FlakeyThrowaway746 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Huge problem with flaking		FlakeyThrowaway746	/r/seduction	30/03/18 09:22 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Tinder Game / Texting game in general What do you say to qualify them?	/r/seduction	02/04/18 10:23 PM
-5	Girlfriend asked can she flirt with a guy, I said no. Is this a red flag? I wouldn’t say huge, but it’s a red flag. Depends if flirting is compliments or if it’s sexual. Some people think laughing at jokes or complimenting clothing is flirting, and some people would only consider it flirting if it’s sexual. I feel like a lot of people in relationships will flirt harmlessly (think about every restaurant you go to, and a lot of waitresses will “flirt” even if they aren’t single, this gets more tips) If you’re dating someone who works at a restaurant or nightlife establi…	/r/seduction	02/04/18 10:16 PM
2	Huge problem with flaking Thank you. I’ll not reply anymore. Sometime she comments on my snapchat and I’ll reply. But I’ll stop 100%	/r/seduction	31/03/18 05:41 AM
1	Huge problem with flaking So you feel like he added her and just texted hey nice meeting you come over? I heard they chatted for a few days and then she was like I’m bored and he said come over. But you’re right the initial interaction could have had some spark	/r/seduction	31/03/18 12:12 AM
1	Huge problem with flaking True, I’ll still try to avoid the texting game, but sometimes the validation, even from a 6, will boost my confidence. There are some online girls I know I’ll never meet because they are 6 or below and I’ll just text them, and sometimes they even ask me out but I’m not down. That validation feels good though lol	/r/seduction	31/03/18 12:06 AM
2	Huge problem with flaking I’m going to do a separate reply cuz this is another viewpoint challenged. I have this friend. He can get a girls number and get her to come over to his place ready to fuck within like 3-4 days of texting. My younger cousin had a girlfriend for the first time in his life, and this Chad met her for 10 seconds at a club, added her on Facebook, and texted her into bed 4 days later, never meeting up just texting Edit:details	/r/seduction	31/03/18 12:05 AM
1	Huge problem with flaking She’s thick like Ariel winter, and I like them slim like Ariana grande. So I’d give her a 6. Edit: details	/r/seduction	30/03/18 11:55 PM
2	Huge problem with flaking Thank you! I love this	/r/seduction	30/03/18 11:45 PM
1	Huge problem with flaking I’m doing my best to take this all to heart. I appreciate all the time you’re taking to respond to my questions. I will try my best to improve. That being said, you’re really challenging my beliefs here, and I can feel myself resisting Regarding the “sending novels on tinder”: I have a very close female friend (she’s much older, about 35). She told me she met this guy at a bar downtown, and they met for about 5 minutes, but had chemistry. He told her that his phone is dead but she should take hi…	/r/seduction	30/03/18 11:44 PM
1	Huge problem with flaking Okay another question though. If I say that, and they say “oh I’m busy at that time” or “can we reschedule” or if on the day something comes up, what do I do? Ignore them? Ask for a new day?	/r/seduction	30/03/18 11:36 PM
1	Huge problem with flaking Put down the fucking phone Hurts, but accurate. I will try this as best I can, this is great advice. Honestly I’m a firm believer in texting/flirting because that’s how most of my girlfriends and hookups happen. But I’ve also turned beta a lot chasing flaky girls. Thank you	/r/seduction	30/03/18 11:34 PM
1	Huge problem with flaking I’ll also add that on text I reply up to 3 times per day. It’s not a constant conversation. Just enough to keep interest (except in the case of the friend)	/r/seduction	30/03/18 11:03 PM
1	Huge problem with flaking Can you explain? I tend to receive compliments from them as well, and they’ll always tell me I’m sexy/cute/funny etc. And I keep conversations funny and flirty while trying to meet up as soon as possible Also, the girls I meet online I tend to keep in contact until I meet them in person, because if I don’t they could easily find another guy from the app right	/r/seduction	30/03/18 10:44 PM
1	Huge problem with flaking For the one that’s out of town, if we stop talking for 2 weeks until we are in the same city doesn’t that kill rapport? Also the girls I meet online as well, I feel like we need to talk and establish some kind of rapport before they would be ok meeting up (figured this would reduce flaking) I’ve been in a few 2+ year relationships and I’ll have met them online or downtown and texted/called them for a week or more before meeting them (although I usually date shy type girls and not outgoing social…	/r/seduction	30/03/18 10:42 PM