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DebateIcy_Ad_4544/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:28 PM
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Question For MenIcy_Ad_4544/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:40 PM
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Were you dating in 2009? I was. Dating apps were for losers. People dated people they met on school, work, and through friends. If you were using online dating it’s because you had no friends or were weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 03:48 PM
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Well then he sucks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 02:52 AM
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In 2009 the people who were resorting to online dating sites were ugly. It was not a common way to date like it is today. The only people using online dating back then were the undesirable people who couldn’t find anyone interested in them IRL. Like meeting a bf/gf online was super embarrassing! People literally made fun of relationships that started from online dating sites. We thought those people were pathetic/weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 01:40 AM
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This is so interesting that spaghetti is considered fancy where you live! Here it’s a cheap meal not fancy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/26 01:24 AM
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90% of the time it has been very good/great. We did have a period where things were not well which had to do more with growing disconnected due to stress + and minimal time together because we worked opposite shifts. We were able to work through that and it’s been back to great again. On average we fuck 3-4 times a week. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 06:24 PM
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Oh I’ve definitely been much bigger before like 60lbs + surprisingly not during pregnancy but nursing school stress and night shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 05:16 PM
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What does this have to do with n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 04:50 PM
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It’s not the only way but it makes it exponentially easier. I understood though why it would not help for your specific reasoning for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 04:49 PM
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I genuinely think that healthcare is no longer about healing in this country. It’s all about the Almighty dollar. It is heartbreaking so many of us just want to actually help people and make a difference, but our hands are tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 04:29 PM
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For me, the issue is that our healthcare system is so broken and the communication between providers is basically non-existent. I can’t tell you how many times I have come across a doctor prescribing a medication that was discontinued by someone else or duplicate medications being prescribed. I wish we had a universal charting system that any healthcare system could access.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 04:09 PM
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lol I was practically bald it was so short!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 04:06 PM
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Same!! We are both really looking forward for the empty nesters stage in a few more years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:18 PM
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For some reason I just can’t get into smut. I’ve tried a few times and then just get annoyed 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:17 PM
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I feel the same way that she does. It would be neat if someone would do a Q4W thread on this topic to see what other women in LTR have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:03 PM
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I swear it is real! My husband gained over 100 lbs years ago due to some med side effects and chronic illness. Somehow it didn’t register to me. Like I look back at pictures from then and am shocked. Actually funny example - I saw that Superman movie over the summer and kept thinking that the guy who played him looked like my husband. Like spitting image. Lol needless to say my husband does not look like him but my brain had convinced me he did. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:57 PM
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I just can’t get mad about it. It would be hypocritical of me considering I occasionally watch it also. I just don’t feel like I am in competition with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:52 PM
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Go tell them that!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:49 PM
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I would think so but those people bitching said it was short 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:45 PM
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That is so sweet!!! ❤️ I feel the same way about my husband. We had so many obstacles that tried to keep us away from each other before dating and we just couldn’t help but be drawn to each other. If past lives were real I would have sworn he was my person in every one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:44 PM
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lol why in the world would I get upset over porn 🤣🤣 there are many beautiful/sexy women in the world and it would be weird if my husband didn’t find them attractive we will be celebrating 17 years of marriage this fall ❤️ he is my best friend. Hopefully you get to find your soulmate one day too!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:42 PM
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What part do you not agree with? It seems like your situation is similar to mine. Edit: Ok I see it’s been edited that you do agree with me 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 02:06 PM
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Omg yes!!! I swear “love goggles” are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 01:53 PM
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So true!!! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 01:50 PM
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I think this is something people who haven’t experienced “love” feel the need to tell themselves to feel better about missing out or being left by a partner. I’ve been with my husband for almost 20 years now. I’ve been overweight, skinny, short pixie cut hair, long hair, multiple different colors, pregnant, etc…basically outside of missing teeth or losing limbs I’ve had many changes in my physical appearance over time. Husband has still loved me and stuck by my side. And same for him. He’s also …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 01:48 PM
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Go to any male dominated subreddit. They’re all crying about being single. They can’t stand that most single women are perfectly content not being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 01:34 PM
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A post came across my feed of men crying that short women shouldn’t reproduce with tall men because they would have short offspring. 🤣 I’m 5’4” (last I checked) and my husband is 6’4”…our son is 6’8” at nearly 16. Genetics are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 01:30 PM
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Excuses excuses. And of course, men didn’t. They are too lazy and self-centered to ever support another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 11:36 AM
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Strange because we’ve had a few recent cases in my area in the past two years of men killing their wives/gf and children and the majority of comments from men don’t offer sympathy to the grieving families..just asking what the wife did to deserve it and always accusations of cheating. 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 10:15 AM
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Welcome back!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 10:09 PM
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lol poor RedSands!! Everyone thinks he is a girl 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 10:07 PM
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I vote this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 10:06 PM
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I love to brag about how awesome my husband is but at the same time it doesn’t make me feel more valuable just because he chose me (and vice versa). I’m awesome just because I’m me 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 09:21 PM
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ANYTHING!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 07:35 PM
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I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 07:34 PM
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Patient made me tear up today saying that I made such a positive impact on him over the past year. 😭😭 I just want my patients to get the care they deserve and have the best quality of life they can have for the time they have left. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 07:21 PM
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Maybe she doesn’t get headaches from it? I am not a big crier so I’m not sure on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:54 PM
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If you have something to say to me please say it instead of quickly deleting the comments so I cannot read or reply. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:50 PM
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If that’s how you take it I can’t control how you feel or interpret it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:33 PM
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That wasn’t any insult? You mentioned this is a “femcel” subreddit and that you feel you are treated unfairly - I was offering a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:31 PM
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Not sure what to tell ya! That’s something for you to take up with the mods then. If someone making personal attacks or being insulting I just report it and let them handle it. There are plenty of incel subreddits you could try instead that might be a better fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:22 PM
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Hey we like a good psychological thriller too!! 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:13 PM
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Stay off the dating/incel subreddits and you might enjoy it more. 🙂 There are a lot of great subreddits out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:13 PM
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K. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:03 PM
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And there are many mentally ill, misogynistic incels here too. They’re all over the incel subreddits like Inkyverse, kitchencels, goldpilltalk. I gusss it’s a perfect match then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 05:03 PM
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I know what the word means. Weird that you are still stuck on this but I guess I’ll keep repeating what I’ve already said: Just because you think I am lying doesn’t make it reality. I’ve told you multiple times. You can’t make me say I’m lying when I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 04:58 PM
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Yay!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 02:18 PM
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lol we aren’t that old!! From speaking with the other women here most of us are on our 30s and early 40s..so old but not senior citizens yet. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:02 PM
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Or Flavor Flav! I know a lot of people did it for the publicity but it was just such a fun time!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 12:36 PM
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Femcel but most of us are married? Now “incel adjacent” seems more realistic to me. Most of the male posters here are also posting on the incel subs. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 10:33 AM
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And I’ll continue to do so. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 04:05 AM
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I didn’t say you did support those women? You and one other male poster were the only ones who said it was wrong. I certainly wouldn’t count that as very many. Go to any male space and you will find men supporting adults having sex with minors. Sex workers are reporting an increase in men wanting the SWer to role play as their daughters. There are incest porn (🤮🤮🤮🤮) subreddits on this very website.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 03:53 AM
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That is good. Those people should be downvoted and banned! If possible reported to authorities too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 03:37 AM
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Sausage Party!! Weirdest movie I’ve ever seen!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 03:35 AM
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Yes, and I never said I supported those women. In fact I think they are stupid and shouldn’t joke about abuse. Wonder why it’s so hard for men to say the same thing about men who support CSA. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 03:35 AM
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I don’t know if these kids have even seen it. 😭😭 it’s literally the first thing I thought of!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 02:06 AM
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I know!!! Tbh I find it equally disturbing that the women agree to it. Those people should be reported to the authorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:51 AM
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Immediately made me think of this movie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:48 AM
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I would be so disappointed that there was no actual taco festival 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:44 AM
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I like the animal idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:42 AM
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Lmao. As if the entire internet speaks “incel”. I’ve already said what I needed to say. Believe whatever you want. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:39 AM
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Just because you think I am lying doesn’t make it reality. I’ve told you multiple times. You can’t make me say I’m lying when I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:34 AM
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At this point I’m convinced hardly any of these men have actually done any research on this case. They are just foaming at the mouth at the opportunity to openly hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:08 AM
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Just because you think I am lying doesn’t make it reality. I’ve told you multiple times. You can’t make me say I’m lying when I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 12:51 AM
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More personal attacks. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:47 PM
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It’s so disturbing how many men are OK with CSA. 😭 I said something earlier about how men practically celebrate this stuff and got downvoted!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:42 PM
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More personal attacks. 🙄 Typical for men as soon as they realize they’re losing an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:38 PM
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I called you a pedophile based on your refusal to acknowledge that it’s wrong that men sexualize their children. Sex workers are literally telling us how men ask them to role play as their daughters, nieces, and granddaughters. I’d offer the same sympathies in return but I doubt there are any women who would be dumb enough to get involved with someone with such gleaming red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:11 PM
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Do you need to re-read the entire conversation? I inferred he was a peso because he never pushed back on the idea that men sexualize their children and that it is wrong..which was what my entire initial comment was about. It was not about my son until he brought him up. 🤷‍♀️ By pushing back he could have simply said that yes men who do that are wrong and it’s gross. Did he? Nope. Not once. Which again..was what my entire initial comment was about. I understand men (particularly incels) struggle …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:07 PM
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More personal attacks. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 09:29 PM
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Do do you even understand what DARVO is? You’re just throwing around buzz words at this point. Even with your own definition of what “Chad“ is it once again proves that men think their sexuality is the default and assume that a male being “hot“ is sexual. He has several times to push back about men sexualizing children and yet chose not to. I’ll continue to infer he sees no issue with it. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 09:14 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:42 PM
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Be a big boy and respond to me instead of running to your other pedo friend. 🤮🤮 Just like I said to him: To me Chad is a guy that is a tall, well liked/popular, non ugly guy, who gets lots of interest from his female peers. My son has all of those traits. So where is the sexualization from me in this comment? Once again more proof that men can’t think about anyone or thing without turning it sexual. These are the men who justify sexually assaulting children, animals, inanimate objects. It’s fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:39 PM
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Wrong. Because men don’t fight for 50/50 or more. When men actually try to get custody they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:36 PM
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Nice edit 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:57 PM
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Every time men say they wish it was them when it’s reported a grown adult sexual assaulted a male student. Just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:56 PM
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No he does not. Are you a father??? Women can’t withhold their children without custody arrangements. That is called kidnapping and is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:53 PM
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I guess women are just better people then because we actually shame others for CSA. Men apparently want to celebrate it. Just disgusting but no longer surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:51 PM
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And once again another man who resorts to personal attacks on this sub. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:49 PM
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Not being defensive. Just calling out inappropriate sexualization of children like any good person would. Don’t think I haven’t noticed that you never pushed back that men who sexualize children are wrong. 👀 To me Chad is a guy that is a tall, well liked/popular, non ugly guy, who gets lots of interest from his female peers. My son has all of those traits. The only nerve that seems to get touched is the one from men who are jealous of him. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:45 PM
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Once again..the only person who ever implied anything sexual about my son were men. And it’s a man still doing it right now. It’s fucking WEIRD. I’m guess it’s hard concept for men to understand that women don’t think of others sexually 24/7 like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:31 PM
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Looks like men sexualizing children,.not surprised at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:22 PM
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Well darn!! Well if you like reality dating shows those two were hilarious!!! So fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:22 PM
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Just because you think I am lying doesn’t make it reality. I’ve told you multiple times. You can’t make me say I’m lying when I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:20 PM
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Sacrifice wanting to fuck children?!?! Gross!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:18 PM
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Doubtful. Men literally have sex workers pretend to be their daughters while fucking them. It’s sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:18 PM
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And only men make it have any sexual meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 07:18 PM
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It is very disturbing to me how much men don’t push back on other men for sexualizing their own children!! Why is this not being shamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:24 PM
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Wow that is terrible!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:22 PM
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It was not. Just because you think that doesn’t mean it is correct. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:20 PM
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People will always think someone is being improperly punished - there are those who thought Chris Watts was innocent too. Like I’ve been saying this is not a women-only issue and it’s pretty disturbing that some men hate women so much that they can’t see that this is proof that our healthcare system is failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:19 PM
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And horny men harass women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:14 PM
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Women don’t care if men are venting to their AI chat bots. Like please do!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:08 PM
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Some men even sexualize their own female family members like their own daughters, nieces, and granddaughters. It’s so fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 06:00 PM
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Girl talking to some men here is pointless because of how many sexualize their own female family members. I’ve heard many sex workers say that the men who see them admit to fantasizing about their daughters or nieces. It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:57 PM
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Apparently so!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:43 PM
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It wasn’t facetious. I was being genuine because there are issues that do only affect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:43 PM
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And that is what women are also saying too! They feel empathy because they’ve also suffered from postpartum depression, anxiety, and the struggles navigating the mental health system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:42 PM
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Oh a fellow old person! 😆 Did you get into the reality dating shows on VH1 too? My husband and I still talk about Flavor of Love/Rock of Love til this day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:38 PM
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I’ve had coworkers like that and omg I would literally dread having to spend those 12/13 hour shifts listening to nonstop whining. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:37 PM
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Not a man but…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:35 PM
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Literally same. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:32 PM
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I’m trying!! 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:31 PM
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As someone who works in the medical field - yes he very well may have been failed by the medical system if he had attempted to get help and no one did anything. Our healthcare system is BROKEN beyond belief. We are all at the mercy of the insurance companies at this point. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:31 PM
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I don’t use this app but I’m reading y’all say they are leaving several min long messages? Omg!! I don’t even like to listen to voice mails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:28 PM
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Flirting isn’t the same thing as being mean to someone or making fun of them. So I think not being mean is exactly the correct way to flirt. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:27 PM
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I legit LOL’d.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:25 PM
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Go back and reread what I said then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:24 PM
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Well it was a stupid comment from that person considering that I hadn’t even read the post then to have a chance to agree/disagree. Not all of us are unemployed. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 05:23 PM
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Nope. A dad doesn’t need a woman to tell him how to parent his own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:52 PM
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And you ignored all of my previous comments about how men actively chose to not stay home and how men shame other men for doing so. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:51 PM
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Huh??? So being an active father = personal slave for a woman. YIKES
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:34 PM
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We do not have the capacity in prison/jail to hold all of the men who don’t pay child support. But I’m sure the next goal post will just be “women chose those men (not me!!) to procreate with”. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:33 PM
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There are. Your algorithm just isn’t showing you them. I’ve seen an equal amount of male/ female supporters in this case. Just assuming these men are not being genuine in how they feel about this case is showing your own gender bias. Nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:23 PM
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Just ignore the evidence that challenges your world view then. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:21 PM
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Fascinating that you are admitting to feeling empathy for a man who murdered several people but also shame women for saying they feel empathy in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:20 PM
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Please go take a peak over at the breadwinner women’s subreddit and the workingmoms sub. Most of them have SAHD and the wives are the breadwinner. A lot of men choose not to stay home. Where I live men who chose to stay home are judged harshly by other men for not being “providers”. My husband has gotten shamed on several occasions from other men about me being the breadwinner. It seems to really, really bother them for whatever reason. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:33 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without going into personal attacks? Personal attacks are against the rules here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:17 PM
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I’m not sure if you are being sarcastic (hard to tell over text) but I genuinely have not had a chance to read it yet. I’m reading/commenting in between work calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:15 PM
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Omg yes!! I went back to work when my son was 6 weeks and it literally was like a mini vacation. I think the men who think SAHMs have it easy either aren’t very involved parents or have jobs they hate which is their own issue to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:12 PM
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I guess I’m not sure why you brought up SAHM then if most of the women you know work? Who cares if the minority of women/men stay home if they have the ability to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:10 PM
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I haven’t read the thread yet to determine what they’re talking about. It very well could be something that only affects men such as testicular cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:09 PM
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Yes. Obviously women don’t have to be SAHM. I actually know more working women than women who choose to stay home. Must be different where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:54 PM
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They are lucky to have a good dad!! I agree that they are hard work but wonderful. Not wonderful enough for me to ever do it again though lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:53 PM
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And there are women who say she is guilty. So no..not always a woman. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:51 PM
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Explain the men who are arguing that her husband did it then. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:51 PM
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People come up with conspiracies all the time. There are still people who think Chris Watts is innocent and his wife killed their children. It has nothing to do with gender. That is just a reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:49 PM
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I’ve lived the life of a working partner where my husband does the SAHD thing and I would take going to work over being a SAHP any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:35 PM
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Tbh it depends on the child. For some parents work feels like a vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:17 PM
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But she has male supporters also so it’s not just women saying this. I’ve also seen men speaking out with the same theory. It really is not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:15 PM
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Yep. This is the same for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:38 PM
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Just let kids be kids, man. 20 year olds learned a new word. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:43 AM
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Sometimes the issue genuinely is a bad personality. I think the issue when this advice is given is that some men think “good” personality means morally good and that is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:09 AM
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I’d bet good money that post was fiction. Odds are high it was a man..pretending to be a woman. They do it all the time on this website unfortunately 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:31 PM
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Your last sentence gave some Silence of the Lambs vibes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:29 PM
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A chance for disappointing sex?? Lmao absolutely not!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:27 PM
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Most women don’t have the wildest sex with strangers. They have that in committed relationships with a man they trust. If she’s “holding back” sexually it’s because she doesn’t trust her party or feel safe with him. I think men act the opposite in regards to sex - they are so worried their partner will judge them for their kinks and call them weird/gross so they act them out with women they don’t respect/value. Then they project that women act similarly…even though we repeatedly tell men in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:19 PM
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But regardless personal attacks are not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:04 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without spewing personal attacks against the other user? Personal attacks are against the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:26 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without spewing personal attacks against the OP? Personal attacks are against the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:24 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without spewing personal attacks against the OP? Personal attacks are against the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:24 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without spewing personal attacks against the OP? Personal attacks are against the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:24 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without spewing personal attacks against the OP? Personal attacks are against the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:23 PM
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Why can’t you rebuttal without spewing personal attacks against the OP? Personal attacks are against the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:23 PM
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In my experience those type of men think “commitment” just means being physically present. They don’t prioritize the health of the relationship because they think all they should have to do is just not leave. Then they end up in deadbedrooms and divorced anyway. I’m watching it play out right now with my BIL who assumed his wife would never leave. 🤷‍♀️ Those past relationships weren’t any better just because they stayed together for years. Many just outsourced their happiness to their affair par…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 07:01 PM
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In my experience those type of men think “commitment” just means being physically present. They don’t prioritize the health of the relationship because they think all they should have to do is just not leave. Then they end up in deadbedrooms and divorced anyway. I’m watching it play out right now with my BIL who assumed his wife would never leave. 🤷‍♀️ Those past relationships weren’t any better just because they stayed together for years. Many just outsourced their happiness to their affair par…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 07:00 PM
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I don’t think it’s expecting perfection. I think most men just saw others’ marriage as miserable so they think it’s just normal and women don’t put up with it like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:23 PM
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The hobosexuals LOVE us. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:21 PM
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My thoughts are men need to stop focusing on “hierarchy” because it is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:20 PM
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It’s not even about their mental capacity. It’s just an instinct. Like I feel more of a desire to protect/nurture a 20 year old than think of them as a prospective sexual partner. Probably just how my brain is wired because some older women have no problem fucking someone their kids’ age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:19 PM
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Gagging more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:17 PM
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Embrace getting older! You are usually wiser and have new experiences. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 11:26 AM
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And she should also be allowed to comment on other men’s photos like sexy gym pics 🤤 and slide in their DMs like the guys do. Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:55 PM
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She’s beautiful!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:48 PM
1

Just rotate who cooks. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:46 PM
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Happy birthday fellow Leo queen!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:45 PM
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No worries!! My son is also a very large guy and is probably intimidating to most people so I get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:38 PM
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Can’t fix dick size if you’re less than 4” erect sorry but I do hear good things about viagra for boner quality. Edit: Rhythm/movement is far more important which can improve with practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:10 PM
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Do you not socialize with other people outside of online spaces? This is just basic body language/ non verbal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:08 PM
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It’s like any physical skill that you practice over time. But it doesn’t sound like this person would be resilient enough to put in the work required to improve so oh well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:55 PM
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I didn’t say or think getting over it would improve his sexual skills. By getting over it I mean he would need to accept that others will be better sexual partners than himself and stop dwelling on it. He can accept he isn’t currently any good but still try to focus on improvement. Or he can accept that he sucks in bed and just live a life of celibacy. His choice. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:32 PM
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If you say so. It’s his/their life. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:12 PM
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Doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:10 PM
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Huh? Many women are employed. Some of us (myself included) are even in management. Pretty sure we communicate just fine. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:06 PM
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His only option is I get over the insecurity himself or hopefully find a partner who is willing to overlook how bad he is in bed..might lead to a dead bedroom though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:01 PM
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Yes but at 40..a 20 year old man could be her child’s age. I’m 38. I could realistically have a 20 year old son and so when a 20 year old tries to make sexual advances at me it genuinely feels like it is coming from a child and not a grown adult. And for the other point I had already previously said that I don’t think most young women are attracted to older men. Anyone 15+ years older starts getting into father figures territory which is off putting for many young (and even old) women. I think a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 06:54 PM
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If my husband would like to brag about my breast size to the world I really wouldn’t be bothered. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 06:49 PM
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Lmao. Dude. He is a gay man. He’s not a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 06:14 PM
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I feel old AF because I remember this exact cartoon 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:44 PM
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Probably smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:07 PM
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This makes me think of how some people (mostly men) will claim to be blindsided when a relationship ends because they didn’t think it was “that bad”. They’ll admit they knew the other person was miserable but they just assume all relationships suck and because they’re tolerating being unhappy the other person should to. It’s just crazy to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:02 PM
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Remember though that there are some men out there that are content being single/incel. I know you have said it was a terrible experience for you but not everyone is going to feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:57 PM
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Sure some of it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:45 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:43 PM
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Wow. Old twitter ragebaits. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:56 PM
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Thank you! These guys are so quick to try to argue they don’t even read what they are replying to. 🤦‍♀️ But ya know..sooo LoGiCaL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:54 PM
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Oh so I must have missed where she said: /u/Eblademonk this post is directed at you specifically…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:53 PM
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That makes sense. I figured karma points or whatever they are called probably holds them for review too. I don’t get on the discord but I wonder if that is keeping the mods busy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:37 PM
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I am grateful for you!! You have taught me a lot about your culture and I like that you say “demn” and not “damn”!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:35 PM
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Damn. Yeah AI has really made it difficult for tech jobs. It’s a very uncertain future. I hope you can find something soon!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:34 PM
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lol I promise even as a virgin women know when the sex is BAD. if a friend is telling the low n count woman about a boyfriend who made her cum multiple times and fucked her for 30 minutes straight the low n count woman is going to know her bf who can only fuck in missionary for five minutes before cumming and gives zero pleasure from oral is a bad sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:33 PM
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I think it’s because women don’t go around saying: I’ll never date a short man. Those manlets look like children. They’re gross for thinking that I would want to date someone short enough to be a kid. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:27 PM
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My sister is a religious nut (but I still love her lol!) and she waited til marriage at like 27. Idk how she managed but her husband is equally religious so I suppose it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:25 PM
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Next they’ll start kissing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:23 PM
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I think the mods are on here pretty sporadically nowadays and it takes time for them to catch up to the reports. I don’t think they skim most posts before approving because I’ve seen some ridiculous ones slip through the cracks lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:22 PM
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It’s wild how many men cannot handle any generic criticism and immediately go for personal attacks. No rebuttal to the argument just failing about like little toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:19 PM
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She might not be the only person who thinks he is a 9. What if my rating for him is too low because I have high standards for male attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:30 PM
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I don’t think so from what I was able to read. I do think you were being a little bit too sensitive and taking comments as personal attacks when I didn’t read them that way. But I still love ya! I wish we could bring you over here to the USA. Come passport bro to here - we probably have way more single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:17 PM
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Same!! The only time it is “quiet” is if I take my ADHD meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:14 PM
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What a babyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:14 PM
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It’s tough out there!!! What field are you trying to break into? Maybe we can help find some leads!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:13 PM
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Bruuuutal. (I love saying this now 😆 makes me feel young)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:12 PM
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I think it was branching off into looks territory so he probably removed it before it just turned into a black pill/incel circlejerk. Also (because I spend way too much time here 😆) I know before the mods requested not to be tagged directly in the daily for complaints about moderation but have asked for us to just send them a message in mod mail. Just don’t want you to get in trouble if you didn’t know!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:11 PM
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Hmmmm but your scale of how attractive the partner is could be different than how others view them. You might think the partner is a 3/10 but he/she might consider them a 6. Like my sister‘s husband is not my type at all so I would think he is like a 4 on a good day but he is exactly what she wanted in a man so for her he could be like a 9/10. Who’s to say which of us is correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:08 PM
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I think it’s because most women don’t feel sexually aroused by children. Maybe because of the caretaking role? I know that many men also feel similar but I’ve also heard from sex workers and strippers that there are men out there that do fantasize about having sex with their daughters or female relatives so maybe that is why some guys are also ok with dating women young enough to be their actual child. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 01:02 PM
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Hi! I think women are usually pretty wary of strange men but it isn’t something we really sit and dwell on. Lasts a few seconds while we observe for signs he could be a threat and once we recognize he is “safe” we go back to what we were doing. I wouldn’t take it personally. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:56 PM
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That is a good point. It honestly would not surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:50 PM
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No prob! I’ve had a few different flairs on here. The current one is because 9/10 times the men here want to know how tall the man the women who participate here are dating/married to so I’ve saved them the trouble of asking. Bonus points for it annoying the men who care about that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:47 PM
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You refusing to answer my question and instead crying that you think you are being harassed weakens the hell out of your own argument. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:44 PM
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Figure out what? That some men shouldn’t be using this subreddit for their weird sexual fetish. Nah. We will just keep calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:06 PM
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And as a fellow nurse I wonder how many of her hookups knew what she does for a living. In my experience men hear nurse and think two things: - Promiscuous slut - Meal ticket To me it makes sense that men would prioritize her pleasure during sex. They probably assume she’s had many partners and we all know that men love to compete with other men about being “the best” sexual experience a woman has. And for the less financially successful men they try hard as fuck to lock down nurses because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:04 PM
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Oh but you know all men and can speak about all men???? Some men should probably quit using this subreddit for fetish posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:58 AM
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Oh and what do you know..only a few comments in and the personal attacks have already started! Right on cue!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:56 AM
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Apparently men do since y’all act like women wanting to fuck attractive men is brand new information. 🤷‍♀️🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:55 AM
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lol you are the one claiming in other comments that women are moral about dating and sex 🤣 There are not enough tall or handsome men in the bar for every drunk, horny women to have so yes average men and uggos still have a chance to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:54 AM
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Well that’s hilarious…you’ve made claims that women say they don’t care about looks..I push back that women do..and then you start spouting off that women aren’t shallow enough to not date a short, fat, bald man. So who is the one claiming women don’t care about looks now? A man! So quit lying and saying that it’s women saying this shit when it’s clearly lies spread by men. 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:51 AM
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They are hooking up because they are HORNY and DRUNK. People do not accurately assess their own safety when intoxicated. Look how many idiots drive drunk thinking it’s safe and end up regretting it! And I do not deny looks are very important. This should be common sense to the “logical” gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:47 AM
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Nope. No women on this thread have said that women don’t care about looks or that women don’t feel “lust”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:44 AM
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Oh I knew you would say something about it. 🙄 It’s there specifically because I know it pisses insecure men off. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:42 AM
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Women fuck average looking men and even ugly men when they are drunk enough. Looks matter but if she’s drunk and horny looks aren’t going to be the determining factor. Have you never heard of beer goggles??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:40 AM
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No shit. You never thought women got horny? And of course those woman feel safe when they’re shitfaced. Look how many dumb stunts people do thinking they’ll be safe when they’re actually drunk and not thinking clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:39 AM
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Are you fucking other men to know how they behave during “intimacy”??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:34 AM
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Exactly. I hear soooo many young men either don’t give oral or think oral for a woman is a 60 second process just to get the area wet enough so he can hurry up and fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:29 AM
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Ask those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:27 AM
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Men are constantly claiming to be the “logical” and “rational” gender…yet somehow still don’t have the common sense to put 2+2 together that women don’t want to date or have sex with men who they think are ugly??? How are men claiming to be logical but this fucking stupid at the same time??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:17 AM
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She’s overlooking her safety because she’s intoxicated. Have none of you done anything absolutely stupid because of being wasted?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 10:54 AM
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Honestly with those quick hookups the woman is probably drunk and not exactly thinking clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 10:52 AM
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Did I say it doesn’t????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:00 AM
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Congratulations on the sobriety!! That is no easy feat!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 10:14 PM
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Ruins the whole damn video I swear !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:16 PM
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I feel like men don’t want to believe us when we say girth is so much more important than length. If I had to choose between a girthy 4” dick or a thin 8” dick I’m picking the thick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:52 PM
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Also age is not always kind to some people and some just become less attractive - weight gain, balding, wrinkle, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:40 PM
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I think women who are aged 30+ find those men attractive. Just not very likely for women at 20 to genuinely find 40 year old men attractive. It’s no different really than the men who claim to have remained physically attracted to their wives as they age. I can’t speak for every woman but when I was in my 20s the men who were 40+ were my father’s and grandfather’s age and I could not view them as anything more than a father figure. The idea of a father wanting sex from his daughter really grossed…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:36 PM
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Love how every time I call him out on his fake moderator shit he deletes his comments. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:07 PM
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Exactly. He constantly tries to play hall monitor of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:00 PM
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Stop pretending to be a moderator of this subreddit. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:59 PM
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I think so. A lot of men seem to obsess over the person they lose their virginity too. They can’t fathom that most women don’t even think about their first time unless someone asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:25 PM
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You don’t care yet you keep trying to get my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:22 PM
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The OP asked women for our own personal anecdotes and what we would do. If they wanted to go off of data alone they would have simply done that. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:11 PM
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Lmao wrong on a thread that asks women what they would do and sharing my own experience. Sorry the fact that I didn’t divorce my husband when he was unemployed hurts your brain but not all of us have to use “studies” to interact in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:00 PM
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This is an almost week old discussion. Time to move on. I have no interest in debating something that was discussed a week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:49 PM
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Lots of average sized dicks in porn too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:12 PM
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Why are you even asking this question if you already are going into it with a belief that porn is mostly full of men with large dicks? Do you just want to read women say we don’t like small dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:40 PM
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I said in my original comment that most of the replies would be NO. And they are. No matter how you try to spin it what I said was correct. You just don’t like it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:35 PM
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No. I do not search for “big dick” porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:31 PM
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You are the one who keeps replying to me and trying to get my attention. I have already told you I don’t care and you are free to believe what you want. I have no interest in speaking to you any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:29 PM
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Whatever you want to believe. Idc. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:26 PM
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All I said was that men would respond NO. The reason behind it wasn’t included in my response so my point still stands. They are still saying NO. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:25 PM
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You might want to refresh and start reading the replies again because I’m seeing an awful lot of men replying with “ NO”. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:44 PM
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As the youth say… Bruuuuuutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:39 PM
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LMAO another man trying to pretend he is the authority for this subreddit. 🤣🤣 Go play hall monitor somewhere else. Apparently you do not understand how the auto mod replies work on this subreddit???? Now please go bother someone who cares to talk to you because it is certainly not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:37 PM
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If I wanted to debate this topic with you I would not have replied under the automod. Please go bother someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:24 PM
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I have a feeling 99% of the answers here will be NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:15 PM
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At 20 a 40 year old man was not my peer and literally grossed me out when they would try to hit on me. It was repulsive. Now at nearly 40 a 40 year old man is my peer so I find 55+ men repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:06 PM
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Well I guess enjoy the ban again 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:53 PM
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People aren’t going to behave in textbook patterns. 🤷‍♀️ It sounds like maybe you need to believe that low n count women aren’t fantasizing about what sex with another man feels like. I can understand that being an insecurity for men that know they don’t measure up to other men sexually. I’d guess men who feel low n count women are safer also assume the women aren’t making comparisons in the bedroom… while forgetting how much women gossip and brag about their past sexual encounters when they get…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:52 PM
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LOL they are sleeping! Where did I tell any man here he deserves to be alone? And again men on this subreddit just can’t help but spout off personal attacks. 🤣🤣 Y’all cry about being bullied but try to bully the women here all the time. Makes sense why y’all are unwanted I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:47 PM
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Also I think it’s pretty funny that you were crying yesterday about how men here bully you but your immediate response to me is to spout personal attacks and name calling. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:44 PM
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Hmmmm I only remember talking about my husband’s penis in a thread where the OP asked about size comparison to sex toys. And I would hope that men also feel so attracted to their partner they can’t help but brag about how beautiful and sexy they are. Sorry your wife doesn’t brag about you. That must suck. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:43 PM
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Please go to the adultery subreddit and read how many people admit they cheated simply because they had FOMO from having so few sexual partners. The high n-count folks have been there, done that so having extramarital sex isn’t that enticing (unless their current partner sucks in bed). Many low n count folks cheat at just for the opportunity to experience someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:37 PM
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I am almost 40 and have yet to meet anyone that has said “I sure wish I didn’t have so much sex in the past!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:32 PM
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Right back at ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 11:56 AM
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I wish this was reality. 😭😭 I’m tired of seeing ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:07 AM
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I disagree. I see it happening pretty regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:58 AM
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I see women disagreeing with other women pretty frequently here. Again I ask - are you just skipping comment threads? And no it is not an admission just a suggestion since it sounds like you are looking for a subreddit that doesn’t involve men disagreeing with each other or hearing women’s perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:21 AM
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Do you just skip comments here? I see many men and even women defending men. There are plenty of pro male only subreddits you can join instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:48 AM
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Cute but not a single thought between those big ears! 😆😆 Love her to death though!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:46 AM
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I really don’t think they care if the women here upvote or not. You can’t even see who upvotes so it could even be a random lurker. As for the insults I see both sides being guilty of it as soon as one starts losing the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:45 AM
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lol friend you know that is not true! I’ll give you 50% credit for the anti male spaces but most of us are married so we wouldn’t be in the femcel subs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:40 AM
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<image> Here is mine! Her name is Ruby ❤️ I want another so bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:39 AM
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Idk how any of you manage to function in the real world or even hold down a job if you think someone disagreeing with you is bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 12:55 AM
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They forget that this subreddit isn’t another incel safe space. I’ve noticed most of the male regulars here are active in the incel adjacent subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:16 PM
2

Same. It’s a waste of energy to stress about!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:21 PM
4

That’s basically it. Most people aren’t honest. Dating is just luck and finding someone you tolerate who tolerates your own annoying behavior back. It is pretty pointless to worry about someone’s past because..well..it’s the past and most people change throughout their lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:20 PM
1

I think if she doesn’t respond to your offer to hang out I would start to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:12 PM
1

I think the husband did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:05 PM
1

I think he is a family annihilator. I could be wrong but there is just so much that isn’t making sense from a medical standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:55 PM
3

My fav is how they won’t reply to your comment but will sit and circlejerk the usual incel talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:01 PM
1

Love seeing the overlap of posters who comment on this subreddit and that one. It helps to know who to not take so seriously 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:58 PM
1

Scared of what??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:56 PM
1

🤔 I think there are definitely some terrible women in the world that should never be around children but I genuinely think this is another Chris Watts situation. The biggest flag for me is the conflicting reports of the scene from police/EMS and her body temp being so low within a supposedly short time frame. Parents who harm their children are absolute scum. As a mother I just can’t understand it. I hope there is justice for those babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:55 PM
1

Too many people here just start throwing personal attacks as soon as they start losing the argument. We just need more moderation but I don’t think anyone wants to do it or has the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:50 PM
2

I wish I was him but with corgis 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:46 PM
4

Somehow glossing over the point of her comment/post that she asked “How can I stop this behavior? He doesn’t deserve it.” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:45 PM
1

LOL. Wikipedia is not a reliable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:28 PM
1

This is just your opinion. Different women have different priorities in a partner. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:26 PM
1

It would depend on other factors. If he got a pay raise but suddenly had to work more hours of course a woman wouldn’t be happy about it. I’m not even sure how this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:40 PM
1

You have a complex about being short. It’s not my responsibility to fix how you feel about yourself. Get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:38 PM
2

Yeah but it seems like men either ignore this or don’t want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:37 PM
1

Nope. Height and body will never make up for an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:37 PM
3

Face is more important than body for casual sex. A 10/10 body won’t make up for a 3/10 face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:13 AM
2

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:10 AM
6

Just pure jealousy. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:40 AM
7

The only thing women want from you is to leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:28 AM
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How is this not blackpill/incel rhetoric?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 08:46 PM
2

Straight facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:30 PM
1

Oh I agree! I have either worked or been in college since he was born because being a SAHM is not something I’ve been interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:29 PM
0

A man doesn’t have a cervix - so he can’t get cervical cancer. Same thing. Now it’s even.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:22 PM
5

This should be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:10 PM
1

Unfortunately a lot of people are young and dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:07 PM
-1

Unless they are young and dumb like I was at 19 🤦‍♀️ - no STIs or unplanned pregnancy THANK GOD. I still shake my head at the dumb shit I did back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:04 PM
2

That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:02 PM
1

Dang this is tough! But I guess I am disqualified from answering because I don’t want anymore kids. Already have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:01 PM
3

Clarifying question - is there a father involved in this scenario or is the dad just not up to my physical/emotional standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:35 PM
2

Omg is that that creepy guy that men post calling Chad?! It looks like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:52 PM
3

Omg and when they do it more than once!! Like it has to be a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:50 PM
1

Lmao it’s not an accomplishment. Just a fact. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:43 PM
1

No. Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:39 PM
2

Happily married for almost 20 years. Have never cried about men not wanting to date me. But nice try. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:34 PM
1

Bald at 20 isn’t bad. Balding at 20 and trying to hold onto hair isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:07 PM
-1

Yeah it’s always a risk!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:07 PM
2

It makes me sad too. Being a parent is hard but my son truly is the best part of my life. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:58 PM
2

Shaved bald is not always unattractive. Balding can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:57 PM
4

In September my work goes back to full day on Fridays. 😭 It has been so nice only working til noon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:56 PM
1

In September my work goes back to full day on Fridays. 😭 It has been so nice only working til noon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:56 PM
4

Just another bitter incel. They swarm to this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:38 PM
4

LOL. Men claiming women have no value while crying that woman won’t date them is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:36 PM
-2

Too easy to fake a document.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:32 PM
4

Yep. I was just reading a comment thread from a guy arguing with someone else about how he sees nothing wrong with manipulating women if it gives him a chance to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:22 PM
3

So true!! They are absolutely clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:21 PM
1

and you can keep lying to yourself 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:21 PM
9

They literally lack empathy. It’s disturbing. But we’re supposed to feel bad for them because they can’t find a woman to have sex with. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:55 PM
7

They really think the measly child support most men pay is enough to raise a child so the woman don’t have to financially support her own child. Men without children are absolutely clueless about how much it costs to raise a child to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:54 PM
3

Being taller has nothing to do with dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:09 PM
1

Whatever you need to believe to feel better. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:08 PM
7

Supposedly we can all just hop on Tinder and find a rich hot man immediately. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:36 AM
6

Well go on then and explain all of the women married to men who earn less than them since all women only date up from your observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:35 AM
1

These kids don’t leave their parents’ basement let alone vote. They might have to interact with a real life woman!! So scary!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:28 AM
4

It’s not a dating advice subreddit. It’s for debate - literally in the name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:24 AM
0

Yes because there are no female breadwinners or stay at home fathers. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:10 AM
-1

I think for point 1 they really need to focus on improving their facial attractiveness. Even the perfect 10/10 body isn’t going to make up for a 2/10 face. Career can go either way depending on the age of the women. When I was younger (and inexperienced with life LOL!) I didn’t care how much $$$ a guy made or what he did. If I ever had to date again in the future I would definitely care more about him having a job. The status of the job doesn’t really matter. And you are correct on your last poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:30 AM
1

It is OK. I just think he is one of the worst people! Truly evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:25 AM
1

Yep! I’m sure there are probably other people who also view “love” differently than you or I do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:39 PM
1

He is a terrible human being and there are many women who agree with me. If you are that desperate for a mentally deranged woman then more power to ya I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:35 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:33 PM
1

Even based on their looks. I have very attractive friends and see attractive men on a regular basis. I have attractive male friends. Yet I do not consider these feelings being “in love” with any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:31 PM
1

Lmao. Well what an (redacted)! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:25 PM
2

I agree with what you are saying but also need to add that what constitutes a “good” partner should only be determined by the person in the relationship. I think some of the push back from women towards men about this issue comes from the impression that some men are trying to be the authority on what should be a good partner for all women. I don’t think anyone but themselves can decide that. I don’t have much to say on hookup culture because it’s basically always been around since even as far b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:25 PM
2

I’m sorry I don’t take relationship advice from single women. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:40 PM
2

What is the point in your comment? Those people are more WHAT? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:38 PM
2

Doesn’t seem to be working for the majority of men on this subreddit if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:37 PM
0

Oh definitely by far!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 09:43 PM
-1

The majority of men here have not psychologically matured past adolescence..which is an excuse they commonly use for why they only want to date women who are quite younger so they have the same amount of relational / life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 09:29 PM
2

I agree with this but I don’t know very many anti porn women who read smut. The women I know who are anti porn tend to not be very interested in sex as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:41 PM
2

Dance party !!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:38 PM
4

Some people marry their affair partner and so they’ve already secured a new partner before ending the marriage. Not super common but I know it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:24 PM
0

It is. And tbh this sounds like a personal psychological problem to work out with a therapist. There are many men who don’t feel they are required to be financially well off before having relationship. Hell jobless teenagers date all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:53 PM
3

Girl did you skip over the part where I said I meant the men on this subreddit or are you purposely ignoring it? 🤔 And lmao to your ignorant belief that all women deal with the same problems with their husbands. Typical response from a bitter, single woman. I have no further interest in speaking with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:52 PM
2

I don’t agree that feeling fond for someone is the same emotion as love. I feel fondly for my friends but I am definitely not “in love” with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:48 PM
2

Because I talk to men in real life, their partners, and read what men say in this subreddit that they think romantic love from a woman should be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:33 PM
2

I don’t think most people are very good at choosing partners. From what I’ve witnessed with the relationships around me it is more about luck once someone finds someone they think they are compatible with. Otherwise we wouldn’t have so many divorces, infidelity, and emotionally dead marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:28 PM
2

Thank you for clarifying! In regard to shaming behavior I just do not think it is effective for either gender. People are going to do what they want regardless at least in most Western societies. I also have never heard men shame other men for not being “real men” if they don’t take care of their children. I have heard this said by women to men, though. I am not sure what the punishment/reward has to do regarding men choosing to not actively participate in their children’s lives unless men view …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:25 PM
2

Hmmm I wonder if some of the disconnect is that men and women are defining “love” differently. I wouldn’t consider feeling fondly for someone based on their looks as being “in love” with them. I would call it infatuated or even limerent. I wonder if men are defining unconditional infatuation/attraction = love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:09 PM
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I married him because I love him and still do. What a silly question. 😆 Apparently I should have put “the men on this subreddit” and not “they” to clarify better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:47 PM
6

Oh and age!! Can’t be too old ya know!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:15 PM
2

Before I respond I have a clarifying question - By “the behavior” are you talking about choosing to have sex with those men/women or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:14 PM
7

Yes! They are seeking their mothers’ love from their wives and that just is not how romantic love functions. The majority of men in this sub recently said they wouldn’t date a woman if sex was no longer available yet we’re supposed to believe they just love all women unconditionally. Give me a break!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:11 PM
7

I think most people blame both in those situations. I think both genders just don’t publicly shame those people because it’s pretty pointless to do when the pregnancy is already happening or the child is born. I don’t hear men shame other men for not being involved in their child(ren)’s lives. I do hear women shame other women for having children repeatedly with men who don’t care for them. A lot of men will plan on being involved fathers but then something switches once the baby is born and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:56 PM
3

As one of those “dying breeds” of women it is hilarious that you even try to claim women are loved unconditionally. I guess sex doesn’t count as a condition to men anymore. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:51 PM
5

She literally said women are getting pregnant by those men. She didn’t blame the men for the pregnancy. She didn’t blame men for impregnating the women or the women for getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:49 PM
3

Yes!! I just refreshed my hair color (dark brown with burgundy tips) and I feel so fall-ish!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:12 PM
1

Ok! I’m already not surprised and still don’t give a shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:55 PM
1

Fine with me. The men that don’t want to help don’t have to. I truly just don’t care. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:36 PM
1

Ok. It’s your life! Live however you want to. Best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:26 PM
1

All of the men I know are actively dating or already partnered. Single men are a rarity around me. 🤷‍♀️ The ones who are single are unattractive physically or unattractive socially due to neurodivergence. I have zero interest in telling others what they should or shouldn’t do. I believe in personal autonomy. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:23 PM
4

It’s so interesting to me how we all see different interactions on this subreddit. From my perspective I have noticed way more males resorting to personal attacks the minute their rebuttal starts falling apart. Even against other men they will start name calling or just general shit talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:17 PM
1

Well get used it then I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:15 PM
1

Sure bud. Whatever you want to believe. All of the men in my family and male friends are either dating regularly or in LTR/marriage so I can’t speak for the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:14 PM
1

Good for you? Most people don’t care. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:12 PM
1

Nobody has to do anything they don’t want to. People care about whatever they want to. My guess is the men that do care about these issues have female family and friends that are potentially negatively affected by the issues and they care about those women not women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:09 PM
2

Yep! A huge reason why I didn’t have sex or even date in HS. I heard what men would say about girls and that was 20+ years ago before the technology we have today. I couldn’t imagine being a teenage girl today and all they have to worry about with how boys treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:53 PM
1

If that’s how you view neurotypical people then sure. Most people have lied during their life time or been hypocritical about something. Not sure why this is news to you about human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:36 PM
1

The ugly men don’t have to if they don’t want to. I don’t care if they do or don’t. And no one can force them. They can just fade into the background. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:35 PM
0

Sorry helping ugly men have sex isn’t a priority for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:14 PM
1

Yes!! This is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:00 PM
4

Yep. I started puberty around 9-10 and was a solid D cup by 12/13. Somehow in the minds of other teens having large breasts automatically meant a girl was a slut even though I didn’t date or have sex until I was out of high school. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:18 PM
3

Teenage girls maybe. I haven’t heard any women IRL slut shame since I was out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:16 PM
1

You did a great job!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:43 PM
1

lol what loser downvoted me telling someone thank you?? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:39 PM
1

Thanks friend! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:08 PM
5

My birthday was this past week and my coworkers spoiled me! It made going back to work after vacation so much better! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:47 PM
3

Oh this is a very good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:47 PM
2

Smart thinking and I agree. It is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:55 AM
1

Lmao please go whine to someone who cares because it isn’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:47 AM
17

It is pointless for women to try to explain their position on this subreddit because most of the men here don’t want to listen or have their opinions challenged. They aren’t here to learn and listen..they just want to vent. We are accused of lying no matter what we say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 11:14 PM
1

That is just how neurotypical people behave. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:40 PM
1

Ah true true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:51 PM
2

Yep. My sister and her husband are pretty religious/conservative and they met on Hinge I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:50 PM
1

Sounds very unrealistic! Even people that have day long sex sessions still take breaks for snacks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:46 PM
1

Because her passing out is not a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:45 PM
0

Hell no!!! - proud member of the /r/onionhate subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:59 PM
3

Wanting to kiss her = cute 🥰 Kissing her until she passes out = creepy 😳 🙅‍♀️🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:57 PM
1

A lot of the men here identify as neurodivergent (usually on the autism spectrum) and consistency/rule following/black and white thinking is a common trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:52 PM
0

I don’t know anyone that has said casual sex was an amazing experience. They’ve all said it was awkward trying to figure out what the other person liked. I’m sure some people do like it but it seems to not be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:36 PM
2

Well if their opinions are excused because of the stereotypes they’ve developed of women then I suppose they can’t complain about the same negative stereotypes women have developed of men - lazy, entitled, foolish, slobbish, etc… 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:25 PM
3

Not even close!! But there are a lot of cookie cutter looking people here - same with the women. I’m a brunette surrounded by blondes LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:21 PM
2

I don’t even know who that is or care to look it up 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:17 PM
0

And even if the man is not insecure his peers may also be bothered by the income disparity and try to make him feel bad about it. I have been the breadwinner for probably 90% of my relationship and so many of my husband’s male friends have tried to make him feel emasculated by it. It’s like they do not believe it when we say the money we earn is our shared funds and we don’t argue over spending. Luckily he is secure enough to not let their comments and opinions be an issue but it always surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:32 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:29 PM
2

Some women may feel he is above average depending on what the men in their area look like. He just looks like any guy I would see on the street here. Nothing stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:21 PM
2

Average. Couldn’t even pick him out of a line up of other mid 20 white males. Nothing unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 11:11 AM
1

Only way I could do this would be an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:40 AM
1

I think it is pretty rare to find the pure lifelong love. Most of the people I know have a few different relationships throughout their teens and adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:03 AM
2

I think there is some truth it this but not sure why it is. I will mention my husband on here but don’t have a need to share about our relationship on social media. It just feels performative for me and the couples I know that do this are always fighting every other day or breaking up and getting back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:51 AM
2

That’s your experience and I am still telling you I have paid even when inviting a guy out. I find it so strange that a woman asked you out on a date, planned it, and then told you to pay at the end. Sounds like they lack manners and you would have dodged a bullet either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:28 PM
2

Yeah it would still be a NO for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:26 PM
2

I did not. You projected and took it that way. 🤷‍♀️ Must be a sensitive subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:25 PM
5

Hmmm why does her face need to be above average if your face is average? Sounds like hypergamy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:04 PM
2

Plus for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:00 PM
0

Interesting that you took it as an insult but go off I guess 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:59 PM
1

At some point it does. I would not want to be the first relationship for a man over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:34 PM
2

Sounds like a bunch of haters!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:28 PM
2

If everything else is already established (financially ready and have a good support system) I’d say late 20s/early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:27 PM
2

We have this problem in the USA too. Usually what people will do is start with hiding the keys or a family member will reach out to the doctor office letting them know it’s a concern. Then at the next dr appointment the dr recommends a drivers evaluation and I believe they are then required to go to the DMV and retest. It’s definitely a hard situation when the elderly person in question doesn’t want to stop driving even though they probably should.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:24 PM
-2

Probably doesn’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:19 PM
2

Same way I’ll pay for a friend of mine if we’re out eating. I was brought up to share and not be selfish. Same!! And it makes me wonder if these guys who complain were not taught this life lesson? I have always paid when I invite someone out for an activity that costs money. It’s just being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:15 PM
1

Do you understand how Reddit works? I was not commenting on the thread or else I would make my own comment chain. I was responding to the comment about men wanting Stacy and those men wanting to henpeck her into paying. I know a lot of men on here are neurodivergent and struggle with topics changes and keeping up with conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:36 PM
4

Yes!! Just look up color correcting foundation. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:39 PM
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I thought you were on a casual sex only journey??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:04 PM
4

Yep. Not sure how many more times I need to say that I would start a relationship with him regardless of any income. It is not a dealbreaker for me. I have a great income and have been the breadwinner for 90% of our relationship. His income is just for fun money. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:03 PM
1

You said you’ve never seen anyone so I am simply showing you that men do say it. I could find more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:00 PM
5

I know. I was providing an example to show proof that financially supporting a partner is not an issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:53 PM
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Classic! Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:54 PM
2

It must be because you still seem to be struggling to follow. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:36 PM
1

Here you go - https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Gqsu6xWLgV
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:35 PM
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What about a diy swamp cooler?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:56 PM
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Some people really cling to the past for some reason beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:50 PM
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I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:49 PM
1

I feel great! Can’t say the same for the majority of men here. They’ve self admitted they’re unemployed and have never dated. They’ve admitted they’re jealous and angry at others who have what they want. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:30 PM
4

And they think they are so clever about it too! Reminds me of arguing with teenagers. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:56 PM
2

Struggling with reading comprehension?? I wrote: ..a broke man..who whines about having to shell out $25. I did not write: men who whine about having to shell out $25 are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:48 PM
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Yes. It is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:23 PM
16

Sure. I would still date and have remained with my husband through multiple periods where he lost a job and I paid the bills. So much for men’s insistence that all women will divorce if a man becomes jobless. 🙄 Based on the other comments it appears like we are at approximately 75% of women saying they would continue to date men and 25% saying no. Much better than the inverse thread where men admitted they would not date or spend time with women without access to sex. Proving again that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:37 AM
1

Oh I am about to go look this up now!! Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:54 AM
2

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:51 AM
5

Literally. They are so jealous of women they can’t even stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:44 AM
1

Wild that these same men claim that only women are loved unconditionally…yet look what they say when sex is taken away. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:19 AM
2

Wild that these same men claim that only women are loved unconditionally…yet look what they say when sex is taken away. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:19 AM
3

Depends on how small.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:12 AM
1

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:30 PM
7

These dudes would not believe how hard George pulled on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:04 PM
1

Brad Pitt is OLD and basically a grandpa. Ew. Justin Bieber is fucking hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:53 PM
0

Hell yeah!!! He is so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:52 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:46 PM
2

Look at those wittle teeth!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:45 PM
1

Are you looking to me for moral guidance? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:40 PM
1

I’m specifically talking about men who are broke and whine about how it impacts their dating lives. Not sure why you are brining up men who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:08 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:07 PM
1

I already told you that I do not believe there is any right or wrong when it comes to dating. Please go back and reread my previous comment. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/XjNHbfeSBw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:09 PM
1

No he can think whatever he wants. It’s his dating life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:58 PM
1

Oh lol it was just normal tone for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:57 PM
1

Too lean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:54 PM
4

Most of us women who went through the skinny craze in the 90s/00s aren’t always the same women who are dating today. Even if we teach our children to be accepting of body flaws they are still influenced by their peers/social media and want to impress their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:50 PM
1

He’s had a few long relationships but is apparently tired of the single life and claims he’s on the search for “the one” now. Fingers crossed he has success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:37 PM
1

I don’t think there is a right or wrong when it comes to dating. People can make whatever choices or qualifiers they want. I think whoever is interested should initiate/approach. I asked my husband to hookup first (we started as FWB) and then he later on asked me to be his official girlfriend. So we both asked for what we wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:32 PM
0

Immature men are always pining for the one who got away or their school age crush. I think it’s a lot of projection and men pretending to be women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:24 PM
3

It’s so crazy to me that men pay for porn when it’s free all over the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:23 PM
-1

Someone was just asking where you were! We missed you! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:20 PM
2

Yes if she invited him on the date she should pay. The person who asks should always be the one who offers to cover the expense. Women do this for their friends all the time - myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:12 PM
1

Why do you feel weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:11 PM
1

If you can’t read
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:10 PM
4

This was very sweet and I hope she appreciates you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:08 PM
1

My nephew is going through this revelation now. It’s been interesting to listen to him mature over the years as he reaches his mid/late 20s and now looking for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:07 PM
3

I think some men think we are lying when we say that sex with large dicks is painful. I know I really struggled the first few times my husband and I were intimate to the point we would have to stop all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:06 PM
0

It really is quite exhausting!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:00 PM
1

Oh!! Like Teen Titans?? I used to watch the cartoon with my son when he was little (not the serious version). Loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:59 PM
1

I don’t know how the bots work but I’d guess 25% trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:57 PM
1

This place is good entertainment that’s for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:54 PM
1

Not a clue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:54 PM
2

Read again then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:53 PM
4

Not even just their wives. I know this is hard for you to believe but some people are generous just because they enjoy doing something nice for others. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:53 PM
1

Omg it was a classic!! I checked google and it’s saying season 5 episode 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:52 PM
1

Classic incel logic. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:50 PM
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Not in a subreddit full of autistic men trying to understand how social dynamics work I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:47 PM
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Do you live outside of the USA? Most of the women I know who have young children don’t have family available to watch their children because the family is also working. Most people I know do what my husband and I did which was work opposite shifts (me at night and him on days).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:35 PM
2

Hey whatever you need to tell yourself bud! You seem to care about their dating lives more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:27 PM
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Lmao I see we’ve signed the incels to come join us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:24 PM
4

For that particular man..sure. But I know plenty of men who enjoy spoiling their wives and loved ones and would disagree with your views of what a quality woman is. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:23 PM
2

You implied that she (or women) were starting to have their own loneliness epidemic and I was reminding you (or informing you if you are new here) that most of the female posters are in relationships so we aren’t lonely enough to have an epidemic. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:21 PM
2

Very true. I wonder if young women don’t know of this phenomenon. We all learned from Seinfeld..I was in the pool!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:18 PM
3

Yeah people are weird now about talking to anyone they don’t know in public. Wish we could bring you over here to the US and we could be wing women for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:16 PM
0

Glad you are OK!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:13 PM
1

Well darn that is a bummer! But I’m glad you still met someone new and struck up a conversation. Better than most on here would have done!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:00 PM
4

You kids keep making up new slang words that I have to google 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:58 AM
5

I got lucky there!!! I have seen a lot of penis (nurse) and there are tall men with tiny dicks and short dudes with large ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:52 AM
1

Many mistresses would agree with you. I think you’d have a blast on the adultery subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:51 AM
2

Penis size is back now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:31 AM
1

What does that mean? Did you ask someone on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:30 AM
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lol friend I just commented that some of mine are smaller!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:29 AM
9

I’d say mine are mostly the same size or smaller but my husband is well endowed so it’s not too surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:28 AM
5

I believe they already make little vibrators that you can wear on your finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:23 AM
20

Now the floodgates have opened and we’re about to get daily penis size posts again. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:22 AM
3

Girl. Most of these men ranting can’t even get a date. They have zero relationship experience. Just ranting broke basement dwellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:45 AM
2

Dude most of the women who post here are married or in LTRs. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:29 AM
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Less and less men are willing to pay, and if that's your standard, you better be prepared to narrow your pool down significantly. That’s the point lmao. Women are purposely trying to narrow their dating pool to find their person. Women are looking for quality not quantity. She’s not trying to date a bunch of men. She’s trying to narrow it down to find the right man for her. How y’all aren’t understanding this is fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:22 AM
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Girl most of these dudes live at home with their mom, are unemployed, and have never had a relationship, so they’re angry that other men have their shit together and women want the men that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:16 AM
2

Nobody likes to give someone a gift! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:13 AM
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Typical male response. No rebuttal just personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:05 AM
1

They are angels!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:54 AM
1

You always get the RP/incels riled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:50 AM
1

Men get angry when they feel jealous of what others have access to. I’ve had several admit to me they are simply jealous that other people are happy and they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:45 AM
0

Nailed it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:44 AM
6

Typical male response per this subreddit. Can’t rebuttal without throwing in an attack towards women. Talking to you is a waste. Bye! ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:19 PM
5

If they are happy being single then that’s great!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:10 PM
0

Pretty privilege effects everyone 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:07 PM
4

I’d find that more believable if every other post or comment on this sub wasn’t from a man crying about how women won’t date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:06 PM
1

Wow. Well does that make me a Stacy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:05 PM
2

I’m not seeing those words on my screen. Must be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:04 PM
6

I pray for the day old men (50+) comprehend and accept that women don’t give a fuck if they stay single. There is no shame for women who choose to stay single. Going “boy sober” isn’t a punishment for these women. It’s peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:52 PM
2

What a misandrist statement calling men ignorant fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:49 PM
1

My kitty kisses me sometimes too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:41 PM
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Lmao sounds like you are the one who is struggling to understand how feelings work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:40 PM
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If those men need OP to tell them how to date then those men have more problems than just dating self centered women. 😆 I’d wager men have more common sense than that. Perhaps he is talking to autistic men who don’t understand social dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:16 PM
2

That could be it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:13 PM
1

I think this is partly why some people end up in dead bedrooms. It’s like when some women think they are dating a dude’s potential ignoring who he actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:12 PM
2

Sometimes I will kiss all three of mine at a time! My babies 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:10 PM
1

Probably just how they are raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:10 PM
3

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:09 PM
1

Is that all a man needs to be a Chad? I would think it would be more unless I’m just lucky to know a bunch of Chad(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:08 PM
2

You can see boobs for free on the internet dude. Don’t get scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:06 PM
3

You better not give her rent $$$ after two dates.. come on!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:05 PM
4

Sounds like a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:03 PM
1

A guy I knew married a woman with the same name as his mother. I know he doesn’t call his mom by her first name but it would still creep me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:03 PM
1

THANK YOU FOR SAYING IT ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:00 PM
2

I’ve literally told you multiple times that I do pay if I invite someone to something that costs money lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:55 PM
2

Dates don’t have to mean going to a restaurant. Get creative. 🤷‍♀️ And none of this changes the fact that if I invite someone out with me I’m offering to pay the bill. It sounds like men who find paying for an activity they invited someone on have poor social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:46 PM
2

And? So what if those women are self centered and/or entitled? Men will still want to date these women regardless of whatever OP thinks the men should do. Those men are still getting what they want while the men who don’t pay get ignored or rejected. Makes zero sense for the man who is goin on dates to suddenly change his behavior so poor men become equal options for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:43 PM
1

Same to you on both accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:54 PM
6

I don’t think those other men are planning on listening to him. If it’s working in their favor why would they stop just to help some other dude have better odds of scoring a date. Men are too competitive for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:52 PM
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Yep. As if Stacy would ever lower herself for a broke man who whines about having to shell out $25. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:51 PM
1

You can only have manners if you date men? Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:46 PM
1

Do as you wish. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:45 PM
1

I guess you don’t grasp the concept that someone must feel a feeling for it to be true lmao. Claiming: You don’t have to feel sad to be sad. You don’t have to feel angry to be angry. You don’t have to feel happy to be happy. Men really don’t understand how feelings work, huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:44 PM
0

Too skinny but better shoulders to waist ratio in this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:33 PM
0

You assuming my conclusion is flawed is incorrect but you’re free to have your opinion and I’ll keep mine. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:30 PM
1

Lmaooo…yes you do. I can’t believe you typed that with a straight face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:28 PM
3

This is such a strange mindset for me to comprehend because when I invite my friends out for dinner or an activity I always offer to cover the costs. It’s just being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:25 PM
1

I’m not embarrassed so he must be. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:21 PM
2

Doesn’t seem too baseless to me. TIL men don’t actually want solutions because solutions = insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:49 PM
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I guess you can be embarrassed then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:48 PM
6

I’ve done this with my husband before and it was a dream!! He goes back to work next week after a month layoff and I am freaking sad about losing my SAHD. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:44 PM
0

I disagree. Men have become overly sensitive to any perceived criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:43 PM
1

I love glasses on men so the glasses can stay for me. His head/shoulder just seems too large for his body and I don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:41 PM
4

I wonder how it keeps finding you! I don’t get any dating stuff in my feeds but I think it’s because this is the only subreddit I interact with that involves gender war crap. I think there is a way you can reset your algorithm but I think it loses all your other stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:40 PM
-5

Guess men don’t want to talk about solutions then since her suggestion is apparently considered an insult. I guess men just want to bitch and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:38 PM
1

Movie sounds like a win win to me especially if it’s a movie you wanted to see!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:36 PM
8

I wonder if men don’t realize this is something women just do when we invite someone out. It’s being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:23 PM
4

How is this a trend when I have never seen it cross my algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:21 PM
-1

She didn’t call him gay just made a suggestion 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:17 PM
2

Too skinny for my tastes. Not a fan but other women might like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:16 PM
2

Well I appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:14 PM
2

Yes but people can find time to work out if they care about it. We just workout before work or after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:14 PM
3

Glad you found your person and have many more years together!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:10 PM
3

Oh well damn it didn’t turn out very good then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:18 PM
5

That Clavicle guy always has weird flaired nostrils in every pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:16 PM
10

Ok. So don’t pay for dates. Problem solved. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:14 PM
3

I’ll take your word for it. I just still think not everyone will agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:09 PM
2

Probably all social media/filters. And from what I am told plastic surgery (or anything done to improve looks) is much more affordable now so it’s more accessible and easier to look model like in the current generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:08 PM
4

It’s possible but I don’t know what you look like to accurately judge if it’s true. I’m just guessing those women may not have agreed with your own self assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:05 PM
3

You might be. I’m just guessing those women may not have agreed with your own self assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:03 PM
2

I love how men describe boobs 🤣 y’all are creative AF
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:02 PM
1

I’ve read this twice and still don’t understand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:59 PM
4

Maybe these women thought you were less facially attractive and were equal to their body attractiveness. I think women put more emphasis on facial attractiveness to determine a “looksmatch” and men focus more on body composition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:57 PM
5

I think people either really underestimate their own attractiveness or really overestimate how attractive they are. There doesn’t seem to be much accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:55 PM
3

I don’t think they do. I wonder if it’s because we grew up seeing regular looking people and weren’t interacting with celebrities or wannabe celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:53 PM
5

It’s all men know how to do 🤣 They can’t even keep their lies straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:29 PM
2

So you are upset that women date and have sex with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:54 PM
4

Yes!! This is IT!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:43 PM
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Typical male response. No rebuttal just personal attacks. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:22 AM
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Yes we all got along very well because I was not insecure about being around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:21 AM
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I must be GigaStacy then because I was friends with my husband’s high school sweetheart/LTR for like 7-8 years. We even all worked together during those years and it was never an issue. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:19 AM
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It is a classic that’s for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:15 AM
5

Probably trying to make themselves feel powerful by acting like they have any authority over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:02 AM
2

I’m doing it right now so yes you are wrong. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:59 PM
5

Strange that misogyny hasn’t stopped then since according to you everyone insists it should be stamped out. And you are wrong. Feeling sorry does matter when it comes to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:52 PM
14

Lmao mowing a lawn is not difficult. It’s literally the same as vacuuming which women do more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:48 PM
1

And? So he’s still a misogynist. He can be one if he pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:43 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:50 PM
-1

Perhaps they don’t feel sorry so there is no point in them giving an insincere apology?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:46 PM
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Where? Here??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:27 PM
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Lmao why are you lying? Where are all these women complaining they can’t have children in their 60+?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:27 PM
1

Oh no a woman thought this two years ago..clearly all feminists feel the same way 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:22 PM
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Not what we were discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:21 PM
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Yep and somehow they can’t grasp this concept despite being told over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:43 PM
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Sounds like you have a very boring unadventurous sex life tbh then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:32 PM
2

Have I got the solution for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:18 PM
2

Gotta work on your self esteem and self worth bud
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:17 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:12 PM
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I don’t see any other reason it would be an issue. If you are confident in yourself as a partner why else would you care? He/she might think about what sex with your partner was like? Who cares. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:11 PM
1

Same!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:09 PM
2

I think these guys have watched way too many fictional TV shows and think that is what happens in normal friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:08 PM
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I really doubt the OP cares if you don’t find his story a win or sweet. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 03:36 PM
1

lol Who are you talking to??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:49 PM
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But Chad gets to DoorDash pussy?! Not fair!!1!!1! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:48 PM
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I think it would be different if she called him because she needed something but he clearly wrote that he was the one who called her and she answered the phone. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:29 PM
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5th
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:57 AM
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Now you can watch me perform the female stereotype of avoiding you. Byeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:44 AM
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Still pretending to have an audience 🤣🤣🤣 Probably the only way some of you are able to get any female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:57 PM
1

Yay go me! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:55 PM
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Regardless I still find it pathetic. 🤷‍♀️ It would be a waste of time to try to convince me it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:56 PM
1

I think it’s rather pathetic to have so little resilience that being rejected makes someone feel humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:45 PM
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Lmao notice how the idiotic male thinks he has an audience and that anyone cares about what he thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:44 PM
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This isn’t gaslighting though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:51 PM
1

Only the best of the best for my son 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:39 PM
2

Nope. Wrong per usual. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:56 PM
1

Same as you. It was always a romcom thing. Might have been more true to reality for our parents/grandparents though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:02 PM
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I must have kickass genetics because my short 5’4” self created a 6’8” offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:00 PM
2

Lmao this is exactly what happened to a former incel guy my husband grew up with. As soon as he got a gf he thought he was hot shit. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:52 AM
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Heartbreaking 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:48 AM
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Cleaning lmao We were too poor when I was growing up to have hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:47 AM
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Not that I am aware of but I only know of Tinder Bumble Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:46 AM
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Guess I called it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:35 AM
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Omg yes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:24 AM
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Men like him think that other men would just hand out women (pussy) like candy in his made up revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:00 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I am surprised that the mods have allowed this post to stay up for this long. I guess we are better off reporting to Reddit admins and stop wasting time reporting anything to mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:58 PM
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Lmao. None of us are afraid of incels no matter how “angry” they are. Y’all just sit in your mommies’ basement crying on incel subreddits and incel.is about how mean women are for not wanting any of you. Wah wah wah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:54 PM
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I’ve noticed a shift in the moderation lately. This has become another incel adjacent subreddit. Unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:32 PM
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Nice try at backpedaling. Have the day you deserve. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:50 PM
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Another day another PPD incel spouting off rape threats because women won’t give them or their loser friends the time of day. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:35 PM
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Living together was way better than living apart in the early stages of my relationship. It was so much more fun being able to have sex whenever or wherever we wanted and just spending time together. We are fortunate that we actually enjoyed spending time together because we were actually working together at the same job during year 1-5 of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:26 PM
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Girl is crazy. Wow. She definitely needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:22 PM
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There seems to be a misunderstanding. I was arguing against how harmful humiliation is not whether it should be done or not. I am arguing that those who are resilient are not as bothered by humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:43 PM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:29 PM
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For those who are less resilient than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:27 AM
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And men who have never dated should not be apart of these discussions either but here they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:22 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself, bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:16 AM
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Just an FYI if you block users you get banned until you unblock them. It’s part of the sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:55 PM
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Of course I love to brag about my man! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:02 PM
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You must not have read in your hurry to type out a response earlier. Me: Lots of fat, bald men with bad teeth in the 50+ crowd. You: those men passport maxx, not sure if old fat women can🤷‍♀️ Me: They don’t need to leave the country to find someone who wants them. Even the women on that 600+ lbs life show have partners somehow. Why spend the money if there are men right here that want them? 🤷‍♀️ At my last job I had a 60 something year old coworker that was still getting more male attention than…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:35 PM
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Yet we were talking about men 50+ who you tried to lump yourself in with to prove “older” men can fuck 20 year olds for free. It was a nice try though! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:48 PM
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They just say that shit on the comments now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:40 PM
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I didn’t say your friends were not successful. I’m calling out the lies you’re telling about yourself claiming to be “old” or that you’ve even had sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:36 PM
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That is a very interesting claim considering your post history is telling a very different story. Hmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:24 PM
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Diary of butthurt Hilarious and so damn true!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:45 PM
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lol those men are only fucking young, skinny women if they’re paying. 🤣🤣 the women can fuck for free and get their bills paid!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:44 PM
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They don’t need to leave the country to find someone who wants them. Even the women on that 600+ lbs life show have partners somehow. Why spend the money if there are men right here that want them? 🤷‍♀️ At my last job I had a 60 something year old coworker that was still getting more male attention than she knew what to do with. I wouldn’t have believed it but I saw it with my own eyes! Men always thirst for women and probably always will I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:32 PM
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There are so many incel adjacent subreddits and somehow they still find their way over here to bother everyone. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:27 PM
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Lmao that might be the most delusional take I’ve read on this subreddit so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:25 PM
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Nope. Just full of hate LOL. My husband’s favorite trait about me. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:13 PM
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I couldn’t guess for everyone because I don’t keep track of how people start their relationships. With those I do know it has been 50/50 split on who approaches who. I don’t spend a lot of time with neurodivergent, shy/anxious men though so that could be part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:11 PM
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That’s unfortunate for them. My views seem to be working well enough for me. I’ll be celebrating my 17th wedding anniversary this fall. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:09 PM
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Unhealthy or not it is simply how the world works for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:08 PM
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That’s pretty much true for everyone. Unfortunately age isn’t always kind to men either. Lots of fat, bald men with bad teeth in the 50+ crowd. Oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:07 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:36 PM
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Apparently ..we do ..otherwise men would stop crying that we aren’t choosing them or complain that we don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:31 PM
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What value do you bring to a woman’s life that she couldn’t get from a friend or family member?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:29 PM
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Yet not nearly as many women complaining as there are men. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:26 PM
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I’m sure that is true. Not sure what it has to do with what my comments were about though lol. If you are implying his wife is fat..sorry to burst that bubble..she been thin as long as I’ve known her. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:25 PM
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That’s awesome!!! And happy birthday 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:44 PM
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I’m sure it happens. In this case however she is the one who is leaving him. He is upset she doesn’t want him anymore. He did gain weight though so I guess it goes both ways. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:38 PM
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I kind of think they did (but really don’t want to know the details LOL) because he told us he got a handjob from her a few weeks back and couldn’t wait to tell us. Felt like being back in high school 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:37 PM
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That’s OK. I will gladly give my tax money to women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:30 PM
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We are in agreement then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:33 PM
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Huh?? Do you really think people don’t make new friends throughout their lives?? It’s not that hard to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:07 PM
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Literally my younger brother right now. He is more obsessed with looks than I have ever been. Luckily his wife doesn’t mind and loves to boost his ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:05 PM
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Why do men try to use this subreddit for dating advice? There are so many subreddits already dedicated to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:03 PM
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That’s probably why so many women are choosing to remain single and unattractive men keep throwing pity parties for themselves over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:58 PM
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lol that is funny considering I approached my husband before we started dating but go off king if that’s what you need to believe 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:57 PM
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Well I’ve made it 19 years so far and haven’t lost attraction to my husband yet. Maybe in another 19 it’ll happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:25 PM
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Can some of the older men here give their thoughts on if this has always been an issue with men or if it seems to be more pronounced in younger men? It seems like men are way more self conscious than I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:16 PM
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Men who never get approached have convinced themselves that women don’t do this. It’s fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:52 PM
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It’s definitely why men shouldn’t become lazy/complacent that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:34 PM
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I am cracking up right now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:30 PM
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It would make more sense if he wanted the divorce but he is not happy about it and spent all weekend telling us that he doesn’t understand why she is no longer attracted to him. He is spiraling HARD. Tbh they both sound nuts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:18 PM
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My brother in law is possibly getting divorced (him and his wife keep going back and forth over what they will do) and he thought buying her a vibrator would change her mind. The male mind is fascinating I swear. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:57 PM
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Oh I agree with you on both counts!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:55 PM
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I would assume he may still have some interest because it’s difficult to just turn off feelings for someone instantly. I wouldn’t change my behavior towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:33 PM
2

Do you like to read? Maybe a goal of finishing 1-3 books in a month
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:28 PM
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Why wouldn’t you keep searching for someone in the first place? I’m not sure what the link is between a friend rejecting a relationship and finding others to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:25 PM
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I would never want to go through the newborn stage again so I think these people are nuts. 🤣 I knew right away one child was my limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:24 PM
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Still down voting LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:36 AM
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Cared enough to downvote and no denial of being an incel that I see. Typical. 🤣🤣 Might as well go back to your incel subreddit and leave the adults here alone. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:42 AM
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Wow. Now this is some peak Reddit incel behavior. Attempting to doxx another dude because he makes you angry. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:31 AM
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I feel the same way about incels trying to debate over relationships. It’s very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:37 AM
2

Very true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:52 AM
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Why not be direct and ask her to be your girlfriend? The worse she can say is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:06 PM
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I guess for me I find it strange because I can’t relate to feeling angry that someone else has something I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:05 PM
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Some single people get really angry about other people being in relationships. It’s odd but I’ve seen it a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:08 PM
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Lmfao. Somehow I am not even surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:07 PM
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I am starting to wonder if the men who claim getting into a LTR relationship/marriage are coming from places where arranged marriage is still a thing. I just don’t know any modern women that find relationships with unattractive men appealing unless they are prostitutes but then can you even consider that a true relationship? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:00 PM
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How do you know this person is a girlfriend? Are you asking her to be official or just assuming she is your girlfriend after a few dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:49 PM
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Hi! Another woman here. 👋 I see this every day with my own two eyes. I don’t know a single woman under 40 that has “settled” for a man she didn’t want sexually and romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:44 PM
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Lmao the person you are responding to is a man. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:36 PM
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Nope. Late 30s so close but not quite there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:07 PM
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We’ve got a couple men in their 50s on here. I was shocked the other day when I found that out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:18 PM
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Are you saying you think women should initiate with men they are not attracted to? If a man and a woman both find each other attractive she is just as likely to initiate then as he is. It sounds like your issue is with men who do initiate in their interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:53 PM
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Can you retype this? I don’t understand what you are trying to say at the end to be able to give a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:24 PM
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I don’t really care about what other women do in their relationships. I just care about what I want and what my husband wants. I love surprising him with things I know he will enjoy so there are women out there that definitely love to spoil their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:22 PM
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I love that little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:19 PM
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It’s like someone who has never witnessed snow claiming it doesn’t exist. It’s fascinating to watch how deep they sink into denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:13 PM
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Wrong again. Women are approaching and initiating with the men they actually want. Women have never wanted the majority of men so your rebuttal is pointless. You are projecting male sexuality of quantity over quality as default for both genders. And Dennis Rodman is like 50 and irrelevant. I highly doubt most young women even know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:09 PM
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Yes they do. I have patients in their 80s who are still having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:30 PM
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Just because women aren’t doing these things with you doesn’t mean women aren’t doing these things at all. Women are approaching and initiating sex/relationships with the men they want. I’ve even seen women propose to men. Like this whole post just comes off as a jealous ignorant rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:28 PM
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What post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:47 PM
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Favorite sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:45 PM
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We’ve been telling men this for a very long time Thanks for help spread the word that this is the solution for struggling sexless males. 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:27 PM
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You could have feelings one day but that doesn’t mean she would. It sounds like a typical fuck buddy scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:26 PM
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A true queen! 👑 ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:49 PM
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Some people do it just because it scratches that itch. No feelings involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:46 PM
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I don’t let it bother me. People are going to believe what they want and do what they want. It’s their life - not mine. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:37 PM
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For someone who dislikes this subreddit so much you keep coming back here and engaging. This place isn’t meant to be taken seriously. It’s Reddit. It’s for entertainment. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:47 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:20 PM
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All 1% commentator means is that your comments are the most upvoted. It has nothing to do with how much someone comments on this subreddit. It doesn’t take months of interaction on this subreddit to “understand the PPD mentality”. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:58 AM
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I love them both!! I am not a huge celery fan so that is what worries me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:40 AM
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They always make me puke. I feel like it never works for me and I’m so jealous for those who can handle them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:33 AM
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I just wish I had a Chicken Salad Chick close to me. It looks so good and I don’t even know if I like chicken salad. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:32 AM
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I’m doing it right now. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:30 AM
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Lmao yet here you are with the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:11 AM
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And even those people would tell you that teenager “love” is not real in comparison to the current love they have. I can understand why you would struggle to understand it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:02 AM
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Even I know that teenage “love” is not real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:59 PM
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Well duh 👆 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:44 PM
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Yep!! We did a courthouse wedding for $60 and threw a party with friends and family for like $250. Still just as married as someone who had a 50K ceremony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:58 PM
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This answer is hilarious considering how many men yesterday wanted to argue that pestering a woman until she agrees for sex is not wrong because the woman can still say no. So men shouldn’t be complaining about feeling pressured to get married by anyone. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:57 PM
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I know A LOT of divorced older women who are looking for this exact setup. They have zero interest in getting remarried but enjoy all of the other aspects of a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:37 PM
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This post doesn’t speak for every man. I am discussing the men who do act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:26 PM
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Maybe try TikTok or FB? I have heard people make $$$ for ragebaits on there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:25 PM
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Entertainment. I have a lot of free time during the work day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:42 PM
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I love the clouds ☁️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:42 PM
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Not that I can recall
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:37 PM
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Do you make $$$ from the engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:37 PM
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It seems like that is what a lot of young men want. To fuck women that will treat them like a child they need to care for. Some of these guys even get jealous of their own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:25 PM
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Exactly. Like why would a woman want to have sex with a man who looks like he could be her dad or grandfather. It’s super gross. 🤮 I remember being 20 and having 40+ year old men drool over me and being so fucking creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:23 PM
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Omg I was just watching her the other day! She is hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:06 PM
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Literally. Not a single blue collar man I know has struggled to get a partner. They are like catnip for women where I live!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:52 AM
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But what about us women who don’t read these type of books? I don’t find them appealing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:45 AM
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Unfortunately I do not think there is much of a solution. A woman cannot be protected and watched 24/7. In my hometown we recently have had scorned men show up to women’s jobs with guns and last year (or maybe year before) a woman did involve her male family members for protection and when they were attempting to get her away from the man he shot their children and the men before pulling the gun on himself. I remember reading the article and people being shocked because they said they never thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:43 AM
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My son is 6’8” it’s a pain in the ass finding clothes. The world isn’t built for people this tall. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:28 PM
1

It literally reads like something one of them would say!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:24 PM
4

Basically this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:23 PM
2

He was a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:22 PM
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It’s bruuuuutal isn’t it?! 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:09 PM
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It has to be embarrassing for the average man to be associated with these guys. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:57 PM
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I don’t see more than 1-2 women on this post agreeing with you. And you’ve presented zero facts even after other users have asked you for proof of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:20 PM
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I don’t see more than 1-2 women on this post agreeing with you. And you’ve presented zero facts even after other users have asked you for proof of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:49 PM
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No need to apologize! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:45 PM
5

It happens! I’ve done it a few times myself too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:23 PM
5

You might want to go back and reread the post because the person asking the question specifically asked about men who are average or lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:09 PM
4

Lmao peak delusion. Even men on this subreddit don’t agree with you that men handle rejection better. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:43 PM
7

I’m speaking of the folks who are described as “lame”. Not every man is lame IMO. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t really care if you think I am sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:41 PM
7

Yep. Usually men will start insulting the woman’s appearance or anything else he thinks could potentially be an insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:05 PM
14

Have you actually never seen how men react when a woman he wanted turns him down? 😆 I literally just saw a post on another sub yesterday of a guy insulting a woman after she told him she wasn’t interested. Men don’t typically slink away after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:27 PM
13

Probably because they are lame. I don’t see the appeal in spending time with someone who is the equivalent of a piece of furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:23 PM
1

If he had confidence in himself he could accept the rejection and move on. There is a difference between confidence and desperation which the autistic men on this subreddit can’t seem to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:15 PM
5

Not with you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:14 PM
4

Restraining orders won’t genuinely do much good. It already doesn’t work for men who are bound and determined to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:11 PM
3

Most of the women on this subreddit are in LTR or married. Can’t say the same for the men here so sounds like the women (that user included) are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:10 PM
6

Yep so true!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:09 PM
1

Yep. It’s much more pathetic to be the desperate loser pestering a woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:52 PM
4

And yet not every man has the same life experience as unattractive losers. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:51 PM
4

I agree with everything you’ve said!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:18 PM
2

I guess I still don’t get it then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:17 PM
17

Are you present for every single encounter or are you just imagining what happens when someone agrees to have sex? I’ve been there when men pester women for sex (including my own experiences being bothered) and if men actually listened to women explicitly saying NO as their final answer this discussion wouldn’t even be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:17 PM
2

I’ve literally watched two episodes so I don’t get the reference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:51 PM
13

That does not change my answer. You are making a claim that women aren’t speaking up and telling a man no when he is pestering her to have sex. A woman doesn’t have to be alone with a man for him to pester her about having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:50 PM
3

Probably astrology and all that silly stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:45 PM
1

I do not like long, unkempt beards but I’ve met a lot of younger women who find them super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:43 PM
1

You almost made my spit out my drink 😆 That was a good one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:42 PM
14

Women do say NO. The problem is men will keep asking hoping to wear her down so she will eventually tire of him pestering her and give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:39 PM
1

I think you are forgetting that most women enter their sexual prime (wanting more sex) in their late 30s/early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:38 PM
5

It’s so fucking gross and they are so proud of it. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:34 PM
5

So many men on this subreddit think that a woman being open about her desire to have sex is unfathomable. It’s like they think we are lying when we say we actively tell men we want to have sex with them. I literally explicitly texted my guy to come over and have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:33 PM
4

Because she was probably annoyed and wanted him to stop bugging her. He should have stopped the first time. Men know exactly what they are doing when they do this. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:31 PM
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Lmao. I wouldn’t even be surprised at this point. I think a lot of these guys use alt accounts. It’s so weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:23 PM
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We are all elderly 30+ year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:21 PM
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How so? What does your comment have to do with the topic at hand? Has someone made you a moderator or are you pretending to be the hall monitor for PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:47 PM
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Same!! I could see these issues happening in more religious/conservative cultures that have a lot of shame around sex but I don’t think very many modern marriages are having the issues OP is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:45 PM
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Speaking from my own experiences and what women I know have said…most of us become more interested in trying new things and sexual novelty as we settle into a long term relationship. If we trust our partners we are more likely to be open with him about what we want to try sexually and become more uninhibited because we aren’t as worried about being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:43 PM
5

Yep. We are just “outliers” or pretending with make believe marriages. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:49 PM
6

Lmao no. Feminist here that has always shared finances with my guy for two decades now. There is no his money/my money. It’s always been “ours”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:39 PM
4

I swear it’s like the only interaction he has with women that aren’t prostitutes. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:37 PM
4

Weird. I am a feminist but don’t separate our finances. It’s “our” money and has always been for nearly two decades now. We’ve had a joint bank account since 2007/2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:36 PM
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Whatever you need to believe 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:34 PM
1

I still don’t understand any of it. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:33 PM
4

Even translated I don’t get it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:13 PM
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Now you’ve got it correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:36 AM
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Oh no..men putting effort into their appearance. The horror!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:53 AM
2

Why recycle when they can get brand new? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:08 AM
2

I think this must be a male thing because it’s not that hard for a woman to find a new better dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:45 AM
-1

Moderators can make basically whatever rules they want for their own subreddits. You could make one with the opposite rules if you’d like. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:04 PM
1

I agree but sports have never interested me (unless it’s sports betting LOL)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:59 PM
4

I think you are correct that they lack real world experience. I’ve wondered if they assume their school/work bully treats everyone just as poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:56 PM
2

I think it might be a very inexperienced (and judgmental) younger woman. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:12 PM
2

They have to be trolling. They literally commented elsewhere that women can only orgasm via clit stimulation. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:42 PM
1

I am jealous!! It sounds like a fun time (minus that lady trying to start a fight!)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:44 PM
2

Oh there are definitely female rage baiters here! But yeah I agree that they don’t pretend to be men. I wonder what makes the guys who do this think it’s a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:21 PM
2

Is that like the funny baseball guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:19 PM
3

I would probably burst out laughing. The whole scenario is just so strange not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:18 PM
1

Just an FYI - there are websites that allow users to see your hidden post history/comments. But arguing with that other user is pointless. I wouldn’t even waste your time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:13 PM
5

Does this person have no eyebrows too??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:09 PM
1

I seriously doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:22 PM
4

It is so weird to me how many men troll online pretending to be women trying to rage-bait. Peak loser behavior. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:59 PM
3

Well good then that saves me having to have the conversation. 😁 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:57 PM
2

Same here. I do not think I could have ever done the long distance thing. My husband and I were basically together 24/7 in the first two years of dating. We worked together and shared a 400 sq ft studio apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:33 PM
-1

That is so disturbing but also not surprising at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:30 PM
4

I guess I better go tell my son I don’t love him unconditionally since I had an epidural and didn’t spend very waking second with him until he was four. 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:27 PM
5

<image> 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:22 PM
3

My work has been so slowwww (for me) lately. Time is dragging 😭 I would rather be moderately busy than sitting around doing nothing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:33 PM
3

Are we supposed to know who these people are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:29 PM
2

Same!! I took a 3 hr nap yesterday afternoon so couldn’t fall asleep last night
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:28 PM
7

This has to be satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:57 PM
3

What would that have to do with me giving my own opinion? Please link where I said that. You can share if you put “np” in the Reddit link. You have accused multiple women on this subreddit of similar attacks yet never want to show proof. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:09 AM
1

Yes. I’ve been hearing men say these phrases my entire life. I’ve also heard women talk poorly of men but not these phrases in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:33 AM
2

For myself I think so. Not sure about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:31 AM
1

Literally me but I have been good this month and cut back 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:30 AM
2

Some people love that kind of chaos. I couldn’t handle it myself but those folks are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:27 AM
1

Do they still have their original genitalia?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:26 AM
2

Probably depends on where it is and tbh the maturity level of the women involved. For me, I get excited it someone is wearing the same outfit of me because we can be twinning and take cute pictures. 👯‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:24 AM
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I gave my own personal experience. Even said “I” several times in my reply. I didn’t say it was the experience of everyone else. In my experience I have mostly commonly heard men say those phrases and not women. Someone else may have the opposite experience and I also acknowledged that. I wasn’t going back and forth with anyone. Perhaps you’ve mixed me up with another Reddit user or are confused on how this site works. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:17 AM
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There is nothing to correct. I gave my experience and did not say women never say those phrases. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:54 AM
1

Dude it’s almost a week later. I don’t even care enough to form a real response. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:19 AM
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I’m dead 😆😆😆 I literally saw comments the other day from guys jealous of their family dog and men just jealous in general because women kiss their dogs and not these angry guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:18 AM
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Did you read what I said before replying ?? It’s literally right there on the screen: “I didn’t deny that some women say the other phrases.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:17 AM
2

If you don’t want a face reveal could you blur it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:44 PM
5

Damn someone is gonna make bank with these and I kinda want some for myself. I am the shortest woman in my office. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:35 PM
2

I’m a sucker for a (facially attractive) man in backwards baseball cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:34 PM
1

Sounds like an excuse for being an idiot. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:20 PM
7

Saw this on another subreddit 🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:33 PM
0

Anyone with eyes and common sense can see pretty privilege in action everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:01 PM
1

Yeah she definitely should have asked first
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:52 AM
1

lol that was a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:32 PM
1

Moderation has been pretty hit or miss lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:30 PM
1

Shoulder length on men is MUCH better than chin length. Chin length gives off teenage skater boy vibe which would be creepy. Or this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:29 PM
3

It’s wild to me that men are just now recognizing pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:27 PM
1

It would be assault from whoever did this - male or female. It’s not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:11 PM
1

I’ll upvote you friend 🥰 Hope your puppers start acting right soon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:09 PM
1

Yeah they all basically look the same so there isn’t anything to be WOW’d over. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:08 PM
1

I’d just wash it tbh but I’m a nurse so bodily fluids don’t really ick me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:07 PM
3

I just have to say you are amazing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:53 PM
1

Do you think this is primarily an issue for the younger generation? It seems like so many people under 30 just don’t have any resiliency. Something doesn’t work out for them immediately and they just give up. I don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:13 PM
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🤨 And none of you are getting the incel adjacent subreddits in your feeds? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:10 PM
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I didn’t deny that some women say the other phrases. I’ve just never heard a woman tell a man that men don’t cry. I have heard men tell other (usually younger) men that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:09 PM
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To be fair about half of those sayings you’ve listed I have heard directly from men and not women. Especially: "Real men don't cry." "Man up." "A man's value is what he provides." "Men only think with one thing." "Happy wife, happy life” "His job is to protect and provide; that's what men are for."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:36 PM
2

Can you elaborate on “emotional whimsy”? I haven’t heard of that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:23 PM
1

I know you are a man lol Unless you are able to read minds you truly don’t know what these people are thinking about other people. You may be the first man I have ever encountered that does not have watch porn. It seems to be a rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:08 PM
2

There are some men who are red or black pilled who use the blue pill flair just to troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:26 PM
3

Not all women hate porn though. I love sex and I enjoy looking at attractive people. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:20 PM
2

It doesn’t stop them from doing it though regardless of how their partner feels. 🤷‍♀️ I haven’t met a man yet that doesn’t notice an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:18 PM
3

Awwww this will be me one day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:23 PM
3

I don’t care about men watching legal porn so I still think women should be allowed to look and lust over hot men just like men lust over hot women. It’s only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:22 PM
1

A quick Google search is showing 20% of SAHP are SAHDs in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:13 PM
1

I don’t live in England so perhaps it’s not common there. Different situations here in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:11 PM
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Partnered men look at hot women all the time. Women should be able to check out the few attractive men that exist. I’m tired of seeing ugly old men in my TV. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:07 PM
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I guess the issue is a lot of men think they wouldn’t get sex at all if they didn’t trick women into it. I think this is the correct answer for why they think lying and being deceptive is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:48 PM
3

Second?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:18 PM
1

Ok that makes sense. I have never been a sugar baby or spoken with men who openly use the service so I was not sure how it worked. I still think getting it in writing (even over text) would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:18 PM
0

Have you confused the women in this sub for another? Most of us are already married or in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:49 AM
1

Do you negotiate terms of what sex acts are supposed to be happening prior to the meet up? Why not have written contracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:17 AM
8

Women already approach men they are interested in sexually/romantically. I have always asked out men that I was interested in. I literally texted my guy that I wanted to have sex with him for our first hookup. Can’t be more direct than that. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:40 PM
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I KNOW! Literal idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:28 AM
1

Women aren’t just accepting whatever men come our way. We reject plenty. 🤷‍♀️ Women, who are like me, do not find passive, shy, and/or anxious men attractive. These men would not be a better partner because they would be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:00 PM
3

Same. I’ve only met a few 20+ year old men who are virgins. Even my husband’s goofy looking, autistic coworker was able to find a girlfriend last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:54 PM
2

No clue. I chalk it up to just being young and dumb like we all were once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:59 AM
3

Girl it was a mind blowing read for me too. Like..wow. No self reflection at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:49 PM
2

Hell I’ve been accused of being promiscuous just for having large breasts. Not sure what the correlation is but for some men they seem to be certain it means I have slept around or am an easy lay. Super frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:25 PM
4

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:56 PM
1

Jealous that she’s having sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
1

I wish I was 5’9” too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
1

I am so jealous! I love cruises! Hope you have fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:52 PM
5

Not a man but I agree with their opinion that the woman should have asked him directly and not just assumed he was serious about her. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
1

Gives me the ick so bad. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:02 PM
0

I have never heard of this in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:44 PM
5

No. Why would I be? I’m not the one who is jealous. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:30 PM
6

Like why aren't these women leaving? Why do they take my dick 10 more times? Because you are paying them. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:04 PM
7

Kinda sounds like jealousy to me 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 PM
2

I mean the answer to this is simple AF. This couple is not sexually compatible and if it is a major issue for either one then they should just break up. It’s not that hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:33 AM
2

I don’t hate on age gaps and find it weird when people get preachy over them. As long as everyone is consenting adults then it’s their business. My husband and I have a very small age gap but got a lot of shit from other women when we started dating at 19/24. It was super annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:12 PM
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If it is so common place then link some non-Reddit examples then. 🤷‍♀️ It shouldn’t be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:47 PM
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Dude why are you replying to a 5 day old comment? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:07 PM
4

Yes!! A fellow gardener! We have grown two different types of small tomatoes, cucumbers, basil, and ONE poblano pepper 🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:05 PM
2

Lmao so true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:03 PM
4

Isn’t it crazy? We need more female moderators. This sub is just turning more incel adjacent by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:44 PM
1

I want to go to Cookout so fucking bad but there are none close to me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:55 AM
8

Silence is super fucking weird to me. I guess 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:53 AM
16

It’s super gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:49 AM
1

Whatever you need to tell yourself champ. I’m not going to try to stop ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:48 AM
1

Lmao it’s hilarious that you try to speak with such confidence about what I would do. And even more funny that you think I care about your opinion in the first place. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:47 AM
2

You keep talking about but here you still are worrying about what women are saying and doing. Not doing a very good job at “going your own way” huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:46 AM
0

Ok. So you can go cry to someone who cares then. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:54 PM
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Yup. Not sure why you are wasting your time with these replies. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t care if you do not like me or think I am terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:44 PM
1

What about me?!? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:46 PM
1

Glad you learned something!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:12 PM
0

It’s an insane reach to assume a woman who is having good sex with a man would not want to continue doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:29 PM
0

No men who are insecure, cry babies are funny to me. It’s why I come here to be entertained 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:24 PM
1

Not sure why you think I care what you think but go off I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:24 PM
0

Yes because men on this subreddit go into daily crying fits worrying about what others think. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:54 PM
0

Ok. Still don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:53 PM
3

Yes my husband and I have a lot of sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:54 PM
1

I’m so jealous!! Apparently there are wildfires in Canada and the smoke has crossed over into the U.S. and the air outside today is horrible. We’ve had to close a bunch of outdoor events/businesses because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:44 PM
2

We both take the trash out. He walks the bins to the curb on trash pickup day but there isn’t like a specific time limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:50 PM
3

If a woman used to love giving blowjobs suddenly doesn’t want to with you..it’s possibly because of poor hygiene. Maybe a bad odor or even ejaculate that tastes bad. 🤷‍♀️ That would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:47 PM
10

This is how men who have never had sex describe what is like. Obvious giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:44 PM
0

Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:29 PM
13

I thought the same thing about the first scenario. Most likely poor hygiene or his cum tastes nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 PM
1

lol glad you think so! Not sure why you think I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:08 PM
0

Sorry not everyone cares about what society thinks 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:07 PM
-3

Apparently you stopped reading after “domestic violence”. 🙄 Yes the idea of being laughed at by society as a terrible consequence is silly. There are worse things to worry with domestic violence than someone else’s opinion of what happened. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:00 PM
2

Yes the idea of being laughed at by society as a terrible consequence is silly. There are worse things to worry with domestic violence than someone else’s opinion of what happened. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:00 PM
-6

Oh no! The horror!! 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:08 AM
2

Sounds about right. Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:07 AM
1

I can’t even take this post seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:29 PM
3

The only reason I know about Bonnie Blue is because I heard about her on this subreddit and listened to an interview with her out of curiosity. I’m not sure why men think women follow porn stars as closely as men do. Most women just can’t be bothered to learn about these women. There isn’t really any point in it for us. 🤷‍♀️ I haven’t watched her stuff because it’s just doesn’t appeal to me but I like her personality (from what I saw in the interview).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:50 PM
5

Dear lord yes. It might just be the men on Reddit but these men are more anxious and self conscious than any woman I have ever met. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:43 PM
1

You wasted your time typing all that out. Not reading it. Don’t care. The opinion of single men is irrelevant to me. Bye! 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:37 PM
4

I would mention it to the original friend that you are interested in her friend so the original friend can find out what the new friend is thinking too. And if she’s gay like you suspect the original friend would be able to just let you know so you don’t waste time on something that wouldn’t pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:51 AM
1

I think they just don’t know any other way to get women to pay attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:41 AM
1

Oh I have so many suggestions for him. He has potential but right now he’s a solid 0/10 for me. Kinda spooky looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:04 PM
1

From what I am told boys are more rambunctious when they are young and mellow out with age and girls are easy when they’re young but rebellious when they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:57 PM
1

SO EXCITING!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:56 PM
2

Just responding to your first paragraph - from my understanding therapy isn’t just venting. You are usually explaining an emotional problem that is bothering you and then the therapist helps you come up with a plan/or new technique to deal with this problem another (better) way. It’s a lot of training your brain to learn a different mindset versus just complaining to have someone listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:55 PM
5

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:45 PM
2

Sexual prime is describing the period in time when a woman develops a higher libido and wants to have sex more often. It’s not about if the men around her find her the most sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:35 PM
2

Just chiming in to say that there are some aspects of dating that are outside of a person’s control. If someone really likes a guy who is super outgoing/social, athletic, and funny..but to the women he seems shy/reserved, uncoordinated/clumsy, and no sense of humor there isn’t much he can do to change her opinion of him. Those two just aren’t a good match. 🤷‍♀️ And for your second part about sex/dating..some people start out just hooking up without actually dating or being in a relationship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:31 PM
4

It’s like they literally cannot wrap their heads around the possibility that some women value a relationship with a person more than they value a sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:50 PM
4

I’ve also tried to explain this to these guys but they don’t want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:19 PM
1

It keeps moving! Last I heard it was 25!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:45 PM
1

Wow!! That is amazing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:30 PM
4

Literally! My husband’s former friend was very incel adjacent during the first few years I knew him. He ended up meeting a lady willing to date and marry him and then proceeded to cheat on her (and made other unsuccessful attempts) as soon as he found another woman that gave him interest. It’s crazy to me how these guys assume being a former incel/nice guy means they are loyal. These guys tend to be the worst cheaters because they have so much FOMO and bitterness about not being chosen by women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:09 AM
6

Lmao. Because clearly no tall man could ever embody these traits. Just shorties. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:06 AM
1

I’ve known patients that are still having sex in their 80s. I’m hoping to still be sexually active at that age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:47 AM
2

The person who is dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:39 AM
-1

My husband is basically the only man I can stand to be around for more than a few hours 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:56 PM
2

This is one of my favorite parts of growing older with a partner. My husband has some gray and silver and the silver reflects in the light like glitter!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:40 PM
0

I never realized that this pairing makes people so angry until I found this subreddit. I’m 5’4” with shoes on and my husband is 6’4”. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:34 PM
2

Fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:30 PM
2

Glad you are home!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:18 PM
4

As a woman, we could say the same thing about men. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:32 PM
1

I disagree. Women would prefer men to be more attractive. Not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:54 PM
1

Doesn’t seem to be working for them though if women are saying they are focusing on the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:38 PM
6

It sounds like those guys are focusing on forming traits they(men) think are attractive which don’t always line up with what women actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:17 PM
7

True!! And it’s the same stuff over and over so even if you take a break and come back you won’t miss much!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:14 PM
5

You gotta pay more attention then..lol. This sub is like 80% male
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:47 PM
8

lol what?! Do you realize what subreddit you are on? The men here demand studies for everything and tell women our lived experiences don’t count as proof for anything. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:38 PM
-1

Is it an equal amount of women or more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:19 PM
2

It’s always ugly men who assume that women find all other men ugly, gross, repulsive..etc. it’s gotta be some sort of psychological coping mechanism I swear. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:21 PM
2

lol I swear y’all just fantasize about deadbedrooms to feel better about not having sex yourselves. It’s so odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:19 PM
5

No we like helping men improve their looks too. We love a good makeover and wouldn’t consider it “trying hard”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:58 PM
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Same!!! They have such good chemistry in it!! Makes me want to rewatch it today 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:56 PM
5

Women love a good makeover so idk where you are getting the idea that women are anti-glowup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:34 PM
–

They did another rom com together that I think is even better - Runaway Bride. You should check it out if you haven’t seen it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:32 PM
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I’m sorry girl 😔 That really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:30 PM
–

This is such a good movie! Have you seen it??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:27 PM
1

With men it's usually the reverse. I feel like a supermodel now 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:20 PM
5

Yep. I just want to see dicks. I don’t even want to see their faces 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:08 PM
2

No but I told my husband McGregor wasn’t going to win! I probably should have put some $$$ on it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:50 PM
6

LOLLLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:46 AM
10

“Negging” basically 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:42 PM
3

I agree with the other girl - as long as you aren’t pushy and accept gracefully if she would say no then no harm no foul. Good luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:26 PM
2

Awwww I love you too RedSand!! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:21 PM
3

Would it make you feel better if I tell you that if I were single penis size (length + girth) would matter to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:11 PM
5

So true. Like I have zero interest in reenacting what someone is doing in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:07 PM
4

I’m not sure if you are agreeing/disagreeing or just sharing your own experiences. I just mentioned it because these guys seek to be hung up on the idea that they can’t do certain positions because they have smaller size dicks and from my experience even if they were average/larger some positions could still be tricky if there is a significant height difference. My husband and I have a ft difference in height and some positions are just not comfortable for us - like sex standing up has never wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:05 PM
2

I think for as much as men here want to talk about penis size we should just make a weekly post like we do for looks and N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:51 PM
6

Sometimes it’s not just penis size but the actual height difference between the couple too that makes some positions more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:50 PM
1

Those look amazing!! You are so talented!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:54 PM
2

I genuinely think it has gotten worse with the younger generations and it surprises me because you think they would be more open minded but it’s like we’re going backwards. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:28 PM
2

Agreed. It seems to happen so often that it’s not even that surprising anymore to others when we find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:22 PM
2

Literally. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:19 PM
2

She wasn’t worth it then! Unfortunately there are still a lot of homophobic women out there. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:18 PM
1

Don’t forget rich!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:16 PM
2

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:06 PM
8

Not sure why you are trying to lie because your made hateful comments towards me too because of my husband’s height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:40 AM
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Sure but that doesn’t mean they disclose everything. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:24 AM
5

I’m gonna say 60% since some guys will never have sex. I only find like 2-3% of men attractive though so I could be biased and women might think these guys are hot while I wouldn’t see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:35 PM
6

A lot of alcohol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:24 PM
2

Are you talking about just men in general or men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:20 PM
1

lol why are you responding to a week old comment??? Are you lost??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:07 PM
1

I’ve only tried weed (great) and mushrooms (just OK) so far
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:06 PM
1

Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:12 PM
2

Do you want me to yell at them for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:49 PM
1

I will tell you if you are really ugly or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:47 PM
3

What are your thoughts on men who support circumcision? I’ve met a few ..which surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:42 PM
1

What kind of drugs are we talking about here? I smoke a lot of weed but I just like to chill, get stoned, and color lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:41 PM
2

I’m so confused right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:39 PM
4

I don’t think there is anything that everyone agrees on. Live life for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:01 PM
5

No flights for you 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:14 PM
7

I swear these dudes want us to care so much but we just …don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:13 PM
1

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:06 PM
3

Seriously!! It sounds like the best job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:03 PM
1

Lmao!!! Wow!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:00 PM
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You just assume they are telling the truth but unless you’ve spent every day with her since she became sexually active you honestly won’t ever know. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:31 PM
3

Girl they are gonna screenshot your comment and use it to ragebait other incels for the next year 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:21 PM
2

I know at least 1-2 others that may have wanted the position but M hasn’t announced her retirement yet so nothing is official yet. I’m hoping it doesn’t cause any issues but I guess we will cross that bridge when we get there! I’m just excited that they even considered me for the role in the first place since I am still pretty new to the department. Edit: and THANK YOU!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:15 PM
4

My boss (N) just told me her boss (M) is retiring in the next 6 months and she (N) is going to be taking her role (M) so they want me to take over my current boss’s (N) position once that happens. I was so not expecting that news today. I have the lowest seniority so I am a little worried how my coworkers will react to the news once it becomes official.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:38 PM
1

Omg I saw men on another subreddit just losing their minds over that post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:45 PM
4

I have a corgi and she is so cute but such a terror! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:43 PM
2

I can tell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:41 PM
2

Not really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:28 PM
2

Nahhhh. Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:47 AM
2

Probably for the same reason men talk about women 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
2

You keep replying sooooo….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
2

Couldn’t tell..it seems like what they think really bothers you. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:27 AM
3

Idk you guys seem to get pretty butthurt when women talk about short men and incels so I doubt that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:22 AM
3

It’s a category of weed! I think there are two types (my husband grows so I pay attention a little bit lol) that are Sativa and Indica. Sativa usually gives you energy and Indica makes you sleepy/relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:17 AM
4

Doesn’t look like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:14 AM
2

That was a good one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:01 AM
2

That sounds so good!! I love Mexican food!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:11 AM
3

Hell yeah! I feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:34 PM
1

That sounds good too!! What is your favorite cut of steak?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:34 PM
2

Oh that sounds interesting!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:52 PM
5

What is everyone having for dinner? I think I’m going to make sliders and fresh cut fries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:40 PM
1

We are a bunch of nurses so luckily we aren’t easily offended! But I can see how a lot of other offices wouldn’t be enjoyable to work at! Glad you have a job you like! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:32 PM
1

I thought I would hate it too but I love it! My job is pretty lax though so we are able to socialize quite a bit and my coworkers are really awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:00 PM
1

It depends on my mood! Sometimes I love it and other times I just want to grab my stuff and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:26 PM
1

Now that is amusing coming from you 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:21 PM
1

Again..seems to be mutual. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:17 PM
1

Oh! Do you like sports betting? I love it but it’s so darn addicting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:17 PM
2

I love grocery store pick up. It saves so much time!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:14 PM
1

Well you’d be better off talking to those women then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:14 PM
1

Well I’m not sure how else you came to the conclusion that me telling you “The feeling is mutual.” would mean that I’m a fan of you but …🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:13 PM
1

So you’re admitting you like me? I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:02 PM
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