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Was there anything different about the commonly cited one that made women more likely to say they were in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:40 AM
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I don't know if it's just my area or circles or what but honestly single people are rare where I am, men or women. It's an UMC area with most people under 35 or 30. I would say maybe there are slightly more single men but everyone is pretty partnered up I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:29 AM
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The hard life of an alterna-stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:24 AM
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I wonder if it's because socially men are incentivized with social validation to withhold commitment until it's absolutely official and women are encouraged to secure it so they are quick to say they're in a relationship even if things are still murky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:19 AM
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LOL reminds me of that one joke "I've been dating Brooke since last September" "Nice. Does she know about this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:06 AM
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It's still hard to understand why a woman would say she's in a relationship when she hasn't gotten the answer to "so what are we" yet or things are obviously not established.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:03 AM
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I cannot imagine juggling relationships or trying to keep one woman from knowing about another woman. How tf is that worth it. Just one is stressful enough and I imagine trying to be slick about shit just adds to it exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:55 AM
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If most young men are single and most young women aren't, is that b/c a lot of these young women are dating older men or is it young women unknowingly dating the same men? Or maybe men and women have a different idea of what constitutes single or in a relationship eg a situationship in which the man identifies as single but the woman doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:48 AM
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This should be more interpreted as women don't feel anything special or visceral by looking at 80% of men without knowing more about him. Not that women find 80% of men repulsive. I mean there are women out there who literally say they feel nothing for Henry Cavill despite seeing he's conventionally hot and say they require something more like a connection. In this sense I could see how many women could look at a decent looking guy and still be like meh because they have nothing else to go off o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:37 AM
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Break what? They would throw footballs and shit, play catch, sometimes a window would get broken, sometimes they would hit a car, sometimes they would vandalize a car or purposely damage property around the school. Sorry, I guess that's not hard enough for it to count for you. No girls saw me get bullied in that situation so therefore these bullies were upstanding citizens outside of the locker room, ok lol. How the fuck is this relevant? I could also relate the times I was bullied in front of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:23 AM
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People don't change much in adult life. Just the manifestation of behavior changes. The social hierarchy and laws of nature do not. It seems like you're just pretending to be ignorant about some of the rowdier kids in school. Break what? Be so fr. As if these motherfuckers don't exist? You sound exactly like those victim blamers who gaslight people who suffer from pointless bullying on a daily basis. In h/s as a freshman I used to have random senior guys in the locker room just stand in my way a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:06 AM
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I like to cite school experiences b/c it's human interaction and dynamic at its core. A lot of guys back in school were objectively dickheads. This isn't a "but that's just your opinion" thing. Guys who were rowdy and rebellious, went around breaking things just for fun just so show off or show they could. Most of these guys, if not all, did not have problems dating. There were, however, plenty of men who were not dickheads who struggled. This doesn't change in the real world. Women still choose…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:54 AM
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Did these men he beat and threatened deserve it? If they did then he's not the type of man I'm talking about -_- Why is it so important to you to convince me men are just as bad in this context? smh Must be nice though since wherever the argument goes you can always fall back on "but men commit most of the violent crime".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:48 AM
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It's simple. Assholes and criminals usually don't have trouble dating. That means a significant amount of women are okay with, if not more attracted to, men who project the associated traits. It tells me at the very least, it's not a disqualifier. It goes without saying if he has a "heart of gold" he's not a sociopath, narcissistic, or asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:30 AM
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If she sees him exhibit problematic yet dominant behavior toward others, and finds this acceptable if not even better on an unconscious level, that equates to her knowing what type of guy he is and "seeing the behavior". If she knows this about him and still chooses to fuck or date him, she has "seen the behavior". This type of man is not comparable to a woman who simply will use a man for money. Period. The woman is okay with the man being a shithead to everyone. The man is okay with being used…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:20 AM
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I don't know if women consciously seek out sociopaths. All I know and see is men being assholes to other men and men exhibiting manipulative and sociopathic behavior, are not disqualified or red flagged by many women. Nobody's giving a pass to men for stupidity. Picking a woman you know will just use you for your money due to desperation is simply not the same as picking a guy you know is a shitty person to other people. If being a dickbag is a non-issue or even enhances his appeal, literally wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:10 AM
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Narcissists, sociopaths, socially dominant men are often observed being ruthless or shitty to people in the workplace while committing selfish acts to get ahead and this doesn't turn off a lot of women, in fact it does the reverse. It's no secret these men often have no trouble dating. You seem caught on this idea that a bully needs to be a man who somehow punches another guy out in a bar or something. Entire subreddits saying AWALT because they dated a cheater or gold digger. You're comparing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:56 PM
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You said all that and still didn't refute my point. The man is just stupid. The woman is okay with a man who hurts others. Ofc most adults aren't acting like bullies on the playground, the adult versions of the men these women pick are the sociopathic, the narcissistic, and the manipulative. Goes without saying these men don't have to be shoving other men against the wall demanding lunch money to fit the bully label. LOL also what do men get by playing victim? They don't have an entire media mac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:49 PM
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Doesn't seem like it matters to a lot of these women that the man isn't just capable of violence for protection, but also aggressively intimidates and bullies others. So I really don't see how it's equal. Sure, they're both accountable. Difference again is the women are okay with the men being dickheads to others "for their protection" and the men are just stupid. You can pretend not to see this all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:40 PM
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Brutally based. Also anyone who remembers school knows bullies never had trouble with women or girl groupies. Didn't really even matter what they looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:34 PM
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Not always, but sometimes. In any case, do you believe many women are naturally drawn to these men due to their capacity on dominating and inflicting violence on other men? If so it's not comparable to a man choosing a golddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:23 PM
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No doubt men make bad decisions also, but maybe the difference is there isn't an innate process like where the woman gets off on the idea that the man dominates and bullies other men and people - assuming you agree with the OP in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:17 PM
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I guess it's just personal preference, I don't find our celebrities that much to my liking, yet I find the garden variety attractive american woman to be perfect. As a tangent when I look for attractive members of an ethnic or national group I always like to look at the general public because the celebs and beauty standards tend to select for features real or fake that are prized due to being not as common. Consequently I find a lot of American celebs to have features that are either exaggerated…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:40 PM
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I find English celebrities on the whole more attractive than American ones but if you're talking about the general public it's American women by a landslide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:29 PM
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Honestly I haven't talked to a lot of people IRL about this but if you spend enough time online you'd think the entire world basically thinks American women are the fattest and most overrated women in the world, even according to American men. Meanwhile other women are gassed up like Scandinavian, Latina or Asian women. Obviously you have American women with this type of ethnicity in their background but the idea is that American culture and society ruins all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:22 PM
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I'm not extremely well traveled but I've been around and it's not like we don't get glimpses of what women are like in many other countries, including actual not-too-far removed immigrants here. Sounds unpopular but I still find attractive American women, with their mannerisms, accents, whathaveyou, to be the most attractive women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:39 PM
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Oh you said 9 and 0 for some reason I read that as 9.0. Yeah then I get you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:34 PM
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Actress was 6-7 Actor is 5-6
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:18 PM
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What. He has zero dimorphism as a man and when he was a woman she was cute but had nothing special or striking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:17 PM
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One woman in one of my outer circles is the textbook pink-haired obese feminist. She's single, 30, loud and obnoxious, today she laughed and remarked something like "Men just have no power anymore, it's great". Men have no power now but nevertheless she will go home and type about the patriarchy and how much power they have. Her future is either alone or with a man (or series of men) she will resent and be unhappy with forever b/c they don't fit her standards. I use this to think positively and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:30 PM
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I simply don't understand how if both parties are drunk and have sex, it's conventionally the woman who is talked about as being the victim of rape. If the guy was drunk how is he not a victim also, isn't he unable to give consent by law as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:52 AM
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Also if the statistic that most men who seek custody get custody, wouldn't it be the case that at least in this sense the system is biased against women? B/c obviously there will be a large percentage of these cases where the woman is equally fighting for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:29 AM
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I mean I'm just saying wouldn't it be accurate to posit in most cases where the man isn't awarded custody, he didn't really want custody in the first place? The caveat being maybe some men who want custody may not have the time, money, resources or education to see it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:18 AM
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Aren't there studies that show most men who proactively seek custody get it? I don't know just how extensive or how many hoops they have to jump through, but statistically men who set their mind to achieving custody succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:11 AM
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First of all, good points. Now forgive me for my little rant. His video is one of countless YT videos that are at best interesting viewing but with no real lasting relevance. That's kind of my problem is everyone - economists, doctors, health experts, homeopaths, ideologues and philosophers, are advertising their shit as revelatory of big secrets and truths when in reality it's some general truth mixed in with their own bullshit. Makes it shitty for the one video that actually has lasting value …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:55 AM
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Ok he's not a grifter and not stupid. My experience with these types of people is their content is thought provoking at best. There's little to no accuracy behind their predictions in that ultimately it's just kind of maybe an interesting video to watch if you are into the subject matter. Somewhat related, I always wondered what was the purpose of people throwing out dire economic predictions in articles and videos. Are they trying to warn people? Persuade gullible investors to dump or sell? Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:42 AM
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I'm going to say there's a chance that he's onto something, but the chance is not a big one. As is the case with all of these independent and alternative news documentaries and shit on YT where anyone can be a mass communicator, it's a lot of trash mixed in with some general points that have some merit for grifting or clicks. As in he's right about male dating struggles, he's wrong about some great revolution just like how armchair economists post videos about 1st world countries collapsing by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:33 AM
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Ideal height tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:27 AM
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That's a key point when people say things like "fat guys can be fit and attractive". Strong fat guys or fat guys on the fitter side look considerably better than regular or weak fat guys. The former are essentially men who work out consistently with good results but also don't say no to extra pizza or beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:26 AM
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The latter. Also lots of hints like being especially talkative to what he's saying, laughing at everything he says, placing themselves in positions of close proximity, little pats here and there, maybe saying things like "Hey we should hang out sometime" "Hang out with me!". Even inviting him to events or clubs she likes to attend. An actual direct "Hey, would you like to go out to dinner with me?" is rare, although the aforementioned things are basically the same thing to any guy remotely compe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:14 AM
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What copypasta is this,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:32 AM
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My grandparents can't stand each other and refuse to eat at the same table and sleep in the same bed. They just spend their days completely silent in a large-ish house. Hard to say if it's worth it to keep the family intact. I have the impression of you and your bf as like a Chinese-Korean Christian couple from well-to-do backgrounds. I would've assumed you're the Korean one as I've heard Chinese men being prized for surpassing the low bar of cooking or helping out with chores, but some things y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:44 AM
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Yea I know you aren't the type to say that I was jp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:35 AM
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Whatever happened to "If men didn't exist women would dress even sexier"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:33 AM
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Anytime, you're one of the few people here without a perpetual stick up their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:16 AM
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Mine has wheatgrass and spinach also.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:03 AM
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This sounds demeaning but basically for these reasons I have doubts most people on this sub are UMC. There's this impression everyone here just has the time and luxury to live in the gym with their coconut water and kale smoothies and shitpost on PPD 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:55 AM
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I get the feeling a lot of people here just live in shit circumstances and the way they describe the opposite sex I wonder if they just are constantly surrounded by terrible people. Like talking about women racking up body counts in the 50s by age 30. Or somehow every man is a fat unkempt creep demanding a 10. Or how finding someone with a BMI under 25 is an unrealistic unicorn. This describes nothing but the trashiest of people or unfortunate living situations and area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:43 AM
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Just b/c you have options doesn't mean you don't care about the quality of people you date/fuck or their beliefs...I'm not saying I agree entirely but a lot of men think feminists are more likely to be entitled, cheat, or disregard the traditional feminine roles these men like. Even if you know you have the SMV to find someone else fairly quickly it's still a lot of investment in emotions, time, maybe money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:31 AM
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It's 60% for all women, but there's a lot of gray. Most of this 60% (40%) think feminism describes them somewhat well instead of very well. Given how ubiquitous feminist ideology is in the mainstream, to be optimistic this doesn't sound that bad. It just means a whole ton of women just toe the line but aren't especially dogmatic about anything. Then this number goes even lower if you choose certain areas over others eg avoiding big liberal cities. Then you still have the remaining 40% who don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:11 AM
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Then you should just say that instead of citing numbers. But I get it, everyone just wants to get a snarky comment in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:06 AM
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Isn't this almost the case with a lot of women already? I don't shave my arms and I know a lot of women who naturally have hairier arms than me unless they are diligent about shaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:02 AM
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As long as you say the same to women who are surrounded by shitty men. Feel like it's a way of saying feminism is a good thing veiled in the form of "with these stats, good luck." In which case you should just argue for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:01 AM
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Treating everyone like a friend usually helps in talking to women. I've found even if they think it's kind of weird that you're so comfortable already, they'll quickly warm up as well once they feel that's just how you are. I feel like I've practiced this so much starting as someone scared to talk to anyone I'm not sure if I've just become someone else. I treat women/people I'm not sexually attracted to the same way. If I am hot for them it opens up avenues but if not, treating people like human…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:22 PM
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I hate "womp womp". Other examples of stupid unbearable reddit speak are use of the word "masterclass" to describe anything they think is good content and the "*checks notes*" thing to deliver a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:16 PM
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If by treated like a man you mean how a man is treated as disposable and invisible, then yeah. But I've found if I go into a dynamic with a woman like she is one of my close friends I feel free to joke or confide in it establishes a baseline level of trust and comfort for more to happen. I think women appreciate the humanity and the idea that a guy isn't just coming at her with the sole purpose of landing a breathing fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:03 PM
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We severely overestimate the importance of face on here. Most Chads I see who clean up with women and have the monopoly of female attention are usually tall and fit first and foremost. I know it's not the face b/c while the face is fine he would be getting zero attention if he was short and had no body. That being said I also find men on the whole more facially attractive than women without makeup but since I'm not gay I am only sexually attracted to the female form. Something about the male fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:19 PM
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LOLL it's over, that guy looks like a nerdy James Marsden. What hope do other men have??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:14 PM
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Recognizing someone as physically attractive or aesthetically pleasing isn't the same as feeling sexual desire. Even men feel that sometimes, I can see some women are goodlooking but there's nothing visceral that ignites within.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:13 PM
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Yeah it's funny how somehow suggesting male and female brains have different wiring no matter how slight is a blaspheme against the progressive convention. They love the narrative that it's all about socialization and fixing society. If men and women are the same cognitively why do people with gender dysphoria exist? Why do some people feel more one way or the other, despite their birth sex, even if they aren't trans? And studies have shown actually with individuals who grew up purposely raised …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:09 PM
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A lot of models are like that. Eyes really far apart, large forehead, emaciated face to the point that it looks alien, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:41 AM
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Hmm difference in tastes then. B/c I'd consider her eyes to be unremarkable and a lot of the eyes on that sub to be much prettier. But I'm with you in that eyes alone aren't what catch me, it's how everything comes together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:36 PM
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I get it. Even on good days when I'm having a lot of fun - or feeling very much at ease, I still feel very sleepy and tired by the early afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:35 PM
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It's not toxic if you just aren't attracted to it. It's natural for women to prefer masculine traits in men. Gender roles aren't a bad thing, and at the same time it doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with you if you don't fit into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:21 PM
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I mean overall a lot of them are okay but i would say a lot of the eyes are pretty cute. I'm not really an eye person though actually, as long as they're good enough I'm happy, it's more about the rest of the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:19 PM
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A lot of them look cute/beautiful to me. Post some examples of what you would consider actually beautiful eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:18 PM
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Been an introvert my entire life. Emotional labor, well, if I need to talk to people might as well get paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:14 PM
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I have a very hypersocial job that puts me face-to-face with lots of people, maybe hundreds, on a daily basis. Some days I move around a lot, some days I don't, but I'm on my feet for hours at a time. I have no problem doing 1-2 hourlong physical workouts and I am not as tired after them as I am after just usually 4-5 hours of work. Is this normal? I just feel fucking drained like I could go to sleep forever and it's not even 1 pm. Eventually, I can still "power" through the rest of the day sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:09 PM
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I'm sure I'm engaging in a bit of unhealthy height fetishizing but seriously I came across an article about like the most handsome NBA players. Some dudes on the list were like 6'10 6'11. How cool would it be to be that tall, who even cares what your face looks like unless it's bad. Oh is some 10/10 male model here to mog me? LOL where are you even bro I can't even fucking see you hope the weather is nice down there x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:10 AM
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Hehe Gameshow host: Okay so would you commit to a woman who will have sex with you 5 times a week if she also will have sex with a pitiful cuck beta bitch once a week as well out of empathy? Me: Absolutely, I would not mind sex 6 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:10 AM
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Looks like a publicity stunt between two low-class people for clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:14 PM
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I've heard a lot of men say they don't like women who act masculine, who act entitled, loud or annoying, who exhibit the prescribed behavior of a girlboss. I don't think I've ever heard a man under the age of 40 say they want a quote unquote submissive woman, though I don't doubt they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:09 PM
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I doubt this guy has a 1000+ yearly bodycount like he claims but it doesn't make sense to assume he's a virgin either as male virgins over 25 are rare no matter how ugly or shitty they are. But if he was remotely what he says he is you wouldn't be "impressed" as him pulling beautiful women would be routine and expected. It's not just soyboys doubting him, it's his other peers in the manosphere as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:00 PM
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It was pure idiocy and choking in the moment. I was just trying to say literally anything to make conversation. Societal expectations and norms are one topic and it's happened many times in the past but it just so happened this one time was when the most ridiculous thing came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:19 PM
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But if you say your looksmatch is an 8 everyone's going to read that you think you're an 8 which is the same either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:31 PM
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Probably my #1 most cringe socially shit thing I've ever said was when we were having a first date dinner and I was desperately looking for something to talk about so I literally said "I really dislike kids" as a way to just talk about social expectations of having a family as a conversation topic (LOL), not realizing it could easily be taken as being a creep moving too fast too soon. She just kind of stared open-mouthed and said "I...I don't know where this is coming from all of a sudden." The …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:29 PM
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Wouldn't rating your looksmatch just mean rating yourself? Why not just ask what you would rate yourself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:26 PM
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People like speaking up about things and projects they will never watch or entertain b/c they are invested in their narratives. Most of the people who hated the casting of Little Mermaid which was an actual movie were never going to watch it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:17 PM
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They're not meant to be comparable, just highlighting the difference in critique. You know if she looked old and haggard they would get on her about that too despite possibility of CGI or whatever. Also, I think this is meant to be a play so I'm guessing it's just going to be live performances and never on screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:03 PM
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Everyone shitting on Francesca Amewudah-Rivers being cast as Juliet b/c of her looks but won't talk about why Tom Holland looks like he's 45 now and 20 years older than his costar?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:57 PM
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It's true so much of sexual arousal is mental though. Like if you had no idea it was a dude's mouth you would still be able to cum. One time I was jerking off to what I thought was a very beautiful woman and then toward the end I found out in like the sidebar she was trans - which completely turned me off but...physiologically at that point....it was past the point of no return and...too late x_x...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:39 PM
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Does that work for straight women with ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:33 PM
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It's just an alternative media area that's prominent enough to gain a following. It's nothing much to do with the actual content again as it is that if you like it exclusively to mainstream stuff and you grew up in the west you probably have the personality profile of someone who has not adjusted well to convention. I would say comparatively overall anime and kpop are kind of more "infantile" or "safe" in their aesthetics and overall presentation so it probably caters to the socially underdevelo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:32 PM
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more like if only the guys in here loved getting their dicks sucked by men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:28 PM
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I dunno, I have a lot of gay friends and most if not all of them are in long-term relationships. That's not to say they don't have the inherent problems and stressors of everyone else in LTRs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:23 PM
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I don't mean to gaslight you but it's 100% your personality. I don't know what aspect of it but it's something. Even completely average men like the guy you posted - even if he wasn't famous - would not get rejected 100% of the time based on numbers alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:13 PM
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Kinda related to why so many women get so sensitive or offended when ugly men hit on them like afraid it means they are in the same league as the ugly guy. They judge themselves by it and other women probably do too. Don't they know by now a lot of men are indiscriminate or don't even know what their own league is? And even if they knew, they wouldn't care. Men don't get women out of their league by not trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:11 PM
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Maybe it's proof that people who are attracted to men don't have nearly any of the issues or problems as people who are attracted to women. Straight women here aren't posting their struggles, they're just playing defense by rebuking straight men who post their struggles. Edit: Reminds me of a Bill Burr bit where a lesbian was rude to him for no reason, and he found understanding and realized why she was in such a shit mood and out of sorts was b/c she probably lives with another woman or has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:01 PM
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My friend sold feet pics regularly to make it through nursing school. She was so matter-of-fact about it too when she told me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:35 PM
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This place is full of weebs which means they are likely socially underdeveloped and neurodivergent as hell which explains all the never touched grass delusional takes on life and dating. It's not because of the actual content in anime or kpop, it's b/c if you're into this then you probably didn't adjust well and turned to niche or alternative media for comfort. No racist, am half-asian and have plenty of experiences with non-asian people who tried to start convo or bond with me by citing random …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:32 PM
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Most men don't make women immediately wet based on their looks. A lot of the men in this overwhelmingly majority of a category still get women, many with attractive women if they have the right social skills and networking. Also if you're just ugly compared to Chad you aren't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:25 PM
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This place is full of weebs into anime and kpop which automatically means they are likely weird and neurodivergent as hell. It's not because of the actual content, it's b/c if you're into this then you probably didn't adjust well and turned to niche or alternative media for comfort. No racist, am half-asian and have plenty of experiences with weird ass non-asian people who tried to start convo or bond with me by citing random anime or kpop people I've never heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:08 PM
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That's just a difference between asian beauty standards re: men. The brickheaded squinty eyed Chads worshipped in the west look like low-class construction workers to Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:57 PM
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Men here need to start taking the personality pill. I have never seen a single dude complaining about being ugly online actually be ugly. It's just countless examples of "I'm subhuman" and then later on "I mog this 5/10 guy into oblivion". These men are just straight up autistic or offputting IRL with major issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:52 PM
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The guy in the picture can clearly get someone who's over a 3/10 femcel though. I see men like that with average women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:57 PM
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Didn't you say you were ugly? If you mog him then you're not ugly at all since even this guy isn't ugly, just normal looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:36 PM
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One of my friends is really into tall burly blonde guys. In conversation I remember telling her what I preferred in women and she kinda goes "....Welp. Looks like you'd never date me then.." and immediately I said "Am I your type? Would you date me? How about settle down then." Then she kinda giggled it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:56 AM
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Don't mean to piggyback on this but a lot of women say men are stupid and don't get hints. The reality is men notice the indicators of interest. Some men practically begging to see hints that aren't even there. But men are also afraid of assuming hints are more than just flirting b/c she's bored, afraid of finding out they overstepped b/c the hints weren't even hints, afraid of being labeled creepy or delusional, afraid of responding in kind because of all sorts of insecurities, hesitations, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:47 AM
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A lot of people word this poorly or don't bother to parse the nuances but what they mean is the average woman is deemed physically attractive [enough] by many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:40 AM
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It's not entertaining to me at least. Multiple separate situations it's people coming to bitch and lament about their relationship woes but it's clear their SO is a complete piece of shit and we keep telling them to leave. Then they agree that they should leave but don't actually leave b/c they're afraid of being alone or whatever. Then they come back a couple months later with the same thing knowing we're just going to have to say the same thing in response b/c we've been over it 42380958 times…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:13 AM
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Women and men value different things in each other. Do many women get turned off by short men even though they themselves are short? Answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:26 PM
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Maybe I'm around some dirty ass women x) I remember a few girls telling me that it's normal for women to get UTIs all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:05 PM
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God made cock n balls hang outside the body at rest and super sensitive to be kicked so he had to even things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:03 PM
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I mean it kinda is, that's why you guys get UTIs every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:57 PM
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I choked on my oatmeal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:56 PM
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There's obviously no better way to learn than being in an actual relationship, but it's true you can also learn plenty just from being observant and around a lot of people in everyday life. I guess I believe that but at the same time it can also be very depressing. You don't have to be the target of mistreatment to be negatively impacted, if you become aware enough you notice all the microaggressions and bullshit people do to each other and it can discourage you from further forming close bonds …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:26 AM
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One of the most deluded takes I'd ever heard here was a woman saying Devito and the soccer player Cristiano Ronaldo would be on equal footing in terms of dating if both were in their prime. When I said how ridiculous it was that she herself probably didn't believe what she was arguing she said something like "Well Ronaldo would just be hanging out in bars full of dudes who watch soccer whereas Devito would be touring the country with way more fans including female fans." whaaaat The mental gymna…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:14 AM
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A lot of people are suggesting this place is full of UMC people who have the luxury to live in the gym. The amount of downvotes and pushback I get from even suggesting sustained weight loss is achievable or that 25% BF isn't good for a man says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:06 AM
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I'm gonna need to see a picture of this headturner or at least a description or public figure he resembles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:50 AM
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There are a lot of hot girls on reddit. They're all weird though. Safe to say everyone on Reddit is weird. You can tell from places like incel subs/forums there isn't actually too much of a correlation between what someone says and feels and how they look. You're probably right in that the extroverted neurotypical types are less likely to be regular users and if they're socially successful the chances of them being goodlooking are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:01 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:16 PM
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My friend is a tiny asian guy and ate 6 big macs once. I think they were having a bet that whoever eats the most the other ones pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:08 PM
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I read "he'd feel seek" in a russian accent. Voice typing ftw~
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:06 PM
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Damn. My record was 4 1/2 quarterpounders with cheese but that was a dare/contest type deal, not just a regular thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:44 PM
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Did automaticmeaning the bmi guy get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:40 PM
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my man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:35 PM
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I don't see the confusion. I think OP had sex as part of the whole of attraction but wasn't focusing solely on it, but if you want to talk about just sex, ofc you can lose attraction to someone but it doesn't sound farfetched at all in the sense that if you were sexually attracted to them before you might still be now. Even if you broke up. People are sexually attracted to a lot of people besides their SOs if they were to ever admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:24 PM
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Miss what, the speculation in a study you turned into a foregone universal conclusion? You're either around some POS men or you're a POS yourself b/c you can't imagine still feeling things for an ex without sex involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:12 PM
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That's pretty dickish of you to say like you assume there's no way anyone or men could have this type of fondness without sex on the brain. At this point I have no reason to believe OP is being dishonest or miscommunicating. Edit: I also don't see why it's so hard to believe, to not even talk about relationships there are people I had a falling out with and am still able to appreciate memories or the good things about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:07 PM
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The blue-piller in me would say it's b/c women focus all their attention and affection on one man at a time so if she's no longer with him I could see why the feelings are not there, but we all know that's not necessarily true. Maybe women do more self-talk in convincing themselves how wrong their ex was for them and so they are unable to see their exes as anymore than nothing after that, who knows. My relationship with my exes have been cordial but predictably distant. It's almost like if you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:02 PM
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That doesn't explain the disparity in terms of how men are more likely to still feel attraction or fondness for their exes versus women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:01 PM
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If a woman is to have casual sex, she knows that she is risking more social scrutiny than a man would receive, and since it's purely sex it will be much more based on his physical attributes vs anything like personality or positive long-term traits like kindness - maybe some tingles re: vibes, status, dominance. If it's someone she's willing to risk her reputation or judgment - including her physical health or unwanted pregnancy - just to fuck him it's much more likely he is higher up on the loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:03 PM
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Piss bottles. If you aren't neckbeard maxxing in 2024 what are you even doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:53 PM
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It's funny that this sub has a rep for people having high standards or rating people harshly but at the same time upvotes shit like high BMIs being okay or sexy with 6 feet 200 lbs 25% bf being no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:38 PM
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Are you under the impression that unattractive men are around more women than average men? Pretty sure that only applies to unattractive men who happen to have nerdy social circles, in which case it's just the argument that social circle is very important, which is 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:27 PM
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I haven't dated at all for the past 2 years due to mental problems from the pandemic onset and probably many other things. In the past despite not being Chad I would say I haven't had too many issues attracting women or initiating things, have had only a couple relationships that I sabotaged eventually since I was feeling so overwhelmed and worn down. Before I had the same kneejerk reaction about guys paying for the "girlfriend experience" because I never got how it was fulfilling knowing she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:17 PM
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I just find relationships, much less marriage, very stressful. Life is stressful enough and then you have a whole 'nother person in the equation, a gigantic new variable that needs to be accounted for every day of your life thereon. Even when there's nothing wrong it feels like a huge burden. A lot if it may be due to just my inborn temperament and issues of distrust, paranoia etc. but I would need to sift and make it through all this before we even begin talking about the other person and how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:36 PM
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She isn't. That's how stupid they are. And Taylor Hill is supposedly 1 out of 10,000. I mean she's pretty, maybe a little bit skinnier than the average hot girl if that's what you're into, but 1 in 10,000 please GTFO I'd take Glau or a lot of the 6s or 7s any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:02 PM
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Incel blackpill tards can't even be consistent about their own standards. The army of PSL male models they dickride incessantly largely have long midfaces (including their god Lachowski) and low FWHR which destroys their own theory, and half the people on the lower tiers of the TrueRate site have features and ratios that are supposedly superior on paper. You also have a smattering of no-name potato faces in the 8s or 9s and it's like what? Also Summer Glau is supposedly a 5 on the women's guide,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:57 PM
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2040 Tiktok caption with a guy crying on the weight bench: "When your height starts with 7"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:28 PM
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6'9" will be shortcel height in 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:13 PM
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It's clear from observation the prettiest women aren't as picky about looks as women who aren't as pretty - this isn't to say looks don't matter at all to them. It's usually more status and height. It's similar to how a lot of women who absolutely demand tall men over 6 feet are women who are very short bc it's a fixation and insecurity of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:51 PM
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This just means women are afraid/avoiding creepy men, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:48 PM
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viel Gluck mein freund
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:47 PM
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lolk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:16 AM
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Yeah I jumped the gun. I think I misinterpreted your comment as saying we were not comfortable in our sexuality and that if we were comfortable we wouldn't be responding or whatnot. Honestly it hasn't been directed at me often but it's just a pet peeve of mine for people to throw out insults that reinforce whatever people are supposedly against. Shows hypocrisy and eliminates credibility and I can't take them seriously onward. It is kinda true though, I actually make sexual suggestive jokes to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:50 AM
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Somehow talking about height privilege is equal to writing fanfic about Chad's throbbing cock. Are you listening to yourself? You can assume I'm gay. Like I said it makes zero difference lol. My gay friends are fucking great if I'm going to be likened to them it's a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:39 AM
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Not a boomer/x. I got no problem being called gay. I do however, think it's in pretty bad taste for people who are supposedly all about progressiveness and acceptance to make homophobic jokes (or prison rape jokes toward homophobic criminals) toward men they deem homophobic just to get them back. No matter what you actually believe, by putting those words out there you're just perpetuating problematic trains of thought in order to win edgelord points. Just like feminists who talk all day about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:23 AM
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I have tons of gay friends, literally zero problem being assumed or called gay lol. It's a tale as old as time for people to assume that - or make jokes/comments about - men who are hyper-aware of or talk a lot about looks or height privilege in other men are "in the closet" and "want Chad's dick more than women do". The reality is a lot of these men are on the spectrum, overthink things neurotically, and hyperfixate and overanalyze details and miss the forest for the trees. I fall into this pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:20 AM
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Herhggh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:47 AM
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it's over for 6'1"cels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:44 AM
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Herm herm gherh homophobic joke to derail point herhgh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:43 AM
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But it does. If he was 5'7" he'd be getting nobody. They may not be your #1 type but six foot plus guys with remotely decent bodies (which doesn't apply to him) and faces are basically gigachad. As you know mediocre tall white dudes have zero issues dating. As long as they aren't PPD autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:42 AM
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But they have a perfect starting point to just work on their body and grooming with bare minimum social skills. Men who are genuinely facially too ugly such that their height doesn't help are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:35 AM
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So many dudes here 6'2" 6'3" complaining about this and that. Eat shit and GTFO, that's all I have to say lol. The world is yours you have no excuse. Edit: Inb4 "6'2 is manlet-tier in 2024".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:30 AM
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I mean thank you (not you) for the downvotes lol but I am not trying to be insensitive and I know it's hormonal. I also get that it's still very rough and uncomfortable. I guess I just associate depression or dead-inside with feeling actual sadness. I might get frustration and anger and anxiety though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:16 PM
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do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:07 PM
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I understand a lot of it is hormonal but postpartum depression or just what you described was always a mystery to me. It should be the happiest time of your life. The physical hardship of the pregnancy is over, your child-rearing journey begins and there are infinite possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:06 PM
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Truly the land of the free here at PPD we don't know how good we got it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:04 PM
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I don't know how it would be implemented or if it's even feasible but there should be laws against that shit. I've been stolen from, assaulted, sexually assaulted, thankfully never cheated on or done horribly wrong in a relationship but I can imagine those breaking me way more than the stuff I listed ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:01 PM
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A lot of people acknowledge the other side may have it worse in some ways and at the same time are just looking out for their self interests as a human - which is fine as long as they admit it. Many also have just grown used to the inherent struggles and aspects of being a man/woman due to them being a man/woman their entire lives. There are a lot of things women have easier than men but if you asked me I wouldn't want to be reborn a woman. I brought this up a long time ago here and a lot of res…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:07 PM
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I would say male competition in the modern day has been fairly muted b/c physical violence is illegal and much more controlled. Traditionally, biologically, men compete by physically threatening or overpowering one another. Women do it more subtly by social exclusion, gossip, etc. Thus female competition is much more prevalent and acceptable as you won't go to jail for stabbing your friend in the back as long as it's metaphorical. This reflects my observations, although it's true none of this ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:56 PM
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That's the thing about muscles or abs. A lot of women say they don't like them or don't care for them. Some women say they like dadbods. Here's the thing, no woman ever turned a man down because abs and muscles aren't her thing unless he looks grotesque. No woman ever got 2nd thoughts and stuck around a man b/c "oh wait, he do got that dadbod tho..".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:37 PM
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Male thirst is just off the rails. She's pretty, she has great WHR, but I wouldn't be surprised if her BMI is close to 30. Yeah obviously female beauty allows for more body fat but seriously cmon man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:20 PM
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So is your advice to anyone who has gone through an unhealthy phase for a variety of reasons and ended up with some extra pounds to just say fuck it then? Your logic makes no sense because there are glaring easily identifiable reasons why someone just puts on 30 pounds over a year or two and you can't tell me you won't get any permanent results from permanently removing those reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:50 PM
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It's a lifestyle thing. My Asian mom is 5'5" and freaks the fuck out whenever she exceeds 125 lbs and always goes right back to her original (still too skinny if you ask me) weight after a month or so at most. It's not a huge loss, but it's still 15 plus or minus from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:43 PM
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Do you know how skinny people are in some parts of the world? Are they magical or what? I'm 5'10 130 and people thinner than me in places like Asia - a continent that houses the majority of the world's population - are a dime a dozen. You're basically just admitting sustained weight loss is rare here because of character and societal flaws and that somehow makes your statement an absolute one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:39 PM
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As long as failure is mostly due to things in your control, there is hope to not fail/succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:31 PM
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Most people fail b/c they lack the discipline and regularity to see it though. There are significant numbers of cases of people losing huge amounts of weight and keeping it off and it has nothing to do with their exceptional situation or genetics - otherwise frankly they wouldn't have initially gotten so fat to begin with. There are also many people, you can see them on social media, who yo-yo diet and gain and lose large amounts of weight over time with bulking, cutting, experimentation, whatha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:27 PM
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Losing weight basically doesn't happen in the real world. It's very rare. This is one of those things you read on reddit where it's so ridiculous and alien-sounding you can't do anything but just stare momentarily and then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:16 PM
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It's all good being a centipede until you realize you're going to go bankrupt when you need to buy new sneakers for even just one of your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:53 PM
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In America we don't say 2 feet for 60 cm anymore we say 4 cheeseburgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:51 PM
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The pickings for men struggling are going to be much slimmer than they already are then. Mental illness is rampant even among men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:42 PM
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In my opinion pho was just okay. Certainly not worth the hype among all college students or kids or whatever at the time. I never really considered the price being a primary draw since I only went out for pho when friends wanted to go. I felt the same way about sushi - but sushi is the opposite as in obviously overpriced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:13 PM
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Petty and disingenuous. Feminists complain incessantly about male apathy and lack of male accountability eg "men need to speak up and hold other men accountable, feminism requires men to succeed". The message being "there still isn't enough being done, not enough men speaking out". So no, the only way it's a "faulty" analogy is if we highlight the sheer difference between the feminist movement with all its backing on a global scale vs disgruntled men online almost universally panned in the mains…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:56 PM
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The world is full of one snake oil salesman at the core, then legions of dumbass uneducated sucker oafs branching out like ripples to spread and reinforce the message and product.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:48 PM
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Wearing a turtleneck is like being strangled, all day, by a very weak guy. - Mitch Hedberg RIP gone way too soon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:45 PM
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He's talking about how a lot of women say that. It's obvious on this sub as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:43 PM
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It's a counterreaction and balancing effect to the era of "all women are great and perfect and deserve perfection". The result will be something in the middle, I don't think it will seesaw over to a society - at least mediawise - that gasses up men incessantly like it has done with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:41 PM
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and Ninja Gaiden.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:37 PM
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Unfortunately I can't take credit, if you look the memes are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:32 PM
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LOL nothing wrong with it, it just started out in the mainstream west as a niche place for nerds or weebs. In Asia it's just another random cafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:30 PM
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Don't forget what they took from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:29 PM
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The 2024 bullies would've gotten the shit kicked out of them by the 2016 nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:46 AM
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They say kids these days are soft and I was just thinking fr though...I remember bullies being scary in school but imagine in 2024 you're an 8th grader and you stop dead in your tracks because Liam, Oliver and the rest of their cauliflower-headed posse just stepped out of the boba tea shop LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:40 AM
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Do you say this to feminists who talk about men being apathetic or looking the other way with respect to women's rights with an entire left-leaning progressive media machine - and not pockets of men on the fringes online - at their back? "Nobody's looking the other way, look at how many people are talking about this! Including you, OP!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:26 AM
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Bro looks more dead inside than a dead person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:00 AM
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Yeah trailer trash and trashy people in general have plenty of sex and zero of the problems everyone talks about here with blackpill this and that. Most incels are like nerdy autistic introverts with anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:54 AM
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"All men are trash" "All men need to take accountability or hold other men accountable" "Yes all men" but then "Women aren't a monolith". This is a lapse in logic 5-year olds understand. Also, "Stop objectifying women" but also "Re: 80/20 rule - No woman wants a mid man, blame nature for giving us eyes"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:51 AM
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The thing is the bane of short men with goodlooking faces is they're not competing with tall ugly or mediocre looking men. It's always tall men with good frames and decent faces 6-7/10 that beat them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:36 AM
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He also doesn't even need OLD. 6'5" dudes naturally stand out in a positive way to women in any crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:06 AM
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Honestly surprised he's come up empty at 6'5". He ain't ugly but his style in that picture is absolute shit and he's kind of pasty and potato-ey. Looks like he has plenty of room to improve and max out his stats too which is a luxury not all guys have. eg weight loss, tanning, cutting, lifting, style of dress and hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:41 PM
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I agree the image obsession in CA is crazy and not good. She is again "very pretty" with as you say great WHR, but unlike all of the delusional comments in that twitter thread she's actually pretty fat. Like borderline obese, according to the BMI chart if you assume she's 5'5" you don't think she's easily 77 kg at 165 cm (converted to aussie x))?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:31 PM
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Not here, I'm in a suburb in CA. It's just different in different places. I don't know many older women but I guess I could see how it might be different. However, there are stereotypes about Americans that I never even knew about until recently..like those scooters people rent or ride at grocery stores or malls. Had no idea those even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:17 PM
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Depends on where you are. Here it's not so bad. Esp for women under 30, most women are thin. I have to remind myself not everyone is in the same environment whenever people debate/argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:12 PM
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And men live life on hard mode b/c women impose the hardship on men going by the same logic. Another productive thread on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:06 PM
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It's not rocket science. She's very pretty. She has great fat distribution but is also pretty fat. She would look even better if she wasn't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:57 PM
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She's fat for an average chick too. She just has a pretty face, is made up, and has very lucky fat distribution - as in if you absolutely have to be a fat woman that's the type of fat distribution you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:56 PM
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Guarantee you it's almost entirely personality flaws and bad social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:52 PM
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For sure, you need to put yourself out there. There were silly awards at the end of the senior year and a lot of people who were voted with the most prettiest features were for people who were relatively quiet. These people were liked ofc but not necessarily very involved or extroverted. I actually had two awards but it was more embarrassing than anything, might have been b/c a few of the girls told everyone to vote for me. But that's why I always say preselection is #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:50 PM
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lmao it's not "overthinking" it's just describing exactly what happened in our exchange. Deflection again. You have a nice day ma'am lol say hi to your friend ms carnival for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:13 PM
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Yeah I'm guessing you guys have more egalitarian policies or mechanisms in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:05 PM
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You actually see that a lot in big cities. A very affluent area, then you cross the street or go down a couple blocks and it's the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:01 PM
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You assumed I was being hypocritical by criticizing women who marry rich men but not vice versa. That was shown to not be the case. You then assumed I brought up rich men as an example. Not the case as shown. Now you decide to go back to "most men don't have houses and cars before marriage". How is this relevant at all, and even if it was how does it invalidate the OP re: dangers of marriage in the cases where a lot of assets ARE involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:43 PM
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It was clear you got nothing out of the OP except "what the fuck, men are usually never rich" even though it has nothing to do with the OP. Just a reflexive reaction and you took OP (by a female poster who usually defends women on this sub btw) as an attack on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:37 PM
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Probably a matter of sociopolitical climate so I have no idea. Supposedly we're entering an era where men are becoming more "redpilled" or "based" on female nature and responding but not sure how true that is or if it will turn into anything significant. There's a lot of shitty things about this trend also so it's not a clear win either or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:33 PM
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H/s was where I figured out what works if you're a guy. Get connected, know the people who throw the biggest parties, project an air of confidence (no matter how not confident I was) and extroverted ease. It was night and day how people treated me, girls just started coming up to me who probably didn't know I existed before. I also improved my looks but I don't think that is as relevant...I was hardly the school Chad or among them. I did know and get along with them though. Social circle and soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:24 PM
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Validation on OLD, male thirst, over a decade of social conditioning from media that every woman is a 10 and don't need no man or deserves a 10. Treat yourself, live your best life, get it/go off girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:20 PM
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Yup. Good to see a new based sensible poster around here who knows his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:16 PM
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The OP is simply talking about the dangers of an imbalance of assets in marriage, which happens quite a bit. Whether it's the woman who's rich or the man who's rich (which happened more traditionally and still currently, but that's irrelevant), it doesn't matter, the dangers remain. Many people are going to continue to marry for money and/or assets are going to play a big role in reasons for marriage. I'm saying there was no need for you to just use this post as another opportunity to slam men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:13 PM
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Nice deflection but I'm not surprised. Thanks for the life advice I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:57 PM
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Nice deflection, you're extremely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:56 PM
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The rich man example was put forth in the OP even though she was speaking of these situations without gender specification - ie any time there is a significant imbalance in assets between the two parties. Also, if it was me who brought up "rich men" then why did the person I was responding to initially decide to make it about men not owning anything? Think you can comprehend all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:32 AM
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At least the accents are cool. A lot better than British ones. Although you might not think so if you're Aussie yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:22 AM
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Then the man isn't entitled to her shit. OP clearly inferred this isn't gender specific, but as typically is the case you guys are so caught up in Team Pinkpill Woman lol all you saw and focused on in this post was how to take a stab at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:16 AM
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Even at my most desperate I would just use my hand. I never understood why men would just go for it because she's there and willing. People argue maybe I'm not down bad enough but I'm just as horny as any other dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:14 AM
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You miss the point, and anyway OP was specifically referring to any time there is a [significant] imbalance in wealth or assets and used the rich man as an example b/c traditionally these types of partnerships were and still are a thing. Also, these situations are not especially farfetched or solely for the uber-rich. If I ever get married I will definitely be much more established with portfolios and my own place before I cross that bridge. Many people nowadays aren't marrying at 25 like they u…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:57 AM
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Seems like the average man would have more to lose for the same reasons a rich man would be wary of marriage. What was it Chris Rock said, a rich man who loses half his shit is still rich. An average man might have to move back in with his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:50 AM
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I think the hypocrisy is important to point out within the context of this entire sub which is for debating between the genders. The bigger picture, how the genders are currently treated in society, are always there and relevant if it's a PPD post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:51 PM
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Yet one is freely accepted if not common and embraced by convention. You can recognize both are wrong while noting the hypocrisy in the way they are addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:40 PM
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I read something earlier on this week about how the problem is actually that people think you're always supposed to be happy aka toxic positivity - eg good vibes only, you deserve this, you deserve that, everyone's a winner, treat yourself. You're not going to be happy all the time even in an ideal life situation, nor are you meant to be. Humans are almost designed to go through periods of struggle and suffering to meet their needs. Then the psychological and emotional effects are exacerbated be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:33 PM
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If you're autistic or very neurodivergent this is true. If not, masking clearly can be effective, and some people are just better at walking the walk, talking the talk, hiding what's inside. That's why there are so many women who justify their past bad mate choices by saying they had no idea the guy was such an asshole despite their conscious attempts to vet and use their intuition. Additionally, I just think a lot of people lack the ability to effectively read social cues and nuances and get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:18 PM
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Yes, it’s a very stupid argument used be weirdos who have no accomplishments of their own and would rather piggyback off of what other men have done rather than showcase why they as individuals are of any value. It's socially acceptable in this day and age to criticize and complain about men as monoliths as evident in mainstream articles, editorials, columns, and campaigns, so why is it wrong to praise men as monoliths?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:01 PM
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I already told you to do this in states like CA, HI, UT, CO, WA, OR, NY. It's clear your situation is rare and fucked. I also said it's incredibly weird that you don't see couples on college campuses and you said it's b/c college is different these days. You got something to say for everything man, I've been just tryin to help all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:09 PM
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I guess I also don't ever feel the need to purposely go to a college campus since I'm not in college anymore. My work takes me all across the city and also I am constantly surrounded by people in the 20-40 age range tho often skewing toward the younger end. Why don't you visit some social media pages of random attractive young women? Do their bfs mog you? Many do not. What did the poster in your screenshot say again? "Women like in-shape men" and her guy is 5'10 190? LOL. I don't need to touch g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:35 AM
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Well I'm going to be honest your case is either very rare i.e. you really seem to be just surrounded by severely deluded fat women and/or there's something about how you're coming across to people. It's still hard to believe that screenshot you put up earlier is a real interaction, but then again it was with someone on PPD and I don't think highly of a lot of people here. I may just have to say everything I've believed and observe may not apply in select parts of America eg a red state with high…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:27 AM
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Which means their social and emotional intelligence are REALLY bad. I always laugh when the occasional poster is like "I'm a 6'1 white guy with a good face and I can't get women to save my life. It's b/c they only want the top 1%" and it's either he's 1) not actually facially attractive - although it's not like this is absolutely necessary anyway or 2) he must have the most garbage social skills of peace. No remotely normal decent looking 6'1 white guy is struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:34 AM
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I agree women do like muscles. If you are 6' 160 and with low BF you'll have plenty of lean mass showing to spare. It's a lot different than 6' 160 and skinnyfat, which the OP further up isn't. In the past I've gotten a lot of "you're too skinnyyyy" from women who nevertheless still asked me out. I just have never seen being thin as a problem for me or most men bar extreme cases. Actual malnourished looking stick figures are fairly rare in America unless you're talking druggies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:59 AM
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If you're in a state (assuming you're American) where obesity isn't as prevalent, 6' 160 lbs will honestly be a preferred body type and even in places where obesity is high but there are a lot of delusional fat people out there who think a BMI of 25 is a stick figure. Ofc you'll find women who specifically shoot for muscular men who think 6' 160 is too small but...who cares, you have the majority of young women preferring leaner slighter builds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:52 AM
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Nope, it's just that fat is so normalized fat people think they're normal and they view normal weight people as too skinny. There are literally men here who think 25% bodyfat is okay or even looks good JFL. I keep telling you but you won't believe me, go to any place where obesity isn't rampant, just visit any random ass cute chick's instagram in an area where people are fairly fit - try California, Hawaii, Utah, NY, Colorado, or even WA or OR. Not difficult to find women hooked up with guys les…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:32 PM
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So my point/argument earlier is that you shouldn't even need to be decent looking to want a non-fat woman [as a younger man]. The obesity rate is still "high" for young women but not high enough to the point where it's unrealistic to expect the average woman to not be fat if you're a dude just sitting around the 50th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 04:37 AM
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People always use the extreme to argue their point. There are tall decent looking guys on this site who are having trouble finding nonfat women. Whenever men who struggle post their photos it's almost never an ugly guy. I'm not going to say they probably don't have personality issues, and/but it's clear I wasn't referring to very short men in the bottom percentiles of facial attractiveness. Just regular dudes for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 04:22 AM
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I'd say I'm more optimistic. After touching much grass it's encouraging to see that everyone's preferences and standards IRL don't reflect or are even similar to those of terminally online truerateme autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:46 PM
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Fuck everyone here, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:36 PM
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Those guys who say Sydney Sweeney is mid aren't the guys I'm defending, just the average Joe who wants a Jane. He's not being deluded or entitled or aiming out of his league by not noticing fat women, even as a guy who is completely unremarkable. Maybe this is different in places like Alabama, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:28 PM
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Ok but that means you can accurately say you are okay with average women without ever needing to consider a fat woman ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:20 PM
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Ok I despise this phrase but "hear me out". Google says the average percentage of people under 30 in America who are overweight is around 30%. And people who are ugly from the face alone that they are undateable are rare esp if they are fit or not fat. So basically you can really put the overweight people in the bottom 30%. That still leaves room from the 30th to say 70th percentiles to house a very substantial population of average people who aren't fat, if again we are talking about younger de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:17 PM
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Maybe location matters, I just have a hard time believing a young man can't say he is okay with an average girl unless he includes fat girls. When you start getting into 30s, 40s and beyond, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:06 PM
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I see people criticize a lot of young men for not wanting a fat woman. I don't think they deserve the criticism as long as they aren't fat themselves. Just b/c they don't want a fat woman doesn't make them entitled or with unreasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:01 PM
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Alright, but is it unreasonable for a man (or woman) to require that their partner not be ugly and not be fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:53 PM
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This right here, I absolutely don't get the point of wearing lifts - or lying about your height on OLD. They're going to find out eventually, usually sooner rather than later. It's like women lying about their weight but height is much easier to quantify and assess visually on sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:34 AM
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The entire point behind "the wall" is not that women can't get men anymore, it's that there is a big difference between the quality of men they were able to attract and get to commit pre-wall vs post-wall. Ofc women can always console themselves and say "we're always going to have it easier than men". Yeah, have at it, even post-wall women have it easier than most men, that was never the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:28 AM
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Is this a competition? Yeah ofc women have it easier than men in dating, less and less people are arguing that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:22 AM
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I despise him entirely for his dogshit snake oil salesmanship and could not give a rat's ass about his dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:24 PM
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They can get dates easily. But not with the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:05 PM
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It's just like any other compliment about your possessions or physical features. It's a compliment just b/c it belongs to you and you are supposed to feel good/thankful b/c it's yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:42 PM
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I used to lurk a lot in those spaces and after all the BDD and realization how full of shit they are it actually becomes funny. I go there with a bag full of popcorn every once in a while...or I guess some chips and cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:46 PM
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Women are not worried about men threatening to opt out because there will always be enough men to commit. The high value ones, the blue-pilled ones who toe the line every day and will never change of varying SMV, and so on. If all men got on the MGTOW train women would definitely not be ok - it's clear most young women or women in their prime choose to be in relationships by default anywhere you look. But the fact is this won't ever even come close to happening, so it's a non-issue. It's like us…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:37 PM
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Celebrity expert/doctor type who shills unproven supplements and alternative science, at worst he gives misleading baseless info and harmful advice to people prioritizing their health and at best he wastes their time and money. My contempt for these asswipes supersedes any respect I would have just bc he's good with women. Also, if the word "biohacking" comes up in any of their content it's a major red flag to begin with. The cult following these motherfuckers have is similar to astrology and cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:02 PM
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Das why you give them the interval training version of personality. Be a dickwad sometimes and then a nice providing sensitive doormat other times. Keeps them guessing and intrigued. She won't ever be bored and somehow feel like she is getting the best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:44 PM
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Coffee, waffles, but not at waffle house since there aren't any around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:51 PM
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This seems fairly obvious to me too. Most young women are in relationships. I don't know where this idea that "woman are so happy and content single" is coming from aside from frustrated men or self-righteous women who never leave their computers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:50 PM
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Where did I bring up morality? In any case afaik there are two schools of thought behind the biology and one is it's a cognitive/psychological buildup that needs release and the other is a mechanical feedback mechanism in the testes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:48 PM
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I don't get what you're saying. I'm just saying maybe men constantly feel horny and need to relieve the horniness b/c of a built-in mechanism for them to reproduce. Evolution can't detect if a species is endangered, one organism doesn't know if there is a severe shortage of other organisms in their species group so why would members of an endangered species experience enhanced sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:22 PM
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I feel like the more simple and likely explanation would be there's simply a constant evolutionary pressure to reproduce? Thankfully masturbation works otherwise you'd get a lot more (even more than usual) aggro frustrated men walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:13 PM
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Not true unless you are irredeemably ugly - which is very very rare. Getting a good body will help any guy regardless of what he's starting with, and arguably helps guys who have less going for them initially the most. It's true height is also a big component and unfortunately sans surgery not changeable (still not absolutely necessary unless you're super short), but I always say you put an average face on a 6'2" jacked body you basically got gigachad. Average face on 5'7" whatever body, immedia…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:04 PM
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I agree with this. A lot of women I know have been initially interested in a guy for their looks but then ended up getting bored or disgusted very quickly because he turned out to be limp and indecisive. I would say physical strength was probably prized more in the past when it was more useful, necessary, and relevant. Women still like muscles visually though. You can't undo millennia of evolutionary programming, even if the guy isn't actually strong or doesn't need to be physically strong the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:55 PM
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I don't think I've ever been cockblocked by a woman, at least not that I know of. I've been cockblocked by men before. It's infuriating like you want to punch the guy in the face but you can't. Thankfully it didn't work but I just remember thinking the entire time "Hey when are you going to get the fuck out of here?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:53 PM
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That's why masturbation even works. I think a lot of scientists and medical experts are still kind of amazed it does. You can't jerk your mouth off out of being hungry, even temporarily, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:47 PM
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Depends if you just have less mass and how big you were before. Are you skinny or skinny fat now or are you just "smaller" but still toned. Most women prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:40 AM
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I think statistically speaking it's undisputed men cheat more, maybe OP was just asking why in many online spaces it's either mostly women confessing to cheating or content about women cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:39 AM
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Didn't the extended family dynamic already exist with earlier generations of established American groups (eg most white people as well as black people)? The rugged individualism and smaller family unit didn't really set in until the past 100 years or so. Stronger reliance on extended family structures and close-knit surrounding community is more of an immigrant thing when you have not settled in for that long relatively speaking and need the social support and network.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:36 AM
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I have a similar degree of pathological distrust for people, and in a long-term relationship context, for women. Part of me really believes I won't be okay with being with anyone again unless we meet anonymously online and talk for a long time and agree to meet and get married, and also I'm going to tell her I'm very ugly and completely broke and 50 years old. If she's still game based on only how much she likes my personality and jokes, then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:20 PM
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It's everywhere. I am not exaggerating when I say approximately 75% of the stuff I hear and read online, no matter how official the publication or legit the source or site, is pure bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:11 AM
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The cock carousel thing is a myth, unless you're just talking about young people exploring and being careless but everyone does that. Manospherians have this idea of the average woman racking up over 40-50 body counts by the age of 30 when the typical "hoe phase" is like as you said 3 guys during a period of months or a year...if there is a hoe phase at all. There are obviously select populations where the people are outliers and promiscuous but it's not the norm. Average body count for a lifeti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:46 AM
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Women have a more inborn tendency to conform because it's safe survival-wise. If other women think he's a worthy mate then she falls in line to think so as well because evolutionarily speaking he's more likely to be one. It all fits together and again conformity doesn't negate the idea of preselection. A lot of it is also subconscious. She chases the same man her friends do b/c there's something driving her to do it that's designed to ensure the highest probability of securing a high value man. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:33 AM
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I hear so much of two polar opposites. People now are complete sluts, hookup culture is out of control, American values in decay and degeneracy flourishing. But then also, people aren't having sex anymore and prefer to stay home on their phones and computers because they suck socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:25 AM
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the man has been vetted and approved by another woman so he must be desireable The older I get the more I realize this is not really the case, and that it is much more to do with the herd mentality seen in almost every other area of women’s selection. You can see it in random trends or styles that suddenly become “hot” to women, or male “sex symbols” who are objectively ugly but fawned over by women to the point of hysteria. These 2 sound similar if not the same and at the very least the 2nd doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:21 AM
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What were their BMIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:30 PM
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Ironically his face would look better if it wasn't so puffy or square, like actually less Chadlike and more sleek or streamlined. Also goes to show height and build are huge factors. Put his face on a skinny or chubby 5'7" guy and he's immediately invisible. Honestly since he's well styled, well above 6 feet and muscular his face is almost an afterthought i.e. women don't care as long as it's not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:23 PM
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Good words, but also things would prob be different if the men knew the primary reason you were there. Also probably depends if the men are brash young men with their own dating struggles or just random men in the community - maybe some who are too poor or with other pressing problems to prioritize dating. It's not even about "why are you taking our women" or being possessive, it's more just knowing that a guy has moved to where you are just b/c he knows the men there are inferior competition to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:08 PM
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Since as someone mentioned Passport Bros is about going to a country where there is less/weaker competition, it would make sense that assuming the local men know the motivations behind this trend they would develop a hostility toward foreign single men or expats coming into their country. Is this a common sentiment, do they not care, are there not enough of these foreign men to matter? I can't imagine the local men taking it too kindly if they know you're there b/c you happen to be taller and ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:39 PM
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Same as how most women react toward MGTOW. Fine go do your thing, just don't feel the need to remind us every 5 minutes that you quit and aren't playing anymore it's annoying and nobody gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:11 PM
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I think men have right to be concerned about whether women want just their money or not, so no I don’t particularly care. If this is what you think then that's fair. The way you put it earlier it was like women are justified in distrusting men just b/c it's "normal" and "common", but not men distrusting women. The irony being that with a lot of the redpill and manosphere ideologies increasing in popularity, distrust of women is also increasing. Just b/c something is common doesn't make it normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:45 AM
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Funny, a lot of women don't seem to think that the increasing normalization of redpill and manosphere thinking among men is justifiable, so your statement carries no weight. As if prevalence or "being common" is a valid excuse for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:26 AM
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Yeah, having trust issues is a problem. I don't trust women either. I don't pretend it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:05 AM
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I don't doubt they do fine. I'm not going to say the fat white dorks are going to do as well as they will, because they won't. I'm saying there will be a difference. Compared to their situation here they will see [significantly] more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:25 AM
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There was this estimate that said about 30% of incels are autistic and honestly that number seems low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:10 AM
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That's great that you can. Many people can't. Many stupid ass people out there who lack discernment. Reality speaks for itself. Nothing I said is rare or surprising. Everyone knows about it and sees it, although not everyone will want to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:58 AM
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Steve Harvey: "Get yourself a man that just look 'aiight'".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:52 AM
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I didn't say looks don't matter, my statement about insecurity is when women specifically zero in on looks as their #1 priority. It's not too out of pocket to say if you insist on a man who is especially goodlooking or you need him to be uglier than you as specifications, something is up. If I was honest I have my own insecurities going on that affect my standards as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:42 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:26 AM
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That's what I mean when I say women don't value looks as #1 no matter how many blackpillers run their mouth. Top-tier women who could have any man they want would all pick 10/10s otherwise, but they don't. The exception is women with weird insecurities and fixations or those who know they won't be able to get a man of high status. If you're a gorgeous woman with all the options? You aim for the man at the top of the game in your circle or preferred niche, every, single, time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:24 AM
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Absolutely untrue no matter how much you'd like to believe things are fair or just. Yeah we'd like to think the toxic incel white loser can't get pussy anywhere if he can't get it here b/c he's shitty, but that's simply not the case. The white guy slaying in Asia isn't just a trope. Asian culture internalizing eurocentric features and standards alongside the financial situations of many women in some asian countries gives even subpar white guys an advantage. I'm not sure how anyone can deny this…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:02 AM
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A lot of passport bros think there is no avoiding toxic western dating culture as long as you live in the west so they advise men who meet and marry/settle down with women overseas to stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:51 AM
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No...but if the guys here will beat you out then if she's here she'll just choose them. When you're over there, these guys she finds more appealing won't be there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:49 AM
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The biggest disservice society has taught you is that everyone is equal. This simply isn’t true, melanin wise we are, in every other variable we are not. what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:33 AM
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I think it goes beyond that and is the result of longstanding established norms and train of thought. Men who are physically diminutive in size, stature, build and appearance still suffer from this automatic stigma and women who are taller, larger etc still enjoy the corresponding privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:04 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:45 PM
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Poor trashy people have way more kids than educated people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:40 PM
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I mean at least that means they are consistent. Would be weirder if men wanted virgins but also women with lots of relationship experience, as inferred by the guy you were responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:58 PM
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Agree social skills and social circle are of utmost importance if your goal is to have success meeting and dating women. Unfortunately good looks however especially help if you're a complete creep, because the creepy ass shit you do will either be interpreted positively, ignored, or hamstered away. It's actually with creepy shit that the looks halo becomes the most apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:31 PM
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She looks like asian sydney sweeney.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:19 PM
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If she's tall, thicc, athletic, topless with a cool accent, snug red tights and hits you with a spinning lariat, that isn't the girl you had your eye on all night. That's Zangief.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:50 PM
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What? What I mean is he gets less scrutiny b/c a lot of people view him in a good light overall for what he's doing for the human race so it doesn't occur to them to look for reasons to criticize him. Obviously things have been slightly different in recent years as people from the left have more political motivation to say bad things about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:44 PM
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This is just a manufactured revenge gotcha to get men back for fat-shaming women. Like you call me fat well you're poor, haha. Unfortunately they aren't remotely the same, the only thing they have in common is different people have varying degrees of control over it given less than ideal circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:38 AM
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Even John Oliver who is very much in good graces with the left crowd acknowledges that Musk is overall a net positive for society. But that also means less scrutiny and potential accountability for how he achieves his ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:33 AM
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https://i.imgflip.com/8jz5co.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:11 AM
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I still go out. Zoomers are still everywhere. I work with a lot of zoomers, millennials, and a few even older. I also see just average people, average zoomers, talking to people with no problem. But I will give you that young people nowadays don't have as much of a social culture that affords meeting new people as much. Third places are less common, and interactions are more normalized to be online. I stand by what I said though, it's not your looks. Believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:08 PM
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I'm thin. I'm not ugly I guess. I also am very introverted but mask well with good social skills and I can also fake extroversion well. I've always been well-liked despite having a shit-ton of issues. I was invited to all the parties once I started trying to make conversation with people. I don't think it has much to do with looks in my own defense. If I'm being honest you do look a little skinny in that picture but you look better now which is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:51 PM
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I dunno, couples and PDA were a routine occurrence and sight from what I remember in college. I don't know how cool you are but physically you are more than enough for the vast majority of attractive women. I don't know how you interact with people or what vibes you give off but it's clear from my experience looks have very little to do with friends and networking. Plenty of ugly or mediocre-looking people are well-connected and have lots of friends. In fact, that's how a lot of these men achiev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:34 PM
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You'd think stereotypes about people in different countries would be more about the people in the most populated areas. Also I never ran into such assholes despite being in the US most of my life so that's quite an unlucky coincidence. I guess if I think about it a lot of stereotypes about americans are actually more prevalent in rural populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:25 PM
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I don't mean to minimize the situation men face down where you are but it also just sounds like you aren't really presented with opportunities to really date thin attractive women to begin with more than "you're not hot or cool enough".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:21 PM
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It's not that I think americans are better it's more like canadians are clearly not any better and somehow there's this rep that they are smarter, nicer, more tolerant, and all that bs. I'm not even very well traveled and literally all three of my most memorable run-ins with absolutely trash people were in Canada. Vancouver BC and Toronto to be exact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:16 PM
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america jr.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:07 PM
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Just curious, the guys in your area you do see with thin or attractive women. What are they like? Are they tall muscular chads? Are they rich? Are they well connected, old money? All of the above? Or just lucky guys born and raised in the right circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:05 PM
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Friend: Bro you say you're my friend but where were you when I made that post about hypergamy and it only got 3 upvotes? Me: Making 3 reddit accounts. Friend: Bro...:(:(:(x0x0
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:02 PM
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My friend's grandparents are very overweight. They're Filipino and Pacific Islander and are about as active as other old people and the diet is also similar. They are in their 80s, and with little to no health issues. That makes me think it's genetic as if their bodies are meant to sit around a higher weight, and it shows with the other family members as well. But honestly I don't know. Weight gain is gradual, maybe they are just eating a little bit too much each day over decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:24 PM
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Before we even get into all the studies with evidence to prove it you can just by observation see it's obvious certain people/bodies are more prone to fat storage even though virtually everyone in the modern world is exposed to the ills of sedentary society and processed foods artificially high in macros and refined sugars. I think that's why people of some indigenous cultures or like pacific islander nations have such high obesity rates. They were fine with their original diets but their bodies…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:07 PM
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Women don't like redheads even though genetically there's nothing wrong with redheads. Women don't like short men even though again there's nothing wrong with short people genetically. I get those two. I don't get the education one b/c education level has much less to do with inborn intelligence and cognitive ability. Especially in this day and age where people are viewing college as less and less of a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:32 PM
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What if his family just couldn't afford it. A lot of people who are the "first in their family to graduate college" are the first not b/c they come from a family of dumbasses, it's just generational poverty. I guess these sperm bank standards were never meant to be foolproof anyway, they just want to cover all the bases to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:17 PM
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Sure but lack of education doesn't say anything about a man's inherent intelligence or cognitive ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:11 PM
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Why are uneducated men rejected. That has nothing to do with his inborn genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:08 PM
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No matter what a particular man does or how he spends his day, he has one thing in common with all other men - he spends it in a degrading manner. And he himself does not gain by it.* I feel like I'm gaining a lot of coffee and good food, day trips and gaming time. I still have to work, but most people do. I suppose I have to admit if I never planned on women in the future again I wouldn't be as regimented with things like skincare, finances or exercise, but those things are for myself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:55 PM
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If this were true, every top-tier woman (the most beautiful along with fame and money) with all the options in the world would have an 8-9 spouse. The fact that they don't means there are more important things to them than looks even when they can have the best looking men in the world if they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:15 AM
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Alright yea but Homer had a secure unionized job at the nuclear power plant - wouldn't ever get fired no matter how bad of a job he did lol. Are these women dating himbos bringing in the bread or are they demanding six figures x)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:08 AM
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Guys also aren't under any delusions that fat men are attractive though, even if in the past fat guys were often portrayed in media with hot trophy wives. The men knew these guys weren't hot, it was just a time when men had to worry less about their own looks. Even the dadbod trend as we talked about a few days ago comes from women, not men. Though it's probably not entirely fair to compare men to women in this context since the body-positive movement is a reaction to pressures to be thin. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:35 AM
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Going by what some of the guys are saying here, even fat women don't have to consider dating a fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:19 AM
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Yeah I mean it's not hard to find nonfat young women I'd say most young women are fairly fit or looks conscious here. I feel for that one poster here Silver_Past who says there's nothing but 200 lb women everywhere except in those elite connected circles. Guys underestimate the power of location and guitar/instrument-maxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:08 AM
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I hear about neckbeards a lot on the internetz but I have only come across three in my lifetime. One was in college and he was obsessed with Japan and Japanese women and the two others were on separate occasions at Gamestop and they fit the stereotype to a tee.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:58 AM
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Women assess everything almost subconsciously through the lens of status. Money indicates and affords power, freedom, comfort, versatility, social dominance. 'Yeah well it's not the actual money' ....no shit. Also OP speaks in absolutes just like every other autist here, as if in a room the most attractive guy is a 9/10 working retail and the rich(er) guys are bridge trolls. A well-connected 6-7/10 with a nice portfolio and salary is beating out a 8-9 with a mediocre desk job every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:49 AM
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“men and women can’t be just friend” from men and I feel like most guys would agree while most women disagree. If by most guys you mean guys with fucked social development and spend most of their time online, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:36 AM
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Any man? Really? That why our current society is filled with people who work their asses off and aren't remotely close to even being comfortable? That's enough PPD for today. I can't deal with this autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:12 PM
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You have to be super autistic to come to the first conclusion. I'm guessing that's why a lot of people here come to the first conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:06 PM
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Alright so, according to you you technically don't have "looks" unless you're the best looking. The premises people start with here are mind-boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:05 PM
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99% of the time looks aren't set in stone. Why do people always see looks as either a 10/10 or a 5'2" guy born with severe facial deformities? Most men fall in the middle. It's not a level playing field and some need to work harder than others but there are very few men where if they became fit and practiced grooming and skincare, they wouldn't pass the looks thresholds of many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah, the amount of men who won't achieve at least "some" dating success after looksmaxxing due to being irredeemably ugly is very very small. The looksmaxxing process is nothing compared to the process to become financially stable or to improve social skills and intelligence if those are the reasons you're struggling in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:53 PM
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The bar is low as fuck so I'm not sure that says anything. Look at the most recent comment just now in this thread. People literally just seeing what they want to see, with the comprehension and vocabulary prowess of a 2nd grader, if I'm being optimistic. How anyone takes anything seriously here with such rampant shameless stupidity on tap is beyond me. And this is one of the better subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:46 PM
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Sometimes nothing is wrong, you're glad and thankful it happened, you have treasured lifelong memories, but things don't hit the same as they used to, you're bored and looking for something new and it's time to move on. Sometimes I wonder if the reason why many LTRS end on bad terms is b/c they didn't break up when they should have, probably from social pressures to stay together similar to your sentiments. For what it's worth I'm fairly traditional-minded in a sense too, so it's not like I am e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:40 PM
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Kryptonite of almost all women~The instrument/musician-maxxing pill is something a lot of chronically online manosphere guys these days overlook constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:30 PM
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...It does though? It's one of the most intense sustained aerobic exercises you can do without getting into anaerobic territory. People just don't do it b/c 1) they haven't thought of it it's so simple 2) they can't do it for very long and 3) it looks stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:29 PM
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In that case do you even need a rope? A while back whenever I needed a short but intense workout in a pinch I would just jump in place. Seemed to do the job, versus almost all other types of cardio, jumping in place or jump-roping accelerates your HR and winds you quickly without purposely pacing yourself but then it just seems like you're going too slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:42 PM
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You put it more succinctly than I did. I need to work on brevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:48 PM
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Due to women being more sexually fluid I think maybe the ones who just lean hard into women are the ones least likely to be naturally attracted to masculinity, with height being one of the components of such. Once in a while a straight female friend will point a woman out like "That's my gay crush/I'd go gay for her" and it's often a woman that is attractive but with decidedly more masculine features and demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:46 PM
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Its literally scientifically proven that women can be friends with ppl they arent attracted to while men cant Ima need to see a source. Typical reddit just some random assertion with complete confidence based on absolutely nothing. I have many female friends, some attractive, some not. It doesn't affect how I treat them b/c I care about them as people. There will always be some type of potential tension, sexual tension, even some types of awkwardness for whatever reason with all sorts of friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:38 PM
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I dunno man. I'm not outgoing and I especially wasn't at the time haha. Honestly weird and awkward and different in sea of white people. But I agree being socially outgoing is another huge boost. Instrument -> social extroversion -> preselection. All a guy needs x)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:00 AM
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Yeah I imagine that makes it even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:51 AM
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Cue that one response "If you can't get bitches with a yacht you realllly can't get bitches."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:49 AM
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Probably preselection too as that's a huge factor. 1-2 women start swooning and then everyone else follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:45 AM
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I mean I was going to explain with the status and fame route, but I realized that doesn't make sense since it seems to work even when you're not famous lol. Maybe something about music ignites something visceral and emotional at the same time in women? I mean I get how music can make you emotional but at least for me (or most men?) the link between emotion and romance or sex isn't as strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:36 AM
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Young men learn guitar for a reason. I still remember when I went over to the piano to play all the girls would come crowding around. It was like magic. Honestly even as I understand what's going on it's still hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:31 AM
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That doesn't really change the glaring hypocrisy. Also it's no secret these incel communities are crabs-in-a-bucket mentality toxic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:27 AM
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Immune function doesn't mean facially attractive. LOL google geniuses and pro athletes with exceptional genes and talent. Do they look especially hot to you? Athletes, bodywise, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:07 AM
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It's more specific than that. It's people pushing feminist pet issues like fighting toxic masculinity and then insulting detractors or people they debate with by calling them basement dwelling incels who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:35 AM
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People can be emotionally unavailable and still sensitive to rejection along with all other sorts of insecurities and self esteem issues. Sometimes the emotional availability is a defense mechanism that serves as protection from being hurt. Not saying it's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:03 PM
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Big city on the west coast. Yeah I just assumed it's very commonly used everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:53 PM
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You're asking a sub that's half women this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:49 PM
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Yeah but that's still a deep way to put it versus something like "fuck those hoes just be yourself" which is more of what I would expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:44 PM
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That sounds awfully profound for a middle-schooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:41 PM
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I dunno, I feel like most women are on birth control here and there's plenty of thin women still. Not saying there isn't some type of effect though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:31 PM
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I don't agree with a lot of the men in this sub. But I will say, the reason why a lot of men are "telling women what they think and feel" is because they don't think women can be relied upon to tell the truth, either on purpose or not, about what they think or feel, esp in the context of dating. I imagine a lot of men have had bad luck or little success following the advice of their female friends or by listening to what women say they prefer in men, and so on. Most men on these types of subs ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:47 PM
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We are always attracted to supposed markers of health and security vs the actual health or reality itself. Studies show bar extreme examples or deformities, attractive faces are no more an indicator of good health than average or even ugly ones. Even if we consciously know the ugly person is healthier we still want to get with the attractive one. It's the same deal with height. Someone earlier said it doesn't matter if a guy is actually strong as long as he looks strong. Ditto again. I would say…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:42 PM
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Femcels always eat each other alive and when they do it's time for extra popcorn. Reminds me of when Female Dating Strategy was still a sub and they had a super conservative mod or podcast guest or some shit and a huge falling out because she clashed with all the community members.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:34 PM
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The wall doesn't mean women can't find men anymore. It's when they realize they don't have the same SMV and can't attract the same caliber of men as they could when they were younger. When they see a sharp drop in IOIs, favors and attention. This happens well before 50, although it varies when from woman to woman. As the narrative goes, this is distressing because a lot of women have a hard time being okay with dating a man later down the line who is of lesser value than who they were able to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:09 PM
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Yeah for sure, even if you're not "physically dominant" looking if you can show through your behavior or have other markers that infer social (or physical) dominance that also works. It's my opinion actually status is the #1 decider assuming a guy is physically "passable".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:42 AM
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I wouldn't really trust women to accurately describe what they find attractive. Plenty of women say they like dadbods but it's clear they don't from all the men they find invisible. Whenever there's a guy they gather to drool over it's always a fit guy. Agree about the muscles. A lot of women say they don't care about muscles but it's plenty obvious they do. Their idea of a muscular guy is a dude on roids and they take a regular fit physique for granted so they say they like "average" physiques.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:36 AM
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The racist and homophobic ones are of the TERF, pinkpill and femcel variety. Those intersectional woke feminists are also probably racist and homophobic to an extent but hide it better. Nevertheless, I agree with a lot of people here it's entertaining to see them fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:24 AM
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There was one or more studies saying women find men most attractive at around 12-14% bf. So not super lean to the point of being very ripped or gaunt, but still overall lean. Certainly leaner than the average guy. I wouldn't really call 12-14% medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:16 AM
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I did some research on this and supposedly your body can learn to maintain the same weight on a smaller (or larger) amount of food, but it's also not permanent. It's not entirely very fluid either as in you can "fix" it but it takes time. Honestly I think you should just take up regular cardio/interval training and weights. People say shit like "cardio is useless" "abs are made in the kitchen" and "but you burn 500 calories for an hour of cardio which can be undone with a piece of cake". Burning…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:12 PM
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Yeah but men cope too and you don't see them gassing up fat women. At least not remotely in the same numbers/trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:01 PM
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What do women have to gain by doing this though. It's just going to make their options less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:46 PM
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I mean if it is it wasn't started by men. I think the term dadbod gained traction after some pick-me sorority girl wrote an article in TFM a long time ago about why dadbods were "better" and "more attractive". The main reasons were things like "He doesn't live in the gym i.e. more time for you" "You can eat pizza with him without guilt" and "You don't need to worry about other women checking him out or hitting on him" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:41 PM
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Supposedly one of the biggest reasons why men have an easier time losing fat/weight, aside from metabolic and lean mass differences, is that visceral or belly fat is actually both more dangerous but also more fleeting than fat stored in the arms, hips and legs and lower body. If you're apple shaped (some women, most men) you gain belly fat faster but can lose it faster, vs the fat pear-shaped people who gain fat more slowly but once it's there it's more stubborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:35 PM
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It's fine don't bother, I'm just giving you a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:28 PM
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As a self-proclaimed ugly person you shouldn't be looking like Chad in any mirrors. Fraudcel confirmed...again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:19 PM
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So basically it's still true, just not at the same time. Billy Beta: She doesn't find me attractive and is just with me for my resources and bc I'm a doormat, but at least as long as she's with me she won't be fucking any other men she's actually wet for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:04 PM
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We wouldn't do a lot of things if it wasn't the societal standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:57 PM
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That's bc while asian culture and pop isn't weird, for many reasons non-asian people who are super into it are super fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:34 AM
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Yeah, the people I know are far far far from that. I'm just saying, you'd think they would try a bit harder. You can't tell me you're trying to be more ethical when all the shit you wear is designer and you eat at those pretentious places where there's no sign or menu and everything is metal colored and drinks are served in mason jars and your organic free-range fare costs more than what a working-class person would spend on food in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:50 AM
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So my beef with a lot of these people is they modify their lifestyle to fit whatever sociopolitical narrative makes them feel important until it's too inconvenient. And then that's the point where they go "Well it's impossible to not participate in this capitalist dystopia to some degree."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:40 AM
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My understanding and empathy exist but have limits. Like bro you talking about dismantling the patriarchy, fighting the power and all that shit but you regularly shop at a place that sells purposely faded and ripped beachwear for $150. These are the assholes I deal with on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:31 AM
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I dunno, it all is the same to me in that I find many many people, usually white or Asian around here, who SAY they believe in dismantling power structures but still very clearly comform to, and prefer, conventional ideals and standards. I call it like I see it, maybe it doesn't necessarily discredit the ideologies on paper but I'm still surrounded by dishonest posers wherever I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:24 AM
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I am not around these types of people enough to comment. But I will say my disdain and grievances with the Asian American left - again I am not good with distinguishing between liberals and left or marxism etc - are similar with my grievances with the white left. A lot of hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:16 AM
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I don't know much about parsing the spectrum. All I know is I see tons of performative white people with Black Lives Matter this and that. When you look at their social circles, the people they spend time with, the people they date, the establishments they frequent, it's lily white. Nothing wrong with this but they pretend they are better than everyone else, more educated, more tolerant, when it's clearly impossible they would know anything about black struggles and their communities and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:11 AM
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I feel like a lot of kpop idols, especially the ones lauded for their looks, have chiseled features though. They just have good skin and hair and look young. It's also quite possible as kind of an asian person what I perceive as masculine vs feminine is skewed. E.g. what I think is masculine, most people in the west will still see as feminine. Honestly kind of a low bar, like oh shit he takes care of his skin and hair and has full lips and eyes he basically looks like a woman etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:07 AM
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I'm sure he means anti-white people and biased in favor of minorities. In reality you'll find a lot, if not most, white liberals are just much better at hiding their racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:54 AM
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My observation with women who say they like "feminine" men is that the men they cite basically just look young with good skin and chiseled features. Young and well groomed doesn't equal feminine to me b/c you'll find actual feminine men with soft formless faces and bodies who get zero attention. Meanwhile, while I can see how it's not always aesthetically pleasing there will always be a sizeable market even for borderline ugly High-T ogres.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:44 AM
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Ideal is some femininity mixed in with masculinity but there will always be demand for masculine men. Even women who go for "twinks" and eboys are open to masculine men whether they want to admit it or not, and may eventually come to prefer masculine men exclusively. Don't be fooled by the trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:15 AM
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Yeah I agree. The front looks good/fine but when you can see the back from the front it's no bueno.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:04 AM
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LOL I just googled leaf cut and it looks just like what I got going on rn. Consequently I've been meaning to make the back shorter for a long ass time now but I'm just lazy. For some reason I just don't like how long hair looks in the back for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:54 AM
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Saying anything that costs 50k with a high chance of putting you into years of debt and making your life harder indefinitely is not ridiculous when the intended goal is obviously the exact opposite. You pay 50k for a car and you get the car. You're either stupidly privileged or in the clouds or both but it's not surprising the more time I spend online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:45 AM
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LOL it's ridiculous to recognize when something isn't worth the risk? I don't know what kind of reality you live in, but ok hehe. I already outlined everything and if you don't get it, you just don't get it. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:31 AM
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Maybe a minority of people can throw away 40-50k for something with little guarantee or chance of success in order to get "educated". With the current tuition and peripheral costs college isn't what it once was. The nuances are clear here. Nobody is saying there is no "value" in art. They're saying 40-50k for a degree that will either put you in decades of debt with a below average chance of career - the entire reason MOST people go to college - is a bad choice/risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:24 AM
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There's also this mysterious taboo and stigma around the "friend zone" when it's a complete nothingburger, like they want to get into her good graces but they tiptoe around shit like oh no don't want to get into the friendzone though. In reality it's a nothingburger. She can see you as just a friend and then change her mind, or she can check for you and then lose interest, and literally everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:12 AM
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...where's the lie? People say art degrees are useless b/c the whole purpose of paying tens of thousands of dollars for a degree is to get a job that pays well or at least decent for a [more] comfortable life. In practice compared to other degrees this end goal is much less likely and there is no guarantee, which is putting it very nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:06 AM
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Contrary to all the RP stigma and locker room talk, it's because you can actually move out of the friendzone. It's not impossible for her to see you in a different light over time or when circumstances change. I see it happen. But for the record, most guys in the friendzone aren't ever self-aware or socially competent enough to make themselves into men their female friends would find attractive or as potential romantic partners. They just hang around b/c they still think there is a chance - whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:52 PM
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inb4 'tHe MaRkEt DeCiDeS Ur VaLuE sO Op iS wRoNg"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:33 PM
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Yeah, you're disingenuous as fuck. Your entire schtick hinges on the premise that there isn't anything wrong with modern marriage or the risks involved and it's just a matter of "getting over the fear of risk". Completely pointless since most men who fear marriage also think the risks are unfair and unjustified and the institution needs change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:28 PM
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An entire generation of gifted students who never became what they were expected to be and are now just anxious and depressed adults. Not their fault entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:38 AM
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Yet another Chad or BDD-cel pretending to be ugly on reddit. "These girls keep hovering around me is it b/c they think I'm repulsive oh well time to go home and jerk off" x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:36 PM
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Alright then, marriage-minded men want marriage but are afraid of the new - real or perceived - risks that come along with modern marriage. So again, doesn't really make sense to oversimplify and reduce it down to fear. B/c yeah there is fear, but there are also reasons for it. They don't believe the exclusivity of marriage should come at such a high price or with the risks they've calculated. You can't have an honest conversation about the exclusivity of the institution and ignore these concern…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:17 PM
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It's not about the exclusivity. Marriage-minded men who are afraid to get married are afraid b/c it's no longer what it once was - for better or worse, but irrelevant here. Given all the factors to be considered it's again weird that you think it would be a no-brainer for these men if they want to get married to simply, as you say, get over their fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:59 PM
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I'm puzzled why you think there is no other logical option for marriage-minded men except to take the risk. A lot of marriage-minded men want a long-term relationship with a loving and loyal partner, but don't like what marriage has become in the modern era. If the potential negative consequences are calculated to have a higher probability than comfortable vs the potential benefits, why wouldn't avoiding marriage be the optimal solution instead? I mean you can argue the technicalities and say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:45 PM
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What you're really trying to say is that you believe marriage is a risk worth taking if you want an LTR. Other men disagree. But it's not about tackling fear as the root issue. I think these men are also considering all the laws and conditions involved as the institution stands currently, and/but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are also. Maybe a lot of guys think there's only so much they can do to mitigate risk or feel powerless to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:38 PM
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I don't think it's as simplistic as that. RP men don't just say avoid marriage b/c it's a risk. They say marriage is a bad idea b/c as the social climate currently stands along with the marriage and divorce laws, it puts men at a disadvantage or incentivizes women to leave. Also not all risks are created equal. There's no shame or wrong in fearing a risk if there is sufficient logic and reason behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:26 PM
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It's not a coincidence that such a large percentage of self-identified incels or blackpillers are either on the spectrum or socially stunted shut-ins by self admittance. Then they attribute their lack of success to women only wanting male models. I dunno, aside from what I see every day, aside from the fact that I can't ever recall an ugly guy posting his photo on an incel forum, I just connect the dots. In fact I do see a group of women who do especially value looks in men - more than the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:16 PM
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Status and social extroversion competence are king. Not looks. All the top women choose to date and fuck the men with the highest status and social dominance in whatever circles that women frequents or prefers. This was clear even back in school or college. If a hot guy is popular, he's popular b/c his looks gave him his status, but not all of the men with high status are physically attractive. Regardless of how he looks, he knows and gets along with the most powerful, important people. He throw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:46 PM
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If the woman is the one who initiated the breakup or was unhappy chances are she emotionally moved on a long time ago so it just seems like she recovered quickly right after. That's what I've noticed. Nobody just breaks up when they feel things aren't working out. There's a lot of talking and trying and failure that can go on for months or even years. Usually when the breakup finally happens people have been struggling, unhappy and frustrated for a long time and it's not surprising to know many …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:54 PM
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Call out a specific person as a stunted dumbass and you might get banned. That's why you have to call out the entire sub as a giant herd of dumbasses and things will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:06 PM
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Even before the fact that bluepill doesn't ever say personality is all that matters, there are many aspects to personality that may or may not inspire visceral and romantic attraction. Being kind and caring are positive components of a good personality, but so are charisma, emotional intelligence, and in western culture, a competent easy type of extroversion. Many men who are friendzoned have no problem being caring or good listeners but lack some of the latter traits. Despite all this I never g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:53 PM
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It's not either/or like she thinks he's really cute or she's repulsed. Most instances she is unsure, thinks he's goodlooking enough but still hesitant, or just kind of feels meh or indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:21 PM
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How did they manage before cell phones became a thing? It's not like they did away with the default channels of communication like school landlines bc they assumed all parents are just directly texting and calling their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:04 AM
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You hear a lot about how the female gaze is different from the male gaze, and studies have shown gay men prefer more masculine men than straight women who prefer some femininity. But I've asked quite a few gay friends if, when talking about guys they find hot with their straight female friends, if they find their preferences to be different. I think all of them have said no, they pretty much come to drool over the same type of dudes, which I'm guessing is tall, muscular, masculine etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:37 AM
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I've gone out with gay friends and it's obvious they are a lot more flirtatious and forthcoming with compliments than straight women. Not just with getting hit on or approached but there were these guys at another table whispering and then one actually comes over to ask for my number. I've experienced some of this with women too but it's much more subtle and measured. I'm thinking this what it must be like to be Chad. A compliment is a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:30 AM
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I would say it's not as negotiable for men, but that's irrelevant because when the RPers say "attraction isn't negotiable" they are specifically referring to women's attraction to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:12 AM
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So you don't think attraction is negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:02 AM
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Didn't you just say that you disagree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:59 AM
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I don't know why the manosphere or RP men would say "you can't negotiate attraction" when so much of their advice is about saying things and acting in ways that would make women attracted to you beyond immediate surface-level things like looks. That's literally negotiating attraction. Ofc you need a certain level to be at the table but that's to be assumed. You can negotiate when buying a new car but you aren't going to get them to agree to your $500.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:51 AM
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If she was honest in saying he was the cutest guy in the room to her that doesn't really disprove the "looks matter" thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:48 AM
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So what are the people who are falsely accused including their lives, reputations and careers? Just collateral damage? It also wouldn't be as simple as "being unable to provide proof". That's not indicative of false accusation in and of itself. They'd have to prove that you lied knowingly and with malicious intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:12 AM
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I do see that a lot. "Attraction can't be negotiated" but then "Women need more than just looks to feel attraction. I thought my bf/husband was kind of plain or ugly until I got to know him and now he's the hottest man in the world to me." Attraction is absolutely negotiable and we haven't even gotten to all the other environmental or sociological factors yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:46 PM
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I've never heard a man defend another man sending an unsolicited dick pic though lol. Do you have examples of what they are saying? At most they'll laugh and stay silent, but a lot of people do that like feminists who don't speak out about blatant misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:21 PM
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That's a bad example and I am not as anti-feminist as you are. However you have a point, maybe unintended in that people here love to cite "the animal kingdom" and "nature" whenever it suits their argument. E.g. women saying "sorry it's just natural" for women to only go for the top men but neglecting that scientists estimate literally around 40% of natural pairings in the animal kingdom are involuntary aka rape not to mention the wanton murder, maiming and so on. Nature is no bar of measurement…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:07 PM
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8-10 BMI is ideal but 10-12 you can still be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:08 PM
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Cardio is necessary and the best for overall health. It benefits nearly all criteria and measurements with the exception of the subjective area of aesthetics. Also, if you want to maintain a healthy weight (10-12 BMI) it's basically impossible to do it without cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:23 PM
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That's another thing too. People with impressive academic and professional credentials or accolades so you would think they wouldn't have a problem with basic cognition or carrying on logical discussions. Nobody is free of bias but you would also think they wouldn't be as prone to it. But no. Not on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:35 AM
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I've just faced and dealt with too many people on a daily basis and ofc the internet is worse. Even if they aren't "mean" I'm just sick of the stupidity and incompetence. Like I often ask myself how the fuck did they get this far without just accidentally walking out into traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:20 AM
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Sometimes I can give this vibe off but it's not smugness, it's a reactive, aggressive insulting tone for reasons I can easily explain. It's b/c my temperament or the way I was brought up makes it so I am naturally quick to trust people or at least trust people have basic common sense and cognitive function. As you can imagine this approach has led me to a lot of eye-opening unwelcome revelations with how biased, delusional and group-think-oriented people are even when they sound normal. And we h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:57 AM
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Seems to be an influx of stupid ass men lately but what else is new this place was never known for its geniuses. However I'm not sure if we have more female lurkers or everyone is just more blue-pilled, but usually the OPs that side with women or the interests of women here tend to have more upvotes, if that says anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:23 AM
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Reminds me of the stat that holiday tweet that went something like "The average person has sex 60 times a year". I'm about to have the best December ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:24 PM
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That means nothing. You could just have full(er) lips. Why would you want tooth show anyway, it'll show when you smile and if they show at rest you just look like a horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:16 PM
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I don't even really remember your pictures but I don't recall you having a long philtrum. Stop following stunted femcels who want to look like 12 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:09 PM
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That's b/c somehow everything having to do with dating preferences is considered untouchable and sacred. I know this sub has rules against race-related discussion b/c this type of shit is too based for many to handle but it's how everyone can believe black people face discrimination in all aspects of life but suddenly when it comes to dating preferences if you low (or high) key want a white person or not a black person suddenly it has nothing to do with any problematic beliefs. Apparently your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:55 PM
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Sydney Sweeney is 5'3"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:48 PM
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Just be the tallest bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:15 PM
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I kinda get what you mean but I dont' think there is necessarily a shortage of frumpy female actresses esp in sitcoms esp in the modern times like the last 20 or so years. JLD is kind of an exception and I was mainly responding to the guy above directly for saying she wasn't cute lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:49 PM
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There's this idea that women due to their vapidness or sheep mentality will just attach themselves to hobbies and subjects they know nothing about (eg bands, video games) so guys need to test to see if she's an actual fan of said thing. It's partially a joke and partially a real sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:26 PM
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I always thought Julia Louis Dreyfus was very attractive but in a detached way. I never felt anything visceral for her, but at the same time it was weird she was never propped up as even a pretty woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:08 PM
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I agree and get it. This isn't even talking about marriage, I've been on dates or out with beautiful women and I'm just like I can't handle this. In a world where we are tempted ten to hundreds of times a day, I'll just save you the time and sabotage things right now so you don't have to figure out how to slowly and politely remove yourself from my life b/c you found Chad or other interesting guys who are for sure hitting you up nonstop. I realize this mentality is extremely unattractive to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:07 AM
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Yeah but she is beautiful. If she wasn't she wouldn't appeal to him, probably at all. On her end, it's clear looks didn't play a major role in why she wanted him. Just to reiterate at her level, not a huge exaggeration in her extended sphere she can have any man she wants basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:52 AM
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What if she was average looking or below? Status is a bonus or less significant factor for men when they already are attracted to a celebrity for their looks. Like sure successful businessmen or surgeons don't want a girl who works at pizza hut even if she's really cute. But status alone attracts women unless he's really ugly...and even then, as in Beyonce's case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:46 AM
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Any top-tier model hot woman. At the very least, status would be a much lesser factor even though successful men at that level do care about the woman's level as well to an extent. Beyonce can't replace Jay-Z with any 10/10 male model because she's not wired to value the same thing. She could have armies of these dudes, every night, with a snap of her fingers, but she won't b/c Jay-Z is the man with the #1 status in her genre. If she finds another man, no doubt he'll be better looking but it'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:39 AM
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Yes ofc I haven't met every trans woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:20 PM
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I don't think IQ has anything to do with it. Gay men are simply more "Feminine" in that they take more care in their looks and style. Also you can say the whole "looks matter more in the eyes of women than men" concept is actually fairly new and contested. I personally don't believe it unless we are filtering looks through the lens of status. I see women with less means being more preoccupied with looks because they have nothing else to focus on or aspire for in their prospective men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:13 PM
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I should've rephrased. Hate themselves or hate their life. I'm working toward being the "better" "bigger" person. Sometimes I can do it, most of the time I fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:53 PM
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Maybe, maybe not, but if they are hateful I don't think most of these people are as unaware as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:28 PM
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I admit my response to this is not always healthy or conducive. Instead of using this information to realize they are just hurt and need kindness, I revel in the fact that there's nothing I could say back at them that would be better than how much they already hate themselves when they wake up every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:25 PM
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You haven't come across misandric and misogynistic people out there who know they are such? You'll find plenty of asswipes in this sub alone who are proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:23 PM
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The voice test never fails. I'm not saying it's impossible for me to get it wrong but so far it hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:13 PM
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I can usually tell just by looking, but if it's not the looks the voice is almost always a sure giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:06 PM
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THAT'S the example she gave of a masculine shitty American woman? Like wanting an apple and having millions to choose from and then picking the orange by mistake. Would wife her up in a second if she was down and I wasn't mentally ill and pathologically distrustful. Physically she is also more my type but the Lebanese woman is undeniably pretty as well but in a different way. Her attitude and war-paint makeup style however are a turnoff. Would like to add men and women have always been pretty ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:46 AM
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Activity, diet, sleep, and change of environment helped me get off of them. If I had all those in place at the start I probably could've avoided them entirely. If someone's going to start taking them I'd want to try one or more of those things first. Yeah for sure. It's also how I eliminated migraines entirely. Well not entirely, I used to get them a few times a month and now it's like once a year after lifestyle changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:31 AM
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Bro I needed them and arguably still need them lol. I was on them for a year or so, didn't like it and stopped, decided I'd rather just rawdog anxiety and panic attacks. I've done better just by staying more active and engaged and eating better. I don't remember gaining weight probably b/c of my metabolism but I remember always feeling numb to the world, like everything was just a blah shade of grey. Kind of like depression, but I wasn't depressed. I did feel more calm and less anxious and antsy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:18 AM
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That's fucked. I didn't know they allowed people before a certain age to even use them, but I suppose I never thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:07 AM
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As per a tweet: SSRIs are like performance-enhancing drugs for No Nut November. In all seriousness, the problem with SSRIs from experience specifically as a guy - no longer on them - is they reduce libido but don't eliminate it entirely. That means the urge still builds up over time but slower. And when you need to release, it almost becomes something like a tedious chore, whether you're alone or with someone, and both the experience and release is much less satisfying. The entire process is man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:00 AM
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What's wrong with it seems like a fairly safe shade of lilac and it looks good on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:54 PM
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Because people have different ideas of what looks good. Not everyone thinks Chad looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:51 PM
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It's the opposite of a DUI.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:32 PM
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I just have so many questions. You're in college right. University campuses are full of thin people in their prime. Is that not the case where you are? If it is, are all the hundreds if not thousands of thin women fucking the same 10 dudes? When you see the men these thin women are with, what do the men look like? Are they 1 in a million Chads? Here you see thin cute women with decent-enough but otherwise average dudes multiple times per block.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:12 PM
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We just live in alternate universes unless you're insane or lying which I don't believe you are. Honestly a good reminder it can be a whole different world if you just cross the street much less move across the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:04 PM
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Most young women are in relationships. It's plain as day. Do your personal observations honestly contradict this? Are the women around you in harems? Are you out in the real world long enough to come to a conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:37 PM
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Makes sense, I just assumed this was actually in contrast a brutal realistic depiction. Would've been less scary if the bear just killed him immediately tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:22 PM
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It's fine. I've gotten good responses and bc of asian genes the cheekbones and jawline didn't pop until 20s, but as it stands I'd prefer a fuller face at 5'10 130lbs. Did not like my full lips much but it seems like it's more popular nowadays. I do eat a lot but I'm also a health nut so it's hard for me to be okay with gorging on junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:20 PM
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What was wrong with the bear scene? It was fucking terrifying how long it lasted. And anyway Hardy wasn't even in that scene, he killed the role in the movie though. I agree overall the film was pretentious and unnecessarily bloated with too much emphasis on lingering shots of scenery and wilderness porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:14 PM
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Lol feminine prey eyes. Honestly all types of eyes can look good on the right person, it's all about how everything fits together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:08 PM
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I'm on a Tom Hardy movie marathon kick and he's such a good actor. Capone, The Revenant, Legend, MadMax, and now The Drop. For the longest time I was coming up empty when asked to name actors who are actually legitimately masters of their craft and not playing variations or the same character in every movie - which applies to a lot of supposedly big and respected names. I kept saying nothing but Gary Oldman, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Daniel Day Lewis or maybe Brad Pitt - Leo tries but he's not con…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:04 PM
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LOL that should do it. Or just sticking pints of ice cream in the microwave like the celebs do when they need to pack on the pounds for a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:59 PM
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Also, how are you doing it? Are you eating fairly clean/healthy and whole foods only or are you just eating whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:54 PM
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beefcake. beefcaaaake
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:43 PM
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I see you put on some weight. Good job fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:39 PM
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I don't know if it's possible. Men and women expect and want different things naturally from each other. It just so happens women prize social proof and competency in men much more than the other way around. In turn men value certain things in women. I would go as far to agree and say modern society kind of puts men at a disadvantage b/c it's more difficult to excel at the qualities women look for. Physical strength and ability to be violent were valued b/c it implies power but it's not as appre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:26 PM
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Why can't it be both? For reasons I already detailed in a long-winded comment a few days ago people's social skills are declining and stunted. It just so happens as per gender dynamics bad social skills hurts men a lot more. These men are struggling to date b/c of their bad social skills. It's not a matter of what's fair, it's just reality. If they want to improve their situation, they need to improve their social skills, which is no easy task, but it's why people keep bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:16 PM
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It's not a 1:1 thing unfortunately as women with bad social skills aren't nearly as negatively affected in dating. You can be a fucking sperg but if you're remotely okay looking there will be a guy to gf/wife them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:05 PM
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If it's not looks, what else could it be? Plenty of broke guys dating. But again I reiterate telling someone they have bad social skills is by itself unhelpful. People can be socially fucked in many different ways therefore the solutions and steps required to improve things are also varied, extensive and difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:51 PM
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I agree with you if you are ugly. Are you though? From what I've observed for many years, guys who talk like you are a dime a dozen and it's almost always that they aren't ugly but have extremely bad social skills. Again for the record, if it's true you are ugly, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:44 PM
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Why aren't there people who are somehow both ugly and with mental illness who post their pictures? Surely this would happen if only purely by coincidence? If you're mentally ill, which is rampant in places like this, being ugly won't stop you from posting your photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:42 PM
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I don't need a baddie. As long as she has nice flowing hair and is healthy (13-15 BMI) it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:35 PM
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Gigachad-tier fWHR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:32 PM
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I don't place a lot of worth in that okcupid study and I don't think anyone who actually spends any amount of time in public settings would either. Again, if the portion of ugly dudes in these forums is "sizeable", that doesn't make sense why I've never seen an actual photo of an ugly dude in these places. Maybe 1? Probably not, literally no instance comes to mind and I have a good memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:05 PM
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A lot of men on here have complained that we just reflexively like to blame bad social skills on men struggling with dating b/c there are many other factors. This is because social skills is usually almost always the culprit, even though identifying this is kind of broad and not helpful in and of itself. I agree it's not helpful because unless you're born with it naturally and had healthy developmental phases improving social skills is multipronged, overwhelming and takes a ton of work. I've lur…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:51 PM
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I feel he encompasses a man who isn't necessarily very handsome but he is the ideal for a lot of women physically if that makes sense. Good masculine aura, nice phenotype with hair and eyes, looks strong and capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:33 PM
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It was Russell Crowe, but yeah I'd agree Phoenix is better. Crowe's face has always been perpetually doughy, even in his youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:27 PM
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There are way too many stupid people who can't grasp much less appreciate good humor beyond lowest-common-denominator shit like fart jokes to say someone with any great sense of humor would have universal appeal, and this isn't even about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:25 PM
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Is that the dude from Gladiator
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:20 PM
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Well because actually a lot of men can get women looking like shit. Looks simply don't matter as much for men. There are a lot of people here who say otherwise. Maybe he can't be ugly, but if he looks fine enough as a man some messy hair, shitty beard and bad fashion sense won't stop him if he has other qualities and knows how to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:02 PM
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"For you, the day Bison killed your father Bison busted a giant ketchup bottle over your head at Waffle House was the most important day of your life. But for me, it was Tuesday."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:53 AM
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Everyone is different but it's still trippy to think how at the same time many of us grew up living the same life going to the same types of places.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:42 AM
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I do too, trip to Denny's at 3am to placate the munchies. One cracked-out waitress tending 12 tables of drunk or high motherfuckers. The cook clearly about to quit singing loudly in Spanish in the kitchen. They don't have Waffle House where I'm at though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:36 AM
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I talked some shit about Waffle House here and got downvoted more than all the other problematic things I've said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:34 AM
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ohh they gonna come for u now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:28 AM
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https://www.dexerto.com/food/waffle-house-customers-throw-drinks-and-signs-at-employees-in-massive-brawl-2575976/ One of you was involved in this shit I know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:15 AM
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Then all other things are not created equal which I assumed to be the case with questions like these. Obviously it changes things if the artsy unemployed guy has great dick game, is into hobbies and genres she loves and relates to, has a sense of humor she appreciates, charisma, social status, or a great connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:17 AM
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Ya I dunno, they're not really my thing and some kpop idols look straight up underage, I'm always sus of dudes over the age of 20 who still like kpop chicks. What was that one woman some guy here was fawning over, Hanni, I googled her and was like wtf from her face alone you could've told me she was in 4th grade and I would've believed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:12 AM
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The fact that she's 5'11" with long legs sells it for me. Don't ever say height or body don't make a difference, for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:55 AM
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I think she's really pretty. What is your idea of pretty? Mila Kunis, Zendaya, Selena Gomez, Olivia Rodrigo, Margot Robbie, Ana de Armas etc don't really do it for me. I do like Hailee Steinfeld and Kendall Jenner though as long as I'm just concentrating on how they look and not their personalities. Also Blake Lively when she was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:41 AM
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Historically maybe men have always had a track record of overestimating their worth and/or treating women poorly in relationships despite being ugly(er) than her, but in the modern era there are also additional reasons. An ugly man might be even more encouraged not to worship a beautiful SO because he's taught simping for her will only make her more likely to be repulsed or leave. He feels pressure to act like the prize. I think there have been women here who relate from time to time that they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:04 PM
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There isn't anything necessarily wrong with them. In a way I kinda get it. From an objective standpoint the lizard brain interprets men like this as objectively capable of providing protection and security - physically big frame, conventionally safe socially acceptable appearance and aura. One of my asian female friends, she's friggin tiny, all of her exes and her current SO look like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:30 PM
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Just be big white and tall pill. Don't need money, handsome face, or game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:26 PM
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My take is when women say they "gave an ugly man a chance" or "settled for an ugly man" they didn't really settle b/c 1) the guy actually isn't ugly, he just doesn't look like a Chad so women have to give a reason for why they didn't attain a Chad and 2) there were other qualities about him that you liked/needed and thought were equally or more important. It's just a way for them to make themselves sound like they are virtuous or sacrificed something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:25 PM
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As I said they are either one of two types of people or both, the kind that are just looking to be harsh out of resentment bitterness or revenge (incels, femcels) and/or they are chronically online and live in their blackpilled bubbles where they autistically analyze faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:03 PM
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He probably doesn't have a high BMI but somehow looks soft and fat as shit like he has zero testosterone. Feminine soft doughy face with no definition and a belly under that shitty shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:20 PM
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If you go out of your way to look for a study that retroactively supports what you want to argue so you can plug it in the middle of your shitty internet warrior post, you're going to find it. There are so many supposedly "unbiased" legitimate studies with "sound methodology", "free of conflict of interest" out there that are worthless or full of shit it's not even funny. Sad thing I've learned is that alternative or obscure news and info is even less trustworthy than mainstream shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:10 PM
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Man Statham is a handsome mf but that is a really bad picture of him for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:56 PM
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There's absolutely zero incentive for even artsy women to choose the second guy especially when you said they both have the same politics, the only reason albeit a stupid one why anyone would choose him. Why some women might not want a country boy is almost entirely political or maybe religious which are both covered. There might be some concern about finances but you covered that also, the first guy makes good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:00 AM
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plus dude is just crazy, who knows if he's going to keep up his end of the bargain or hold to all the specifications and standards of an exhibition match.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:08 AM
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It's not bad but up against a young fighter in his prime? Only with Tyson would I still be scared. Another redditor in another sub put it well...in this exceptional case Tyson being 57 isn't old enough to not be worried lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:56 AM
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Talking about how Tyson is 57 now so Jake Paul will have it easy. Maybe if it was anybody else other than Tyson I'd agree. But he's 57 not 87 and I'd still be terrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:42 AM
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You really got "It's better to live in a wartorn ghetto" out of all I said lol. Not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:26 AM
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Subtle cheek and chin implants and augmentation, nose/nose tip reduction and refinement, browlifts, many men have these procedures done without it looking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:52 PM
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I'm not one to really support surgery but you can change way more than your jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:42 PM
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As far as I've seen and heard he's largely considered unattractive and the few women who say he is say it to be different. I'm just talking about conventional popular opinion, frankly I think he's overhated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:41 PM
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Blonde chick that hits all the boxes, nice tits, cute face, great body, ditzy non-threatening but still flirtatious demeanor. She doesn't need to be amazing in any one criterium, but she checks them all off and the results speak for themselves according to public response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:06 PM
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Which apparently are not actually unattractive on everyone and it shows no matter what your hivemind looksmaxxing crew thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:05 PM
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Sydney Sweeney isn't mid. Her eyes look kinda weird but she encompasses the All-American ideal everyone thinks of when they think of an attractive blonde ditzy and next-door enough to be non-threatening just like a lot of men supposedly love. If you're one of those truerateme people who analyzes faces you'll find plenty of flaws but she has insane broad universal appeal your favorite PSL 10/10 won't ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:55 PM
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That's b/c great comedy comes from a place of bitterness and heavy coping. You do need to be intelligent and witty to an extent but your material needs to come from a place of hardship and being jaded by observing all types of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:46 PM
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A lot of random people you see in magazines or in soap operas. shows, the news. ads etc are better looking than A-list celebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:41 PM
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Yeah a friend of mine a while ago said "The problem is we're meant to be in a type of constant state of pursuing basic needs" which I think about a lot. The fact that these chemicals can be released instantly so easily b/c it is so easy to fulfill our needs is the reason for numbness and dissatisfaction. Because once you can easily get all that what comes after that is a higher level of fulfillment - a sense of value and worth relative to their society and communities - an elusive goal modern li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:49 AM
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I don't know what else to say to you man. This isn't rare. This is the norm. You just gotta move. You say it's a good area and I'll take your word for it but if you won't move you'll just have to reconcile with the fact that if you stay you gotta be okay with the dating pool there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:42 AM
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Oh I know I missed many things lol. I was thinking there's no way I can cover all the shit that's wrong with the world today but yeah you can add helicopter parenting to the list definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:36 AM
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It's not just about you. Did it ever occur to you it's b/c everyone else is suffering from the overuse of technology? The effect is broad and hurts entire populations. The women you approach are no less victims of the convenience of dating apps, social media addiction and the internet. They are less willing to be receptive to you b/c their social skills are shit and they are more likely to suffer from anxiety, BDD, etc, they are less willing to see you as a prospective partner b/c their standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:31 AM
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It's a loss of social capital, or at least that's what I learned in Psych. Way back when people used to have poker nights, bowling clubs, spend actual time with friends and more involvement in their communities. The technology we have is a double-edged sword, we're meant to use it as a tool - and it's an extremely powerful convenient one - but we've come to rely on it like a crutch because it's so addictive. Our social media interactions don't replace real-time interactions and quality time but …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:56 AM
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Your location is absolutely fucking the issue unless there's some huge unknown factor(s) I don't know about. There are ordinary average everyday looking whatever men here with women who aren't fat regularly, if not actually cute women as well. I also see this in OR and WA, and this is probably also the case on the east coast. If they made the cut you certainly will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:47 AM
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Seriously man, what the fuck. I already said this but you need to fucking move. Up north, out west, either of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:04 PM
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I am being completely 100% honest when I say I have all the empathy for people who live in places where somehow a social circle with nonfat women is somehow rare or a commodity. It's still hard to believe but I will take everyone's word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:03 PM
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Right, so I suppose high SMV have the luxury of worrying about long-term qualities b/c maybe the looks are a given whereas low SMV women can only focus on looks b/c the chances of long-term commitment are lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:05 PM
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Right, so do the less pretty care more about looks b/c they have less choices? I guess that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:03 PM
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So, mathematically you could say that women are over 100 times more sexually selective than men. That's why women strongly prefer romance and long-term dating over casual flings. However, if a woman has low sexual attractiveness she'll often settle to be pumped and dumped by a man of higher sexual attractiveness than her. That's because even though her sexual attractiveness isn't high enough for a long-term dating strategy, her DNA still wants her to reproduce and continue her genetic lineage, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:46 PM
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So does this mean women of higher SMV care less about a man's SMV and more about his RMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:48 AM
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I think ghosting would be any time someone stops responding without any closure. Like "Hey I'm sorry, just wasn't feelin it, wish you the best though I genuinely think you're a good person" Like how employers or prospective job applicants get ghosted by each other when nothing has been communicated re: the circumstances or status. So if you just stopped responding, that would still count as ghosting. But let's say you'd need some type of established first meaningful contact first like a date or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:17 AM
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LOL again with this. You can for some. Not for all or many. Detecting autism isn't remotely the same as detecting lying or covert narcissistic shittiness and manipulative personalities. You can hide anything. I have issues up the ass living rent-free in my head and everyone IRL thinks I'm completely normal and well-adjusted, including many of my closest friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:05 AM
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I mean there's no reason to think she wasn't just speaking in a general sense, like "He's socially progressive just like me" or whatever. But this is just Exhibit #678,398,209 supporting how you just don't know with some people. Not just in dating, but in friendships, work relationships, family and acquaintances. Everything. There are fuckheads hiding in plain sight everywhere, and unless they choose to reveal it to you you won't ever know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:54 AM
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It's weird that the blackpillers aren't always right. /s In all honesty on the right people I find all types of eyes and features have their charm. I have a small nose that I've always thought lacks character and before I was exposed to narrow conventions I naturally thought people with larger distinct noses were cool looking. It didn't affect how I saw women either in terms of who I thought was cute/hot. I compare the people I find attractive now vs back then and I view the latter as more natur…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:24 AM
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Half-asian and I got big feminine eyes. Asian people love it, blackpillers in the west would call them gay prey eyes. Women overall tend to like them too so I'll take them as a consolation prize to hooded squinty alpha orbs. As far as I can see though the west for better or worse exoticizes more typical Asian eyes at least for women. Things for men might be getting a bit better but it's hard to tell. "White eyes" in general aren't really prized or special here b/c well, it's mostly white here an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:20 AM
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loads of times Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:56 AM
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She looks 12 bruh. Are you a teenager. I keep forgetting how many people here aren't even 21 yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:02 AM
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No he actually started even younger which reinforces my point. One of my best friends has the same contrast and circumstances going on with him and his brother and piano. He has long fingers, his brother doesn't, despite them both having similar body types overall and both being pianists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:48 AM
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I dunno if that has anything to do with it. I was classically trained and I have the long delicate pianist fingers but my brother's fingers are a lot stubbier despite having trained for the exact same amount of time. He has the Chad body and wide jaw to make up for it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:39 AM
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A lot of women like to say they can sniff out misogyny while giving excuses for their bad decisions by saying a lot of shitty men act nice as I said which is hilarious. In your case, you somehow think these random ass men trademarked "nice guys" complaining about women are the poster boys of misogyny and fail to mention the other types who aren't only misogynistic but also cause severe physical and psychological harm and trauma to women. These are actually the men who lie, manipulate, rape, comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:23 AM
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Yeah lol google says average in america is 10.5
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:02 AM
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Which means you can't sniff out their trash personas. Wifebeaters, narcissists, sociopaths, and arrogant manipulative men in the context of a relationship are not nice no matter how nice they act and you can bet your ass they disrespect and look down on women. It's funny but not surprising your tone ultimately still defends these men as not as bad or misogynistic. Again I know, it's convenient to your narrative to just focus on how terrible the mediocre sexually unsuccessful men complaining abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:27 AM
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They can be. They can also be...oh I don't know, the aggressive loudmouths, sociopaths, narcissists and alcoholic beat-the-shit-out-of-you guys. However, you'd be hard-pressed to find many men in these groups struggling to find interested women. Many women find it comforting to separate the type you mentioned - disgruntled "nice" guy - from the rest; it's convenient to associate misogyny with these garden variety soft mediocre whatever men they innately find repulsive when justifying their prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:36 PM
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..,.If the actual healthiest BMI was 100-200, then we would be biologically programmed to be the most attracted to people in this range and therefore there wouldn't be any problem. However, we aren't, why is why we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:23 PM
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Yet at the same time women will say they can sense shitty men so that's why guys who struggle with women just need to stop being toxic. "We can smell your misogyny" and "Women don't choose abusive men knowingly" are two sentences the same women say in different conversations when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:18 PM
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He's obviously just trolling at this point so who knows or cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:27 AM
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I doubt that no matter how much you eat you look like you're in a concentration camp, but people with very fast metabolisms do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:24 AM
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A lot of women and people constantly battle physically and psychologically with their weight so even if from an absolute standpoint it's not as immutable as height the struggle is bad enough that what I said is still relevant. Ofc if you asked me would I rather be fat or short, I would rather be fat. I can lose the weight, but I'm also not in the shoes of these fat people or what they are going through. Every woman wants to be thin but somehow most aren't, so that tells you something about how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:24 AM
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I mean he either won't answer or he's going to lie. Or something to make it sound more believable or modest like "I used to be 27 BMI but after a lot of hard work I've made it down to 25, hoping for the best and striving for more progress."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:31 AM
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It's weird we make fun of fat ugly women or short ugly men for being mean or bitter. People overlook, mistreat, and talk down to these people their entire lives and we're surprised and indignant they have a few complexes. Why wouldn't a 5'3" man have a bone to pick with the world? Inb4 "I dated a guy who was 5'2" for years and I loved my short king." "My 5 foot friend is doing just fine and everyone loves him." With fat people it can also go the other way, we see the shitshow personalities and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:17 AM
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There are also no women (Stacys, I guess) who are universally attractive - to that degree - to men. Men are just much more likely to fuck anyone, so the chances of him saying no to any woman rated largely as over a 6 are slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:10 AM
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What's the point of everyone demanding to know his BMI, there's nothing stopping him from lying anyway nor is it verifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:08 AM
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There are a lot of women on here with issues and revenge fantasies just like the men. Just like that one link yesterday to that tweet with the asian chick making fun of ugly men. Wasn't even really the woman in the picture, just some anonymous radfem femcel account and they're all socially stunted and mad with fake profile pictures of what look like 12 year old anime girls. Their male counterparts are the same, socially stunted, aggressively trollish and wanting these girls. For their sake I hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:50 AM
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Right, but what I mean is you'd think more of these people would be considering these pills. Also statistically the less overweight people are more likely to have the means to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:35 PM
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Oh it's fucking infuriating when you read about the enablers and people are sounding super distraught and upset for their 600 pound family member like maybe stop bringing home bags of cookies and ice cream every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:31 PM
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But wouldn't it be popular for people who are just trying to lose those last stubborn 20-30 lbs? There are plenty of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:30 PM
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The vast majority of people you've interacted with have commented on your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:40 AM
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The more hot people I see online and IRL the more I realize how similar attractive people are. In that you find someone really cute/hot and there really isn't a level above that (aside from like the one in a million you never see). You'll just find someone else really attractive but they won't necessarily be higher or lower, just different and you might like them more or less depending on your taste, type and mood. I'd sooner take a random cute girl I see at the gym who has something about her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:57 AM
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It's clear her point wasn't that she doesn't want to date men who look like that. Her entire point is making fun of men she thinks are ugly for being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:50 AM
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LOL if someone is wrong it's wrong. "They do it too" isn't an excuse. If she's not attracted to him fine, but then why do you have to say it's a "good" thing that these men are lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:45 AM
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Either way it's a mean thing to say? Why wouldn't men be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:44 AM
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Yes. It's going to be difficult no matter what, but this would actually go a long way to explaining just why it has to happen. No kind of love outside of parental love (if you're lucky) is completely unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:53 AM
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What's a blooper?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:51 AM
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Break up with her and do what I gotta do b/c I want kids. Nobody said this kind of thing is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:48 AM
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We're just going around in circles then. I tell you what I observe, you say "well those are just the lucky people." Ignoring the fact that I am around all types of people from all walks of life. I'm not only around goodlooking people, I'm not only around rich people or those with means and resources, I'm not only around people who display great social skills and extroversion. In the end we only have our experiences to go off and hopefully critical thinking. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:40 AM
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You know I thought this too but I had it explained to me, some people are so thirsty or lonely they still get pleasure of fulfillment from the brain lying to them. On a deeper conscious level they know that the woman is being paid to pretend to like them but when it's happening they still get similar dopamine rushes. Kinda like masturbation in a way, but on a different level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:36 AM
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I've always thought that too but in recent years I've heard more and more people say it potentially takes a long time but honestly you can know after a few months depending on the people involved if marriage is your goal from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:21 AM
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They don't offer anything extra, but they potentially function just fine as friends the same way members of the same sex function as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:02 AM
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lol it was cringe immediately when it came out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:59 PM
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I think the idea is that she keeps getting used, even if unconsciously or unintentionally, as a placeholder until the men she's dating find the women they actually want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:57 PM
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I knew the internet was a cesspool of bad ideas and garbage but it wasn't until the onset of the pandemic in 2020 during which I spent a lot more time online that I realized just how commonplace it is for people, who sound completely sane and reasonably confident in their views btw, to just be completely deluded, misguided, and throwing around false information like nothing from their trenches and hive minds. These people would also have hundreds or thousands of people who agreed. I blame myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:46 PM
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I mean he has decent lips but in the nicest way possible there's no way to really rate him until he gets unfat and loses the neckbeard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:33 PM
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Your own mental health can be preserved by assuming by default everyone else's mental health online is trash. After you accept that this is the norm with some exceptions it's less depressing and everything makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:28 PM
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This is how you sound. The problem is real. So much that the West brings migrants to stop the decline of the population. This was your response. Do you know what an analogy is? Please identify the analogy in this response and explain it to me lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:22 PM
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There was an anatomy/physiology dual course requirement in college and physiology turned out to be basically my favorite class ever. Teacher was alright, was probably a combo of the subject matter and my state of mind at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:00 PM
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Is that biochem I fucking love that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:58 PM
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OnLy ThE RiCh ArE DaTiNg And that's how you sound. What level of delusion are you to not be aware the poor are the ones having the most kids out of everyone? Or that everyone I am around is rich? Been to Walmart, Target, or any other random ass grocery outlet or dept store lately? Don't see any couples there? Every guy in a couple is a Chad? Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:56 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:43 AM
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Echosmith
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:43 AM
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Alright you can do drugs but only b/c it's not a school night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:57 AM
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A Chadito, if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:54 AM
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I remember the mathbooks from Asia my mom forced upon me when I was in 3rd grade. Legit it was math American 8th graders would be learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:41 AM
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There are a lot of chronically online weird people obsessed with their respective niches and beauty/skincare is no exception, you got girls starting tretinoin at 15 and shit. There's no rush but if and when you get to it remember it's all-trans-retinoic acid/tretinoin and not retinol, which is the weak OTC version of Vitamin A, although I think studies have shown it still yields benefits but much less dramatic or noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:49 AM
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It might be slightly better but it's a low bar since almost all skincare is useless long-term speaking. All you really need is a retinoid, moisturizer, daily sunscreen. Everything else, even with benefits, isn't really worth the price. The best moisturizer or sunscreen assuming baseline effectiveness is one you're willing to wear daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:36 AM
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There are men who actually think that, and then below that there are men who actually think that and also think it's a good idea to say or type it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:34 AM
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Assuming OP is the creator of the video, he talks about dating in general and not just OLD, that's why he says "not to mention the online apps" because by default he's speaking from either an IRL or general context.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:26 AM
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humans who are midwits You flatter them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:25 AM
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She must be a real POS if she's making people complain about celebs named Hannah and there's no one else x)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:13 AM
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Are these the types of conversations only amongst the terminally online? Almost everyone I know IRL is in a relationship or situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:08 AM
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You can tell with some men but not all men. Let's assume you have this superpower of 100% accuracy. That doesn't change the fact there are tons of women who suck at it....you know, like the women you say "I told you so" to. Many women can't b/c it's not obvious, maybe they lack social intelligence, and there are people very good at hiding it - although honestly it's not that hard to act like a 'normie'. This extends beyond the realm of dating. The worst most toxic people often don't make it appa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:00 AM
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Erm who else is there besides Hannah Montana?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:55 PM
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Well except what I'm saying also applies to just all people. It doesn't matter if you find them sexually attractive or not, I'm a straight guy and it's no more obvious if a guy is a bad person if he's remotely good at hiding it. I would say the person I hate the most in this world was a friend who preyed on my struggles in my teen years with manipulation and an utterly toxic crabs-in-a-bucket demeanor. Everything was great up to many years into the friendship. Like I said, I have many conflictin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:40 PM
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Lol if frickin only. If all shitty people were stupid and wore their shittiness on their sleeve you wouldn't have half the interpersonal problems and issues with abuse and manipulation and mental illness you see today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:16 PM
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Then you've interacted with some very stupid, socially incompetent misogynists. Unfortunately not all shitty men are stupid and socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:14 PM
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You can for some men, not for all men. And your miss rate is significant enough you have armies of women saying their men turned out to be assholes after they have already invested plenty in the relationship or gotten married even. There are few people aside from the actual mentally ill who like assholes, but it's never that cut and dry. For many women, asshole behavior is interpreted as having confidence, being ambitious and either socially or physically dominant. For those who consciously know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:08 PM
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Keep strawmanning it's all you got. Me: "Portrayals of POC need to be more multidimensional" You: BuT OfC ItS GoInG tO Be MoStLy WhYtE PpL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:58 PM
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75.5% of the population is white and 7% of the population is Asian. Why are you shocked that the vast vast majority of people in film are white? The main characters are the ones with fully developed characters, so that's even less number of opportunities for anyone of any race Nice strawman. Just LOL you really think just b/c they aren't "main" characters that there isn't anything wrong with them just fitting into neat little boxes? That's fine that you can cherrypick extreme exceptions, that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:51 PM
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I'm sure there are some women who are turned off by misogyny even though for many it's not a dealbreaker if he has other qualities she prioritizes. Even so, many if not most men who struggle with dating aren't struggling b/c they wear misogyny on their sleeve. And whatever women on here say, no, they can't sniff out misogyny or sense that a guy holds toxic manosphere-esque ideals reliably a lot of the time. Evidence being women in the same spaces talking about how they weren't aware he was an as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:45 PM
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So when [some] women say they find gray hair or wrinkles sexy, are they lying? Unconsciously associating these physical traits with the traits of stability and maturity, or does it depend on the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:40 PM
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What would be the reason for social stigma for say a 27 year old woman dating a 25 year old guy? Or a 30 with a 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:38 PM
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You're either joking or it's mindblowing but maybe not unexpected that you don't even have a surface-level understanding of it. Most minorities are cast as flimsy paper-thin stereotypes. For Asian men it's asexual either way, either asexual martial arts heroes, gangsters or nerds. For black men it's less asexual as they are hypersexualized, but their characters are no less 2-dimensional...again gangsters, rapists, criminals, rappers, and now the occasional nerd for woke tokenism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:33 PM
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Heh. You wouldn't think it if you spend a lot of time here. It's constantly "Ew dirty old men" "Men age worse than women akchually" "Ew age gap relationships" "Men peak at 20" I get a lot of these are femcels or older women with revenge fantasies or women who have traumatic pasts with creepy old dudes but I'm not sure where you get the idea women would be embarrassed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:29 PM
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You spend enough time online you think everyone is polarized and heavily invested in their political beliefs. IRL most of us are just a bunch of assholes trying to live; politics may hold some significance in their daily lives and conversations but it's not their entire identity like the outspoken people you'll see on forums, reddit et al.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:03 PM
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I saw a group of women ( probably friends) who were getting along very well and I couldn't ignore the amount of emotional and physical connection they have, I heard the word " love you " used more times than in a hetero ROMANTIC movie . I mean anyone who has touched grass for more than a day knows this is all for show. Women post pictures of themselves hugging and kissing each other and leave comments like "y r u so hawt' 'okayy' 'i'm obsessed with u' to keep up appearances. Plenty of female fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:42 PM
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People gain the most weight in their 20s, I'm guessing b/c after the weight gain your metabolism allows you to stabilize at your current higher weight in your 30s and you don't naturally have much more to gain unless you are eating even more than how you already fucked up. I honestly don't think the natural decrease in metabolism from aging plays a huge role. People just forget how active they were when they were younger but continue to eat like they aren't older in sedentary jobs doing adult sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:52 AM
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That's why it's important to establish healthy lifestyle habits very early on. Most people gaining weight is a gradual thing where they unconsciously continue to eat like when they were active teenagers for years and decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:44 AM
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If people make a genuine effort (or in their defense, have the time and resources to do so), they can look good well into their 30s, and if they have the genes well into their 40s. No hate or snark but that's why I talk that shit about people being "low class" here because everyone seems to agree looks go to shit after 25. And it's like, if you lived in an area where people didn't give up in their early 20s, no...it really doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:41 AM
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Either location or something really off about him internally or psychologically that shows in his behavior that we aren't seeing or he isn't showing. Like I said things might be bad but they aren't that bad. Normal whatever dudes get non-fat women all the time even if they might not be getting the baddies chasing the chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:23 AM
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I'm guessing there might be some deep-seated issues and other factors present. At least where I'm from people don't just give up and settle at 20 even if the dating climate is "bad". Bro makes it sound like he's literally surrounded by nothing but fat women and I dunno it's hard for me to imagine in CA but maybe he's telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:20 AM
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It is, and actually that's a fuzzy bad quality picture. He posted a video of himself talking in a YT vid a while back that's a lot more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:06 AM
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He's above average and the textbook example of the conventional white standard. There are funnier-looking shorter men here with sufficiently cute and thin women so I'm guessing it's his location.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:58 AM
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Just did a quick google...to be completely shallow for a sec I'd say Jessica is cute but Chelsea could've been a contender but it's amazing how that big hapsburg jaw/chin thing ruins her. Like they say if she had a normal chin she might be a Megan Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:52 AM
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Ima be kind of honest you seem like a good dude for real absolutely but you guys don't seem to treat each other well. Imagine if your SO was on a forum talking a lot about how they should be able to get someone more attractive who isn't 200 lbs, and this is a 2 year relationship you say, not someone you just met. Objectively re: dating dynamics I think you're right and there's something wrong where you are, but in that case you shouldn't be with her. Not fair to her and probably not fair to you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:22 AM
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Shows the man being proactive and going for what he wants. The specific ritual of getting down on one knee and asking is merely an age-old social norm for sealing the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:04 AM
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But he's...better looking than she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:52 AM
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He's better looking than her. She looks like Megan Fox with a hapsburg chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:51 AM
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I mean that'd have to be the case to compensate if you were marrying a masculine-looking woman, but originally I think it's just simply masculine-looking man meets feminine-looking woman and hope for the best for your kids since you have no idea what their sex will be. There's no safe way even if both parents looked neutral and androgynous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:30 AM
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Maybe 8 or 9, she isn't as curvy or with the assets that are so popular now. But you don't get to be a top VS model without a bangin body. Facial attractiveness can be more up for debate. Also I just have this thing for tall women so I'm biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:23 AM
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What if they have daughters. That's the problem, you don't know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:21 AM
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I mean I'm half-white and raised culturally in the US and so I feel my tastes and standards are pretty American as well. Maybe growing up as a child or teen it was different b/c I was sheltered and I'm slowly trying to unlearn mainstream programming. A lot of the blonde-haired blue-eyed bronze celebs I never stared at twice until I got exposed to a lot of western media starting around 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:19 AM
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I feel her strong features would make her a much better-looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:14 AM
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Gisele has a 5 face on a 10 body. Never understood how she got so big considering how pretty the other top-tier VS models are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:11 AM
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I dunno, fat people at 30 don't have sagging faces like that. When you're 50, which is more around how old she looks, it's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:57 AM
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Agree sunscreen is important, but sometimes I wonder just how much it makes a difference. I have relatives in their 40s who look literally a few years out of college at most who spend a lot of time active outdoors and never put on sunscreen. If you had the genes of that woman I'm not sure how much water or sunscreen would help. Then there's this: https://www.boredpanda.com/past-young-people-look-older/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:44 AM
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It's...not nearly as bad as I was expecting lol. Most of the women were actually dressed very conservatively esp for mardi gras.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:29 AM
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It's probably genetic or something due to having much less collagen than average. Most 30 year olds who never take care of their skin and have poor hydration don't look nearly as old as that and I'm guessing she's not big on tanning. She also looks overweight too which is all the more perplexing as extra weight usually makes your face less saggy and more full looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:25 AM
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What would you say defines and describes the male energy you would like in a friendship without factors like them potentially wanting to fuck or date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:57 PM
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That's why it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:48 PM
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Just needs to be less tight and more natural. You look really friendly in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:47 PM
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It's obviously the smile. Like you wanted to make your lower third shorter or something. I can tell it'd be fine otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:41 PM
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You look good, but why do you have the tight-lipped white person smile when you pass a stranger on the street loll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:40 PM
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I had a friend who was given a dick pic as a last resort when she kept saying she wasn't interested and he said "Well....how about a dick pic then." Like the conversation is going terrible and the guy just threw a Hail Mary "Fuck it, here goes nothing." Ideally he imagines ok she's been feeling nothing but icks but then sees the dick and is like "Oh shit. Hmm."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:36 PM
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It's like how it is with looks. Normie conventional women have the most universal appeal on average and weirdos overall do less well, but the most striking and unforgettable women are weirdos b/c they are weird in the most attractive ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:33 PM
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I think its because they are technically considered less attractive than guys less good looking but taller and more athletic. They're like a tier below tall guys on the desirability scale That's why I say the taller but still decent looking guy would win out for women on the whole. There are cases like yourself b/c out of pragmatism you would take the shorter guy. Your body will be fine once it reaches healthy status (19-21 BMI) /s In all seriousness I can't with this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:26 PM
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I don't doubt that mostly due to the reason of them taking longer to accept and practice what they truly want due to all the stigma growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:21 PM
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Okay but 5'11" is still tall for you. So it makes sense. You just aren't one of those short girls with a huge complex and need men to be 6 feet plus or else. Also the 6'3" guy is still goodlooking. A 7, so not just above average but comfortably so and a conventional looker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:16 PM
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But wouldn't these gay men have these shared interests with other gay men? Honestly whenever I hear Lady Gaga I associate it with gay fans...I'm sure there are women who love her but in my consciousness it's just not ringing a bell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:14 PM
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I dunno, I did grow up sheltered but I definitely never had any urge to experiment with men or felt any curiosity or desire toward them like I did with women. I do have a couple straight male friends who are extremely conservative and religious now but I remember them saying they experimented with other dudes in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:11 PM
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You should be using a 8/10 5'7" guy instead From my observations the 7/10 6'3" guy would win easily, and honestly despite the answers here I think he would beat out the 8/10 5'11" guy too. Women give priority and reflexive notice to the tallest guy. If he's decent looking, which as a 7 he is, he's set. The difference in facial attractiveness is minimal when you take into account his extra height and frame which is part of looks anyway unless he's really fat or a beanpole. If the tall dude is onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:54 PM
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I actually have a lot of gay friends. What I meant was less drama in terms of competition or hostility toward them. But you're right, I haven't actually spent a lot of time with them and straight women at the same time. They do talk a lot of shit though but it's never seemingly serious or mean-spirited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:21 PM
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I've seen it a lot as well with my gay friends. I don't know if they are actually "more misogynistic" but maybe they feel more comfortable or justified in criticizing and calling out women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:54 PM
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Why do women cherish friendships with gay men? I understand why women might feel more comfortable being friends with a gay man over a straight man. But it almost seems to be something that's aspired to if even for superficial trendy reasons. Is it b/c gay men are like straight woman friends without the drama or competition? Is it b/c women get to have the company of a man without any of the fear of sexual tension or him wanting to fuck? Both? More reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:47 PM
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Is it true that the actual cost of produce and healthy ingredients is not the problem; they're actually cheaper than premade unhealthy food, but more like they aren't usually available close by eg food deserts and also it takes a lot of time to prepare that many struggling people may not have esp if they are juggling multiple jobs and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:44 PM
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He isn't even attracted to other men He’s tried giving friends blowjobs, tried anal sex a few times What
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:25 AM
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Harassed, yes but I don't know if that counts if I didn't explicitly say stop or go out of my way to tell her it's unwelcome. I've been touched also but like taps and caresses on the waist and shoulders, and a girl grabbed my ass at a bar once. Aside from that last one I don't know if it counts esp with the verbal stuff. With touching are you supposed to get explicit consent before any type of affectionate touching?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:06 AM
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https://health.osu.edu/wellness/aging/does-metabolism-really-slow-down-with-age#:~:text=For%20years%2C%20the%20assumption%20has,reach%20the%20age%20of%2060. I don't know if I have high metabolism privilege or whatever but I've always felt....even conventionally speaking it's known your metabolism goes down by like up to 500 calories over several decades. That means at like 60 you may need to cut down on like a couple cookies or a large slice of pizza that you carelessly downed at 20. It just tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:33 PM
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I suppose it's hard, as a guy maybe, to imagine how someone could be objectively high on the looks scale while being an ick or sexual turnoff at the same time. At most it's high on the scale but not really my type/thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:38 PM
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Basically I just need to be drinking [a shit-ton more] water. Because it's so easy I never make an effort to actually do it and it's one of the easiest ways to just look and feel better. A simple solution is to just carry around a giant thermos but I can't even be arsed to do that so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:36 PM
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Yeah I def eat enough meat and iron. I also eat a lot of potassium-rich foods like sweet potatoes or bananas but I eat even more high-sodium stuff which in the end fucks up the balance I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:32 PM
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Can I just buy potassium supplements? Are they necessary or would that just be a waste or overdoing it ie it's for people with clinical deficiencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:24 PM
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It can go either way for me. Sometimes sleep helps b/c somehow blood flow gathers in my face or something. Either way I never drink enough water even though it's one of the easiest things to do. The coffee, gym, panic attacks and high sodium don't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:05 PM
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Anyone else notice the gigantic contrast between when everything is normal/healthy in the mirror vs when you're tired and dehydrated with dark circles and facial bloat looking like complete dogshit. It's not two different people but it might as well be. With the former I feel good about myself, with the latter I feel like I want to apologize to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:00 PM
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Women also largely as a group think he's a 7+. That's what I mean, some women are talking about how men are clueless about what catches a woman's eye but really we have the same scale and standards given the same culture or environment...the only difference is women probably need more than a picture to feel sufficiently and viscerally attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:55 PM
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The quoted comment in the OP is mine. It's true women probably differentiate objective looks from personal attraction more than men, but men do it too. Angelina Jolie and Margot Robbie are two women I can see are objectively "goodlooking", but they don't inspire anything visceral in me. But still, I wouldn't say disparaging things about them or say "They look mean. Why does she have a weird expression on her face?/Nah they aren't attractive to me". I'd say "They are very beautiful but they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:02 AM
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I can only speak for myself and what I've seen, but isn't it usually the woman who has more particular preferences in her lifestyle and routine? At least for me and I assume many other men it doesn't matter too much what we are doing specifically we're ok with whatever. Isn't it a thing where a couple has a day off and the guy just wants to lounge around and chill and the woman wants an entire day plan? Women do carry a lot of emotional labor but there are times when that labor was not necessari…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:08 AM
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Female arousal often requires more than a picture, but since we're always just going off of pictures in this context it's weird women respond as if they are assessing everything instead of just assessing pure looks. Like I show my friend a picture of Henry Cavill and she'll go "He got a butt chin, why is he glaring, I don't find him attractive", instead of just saying "He's a 9" which she's thinking anyway based off of the only picture available with no other info.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:45 PM
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But most women would say he's objectively an 8 or higher so doesn't that mean women see him as attractive also? Just maybe it takes a bit more to turn women on so just seeing him in pictures might not be enough to flip the switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:36 PM
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I never said they were lying, I said it's confusing. Because it will be actually an aversive reaction sometimes combined with a high rating. "No thanks, ew, but he's a 10". There are women out there that are objectively attractive but I feel nothing for also but I wouldn't refer to them as "hot" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:30 PM
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My asian female friends who are still fairly asian culturally would say he looks like a low-class construction worker. Stark differences in beauty standards. I think a few of them even recoiled in disgust when I showed them typical tan male fitness models.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:24 PM
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There are a lot of responses of "he's objectively an 8, but ew no". My friend said she doesn't find Henry Cavill attractive and that he looks mean and skeazy with a butt chin. Then I asked what she'd rate him and she goes "I dunno, 8 or 9 I guess". Women I tell ya. I get that you can see people as objectively attractive but they aren't your type or they don't get your motor running, but in women this happens so often it's a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:21 PM
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Nothing wrong with trying to improve your looks but the looksmaxxing and blackpill community(s) often lose the plot while fixating on specific things and features to a fault. They also get lost in their own bubble and are actually wrong or deluded about what is attractive and what isn't. If you can navigate these places and take what is useful and recognize when things are getting weird, that's good and fine but this doesn't apply to many of the young and impressionable insecure people who come …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:40 PM
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Yeah but if you're a woman with options there are plenty of taller, richer men with better bodies and status around here. I realize a lot of it is pathological for me, the pandemic made things a lot worse b/c I had more time alone with my thoughts. A little caution is good but I got too deep into the shitty manosphere stuff in my leisure lol. I was already kind of an anxious on-edge guy before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:07 PM
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That's honestly mind blowing and again reminds me how different people's environments are even within the same country. For I want to say my entire adult life and much of my formative years it's been nothing but liberal ideology(s) blasting into my ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:35 AM
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What drug-fueled bullshit is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:28 AM
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Makes sense, I just feel like since the current political zeitgeist leans left and progressive you wouldn't be able to spend a few minutes online or exposed to any media for that matter without running into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:23 AM
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How is that possible. Reddit itself here is literally chock full of left-leaning men. Go to the politics sub. You wouldn't be able to get away from them if you tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:19 AM
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How is she right if you say men try harder than women and she says men do a bad job or aren't interested in making an effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:18 AM
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You've never seen male liberals? Do you live in a rural area in a deep red state? Assuming you're in the US. Sometimes I forget just how completely different another poster's environment is on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:14 AM
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Enjoy the food, the company, the woman. Hope for the best, and if you don't get it just be glad it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:27 AM
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Yeah that's why I am really learning/understanding why some women actually might be serious when they say they don't prefer a top-tier man long term. Just the sheer and constant pressure and paranoia, you can't escape it even if you genuinely believe she is a wonderful person b/c humans are flawed and fallible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:22 AM
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I've been told by friends good face shit height (5'10) shit body (130 lbs) shit mental health (OCD, ADHD, anxiety/panic disorder, depression). If it's a woman with many options I don't even know how to deal with it. The few times I went out with a really attractive woman I ended up self-sabotaging. I would be constantly stressed that she'll find someone else or keep looking. I told my friends this and they bluntly told me I wasn't ready or man enough for her anyway thinking like that. I suppose …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:14 AM
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That's why I have trust issues. I've been approached by women which is surprising already, but there's no way these women also are not approaching other guys or constantly looking for bigger better options. It's hard to take anything long term seriously bc I feel I'm either a placeholder or they will branch swing shortly. I've gotten to the point where I assume or at least suspect any woman interested in me is desperate, bored, mentally ill or trying to get revenge on someone. I may need therapy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:59 AM
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He looks like if Ted Cruz was young and tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:56 AM
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At the pool track or gym day in day out I see the same mediocre soft bodies come in and do the same thing, and these are the minority of people who are actually trying. Like what you're doing is obviously not working, change it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:27 AM
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There have been a lot of dumbass men here lately. Like even more than usual. I normally think the stupid women are worse but not this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:25 AM
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Living rent-free in my head is that one comment yesterday from that guy that was like "Everyone's BMI is getting higher b/c women are getting super fat but men are lifting" x)x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:23 AM
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Mine's kind of narrow too though which offsets things and makes me look less masculine. I find a lot of masculine looking guys, if their nose doesn't project it's at least kind of broad. Is your gf asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:22 AM
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I've always wanted a bigger more prominent nose. Grass is greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:50 AM
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The weirdest thing a woman ever told me was that she liked how she didn't have to turn her head when kissing me. When I asked what she meant she said when white people kiss their noses get in the way, which is weird considering she's white and I'm half white but I guess I inherited a small nose from the asian side. I haven't paid enough attention to notice but do all the full-white people here relate to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:35 AM
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I've never tried it, but as a guy with full lips I find I prefer women/kissing women with lips on the thinner side. Not like super thin but you know what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:19 AM
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Being rich helps. So if even with money you can't get above average women you must be lacking in other areas. Maybe looks, maybe personality, maybe charisma, intelligence. Being rich helps is all I have ever said ITT for you to act like it was so controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:46 AM
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I'm saying if you're weird and offputting and you're the type of guy to put "Stands six feet tall" in his reddit profile, chances are there are things about you that are making more attractive women averse to you. I don't know how you look or other things about you, I'm just assessing this on personality alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:40 AM
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I know what a hot woman looks like. I live in California, trust me. But in the end, a redditor believing me isn't too high up on my list of priorities. It's been real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:37 AM
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My point is that there is probably something else going on for why you can't get more attractive women because you come across as weird and your personality is probably lacking. But I don't expect you to agree, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:34 AM
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I don't know where my own rating is but I've dated women much more attractive than me. I chalk it up to my personality and social skills and ability to read social cues and emotional intelligence. If looks were #1 these women would not have given me the time of day since I live in a very looks conscious area.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:31 AM
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You can resemble someone who's ugly and still be attractive, or vice versa. Or it can be neutral. Like how you can think your girlfriend is a 10 and looks a lot like her brother or dad but you don't necessarily think they are attractive - but I mean they might be lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:24 AM
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Wealthy is writing your own checks, as per Chris Rock. I think maybe you guys are talking about garden variety rich like millionaires. Rock famously said "Shaq is rich. The white man who signs his checks is wealthy."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:18 AM
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You come across as someone who is upset that you can't get more attractive women. You don't sound satisfied. That's a dating trouble or woe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:09 AM
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I googled a few top instagram influencers and "hotties". Usually decent looking dudes, as to be expected as these are women who are extremely image and reputation conscious, but on the whole not on the level of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:07 AM
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Bro I'm not actually trying to insult you and I don't know what dating troubles you have but I can tell right away from your profile you probably come across as weird to people and probably women. First of all why do you have your height in your Reddit profile? And why would you word it that way? Just sayin. If you're a doctor, unless you were cursed with very unlucky genetics I can't see you having trouble with women if you're fit, groomed, and have good social skills and I'm guessing the latte…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:57 AM
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I feel if we take it away, we'll get ~20% of ppd posts out Man 20% is optimistic x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:49 AM
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You joke but I think it's a trap many many people fall into when slinging mud. It's also convenient. I'll be first to confess I do it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:45 AM
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My experience has been that very attractive women actually care less about looks than less attractive women, probably b/c looks aren't as much of a fixation for them. The same way most women like tall men, but it's always the shorter women who have a complex and demand a very tall man. In any case, even if a 9 has a higher looks threshold, so what? I don't know where else you want to take this, nothing you have said negates the fact that having money boosts a man's attractiveness. There are also…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:42 AM
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If looks is king, a 5 woman will not settle or end up with a 5 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:38 AM
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Sometimes I think we are grouping everyone into the same category. The men complaining about career-driven women are not the same men complaining that women are gold-digging. The women who complain that men aren't being men and taking care of shit aren't the same progressive feminists challenging gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:36 AM
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You also said most people end up with their looksmatch. What's the problem then. There aren't any real implications to "looks are #1" if a 5 will get another 5 and an 8 will get another 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:27 AM
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There is a looks threshold and ofc looks "come first" in that it's what they see first. In another comment here I said I've heard from many women that they didn't necessarily find their SO attractive at first until they got to know them as people, and now they find them very attractive. Some women even said they thought the guy was ugly. It's possible a lot of these women are lying, trying to make themselves look good, or exaggerating, but it's such a common thing there has to be some truth to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:23 AM
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LOL you know I didn't even necessarily say money or wealth was more important than looks. I said for the 10985th time, money and wealth, which conveys power and social status, helps a man just like being fit, being well groomed, being well-dressed, helps a man. You can be too fucking ugly or have other dealbreakers for this to work but for most men it will help b/c most men aren't very old, very ugly, or have other extreme problems. You choose to ignore the big and main picture b/c you're caught…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:17 AM
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Ok so, do you have anything to say that actually goes against what my original argument was ITT, which I've reiterated a few times now? Or does all this bullshit exchange amount to me saying "Looks matter but aren't necessarily #1" and you saying "But YeS It Is"? B/c if so, have a good day doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:11 AM
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I hope you're not in psychiatry and if you are I hope you don't jump to conclusions as quickly with your clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:06 AM
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But here you were in another comment saying if you're a 5, at best if you're rich you can only get the attention of a 6. So a 6 is a big deal now? My point is if OP, like all other women, think looks are #1, why would she be okay with being with a 6? ESPECIALLY if she is also above average and the modern dating dynamic forces men to date down as they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:49 AM
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Google any top-tier woman. These women have their pick of men. Then check who their spouses are. The spouses are rarely on their level lookswise. Again, never said looks aren't important. What I said was, as per the OP, men lean on their money because their money makes them more attractive to women. If these men are short, or look weird, or have other disadvantages, all the more reason to do so. Don't come at me with this "oh but if they're really old and ugly though their money won't be enough.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:47 AM
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LOL. Looks are #1 to all women yet the woman OP you are responding to is with someone she originally considered a 6. Me thinks there were other things about him that sealed the deal. Make your bullshit make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:39 AM
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No old ugly billionaires are famous sex symbols - a category literally defined solely by physical traits - therefore I'm wrong. LOL Looks are #1, that's why Beyonce, a top-tier woman who can have armies of 10/10 models at her door at any time, is still with Jay-Z, a cheater at that. There are countless examples of top-tier women who can have any man they want, and the men they choose aren't model-tier. I know the idea that looks aren't #1 is hard for your blackpilled mind to grasp. Let's be hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:31 AM
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When did I say looks aren't important? The point is money and perception of power/resources increase a man's attractiveness, which is why men flaunt or "lean on it" especially if they lack in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:22 AM
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So what I'm saying is a lot of women - maybe not you - don't parse it consciously like that. She sees a powerful well connected man, she feels attracted, she's not going to be like "Well if it's just for one night I dunno b/c he's not that tall or handsome." She might reason to herself that it could be much more than that in the same way a lot of men have the confidence of a 10 when approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:03 AM
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If it was this cut and dry you wouldn't hear a lot of women say "I became more attracted to my bf/husband the more I got to know him even though I wasn't really attracted at first. Now he's the hottest guy in the world to me literally." Some of these women might be lying, some might be embellishing, but I hear it so often there is probably some truth to it. Looks is the first thing you see so if you ask a woman to assess immediately ofc it will just be based on looks. But most women desire a mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:57 AM
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You're using an extreme example of age gap which makes the scenario less likely. But ultimately many women don't separate a man's money from the rest of him when they unconsciously assess him. There are plenty of instances where the woman sleeps with the guy with very limited hope of relationship forming out of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:49 AM
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Because having resources makes a man more attractive, even sexually attractive, at any age. It's a literal turn-on for many women, there is a lot of gray area when assessing a man, and it's not always a detached logical "at least he has money even if he's old and ugly" thing. In many cases you can't separate the way women see a man's money from the way she views how powerful and resourceful he is and his social proof. It's also not that relevant that women may consciously know it's just a ONS w/…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:43 AM
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There's a lot of clueless unsuccessful bluepillers out there who definitely aren't that way b/c they are sheltered or padded by success or privilege. Some people are just more likely to follow the herd or lack critical thinking. Hence the groups of people who criticize the incels or lookists and say looks don't matter, just shower and touch grass, but look like gamer goblins. Not defending incels either, fuck them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:10 PM
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Learning how to carry on conversation and read social cues isn't advice only for extroverts. It's a life skill everyone needs even if it may come easier for extroverts. Even many if not most introverts, while requiring time alone to recharge, have people they enjoy being social and interactive with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:07 PM
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The twist is that these are more likely the people to criticize incels (like the inceltear sub) and the incel meetup will "look better" b/c they are the ones more likely to spend time obsessing over their looks. Also makes sense that people most likely to ridicule ideas of lookism are going to care less about their own looks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:49 AM
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I know quite a few natural blondes but I'm around a lot of people with scandinavian ancestry. Men are also notoriously stupid with things like that. I used to study with this blonde girl in college every day and one day she dyed her hair completely black and I couldn't figure out why the hell she seemed different until she was like "I dyed my hair dumbass".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:48 AM
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It's socialization. I prefer blonde hair now but before I watched a lot of tv and spent time on social media it was brunettes mostly. The socialization is so strong men will go hard for bottle blondes knowing full well consciously it's not natural. It's like fake tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:05 AM
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Well I try to look at it logically...if there are enough men who are both attractive as well as without issues with misogyny to match the needs of all the women looking for this type of man - which is most women, that would mean most men are attractive and don't hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:50 AM
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Hehe. 2-3 different women per day. Every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:34 AM
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I'll see your Myron sleeping with 50 women and raise you Fresh sleeping with 1000 women per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:27 AM
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There aren't even enough attractive men for the women who won't settle for men who aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:21 AM
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She's what I would consider pretty and ideal now after years of media exposure. Growing up relatively sheltered I was attracted to different types so in a way I see my earlier preferences as more true and natural. The reality is probably somewhere in between, my earlier preferences didn't come about in a vacuum either b/c a lot of it is environmental exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:19 AM
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Happens to all of us. Or many of us anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:14 AM
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I'm not saying all women have shit intuition but if the intuition was so universally strong you would not see a lot of women justifying their dating choices by saying they didn't know he was an asshole when they first met. So either their intuition isn't great or they are covering for being attracted to asshole men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:05 AM
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"BMI iSnT AcCuRaTe" is like how some asshole in gaming console conversations has to say "It's better on PC". Someone always has to chime in with it. I'm fine with people with sub 25 BMI saying it and maybe I have the wrong idea of the types that are expressing this sentiment but it's the people that are like with a BMI of 27 that get to me saying it's not a good marker of health as if it's bc they are bodybuilders. A while back there were a bunch of dudes on here saying 25% bodyfat for men is pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:44 AM
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I thought driving with one hand was just naturally what most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:38 AM
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- Christopher Columbus
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:37 AM
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The cope that high BMI is inaccurate bc muh lean mass is real. Among men and women, but I see it slightly more with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:34 AM
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There are very few women this side of 40 preferring to stay single. It's clearly visible and obvious. That's going to be my default response to all of these types of threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:07 PM
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If they don't want to be direct or feel they shouldn't have to say things, why do they expect it from men/their partners? Pretty sure she wouldn't appreciate it if I assumed she could read my mind through the subtleties and nuances of my words and behavior over weeks and months.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:01 PM
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To be fair, in a different way and context, it can take a lot for some guy friends to open up about their feelings, but obviously this is a different dynamic, and they don't throw out the "why don't you ever communicate better" bullshit. It's not healthy either though, I've lost male friends b/c they didn't say shit and things were eating at them and then it just blew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:31 PM
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Again BMI isn't an accurate measurement of health, but I'm saying if your BMI is over 25 it really doesn't matter that much b/c chances are you're carrying around some extra fat. There aren't many people with BMI over 25 without problematic levels of fat....most likely visceral as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:26 PM
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Me: Well I'm sorry, but why didn't you tell me this was bothering you? Her: I shouldn't have to say it, you should just know and pick up on these things. Also her multiple times in the past: Guys are so bad at communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:22 PM
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Why is everyone using "masterclass" to advertise their content these days. Just shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:51 AM
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Your fiance thinks you're hot isn't that enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:19 AM
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Maybe you have some mild BDD. 22 is fine and depending on the person some people look better and sit naturally at different weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:16 AM
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It's honestly very much just an American thing. We've been fat for so long and around so many fat people we think a BMI of 27 is normal and 25 or under is "you're lookin too skinny are you eating ok".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:06 AM
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Some people just naturally have a low BMI. Aesthetic preferences change from era to culture but you can definitely be healthy even if your BMI is like 24 and you're not "skinny".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:04 AM
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Shannon, easily. She has good and bad traits but Ramona has nothing but bad traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:57 AM
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"Women don't care about money" PPD posters on suicide watch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:48 AM
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The amount of people with a BMI over 25, much less 30, who are that way b/c of muscle is percentagewise very small. At the absolute least, they may lift and have some lean mass gains but they are also carrying around excess fat. As an absolute measure of health though, sure, BMI isn't accurate because there are many more criteria when assessing health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:44 AM
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Men use porn to get off. The analogy isn't perfect here but a lot of women whether they admit it or not see the appeal in men spending a lot of money on them but wouldn't want the men they care about in their lives, their brothers, sons, friends etc. to be used in the same way or as an asexual wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:38 AM
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There's a lot of people out there just wasting time and numbing themselves to vapid content.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:16 AM
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Never thought about that, but it makes sense since I have very limited experience on the east coast and come into contact with many more people from the western US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:43 AM
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You can hate it but it's always going to be true, women are loved for what they are, all the shitty beauty standards included, and men are loved for what they do or can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:40 AM
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I might just have an untrained ear for rural accents. They all kind of sound similar to me even if I know there are going to be differences from region to region.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:37 AM
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It makes people take them less seriously because you think they're doing it in large part for the attention or clicks. If you're truly in distress you wouldn't be on tiktok or wherever the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:36 AM
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On a smaller level I feel the same way with coffee/caffeine. Pharmacologically you're just stealing energy from later on in the day for the present. Can't stop won't stop though, but maybe I should cut back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:30 AM
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Not necessary blaming him but Gillis played basically a neutered restrained muted version of himself the entire show. I don't know if it says more about him or about the state of SNL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:26 AM
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Yeah I've noticed when people use generalizations to describe different regions they are describing more of the culture and life in the big(ger) cities. At least from what I've seen there is kind of more of a uniformity in America's smaller towns; something as superficial as a rural accent...you often see attributed to the southern states but it also seems strangely present and similar in rural areas in the west, midwest and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:13 AM
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When was the last time you found a pro-athlete or genius very attractive facewise compared to attractive people in the general population? From my own personal experiences I've at one point or another found many different types of features attractive so I'm more likely to think there is a huge environmental and social component. Re: the Fisherian runway this is probably more common in animals since in humans the most masculine dimorphic looking men are not necessarily the most preferred by women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:07 AM
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Judging by whomever is responding to you, there's the evidence you need for why the world is full of conflict. Willful stupidity and proud assholes. I'm half asian and see the cultural clash in my own extended family constantly. Different social norms, communication norms, stark contrasts in beauty and dating standards, even differences in traditional gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:42 PM
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You're so fat when your beeper goes off people think you're backing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:26 PM
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I haven't been to the east coast since I was a kid. I guess I was referring more to the general overall culture of the people, social and work norms, lifestyle and such. The overall long-held belief ofc is life in the west moves a lot slower and isn't as fast paced hustle culture-esque, but I'm finding as time goes by it's all merging together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:07 PM
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Aside from actual deformities and innate genetic disorders, facial attractiveness or lack thereof doesn't actually convey evolutionary health or fitness. My guess is we are programmed to be attracted more to healthy skin, symmetry, thick hair, etc because the polar opposite, extreme asymmetry, bad skin and hair, deformed features means something is wrong. But a 9/10 is not any more likely to be genetically "better" than a 5 or 6. It's true when you google people in the world historically or in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:56 PM
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like California vs NY, or US vs Asia lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:49 PM
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Had a lot of korean friends in college from korea. I don't know why so many people like to deny this but plastic surgery in korea is as normal and commonplace as orthodontics in america. I lost count of how many women had their eyes done, or less commonly their nose. It's not a value judgment, just fact. It is much less common among koreans abroad eg korean americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:05 AM
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Just curious, aside from traditional gender-assigned tasks like cooking or meal preparation, what is it that boomer men are unable to do to take care of themselves should they hypothetically suddenly find themselves without a woman in old age?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:48 AM
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https://i.imgflip.com/8gyl6x.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:48 AM
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Reminds me of a joke (I think it was Chris Rock?) where your gf catches you cheating and you think the worst is when she dumps you, but it's really after she goes "nonono....let's try to work this out." x) I would never cheat but honestly if I ever got caught I would just immediately decide to dump myself out of the fears you mentioned lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:15 PM
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I'm glad there's another post on this topic. Truly a mystery, I don't know if we will ever find the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:40 PM
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Height is my main issue aside from weight but weight is fixable (in theory). Growing 4 inches to 6'2" would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:37 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:36 PM
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I mean, that's why they have to chase it...? By default the primary audience we tell to chase success are the inexperienced and unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:35 PM
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He doesn't look like a Chad objectively at all going by what constitutes a Chad for those who analyze looks. However, since we live in reality, he's a decent looking guy with fame and status and has legions of female fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:16 PM
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Re: cheating that's b/c people think they can work things out and recover from it. Then comes a lot of trying and realizing it's harder to recover from than expected, and then eventually realizing they won't ever recover from it. Even if people technically for legal or logistical reasons decide to stay together things are permanently damaged, they won't ever feel entirely fulfilled again with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:40 PM
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There needs to be a meme where it's like "Me in my driver's license" and it's a cracked out mugshot, and then "Me in my Costco membership card" and it's a bronzed glowing model.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:09 PM
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It's a non-issue. Just like almost every other trait these mentally ill people fixate on. Obviously there are extreme exceptions, nothing way out of proportion is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:03 PM
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Longer philtrums look good on some people. It's all about balance. Femcels and looksmaxxers are obsessed with shorter philtrums b/c of the worship of neoteny on tiktok and all those places that mess with body image.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:59 PM
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I already conceded men defending predators is not the same as people turning a blind eye. I just don't think these men are part of the "good" men who aren't good enough. They aren't good men at all, and I actually have not seen anyone defend Danny Masterson. There are plenty of shitty people out there who think they are the "good" people. Going by your logic there are plenty of bad women out there as well who stay silent about male victims, so we're going around in circles here. You say women sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:44 PM
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The saddest part of many breakups from LTR is that one or both parties have been in conflict or unhappy for a LONG time, several months to several years. Nobody just feels like things aren't working and then initiates a separation from someone they've invested heavily in timewise, emotion-wise, resource-wise etc. They've likely complained, nagged, had multiple long conversations, agreed on steps or plans to improve things, and then proceeded to fail repeatedly or get little to no results regardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:05 PM
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The same way a lot of women are looking for a wallet or provider. Not sure which group is worse or more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:58 PM
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I don't get it. I literally just said it's not so much defending the bad people as it is turning a blind eye or ignoring it. I'm sure there are women who defend or downplay female predators but I don't have examples offhand? For all this 'patriarchy hurts everyone' feminists spout, how much noise is focused on bad male behavior and how much is spent on bad female behavior or how men suffer? The best is those articles about how "false accusations are bad" but then you read and it's like "They're …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:42 PM
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Not if it runs counter to their narrative or sociopolitical axe. Honestly I wish what you're saying is true, but it's not which is why everyone is so angry and at each other's throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:26 PM
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I didn't say most women defend female predators...I said their criticism is muted, mild(er) or won't come out unless they have a reason to defend themselves or justify their beliefs. People are just not motivated to criticize their own in whatever identity politik-based competition they're in. Outspoken feminists focus on bad male behavior and largely ignore bad female behavior for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:22 PM
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I didn't say they were the same. But you're right it's a different level. I was more responding to how you said even the good men aren't good enough. A lot of these good men won't defend rapists but they don't necessarily speak up about them either for the reasons I described. The men defending Danny Masterson are just straight up bad men, there's no ambiguity there. Good for you for condemning female predators proactively, you're in the minority. Many if not most women won't. If you ask them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:07 PM
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Well they don't say "the easiest way to break up with someone or sour a friendship is to move in with them" for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:58 PM
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It's a tale as old as time because people are invested in their sociopolitical identities. At the very least people are less likely to speak up whenever a member of their own group does something shitty. They may not "approve" of it but they also won't say anything or voice criticism b/c it doesn't benefit (or it hurts) their movement to do so. The same way many feminists won't criticize the man-haters or just stay silent, but when called out on it they'll say "oh those aren't real feminists" or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:54 PM
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I kinda get that...keeping finances and living spaces separate is becoming popular. I'm feeling that more and more as well b/c I straight up don't trust people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:51 PM
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I think it's becoming increasingly appealing maybe for both men and women to keep their living spaces and finances separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:50 PM
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just trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:38 PM
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As a woman, what is it about men (or older men) that makes them worth dating but not living with? I feel like it would be the reverse with this narrative...men are trash so live with them and use them for financial or provisional reasons but they aren't worth the romance. Edit: LOL downvotes, rly I say so much fucked up shit on here and the most harmless comments are the ones who trigger people x)x) Maybe I should say Waffle House is for trashy people again to rustle more jimmies which speaks vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:17 PM
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Dude looks like fuckin Henry Cavill and does not have a recessed maxilla anyway. Like I said, it's just incels obsessing over stupid shit and seeing things that are not there. The guy in the picture likely has body dysmorphia and thinks his maxilla is recessed b/c it's not 10 cm farther out from his nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:02 PM
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This can be disproven by seeing the partners of the top 1% of women who can have any man they want at any time. Usually their partners are not their looksmatch and sometimes they are even much less attractive. A lot of them men are tall, high status and well-connected though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:58 PM
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I would say a lot. You take the face off of most 6'3" jacked guys who pull women like crazy and put it on a 5'7" meh body and the guy becomes invisible. Goodlooking faces help, but it's very rare that you find a face so goodlooking that if he's 5'7" he'll enjoy the success just a decent looking guy who's tall and muscular gets. So I guess it might be slightly more than height, but body matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:56 PM
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I want to say more than half of people - and this might still be a huge understatement - who spend a lot of time online are mentally fucked. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:51 PM
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Basically lack of forward growth or a mouth area that looks like it's just too small and backward, exacerbating nasiolabial folds...which...unless it's really bad...actually just looks fine and normal. Incels and looksmaxxing autists fixate on individual traits and think a super forward grown square jaw is goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:50 PM
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She could've been a solid 8 despite her full-faced beard but her interpupillary distance and recessed maxilla brought her down to a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:44 PM
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Absolutely. I don't get this bullshit of "women are happy staying single now b/c of trash men." LOL where? Unless the woman is over 45 or 50 (and even then?) most women are consistently in relationships or temporarily in between relationships save the occasional casual phases. Perhaps these types of women with major issues or exceptional situations are just overrepresented online. I literally thought of an exception the other day of a girl I work with who is single b/c she was lamenting about be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:41 PM
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I've been saying this forever. The two sides just talk past each other. If the other side believes life begins at conception and abortion is murder, no amount of 'my body my choice' is going to matter. You don't get to do whatever to your own child just b/c it's your child. Likewise if pro-choicers don't believe abortion is murder then arguing as if it's murder isn't going to help the pro-lifers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:22 AM
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I mean, I don't really see people reflexively telling women they are being illogical just b/c they are women unless their behavior is actually viewed as the result of faulty logic. Perhaps in some decisions with more nuance and where surrounding context isn't as clear I could maybe see men being given more benefit of the doubt depending on the situation, but not always. There are social mechanisms and norms in place in some circumstances that also assume the validity of the opinions and actions …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:43 PM
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My point ultimately is that the OP doesn't really say anything meaningful. Just because there is technically a reason or thought process behind every decision, emotion and action doesn't mean it's not foolish, silly, or due to a variety of factors not excluding mental instability, illness, deep-seated issues and trauma, and so on. So for purely exemplary purposes, dumping an otherwise perfect man for a minor flaw can involve reasoning and a train of thought. That doesn't mean it's not stupid or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:18 PM
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My point ultimately is that the OP doesn't actually say anything meaningful. Just because there is a reason or thought process behind every decision or emotion doesn't mean it's not stupid or due to a variety of different factors not excluding mental instability or illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:16 PM
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My point ultimately is that the OP doesn't actually say anything meaningful. Just because there is a reason or thought process behind every decision or emotion doesn't mean it's not stupid or due to a variety of different factors not excluding mental instability or illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:16 PM
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For example my sister who is a decent looking girl but I don’t think she is out of my league or anything Based and incest-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:37 PM
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You are technically being "rational" if you dump a rich charismatic goodlooking guy b/c you don't like the subtle way he chews b/c the chewing cognitively repulses you more than you can stand. You are also either very stupid and/or have problems upstairs to be at the point where you can't deal with a trait like that in the face of all his other qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:25 PM
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I agree it's fucking awful. There are a few twitch streamers my friends like and I can't stand watching alongside them for more than a minute. I can't describe these voices with words except maybe that they are the most punchable voices I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:01 PM
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I guess I never got the memo about not complaining. I'm complaining and bitching constantly online and offline. It's for the most part benefitted me IRL, obviously not so much here lol. I think men are rewarded for being vocal or aggressive about their grievances tbh. I feel like I do it in direct and honest ways though...I don't do shit like smile at people and then go write self-important yelp reviews or call customer service or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:56 PM
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Low IQ detected. Not 1 of those 3 is wishing for a billion more wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:13 PM
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Regardless of what you look like a lot of people, men in this case, seem to have trouble keeping their stories straight. So like do mid women go for mid men b/c they are mid, or do mid women go for Chad only? If mid women go for mid men then there are no more problems right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:10 PM
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I used to think so too until too much blackpill forum lurking fucked up my standards. From observing what women actually like in reality I've been able to rediscover and appreciate my former tastes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:05 PM
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those italians got you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:58 PM
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yeah it's like a symbol that shows you live that life and you draw in other people who live that life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:57 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/spencerbramucci/?hl=en Your type. Another guy who would struggle to score a 5 on those PSL forums but IRL gets all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:54 PM
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You mean like last night in the general chat here? x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:42 PM
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nah plenty of UMC girls put a starbucks cup as a prop in their reels. It's just seriously that much a part of their basic routines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:39 PM
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Half asian here...my asian relatives have a lot of boba and sometimes starbucks, my yts have mostly starbucks once in a while boba to look like they are into diverse things. My bigger pet peeve is crying. I suppose it's possible the emotion is genuine or they actually feel sad but either way they had to go out of their way to cry on purpose or film it for affect and impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:38 PM
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Bro you need to move out of wherever the fuck you live then. I have to reiterate I see shorter men who aren't as goodlooking as you getting thin fit women constantly here. Wherever you are sounds absolutely godawful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:14 PM
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Oh that wasn't the comment that got more downvotes it was one of the ones with me explaining/apologizing for it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:11 PM
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Fairly sure Waffle House clientele includes a lot of white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:03 PM
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I honestly don't have an explanation for you. You're six feet and decent looking there's no reason you can't get a gf who's not fat unless like 95% of the women where you are are fat. If not I would guess maybe you are offputting socially but since I don't know you there's no way for me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:00 PM
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How about Denny's. That's where people go if they want to go to Waffle House but can't fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:54 PM
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Maybe I am just very unaware of what it's like in the rest of the country then. As far as I've heard and seen, most young people in decent areas are not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:52 PM
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Just more evidence not to take anything seriously here. Out of all the fucked up inflammatory things I might have said the most downvoted comment I have is one that insults Waffle House.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:48 PM
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Hey now it's hard if not impossible for a lot of people to be rich, American dream and all that being a myth. But once you get there, or maybe if you were just born there, you stay that way by being a stingy motherfucker. To a larger degree how they say the reason why billionaires aren't more giving is b/c if they were nicer, caring people who weren't cuttthroat POS they wouldn't have gotten rich to begin with as per the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:36 PM
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Shoot I don't know why I thought/assumed Alabama lol. I remember you said something like you guys are top 3 so maybe my brain went immediately there. Or Mississippi or Arkansas or Georgia or Louisiana xD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:28 PM
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Honestly didn't think of the code-switching aspect so you got me there. Nothing but love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:12 PM
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Not top 3%, but I'm fine lol. I concede about the code switching, but I'm just going by statistics and what I've observed from different demographics. People who have their shit together, at least where I'm from (moved up and down the west coast), don't talk like that, don't think everyone's fat or that every man/woman around them is a POS slut or manwhore. That's just not how people who are well off act, even if they may be bad people on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:06 PM
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I would say it's true that men care less about a woman's financial status than vice versa for sure, but yeah there is a limit and people in upper-class circles definitely care about the other person's pedigree and money situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:02 PM
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"Can I get a wawwll" - Standup comic Shane Gillis describing Fox News as black church for old white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:59 PM
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it's ihop wont stop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:55 PM
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I have not searched actual stats, but I've lived and worked in many UMC areas and the majority of people are fairly thin or average weight. When you get to the middle-aged demos maybe it's not as clear cut. I'm under the impression most people here are younger, but I could be wrong. I just came across a comment about how the women here sound like grumpy bitter and older but there was a retort saying surveys showed everyone was overall younger, so I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:51 PM
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I agree in large part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:49 PM
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Alright but you in Alabama so.... No offense brother ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:48 PM
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There's no waffle houses around here I'm on the west coast lol. IHOP tho, they're alright x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:46 PM
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You're in the minority, and probably smart. Most people get a hold of some and the first thing they do is upgrade their lifestyle to "keep up". SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:34 PM
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So it's working class women or people in this sub living in areas full of fat people telling IT geeks in nice areas with not too many fat people that if they want non-fat women they are being unrealistic or shooting out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:32 PM
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Waffle house caught a stray as they say. Collateral damage to make a point, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:30 PM
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Right. If people lived in well-off areas they wouldn't think that most, or even many people, are going to be overweight. Especially if they are under 30, like most of the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:29 PM
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People here saying that most of the members on PPD tend to be well off or at least not poor. I'm not judging anyone's situation or circumstances but from a pure logical standpoint this is doubtful...I see the words Walmart, Wafflehouse, baby daddy/momma used constantly here and many people seem to operate on the premise that everyone around you is going to be fat. None of this is the case in the lives of people who have their shit together, OR are in fortunate circumstances, regardless of whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:13 PM
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I think men are fairly good about keeping the RP lingo they may come across or acquire online out of their daily vernacular and interactions. Honestly it's not that hard despite people saying it's not 100% possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:10 PM
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Honestly most goodlooking guys, even if "potentially" they could spin multiple plates, are taken b/c most people are bluepill and think landing a long-term relationship should be the goal or milestone. In mainstream blue-pilled society the relationship is the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:07 PM
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I wonder if she's mentally ill *Looks around at sub Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:05 PM
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Wide eyes and short face are very feminine features.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:04 PM
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Several times higher, so you're suggesting 25% minimum? I'm not necessarily saying you are way off since I am not really educated on this topic, but do you have evidence or studies to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:35 PM
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Ironically it's the low-class incel basement dweller people who think those traits are so good. Maybe cheekbones to an extent but I don't see any of those other traits really getting traction even among "mainstream normie" or preppy women. I think maybe a square jaw is good on men but it's not fetishized or doesn't need to be gigachad for women to appreciate it. A lot of women actually seem actively repulsed by hunter eyes, and a long midface is just, I dunno, not looking like a child. The only …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:11 AM
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From what I've read the percentage of false accusations is similar to the percentage of false accusations for other crimes, which is in the range of 10%. There is a lot more social baggage, controversy, and gray area with this issue so framed as such 10% honestly seems like a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:36 AM
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Which is absolutely fair. Most men can get those with some consistent effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:36 AM
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I never understood how people get addicted to porn or masturbation. For many men, after you cum there's no primal urge anymore to seek satisfaction. You can keep going in order to satisfy a partner but that's different. I would just assume that's the default and norm. I guess some people have more addictive personalities or different brain chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:49 AM
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Honest question for smart science people. So is the urge to masturbate/ejaculate for men not a thing then? A man doesn't necessarily need another person there but sexual relief reduces stress, makes him relaxed again, more focused and at ease. There are times where if I don't bust a nut - driven by an actual tension-based feedback loop in the organs and/or psychological buildup - I can't think about anything else really. I'm also not addicted to sex, sexual thoughts, or porn. Once it's done it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:41 AM
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Probably too much incel shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:20 AM
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What did he do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:11 AM
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Thin line between extreme positive and negative emotions. Hate toward the opposite sex masks a strong need for attention, desire and fulfillment from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:06 AM
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There are many people who are shitty on the inside but it's not readily apparent, and they qualify as assholes. But what we normally think of when we think of the word asshole is someone who is aggressively arrogant, demanding, with inappropriate disrespecful behavior, and honestly these guys are rarely struggling with women b/c their baseline extroversion and proactive approach usually guarantees at least some women will give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:02 AM
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Extreme mental illness will also do it. Even among male incels there are goodlooking guys who can't pull any women b/c they seriously are that offputting and garbage socially. Alongside other resulting effects like self-sabotage, obsessive behavior and paranoia and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:25 PM
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Once I came to realize a lot of people online are straight up clinically diagnosable as insane and unable to function in society, it's bothered me a lot less and made me more at peace. Femcels even moreso than incels. Not because women are inherently worse, but since it's so much easier to get a guy as a woman than vice versa, you know if a woman gets to the dark place of her male incel counterpart her circumstances are especially dire and fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:58 PM
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Why do we keep getting disingenuous (or just absolutely clueless?) questions like this. It's clear as day the men you are referring to who don't like women dislike women b/c they want women to like them but they don't or perceive they don't and/or struggle with women. Waste of thread space, waste of time, come on. You think these men aren't justified in feeling this way fine but why act like you don't know why lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:33 PM
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What type of dessert though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:31 PM
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I would say most have issues, and most are relatively fine. Men too. More shitty men, more men in general, but I find the shitty women to be worse than the shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:21 AM
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Why wouldn't you give shitty men the same leeway in that they are just responding to how they've been treated in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:21 AM
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I have access to good coffee and I have a maker but a lot of times I'm lazy and on the run. I know coffee has antioxidants but does instant coffee have the same? Caffeine-wise they function the same for me but I'm wondering if the health benefits are also there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:31 AM
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It gets worse...I have bad news for you if you are still shaking people's hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:13 PM
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But since anal sex is so common you have to assume now that any and every dick is poop dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:11 PM
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Yeah but at least it's your own poop. Also you know what else is tainted by poop. Hope you don't handle any cash or wash your hands thoroughly immediately afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:07 PM
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Autists gonna autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:53 PM
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Plot twist, your preference is the normal one and the one we think is conventional is the autistic terminally online one. More women simp for what you like than what incels think they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:46 PM
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Actually that has happened to me a few times. Some new coworker or person shows up in our circle and I don't think much of them but then I'm swayed when other people talk about them being attractive. Then my brain starts to perceive them as attractive too over time. We are truly a hiveminded species to an extent no matter how independent we'd like to think we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:19 PM
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If he's so goodlooking how did you not notice even if you aren't analyzing his face like some incel PSL sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:16 PM
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It's funny, the reasons I would assume men and women cry are the reverse from what you/the study said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:57 PM
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Woman with a traumatic past with men, leaning into her sexual fluidity and trying to find herself. *Obligatory NOT ALL LESBIANS THO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:50 PM
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I shed tears maybe once or twice a year. Which is weird and maybe disturbing to me, I'm a guy but fairly emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:42 PM
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If it's not necessarily the alcoholism what are the reasons/factors that lead up to disease in these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:23 AM
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I feel like this can apply to how both men and women feel about approaching. A lot of men fear rejection and don't want to be ridiculed - groups of women are frightening honestly lol - or seen as creepy. They also don't want to be settled for and want to be truly desired as you said. I think the difference is men are socially (or biologically) pressured to be the initiators. Also I'm sure some if not many guys are actually over the moon if asked out. Before my mental shit fucked me I definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:18 AM
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It actually is very uncomfortable, while at the same time welcoming. Even when she's attractive, it's stressful and I see no point in it b/c I'm not looking for anything. It's almost uncomfortable enough that I can understand why women say they dislike attention and would rather do without it but I guess I'd still prefer not to be invisible or a bridge troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:45 AM
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Is this esp the case with slavic men? I find the alcoholic stereotype to be common (but not necessarily true) among various immigrant or nonwestern groups. Before the whole kpop wave Koreans suffered the same assumptions as Russians or Slavs....the women are feminine and put together but the men are wifebeating drunks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:39 AM
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If men don't want to pursue women it's a good chance it's b/c of the reasons I described and not b/c they're lazy or entitled or stupid. Although I guess there might be some entitlement involved if people believe they've been wronged or misled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:31 AM
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I guarantee you almost all men who refuse to put in effort once believed putting in effort was the right thing to do. Not putting in effort and acting like you don't care are two things many men, for better or worse, have learned to do later on after being taught the opposite b/c they believe or have experienced it to be more effective in dating. Again you don't have to agree with their thinking, but my point is it doesn't come from lack of logic, laziness, or entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:33 AM
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I mean you guys make it sound like it's completely illogical while ignoring the reason why these men don't want to pursue. Many believe men are made the fool for making an effort to pursue because if she isn't attracted to you it won't work anyway. They also believe that acting disinterested or conferring an abundance mentality will ironically attract more women. On the other hand, you also have disingenuous - or just weird or socially maladapted - women here who have expressed that a man who pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:22 AM
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I can name several examples in my circles of women repeatedly going back to shitty men but almost none of the reverse. Never thought about why though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:53 PM
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Blackpill took over a lot of it, a lot of RP these days is just blackpill in RP clothing. You have these dating or mentoring channels with episodes on mewing and shit lol. It's crazy how blackpill trash has seeped into other categories and aspects of online life. I've even seen mewing episodes on some generic self-help or style/makeup channels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:50 PM
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Just saying this to a stranger idc if you're bored at your point in life there are MANY better or more fitting places to waste your time. We're talking even objectively worthless or vapid places like TikTok or the TikTok sub. PPD is just going to jade you and fuck up your perceptions and biases bc/while your slate is fairly blank. You're going to look back and wonder wtf you were thinking and doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:36 PM
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LOL I never said anyone here was normal or well-adjusted, just not as bad as being insane and excessively mean-spirited. Talkin about well adjusted you're like 15, there isn't enough therapy in the world to fix the baggage on PPD and you're already on it 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:28 PM
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If she's a regular poster on twox that's not a good sign, even if as the world stands it's easier growing up as a woman in the postmodern west. A regular poster on twox is probably batshit insane. A regular PPD user is just a socially awkward weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:23 PM
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Women: 'brb gonna fuck 50 ugly men to bring my n count back to zero"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:21 PM
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PPD son. Most things assumed equal, you take a man who spends a lot of time on a shitty sub and a woman who does the same, the woman is going to be more messed up. There are simply more men in sheer number on shitty subs and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:14 PM
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With obvious exceptions, online spaces including Reddit and this sub attract a wide demographic of men and a narrower demographic of the weirdest women. It is a matter of degree though, the pool of men is bigger and more diverse but still leans toward the divergent and strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:02 PM
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Just can't get past the multi-pronged hypocrisy of being so socially and politically involved with how we raise girls, surgically and hyperfocusing on the messages we send them indirectly and directly, but with boys b/c it's convenient to the argument and feefees it's like "HoW DiD u NoT KnOw ThAt?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:35 PM
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Inb4 resident PPD women be like "If you got eyes and ears and half a brain you know you need looks and dark triad it's not on us or society to tell you" x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:45 PM
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Alright but some women would do this too. They are just less likely to admit it. The bad boy trope exists for a reason. Maybe some women tell themselves he's not necessarily unambiguously bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:13 AM
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The one that got away eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:07 AM
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Alright that's just weird man, I don't know what's going on over there then x)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:48 AM
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More than half Gen Z say their ideal relationship isnt monogamous. Do you have a source for this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:43 AM
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That might explain it. I live on the west coast, the obesity rate for people under 30 is like 10-15% so not that high compared to the national average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:38 AM
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I mean I still can't believe it. It might be the area though. Do you live somewhere with a really high level of obesity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:32 AM
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Haha you think I'm adding edits to trick people I'm debating with like AHA but I said this and you missed it? You need help. Absolutely not. I learned my lesson the last time another user sent me on that type of fetch quest just to declare that none of it mattered anyway and he was still right. Suit yourself, nice talk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:19 AM
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Okay can you give me some examples of guys here who say they just want 10s? Can't be that hard to find since you say it happens all the time. I'll settle for 3 in the past week, which is still nothing but hey. Also the guy you were responding to never said these guys don't exist or that you are projecting? Are you following this ok? He implied it's irrelevant bc the percentage of men who say this is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:11 AM
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I don't think anyone here is a shallow dim-witted whore even though I'm sure they exist. My primary complaints with the people here, and basically Reddit, is more that they are cognitively slow or stupid - ok fine dimwitted, disingenuous bc they just want to vent and be right, mentally ill, or lack life experience but feel like their opinion is worth something anyway. So not much better I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:08 AM
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I always find that hard to believe. I'm sure it's harder online, but if that's you in your profile I see funnier-looking men (you aint funny lookin) with non-obese cute women on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:06 AM
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a bunch of guys who think they are all shallow, dim witted whores. Hey, we never said dim witted. Heh. heheha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:58 AM
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Hah. Nah I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:56 AM
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"Many", "most", enough that it's basically the norm and conventional opinion of the men here. If that's not sufficient I'd say it's clear you're just reaching to win an internet argument. As far as I can tell the guy you were responding to was saying that since it's just one guy (and probably not much more than that) there's no relevance or real implication, which I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:50 AM
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If you were to be completely honest what is the general impression you get from men on this sub? B/c I read many guys every day here who say they just need someone they find cute and loyal. I can't imagine a guy saying they only want and require 10s without obviously being a troll or unanimously dismissed. Meanwhile, there is no shortage of women here who lean into if not gloat for the fact that women naturally gravitate toward only the top percentage of any population of men. "Blame nature" "It…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:31 AM
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The ones I see at a glance intermittently look very trashy. I think they were Fresh and Fit podcasts or something. I do not watch a lot of videos, most RP stuff I've heard is from reading. Also these women are paid by RP grifters anyway to appear on their show or on camera, which for better or worse is not reflective of what the run-of-the-mill men who follow RP are pulling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:41 AM
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Preselection. The most legit concept ever pushed/discussed thoroughly by RPers. Although they didn't discover it ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah RP men wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:37 AM
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I have this weird potential attachment to men who remind me of my dad despite being sexually straight. There's something about stoic masculine-coded guys that draws me in and makes me want to interact with them, see how they tick etc. It might be b/c my own dad (I love him, he's amazing in his own ways, he has just never been very interactive, expressive, or open) is someone I subconsciously want to connect with on a more emotional level. It also might be b/c I see similarities between these guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:40 PM
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I have this weird potential attachment to men who remind me of my dad despite being sexually straight. There's something about stoic masculine-coded guys that draws me in and makes me want to interact with them, see how they tick etc. It might be b/c my own dad (I love him, he's amazing in his own ways, he has just never been very interactive, expressive, or open) is someone I subconsciously want to connect with on a more emotional level. It also might be b/c I see similarities between these guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:39 PM
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Perhaps explain why you are generalizing all men. Just say you're a JNRoberts alt and that you're not okay and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:53 PM
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Going by what you said you're saying telling men to improve their looks or charisma isn't going to help. Which makes no sense. Blame is moot. If we're going to point fingers that's another conversation and it goes well beyond women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:45 PM
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Who's blaming anyone? I'm literally just continuing your train of thought. You said Well, “be more attractive and fun to be around” isn’t going to change anything, is it? Are you ok? Also I'm not RP. Just a fan of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:37 PM
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Lol. How would it not change anything? It would motivate the guy to improve his looks and charisma (or at least try to) instead of staying complacent or clueless as to why he's struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:32 PM
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I would say it's not necessarily a red flag if women dislike other women with the traits of "pick mes". I would say it's a red flag if people use terms IRL on a regular basis like the actual word "pick me", or "Chad" or "Stacy" or "redpill" or "looksmax" or "glow up" because it shows high likelihood they are socially stunted and spend a lot of time online in these gender pilled spaces. There's also a big difference between knowing these terms from online experience and actually using them IRL. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:23 PM
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....That's why I didn't ask to see her account. I felt the convo might potentially get uncomfortable from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:15 PM
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The amount of women who couldn't get a man (no Chad guarantee obvs) no matter how hard they tried is extremely low. Which means a good percentage of single women are voluntarily so. No matter how you look at it the numbers are small. I don't know what this bullshit is about how half of all women are going to be single by 2030 or whatever. I don't even believe the current estimate of 42%. Maybe I just live in an area where everyone is coupled up, lol. Single women seem rare af regardless of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:50 PM
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If you're using a camera phone it's in no way just the inversion, otherwise you would look fine just by flipping the photo via mirror image. It's the lens distortion, makes your face and nose look long and thin. You notice it more with your face b/c you're used to unconsciously appraising every detail and proportion on a human face in seconds, and you care less with inanimate objects. A lot of phones also use artificial lighting that somehow makes your skin look like complete shit and some peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:22 PM
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She's 24, but I don't know what age range she is shooting for. I just assume as per the norm anyone her age up to like 5-10 years older with maybe an ideal being a few years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:58 PM
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This again. I think many men don't have as much of a problem accepting things aren't fair in life, but more that they are just sick of being gaslit by society by being told their dating struggles are by default the result of something they aren't doing right. "Be kind, be more considerate, get a better job, change up your haircut". Meanwhile for women it's "men just don't know your worth, their loss, every woman is a 10"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:55 PM
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The fantasies movies sell reflect the fantasies sold IRL. Other examples include the typical components of the American dream, or in a more modern sense, films depicting women who "have it all", including a flourishing career and a successful home life. All very standard commonly upheld BP fare. Again I can guarantee you most BP men would not be content if they consciously believed the best they could get was a woman below their looksmatch as the norm; since they DON'T think that, they don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:45 PM
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https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2020/7/8/1-in-3-young-men-report-not-having-sex-in-the-last-yearbut-not-because-of-porn/ Men who watch more porn also have more sex. I always knew we were winners. Suffering from success like DJ Khaled what now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:42 PM
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I guess I could have, but I didn't want to pry or want the conversation to go somewhere unnecessary. Like eventually I might have to gently suggest maybe she needs to lower her standards and even among close-ish friends that's never pleasant. I'm not saying that's what's going on, just saying why take the risk when we can just talk about something else lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:32 PM
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Yeah no. BP definitely guarantees you "success" in dating with a woman you're attracted to and like as long as you are responsible, have a "good" personality, all your other shit together relatively and so on. There's absolutely no way it's conventional wisdom that average men can expect below average women as a general rule otherwise there would be way more discourse about it in the mainstream. The men who complain about this wouldn't automatically be labeled outliers or incels. If anything, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:29 PM
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I almost blurted out "Are you just swiping on Chads" but I'm not trying to tell her I'm terminally online without telling her I'm terminally online. Time to touch more grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:20 PM
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Sure, but then why can't she find an attractive guy? LOL That's why I'm asking if there are just very few attractive guys on there, or is she just overshooting and only considering the top 5% or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:06 PM
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Makes sense I guess. Maybe many/most of the people you see on OLD have been on there for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:05 PM
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"You look different from your photos...." - girl expecting a giant fish to show up for dinner and not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:04 PM
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.....Who said anything about lying? She could very well just not find any of the guys attractive or interesting enough b/c she subconsciously or consciously wants only the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:53 PM
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Makes sense. I mean it's like I'm in that one parable in bed facing the wall when the person by the window describes to me what's outside, but going by what I've heard I would've thought OLD is full of decent looking men who can't get a single match b/c women only go for the top - then realize they can't get commitment from the top and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:48 PM
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I think I'm the opposite....fairly introverted but drawn to extroverted people, male or female b/c they fill the gaps I need to get me to go out and have a life. I had a roommate once who was just like me once and I couldn't fucking stand him lol. Every day it was "hey man how are you" and then "fine" and then nothing for the rest of the day on both of our ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:45 PM
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Never thought of it that way, but it's possible in her case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:39 PM
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Is it true every guy has a picture of himself and a big fish he caught
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:37 PM
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That's what I've heard as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:34 PM
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But don't most people do OLD? I feel like whenever I ask strangers or acquaintances how they met their SO they'll often say they met online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:33 PM
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This is going to attract a lot of people just looking to confirm their biases but if it's their honest perspective so be it. I don't ever use OLD so I am not familiar with the market or profiles but I have a friend who is attractive, kind, down-to-earth, but also very introverted and doesn't like going out in public much. The other night she was saying how she's given up on online dating because there are so few men who appeal to her when she's on Tinder or Hinge, even saying there are a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:30 PM
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Not a hard question, it's the first one easy, whether for something casual or a relationship. Women would all have sex with Chad given the chance anyway and given she isn't a prude, so it doesn't mean she's [that] immoral or promiscuous esp compared to the 2nd option. Also this is assuming ofc she thinks you're a Chad since she's willing to have sex with you. Why would anyone pick the 2nd option? She may not be as likely to ditch you for Chad (or another Chad) but she won't be loyal anyway given…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:27 AM
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Right. But it takes a shit-ton to get there, and also a shit-ton to maintain it. If they ever felt like they needed to lose the pounds it would just be natural and super easy just to put the fork down...like maybe 5 big meals a day instead of 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:23 AM
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Like how is a guy who's 6'8" 100 lbs overweight. Is he just literally eating nonstop? Honestly seems like it'd actually be extremely easy NOT to do that b/c it is annoying and burdensome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:09 AM
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That's how much they were eating when they were active teenagers...considering they are less active and older, it still doesn't make sense that it can be that much of a contrast now we're talking like a 100 lb difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:01 AM
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How do super tall people get fat? I know a few guys from school who are now overweight and are like 6'7 - 6'10". I'm sure in h/s or college they had to eat ungodly amounts of food just to maintain their stick figures - so it's not like obesity ran in their genes. Even considering they are less active now with a slower metabolism it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:56 PM
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Somewhat fair lol. But the underlying assumption is these traits are static.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:27 PM
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You know what I agree. I just couldn't find a better single word at the time. Just something about how you come across, something broad and overarching that goes well beyond the specific things you do and say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:13 PM
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For what it's worth, "Just treat them like humans" definitely helped me in many ways in terms of interacting with girls/women when I was still like 17-18. When you're growing up interactions with the opp sex are obviously often awkward and you're nervous, worrying about doing and saying the right things. But what I did was try to think of it as just talking with women as if you were just talking to a close friend - like you were completely comfortable with whatever you said and whatever you did.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:07 PM
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He's unattractive, unemployed, and a creep. Not having a baby or baby mama isn't a quality, it's just not having a red flag the first guy has. You need to give him immaculate dick game and genius IQ or something and even then that wouldn't help since he has so much going against him already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:00 PM
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Aside from the height and hair difference (which means the taller guy with hair wins by default) all the traits for both men are negative so it's kind of a no-brainer. For example where are the redeeming qualities for the 2nd guy to make the question challenging?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:44 PM
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Your comments are the definition of disingenuous. Or simply severely lacking awareness. You think these terminally online RP adherents complaining nonstop on these subs are succeeding with some women but are upset it's not all women? LOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:39 PM
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"Stop being a baby" has definitely been directed toward men, if anything I've heard it said more toward men probably b/c of expectations for men to be all grown up and have their shit together at all times. Regardless from what I've seen it's a pretty non-gender specific jab/insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:17 PM
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It's conventional concepts that hurt both men and women - infantilizing women or "women are basically children" and then also expecting men to have all their shit together, man up, all that bs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:16 PM
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Alright, but in this case the wall is then like 50 or late 40s, not 30 like a lot of men are saying. Also I'm not sure reduced sex drive alone means it's easier to be happier alone or in a sexless relationship/marriage. Especially with women it's more complex and for everyone there is the inherent want to be desired, cherished, and valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:02 PM
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They know you won't be responsive to an ad initially. You probably won't even watch the entire ad most of the time. But over many many times, the product name becomes engrained and just part of your awareness, you are much more likely then to just buy or choose that product when you need what they are advertising, especially if it's not something you are especially nitpicky about but are also new to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:53 AM
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Do you do that just to make it a meme lol. Why do you put 19-21 BMI in parentheses constantly after healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:50 AM
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I'm often confused between whether women just get more desperate and hate being single as they get older vs women do much better single than men. Honestly, the only single women I know - not many - are temporarily between relationships or going through kind of a casual phase, so I can't say. The amount of voluntarily long-term single women from what I can see are extremely rare. Are these studies done on [much] older women? I'm not going to say either way but I would posit since there are less s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:39 AM
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Obviously men don't want to be used and abused like an ATM, but me thinks the men who advertise hard on their provider abilities and status aren't the same ones complaining when a woman selects him for it, assuming she has similar goals in a mutually loyal long-term relationship. Just like how women who take pride in their appearance and advertise their looks to men don't want to be valued just for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:29 AM
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Maybe I misunderstood OP. But if you think overall the statement has merit, why do you think it's ableist and sexist if it's just acknowledging reality and biology from a general standpoint?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:25 AM
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Depending on the day or moment you either think you're better than everyone else or a worthless POS, there's no in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:32 PM
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Questions like these are a testament to how commonplace online dating is - or how many people don't actually get out much. I can't imagine this happening organically IRL bar extreme cases. She's already decided he's attractive enough, likeable enough, interesting enough, interacted with him to the point where she's willing to fuck him. Then the pants come off and she's like "eww not as big as I would like" and throws it all away. Again, maybe in extreme cases, but what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:32 AM
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Yup. Before they were banned they were basically the flagship sub for pinkpill lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:27 AM
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Female version of redpill, basically how to vet for and land a high value man for commitment. The adherents are like their male counterparts, but I'd argue they are worse because their numbers are smaller and there are percentagewise more shitty ones, thinking they deserve 10s when they are bitter and offer nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:54 PM
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Out of habit and assumption do you ever read other people's posts in a certain default voice in your head? Like reflexively the voice is giving Blake from IT across the hall then later on you find out they're a recent Indian immigrant living in New Zealand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:39 AM
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There are literally women on twoxchromosomes and in other hive-minded communities admitting they shit-test men - and justifying it. Not every woman, but enough women to explain why enough men believe women test them as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:39 AM
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It's just another example of how trash women copy trash men, like femcels coming up with the pinkpill from blackpill/redpill and incel male communities. They even incorporate corresponding or analogous cringe lingo like "moids" vs "foids", "scrotes" vs "roasties" "sis" vs "bro" and such. Like come up with your own shit at least man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:21 AM
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She's going to need to start moving into the NBA soon I don't think any other high-status demographic has enough 6'6"+ men x)x)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:49 AM
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A lot of people will just say whatever whenever here just to be adversarial b/c they already have a bone to pick with the opposite sex. Like "Women don't just want Chad" "Get this RP/BP shit out of here dumbass" and then later "It's just biology we simply only want the top 10% sorry, don't blame us, not wanting to fuck you doesn't mean hating you" "Hehe most men are fucking ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:42 AM
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Also supposedly the drink a shit-ton of water for a few days and then suddenly drink none for a few days or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:37 AM
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See that's what I mean. I keep hearing Reddit is a site primarily used by young(ish) white american men but I just don't see it. Maybe with things like the pilled subs the demographic skews differently, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:32 AM
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For what it's worth, your weight without any water is like 80 pounds, which means you cleared your weight loss goals by a landslide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:24 AM
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You don't need to tell me the name of the country but I've always repeatedly heard Northern Europe is sparsely populated (eg Scandinavia) with great free education, resources and enlightened smart tolerant people. That's the narrative anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:16 AM
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You know I constantly assume everyone is a white American here on this sub and I find almost all of the time they aren't. I don't know what that says. Supposedly Reddit is mostly young white males, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:09 AM
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You live in a low quality area then if those are the women in your social circles. Weren't you born with a silver spoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:02 AM
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It can also work the other way. If suddenly every guy was 6'5" on average the 6'2" guys wouldn't be struggling as much as everyone on this sub would like to say. Women appreciate height and for most that is more than sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:30 PM
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These guys manufacture the wildest narratives Can you explain what the OP said that was so "wild"? Plenty of people - almost a majority even in certain demographics - use dating apps to some degree, and while it's not as common as it was even a decade ago, many people still approach in public especially in the bar and club scenes. Granted, for as long as time we gauge how safe it will be before letting strangers further in, not simply that only the persistent ones are getting in and they are all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:18 PM
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Height > Face > Muscles assuming no extremes, like an extremely goodlooking/ugly face, or extremely good/shit body
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:00 PM
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It's also why when all these young celebs or socialites get procedures done like buccal fat removal or whatever to look like a "model" they suddenly look like they are in their 40s. Google Kylie Jenner's resemblance to Cillian lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:33 PM
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The face gets more masculine as you age, male or female due to fat and collagen loss and bone remodeling. If there's sagging it makes the face look more bottom heavy. Excluding weight as a variable, everything gets sharper, more defined, and the face deflates like a balloon. That's why they say men "age better". Looking more masculine is already a default way for many men to "look better". To be fair, plenty of men moreso than women just stop giving a shit and let themselves go early on. Sure th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:19 PM
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Right, so why would you say a 9 is out of your league xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:03 PM
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Stress has been giving me low blood sugar so at least you don't have that going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:59 AM
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That's where you're wrong we are not a monolith and very complex and multifaceted like onions with many layers You should do a story about it I don't think the ninja turtles have much going on with them these days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:45 AM
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Is it really tho if presumably their comments are still up and I can't just be arsed to search for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:44 AM
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Also as an add-on re: the hive mind thing it might be just b/c there are more outspoken male users here but you'll find far more men disagreeing with other men and engaging them in debate than women disagreeing with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:29 AM
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Weird place for someone to hang out who doesn't have at least some opinionated positions on dating or gender dynamics. Even if it's just wasting time there are other places that are less shitty and dramatic, but maybe that's the draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:27 AM
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Honestly I'm not sure who you're referring to. There seems to be a slew of new accounts/people on this sub, usually younger and immature and into kpop or tiktok and glowup and all that and they all have kind of a similar vibe so I get a lot of them mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:24 AM
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Real talk though....if we're talking pure looks many women who are 9s will be down to date men who are 7s if the man has other things going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:14 AM
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based avril lavigne
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:12 AM
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Like for example if someone brings up the issue of say older men preying on younger women, there's the understanding that women are concerned b/c they care about the well-being of these women as well as not wanting to be victims. When a man complains about a women hurting men in some way it's like "Why does what other women do other men matter to you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:05 AM
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...Often enough? They are clearly there just b/c men may complain more. I'm just saying, if you're going to say "Why do you care so much?" to people with complaints - without actually explaining further or addressing the issue - you better not have any complaints yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:48 AM
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I do not mind shitting on men b/c there be some very very stupid annoying people no matter the sex but I always notice women bringing up problems and grievances about men and when men do the same the response is like "Why do you care?" "Just live your life" "Real men just do their thing" LOOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:36 AM
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I’m a 7/10 in looks with 9 lifestyle, so I can get 8s, casual sex with 5s. Really hot 9s with no baggage are usually out of my league. That's where niche game comes in. You find a 9 who thinks you're also a 9 or an 8 at least b/c she's into your type. Maybe even moreso if she has low self esteem but you did say no baggage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:31 AM
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Y-You think that these men on PPD are trying to apply RP concepts to neg these women on PPD in hopes these PPD women are going to let them hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:30 AM
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I mean straight up you got Taylor Hill at the top, just whatever cute but looks like skeletor at 1 in 50,000 (lmaooo) and then you got Nina Dobrev a lot lower, at 1 in 15??? In her prime? I said lmaooo again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:00 AM
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Like bruh going by their guide and captions you tellin me Taylor Hill, who looks like a basic white girl in dire need of a sandwich, is 1 in 50,000? Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:32 AM
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They did a study that basically concluded a goodlooking face doesn't constitute better health or stronger genes. Google professional athletes with the most gifted one in a million genes for talent and athleticism and you'll see the point. There's Tom Brady, Cristiano Ronaldo, and who else really? Crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:30 AM
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I mean for what it's worth it doesn't seem like these rules are very stringently enforced? They say 'no incel or blackpill' shit but I joke about blackpill and incel shit constantly and it's not always obvious and there are ofc people here who unironically promote it here and they haven't been banned or warned or their posts deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:22 AM
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It's also off when the standards for what makes someone a higher score is off to begin with. Their 8s and 9s all have strong bony faces which basically aren't what a lot of straight men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:19 AM
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Truerate is a sub for autists who fixate on certain features and can't rate for shit. The female ratings guide is especially bad. Literally some of the 5s and 6s easily beat out their 8s and 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:55 AM
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Heh. A 6 will usually get you a warning for overrating unless the person is a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:48 AM
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"Woman are dying of thirst in a pond/lake/river" doesn't have the same impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:47 AM
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I think the point of confusion was that you were mentioning the upper threshold whereas I was saying there is also a bottom looks threshold commonly referred to and mentioned whereas a guy just needs to be cute enough. But not necessarily cute enough that he can get away with stuff. I don't think those two bars are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:05 AM
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Not sure if I wasn't clear. There's attractive enough to date. Many if not most men with some effort can achieve this. Then there's attractive enough that he could be an asshole with red flags out the ass and many women would still give him 2nd, 3rd chances. This is a higher threshold than the first. Requires maybe more effort and also lucky genetics. I'm not even talking about the difference between ONS or LTR. Hence the immortalized retort: "You're not hot enough to be this (insert negative pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:53 PM
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There's two of them. One is being enough to be dateable. That bar is lower. Then there's the being goodlooking enough that if you're a dick it's fine. The takeaway is the first bar isn't actually that high but not if you want to be an asshole with free reign.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:19 PM
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I agree he's very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:53 PM
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The numbers and his fanbase speak for themselves. He didn't get big very fast with mostly young women flocking to his shows b/c he's super witty and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:30 PM
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The only people shaming Matt Rife's looks are very weird women (and maybe some jealous men, but I haven't noticed) who again like to be contrarian. He got big b/c of his young female fan base. He's trying to switch over to appealing to men for a reason, and he's going to fail, b/c men have zero reason to actually watch him, he's not a particularly good comedian. He's not Shane Gillis or Bill Burr and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:22 PM
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The overall popular opinion is that he's goodlooking no matter how shitty of a comedian or problematic he is. It's like the contrarian "popular" reddit opinion that Henry Cavill "isn't that handsome" when he's been posted multiple times a day on ladyboners for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:06 PM
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LOL difference between close guy friends and close woman friends. There are dudes I've been meaning to catch up with for years who live 20 minutes away. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:06 PM
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Not necessarily weird or controversial, just often overlooked. You don't really hear their names as synonymous with that "hot it" girl. Unlike the very very severely overrated Mila Kunis, Ana de Armas, Jodie Comer, Sydney Sweeney, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:39 AM
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To me calling Rowling a TERF because she's famous is like calling any conservative mouthpiece with a right-wing view on immigration a poster boy Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:33 AM
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From what I've seen her tweets seem very mild and occasional compared to a lot of other anti-trans noise you see everywhere, even if these other sources might not be as famous as Rowling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:08 AM
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fuck yeah. Tall glass of wholesome next door water. I mean she looks wholesome. If she turns out to be dirty, even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:01 AM
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I naturally look like one of those emo dudes already but I'm more talking about just the music. Don't care about the fashion and I've never worn makeup. Very angsty whiny therapy for man-children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:55 PM
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Shailene Woodley or Karen Gillan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:53 PM
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That doesn't seem to be a weird choice she's very cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:53 PM
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Margot is objectively attractive but for some reason does nothing for me. Taylor is also objectively attractive has something there I really like - maybe something soft and sultry - despite being very indifferent to her music or hype. Maybe some of us men like the bad girls or the toxic drama queens on a primal level more than we'd like to admit. Also I love tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:34 PM
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Overreaction on the part of the liberal progressive SJW crowd is par for the course and/but so Jk Rowling tweets relatively conservative stances on gender once in a while and is somehow propped up as the TERF poster queen? Have these people actually encountered real TERFs online? Or any other anti-trans social media posts? Do they care as long as it furthers their narrative b/c she's high profile and popular? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:21 PM
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It was when I wanted women the most lol. For some reason after high school after I glowed up and became more social and got more attention I became more detached and began the slow descent into being a jaded asshole. But that goes for most of life too. When I realize how to succeed at something it's time for the next chapter already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:04 PM
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Explains the signs on the gym walls that specify rules for sporting events that are more for the parents. Like 'It's just a fucking game, it's all in fun don't be an asshole" "Sorry, your kid just ain't that good." and "There will be no professional recruiters or scouts here so eat a dick and relax. Thank you parental figures P.S. go fuck yourselves."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:56 PM
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The saddest most infuriating thing in life is most guys absolutely suck or are new with women when they want women the most, and by the time many of them figure everything out they're already jaded and numb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:54 PM
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So again it's possible for someone to be voluntarily single long term and happy. My original comment was just to explain why a lot of people might find it hard to believe. Despite all the positives and progress one might have achieved in their newfound single life, there's the very real possibility that the reasons and history for choosing perpetual singlehood continue to haunt and eat at them. It seems like what you're describing in the 2nd paragraph isn't someone who has sworn off men/women an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:55 PM
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Definitely some people "thrive" more in singlehood than others. I think my point was mainly that nobody by default chooses to be single indefinitely at the start, except for neurodivergent outliers it's a conscious decision that usually comes from heartbreak, trauma, frustration or failed attempts, with the latter applying regardless of whose fault it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:45 PM
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I think she's very pretty but her face is a bit too skinny. Edit: Ok and I guess for some reason it's kinda weird how her teeth stick out in some pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:43 PM
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Absolutely. But just b/c she'd be more miserable or unhappy with a guy she can't stand doesn't mean she's necessarily not miserable or unhappy now. For someone's inner logic to go "Men/women are trash, I'd rather be single", there's an implied constant sense of discontent and resentment from day to day there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:33 PM
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Unhappily taken < Unhappily single < Happily single < Happily taken
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:52 PM
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I would literally rather listen to nothing but mid 2000s emo music for the rest of my life than fuck a tradcon. Since mid 2000s emo music absolutely slaps, this says nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:45 PM
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There are obviously people who choose to be single long-term and are happy. But the reason why it's hard to believe is b/c for many, validation, attention, affection, and intimacy from the opposite sex is an inherent want and need even if it's not on the level of food, water and shelter. With this train of thought, the logic continues that a person who has decided to be single, won't have this need met but also that there were past circumstances or trauma that led to this decision to begin with.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:39 PM
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Are you over 30? Voluntarily single women under 30 are incredibly rare unless they are going through a casual phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:42 AM
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i feel like half of this subreddit is chronically online and it's concerning A severe underestimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:35 AM
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If he’s still a douchbag he may get laid but he won’t get a LTR. If he does it won’t last. The sheer amount of women repeatedly going back to their abusive partners beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:33 AM
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She also stated in one of her comments she was told she was "the prettiest girl in high school" and that she's self-proclaimed attractive. Given this there is some severe delusion or lying going on if she's getting ZERO attention from dudes IRL unless she just got really fat and let herself go after h/s and even then you know that doesn't stop men with this epidemic of thirst we got.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:25 AM
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She also stated in one of her comments she was told she was "the prettiest girl in high school" and that she's self-proclaimed attractive. Given this there is some severe delusion or lying going on if she's getting ZERO attention from dudes IRL unless she just got really fat and let herself go after h/s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:23 AM
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Right. But you still wouldn't say "I literally get zero attention from men". I constantly overestimate the integrity and communication skills of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:17 PM
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Female entitlement aside....that wasn't the point? How you say you get zero attention from men to sound modest and defensive and then say you got several hundred likes on OLD? JFL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:13 PM
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Quote from some random female redditor ranting about her dating woes: " I do not have an inflated ego I literally get zero attention from men. You all assume things that are just wrong. Yes, I got an app and got several hundred likes, but none of those guys I found remotely attractive. At all. " LOLLL what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:02 PM
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damn I mean yeah alright then, would you cum on my gf too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:44 PM
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Legit the magnums are the only ones that go on without a hitch...other brands it's much harder like putting on that annoying mattress cover and hitting all the corners. Not really a flex though from a straight man as you say...most women don't care about size as long as it's big enough. You need that immaculate dick game to seal the deal no matter your length or girth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:40 PM
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He looks like pdiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:36 PM
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And the profile character is distinctive enough that I remember who the user is even when the name is blocked out smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:33 PM
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.....Because there are actual things in which men and women should be treated and held to the same standard, like equal punishment for equal crimes. This is completely different from something like desired qualities in a mate, how is that hard to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:17 PM
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That's b/c PPD is a magic place that turns men into Chads. Just trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:03 PM
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