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JustAboutDone3070/r/askMRP18/08/21 04:39 PM
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Previously for sure… I had 8 years of CC’s… wouldn’t have to work if I could’ve sold them. I am mostly beyond that now. It really has just taken time, attention and mindfulness to work past them. They just didn’t go away after a month of MRP. I am still mindful of them for sure. I do still check myself at times “why am I doing this?”. That said…had I’m not made mention… I’m sure someone else would have of course.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 12:23 AM
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Discussion of children after 3 months… wait what?!?
/r/askMRP18/08/21 02:05 AM
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You’re right and as I said “I failed” at keeping my level of fitness up. No one to blame but myself. Motivation was probably the wrong word to use, I lacked proper discipline. I was comfortable and got lazy. Again… my fault. Being content and not getting my family out of the house… my fault. Even if they are homebodies… I failed at creating opportunities. Comfortable/content is clearly a pitfall for me. My T levels were okay a year or so back, I suspect it’s possible they may be a bit lower with…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 10:16 PM
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OYS #11 42- 6’1” 210 22% (Naval) Married 11, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male It’s been over a year since I’ve been to this sub or read anything MRP. I guess I was curious and started reading the threads yesterday. Doing so has shown me where I have been successful and where I have failed. Fitness/Diet- I failed here… with all the quarantine time I lost motivation and didn’t lift like I should. I also gained some weight back due to poor diet. This was a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 02:57 PM
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OYS #10 Self discipline is the strongest form of self care. 42- 6’1” 183 18% (Naval) Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male Previous weeks short term goals- got my family outside for more activities. Gamed my wife more... failed at finishing the book. Finishing the book is just not high on my list right now, my finances are very stable and I’m focused on other areas. Regardless I failed my goal. Fitness/Diet- I have this course locked in, I’m not w…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 12:37 PM
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OYS #10 Self discipline is the strongest form of self care. 42- 6’1” 184 18% (Naval) Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male Been a few weeks since I posted, need to get back to this more regularly. Likely had the Corona virus a few weeks ago. I would say it was a mild case, but enough to take me out a handful of days. Had to take off work for 2 weeks. It was a very loooong 2 weeks, shitting weather did not help either. My reading has been shit! Sti…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 03:32 PM
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I married the latter... faggot me felt she was the safe option after a handful of the crazy ones. I can say there never was the spark of wild excitement with her. Who knows maybe that will change as I “Man Up”.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 05:06 PM
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FWIW it’s like pulling teeth to get her to talk at times. She is for sure not typical, very to herself. Not like many other girls/women I’ve been involved with. That is why I think there is a break in our emotional connection. I thought possibly encouraging her would open her up more. I can ask how her day was when I walk in for an entire week and get nothing but 1 word reply’s. I don’t actually have to listen to her much. When she lost her shit the other day about corona it was for literally 5 …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 03:52 PM
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OYS #9 Self discipline is the strongest form of self care. 42- 6’1” 189lbs 19% (Naval) Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male I have been listening to “The Richest Man In Babylon”. Need to finish this week. Received “Boys Adrift” in the mail the other day. I’m looking forward to reading it. Fitness/Diet- Working out at home, have a bench, bowflex dumbbells, hung a pull up bar and built a dip station. I’ve started a new leg/core workout as my back c…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 10:45 AM
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The name calling or “subject change” would come after a negative inquiry. I did in fact set boundaries on the name calling and then I would leave the room. I did not have the option to leave the house that day. Edit- I should say I chose not to... maybe that was the wrong decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 01:58 PM
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OYS #8 Be Attractive, Be Awesome, Be in the moment 42- 6’1” 198lbs (21% Naval) Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male Fitness/Diet- Kept at it this week. Maintaining course, lost some more weight. I skipped one lifting session as I was feeling overtrained. Increased my calories a bit for 2 days. Mental/Mindset- I feel good after this last week. However the entire weekend was basically one big shit test. I stayed in my own frame pretty well and didn…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 11:29 AM
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I did read the Epic Test post last week (more than once to be honest) and it really turned a light on for me . Good stuff for sure. This last week I really felt like I’m starting to build some frame. I’ve mentioned before I have it at work, I have it with family/friends...but at home it’s been more difficult. I believe this goes back to having the incorrect mental point of origin. Early on a was just larping NGAF attitude. But now in the house I feel more at ease, I’m just going about my busines…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 01:41 PM
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OYS #7 Be Attractive, Be Awesome, Be in the moment 42- 6’2” 200lbs (23% -Naval) Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male Fitness/Diet- Kept at it this week. Lifted 3 times and cardio 3 times. Foot’s on the gas here and I’m really enjoying the workouts. Scale is kinda all over the place with pound or 2 fluctuations. I did see 199 one day and that’s the first time I’ve been under 200 in 18 years. Mental/Mindset- Lots of realizations this week after Hor…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 12:42 PM
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This post was just what I needed and has set some things straight in my head with my ego. Funny enough I get home last night and as I’m playing tug of war with the dog, I start receiving comments about how I’m getting “too skinny”. NOT too skinny...heading to right where I want to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/20 02:52 PM
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This is spot on... TRM sent me into a second anger phase that far eclipsed the first phase. I was not ready for it and I allowed myself to backslide.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 06:44 PM
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I would agree, however I am not doing strong lifts at the moment. I have a torn/bulged/extruded disc. I am not in a race to increase my weights. Working thru the rep range allows me to continue to be progressive, without increasing the weight too fast. I recently began easing into squats with the bar if that puts things into perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 02:45 PM
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OYS #6 Be Attractive, Be Awesome, Be in the moment 42- 6’2” 200lbs (23% -Naval) Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male Fitness/Diet- Staying on course with the diet, have been on keto for the last week. All food has been logged. I went slightly above my calories on 2 days this weekend. Weight has dropped more but I know it’s just water from keto. My back flared up from work on Tuesday, but is back on the mend. I know it was just a small set back an…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 12:13 PM
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That’s a good point. While things were greatly improved and there weren’t any serious red flags. I was not perfect(absolute). I’m going to think back to areas I could have been better. Maybe moving forward I should keep a few notes. I may be able to see patterns of my behavior or an area specifically that needs work.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 12:20 PM
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OYS #5 Be Attractive, Be Awesome, Be in the moment 42- 6’2” 205lbs (23%), Married 9, 1 child NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, SGM, TMMSLP, 16C Poon, Day Bang, Rational Male Fitness/Diet- Another lb down this week. Body composition is changing for sure. Took measurements and I’m down an inch on my waist, 1/2 and 3/4 inch down on thighs and hips in the last 3 weeks. I have a passion inside me to get back in shape like I was in my 20’s. I can see in my mind what I’m going to look like and I know I will get the…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 10:29 AM
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Yep, you’re right. I see how I wrote that and it gives away underlying thoughts/perspective of mine. Somewhere in there is probably a covert contract, if she loses weight she will be happier and the relationship will be better. That’s bullshit...I get it now, thanks for taking the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 01:05 AM
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She is not part of my MAP, this is for me. MRP fixes the man, not the marriage. I realize I cannot gage my “success” on her or my child. Is being a leader to my family and setting my best example something I should not concern myself with???
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 12:46 AM
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I’m well I aware that she needs my help, I cannot overtly try to control her food or try making her go to the gym. I need to lead by example and display attractive behaviors.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 12:23 AM
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OYS #4 42- 6’2” 206lbs Married 9, one child Be Attractive, Be Awesome, Be in the moment The last 2 weeks I have been repeating the above on my drive to work. I have been shit and back slid the last couple months. I have been full of anger and it had dropped me into depression. But I’m bringing it back one day at a time. I’ve stopped looking so far ahead and trying to be in the moment. Fitness/Diet- My back is on the mend, I’m feeling 85 percent restored. I’m no longer wincing when getting out of…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 06:26 PM
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Good call...time for me to go back to the sidebar and start over.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 06:14 PM
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I have requested this and free T as well... the doctor’s assistant originally ordered the test for just “total testosterone”. I’ll also have my follow up with a different doctor that has been recommended to me. What’s the general opinion here with 435 for a guy in his early 40’s? When I did some searching, it seemed that this was low?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:31 PM
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You’re right a lot of it was me thinking out loud. Lots of realizations and trying to pinpoint the root cause of my unhappiness. I know I need to find something to do with myself...Maybe I’m too much in my own head as late. I’m reading more and looking for things that may interest me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:28 PM
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OYS#3 42- 6’2 210lbs (22% naval) Married 9 years , 1 child Readings: I read Rational Male and my mind was blown. It also spun my mind back into the anger phase for a while. Recently began reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Physical/Health- I have 2 bad discs, the disc that is worse off is bulged, extruded and has a slight tear. The less damaged disc is slightly bulged. I continue to work on core, hip, and leg exercises almost daily. The pain has decreased to some extent, but I don't know if I will ever…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 04:36 PM
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“Cool babe, now I can bring my girlfriend with.”
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:12 PM
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At your weight you should be able to drop 20 the first month without much effort on keto, what are you waiting for man???
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 12:03 AM
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Are you jerking off to your neighbor??? That’s probably not very religious either? I thought I was being a good boy by waiting to have sex till marriage ... then I caved at 23 or 24.... I can tell you what a fucking waste of my youth! Nobody dies thinking “boy I really had too much sex in my life”. Edit: You need to read Rational Male!
/r/askMRP18/10/19 02:47 PM
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Did you just become attractive enough that your morning initiations were accepted? I ask because lately I’m just not feeling night time sex, I’m worn out and it’s just not what I’d like it to be.
/r/askMRP16/10/19 07:05 PM
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Got it... it’s an overall attitude, thinking about it shouldn’t be happening. Edit: and I still suck at Reddit(replying).
/r/askMRP13/10/19 06:49 PM
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How does all this kino not come off as being needy? Yeah... I know “do what I want”... but if I’m putting the moves on my wife in this room and that hallway... and in the kitchen... how does it not come off as trying to hard? How am I not being too “dedicated” to her... I know when I’m a touch withdrawn but fun and not being a fucking autistic retard... my wife closes the gap and comes to me. I’m not trying to over think this... just curious.
/r/askMRP13/10/19 02:10 AM
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You are clearly not listening or invested in the plan that others have laid out. Negotiating sex doesn’t work and it’s repeated in these threads and the sidebar .... Over and over and over and over... Same goes with lifting.... Its repeated over and over and over and over... Do it! You are trying to play a hand(game) that you haven’t a clue about.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 03:20 PM
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I keep reading everyone here saying 15 percent will change the dynamic. Sure, I’d like sex a little more available, but this isn’t just about sex for me. Will the decreased body fat help bring my wife more into my frame? My wife is at least 60lbs overweight maybe more... (my fault I know) Do I need to use some caution even with passive dread? I’m often confused about how much comfort I should be giving, without coming off as needy or being too focused on her. I’d really appreciate some thoughts …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 06:55 PM
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OYS #2 6’2 210lbs (22% naval) Married 9 years , 1 child Readings: I picked up Rational Male as well as 31 days to Masculinity. Will start reading these today/tomorrow. Physical/Health- I received results to a full blood scan yesterday. Everything is where it should be, blood pressure is good as well. Back (discs) continues to bother me. This is from an injury 10 years ago that put me out of commission for 2-3 months. Picking up/supporting anything over 90 pounds is very uncomfortable. I’ve talke…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 02:43 PM
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These are good thoughts to ponder here, thanks. I shouldn’t think about a power struggle, that’s getting in her head. I did in fact take the BJ, said nothing...I know if I say “no, I just want sex” it comes off as butthurt, needy, childish. You’re right I’m being a faggot thinking about it...move forward and be a stud! I did a lot of digging into threads about anger and validation yesterday. As far validation for “feeing loved” that was stomped out early and very easily. I want her to desire me …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 01:35 PM
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Had this exact situation last night... said her pussy needed a rest from the night before, says she’s happy to take care of me... I don’t want a blow job I want to fuck her brains out. There may be a few things at ... I feel at times she is clinging to having some sort of control over our sex life as I’ve taken the reigns pretty much elsewhere. If this is the case I sidebar, lift, STFU and t should correct itself???? I also know I’ve had some sort of covert contract with myself that I’m working …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 02:22 PM
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I’ll have to do this on a computer next time, pardon the shitty mobile formatting. It’s occurred to me this morning after I posted this I really have a good amount of anger left in me... the “anger phase” seems to have passed but I still have spikes at time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 11:48 AM
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This shit works- OYS #1 RP swallowed May 2019 41, 6’2” 210lbs(22% naval) Married 9 years, one child Readings: No more Mr. Nice guy When I say no, I feel guilty The mindful attraction Plan Sex god method The married man sex life primer 2011 Saving a low sex marriage 16 commandments of poon Day Bang Reading MRP subreddits all the time This is my first OYS after almost 5 months. As much as I enjoy reading OYS and have often wanted to write something up many times. My time is somewhat limited and I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 10:31 AM
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I’m still a faggot at times, but things are on the up and up. She is a good amount overweight and the dread is sinking in with my smv being a good 2 points above her’s... she’s become anxious and worried at times and I’m still learning how to balance the right amount of comfort. I know I’m failing comfort tests. Going to post my first OYS tomorrow... been lurking and implementing the last 4.5 months.
/r/askMRP01/10/19 03:13 AM
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Do they ever change? I have to push thru a last line of defense almost every god damn time... she cannot admit she wants it...she is a “mother” she “works with children for a living” ... maybe it’s Catholic shame... But i guess it all doesn’t really matter. I’m just getting better at reading her subtle cues and knowing if I push thru or not.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 03:13 PM
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I need to do this... I’m almost 5 months in and have experienced great improvement with myself. I always seem just a bit busy to sit down and begin typing it all out. That being said it would be great to be able to interact with people here and maybe establish a few “online friends” to discuss things with.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 07:57 PM
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