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I'm suggesting they live their life for their own enjoyment. when did u do that? you literally said read a book and travel. lots of people don't give a shit about that stuff. Have a passport and travel. But it doesn't need to be some "loser back home" passport bro life. every girl I meet into travel is an immediate "i'm boring as fuck and have no real inner life." epitome of being basic. i'm an artist in a big city though so it's actually uncommon in my circles. i mentioned passporting because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:52 AM
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sounds like a tremendous amount of effort. isn't the TRP/incel stuff all about how women can just simply exist and get wifed/fucked all they want but its the men who need to do a thousand things they wouldn't want to do to get a crumb of pussy? you're just saying the same rhetoric. if these guys just want to get laid the better advice would be to passport. then they dont have to pretend to read book or whatever. which gets roasted on tiktok anyway for being the "performative man."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:36 AM
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a forever gf? you mean a wife? tf you talking about? and idk what trad with modern views means. do you? it's vague enough not to mean anything. but I'd bet it means he makes more money than her, she takes time off when they have kids because he earns enough, she can do soft girl shit if she wants, etc. This is the new "it" thing on social media so. tradwife is already dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:34 AM
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what's unrealistic about this? way more likely than 6-6-6-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:29 AM
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but there is no such thing as being kind alone. i already said that.... anyway this is like talking to a wall. have a good night lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:23 AM
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well i said it. "sounds like there are more fundamental things than your values then." stated another way: "I'm attracted to men with similar values. One of those values is kindness. But being kind to me wouldn't make you attractive to me." doesnt make sense to me. seems like you're attracted to something more fundamental than your values then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:19 AM
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idk man i think this post nuking so many commenter here shows this subreddit isn't a serious place anymore. wonder what the mods think tbh... anyway, OP's post is pretty much just the converse of the sexy son hypothesis, which argues that female mate selection is about having sexy sons. OP is taking a step farther and declaring that women might want to consider their own genetics when having sons who might end up being unsexy. OP could also put the onus on men. e.g. if you're a sexy man then don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:16 AM
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But kindness alone isn't going to attract me. And if I'm not interested in someone, them being kind to me isn't going to suddenly make me attracted to them. well, nothing "alone" is gonna attract anyone, right? i mean it doesn't exist. there aren't just kindness objects floating around trying to fuck. it's always attached to a holistic being. idk having trouble with the 2nd part. sounds like there are more fundamental things than your values then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:06 AM
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interesting. so is kindness not one of the values you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:01 AM
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What's ambition in video games look like? I'm a writer and run a very small publishing company. I do not make enough money from either to lose my day job. I'm an accountant. But I have an intern (who I don't pay) and a business partner. I have relationships with libraries, bookstores, and cafes in my large city (not NYC but a top 10 USA city). I have a big network of people in my city that I will bump into people I know regularly at random places, and if it's a place I'm a "regular" at I know ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:00 AM
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there isn't a connection. you gotta be seriously stupid to think Tinder didn't radically transform online dating/hooking up. As a guy in college when it started exploding in popularity, the difference was night and day...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:46 AM
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the key here is that most young guys are "looksmaxxxing" because they don't want to have to approach women. they want the women to throw themselves at them or to pass the threshold where apps become viable. id bet a lot of these guys don't even go out like you did. as for the nice guy stuff idk. if it worked for you that's good ig. what mattered more than anything is you were present and shared a good time and didn't make them have to come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:45 AM
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so what do u find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:42 AM
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per his post history, he's a white guy very into black girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:41 AM
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real talk very smart progressive girls are the first ones to roast you for not being masculine. for showing emotions, being depressed, having a small dick, being short, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:48 PM
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clean cut contractor what? describe it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:50 PM
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your backtracking now lol. neat. have a good nye.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:46 PM
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huh? my point is that oversharing about your sex life is more common in women than it is in men. It's relevant because your original post suggested men share all the same. And we're in a thread centered around women oversharing about their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:34 PM
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some men? some women fuck dogs. who gives a shit. there are "some" of everything. dumbass take.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:30 PM
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whatever u say. but as an adult man i guarantee ive have orders of magnitude more conversations with men about everything under the sun than you have. i imagine the same is true for you with women. and im saying it's very uncommon for men to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:26 PM
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dudes never do. at most the conversation is "hooked up with X." rarely are there details. meanwhile women are yapping about dick size, how long he lasted, and everything else under the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:16 PM
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nah they just want to live like rich social media girlies. women are getting nuked by social media right out in the open and nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:46 PM
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nfl QB is feminine as fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:24 PM
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well yeah i think generally people don't want to be shamed for their lifestyle. and we buy people's consent every day. that's called a transaction. a guy cooked my meal last night that i've never met, don't even know his name nor he mine. he wasn't doing it because he liked me lol. he did it because I paid him. I never even saw him!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:04 PM
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but they do want it...because they're getting paid. the guy making my burger doesn't even know me, won't even see my face. is he not consenting either? lol clown ass take
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:53 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:48 PM
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it's literally all social media bullshit. social media is all about subtle displays of wealth. that's all it is. for a while traveling has been the go-to way to do that. trad wifing was another one for a minute. homesteading. vanlifing in outrageous 100k+ builds or with vintage VWs that cost 60k. now it's all about "being led," the "soft girl" Pilates princess lifestyle. Essentially, as less people want kids, or want them later, this is the new SAHM. The man works and earns enough that the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:33 PM
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well the paying part is what creates consent so idk wtf you're talking about..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:29 PM
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Don't be obtuse. What obligation does society have to keep its constituents alive? The thing is we'd all agree there is one. In fact, we'd all agree that society ought to help its constituents flourish. I mean, a society feeding someone dog food and dirty water that constantly keeps them ill isn't a good society either, so on some level we agree that flourishing matters too. It's not just about "not dying." And so then where does sex and love stand here? In my opinion, some of the most important…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:26 PM
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yeah but i bet a lot of them would use them and eventually it'd dispel the mystery of women to them and give them a ton of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:03 PM
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wait what? you're all gonna shower together? wild stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:00 PM
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i was obese until like 30 never even kissed then lost the weight and got laid. the woman was actually kinda into it, but I think it might have been because my "issue" had been practically fixed. idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:34 PM
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it's way harder to date as a single mom, come on. the red pill is dead wrong about OF chicks though. Most guys don't care especially when you're that caliber of hot. Caleb Williams just started dating an OF girl. What's more "high value" than a hot star QB on a playoff NFL team? And the girl is actually four years older than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:25 PM
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actually do agree. im 32 and stopped gaming after high school and, ironically, now it's a pretty cool hobby a lot of girls are into. incidentally, the hottest girl at work is a huge gamer (has a bf tho RIP lucky guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:52 PM
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disagree but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:48 PM
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nope. but ill amend what I said to "legalize, regulate, and innovate prostitution so that it doesn't hurt women" if that makes u happy. problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:27 PM
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It's obviously true. Why it's true is another story. I think the arguments about biology are asinine. Ultimately, it doesn't matter why, just that it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:26 PM
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i genuinely do not think any of you people can feel love for someone. who gives a fuck if, initially, she was just "decent." If I'm in love with her I don't fucking care. Science backs this up with things like the mere exposure effect. We fall more in love with people, and they literally become more attractive to us, as we spend more quality time with them. When I was like 8 or 9 years old, I watched a true crime documentary. A woman had disappeared. The documentary began with the the story of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:19 PM
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tell that to any obese guy with an obese sister who has no problem getting dates while he can't even get one. or the fact that BBW is way, way, way (like astronomically so) more common than fat guy. i can't even think of a name for that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:12 PM
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true. never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:08 PM
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legalize and regulate prostitution. make more men aware of passporting. male loneliness ends. simple as that, jack. there's a reason most iterations of society had legal prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:55 AM
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It would make a lot of sense if the kinds of guys saying that have never actually stepped foot in a Waffle House.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:45 PM
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saying there are a lot of super hot waitresses isn't also saying all waitresses are super hot. that's such a lapse in basic logic that I'm troubled by your comment tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:43 PM
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yeah drinking being less common is a proxy for a wider issue. that wider issue is people not taking a chance on another person. unfortunately, it's usually the woman's fault. women aren't giving men a chance. im reminded of a clip from a famous athlete making fun of his daughter for rejecting a guy because he didn't have spotify premium on their first date. that kind of stuff is everywhere now. the barrier for a man to just be given a chance is massively increased. and now usually women will chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:18 PM
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no lol. never actually been to a waffle house. im in chicago though so that might be a reason for why there are limitless 10/10 waitresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:05 PM
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meaningless post because whatever my response is you can just say "well they should have had better foresight and made better decisions."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:50 PM
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yeah you're def. a woman. 32 y/o man here and my friends and I regularly see waitresses or bartenders that are extremely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:44 PM
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im a software engineer so im at wherever that guy is. but im a leftist precisely because most regularly intelligent (and the nearly 50% of people below that) don't have it easy. but i know it's like super lame to care about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:41 PM
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i think sugar daddying is a great idea for higher earning guys. that's not really Red Pill though. i know a guy in his mid-late forties who is in good shape but sugar daddies to the tune of $3-4k a month and has a body count in the hundreds now (he's been doing it for like a decade). He actually just offers it to girls. Like if he has a cute waitress he'll leave a big tip and his phone number. Seems to have a new girl every few weeks/months. Usually hot girls around college age. He buys them gif…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:38 PM
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anyway man i dont think you're saying anything worth my time anymore. have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:30 PM
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Bare minimum. Doesn't make him "good." Are you going to add "hasn't murdered anyone" to his supposed list of virtues too? I only put he has a job because an example of a "bad" guy is usually a deadbeat. Jesus christ you're insufferable. That's an attempt to wihitewash the ideology's evils. It's a fringe viewpoint for a reason. It's ultimately an ideology of jealousy, and wrapping it up in altruistic marketing isn't any more benevolent than an alt-righter and extreme far-right corporatist who bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:58 PM
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You specifically said "leftist." Liberal =/= leftist. Therefore, if he held mainstream left-of-center views, you would have said "liberal." He's not left of center. I would know because we have nearly the same politics. You don't know shit about politics is all lol. Most women seeking a life partner are looking for someone who is going to work alongside them in a market economy to build a better life together, not someone trying to overthrow "capitalism" and replace it with some shitty top-down …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:27 PM
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Outside of Reddit, "leftist" politics are extremely fringe and unpopular. Most women don't want to raise children with someone who calls pedofiles "MAPs", wants to decriminalize everything short of actual murder, sees nothing wrong with drag queens reading stories about transitions to first graders, thinks everything should be free while not realizing that working and middle class families (like the one she might want to start with him) actually pay for the bulk of the supposedly "free" stuff, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:17 PM
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You actually can move whenever you want, you don't need to wait for a handsome prince to take you. seriously wtf are u talking about? that's not how immigration works in just about every single country. i'm beginning to think you're like 12 years old. why actively seek out barriers? b/c american women have outrageous standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:13 PM
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u cant just move to another country whenever u want... and idk what else to tell you. being in love matters more than a cultural barrier so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:33 AM
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this is autistic on the level of "idk why my coworkers always mention how crazy the weather is at the water cooler." Newsflash: it's about breaking the ice and starting a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:48 AM
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in short, I view LatAm as the West. It's so close culturally to the more directly European West. and families in different countries (and you're assuming someone will just up and move countries for your relationship)? well yeah. that's sort of the crux of passporting. you hope that the promise of a better life in America smooths over some of the issues. No different from immigration more broadly or historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:43 AM
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They are struggling now and now they want to back out of the deal. But the sexual revolution didn't happen now, it happened back in the late sixties. No, not now. I just said for a while. Once again, PUA stuff got big literally 20 years ago. It existed long before that. I'd encourage you to look into the beginnings of the "Pick Up Artist" because it tracks pretty strongly with the sexual revolution and its rise. Mid men have been increasingly excluded from the benefits of the sexual revolution w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:30 AM
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as far as i know, he gets pretty much no likes on apps. or if he does it's a bad situation (e.g. she's very far away).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:01 AM
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no they weren't chad weirdos sending dick pics. normal ass guys. Plus most women also idk maybe worry about their safety that they don't use these apps or sometimes don't even meet out irl on these dates. But somehow men are supposed to get dates on these apps while there is nothing beneficial if anything more risky for women maybe. but most couples are meeting online now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:00 AM
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passporting is such a cheat code. I think a lot of american guys not having success should highly consider it. you get to be chad if you want (or somewhat approximately Chad) and then eventually can marry a girl you like. bring her home. it's even kind of cute. like a lot of people try to hook up traveling as a part of the vacation (just ask every girl who goes to ibiza or Spring Break). you did the same thing and fell in love. that's kinda cute. and you can do all of this on like a 70k salary. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:05 AM
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i think guys should try that stuff and if it makes them happy keep doing it. i think clearly the pills are onto something. the weeds of their ideas are usually bullshit (like all evo. psych.). But you can't deny a lot of the realities (e.g. your physical appearance will dramatically improve your success and may be a potential explanation for why you're struggling, and also you may not be able to get yourself into a good enough place to overcome it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:49 AM
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what makes someone good? i know a man. he is 32 and: Financially stable. he makes about 52k a year. Has his own apartment. He can afford things but he's not rich. prob could get a house on DINK income in our area. He has a job obviously Has artistic hobbies Has lots of friends, goes out, etc. He volunteers his time to teach adults how to read. Leftist politics. Like anti-capitalist levels. Extremely empathetic and compassionate. We all did those enneagram tests and he got the diplomat. Has a dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:42 AM
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The truth is, mid-men wanted to partake in the sexual revolution but still enforce slut shaming. This is pretty obviously untrue. Mid men have been struggling to get girls for a while now. PUA shit sprang into popularity as hookup culture got bigger. PUA shit is all about mid men trying to get an invite to the party that hookup culture was having. What seems much more likely is that as that PUA stuff ran its course and hookup culture continued to ascend, mid men became even less desirable. Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:18 AM
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they do that to bait people, or to create the impression that they get with hotter girls. no straight man on planet earth actually thinks sweeney is mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:36 PM
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You got it all wrong. The black pill is mostly correct. It's really that simple. Much like theoretical physics, we can hunt around for an idea that explains what we observe. That's the black pill. It explains everything. But what is the black pill anyway? In essence, men are hornier than women due to testosterone, and this attraction is mostly physical. This means men are sexually and romantically interested in a much larger pool of women than the reverse. Women are only attracted to a small min…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:17 PM
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idk i feel like reece is pretty looksmatched. she might edge the guy out only because she's obviously in very good shape given her career. if that guy worked out as much as her they'd be perfectly looksmatched imo. she has a very basic, average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:57 AM
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i dont think the article is relevant..lol. anyway, im ugly and fat. ive had hangups expressing my sexuality because I've been perceived as so ugly all my life that it just feels like a burden, like smearing shit all over somebody or something. long story short is that I've only ever relied on dating apps which, since i am ugly, go nowhere. the result is i'm an early 30s virgin. it's actually kind of bizarre because I go out more and to more parties and stuff than like the hot people at work and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:38 AM
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has anyone not hot actually had any success with their friends playing matchmakers? i'm not hot and am the always single guy but i do have a lot of friends. guys and girls (usually the SOs of the guys). and i was thinking how like..not even a single time I've been set up with a friend. is it just because I'm so undesirable? or do my friends just suck. ditto for family too (e.g. a cousin introducing me to her friend or something). maybe it's just me and the people I know though. but still... saw …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:54 AM
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the x factor is having a soul. the NPC meme is kinda real tbh. most people live to fuck, eat food, travel a bit or a lot, settle down to crap out some kids (which originates in them finally their soul) and then die. but this lady sounds like a real lightning rides through her. lot of older doctors are similar because the profession used to not award the riches and status it does now, nor was the healthcare apparatus so enshittified yet. and so to become a doctor meant actually being passionate. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:26 AM
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for me it was because it was the only thing that made sense. you essentially try the blue pill stuff your whole life because it's the mainstream, standard view. You grow unhappy with your lack of success. Especially when you see how much success some guys have. And you notice things about those guys (the way they act, look etc.). Then you find something online that seems to explain what you're observing IRL on some basic level. And finito. id bet a lot of guys have a genesis experience where the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:48 PM
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i would expect a woman who is sleeping with a guy to know him better than i would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:13 PM
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if it was ten dollars for the surgery would u agree? realistically, hair transplants in turkey are way way cheaper than people think (like $4k incl. recovery in a hotel). as far as cosmetic surgery goes, I think most guys should keep it in their sights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:08 PM
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just google it, man. it doesn't need to be big. certain positions will do it or anal. you can even put pressure on it from the stomach. and only some women work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:05 PM
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This fact is a key to unlocking a lot of the issues men present here. I live in Chicago and it's mostly a relationship town. But I've been to NYC, LA, Miami, and other coastal cities and I've noticed that dating is far more transient. On top of that, the younger a girl is, the less likely she wants to be in a relationship. Then there's hookup culture and dating apps the world over. Add those things together and you get a large class of young men who just aren't cutting it -- as in being that "1%…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:07 PM
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idk how nobody has said this to you yet, but the "women are not into men" thing is EXACTLY about women being only into a very small % of men. Like it's literally the stickied post on the subreddit /r/womenarenotintomen "I want to mention that this sub is about noticing that male interest in women exceeds women's interest in males. Not necessarily the complete denial of any female heterosexuality." In other words, you actually agree with the "womenarenotintomen" position.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:01 PM
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traveling was the thing that convinced me women actually are into men. it's pretty crazy how much more women are into you when you're a bit exotic. and i mean even if you're like the avg. young white guy who isn't wealthy nor is projecting wealth. hell, even in hostels and shit you'll see it because the women are just more open there for w.e. reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:33 AM
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once again, if that's not coherent...goood luck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:16 PM
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if that explanation didn't do it for you then I nor God can help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:01 PM
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what? you said male hypergamy is friendzoning because that's how men date out of their league. i said no, it's hypergamy/wealth. that's the real way men date outside their league. nobody cares you're poly. somehow the woman made the comments about herself. imagine that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:55 PM
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that's a pretty tortured point. there's no way to argue against it. and you never make the case that women and men are the same level of "initially lonely." therefore, it might just be the case that men are more initially lonely and hence in the downstream are more "actually lonely." /shrug. who's to say? you haven't given anything to chew on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:53 PM
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No, you got it flipped. Women don't have romantic relationships because they don't want them anymore unless it's Chad. Men don't have romantic relationships because of the prior sentence. Hence, their outlets for this frustration are different. One is a choice, the other is not. It's like saying "an independent wealthy person is much happier at their job" vs. "a gainfully employed person is less happy and more stressed out at theirs."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:46 PM
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male hypergamy is status and wealth. that's what elevates you out of your looksmatch. and there's a reason most of those guys are serial cheaters / in open relationships. the drive toward those things often correlates with a non-monogamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:43 PM
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she's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:41 PM
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social media is destroying gender relations. women are incredibly prone to social cues and influence. it's why status is catnip for them. women will bang ugly old men who are rockstars because status is so powerful. it's extremely well documented that women showing interest in a man makes other women more interested in him. the rise of "snowbunnies" is due to a deliberate effort to popularize interracial porn. we can go on and on about this. My favorite example is circumcision. Women in the USA,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:29 PM
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it's interesting that the gender wars online are evolving into this belief that women are simply not into men (/r/womenarenotintomen). maybe it makes sense that this was the inevitable conclusion idk. it's interesting to see so many women here essentially agreeing with it in their responses below.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:23 AM
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I tend to disagree. I'm in my early 30s and been single for a while. It affects your social life in a pretty major way, especially now as a lot of friends are having kids and thus are very limited in social activities. Being single means you aren't doing any couples nights you friends do. It means you don't have a partner to do random things with like go to the Christkindle market, go to the fancy mall with the pretty Christmas lights, go ice skating, etc. There's a reason people say shit like "…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:12 AM
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revenge porn is illegal pretty much in every state and most people are against it. so it sounds like you agree this woman should be criminally punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:02 AM
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r u sure? i've been informed hundreds of times here that "well akutally the avg. body count is 4 and hook up culture isn't real"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:59 AM
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then unattractive people should no longer exist. maybe the dumbest post ive ever read. nobody serious actually assigns any kind of intent behind evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:56 AM
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or maybe he's in love with you and you make him happy and have great sex with him all the time so he doesn't even want to hook up with anybody else idk. love is real sorry u cant feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:17 PM
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the ultimate black pill is that these people and many people here -- through various outside forces -- are unable to fall in love. Like truly in love with someone. Viewing other people as transactions is the beginning of the end for love. Ditto for the brain-melting realization of just how many people are out there, how much "choice" you have, and the creeping feeling that anybody you actually begin to like risks the so-dreaded settling. For men this often includes copious porn usage. For women …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:18 AM
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yeah there are way less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:06 AM
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nah because trad stuff is an obvious loser for incel men. not even joking i think the obvious solution politically is legalizing and regulating prostitution. it'd give incels a reason to get a job. now they can buy companionship without worry of it ruining their life. and i think them having regular (say, once a month) sexual contact with women will demystify women and make the guy way more confident when interacting with women, two things that will help end their inceldom. hell, id even say a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:25 AM
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yeah i can say i know one IRL "Chad" type guy and he's not a fuckboy. married and shit. as far as I know doesn't even think about cheating or having side chicks or shit like that. imo OP is talking about a small subset of people. Nowhere near the normal. I call them the "Miami Class." Plenty of extremely hot girls aren't fawning over football players in their DMs or whatever. Actually, my buddies sister had an MLB player DM her and she just ignored him lol (and she's not even that hot..). I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:13 AM
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your anecdotes are meaningless because they can be fiction. but it does seem like a trend for celebrities, athletes, etc., to cheat, have escorts, or be in some form of a non-monogamous relationship. Hard to deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:26 AM
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Oh yeah I’m sure you would kick a gorgeous woman many men want out of bed right?? Idiot. It goes both ways. I wouldn't because I see people as individuals. Are you trying to say men aren't turned off by high body count women? Bold take. And if you mean a woman that many men want but she hasn't "ridden the carousel," then....that's most women...because most men want most women. But I'm sure you're also going to say that "well acktually, it's very very hard for any decent looking girl to actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:24 PM
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they'd ask about his experience with italian food, or some specific fushion, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:19 PM
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yeah women HATE guys that other women want. everybody knows that! .and I'm the low IQ one hahaha. Genuinely sorry that you've warped your mind to viewing all this stuff as fucked up and transactional and sad. but I promise you can escape it by...not posting hundreds of posts on this subreddit in a weekend. That's step 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:02 PM
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it's a social media thing. same with the growing "soft girl pilates princess" type of shit. it's all wealth signals disguised as something else. world travel is another form of this (often the two overlap even) but it's waning. i predict non-working women who make videos all day while boyfriend works AND are childless will be a major, major social media hidden wealth signal in the next few years and then a new trend will pop up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:01 PM
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yep nonstory. "single" as in the same way you'd file with the IRS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:58 PM
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wtf are you talking about? i never said anything about body count. i think your reading comprehension is very poor. I believe sex is spiritual and sacred and you're over here talking about body count hahaha. let me check.....and yep, no surprise, you've made like 100 posts in this subreddit in like 24 hours. wild stuff. Once again, keep getting pumped and dumped and I'll keep living. always the same pattern with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:56 PM
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anyone just ignore the cooking analogy. have a good one, this clearly isn't in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:52 PM
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whatever you say, bro. keep getting pumped and dumped while I'm out here living.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:51 PM
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sex sex sex. blah blah blah. do women still not fucking get it? like seriously. I'll be upfront about it right now for you. Men love sex because it validates their masculinity. It's spiritual. The reason a woman fucking a man will have him "putting up with more crap" is because of how sex is spiritual to men. Getting off is the tip of the iceberg when it comes to what sex means for a man. Most men know this and it's why women with slutty pasts bother them. It's reversed with women who of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:45 PM
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yeah i gotta admit. big L for the OP here. That quote is in the voice of a character who does insane shit throughout the whole book. in fact it's way more bananas than the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:42 PM
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Just tell me, who do you think is better at sex, a porn actress or a woman who has only had one partner her whole life. Let's say that husband died and now she's looking for a new partner. Out of these two women who is more likely to give that guy a better time? yeah one is better hooking up with strangers. but assuming that married couple had a good sex life before he died, I'd think his wife was the better lay for him than any porn star. and as a man I would think that if I ever got into a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:36 PM
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I'll throw my hat in the ring. Another poster made the following list to define the Red Pill, which I agree with. 80/20, women want the top 20% of men and ignore the rest. Some will settle for under the 80% but a lot of those relationships are not what I would consider good relationships; IE they're one sided, deadbedrooms, woman is cheating, etc Looks, Money, Status, Game are the most important things for a man to attract a partner, with looks being by far number 1. Women are attracted to dark …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:46 PM
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sheltered, like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:28 AM
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"In front of EVERYONE." This is how every single guy who tries to hit on a girl and is rejected feels. It happens in front of EVERYONE all the same. So, she's in the wrong for getting upset she got rejected no different from most men. Now if the guy said "I don't wanna hit because you're ugly blah blah" then it might be different. But all he did was reject her. I think your reaction to this OP is because you've felt empathy for rejection for maybe the first time ever because it was a woman being…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:20 AM
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brother i saw guys in college bag 5 strangers a night. you're sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:13 AM
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Lots of guys like shy girls. In fact, a lot see it as feminine. Maybe you mean such a crippling shyness that she literally cannot leave the house...alright. that's an extreme though. and ironically i know a guy that met such a girl via gaming and they've been dating for a couple years now (and yes she is quite hot). diagnosed agoraphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:34 PM
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and then they'll keep saying chad harem ain't real. but the study says the avg is only 4 bodies blah blah bullshit. the OP even says most of her guy friends are at like 80. wild stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:16 PM
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in other words, womenarenotintomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:13 PM
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this cannot be true because a good looking woman would have no problem at all finding men via apps and social media no matter how shy she is. i dont think anybody seriously disputes this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:11 PM
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No..flirting is sexually charged conversation. Niceness has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:09 PM
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well wait i think most know this is unlikely. im just saying it is the ideal. it's what they want. it's the end point of the transactional style of love these people (men and women both) believe it. every girl crying about "broke boys" is no less red pilled than red pilled guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:02 PM
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AI ass post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:40 PM
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My take is that most red pillers would be into this, but won't say it. Their actions betray them. A lot of women would be into this too. Anybody who talks about dating in such transactional terms or talks about "traditional" this and that are all people poisoned to the idea of loving somebody. Add one-sided open relationship and you'd have described A LOT of celebrity marriages, or marriages with very high SMV men, which TRP is focused on becoming. Simple as that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:39 PM
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u fucking posted in an inceltear subreddit FOUR YEARS AGO. how long have you spent your nights trolling people on reddit? you have DOZENS of posts today alone. you've wasted your fucking life doing this. insane shit. absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:38 AM
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you're the fucking retard that said it's a decade old and therefore irrelevant, not me. you stupid fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:27 AM
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okay well not worht my time if u wont put out specifics. have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:20 AM
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Except we had this and it didn't solve all the problems. By and large women only have sex with those in committed relationships with them. Heck once upon a time, a woman would be a virgin at marriage. Yet still men cheat or divorced their wives to trade up. This by definition of what I wrote cannot be true. Cheating has existed for a while because women have been fucking Chads for a while. Reread what I wrote. Facts not in evidence. It appears that GenZ women are also not having much sex either.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:20 AM
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No, he's not. Not even related. I'm just saying something a decade old can still be mainstream. Is this conversation hard for you to keep up? I don't even know what you're saying tbh. What do you even think the red/black pill are? What even is your own worldview? I tried to read your post history but you posted quite literally dozens of times in a single day and it's all gibberish like this. Definitely a well adjusted guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:14 AM
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what specifically are u disagreeing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:11 AM
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Are you like 12? Trump was elected a decade ago. Is he not mainstream? The fuck is wrong with you? Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:03 AM
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Fidelity and being a good partner are just as likely in a high SMV man as a low one, No, because the high SMV actually has the ability to enact it. their fidelity is something special they offer, it’s disappointing to learn that that very low bar is one they’re not even able to meet. idk this only matters in a state where the woman hasn't fucked her way through dozens of Chads. But that's unlikely in the context we're talking about. It's also only possible because there are so many women fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:03 AM
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You sound borderline non-functioning. Good luck to you, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:58 AM
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You've proven all this with "read the Youtube comments." Lol. Meanwhile, young men are waking up to ideas like how looks are the primary attractor for love and sex, that women have a substanstially far easier time dating than men, that women are the shallower sex, etc. etc. Let people point and laugh. Doesn't matter when these sources are slowly terraforming the minds of young men. Here's a thought, oh brilliant teenager (you gotta be, right?), go spend your night reading /r/blackpillscience and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:48 AM
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Oh, now we trying to throw insults, cause we got triggered because it turns out everyone’s a fraud. Everyone knows who Epstein is, that doesn’t make traffic in mainstream. It means people can see the crimes. ..What? And there is no mainstream. Go look at the views on those videos. There are millions more pointing and laughing at them and all the red pill losers getting took that that’s right they’re pointing and laughing at red pill more millions more than their followers that’s not mainstream. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:41 AM
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you some kind of professional moron? i said the red pill is mainstream. it's transformed. is brietbart and daily stormer dead because their old people are now embedded in the trump org? No. They've just gone mainstream, you dunce. what it so fucking hard about this? good god jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:34 AM
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yeah they're that shallow. crazy the psy op they put on us that it's the other way around. blue pill will never admit it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:32 AM
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i dont give a single fuck about these people. but you denying their popularity is hilarious. And Neon has 1.4M IG followers and a huge stream with lots of famous people. these people are pretty well known to young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:29 AM
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I dont think so because the husband-material guy literally can't fuck around like the hot stud in most cases. Though it does happen if for example the guy gets famous or very rich. e.g. Elon Musk's first wife. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:09 AM
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..what was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:06 AM
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Yeah. Sex is very important in relationships. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:05 AM
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TRP hasn't died. It's gone mainstream. Stuff like Fresh N Fit, Whatever Neon, Clavicular, etc. Look at the reactions to that Akaash guy. It's very red pilled. Popular language is very adjacent with people using "maxxing," normie, Chad, Stacy, mogging, etc. Saying TRP died is like saying THE_DONALD subreddit, Q-Anon people, or 4chan from 2015/2016 died. No, MAGA and the alt-right just became a mainstream, dominant cultural force.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:57 PM
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It seems clear to me that new technology has destroyed the ability for about 30% or so of young people, both men and women, to fall in love. This results in the pill ideologies and gender wars. This is more pronounced in certain regions like NYC or LA. NYC in particular has been known for a "transient" dating population for decades. It's mostly missed where I live in Chicago where the majority of young people are still coupling up. You can almost draw a perfect line between "population of profes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:40 PM
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i mean nothing is more highly intellectual than being unable to connect a series of sentences together across posts. that's what serious intellectuals do. they only EVER digest words one sentence at a time. as all us serious intellectuals know, multiple sentences together cannot build into more elaborate meaning. that would be crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:58 PM
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yikes. cant believe that got removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:49 PM
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Big intellectual energy here. First post, "skill issue if you can't pull a hot man" [implicitly centering hot men]. Second post, "hot men love hot women" [presumably referring to the "skill issue", e.g. the skill means the woman is unattractive. I do know this may be an enormous logical leap for such a bright intellectual like yourself, but this is what actual comprehension looks like, which it's clear you do not have because you will, predictably, pretend all the implicit meaning in what you've…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:41 PM
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I believe most young men would agree that they really don't feel like they can be themselves around their partner. She might get the ick or cringe at you and then it's over. Because it's that easy for any decent looking girl to hop to the next guy. Proof is in the pudding here. Just compare autistic men and autistic women. Autistic men have a documented tremendously difficult time dating because women get the ick at the guy just being himself. Meanwhile, autistic women have no issues at all. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:27 PM
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"demisexual" but "I pulled a 10." doesn't sound very demisexual of you. bizarre the caliber of "intellectual" some women are. really is. gotta be some below avg. IQ type shit making y'all think you're so god damn smart. cope and seethe ass response hahaha. anyway, enjoy your highly intellectual debates. i bet they're riveting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:21 PM
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There are a bunch of us here who are in happy relationships/marriages but enjoy the gender war debates What debates though? Seriously most of this subreddit is just trolling and venting. I don't think I've seen a single good debate. And here you are lusting after hot guys (and once again posting a TON in this thread alone). Bet your partner loves that hahaha. And yeah I do troll. I’m intellectual irl, so there’s no reason for me to login and be intellectual outside of my real life. thanks for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:13 PM
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like what as an intellectual exercise? you dont strike me as an intellectual. and all your posts are just low effort trolling. intellectuals dont do that. in fact, practically nobody on this forum is here for a good-faith debate. so something you brings you hear, like all of us, and for most it's because we're unhappy with our dating lives. so i dont really believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:02 PM
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pretty funny. can't deny he's very good looking. but more seriously his popularity is good evidence of what's going on inside a lot of young men. the blue pilled here can keep denying it all they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:47 PM
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whatever u say. just you being here says a lot about yourself, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:46 PM
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that right? the hottest men love women that have posted 16 fucking times in this thread alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:08 PM
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Yep. Most women genuinely just put up with you as a man because you weren't born beautiful. Women will never beat these allegations. They truly are the most vile of the sexes on average (sure men are worse in the extremes, but I'll probably never interact with a guy that does seriously heinous shit meanwhile i interact with women like this DAILY). Eve myth was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:07 PM
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how can u be blue pill then? like honestly how is the logic of this not stupefying? women like to hook up Chad. They do so while young and looking their best. They get older and Chad gets boring and they want to "settle down." Chad wont marry them because he's gonna marry Stacy. So she's left to marry a guy that she's not that attracted to (certainly not like the Chads from before) and who never got to experience the sexual proclivities she did. Literally that's red pill to a tee and you're agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:04 PM
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mostly agree. decoupling a man's "goodness" from his ability to get sex is like the first thing you do when leaving the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:56 PM
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Clavicular getting popular shows us that the mainstream blue pill response to pill ideology is an utter failure. Like the Jon Bravo youtube video on it where he's just baffled guys would do anything to be more attractive. pretty crazy shit. good reminder that even the blue pilled people here are more "woke" to reality than most normies. and also that we're many years away from a real mainstream response to this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:44 PM
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send a pic of her and ill rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:38 PM
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idk u sound kinda mentally ill and you referred specifically to the effort required to get sex but now say it comes easy. so idk man gl to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:37 PM
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idk man u sound sheltered. i think a lot of guys know a guy or two who was able to sleep with a lot of girls because he had a big dick and word got around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:36 PM
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i think you're not a "chad" so sex is something you have to work (like 95% of men) and so you're getting way too in your head about it. this is a good example of why so many guys are here wishing they were Chads. not being one can twist your psychology like seen in your stream of consciousness post and render sex unenjoyable. Meanwhile, Chad has sex with three hot college girls in one night without any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:30 PM
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what? or maybe girls just like big dicks on average. is this really in dispute still? esp. when they're just hooking up. ever hear of "boyfriend dick?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:27 PM
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completely wrong and every avg. college guy will tell you this. once again, this is why the pills sprang up. if women were hooking up with their looksmatches we wouldnt even be here rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:17 AM
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yeah profit...for the guy. i will at least say that a surprising number involve him plugging the girls OF. i guess the flip side of this is just how many thousands and thousands of college girls are opening OF accounts now. but you know the blue pill will continue to pretend like our society isn't plunging into some hedonistic hellscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:16 AM
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huh? they're just videos of sex. good god what a stupid reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:15 AM
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honest question for the chad harem deniers. how do u explain accounts like collegefun2004 on OF? random ass dude having sex with literally dozens of hot college girls. doesnt even have a big dick just is very hot. wouldn't doubt he ends up making hundreds of thousands dollars or even millions doing it. girls are unpaid. genuinely, how can u keep denying the reality of the redpill when there is so much evidence. i am asking sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:43 AM
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yet women claim guys need a good job, a car, need to have "morals," not be a player, etc. etc. "Where have all the good men gone!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:03 AM
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no clue what u mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:58 AM
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post on the front page about Luigi getting "laid like linoleum" of he gets out of prison. It's interested that that's how women show their love for women. Nobody is saying "Luigi would get so many meals cooked for him" or "Luigi would have women lining up to clean his house." Nah, it's always sex. Because if women want you, it's completely about sex, no different from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:46 AM
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Time. That's it. We're experiencing a massive technological change. This change has been ongoing for about a century with the advent of image-based entertainment and media. It hit a new break point with the internet and is now accelerating. Technology, more than anything else, drives culture. As Antonio Gramsci said during the ride of fascism in Italy, "The old world dies while the new world struggles to be born. Now is the time of monsters." But in time things will level out. What we experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:01 AM
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actually yeah i did hear that too once lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:07 PM
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well, i hope you find a way to leave this place then. else, why even be here? to make yourself miserable? you're pretty much doing what the incels do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:07 PM
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Not like anything changes in this debates. well of course if you only act in bad faith and troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:53 PM
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What are you actually arguing? Please go back to my OP that you replied to and keep in mind what I actually said there. You're confusing me. It seems like somewhere along this conversation you began to just freelance rather than reply to my positions. Looks aren't the only thing. I never said that. Looks matter much, much more than the blue pill makes it out. And even more so if one wants to be "Chad," (once again, go back to OP and reread what I was saying). To use wealth as a metaphor, you see…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:44 PM
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idk if I can link it. google incel wiki and look at the scientific blackpill in their sidebar. i already mentioned this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:37 PM
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oh i get it. you're just trolling. pardon me for taking you seriously. wont make that mistake again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:36 PM
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Let me explain then. Blue Pill for decades: Looks aren't the only thing that matters. Just be yourself, etc. Black / Red Pill: Actually, looks matter a tremendous more amount than you've made it out to be. By far it's the most important factor. Here are countless scientific studies and lived experiences to reinforce our position. Blue pill: Anyway, yeah, looks aren't the only thing that matters. Do you see how there is no response?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:32 PM
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The stuff the mainstream pushes by default goes against the blackpill and to an extent a lot of the redpill. No, it doesn't. Nothing in the mainstream makes meaningful arguments against things like lookism or hypergamy. Those ideas became popular in response to the mainstream ignoring them. Hence, the mainstream doesn't address them. And there are definitely people who have [tried to] debunked it, it's more in the form of editorials or articles rather than tiktok or yt, which honestly are cesspo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:28 PM
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idk what your angle is here but okay. and who said bald leprechaun? lol. definitely makes sense that the only thing that exists beside a chad in a woman's mind is a hideous fairy tale character. the duality of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:23 PM
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sounds like you still want chad. can't be overweight or balding. has to have a big dick. im sure you dont want an avg. face. yeah, sounds like you still want chad rofl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:05 PM
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tell that to guys with small dicks that have had women laugh at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:00 PM
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Schopenhauer is a well-known curmudgeon. His own mom didn't like him. He was very pessimistic. Besides, the red/black pills argue that looks get you women, not being a "good" man, so misogyny would have nothing to do with it. Because they don't get enough pussy. No, it's because they don't while some men do despite those men not being good men. The greatest force attracting young men to the pill ideologies is the stark realization, usually in high school, that "goodness" doesn't get you laid. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:44 PM
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I've adopted a philosophy I call "Mentally Ill Renaissance Man," lol. Essentially, I agree with you OP. And instead I've focused my life on three things: fitness, passion, and civic service. I guess it's sort of like MGTOW but less consciously so. The point more than anything is simply recognizing that I will never be "Chad," and wishing that I was is only going to debilitate and depress me, no different from wishing I was born rich and didn't have to work a 9-5. I focus on fitness not for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:09 PM
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i do the sidewalk thing. and in general things like that. absolutely aint pumping your gas. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:19 PM
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1.People get freedoms they used to not have 2.they exploit those freedoms as much as possible with no regards for the consequences 3.Things start to break 4.it triggers some kind of pushback in the history of humanity when has this ever happened? people do adapt...and what's new now just becomes the norm. See, the industrial revolution, Luddites, etc. Technology never unwinds itself. "The cat is out of the bag" as it goes. Hence in my post I talk about coping perhaps being the only way forward f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:32 PM
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bluepill isn't a reaction to red/black pill. it's the other way around. blue pill doesn't actually respond to those arguments. what i mean by "resistance" is where are the people, some popular youtuber or tiktoker for example, that is successfully arguing against this stuff? It's not underground anymore. Very smart people are hearing about it. And it's affecting the lives of millions of young men now. Yet, crickets. So what gives? I posit in my post it's because this stuff is ultimately more rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:26 PM
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hard disagree. i believe culture is everything. so i think this could happen. but I don't think culture is dictated consciously. i think it arises from certain aspects of society. one of the biggest of those is technology. it seems obvious to me that immense technological change from the last hundred years and especially in the wake of web 2.0 and smart phones has resulted in what we have today. i dont see this technology changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:49 AM
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Red pill and black pill content has absolutely exploded in popularity among young men (and women to a lesser extent). The language is now mainstream. I refer to words like looksmaxxing (or another prefix), mogging, hypergamy, redpill, blackpill, bluepill, stacy, chad, normie and so more. Social media influencers like Clavicular and King68 have reached overnight fame and fortune. Podcasts like Fresh n Fit and Whatever have millions of viewers. Where is the resistance? Like for real. Where are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:15 AM
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genuinely i believe half the anecdotes thrown around here or on tiktok are just made up. esp. here I think a lot of people show up playing a character or with a worldview they want to convince others of and are willing to lie to do so (because to them it's not really a "lie" since the worldview is "correct.")
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:43 AM
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most ancient western societies were still monogamous. the way you string your comment together makes it sound like marriage has always been rich chad's with harems. not even remotely true. and in fact the poorer you were the more likely you were to marry for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:03 AM
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What makes you think that men who can't get women would be any better? I already explained this. Women are attracted to bad men. Good men can begin to act bad and they get more women. Once again, countless data on this. Because all I'm seeing is jealousy that they can't get away with the things other men get away with Go ahead. See whatever you want that absolves you. But if you want the truth just google <banned word for black pilled guys> wiki and look under the "important pages" sidebar at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:20 PM
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i never said that. but it's women CHOOSING those men. it's rarely disputed, even in this subreddit, that women are clearly the decision makers when it comes to which men are having sex and getting into relationships. are you actually disputing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:06 PM
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i dont think people are perfect. it seems reasonably possible to me that someone is in love with me but at times can have a bad day and be disrespectful or cold or cause drama. Women are humans with souls and all the chaos that comes with it. the peace option sounds like a boring bangmaid. I would 100% choose love and it's not even close. presumably I'm in love with her back, so. i think this sub only exists because people no longer care about falling in love. Women especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:05 PM
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women choose the men so that doesn't make sense. once again, endless data on this. women are attracted to bad men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:01 PM
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great. anyway, keep fucking shitty guys. have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:53 PM
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it doesnt. sorry. it's hard to reckon with what women are, i get it. But humanity has known this since the Eve myth. truly the fallen gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:52 PM
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sex is mostly mental (for both genders tbf). that thread had so many women talking about "toxic guys" being the best because so many women are turned on by that kind of personality. it's not because toxic guys fuck better in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:44 PM
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most of that shit doesnt exist within a hierarchy and therefore has nothing to do with hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:32 PM
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this is so blue pilled though because despite all this women have no problem fucking the absolute worst guys and you can dispute this all you want but the data is clear on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:25 PM
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highly doubt it was. dating apps is one thing i named. social media is heavily used by women. women do watch porn too. endless research on the social media usage of gen z. why is this even in dispute? but I guess you're probably nuts enough to think technology doesn't change the way we behave. makes sense since in this case it's made women behave worse and, you know, women can never do a bad thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:11 PM
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Could you do that to yourself? yeah by getting off social media, deleting dating apps, and no longer looking at porn. SUddenly the girl bagging my groceries seems like a more viable romantic partner. It's so fucking obvious the internet has absolutely cooked women but you all cannot admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:06 PM
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There are sex toys made for both men and women that provide incomparably more stimulation than human genitals. Despite this, we still fuck each other. Sex is mostly mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:01 PM
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You're right, but this is exactly why 80/20 is real. Many women are no longer giving the guys that aren't causing immediate sexual attraction a chance. Why would they when they can flip on social media or Tinder and have those guys in their DMs? Women have essentially turned into men in this sense. Men's attraction to women is very physically based. The key difference however is that most men ultimately find most women attractive and would therefore give them a chance. The great irony is that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:53 AM
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i think you're kinda nuts. you post a video of college kids walking on a fraternity row. should I just post a video of a bar full of dudes and then we go tit-for-tat on this all night? like what a bizarre way of thinking you got going on.. Then why do filets get say those things? Huh? Why are you claiming you’ll prove me wrong when this is the shit ppd boys say? what are you even saying? for real. red pill would say high value men are fucking A LOT. so your video doesn't even disprove that. like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:28 AM
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i dont disagree. im just saying, there's a reason like nearly 100% of the highest status men are either in an arrangement with their spouse or get caught cheating at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:26 AM
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not really sure which pill denies that women like going to frat parties and fucking frat guys. so idk what to even respond to here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:24 AM
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Give a few examples and I'll explain why you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:02 PM
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worked for a car dealership and can name multiple women who were cheating on the guys they're now married to with other guys at the dealership. Same with the men. In general, people are way more promiscuous and prone to cheating than most people wanna admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:01 PM
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the truth behind this is that women have no idea how to reckon with their own sexuality. they're incapable of not trying to fuck every man that turns them on. The difference is that far, far fewer men have that affect on women than the reverse. And so most men will learn, from a young age onward, how to reckon with their sexual urges. Women don't learn this. Hence, you have Don Juan types that can seduce all the married women in the village.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:58 PM
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They ought to but the most high value men don't. e.g. most married rock stars and wealthy business men etc. etc. are in one-sided open relationships. It's a very dirty secret of the world. And until the sisterhood stops putting up with it by not fucking these men they know are married or partnered up (which won't happen because something in female brains makes that a more desirable scenario than less), then they'll keep doing it and less high value men will try to finagle themselves into similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:55 PM
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this really does seem like reality more and more. along with so many hard truths about life. love is dead. most seemingly normal "high value" men like athletes, actors, musicians, politicians, etc., are non-stop cheating on their wives and fucking 22 year-old women (e.g. Andrew Huberman and the "Chad Harem.") A significant percentage of men would have sex with underage post-pubescent girls if allowed and a significant percentage actually do. women genuinely love evil, vile, violent men so long a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:46 PM
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You want to believe what you want to believe but other more credible sources and peer reviewed studies come to similar conclusions about what number is the average. No they don't. In fact, none of these studies are reproduced ever. They always get wildly different data. What's that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:52 AM
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how do you not? the data is old and from before the downstream effects of hookup culture. here's a more recent study for example that has SIGNIFICANTLY higher body counts (and this surveyed all groups) https://bespokesurgical.com/2021/06/24/sexual-history-by-state/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:36 AM
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idk what you're not getting but, once again, this But the data count is lifetime AND different age groups. is a BUG not a feature when it comes to these conversations. This subreddit is much more concerned with a far narrower population than these surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:27 AM
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A rock star earned it by being a fucking rockstar lol. This is circular.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:25 AM
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i literally just explained to you why "most people" aren't what people care about here. The average age in America is nearly 40 for example. Thinking about the average person is a complete mistake. I think where it may feel like it isn't the case is that, after a certain point, the effective dating market is the more promiscuous people. I would say last college and last like 27 or so. Bars and apps are your only options and those just naturally have the higher count women. But the reality is, mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:51 AM
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it's definitely incomplete. a rock star doesn't have to do anything to have casual sex. Nor a very good looking guy. The idea that they're "earning" it in some capacity because there's a seduction obstacle is false. The highest body count guys don't have to seduce anybody. And in fact, PUA type of dudes, or dudes that consciously focus on "game," are actually made fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:48 AM
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average partner count is a super old study. furthermore, i think most people on this subreddit are way more concerned with urbanite, usually college aged to 40 years old, and average or above attractiveness individuals. America is a very big country. I don't think the people here or on youtube and tiktok are really concerned with how rural people are having sex. I mean, load one of those "men aint shit" or "women are evil" compilations on youtube or tiktok and it's usually young good looking peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:44 AM
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maybe the simplest argument is that, somehow, there are more young men than young women in American society. Simple argument as that could open the border to women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:36 AM
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idk i rarely see it argued here that women shouldn't be attracted to their partners. The case being made is that women don't give most men a chance to develop that attraction. There is a battery of "effects" and studies that demonstrate how getting to know someone makes you more attracted to them. Over time we start using words like love once this attraction develops into something even more intense and complex. Men leveraged this phenomenon in the past. They had to for one simple reason: on a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:24 PM
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probably that men really would pursue barely post-pubescent women if allowed to, ultimately because physically looks are nearly all that matters to men when it comes to sex (which is typically offset by men finding a far greater pool of women hot than the reverse). once again, you see it from the men who are given the most access to women (athletes, ceos, rock stars, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:25 AM
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People can keep mincing your words all they want but at the end of the day it's women throwing themselves at criminals. That's rare though. More commonly, women love the guy abusing his power, like the CEO of a company fucking his underlings. Seriously. Every single corporation in America from Apple to your local small town call dealership has men successfully leveraging these dynamics to get pussy. Every. single. one. And it's ultimately the WOMEN that allowing it to be done to them. And if tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:43 AM
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everything you just said could as easily be used to argue that girls finishing puberty are "fair game." it's impossible to approach this beyond a singular hard cutoff. as a society we've chosen 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:32 AM
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what men want is irrelevant because women are the ones that choose which men are having sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:26 AM
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all you were sharing was exp. too. top mind of reddit over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:45 AM
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It has, however, never been easier for them to "meet" and unite and form echo chambers in which their complaints are further reified. Remarkable you don't take this the next logical step farther, which is that we're all connected and in conflict with other groups who are also "uniting and forming echo chambers in which their complaints are further reified," and hence find ourselves in a spiraling cultural contagion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:32 AM
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not true at all in my exp. in fact, the "smart quiet girl" is the first one to get cracked by chad. the taylor swift paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:29 AM
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not sure what u mean by incentives. imo people just don't care about other people more broadly rn. it's uncool to be empathetic and loving. detachment and irony are what's in more than anything. we're essentially living in a Seinfeld episode, and our culture says life is about hedonism in various forms (not working regular jobs, traveling all the time, showing off a lifestyle on social media), "earning a bag," and sex sex sex. It's not a surprise then that love has decayed when our very souls ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:52 AM
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most of this sub boils down to the widespread absence of love in the modern dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:45 AM
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repulse is incorrect. most guys would bang a hot slut. but for long term dating the "why" of it is trust. Women don't need to "earn" sex from men. it's incredibly, incredibly easy for the average girl to get laid (made even easier by apps and social media). so, the feeling guys have with promiscuous girls is that she's a flight risk. It's literally the same feeling a woman might have dating a rock star or athlete who also has very very easy access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:36 AM
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surprised more people dont mention ex-fatties. i know people who were just obese af until 25-30 and then lost it and became normal and even got tons of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:36 PM
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it's the equivalent of gov. mandated girlfriends for incels tbh. it indicates she couldn't secure a man (for whatever reason whether it's her standards being too high or something else) and now a non-consenting other human being is getting involved. pretty much in lock step with why we're (rightfully) against gov mandated girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:30 PM
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i do. and i think there's a tremendous amount of evidence for this. men who have easy access to sex tend to have a lot of it. e.g. gay men have body counts that blow straights out of the water. another example are celebrity men incl. athletes and very attractive men. it's very uncommon to find one that's loyal and hasn't fucked around a lot. Even ones you wouldn't expect like the stranger things dad that came out recently or a guy like streamer Destiny. it's not all men but it seems to be the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:33 PM
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She did. What is the problem with filming someone committing a crime and posting it publicly? She didn't. You didn't "move on." Are you being dense? You literally explain a moment later how she did more than "send a note to DD and move on." Jesus Christ. And because it's innocuous and meaningless. i just explained that too. We don't even know if this was a crime. Tiktokkers dont determine criminality, the justice system does. You might as well ask "what is the problem with spending all day playi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:58 PM
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ironically it's the men's bodies that are unrealistic. all have massive dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:41 PM
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he prob did it on purpose. seems unlikely or weird. but not impossible the door got opened some other way like a friend leaving so idk. in any case, she shouldn't have filmed it. just send a note to DD and move on. we live amongst people. ive seen naked people in chicago. there's a whole bike ride thing for naked people. are we really going to lose our minds this fucking hard over shit like this? that's the saddest aspect of all this. all you people want is some kind of fight and rather than pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:57 PM
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u spent your whole post arguing against somehting he never even claimed. incredible stuff here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:35 PM
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yeah the gender that commits practically all the consumer spending. can't wait to see how right you are :). enjoy the harems, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:05 PM
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There's a middle road. Legalize sex work and create an incel subsidy. This is even easier in your hypothetical near future where society is mostly "self-sustainable." Everyone's needs are met this way, and it keeps the "beta males" contributing via work. I reckon it'd even have a noticeable effect of breaking a lot of incels out of their inceldom by building confidence with women, making them more interesting in looking better, etc. But post like OP's (of the thread, not this comment chain) are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:00 PM
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The response is simple: why do you, OP, get to decide what the reward is for working and contributing to society? Those men are refusing to sign the social contract. You cannot force people to sign it. So, I don't see what basis you have for your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:03 PM
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How is this different from the left canceling people, sometimes digging back 10-15 years on old twitter/x accounts for ammunition i dont get this. are you saying you're happy libs were canceling people for old tweets then? okay. at least you're consistent then. I'd argue they're not the same thing though. And part of the reason why is encapsulated in the following response: Also if they think ck had it coming bc of his words, I don't find this a common belief. People like you keep pretending CK …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:33 AM
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okay and so by your logic the left base hurt a right leader, so it's all kosher. glad we got that one settled then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:30 AM
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you can get new cars for like 30k out the door. you wanted a nicer one. no sympathy. quit crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:19 PM
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are there any subs that actually discuss this shit? all this subreddit is people posting the dumbest shit that's clearly a knee-jerk reaction to something they just saw or read. Very little deep thinking going on. i genuinely don't even think 99% of the people here could define feminism in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:15 PM
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im a leftist and u dont understand capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:39 PM
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maybe pitt is just a serial monogamist. but nah it's gotta be some weird dick size thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:48 PM
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Online dating apps and social media (which is used as a dating app). Being a man is difficult. Your role when it comes to sex and romance is to initiate and escalate. This is harrowing for a lot of guys for a million different reasons. If you're a woman, spend a few minutes right now imagining what it's like to be the one who initiates and escalates flirting, touching, and so on. I don't mean cold approach. I mean put yourselves in the shoes of that one guy you talk to sometimes at your local ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:13 PM
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State subsidized sex workers won’t fix the loneliness/forever-alone issue. I think it has a chance. First of all, good sex workers don't just starfish. They're very good at making you feel wanted by them, whether it's 100% faked or not. I think incels having sex this way a few times a month not only blows off steam but also will build a tremendous amount of confidence. It could jumpstart the incel failure to launch imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:44 PM
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most of these answers are bullshit. Every guy knows women like attractive men. What surprises guys is how discriminating women are. Women are far, far more shallow than men. The experience of a man walking around your average city is one where he is constantly seeing attractive women. Literally, constantly. That's not true for women. The standard is much higher. Men are never taught this and so they assume women are as wide-ranging in their attraction as men are. In fact, the opposite if often t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:09 PM
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You don't remotely understand men. I'll try to explain it, but I don't think you'll get it. Sex affirms a man's masculinity. This is not a mere ego boost. Sex is signalling to the man -- somewhere deeply psychological and biological -- that he is a worthy being. Women don't understand this because women do not have to compete for sex. Men do have to compete. Sex tells the man he has "won" in that gauntlet. This is the gift that women give men. There's a reason the greatest art about love and sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:50 AM
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decided to give up. thank u for the discussions over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:53 AM
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spikes don't matter the overall trend does and it's trending down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:32 PM
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everything im seeing suggests both genders have nonreactions to ugly people, or rather than pretty people cause a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:24 PM
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what's even your point here? any relationship, romantic or otherwise, has power imbalances in favor of both people. In this case it's often financial for the man. Even if she became a citizen etc., she'd still be an immigrant and probably with far less earning potential than the man. On the other hand, she's also a woman and has much easier access to finding a new partner. You're just mad that some guys are finding new forms of power imbalance in their favor while you remain willfully ignorant t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:21 PM
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well dont they normally do it because they struggle in their home country?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:26 PM
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patrick bateman wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:18 PM
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wtf are you talking about dude? we were talking about chicago vs. la. NYC having hotter people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:38 PM
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whatever u say man. never in my life heard of a 30 year old dating a college aged girl or older men finding college aged girls attractive anyway. that'd be crazy you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:34 PM
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no it doesn't but I'm 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:30 PM
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get over it you live in a society of people constantly interacting all the time. what an absurd worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:18 PM
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whatever u say man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:10 PM
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im in chicago and there are a lot of tall people here but in NYC or LA I tower over most peeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:47 PM
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idk man. im fat ugly and 6'4" and have had hot women hit on me idk. maybe it's location.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:21 PM
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are u fat tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:16 PM
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i wonder if this subreddit could conduct this exact kind of experiment. Get a few dozen ladies here (gotta be that many, right?) and 100 different men and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:15 PM
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This sub has really given itself over to mongs. lol. dont burn yourself on that grill this monday little fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:07 PM
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That's not an argument. It's just a series of statements. I get the sense you're too dumb for this game and don't even realize it. Have a good weekend..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:02 PM
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Why is the woman "telling" that when she cheats but not the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:54 PM
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whatever u say man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:19 PM
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The average man isn't like that at all Then why is it mostly men at the top? There's something within men. No, not all men. But most men. It's mostly married men that ever refer to their wives as the most beautiful woman in the world. It's windowed men that have worse health outcomes than widowed women. Men are the loving sex. This piece is great but does the next level hyper-realism makes it more romantic than other paintings? idk what this random piece has to do with anything. and sure it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:28 PM
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most great art is created by men for a reason. it's men that are the far, far more romantic and loving sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:42 PM
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i think a lot of young men have a form of sexual PTSD when, as they age, they discover just how much better horrible men do with women than them. You can pretend it's not the truth all you want but we see it play out. This very famous star slate codex post radicalizing the romanceless is about this. Yes, NAWALT etc. But it's still a pattern of behavior esp. among the most attractive women. https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:23 PM
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I just made this post in another thread. Sex is a reward in the same sense a house, a car, a social community, a family, food, water, etc. are "rewards" for being members of a society. If you haven't noticed, a lot of these things (not just sex) are in peril. Here's the post I wrote earlier: I'm always shocked this idea is so controversial here. The central myth of modern society is that a person with a functioning moral compass can work hard, get a good job (i.e. "contribute" to society), be an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:16 PM
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I'm always shocked this idea is so controversial here. The central myth of modern society is that a person with a functioning moral compass can work hard, get a good job (i.e. "contribute" to society), be an upstanding citizen, be a part of his community, and in return he will have material goods bestowed upon him: a car, a house, a family. My dad growing up never ever assumed a future where he wouldn't have a home or a car. It wasn't like a question in his mind that maybe it'll happen one day. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:40 AM
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Of course it's cultural. Culture is the difference between living in huts in Central Africa and building a society that's been to the moon. Do we really think this doesn't affect dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:16 AM
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that trope is way overblown. way less common than people pretend it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:13 AM
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i dont really get this. lose weight and you'll find somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:08 AM
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i think he wrote it poorly. you dont have to become an asshole but you do have to mask yourself. A lot of guys are naturally simps and want to worship their woman but they have to learn that will just drive them away. A lot of guys don't care for the whole push/pull element of attraction -- they want to act fully engaged all the time not realizing that this will drive her away. A lot of guys think that being a "good man" attracts women but they have to learn that women aren't sexually attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:05 AM
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whatever u say man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:05 AM
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today cuz im so fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:57 PM
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well yeah because it's illegal, difficult to access, and very expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:56 PM
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depends. i think the proles ought to revolt against the ruling class. that's probably criminal. it would be if I led it :).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:50 PM
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who is he who shall not be named (dm if u must)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:43 PM
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Which is what they want. It drives them crazier than anything (so long as you're a hot guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:41 PM
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legalize it. give incels a monthly stipend for pussy if they have a job. will get tons of NEETS off the couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:40 PM
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thinking about society is a cult. it's better to jerk off to hentai instead!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:56 PM
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you're clearly not after truth. go back to gooning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:53 PM
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how could you possibly explain the phenomena of women not finding most men attractive? i cant link it here due to the anti blackpill stuff but google the i*ncel wiki Scientific blackpill and take a look at the Looks section for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:49 PM
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okay countless studies be damned then ig. What is instinctual then? inb4 "liking a nice, loyal, kind guy who buys flowers."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:43 PM
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oh so you're saying it's not instinctual for women to be hypergamous, to like higher quality men than them, to rate the majority of men as unattractive, etc? That might be even more bizarre then. So you think women choose to just disqualify most dudes? Idk. Do men not instinctually make the world better? Do we make it worse? Like wtf is this line of thinking. This is just "lol women". are you lost? recall your comment where you said men should control their instincts and its what separates us fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:34 PM
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i can't connect what you just said to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:26 PM
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now suggest women try to maintain their instinctual urges for the betterment of society. lmk how that goes lol. if anything the existence of this subreddit is the result of that not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:58 PM
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so the woman ought to be the same as well? In other words, you think like only 10% of people (less?) should reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:57 PM
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Nazis and gangbangers are so interesting. I promise you the local drug dealer will blow your back out even though your autistic. maybe give him a call he's very interesting! also it's kinda sad you must think autistic people are like...the least interesting people alive then. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:53 PM
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You scream that you want to be seen as an individual and yet you cannot recognize that women are also individuals. wtf are you talking about, man? I can't possibly examine every single woman on earth. We can however look at broader trends. Hybristophilia is a female thing more than male. The concept of liking the "bad boy" and "assholes" is associated with women not men. Studies show misogynistic men get laid more than non. Etc. Meanwhile, how many women genuinely like and get horny for socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:47 PM
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lol i love that what you're actually saying is women just really love criminals and nazis and bad and shitty and evil men for their character / personality because you're desperate to cling to the notion that personality matters. Incredible stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:42 PM
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small men get robbed more. what's this have to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:59 PM
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They reject autistic men because personality and likability matter to women yet they don't reject criminals and nazis and the bad boys and "I always fall for assholes!". Agreeableness has nothing to do with this. Time and time again this has been proven. Therefore, your autism doesn't put women off because you're unlikeable and annoying. It's put them off because, the vast majority of the time, autistic men cannot ascend social hierarchies well. An autistic rockstar would still get laid like any…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:42 PM
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real talk autism is like the biggest weakness to blue pill women's arguments. They essentially doom a significant percentage (and rising) of men to a loveless and sexless life. They refuse to reckon with the fact that maybe women's increasing standards and that they view men merely as a ranked hierarchy rather than as individual human beings. Meanwhile, autistic women have no issues finding love or sex because most men view women as individuals. There is something deeply sick in the way women pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:25 PM
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weird misandry comment but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:02 PM
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no. i can only speak for myself but my feeling/reasoning (which may be false but this is just what I can consciously understand this whole thing by) is the following: First, if a girl has had sex in relationships, then I'm not bothered by it. What bothers me is when a girl gives sex up for nothing. I think men just value sex way more, or at least in a different way. The idea of a girl having sex with ONS or Tinder guys or guys who don't care about her is what "defiles" her in my eyes. She is def…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:56 AM
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idk man. props. this is crazy even if you didn't get laid or w.e. I wish I was that charismatic and easy going. I can't even imagine just chatting with four girls and then sharing pizza with them and them potentially getting into a single guy's car somewhere. that's wild. what city is this?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/25 01:21 AM
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im very left. if capitalism gives her a hard on vs. just passively accepting it like most liberal women would then there's a 0% chance we share any important values or life experience. Genuinely haven't met an intelligent person that's on the right that has good values. The smart ones are necessarily sociopathic. The dumb ones are either practically apolitical, Christians, or also have shit values. So, all that to say, I wouldn't be into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:10 PM
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I mean can it not be that different women like different things? You'd think that but then those guys have no success at all and they wonder "what gives?" Hence, they end up going down the "pill" pipelines. If those guys weren't struggling to get girls then we wouldn't be even writing to each other right now, lol. The truth seems to be that some girls do appreciate that stuff. But the bottom line tends to be that she has to find you sexually attractive first for it to matter. Those things won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:31 PM
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as a man id say it's not so much that men ever were told looks dont matter. the impression i had growing up at least, and the guys ive talked to this about had as well, was that women care more about your being a "good man" than your looks or "rizz." That doesn't mean you can't be a fugly autist. But that your "goodness" closes the gap. So that's showing kindness, virtue, giving back to your community, charity, a strong moral center, having a job, etc. That working on those things is the equival…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:09 PM
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The only difference is, we talk about it more openly now, and women have more agency to engage in it without hiding. ill stop u right there because you have to be stone-dead stupid to think this wouldn't mean people hook up more. It's like saying gay sex always existed but now that it's way more acceptable the same amount of gay sex is still being had. Nobody would take that claim seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:35 PM
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If you were right then women would be pursuing sex with men far more than they are. But they don't. It's always the man seducing the woman. Sex isn't shared. It's won by men. That's how the world actually sees it and that's how the dynamics actually play out. There's a reason on the front page of Reddit rn is a story about Trump and Epstein trying to see who could sleep with Princess Di first. "Everything is about sex, except sex, which is about power."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:41 PM
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semantics. she's overweight and very definitely a notch below most of the other girls. but she's a good hang. I didn't think anything of her when i met her first. That said, she's still a woman. i.e. she dresses well and puts on makeup and shit and is feminine. honestly think for most "ugly" girls if they just did that they'd be at least mid. And sydney sweeny would be the hottest chick in my entire building so...im not one of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:40 PM
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idk there's a mid girl at work who I like talking to and we have fun and I'm way more into her than the hotter girls. She's less attractive than them but I want to have sex with her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:28 PM
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How so? Most people will never interact with Chad, Already disagreed with this. Someone in this thread knows Chads. Ive known Chads. I mentioned any college aged kid knows Chads. Any high school kid knows Chads. People interact with them all the time. You don't because your definition of Chad isn't the one commonly used here. Once again, you're constructing a worldview where you are always correct. Aspiring to be Chad is hurting yourself because you’re not being true to yourself nor are you aimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:25 AM
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But again, why do you care so much about some dude in college who fucks a lot? How does this impact your life in any meaningful way? All you’ve done is insult me and not give me an actual answer. Explicitly and clearly tell me why you’re comparing yourself to these dudes and beating yourself up over it dude. I literally JUST TOLD YOU. People care about Chad because the concept is useful when discussing modern dating discourse. I've given you an answer for like three straight posts you're just to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:12 AM
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i just told you. Chad is a used to depict the ideal man to women in modern dating discourse. Moronic response incoming, "And why is using Chad in that way useful to you?" I just told you via analogy with billionaires. But I know that went over your head. So I'll spell out three ways I've seen people use Chad when discussing modern dating discourse. Chad as an aspirational concept. Trying to adopt traits of Chad to get more girls, success, etc. This is usually TRP shit. Chad as a critique of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:59 AM
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you've constructed a framework where Chad cannot exist in any meaningful sense so there's nothing to argue against here. Like 6/8000-10000 guys on campus can sleep with 5 girls a night. Why do you give a fuck? Are you like fucking new to world? Chad is used to depict the ideal man to women in modern dating discourse. I'm not a billionaire either, nor will I ever be, but the concept of a billionaire is useful to me when discussing politics. Stupid fucking post man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:53 AM
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The story on this thread… you mean the one of the guy on the bachelorette? yeah And here is the thing: guys who get laid in college? ..no guys who get effortleslly laid ALL THE TIME with the hottest girls. you define chad as someone getting more than getting lots of sex easily. this is your "idealized image" but you never actually define what the additional things are. this makes you always right. grow a fucking pair and say what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:44 AM
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They exist, sure, nobody is denying that. When I say ‘they don’t exist’ I don’t mean they literally are cryptids - what I mean is that they’re so rare and few that the vast majority of people will never interact with one nor will the vast majority of women end up with one. You’re comparing yourself to the lifestyle of someone neither you nor the people you will see you in your day to day life will never interact with. not even true though. most guys have known a chad before. There's a guy that g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:38 AM
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imo the red pill has somewhat correctly identified this when they call it "frame." That's what matters. And it's more important than just for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:31 AM
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idk wtf you're talking about to be honest. The definition of Chad is the "idealized figure" I described. I'm merely pointing out that Chad is real and why men even care that Chad is real. There's a Chad equivalent guy that collects bus tickets but men don't care about that guy being real. I’m just saying - your algorithm feeds you the kind of content you already consume, so if you’re mostly seeing hot men in yachts hanging around attractive women who want to be on yachts, this says a lot more ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:29 AM
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yeah. because guys want to work shitty 9-5s, get with mid girls (or none at all), and be broke or barely scraping guy. It's rare to find anybody want to live a life of material luxury and have unfettered access to the hottest women. bizarre response bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:22 AM
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dude go to a major city. you'll see them lol. Sure maybe in Peoria, IL or wherever the fuck you won't find many. That's because they leave places like that immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:18 AM
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is the christian girl Chad the same as the bachelorette chad? curious can you dm me the name lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:17 AM
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Chad is real. Men obsess over Chad because Chad is living life within a "Chosen One" narrative. He is born into a material reality that dwarfs the average or above average man's. This isn't just women but also success. An example of a real Chad is someone like Sonny Suljic. The Chosen One narrative appeals to men because men want to be heroic. There's a reason it is deployed constantly in Hollywood and in the biggest stories of all time (Star Wars, Harry Potter, etc.). Men cling to the notion th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:12 AM
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all you did is predict that culture would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:59 PM
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i will admit middle aged to older women esp. black women working regular jobs are genuinely the sweetest and kindness people i ever meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:46 PM
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i think one of the things we were never taught as kids is that everything in life requires a conscious choice and effort. Including social things. We're so inundated from a young age with notions of talent and that our attributes and life are inherent. Bad parents say the best boy on the baseball team is the best because he happened to be born with talent and don't worry about it it's okay. Okay parents say that that boy works hard and has a dad that coaches and he also happens to be pretty big …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:42 PM
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That's not how statistics work. There's no reason to think this subreddit's very small and specific population mirrors the general population that yielded the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:13 AM
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like wat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:02 AM
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i think when you're talking about anybody in the .001% of anything, then it's meaningless. And if we take your last two paragraphs together, then it might suggest looks are often a prerequisite (or else incredibly helpful) to building status. This is, I think, pretty observable nowadays. Most young musicians are now very attractive (men and women). Most actors are. Even a lot of younger politicians are attractive. The most sought after career for young people is influencer where being hot heavil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:49 PM
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Yeah, but why do those men hate women? Because they're incels. So, her argument is circular and therefore invalid. The truth is a lot of non-misogynist guys go down the incel pipeline which develops their hatred for women. I thought this was common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:13 PM
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women truly do groupthink and share attraction preferences. downvote all you want but it's true. this is a dangerous idea because it might imply a solution to the male loneliness problem being an altering of culture while also suggesting that the red pill isn't quite right with its evo-psych bs. essentially, this pisses off all the "pills."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:51 PM
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I think there's a lot more to this than people think. But it seems like everyone gangs up on your here if you even hint at the notion of culture meaningfully affecting how people date. Then again most people here are incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:32 PM
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i tend to agree. and even worse are the stories people tell here. it'd be different if i felt like the majority of people here are acting in good faith but I dont think they are. i think most are here to confirm biases even if that means making up or believing stories at face value that "feel" true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:29 AM
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yes. often. esp. if they're younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:27 AM
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meh okay. your OP just confuses "theys." the last they means if the woman was ugly, ig. kinda a bizarre statement. might as well say fat ugly guys on their couches all day would be thrilled to have scarlet johansson bust through the door to fuck them. No shit. even more bizarre given the comment you were replying to. im gonna close this ticket out have a good night..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:04 AM
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well a guy being so interested in their personality includes men they're friends with, no? And the widespread existence of the friendzone implies there's a hell of a lot more going on than women simply being thrilled when men are into their personality. Just seems quite obviously untrue to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:47 AM
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this is nice. thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:28 AM
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sounds like "most women would be thrilled if a man was so interested in their personality that they wanted to go on a second date with them even if they showed up to the first date looking ugly" isn't true then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:27 AM
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What's the hypocritical action here? trying to understand what you're even trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:03 AM
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I don't think women could possibly understand. I think of my sister who is just as ugly and obese as I am if not more so. And yet she's been on dates, has had sex, has dated, and ultimately knows what it's like to be desired. Actually desired by another person. For someone to look at you and be struck by even the slightest sexual urge or thought. And I look in the mirror and I can't comprehend it. I don't think I'm that ugly. But I must be. My life experience tells me I am everyday. I just feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:54 AM
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yeah if it was so important then i dont think i'd have a literally 0% success rate lol. maybe being below avg height is bad but being tall isn't similarly good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:47 PM
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idk he dated her 2 years after getting out of prison and his crimes were like regular theft gangbanging type of shit. he was probbaly living a pretty straight life by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:41 PM
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im 6'3-6.4" and it's done nothing for me so yeah agreed. quite a bad face obvi.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:26 PM
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if this were true the friendzone wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:24 PM
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ngl kinda shocking to me considering im an obese ugly dude but still get an occassional legitimate match. i am in a major city tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:53 PM
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Maybe? if anything it's the opposite effect though. I know those women aren't swiping right on me lol. No amount of super likes or whatever will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:30 PM
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Dating apps really ruin my mood and make me feel lonelier than ever. I don't know what it is but the algorithm just refuses to show me women that are close to my "looksmatch." It's 90% girls way hotter than me who would never consider me. But I obviously still find them really hot. So, it's almost like some weird game of teasing something I can never have. I'm fat and losing weight now and suspect that'll change eventually but for now it's just crushing. And then every once in a while the app do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:01 PM
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if she didn't call me after the surgery, I'd consider it over. i would encourage her to go. i got friends that can help me out. i would be flattered if she chose to stay and insisted on it. and I'd feel real good if she did that and her friends ran an audible on their plans and managed to give her a good night out for her birthday while she helped me recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:17 PM
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Every? Damn. This isn't a new idea. The conflict between marrying for resources vs. marrying for love is millennia old. It's a myth that people only began recently marrying for love. I speak only of Western cultures because I'm not familiar with any other or their histories beyond a college-educated well-read person's level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:24 PM
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There's evidence that people like you exist to a statistically significant degree. In general the same person is rated as more attractive in a video than a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:16 PM
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do you think in The West these cultures and systems negate agency? Negate? No. But they limit agency. Sort of the whole point. Unless you genuinely are trying to argue we live in a 100% free society, but I doubt you are. I'm not sure anything can completely negate agency so it's a moot point to me. Maybe death? A lobotomy? Idk. What cultural and systemic restrictions prevent our our hungry and homeless friend from dumpster diving for food? Hitting up charities for clothes? From doing anything an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:19 AM
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These men just vanished from the internet when they left Reddit/4chan/8chan/voat etc? ..no im saying people care about free speech less online because the "war" was lost literally a decade ago. The reason there was a an uproar then is beause those were the earliest instances of free speech being halted. Like i said, that was the transition from the "wild west" internet into the more modern internet filled with censorship. So those guys didnt vanish they just stopped fighting because the war was …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:16 AM
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there's a trend on tiktok for it. like that kingwhatever guy. he just stands outside clubs and hot girls hit on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:17 AM
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what data selects only for hot 20 somethings in urban environments?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:15 AM
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sounds like we agree then idk. gl to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:03 AM
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what like twenty of the same dudes on Twitter? 3/4ths of your bullet points were Reddit related. Don't you see how liberal reddit is now? You really think the current front page of reddit would be rallying around free speech if a jailbait type of subreddit (that went under the radar) was to get removed tomorrow? Course not. The point being that the internet has changed in 11 years (shocking!).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:03 AM
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They just become more miserable. ..I think you agree with my initial post then, lol. Yes, they become miserable. Because the true nature of women is revealed to them. This is even something TRP "teachers" (or whatever u want to call them) are aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:01 AM
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No it's not that simple because we live in a society (lol). Culture and systems exist, created and upheld by that society, and those create the conditions we live in. Starving Okies migrating to California in the 30s were arrested for building Hoovervilles and hunting jackrabbits. Why? Because some guy in NYC owned that land. If you don't see the many different forces at play and the various differing levels of influence in the three sentences I laid out before this one, then this conversation i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:59 AM
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And yet it's true. And if you follow it you get more sex and relationships. So what's that say about our dear women? Pray tell me why women watch most of the violent porn? Why women love dark triad men? Why women love criminal men? Why every single guy will tell you that treating women like shit gets you laid more? Why misogynistic men get laid more? This is what I mean. The trauma is from the truth of it all. That women want to be things dominated by awful and emotionally unavailable but hot, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:46 AM
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I think the truth is that the internet has changed. Nobody cares about free speech online anymore. It's long dead. Everything you talked about was in an era where the "wild west" of the internet was being wrangled. Your most recent examples are 11 years old. So why would those guys (wherever they even are now..) defend the Tea app?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:38 AM
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yeah because clearly i meant them just "liking" attractive men and not being complete fucking degenerates around them and absolutely eating up the most vile and misogynistic treatment from those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:29 AM
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idk seeing women sort of generally loving Lenny Kravitz on stage or whatever is a lot different from seeing your hot guy roomate bring a new girl home every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:27 AM
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how does this conflict with "chad?" If anything it supports it. Attractiveness doesn't matter until you're a very top guy then you can have all the sex you want if you choose to. All this data really says is that people in general aren't that interested in wracking up big body counts. I think that's probably true. I mean most people are still monogamous. But there's a large and growing push agasint it. And all this data was taken before dating apps and what we now call hook up culture and a soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:22 AM
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casual sex and has about 4 lifetime sexual partners, of which 2-3 are long term boyfriends who are on their level. I've seen that study. What i haven't seen is an actually relevant one. Poll hot women that are 22-30 in the major American cities and let's see what that number actually is. Because it's a mathematical impossibility that some men are fucking hundreds and thousands of girls but most are little angels with body counts so low. Just impossible. I do agree with your second paragraph thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:08 AM
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Isn't this in essence what some people are trying to do here? Maybe not a ban but the answer to the incel problem (that isn't heinous..) is to shift culture away from these sorts of things. A de facto ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:04 AM
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yeah OP is clueless. I'm assuming he lives in some podunk ass place. In any urban enclave the vast majority of attractive people under 27 are having casual sex. It obvi decreases as people get older and marry off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:03 AM
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not that guy but I know a guy that was an athlete in college that hooked up with 5 girls in one day. in general tinder released while I was in college and the different was pretty much night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:00 AM
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how muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:59 PM
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yeah but for some people it's practically impossible. and even if it worked they're not attracted to the person. Meanwhile, social media and Tinder shows them everything they're missing out on. I'd view it like wealth disparity. It's crazy that Musk and Bezos have so much wealth. But here i am, with a roof over my head, a million kinds of food, a working car, clothes, I can afford to go out with friends, etc. I can swallow that disparity a lot easier. Maybe I'll think they're POSes and that nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:58 PM
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The psychological torment men must take when taking TRP and understanding the truly depraved nature of women. Really wild stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:47 PM
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interesting. what about the obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:11 AM
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can a wizard become chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:48 PM
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i mean yeah. i worship every square inch of the woman's body I'm with. sex wouldn't be anywhere near as exhilarating if I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:43 PM
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The performative meanness of the women on here is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:39 PM
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u write all that and /u/operation-spot doesn't even give you a response. the women on this sub has lost the fucking plot. nasty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:24 PM
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lol this is hilarious. no you didnt understand it. maybe it is a poor analogy but you're not in anyway getting it enough to argue that. have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:17 PM
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honestly im baffled how poorly you understood the metaphor lol. Why not make plans with your friends? lol why not be gay and fuck your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:55 PM
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Why do y'all think the only reason to be kind or empathetic is to someone you have sex with? I don't think that's the point. I think the point is for incel men that they feel a lack of social connection to society and in return they refuse to offer empathy and goodness. Imagine there's a big party everyone is having and you were never invited to but desperately (by your very biology) wish to be at. You live next door. You can hear the laughter and cheering. Smell the good food. At times even fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:59 PM
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Disagree. The average woman needs to have her attraction to a guy generated by the guy. This is usually by conversation with him. Sometimes its other things (e.g. displaying competence like watching a musician play to a crowd). Men are different. Men see a hot girl and feel an "oomph" inside them that drives them forward. Women experience this differently. This drive is why men make the first move. In truth, women -- the sisterhood -- should respect guys who approach them more. As a society we s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:00 PM
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I read a bit of the singleness gap one. Using US Census data from 1900 I found that 50.7% of young women compared to 30.5% of young men were married. Taking a trip to 1950 America where I hear you were guaranteed an attractive barefoot housewife after turning 18, even here we see that actually about half of young men were unmarried Uhh, this data point, and the rest of it (which is that a singleness gap has always existed), only supports TRP theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:02 PM
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First order of business is to fix my appearance. A lifelong project. Getting myself to something like a 12% body fat via calorie counting and lifting, sticking to a basic skin-care routine, and developing a deeper sense of personal style. I like jewelry. Always have. I'll start wearing some beyond my watches, even if it looks a little weird because as I said, gorilla-like. Meanwhile, internalizing what I wrote. If what I wrote initially wore its usual clothes, it would have said "having a strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:26 PM
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thankee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:17 PM
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Welp. Finally a Wizard. It's now or never. Starting a Red Pill journey. Will document my thoughts here, but am probably whispering into a void. That's okay. It'll be a fine record for myself. The pill analogy is a good one. I feel the veil has lifted. I have overheard a dirty, rotten secret of the world. It is disappointing. But, "Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth." Even if the truth hurts, and it sure does! Some things have shifted into place. I've always wondered about art…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:42 AM
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Women who are happy single don’t do those things and say they’re happy single. Come on, man. Single means you aren't in a relationship, not that you're celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:50 PM
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Vague. You took such a big swing and that's all you got? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:27 PM
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what'd he say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:48 PM
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Is it invented? I'm sorry but only one gender is capable of sleeping with 10k+ of the other. And if a woman does it she's almost certainly being trafficked. Women let desirable men do that to them. Until the sisterhood figures its shit out, why would desirable guys ever commit? My personal recommendation to every guy is to never, ever commit to one woman. There is simply something deep and destructive within their character. Not all women, I'm not one of those guys, but on average it is true. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:29 PM
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you're right about that. it's bizarre this thing you've built. like some sort of red pill kayfabe. "Unc just hit us with another one, praise Unc!" Bizarre...
/r/TheRedPill25/07/25 02:57 PM
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still can't believe people eat this fanfic up lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/25 02:30 PM
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Unfortunately many guys will not see a point in becoming exclusive when you’re already sleeping together because there’s no build up or anything to work towards. I think this depends on the guy. Most guys, even decent looking guys, still need to try to get laid. If we reduce everything down to sex then at least they can get laid daily from their partner vs. needing to put any work in. Shit, add in how fucked the economy is and suddenly I think telling an average guy he gets to combine finances w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:25 AM
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i think people should just be more open to falling in love. love has completely left the building. and falling in love might mean "settling" for someone you didn't initially feel a spark for or attraction to. If you talk to older couples it's not even that uncommon to hear that the woman didn't find the guy interesting at first (or thought he was rude). Part of that too is that people very commonly met via social circles which has waned for sure. But nevertheless people were open more to love an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:16 AM
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Most guys don't have any women "around" them. At most it's from work, which carries its own stigma, and isn't some never-ending well of meeting people. ..it's almost like, and this might sound crazy, conditions of modern society have changed the way we date! In this case, social circles and work waning in relevance when it comes to meeting partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:37 AM
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My question is this- of all those hundreds or thousands of women these dudes fuck, how many are happy with casual and how many would prefer this guy settle down and commit to her? I mean, come on. A woman entering into a situationship in the hopes of getting commitment from the guy is a stereotype for a reason i think A LOT are just looking for casual sex. especially the more attractive they are. go to any club in your city and it's usually attractive people. go into the party bars and it's goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:45 PM
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you say it's not worth but i know guys in their late 20s with body counts in the deep hundreds. And a guy who's kind of famous or a streamer or influencer or something? Forget about it -- literally can be over 1k easy. sure sounds like women be loving casual sex. maybe you dont idk. i knew a guy an athlete in college that slept with five girls in ONE DAY. He was trying to get it as high as he could but that just shows how easy it is for some guys. but yeah girls not be liking casual sex rofl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:52 PM
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The guy wouldn’t want a choice, that’s the point. He’s noble and loyal and values real love so he’s only going to pursue the one women he actually wants. But she doesn't value real love so why would the guy? In your scenario we know she doesn't value real love because the things you listed for why she loves him are superficial reasons to love somebody. That doesn't mean they're incorrect but my point is what glue is keeping this guy to her if not love? So, you're just inventing someone. It seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:40 PM
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lol so i guess the other person conceded to your point then (a person who clearly hasn't read the book - Darcy was always handsome, and besides that most women love Dracy from the filmed versions of the book nowadays....most people don't read books simple as that).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:52 PM
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honest question for you. Don't you think this theoretical guy would have a lot of choice between women he finds attractive? If so, then why do you think he'd settle for just one? You might say he's in love with her. But why would he fall in love with her if she's only attracted to superficial characteristics? In general, doesn't it seem like love has left the building in modern dating? And from that spirals most of the issues we see. and you're wrong about jane austen. pride and prejudice is a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:39 PM
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any incel success stories? like some obese guy that starts going to the gym and stuff and doing TRP type shit (or otherwise changing his life) and documenting it? Curious about that. I know there are some like regular dude becomes chad but what about incel to chad or otherwise incel to happy regular guy that can at least get laid / a hot gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:32 PM
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people use it to mean what women find attractive. this isn't really what it actually means. feminism is beyond the scope of this subreddit. we might discuss the perceived fallout of feminism but we don't really peel into feminist critique. All feminism is, fundamentally, is a lens for analyzing things with a focus on gender. the male gaze is a fold in feminist thinking that is analyzing how men depict women (and sometimes men) in art. In essence, if a man were to construct a fictional woman, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:39 AM
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idk. its maybe not the best data point but i def. watch too much porn and it's crazy when I see the hottest amateur girl (usually an OF chick) ever with guys that don't have the body of Johnny Sins, i.e. look more like the highest ratings in that chart. Male pornstars tend to be very muscular but the amateur porn world matches that chart more ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:25 AM
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i know women that find blue collar guys sexy. idk what to tell u.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:19 AM
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yeah i dont think OP understands these topics. and as far as I can tell they're more about people in LTRs than casual hookups or dating. most of what I could find on the terms related to couples therapy..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:15 AM
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spontaneous and responsive desire are concepts relating to LTRs, no? Doesn't really seem applicable to anything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:13 AM
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i think you're just trying to find an angle that doens't exist. you're just describing normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:58 PM
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men cannot be happy without regularly being sexually desired. no human can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:30 AM
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idk how im the first to point this out but The Old Man and the Sea doesn't have a storm in it. in fact a storm would kind of ruin the book. and you write like AI.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/25 03:50 AM
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yeah idk if he was but he acted like it. he didn't even need to say anything they did all the talking trying to convince him to drive somewhere with them (couldn't hear where -- but it's friday night so I'd think a party or whatever high school kids do nowadays.).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:48 AM
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no but you can finish it. i can go to the store and buy food rn. i shouldnt because im not hungry. but boy -- if I couldn't get food when I did want it, it sure would be a problem for me, and I'd start to think about the people who can get food whenever they are hungry differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:43 AM
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the point is because you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:38 AM
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they all were into the guy. that was clear. maybe they won't all fuck him at the same time but he could no doubt have each individually if he decided to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:38 AM
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It doesn't really sound worse. Lots of countries actively vote and choose to continue enhancing wealth disparity and those who propagate it. And that's on a hell of a lot more people. maybe but there is no common denominator. and the forces are more opaque. in this case it's women (common denominator) and it's them swooning over attractive men (not opaque in the slightest). When you call us women vile and monsters and you bring up 10-30% of men, what's your actual solution? What would you propos…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:33 AM
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alrdy did. but at the end of the day we're both posting on reddit on a friday night while that kid has a fivesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:13 AM
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Though you didn't really say any reason why the guy who got off work was any bad? Being a bit boneheaded and being poor doesn't disqualify someone from being good, unless there's something about him you didn't share with the class. Or you're just stereotyping. Which it already seems you somewhat are regardless of your position on the one guy. idk anything about the guy although I overheard him speaking and he was barely doing more than grunting and the girls could barely contain themselves. My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:05 AM
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saw some high school chad get off work at a shitty retail store and go home with four girls. Dude could barely string a sentence together but was hot. Women are genuinely the most disgusting creatures walking this Earth. I used to compare looks to wealth but now I realize it's far worse because rich people don't require half the human race to "make" them rich. Women make the choice to create men like this, to create the massive disparity we see. Meanwhile, decent guys can't even start families a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:48 AM
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i do think there is truth here in the sense that people are marrying later and having families later. the obvious fallout of that means people are casually dating / hooking up into later ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:27 PM
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it's even worse because other men are now aspirational toward the top men. meaning non-top men don't want to settle either because they believe by improving themselves they'll be able to live the lifestyle of the top men. It's a trick down effect. Average guys that are TRP-aware view themselves as "temporarily embarrassed Chads" not as regular guys. And in the same way women love to say "men are competing not with other men but a woman's PEACE! as a single woman" these TRP-aware nonchad / chadli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:14 PM
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okay ive been in them for 20 back on the fucking paintball nation forums. All this started from PUA forums. And in truth I'd bet it's older than internet forums. Beta bux comes from "alpha fucks, beta bucks" which is old PUA shit. Pretending each pill is some cohesive philosophy shows you don't know shit. By definition black pill is the pessimistic one, leaning toward looks are all that matter and no amount of game or money is gonna fix things. That's what it is by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:43 PM
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people dont get married because women's hypergamy has grown to the point where the only guys they'd marry have non-stop access to casual sex. dating has transformed into a game of transactions. notions of love don't really exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:37 PM
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they say all this and then will choose to be get ran through by athletes and chads in college. like honestly who fuckin cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:34 PM
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not really but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:27 PM
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no black pill rhetoric is by definition saying the guy will never have a wife, family, etc., not that it's just harder for him to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:01 PM
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I guess the obvious answer is you began as the "AFC", learned about shit like TRP, tried to out and it never quite worked out for you, so you spiraled into black pill / incel stuff. And presumably the AFC who ended up turning it around just stopped coming to these spaces anyway. I think AFC is from old seduction communities, long before the internet destroyed reality. AFC implies a certain a normalcy in the first place. "Average." If you were a regularly social guy of average attractiveness, dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:47 PM
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crazy mentality. akin to saying "either people want to buy my company's products or they don't." "either they'll give me the raise because Ive done a good job or they won't." etc. You just don't see the connection. You ever hear the phrase "MAKING friends?" Make is the operative word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:49 AM
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i dont really get this. being "pushy", e.g. going after the things you want and overcoming resistance to get them, isn't a negative attribute. It's a valuable skill in many facets of life whether that's buying a car, showing interest in a woman you know, operating a business, raising a kid, or facing conflict from a bad person. You should feel some entitlement to other people's time and life. That's called living in a society. We all owe something to each other. Without this entitlement we could…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:34 AM
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i genuinely think some of you people come here to make posts like this because you get off on it. it's like a form of cuckholding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:11 AM
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what could i read to understand this more?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:00 AM
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Women are attracted to looks, confidence, charisma, assertiveness and competence. Roughly in that order (although there are variations). What are some variations? One, it shatters the idea of women being pure beings of light that are attracted by virtue. It showcases that they are as shallow as men, and that's not a good look. I wonder if part of this is that, especially in the modern world, a lot of guys don't feel like there's a good reason to be virtuous or ethical. Blue Pill says you'll at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:45 AM
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i couldnt possibly comment on non-western cultures so alright. have a good day ig lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:56 PM
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I disagree with nearly every line you wrote, lol. Women are naturally less attracted to the average men than vice versa. But this I just find sad. I agree in the modern context but it's a sad and pervasive myth that women never loved their husbands until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:49 PM
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It's not one woman. She's a new woman every time she finds a new hobby that excites her, every time she tries a new recipe, every time she accomplishes that big goal and sets another one, every wrinkle added, fat lost and gained, every new look via makeup and wardrobe, every sad life event and every happy one. We are remade constantly. You speak like you are not a child of Earth. I task you to spend a winter in a cabin with a journal. To observe, every single day (and I do mean every single day)…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:33 PM
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what's your weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:18 PM
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i think it's more complex than that. e.g. a famous hot man can also sleep with a new woman "in 5 minutes" if he wanted, and men tend to be if anything envious of that man rather than see it as devaluing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:55 PM
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Like, in general, I just feel like there's this big pressure around to not properly feel things. Like to not feel love or connection as a guy. Whether that's with friends or women. well yes, love has been excised from sex and dating in a lot of ways. I'd argue this is key problem of our modern love lives. And in general, abstract ideals like love, community, virtue, ethics, creativity, passion, and so on have been cut out from modern society. These things don't only prevent you from getting ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:53 PM
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whats your body count? i do agree btw. i could say a lot more but I've written enough on this subreddit today. i think we see the lessons you espouse here throughout western literature. Chivalry for example was centered around men proving their love to women. Courtship in general is. These aspects of our culture changing (as you note you used to "do well" in America but not as much now) is a big part of the change this subreddit discusses. also props to having read actually good literature. rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:31 PM
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Oh ok. Well that's one of the great paradoxes of this whole shift: men and women objectify women's sexuality and sex itself. Sex has been "disenchanted" (to steal the term). But in truth we know sex is meaningful. It's not just two people playing tennis. It means more than that. But our culture -- in a myriad of ways including porn -- is making us think it isn't a big deal; and so men will watch hardcore porn and regular girls will post their ass on instagram. And we're mostly all unhappier for …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:12 PM
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Fame is misunderstood. I can write a lot about this, but I'll try to keep it simple. Proximity is the number one way to get laid and find partners. What I mean by this is putting yourself in a place to meet members of the opposite sex. This is why school and work often create relationships. Famous people by definition (barring infamous) have a "wide" proximity. Imagine you're a rock star and you're playing shows every single night. You're essentially putting yourself in the proximity of a thousa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:10 PM
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I think a big part of the issue is that a lot of men are only viewing women as a means of sexual release. They jump straight from "girls have cooties" to endless hours of porn without ever engaging with women as fellow human beings. I don't disagree. I think porn is a great evil visited upon society and especially men. And by porn I mean everything from hardcore to girls showing their asses off on IG. They both turn women into objects, make men view women as objects, among a thousand other issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:48 PM
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Thanks! I'll add one more controversial piece: dating apps and social media severely disadvantages the average man. It's impossible to communicate masculine virtues via photographs. The proof is in the pudding here: ask yourself (general "you" not you OP specifically) if a guy has a better shot meeting a girl through friends, a hobby group, or simply approaching at a cafe vs. matching her on Tinder. I think just about everyone will agree the former. Yet it's the same guy and same girl. We implic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:40 PM
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i agree in a different way. i dont think your examples are very good. but i do think average and ugly men are now beginning to feel a shame for their sexuality as a result of non-stop rejection. I think this is a major reason for them becoming bitter incels. There's only so much rejection someone can take -- if you're an ugly guy spending months and months on a dating app to not get a single match, that feels like you're in a non-stop state of rejection. Rejection is a fine and and regular thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:42 PM
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worth noting you replied to a trans woman. im not against trans people but let's get real they're obvious swimming in a different sort of sea than regular cis het people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:18 AM
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hilarious you get dicked down by tinder chads all the time and two days ago you posted about losing your faith in men You're living a meme lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:13 AM
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you don't have to. You can do everything you listed and not mistreat a woman. Like take this lets them know that he can get women to replace them at any time You can tell her she's nothing more than a hole you're fucking and you can move onto the next one. Or, you can, without nerves or hesitation, be cool with her friends, with female strangers you both meet vacationing or at the bar, etc. Seriously, make her friends gut laugh one time and your girl will want to jump your bones. You also have y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:24 PM
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I call this Virtuegame. You have to be genuinely interested in the woman though or they'll see through it. Frankly, a lot of guys aren't. But it works well if you can still build attraction. You're trying to embody a more classical masculine appeal, like from medieval romances. A heroic aura. A kingly presence in the sense that you're a leader not just some hot fuckboy that can barely string a sentence together or is always uncouth, nor a gregarious rake with a silver tongue. I don't think you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:14 PM
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arent a lot of high school and college aged guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:01 PM
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Nah. It was only after the invention of agriculture that we started seeing the disparity in gender reproduction. Also, it's closer to 40% of men and 20% of women never reproduced. This also wasn't because women chose hunks and rich guys. It's because those men had power and kept other men from reproducing. Slavery was a major reason, so was war wiping out entire tribes and bloodlines but not the women. Let's also remember reproducing != sex. Contraception is quite old. Whoring was one of the ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:06 PM
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have any guys ever actually tried a bit of the red pill just to see if it works? genuinely curious. Like gave it a good six months? like: have you lifted 3-4x a week for six months? have you tried approaching girls (not using apps exclusively) in that time? do u have a job and a car? do u have a basic skincare routine, have done a couple rounds of teeth whitening strips, have figured out a specific facial hair style which you maintain, dress at more than a t-shirt and jeans level (or, if you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:47 PM
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how often do you compliment his appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:20 AM
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just saying so you strongly oppose stuff like DEI and affirmative action then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:21 AM
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I agree with the culture and lack of incentives to going outside, but this is a stick rather than a carrot approach so I oppose it especially since it would make my own life notably worse. I'm unsure what you mean by stick rather carrot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:15 AM
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Homeless people don't starve. They rarely freeze or die of heatstroke. Men kill themselves for loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:11 AM
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culture. the same thing that has changed since the 90s and has led to those men having 0 women interested in the first place. if I was dictator for the day I'd start with banning porn and social media for anyone under 21, making propaganda that devalues casual sex and promotes serial monogamy and reenchants sex (i.e. suggests sex is more than just a physical act), and finally creating a whole set of incentives that takes young people outside of their homes and into the real world. idk if that'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:54 PM
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naw you right. I forgot that it's far more likely you're just that dumb and you're not trolling. esp. when you in your post history you argue that culture has changed hahaha. another L. ding ding. I think the front desk is buzzing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:58 PM
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I’m not black pill though? Brother, you're not a very intelligent guy. Five minutes looking at your post history and it's clear you're doing this thing where you say run-of-the-mill blackpill shit but the "twist" is that you're on the other side, the side of men who get a ton of casual sex. And from that position things appear insightful to you despite it being just regular, tired blackpill shit. Keep working in that gym. Maybe I'll give you a good tip for cleaning my towels one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:11 PM
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Yes but your entire argument rests on “dating is harder for men now and they’re owed vagina as a treat otherwise they’ll drop out of society” More so men won't care to participate in a society where they don't have access to sex, love, and a family. I do think I get it now. You just hate men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:54 PM
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When did I say that. Or are you HONESTLY trying to say that society should somehow influence its own women to give men sex as a little treat for existing as part of a social contract? You can’t be lol? No. I think a confluence of factors (esp. the rise of online dating and social media) have created an environment where both genders are unwilling to accept dating with they're most compatible with along the axes of looks, financial wealth, lived experiences, interests, etc. The women harmed by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:46 PM
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i think you're making pretty outrageous claims here. essentially you're saying beauty standards don't exist. or that culture has no influence upon love, sex, and family life. incredibly bizarre and not worth taking seriously. you also don't seem to understand the distinction between society as a whole and an individual. so..yeah another L-car in the commercial train of them you've won today, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:28 PM
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For existing in society and working and paying taxes etc etc you get back the things you get back, aka benefits a salary a police force protecting you etc etc Yes, this is what we're calling the extended social contract. Let's talk about the police. Do men (overwhemlingly male profession) become cops entirely for money? No. Men might become cops because they feel a sense of duty to protect others. They might also do it because it's a well paying profession and it will help them attract women. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:12 PM
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yeah sure. men should be okay with a curt response. i agree with you there. men not being okay with that shows a lack of confidence and experience and is something they need to work on. so i think we agree. i personally think one of the problems a lot of young men have is they aren't facing rejection enough. they're afraid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:57 PM
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theyll probably just kill the messenger after all. but ill brave them for our fearless mod team.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:52 PM
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“If you get paid to work then society owes you something and therefore social contract surely owes you love and sex for contributing to society” So i argued why this (or somewhat this, you mischaracterized the idea a bit) is true. If you need to reread my posts go ahead. But this is a premise. Which I attempted to support with my arguments, which were the main body of my posts. You on the other hand simply keep saying "No. Vagina isn't owed" on repeat. Do you see the difference in how one is an …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:47 PM
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idk what you're after here. i already said persistent weirdo dudes (esp. people hitting on kids) shouldn't be tolerated and they generally aren't. nobody is siding with pedofiles trying to harass little girls. so idk what you're getting at here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:43 PM
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okay. sounds good. ill make a note that you specifically do not sympathize with violent men. ill be sure to bring that to their attention at the next meeting. thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:41 PM
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You've made the same reply like seven times now where all you say is "vagina isn't owed." without actually responding to any of my argument. You've been taking Ls this whole time. You slop them up. Prolific!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:36 PM
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i think this one is above your pay grade. have a good one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:15 PM
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no that conflicts with the domestic violence statistics. males have a problem with exerting violence/violation UNTO OTHERS. This doesn't offend me btw. The greatest feature of being a man is exerting his will upon the world in a way a woman cannot. Make no mistake, your lifestyle and society you belong to is the result of men who did this very thing of exerting violence upon others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:10 PM
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Good! Then you agree that society DOES owe something to the people contributing to it. You even listed some ways in which society dispenses these entitlements. Next question: do you think someone is exploited if they don't receive some kind of entitlements from contributing to society? In your example, if somebody wasn't being paid by their employer. Or if their taxes didn't pay for infrastructure and protection? I'm going to assume your answer is yes since you listed those things first. I'm als…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:04 PM
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crazy that men are coming to your door every day and hitting on you. maybe invest in a gate? idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:47 PM
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Do you believe that somebody should be a "literally functioning adult" in society and receive nothing in return? I just want to establish that you believe society does in fact owe SOMETHING to the people that belong to it. If you don't believe that then there's no reason to keep going here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:30 PM
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How does that jive with the statistics showing women attempt suicide more or that DV is equal among sexes? I think a better explanation is that men just commit more powerful kinds of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:28 PM
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So you think a debate is ignoring everything that is said, stating an opinion as fact, not arguing why that's the case, and then doing an exasperated victory lap? Alrighty..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:11 PM
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omen suffer and don’t “shoot up the place” or “murder their ex” the way sad or frustrated men tend to do. Maybe that means women aren't suffering anywhere near as much as men are? Here's one simple reason: even an ugly woman can find a man to date or at least know the feeling of being sexually desired. If anything that strengthens my argument. There's another angle too. Men are just better at violence. Maybe women would shoot more places up if they had the same propensity for violence that men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:10 PM
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Bizarre response. You didn't even directly respond to a single thing I said and now you're saying you've actually been an elite debater this whole time. Odd.. Once again, have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:51 PM
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I agree with this. But it's also a naive. If women cannot adjust to living within a society of people where others are indeed entitled to some extent to your time and space when you're in public (this is quite literally the definition of society) -- whether that's because they're Jehovah Witnesses or guys hitting on you -- then they need to grow up. I don't treat homeless beggars like human garbage because I've had a few harass me. As a culture and society it's our role to define just how "pushy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:49 PM
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You're not really even making an argument here. I don't think you understand this subreddit. It's not a platform for your tweets. If you aren't coming in good faith then why bother? 20% of men living celibate lives won't lead to a good, stable society. I guess we'll see who is more correct within the next 20 years. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:45 PM
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What's the incentive to "literally function as adults" then? Why would a man want to work a job so his boss can get pussy, have a big house, and have a family? Why would a man give a shit about the well-being of his neighbor who has a family and a loving wife if society tells him everyday he doesn't get to have those things? A "literally functioning adult" is someone who, on some level, is contributing to society. They work, pay taxes, spend their money into the economy, are invested in protecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:35 PM
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what's your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:01 PM
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these people don't bother me one bit. if I say no and they persist then it does. but most guys know to bail if the girl is put off or rejects you immediately. i dont think most of us here would disagree with calling a persistent guy that wont take no for an answer as "creepy"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:49 PM
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What incentive does a man have to pay taxes or participate in polite society then? We all accept a sort of social contract between each other that helps define our culture and society itself. A minority but significant percentage of men, as they age, lose hope in ever having regular sex, finding love, or starting a family. This results in them opting out of society in various ways: deaths of despair, crime, becoming a hermit, or violence among other things. We can argue rights or not. I don't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:45 PM
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let's repackage the analogy: If you’re outside on a hot summer day, and walk inside where it’s cold from air conditioning, does it not feel as good in that moment because one hot summer night a few years ago you walked into a building that was even colder? Naw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:21 PM
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no clue what you're saying. i just dont know in what universe people think women getting pumped and dumped by celeb and high status men elevates the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:18 PM
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married men are pretty much the only type of person that ever describes their partner as the most beautiful in the world. Even women with good looking husbands never actually say that about him. Meanwhile, you can see an average looking bloke think that about his average looking wife. there's a reason men have written most of all the great art of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:58 PM
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It is low status for women to grant sexual access outside of commitment, unless the man is very high status, What's determining status? If it's the opposite sex then I'd disagree with this. Most guys would be turned off to hear that a girl they're interested in has fucked a famous person or dated an uber rich, high-status guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:53 PM
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meanwhile the next thread over asks women how often they see/meet a physically attractive or interesting guy and 90% of them are talking giving answers in the order of weeks, months, and years hahahaha. women dont deserve men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:58 AM
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It all depends on the context of who you are and what you like to do. You need to leverage what you have and are good at and are passionate about. Being hot is universal to all contexts, though the kind of hot you are still depends on the context. For example, that king68 guy wouldn't do anywhere near as well picking up girls in the NYC literary or music scene as he currently looks. But if he changed some things around he would because he's hot and hot is universal. It's the easiest advice to gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:42 PM
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Per the thread, clearly, most men would love this. And I think one major difference is that if a specific man didn't love this, then he'd stop fucking her. He wouldn't give it up. He'd find an LTR from the bottom 80% of girls that aren't pumping and dumping him. But will the girl in the video do that? No, obviously. That's why this subreddit exists in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:03 AM
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where'd u get started with the red pill? i find the subreddit difficult to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:50 AM
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right here - 30 y/o Chicagoland area.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:59 PM
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spill the beans: what are some of the things he does when he's running game what's the secret
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:56 PM
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Sounds like OP just wanted to confirm her bias that men wouldn't choose 80% and yet every single man is saying they would..lol. I'm sure she won't actually move forward in her life believing this is true though. Better to pretend men are the one's causing all the problems in the dating world. anyway, to answer the question, I would "settle," but I also don't have "ideal traits" really. If you make me fall in love with you then you make me fall in love with you. Though I know the concept of love …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:51 PM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:35 AM
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Post what link? It's your own link. You linked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:33 AM
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I clicked one of your links and the title was, "Does attractiveness influence condom use intentions in heterosexual men? An experimental study" The study involved, "51 heterosexual, English-speaking men aged between 18 and 69 years." So, you know, they really tapped into the width of human experience with this one. I'll spell it out for you: WEAK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:30 AM
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Men prefer women to have around 3 partners max Sure. I'd prefer to marry Sydney Sweeny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:24 AM
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lol no. multiplied. So, if you're 30 then 30-18 * 2.2 = 26.4 -> 26 or 27 is a good number.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:19 AM
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(Age - 18) * 2.2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:03 AM
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with high degrees of intrasex commonality of behaviors, especially when it comes to mate selection. horseshit. high degree of sexual dimorphism of both physique and behavior nobody denies this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:01 AM
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no it doesn't. name another animal that flew to the moon or wrote classical music. human culture has a tremendous weight on our lives and you can see it just by studying how vastly different these cultures are. Meanwhile, a polar bear acts pretty similar to a black bear all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:35 AM
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