns around you so you can die in a pile of hand bags and broken fake nails = BASED AF BRO
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 07:23 AM
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Most women find it humiliating and insulting that they have to put in work because competition among women is partially about how much they can get men to do for them without having to put in any effort , pathetically.
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 05:58 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:22 PM
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I really don't think that's the situation that people are talking about or anything that socially retarded. It's more like, you have coffee a few times and then some shit starts getting overshared or you're clearly upset about something or at someone, then women are like woaaaaahhhhhh buddy !!!! Red flag red flag!! Whereas women can break down crying date two about how awful xyz is and men will be like m'lady please let me give you money and carry you to a mountain retreat run by Zen monks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 PM
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Fair enough haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:27 PM
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Why 4 minutes? Just to keep it in an elevated range? Running also uses completely different systems of muscles and stuff. Imo it will keep you more well rounded and do far more for your cardio, I am not convinced it's as catabolizing as people think rather it's relative to your general stress and deficit amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:24 PM
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Cardiovascular health is important tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:18 PM
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Talking works for releasing stress in to the mind and it can be addressed and organized more easily for some if that makes sense. It really works for women's biology better. Physical exertion for men seems to deal with the emotional and self esteem aspects which I think the price of failure or incompetence for men tends to be deep shame if they are mentally well adjusted , paradoxically, as pathological types like narcisstists have no overt shame at all. Talk, after heavy exercise and exertion, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:11 AM
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Like I just said I don't make the rules neither do any guys who know this simple truth about the male experience. We just say it and then people complain haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:35 AM
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3 days a week yeah. And going to sleep at 9pm probably, on those three days. It's not a priority but there's consequences for that. I don't make the rules man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:34 AM
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Yeah say hi and compliment them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:20 AM
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This is why I keep saying that feminists subconsciously want a caste system. The creepy men are almost universally ones seen as very sub par "mating material" in women's eyes. Not that they are more or less dangerous but I think the instinct is based around a fear of pregnancy resulting from rape. I don't know if it's possible for women to be completely comfortable in a society where they are constantly surrounded by and exposed to these men. I am not convinced it's a hard wired problem either b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:18 AM
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When I was in my early 20s being a tard Gooner I was still doing physical training type things , and I'd see exactly the sort of depression people get and hopeless mentality people have online when I went more than a few days. I was still pretty degenerate too but if you haven't trained in a few months or weeks, even starting with a body weight 45 minute plan at home (which is way better than nothing and even better than going to the gym in a lot of ways), there has been a clear pattern for me m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:58 AM
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Yes but male biology is different than women's biology. Hard work is key but putting that effort in the right place is important and dedicating a few hours to mastering your body and impulses / instincts with training a few times a week is crucial for men , whose whole history has been hard labor and war. At this point in society though I guess it's worth questioning even that anymore as people's general health and environmental circumstances are so depressive even in first world countries. Eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 AM
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People also do it on their lunch breaks. That's why gyms have showers and private lockers you can rent. You could go more often if you're lacking an outlet otherwise which many people do, but that's just an option I put out there because you're bitching about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:46 AM
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3 times a week , in the morning. 1 hour of strength training, half hour of cardio and stretching, half hour drive there and back. Get home, shower, start your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:44 AM
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I didn't read the post because I'm tired af but I just want to say if you're a guy and not going to the gym or taking care of your body and health, you don't get the right to complain when it comes to dating and no one should take you seriously. Same goes for mental health issues. Diet, exercise, sleep, minimal substance use. These things are priorities and have to be prioritized whether you like it or not. Pathologies are exceptions but otherwise no one should be taking you seriously. Cope if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:32 AM
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So many questions can just be answered by "sex". Why would an adult man want dating an 18-24 year old they don't have anything in common!!!! Gee idk. Why would out of shape women want fit hot generally attractive guys ?!? Makes no sense! They don't even have the gym in common! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Make you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:55 PM
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Men don't let women spend his money ? .... Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:42 PM
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When you need help it's not going to be women who help you, it will be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:36 PM
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More like 100-200 years ago but for the vast amount of human history people didn't really have the privilege of adjusting their relationships to more favorable circumstances, which is what you're describing here imo. It wasn't until wealth and technology enabled us to actually individualize a bit. Before that it was like "Yeah that old battle axe of a wife she's got hands like a fuckin oxs hoof but I'll tell ya she don't break easy" and women were like .... "That ole Earl better be back from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:54 PM
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So are you saying that virtually all women have insecure attachment disorder or whatever it is called How did you gather that, just curious what your reasoning was to pull that out of what they wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:49 PM
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His disposable income increases because his wife isn't spending it so that helps at least lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:42 PM
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It's always a question of self preservation first. Women are by evolution incentivized to be more self preservationist and solipsistic imo, which heavily correlates with narcissism. If the family is threatened, the father is expected to face the threat and be willing to die so that the woman can escape with the children or something else. That's the optimal and basic survival strategy which is then reinforced by coalitions of men working together to be stronger. Women literally play god to child…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:46 PM
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Ah yeah. I guess I'm just of a different opinion that it doesn't matter much how you get there the result is pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:06 PM
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Not necessarily behaves but they ARE that way. It's just whether you spot it on a first date or not. I was trying to be charitable but basically, I don't see why it matters. Some people prefer to know what they are dealing with upfront, personally I do. People with abuse are heavily stigmatized as it is so idk why not just be like yeah let a rip let's hear it all. Why does it matter , the person themselves is the same person either way. : s, the only thing that changes is your own emotional perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:36 PM
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Civilizations has made me a man in 48 hours. Before that game came out I was just a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:26 PM
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That was a much more sophisticated conversation direction than my shit post deserved but yes absolutely lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:26 PM
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I've never been old so I'll have to do my own research when I get there tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:25 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:24 PM
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Im a lil bitch and think sex is a deeply intimate experience I don't want to share with just anyone lol. And I am a male. :( The realization that I've come to is that I have to force myself to get over and move past lost ongoing sexual connections, and that causes me cognitive dissonance and shit. It's mildly traumatizing to make and break intimacy consistently. I'd rather just select more cautiously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:23 PM
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Same here and a similar mental vision of the human critter like single mothers that have given in to nesting instinct like giant marsupials since they got pregnant at 20. To all decent human taste /. expectations, the "average" is for lack of a better word trash, which is why being even a bit lean and fit,. having clear skin, already sets you far ahead of the average and gives you more SMV. Looks are the easiest way to increase SMV and anyone can do those things. That's why I can't really tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:20 PM
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There might seem to be a right or wrong way (which is already kind of fucked imo) but men clearly are expected to balance the expression of their emotions with their girlfriend/wives emotions considered first and foremost, which is hilarious to me that this is still going over looked. Meanwhile women will blow up at men and we are like :') wtf why is she trippin. It's like novel entertainment more than anything because emotion unrefined is so hard to respect. I suppose that's the issue at the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:12 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:09 PM
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People who are abused are often conditioned to be that way (duh) so they can't really be anyone else. Those people are just being themselves, which is why being yourself never works if you're a man and were abused as a child. Alternatively you can try to work through it and hide it but people will still sus it out. So yeah. Your instinct is probably just telling you that they don't have it fully under control yet. No guarantees if they will in a relationship either but at least if they can put i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:09 PM
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Men are allowed to express their emotions when and how women deem it appropriate. Just say it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:01 PM
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Just start scraping "M X M" on people's door frames with your keys and they will assume they've been marked by a cult or gang
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:46 AM
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But are they men or women or. I knew a guy in to futanari which was actually pretty cool so now I'm wondering if you can put all three together but I'm guessing the answer is probably yes haha. I personally have never had a good enough imagination to really get aroused by hand/computer made things , I'd have to translate it in to real people in my head and depending on the extent of the fantasy that could be terrifying haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:39 AM
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Can you put the both together like a puzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:32 AM
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Wait sorry I think I confused this with another thing I see on Reddit a lot, like super obsessive possessive crazy girlfriends? I think it starts with a y or something. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:27 AM
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Red pill usually says the blame is entirely on the man's shoulders because you can't expect women or children to take accountability for anything anyway lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:25 AM
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With the fucking wait staff Reddit meme again here we go
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:24 AM
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Isn't it just reality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:23 AM
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But many of them will never find a partner of high desirability. They will settle. That is cruel but that's life also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:22 AM
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To be the bearer of bad news, I've met dozens of above average attractiveness, intelligence, and disturbingly degenerate women in my time and they are all the same as any other in terms of the bar of entry and how to really connect with them in terms of just interest and generally engaging. The difference is obviously more in the sexual or sensual aspects and also what winds them up psycho-sexually for lack of a better word, and then in terms of behavior they are obviously fun and exciting peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:18 AM
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This is an actually substantive post and requires and is deserving of respectful and thorough responses from you degenerates. My own personal opinion is that MTV, hot topic, pokemon and a few other brain rotting cultural trends completely broke the spirit of heinous murders. Instead of coldly calculating what was the most effective way to perform their task, instead of actually developing a killers persona they over indulged in anime and hentai until they became perverse abominations. 2000 onwar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:53 PM
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I don't understand why it's confusing at all. If she gives you IOI don't talk to her, if she does and you really want to then do it. But like if she's not paying attention or hasn't noticed you at all? Why even bother breaking in to her world lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:28 PM
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Sounds like the definition of "masculine" needs some fleshing out in this context. Like when we are talking biological masculinity, that's clearly more than just systematizing. Insects systemize far more effectively than people for the most part, so insects should be considered hyper-masculine by this theory. It raises a lot of questions about human nature and production and exploitation etc. Hyper masculine insects are fearless hyper efficient executors with no self interest, all in service of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:58 PM
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"I am on the path tho please can I have some poos uwu"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:41 PM
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Wew I was starting to get insecure reading this thread but as a poor autist your comment put my mind at ease. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:08 PM
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Were they hot as balls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:07 PM
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Get cummed in by a broke Chad, claim government support, ??? Profit. So many of the most genetically gifted chicks get raw dogged at like 16+ and end up having babies when they are super young, just to lean in to government support or something, and those babies usually have elite level genetics too. This happens so frequently I'm surprised people don't realize it but there's just a whole subculture of these people living on government assistance and doing whatever with their lives, making more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:06 PM
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Obviously it won't be well received for me to say this but for a lot of people living with just above the bare minimum, having a small side hustle and focusing on other things is preferable to grinding and working all the time. There's different types though. I've never been materialistic but I've always been disciplined and ambitious in my own pursuits and that's led me in to certain areas of status and wealth that aren't immediately obvious as I own a bus pass. There's a lot of ways to live. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:59 PM
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You can do it as stupid as a cow if you're greedy, lazy, and hedonistic enough. Just look at America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:46 PM
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I've seen enough to know that I am out of my depth so if you want you can tell me any bullshit you feel like and I will tell everyone else, as is the way. 👍 Likely not by chance I can get behind as an answer haha.
/r/BlackPillScience10/02/25 08:20 PM
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Playing Baldur's Gate 3 you say? BG3 is my break from gaming let's goooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:16 PM
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What dudes have options lined up? Oh you mean the high % guys you see on movies and television? Yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:14 PM
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It's slimier than that. It's because they don't feel any urgency to make a move until they might lose their chance. They are gambling it against a better option coming around. It's just a game not anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:22 AM
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I fuckin will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:04 AM
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Well, think of one of the most attractive feminine actresses you know, and say she came up to you and said "I just wanted you to know I think you're interesting and wanted to see if you wanted to go out sometime" Would you say "ewwwww!!! Butch!!!" Of course not. And that's why you never take advice from women lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:07 PM
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I just wanted your attention to say happy valentines day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:41 PM
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Hm. Doesn't seem too significant if I'm understanding correctly then. Still interesting when added together with everything else though I suspect
/r/BlackPillScience09/02/25 07:40 PM
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"Oh ok I guess I guessed wrong woops ", what a waste of time game. It shows she isn't the one serious lol. All women know they have the upper hand and can just ask or say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:39 PM
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A huge amount of chill women with hopefully interesting life stories to meet, without having to worry about kids and baby daddy issues. Sounds pretty fuckin cool to me. Not much of a way to build a society though haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:10 PM
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True. Especially the manipulators part. Trying to extract value. What % of women commonly approached by men are manipulative that way do you think? I'm not really able to say at all because my regular places these days are pretty upstanding, I think OLD and bars and pubs ratio way higher to manipulative annoying people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:08 PM
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Just because I want to doesn't mean I will, that's a dumb assumption. If she can't use her words then it's literally too bad for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:08 PM
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Is that how it seems subjectively or something? Like how can I value someone I don't know? Can't she say hi, or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:02 PM
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But she kept doing the pseudo approaching thing and trying to get me to is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:55 PM
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I didn't take her seriously because I knew she was already being catered too and I figured she was out of my league anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:38 PM
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She was petite and blonde and getting rides and shit from other guys LOL. Idk where to begin even you must not spend a lot of time around people if you aren't aware of the shame and humiliation women are eager to put men through for shooting their shot wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:35 PM
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This is quality projection. Speak more about men please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:29 PM
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Uh, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:20 PM
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I actually didn't take pride in it I was irritated. The level of projection here is a bit nauseating to be honest. A humiliation ritual LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:18 PM
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Since your RPd, how many times have you had women come up beside you and just stand there expectantoy waiting for you to speak ? I’ve had it happen countless times and it has made me lose sympathy for women in dating entirely. Sounds like a meme gloat but in one instance I ignored this chick doing it and biting her lip at me so many times she burst in to tears and stormed off . Like dude you can use words right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:10 PM
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It does kind of suck having to put in effort when women don’t , most guys real just need to stop trying to be jesters and enjoy life single. Women clown hard for guys they actually want .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:07 PM
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Cool man were you actually contributing something there or just saying words
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:21 PM
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Thank you for trying but I still don't understand. Isn't 14% close to 10th percentile, like 14th percentile. 😭. I know you're not getting paid enough for this so if you don't care to explain it's cool.
/r/BlackPillScience09/02/25 09:16 AM
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If they did they'd stop simping for women en masse and there would actually be hope in the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:55 AM
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That's fine. Face the consequences then which is that when you lie to idiots and fill them with false hope and then culturally lie to them, they are going to snap out of it one day and resent women, become red pill ragers and end up contributing to the dreaded misogyny women constantly cry about. Better to just tell men the truth from a young age so they don't waste time and money on women when they aren't good looking enough or rich enough to be playing that game anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:58 AM
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Yeah I would recommend avoiding Argentina and Brazil if I was a woman bound to be approached by single men personally. Here in the US, Canada, and UK, you should be more afraid of driving than telling men the truth lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:52 AM
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That's not true at all. Women constantly lie and placate men's feelings to hide the truth from them in order to "not be mean", because the truth hurts. They either do this because they are trying to be nice OR they are "afraid of what will happen* which is nothing 99.9% of the time , and say the truth which is "I don't find you attractive enough to fuck, I want a different guy". Women are responsible for lying to guys , but ultimately that doesn't matter because the responsibility falls on men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:47 AM
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Yes, and that women encourage it. I'm glad we can agree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:39 AM
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Stop what? Lmao I am literally blaming blue pillers for lying to men who are vulnerable. Sorry, you want me to stop what exactly? Men are to blame as are blue pillers for lying to them. Stop WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:30 AM
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Uhm, but that is blue pill rhetoric. Thats why many men oppose that. The idea sold is that women are mostly just shy or have had maybe 1-2 relationships, she does the "it's not you it's me" thing when what she really means is "I didn't want to fuck you I was just sad because I wasn't able to fuck the guy I wanted and now I have to let you down easy". Everyone knows this shit because we see the actions, but people want to believe and cope. Blue pill is all about cope, and ultimately red pill was …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:22 AM
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True that. I mean it's clear it does happen but I guess I'm just saying I've realized in time there's actually a lot that has to go down for a false accusation to get through the bullshit and take hold. Especially because , like one bad actor will still be often questioned by her own friends as she talks about it with them. People and even women are more honest than one would give them credit for about this type of thing. There's a huge difference between "omg ew he's a creep " and "he did what?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:18 AM
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I'm sorry are you confused about what blue pill and red pill even are? I'm not sure any of you people here actually understand. Blue pill rhetoric is about lying to men and concealing women's nature as sexual beings with their own personal , selfish and perfectly human ambitions. So no I don't admit that because I'm not a fucking dumb ass? I've been attempted to be gaslit my entire life by simps, white knights and women trying to save face, I started just ignoring people years ago when they lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:09 AM
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Results: At 9 months, 24% of mothers reported mild depressive symptoms and 17% moderate/severe symptoms. After adjustment for household, maternal, and child factors, children of mothers with moderate to severe levels of depressive symptoms at 9 months' postpartum had a 40% increased odds of being ≤ 10% in height-for-age at age 4 (odds ratio = 1.40, 95% confidence interval: 1.04-1.89) and 48% increased odds of being ≤ 10% in height-for-age at age 5 (odds ratio = 1.48, 95% confidence interval: 1.0…
/r/BlackPillScience09/02/25 12:04 AM
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That's why guys get the red pill rage and why I get annoyed by blue pill rhetoric in the first place. Guys think gosh she's nice but obviously she's so demure and pure she would never like me, maybe if I am her friend.... Meanwhile she's getting absolutely pile drived and folded in half by her Giga Chaderino hot boyfriend of the month doing depraved shit that they can't imagine lmao. Then those same guys come on Reddit like "I texted this girl for a month and she seemed nice but then she disappe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:56 PM
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I mean the stats obviously matter but you're saying not to be misled by stats is what I am gathering from what you wrote which is smart. So take all the factor of your specific demographic and a prospective partner, look at statistics with those factors in mind for a more accurate base and hopefully your general rate of success is higher like 70% at least , then from there vet a partner based on your personal criteria and their own history, family background etc. This is really the only way to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:36 PM
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Yep. That's why you can't even indulge in looks related circle jerking here I guess because it's so fundamental and obvious it renders the rest of the conversation obsolete lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:30 PM
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Sorry if I'm being messy I'm saying that asymmetrical looks in relationship are unrealistic and bone structure and genetic limitations are almost unbending unfortunately. It is a hard pull to swallow indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:34 PM
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I think the point about Meeks other than being a meme is that he went from what we would consider a sub-culture to be distained more or less (gangbanger lifestyle) to suddenly propelled to the highest echelons of society based solely on his looks. It's the extreme example which is why it's both misleading and important at the same time. For the average guy, yes, things matter more in terms of depth and just generally for happiness q wealth of internal life is going to get you to a better place m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:20 PM
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The difference is that creepiness is brushed off or forgiven if an attractive guy does it. That's what people aren't talking about. Like it's still creepy or weird , but women especially will make excuses , ex "oh he used to be abusive but he said that's in the past and he's trying to change, he didn't know better" often that's a legitimate case for people. If you're ugly, bye bye, never going to get a shot, ugly abuser fuck you. But if you're attractive well, you're at least trying to change an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:04 PM
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Remember the Blackpill / inkwell Messiah Jeremy Meeks? The hot felon who after he got out of jail became a model then married and divorced a billionaires daughter ? Just picture him as a short bald Indian janitor. Looks are 90% of how people get treated and even really stupid , annoying good looking people will get cut slack or have excuses made for them. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:01 PM
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I guess people are different too I'm not a good person to judge peoples social intentions, so maybe for the majority of guys who complain about a lack of male spaces, what's available is plenty good if they are deliberate, for me there's no answer anyway but I don't complain particularly either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:51 PM
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I said some would but idk maybe it's similar to why women spend 80% of the consumer spending on fake nails and bags. Everyone is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:39 PM
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I think a lot of guys would rather self delete but that's cool. Beggars can't be choosers I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah but I mean what is the change they are talking about, because I don't know what that is. Like in terms of third party spaces idk what has changed in the last 10 years or so but You used to be able to go to small on foot pubs, restaurants, gaming bars, groups of varying kinds etc in the city I live in and now almost all those places have shut down and the the group's have diminished in numbers a lot too, for varying things from hobbies and interests to education to mental health services. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:15 PM
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Why is there such a cultural conversation about the removal of third party spaces then like in an apoltical non partisan context I mean. Are they dumb ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:10 PM
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Probably a bit of both, worsened by the erasing of third party spaces culturally as well. There obviously has been a systematic dismantling of male spaces which we've talked about in this thread elsewhere, and that's played a significant role also. A lot of what would probably be healthy for male engagement and socialization is learning how to do things which on average make men feel more competent and confident, like boy Scouts was intended to, or varying difficulties of apprenticeship and ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:06 PM
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Sure? I'm pretty sure most guys just don't like spending a lot of time around other guys tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:59 PM
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I see your point in that sense for sure. There’s just an interest gap in some places more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:53 AM
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Hm alright I take your point, male groups get bashed a lot for not being more inclusive though. I member twitch whining and then bam hot tub meta. dont get me wrong I like seeing women at gyms lol but they definitely go where the men are at too, I think with barbershops you’re pretty right. and I’ll give you whisky clubs to be charitable. so if I want to find male only spaces I should play darts, test whiskey and visit the barber for a shave every week. idk. I think I’ll just stay in my room and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:17 AM
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Male Only leagues I can get behind. i havent heard of male only gyms barbershops booze groups or nerd groups though . I’m curious af if you have any examples because I can’t logically understand how they would get away with it honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:59 AM
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Provide examples of male only spaces please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:18 AM
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terf masons not so good. jk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:17 AM
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Create male only space —-> women get irritated they can’t join —-> complain get access —-> immediately start sexualizing themselves —> place turns to shit. Pubs, sports related clubs, Boyscouts, all had common male only variants. Now it’s pretty much unheard of for a male only pubs or bars now it’s drug dealers chasing half naked women around. gyms used to be mostly men now it’s half naked women doing instagram. it all got labeled chauvinistic if women couldn’t join, that’s how things changed sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:16 AM
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Just join the free masons bro, it’s easy to find male only spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:09 AM
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I hope Matthew Perry finds love one day fr fr he seems like a genuinely good guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:02 AM
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Finally someone to touch me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:00 AM
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She straps him, he’s very breedable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:59 AM
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That’s cool I figured there would be something reasonable in place I just didn’t know what it as haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:52 AM
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Not to dismiss it but since this thread is fizzling out it’s probably worth noting women are terrible when rejected too in terms of guilt tripping crying etc, it may just be a normal response and not always pure manipulation but sadly it often is the latter. People do sort of blur the lines of rationalaity constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:13 PM
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WOMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:24 PM
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Anyone who posts in subs like this I’m immediately like dude get a life , it’s over for me but you have hope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:24 PM
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That is wildly stupid lol. on the other hand, I’m pretty sure women often compromise things they don’t want so they can avoid any potential conflict so when they go along with things in order to “protect themselves “ and end up worse off, idc really. Almost all the time that women let bad shit happen it’s because they are afraid of something bad happen, I stand by my point that “cmoooonnnn I’ll be sad if you don’t :( :( :(“ and women going “ok fine” is on their own accord not the whiny dude pres…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:17 PM
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Tbh I’ve never known anyone arrested for a false accusation but I’ve seen men trespassed from places and given restraining orders for no reason other than man bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:52 PM
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My point is that it’s hyperbolic to bring up because those guys are usually repeat offenders. The majority of sober conscious men are going to be in tears, they can’t even say no to sending strange women thousands of dollars for free, lmao. Maybe with drugs and BDSM things get fucjed up and it’s also common that people don’t properly understand their own boundaries and end up in over their heads but for someone to be like “ok I’m out safeword is potato” and the other person keeps going is insane…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:51 PM
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From my perspective that makes sense. But if I am an employer running a tight team and a member gets pregnant and can’t work, what if I am in deep shit if I can’t find someone to replace them ? That could really negatively affect several peoples lives and even crash a business in hard enough environments. So does the government pick that up or something? I don’t know. My common sense says it would be in the terms of contract specific since women are allowed to choose when they wish to get pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:43 PM
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The net result is what matter. Basic lawfulness and constitutional rights can’t be ignored obviously, but lowering exam requirements or hiring criteria for engineers because of the need to push others up is more what I’m talking about. Life isn’t about fairness we aren’t 8. There’s plenty of options that work, but making things “fair“ is literally a crying child’s mentality to losing. Discovering and optimizing peoples strengths is a good route to take. So much of this starts in early education.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:30 PM
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With the image on the right, what happens in reality is the fence is lowered and the man on the left has to kneel down, and then the ball players have to be more careful so as not to accidtally hurt the spectators. thats the result of equity in practice, and egalitarianism, it’s much easier to lower the bar to make quotas, so if one group is consistently testing higher IQ for example, we can’t bring other groups up because it’s impossible, therefore we lower the test demands so everyone scores s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:39 PM
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Because I am not as self important as you, to put it simply. I also don’t ascribe to egalitarianism. Despite what you’re saying, doing for women doesn’t trickle down to men at all because men and women aren’t identical and can’t be forced to be, which is what egalitarianism logically leads to and why t doesn’t work. making women comfortable or making them feel safe isn’t something men have to do. women would have to do the same, cater to men’s feelings and sense of safety and inclusion and thats…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:26 PM
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Id date a super hot high IQ rich af otherworldly beautiful woman given the opportunity suprising to no one so I agree with this, it’s just a situationally consistent privilege but definitely not baked in and therefore I think it can be written off as some truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:15 PM
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No, you personally should be able to address it I mean, if you care. men don’t owe women, which is what you’re saying here. That’s entitlement and leads to narcissism and such, you really don’t want to cultivate that. In regards to the genocide thing, I wouldn’t waste my time protesting because it wouldnt make a difference. Protecting women doesn’t mean it’s reciprocated though. Most men don’t care or need women to protect us. lastly, depends on the sexism at play, but mostly if I don’t like som…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:22 AM
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Well, Patrarchy has been around forever so you have to be able to address it. And no, because women have to fight for their own rights just as men do, that’s equal. What you’re describing is a narcissistic view of reparations and entitlement, of which women are not entitled to advocacy from men without offering it in return. Unless a person is actively suppressing someone else there’s no injustice at play, it’s your problem if your boss is a dick not men’s in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:16 AM
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What equal rights would Joe advocate for for his wife and children in their farmstead, 50 miles from any semblance of small town society where trade markets were? The right to dig through shit with him ? She already has that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:01 AM
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Who sad he was horrible? He was busy busting his ass and so was she. What makes you think he raped his family lmao jfc. Maybe pigs but
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:18 AM
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The rise of small cities and states, and invention of roads and the god damned wheel , and then slowly some development of society…. Idk how the fuck Rome and England or whatever , like their time frames of existence or anything, I am curious myself now since this was a long expanse of feudal darkness I guess, but as you can probably see that sort of feudalism was occurring all over the Eastern hemisphere and monotheistic religions began to pop up in order to try to reign it in via myth, which w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:14 AM
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The elite invented Religion as a means to coerce and control feudal war lords who were gaining power in Europe. Basically using religion as a unifying myth to install a King, particularly Britain if im not mistaken, or England or whatever, I’m not sure about the history I’ve just watched a lot of semi accurate historical TV shows LOL. There is like a several hundred thousand year gap between the advent of agriculture and religion I think. It goes sort of unmentioned that during that time there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:14 AM
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He can’t even read. He lives in one of dozens of farms along a stretch of land or in a small muddy village where people haggle over the price of shitty carrots, chickens and tools. You think he has a choice about any of that shit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:49 AM
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Imo authenticity is almost always a positive because it puts truth before feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:47 AM
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the elite invented it to control mate selection because top competing men were hoarding land and women lol. Joe Dirtboot didn’t invent anything but women seem to insist he’s historically been Stalin and i don’t understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:59 AM
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Just like genie from Aladdin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:04 AM
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Any woman who doesn’t like crog make crog sad. Those women want crog hit in head so they feel better. Crog happy, women happy. Now crog have soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:03 AM
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If a woman gets in to be with me she should expect to be injected with acid in her brain unless she specifically says otherwise damnit !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:01 AM
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They do, or the women suggest it first. Abusers are a small % of men as we all know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:59 AM
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24/7? What the fuck are you even talking about man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:57 AM
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Rough like awoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:57 AM
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And that man goes to jail and is labeled a domestic abuser, less than 1% of the male population. I wish people could keep that in mind when discussing these sort of things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:56 AM
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Confidence issue you can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:54 AM
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Mostly women shame women for being sloots too though because I mean, women do be getting a little bit jealous and catty time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:53 AM
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“At least light bdsm “ is definitely conservative compared to the shit I’ve seen out here 🫥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:51 AM
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I can imagine this tard logic because so many women know they are “supposed“ to appear demure and selective but with online dating women tend to be uncharacteristically authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:18 AM
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lol another golden reference. So much bullshit in life is the proverbial call of duty lobby , you see it everywhere. Especially with rumour spreading which tends to be the forte of women and some highly estrogenic men, unless it’s directly impeding your work you can simply brush it off with the knowledge that whatever is being said about you, several people are going to get the same treatment over the next year and many others already have, so these things get shrugged off easily in adulthood. l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:10 AM
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The human condition baby. Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:04 AM
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True man I appreciate your response. “Immature Savages” honestly describes women’s behaviour, well most noticeably for me younger ones, so well. It’s sort of why I realized words and language and sentiment and all that shit alone mean pretty much nothing. Most of the blue pill morality Is based on the assumption that the people you are dealing with are incentivized to care. Young women given all the power to behave exactly as they please with almost no consequences, how do you speak reason to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:04 PM
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I mean I don’t know why it’s so easy for me to avoid clearly toxic information sources, but I think a lot of it is to do with how messages have subtle tones of entitlement. A lot of the novel and very temporary impactful characters right now, like Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson (though to be accurate I don’t equate them they just happen to fit the profile), clearly have a sort of vibe that is off putting when you listen to them speak. Obviously they get clipped for saying stupid shit but in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:57 PM
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Yeah I think my thoughts were pressed in to the lane of social or like personal and interpersonal justice when I wrote that, like that horrible people tend to get eaten alive by guilt and cast out etc. Practically speaking it’s more like grenades randomly going off every now and then and you just rolled a bad number that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:49 PM
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Well the fact that they are socially outcasted and subject to mockery and then voluntarily remove themselves from the gene pool because some obese mid 40s Chud told them it’s a good idea is funny and sad af, there’s no getting around that . It is tragic life pushed them in to those circumstances in the first place, as I am guessing no one would actually choose to be so entombed in bitterness, I think it’s a form of social control implicit to human evolution to shame others to control them via pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:25 PM
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I can see why you’d see it that way, in a similar way not having kids and passing on your genes would make one “less of a man”. I personally enjoy sophisticated solutions to problems that don’t have detrimental effects once carefully considered especially surrounding sex lolol. In its full, male biology without need for cultural adhesion is basically rape, pillage, destroy, and women aren’t much better I guess. The ideal masculine role is far from realized by almost any culture consistently exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:47 PM
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And then get chased away by fussing women in an eye rolling comedic way so years of gaslighting and cognitive destruction can continue lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:55 AM
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People get exactly what they deserve they just don’t understand how cruel and strict the rules are imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:48 AM
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why didn’t it break you down like most of the dudes online or those who become butter, do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:27 AM
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I mean you can lust after others and vice versa for decades and use weed and alcohol to cope with the emptiness ontop of that, sure. Many do since we live in decadent times. i think lust is peak satisfying in a monogamous loving relationship between two hot people where anticipation plays a huge role. So I agree it’s a foundational thing but it’s a hair trigger and not a consistent state or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:04 AM
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Monks becoming eunuchs is not the same thing man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:18 PM
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I like your attitude tbh and being able to get others to feel relaxed and confident is definitely a skill that looks don’t contribute too as much as they do to initial attraction. This is the most authentic nuance I like to read and see because there are definitely people who live and love beyond just superficial looks but it’s a damn skill to be able to create it. you’re probably just that rare super charismatic guy. I had a friend growing up who, respectfully to him, was ugly as fuck and he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:08 PM
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when we read about this time period in history books, that sentence will be the synopsis of all gender conflict bullshit and worth 3 points on a 200 point test, one hopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:57 PM
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I went through a 3 year phase of dealing with mostly af 18-22yo chicks because they pursued me on dating apps. every. Damn. Match. Just based on wanting sex because duh. I deluded myself a relationship was possible but that was mostly just thinking with my dick and more recently I figured out how dumb that is. but yeah. They are hot, horny, have no sympathy for anyone and love cocaine. It’s a good time to be an attractive player if that’s your thing but personally I need someone hot and intellec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:55 PM
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I think if that’s what you feel you need and you have it then it’s healthy to be “content “. ideally we find someone who is walking our path already and that we just effortlessly fall in line with, since that minimizes friction. nothing was more annoying for me trying to date than realizing the person I was talking to was a night owl and being like yeah I will definitely never not be a morNing person. It seems trivial like “well couldn’t you change that for the right person?” But for irrational …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:26 PM
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I just want to thank you for the term “Blue Steel Selfie”🤳
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:41 PM
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Marriage is for people who want the ability to let shit slide and have their partner be highly discouraged from challenging them on it. This is for men and women and since most people seek security to their own detriment, marriage appeals to those who mutually want that false sense of security. Of course we all know how most marriages turn out, and that means that a large % are also miserable but still married. The oath people have to take to be lovers is taken daily, imo, and a result of action…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:39 PM
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Many of our issues which get mired in gender debates are actually just discussions of luxury for people to indulge in. historically we have always needed people for better or for worse. Abuse of different kinds and compromise beyond what’s just was necessary. Turns out once you give people the capacity to live with more autonomy, which has occurred almost entirely due to technological and economic reasons, (I could make a strong argument that women were liberated from poverty and luditism instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:33 PM
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Not to circle jerk but I agree and your post was pretty thorough even if I did disagree. The only things I can push back on a bit are that men uniting will often be in a practical area, so the perception that MAGA etc will help with economic issues (not my view), remove government corruption etc is what men see as a win for men. That’s the way men tend to “cooperate”. I also agree with your last point strongly, that men need to have more empathy for men. Contrary to public belief mkst of the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:16 PM
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In terms of the social messaging of “he for she”, and patriarchy theory (which is just theory with specific traits in feminist theory), there’s a huge gap in liberation, or liberalism I guess would be ok to say in this context. You can see this with economic and the early liberal revolutions also, as economics began to slowly loosen the chokehold old order structures (like religious, feudal lords etc) had over their population . The initial change brought a lot of good, as did feminism (despite …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:01 PM
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What other option did young women have historically to make a lives for themselves besides being wives and mothers ? I agree that 12,13, 14 etc is perverse, I’m just wondering what happens at like whatever average age motherhood has been historically, when there was massive incentive to have many children, unlike now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:15 PM
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Women simply don’t lust this outrageously, : s even teenagers can conceal their attraction better, maybe in the bedroom OP means?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:12 PM
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Lust doesn’t necessarily have any follow-up cognitive benefits just like with men, the idea that women catch feelings applies to younger women and men alike imo, adult women are much like men I’ve found, if they are attractive and confident, it’s like a pleasure and dominance game of cat and mouse when it comes to lust, is my observation, and not an overly exciting one either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:10 PM
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But interestingly he says at the end that this occurs as an unconditioned response, once male dominance is removed from the social equation. Lust just isn’t enough anyway, it’s superficial and can go on for a few years but it’s not enough. I think it’s important in a relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:06 PM
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