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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | To the people saying the “50% of all marriages end in divorce” fact is outdated.I’m warning you not to do it again! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 12:17 AM |
| 0 | To the people saying the “50% of all marriages end in divorce” fact is outdated.I’m not judging you. I’m telling your ass not to do it again! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | To the people saying the “50% of all marriages end in divorce” fact is outdated.Exactly. I wanted to add this to the analogy but couldn’t come up with a great explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 12:15 AM |
| 2 | To the people saying the “50% of all marriages end in divorce” fact is outdated.I feel like the number is a lot higher as well but can’t prove it. We can’t even mathematically account for those who stay in unhappy relationships. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Most marriages these days seem to end with a walkaway wife/divorceWould you fly with an airline if you knew it had a 42% failure rate of travel? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What was your ex wife’s career or job?Why didn’t nursing work out? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Full hair until divorceDutasteride with minoxidil. If that doesn’t bring you back, get a hair transplant. If that goes against your limits of self-optimization, just go bald bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 08:02 PM |
| 13 | Can't do this anymoreI’m sorry for being unserious but I am black wondering wtf we do lol. Why even mention that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 03:16 AM |
| 2 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?Would you remarry or date a woman who wants to be a SAHM in the future? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?I have heard so much stuff about nurses it’s scary. I try not to think that way because their work is genuinely hard but it’s hard not to. My ex and I were already having issues before she started nursing school. I told her that if she was unwilling to work on the issues we were having before she started, they would exacerbate once she started that journey. She agreed that this was true with no effort to fix things and here I am now. Makes me wonder what my life would be like if I “supported” he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 12:54 PM |
| 7 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Solid take. Thanks for this response. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Everyone don’t deserve it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 09:43 PM |
| 0 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.I agree! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.I wouldn’t say your criticism is harsh. It’s barely enlightening. It’s a predictable response, but the response isn’t even indicative of me being wrong, but cynical. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 6 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.How is one an incel if they are neither involuntarily nor voluntarily celibate? You post porn even as a married man, but think you have the audacity to attack my moral character. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.No, I do not think they are all like this. I never said they ALL were? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:55 PM |
| -1 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Yikes, good point! I was just answering his question though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:42 PM |
| -5 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Yes and because of my choices, (assuming I don’t get hit by car or suddenly die), I will not have to work by the time I am 30-35. I have all the benefits without the contract. As far as emptiness goes, I would agree but a quick look through this sub and other similar ones would show you that there is a huge percentage of married couples “feeling alone” in their relationship. That empty feeling is something you feel if you are married or not. That’s an internal dilemma. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:49 PM |
| 0 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.I am giving them a certain kind of love only :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:39 PM |
| 0 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.I never said that I or men can’t find a partner that is actually a great person or may not care about getting married. As a matter of fact, literally every woman I have dated seriously said they don’t value marriage or children. As the relationship progress, they all (from my experience) eventually start discussing the idea of marriage and children. If they maintain the presentation of not wanting marriage (while I maintain the belief), their presentation will manifest into disillusionment once … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.I’m in my 20s. Thank you for the advice but I am not a believer in a MGTOW-RP-type of lifestyle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:13 PM |
| -4 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Maybe, but I think I need to stop reading Deleuze, Critical Theory and all other forms of literature making me disillusioned with modern capitalistic societies. I’d be a happier person if I could pretend these clearly problematic elements within institutions like Modern Marriage did not exist. Even your statement is strange to me because it begs the question of the kind of therapy I would need. Freudian-based psychotherapy which makes up much of Western medicine? Eastern psychotherapy? Why are w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:08 PM |
| 4 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.“It Is No Measure of Health To Be Well-Adjusted to a Profoundly Sick Society” | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:00 PM |
| 4 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Thanks for the wisdom OG | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:57 PM |
| -4 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.You said all of that just to come to the same conclusion I have. Specifically look into the 3rd section of the post below the numbered points where I explain how I think marriage is beautiful. I see why people do it as well, but like me, you are choosing not to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:39 PM |
| 3 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Would you do it again? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.Thanks for the comment. My appreciation of Schopenhauer’s essay has been taken as a blanket rejection of all women, but I am engaging with it on a more abstract, atomic level. In many other comments, I express that I am simply responding to the archetype or “form” of woman Schopenhauer was critiquing, not declaring war on half the population. I have read AO by Deleuze and Guatarri, so I am glad you brought him up. They are not exactly “modern” philosophy (I guess to me since I am young), but it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.Such an insightful comment. Thank you for sharing. When you say you thought the children were being raised by single mothers for years, do you mean that they actually had fathers STILL married to the mom or were the fathers separated? I guess you wouldn’t know, but that is very interesting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.I agree with you here. I did allow myself to be used and now see it clearly. Thanks for the input. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.Morning to you. You have most of your posts hidden and I assume you are on this sub for a reason, so I would love for you to share your experiences. Maybe learning more about what you have been through will “lead us to light” as you put it. It would be a much better approach than trying to stage a power move dressed up as concern which is designed to end discussion, not open it. By the way, I am not writing off all women. I clearly state in another comment that I am done with the archetype of wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.You seem to be affected by a nerve that was struck from a piece of literature I didn’t even write. I can tell because (like some other guy here) you decided to come to a conclusion based on no evidence other than you’re own personal opinion (Schopenhauer is “dead wrong”) with no factual evidence to back up why I or the original essay is wrong. You then decided to suggest that I read an American New Age cult leader’s work (which is a poor imitation of actual eastern spiritual literature) as a pot… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.I am not sure what being “well” or “unwell” means in the context of our society (this is coming from someone thriving in it resourcefully speaking), so please enlighten me. What is true wellness? What is true unwellness? You never gave an example of that, but decided to judge me (I actually mention this jokingly in my bio as I know people like you do this) based on a comment under an unrelated (to romantic relationships) post. I think most people live in a box, but I have no problem admitting it… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.I also want to make it known that I am not trying to spout any philosophical-red pill BS. I am merely relating to a quote based on my own love for such a titan of a philosopher (I read classic philosophers like Hegel, Marx, Foucault, Baudrillard, Fanon, etc.). I never knew Schopenhauer wrote this until today. The essay reminded me of my ex in the sense that she was unable to abstractly express her thoughts, plans and future. Although I financially, emotionally and spiritually supported her, ther… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 03:35 AM |
| 2 | What was your ex wife’s occupation?damn. sounds like not trying to save the relationship was the right decision. note to self: no nurses lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men of this community, was I used this entire time?Indeed brotha | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/25 04:53 AM |
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