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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 124 | Stop letting people treat you like shit | Hot_Caterpillar_2586 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/23 08:25 PM |
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| 3 | Stop letting people treat you like shitI will not tolerate this thing, I would rather be dead than accept this. Exactly, you said it better than I could. I would rather be dead than be treated the way I used to allow and even encourage people to treat me. If that makes me seem unattractive to some particular woman than good riddance, that is not my primary concern in life. I think a lot of guys can never get to this realization, because their self-image is based on external validation from women, which makes setting boundaries like t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Stop letting people treat you like shiteffective social techniques like A&A and amused mastery It's not an either/or. I find it fun to jokingly reply like they are a toddler, something like "thank you for sharing your feelings, but I want to hear you say that again using your kind words." What is this? Most of the men on here are motivated by fear and anxiety over not being attractive enough to their spouse. That's not a bad thing if it motivates acceptance of the truth, and change, but if the anxiety and fear are too much or feel in… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/23 09:59 PM |
| 12 | Stop letting people treat you like shitYou're absolutely right that you have to be attractive to keep an attractive partner interested, and leaving won't solve that problem. However, even being attractive won't be enough if you are still willing to be treated like shit. It's critical, and foundational to have a firm boundary that you won't be treated like shit- even if it means being alone, or being with a less attractive partner. The reason this needs to come first, is because otherwise it may never come. Your response, with concern… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Stop letting people treat you like shitYou looked at this guys kindergarden sticker chart concept of sexual satisfaction, and concluded that I'm criticizing his morality? It's great to have a boundary of sexual satisfaction, but judge it with your actual satisfaction. Sure, tell her what you like, but also let her use her intelligence and creativity. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/23 05:05 PM |
| -2 | Stop letting people treat you like shit“Listen son… I want to explain to you the importance of boundaries. You know why I had to leave your mom, love of my life, and mother of my children? She didn’t swallow. I mean, she did, but only 3 out of 4 times. What kind of father would I be if I tolerated that kind of disrespect? I did this for you, to set an example of what kind of man I want you to be.” Quit pretending to be a middle aged man with marriage problems and go talk to some girls at recess before you end up like these guys for r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Stop letting people treat you like shitYour response assumes you need to just accept being treated like shit until you have some magical “SMV” which is BS. Only you decide who you interact with and how you let people treat you, it does not matter why some people treat you like shit, only what you do about it. I explained how to enforce the boundary- you are only willing to discuss her concern if she can raise it in a respectful way, and you tell her this explicitly, and then end the discussion. If she repeatedly can’t do that you don… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/23 03:28 PM |
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