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| 1 | One night stand turned into confusing futureYou're her rebound. You mean nothing to her, she just feels bad because she broke up with her boyfriend. Move on. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How to get more girls and NOT be content with waiting to get luckyJust talk to them. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How to be interesting? I'm starting to think this is the biggest missing puzzle piece for seductionOnly you can answer this because what is interesting varies from person to person. Write a list of things that interest you, pursue those things and you will become interesting because you do things that are interesting to you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | A girl I've been interested in recently broke up with bfIt was too long so I didn't read, but if you like a girl just go for it or you'll regret it. Stop overthinking. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?Seems like you know what to work on. I agree with what you've written. If you pursue men, many men will entertain you but use you for sex since they know you're attracted to them and they can pretend to string you along, so I wouldn't encourage being aggressive. I think it's good to initiate conversation with guys you're interested in, ask questions like "what's your name", and things like that but never ask them out or their number it's their job. I write from personal experience because many w… | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:17 PM |
| 12 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?Why do you think you rarely have men to talk to? | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Why am i still striking out?Experiment with your escalation, conversational topics, and flirtation (direct compliments, teasing, pulling away), work on inner game via positive affirmations. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 10:41 PM |
| 0 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?Here's an exhaustive list that makes it more likely for me to approach a woman: - They are out in public without friends / other men whom I assume are their boyfriends - They walk slowly with a relaxed stride, looking around like they are just taking a stroll (means they are relaxed and receptive to an interaction) - They are not on their phones or wearing those big headphones - They make sustained eye contact with me and smile - They linger around me giving me an opportunity to open an interact… | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Does she like me or was she being friendlyOnce the opportunity passes it's over, compliment a woman when you're attracted to her so she knows. Otherwise she'll just get a friendly vibe from you and disqualify you and then it's very difficult to come back from that. Source: experienced it many times. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Should I Be More Picky, Even if It Means Fewer Dates?You have to qualify for values that you're looking for in order to filter out incompatible women. If you just go out with women because they have a pretty face you'll lead yourself into destruction. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Should I Be More Picky, Even if It Means Fewer Dates?Why the hell would you pay for dates? Go on a walk in the park for dates to filter out the ones who are using you for a free meal... buying a meal for a girl is 3-4th date vibes, almost entering into relationship zone. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:38 PM |
| 2 | I want to sign up for a bootcamp in Spain or the NetherlandsWhy don't women "allow approach"? Can't you just walk up to them and say hi? Women's biology is the same all over the world, you just have to enter into their subconscious through seduction and break their defenses created by their culture. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Need your guidanceDo what I do to avoid overthinking: countdown from 3, 2, 1, and GO. On go, just go and say hi and blank your mind. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Having a hard time closing, getting IG or number, good at conversationPractice | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | A guy asked to do night game with me and I wish I didn’t agree.Where are you located? I'm interested in a wingman too | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Expectations for the male 20yo dating experienceFocus on college and developing your life first and foremost. Start doing cold approaches in high volume areas where there's young attractive women (cities, beaches, college). | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 03:03 PM |
| -12 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?Get off instagram, what are you 12? | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Hinge dating app review and perspectiveIt's really not, if a girl is uninterested she'll just tell me she has a boyfriend or maybe walk by me and ignore me. I have been ignored by one woman who seemed depressed, and a majority have a conversation with me they enjoy the attention and compliments but then tell me they have a boyfriend. One girl gave me her number but I was unable to get her to go on a walk with me to get to know her better. I seriously doubt any single woman would turn down a cute guy who respectfully comes up to her a… | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Hinge dating app review and perspectiveI'm like 100% sure hinge hides all the good matches you will be compatible with behind a paywall, so really there's no point to using dating apps unless you pay. The paywall feature causes a strange dynamic on hinge. People who pay will obsessively use the apps. Men will go on hundreds of dates with their selection of women since their likes are at the top of the queue and women will not swipe through hundreds of profiles. Women using hinge won't be able to lock down a guy to commit because they… | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Hinge dating app review and perspectiveHave you tried cold approaching at all? | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Women staringIf the girl you're on a date with goes to the bathroom, cold approach the other girl and tell her that the girl you're with is just a work friend / classmate if she asks. Remember ABCs, Always Be Closing. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Women staringIf the girl you're on a date with goes to the bathroom, cold approach the other girl and tell her that the girl you're with is just a work friend / classmate if she asks. Remember ABCs, Always Be Closing. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Anyone tried using subliminal messages to improve your seduction skills? Just remembered one long session created by myself. What do you guys think of it?You are on the right path. Exactly what I tell everyone I love, if you don't program your own reality it will be programmed for you. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Anyone tried using subliminal messages to improve your seduction skills? Just remembered one long session created by myself. What do you guys think of it?Yes, but the most important thing is that you believe what you say to yourself and that you prove it to yourself so your subconscious mind starts seeing yourself that way. For example, if you say "I am an outgoing person", but you're really shy and timid, slowly start doing things that prove to your subconscious mind that prove your affirmation. If you go to an event and see someone standing around ask for their name and get to know them. This will reinforce the belief in your head that you are … | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Escalate to sex through text. URGENTYou shouldn't outright ask for sex to women, you have to lead them to it, usually by kissing. Many women have grown up with shame around sex, you have to empower them to want it themselves in order to get them to open up to you. Show them it's safe to be sexual by leading them through touching and kissing. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting dumped after one date?Dating apps are an unnatural way to meet women. Even if you both find each other attractive on the profiles, in person the pheromones and synergies might not be a match. That's why I prefer cold approach, because you can instantly gauge if you guys like each other, but I digressed. If she says she "didn't feel the chemistry/vibe" it means she either wasn't into you or you came off more as a friend. Also, personally I don't like coffee dates because they're boring and it feels like an interview /… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 05:01 PM |
| 32 | Anyone tried using subliminal messages to improve your seduction skills? Just remembered one long session created by myself. What do you guys think of it?This is called "positive affirmations" and it is incredibly powerful. I did this for months and my mental state entirely shifted. I would write down "I am ..." "I can ..." "I have ..." statements in my notes app every day. For example, "I can express my interest to an attractive women respectfully", or "I accept that not everyone who I talk to will want to talk with me and that's ok because not everyone who talks to me I am interested in talking to them". | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Why I struggled with women as an engineerI recommend finding a good therapist and attending at least 5-6 sessions before deciding if they're good or not. If you do therapy you sort of need to open up about why you're going. The therapist will ask you why you felt like going. A good therapist can get you to open up and realize things about yourself, but sometimes it takes a lot of sessions. No one can get self therapy because you need a skilled unbiased third party who can correct your flawed cognitive patterns. Give it a try. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | No instagramInstagram is fake and a waste of time. Our ancestors didn't use instagram to meet new people. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel unable to seduce with a cold approach. How overcome it and start meet women? (33M)Sounds like what I experience sometimes. Your fight or flight symptoms start kicking in whenever you have an interaction and instead of dialing up the interest you start "panicking" from fear of judgement / rejection and instead of "fight", you pick "flight" and run away from all interactions that could lead you somewhere great with women. You need to ground yourself in the interactions. Force yourself not to leave, and try to relax. When you run out of things to say just try mindfulness meditat… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 04:25 PM |
| 5 | How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls?I think just straight up asking her, "hey do you have any single friends that are looking for a boyfriend that you could bring along? I'm looking to meet someone." works fine. If she shows any resistance to this then she's not a good friend. She's already in a relationship so why does it matter to her what you want to do? | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are the best environments to find highly intelligent, witty women?Quantum physics conventions | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowCool, good luck with your anxious women. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 03:13 AM |
| -2 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowNot everything is being rejected or accepted. You sound like you've never experienced friendships. Friends aren't always available. If you really have an abundance mentality it doesn't matter what she thinks of you, so who cares. Even if she doesn't seem too enthusiastic you could still try reaching out while simultaneously dating other women. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 03:13 AM |
| – | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowDude you're seeing the world in terms that are black and white, not everything is at such an extreme as she does or doesn't like you. You're giving out toxic advice. Reread what I just said, some women/men go through hard times and aren't interested in dating at times and then they open back up to the idea much later. It's happened to me already multiple times where women will try messaging me months / weeks after I reached out multiple times but I had already moved on so I just continue being f… | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 03:07 AM |
| – | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowNot at all, there's many reasons that women do this that have nothing to do with you. She might be super busy, going through a hard time, or have self esteem problems. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 02:44 AM |
| – | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowYeah, but I disagree with the "if you keep contacting her it lowers your perceived value" part. You don't lose or gain value just because you reach out to someone. If you're begging to see her and you text her every day to hang out then yeah that's really not a good look, it looks needy. But if you message her that you're going to go do something with friends and you invite her to come, or if you ask her once a week if she wants to go out on a date then there's nothing wrong with that. If someon… | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 02:42 AM |
| – | fucked a very hot mutual friend, she only does serious relationships, i would like her to be fwb or a fling. What should i do?You said "I haven't told anyone either, just one of my guy friend who wanted to ask her out so I had to come clean." This means you told one of your guy friends that her mom has a personality disorder to try to discourage him from pursuing her. What else would it mean? | /r/seduction | 19/01/24 03:36 PM |
| – | fucked a very hot mutual friend, she only does serious relationships, i would like her to be fwb or a fling. What should i do?Dude you are an asshole. You told someone else about her health condition so they wouldn't ask her out? There's so many other women, just go talk to another one. | /r/seduction | 19/01/24 03:26 PM |
| – | fucked a very hot mutual friend, she only does serious relationships, i would like her to be fwb or a fling. What should i do?Here's what I would recommend. This girl is hot but crazy. She's playing hot and cold to mess with your head and get you to fall in love with her further. Seeing how the other women "find her annoying", this could mean she's very controlling or narcissistic. Be careful. My advice is to detach yourself from this girl. Fantasize about other women to detach yourself from this girl (this is the only time I advise using porn). Also cold approach like crazy and try finding a girl who is mentally healt… | /r/seduction | 19/01/24 03:24 PM |
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