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That still sounds like you have to invest a lot of time and energy before actually finding out…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:55 PM
7

How often is that skill really going to be put to use? She means could you bring to make her daily life better, are you an exceptional cleaner? Great cook? Are you super organized? Are you emotionally calm and clear headed under stressful situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:53 PM
9

The actual hate typically comes from the mob itself. This sounds like revisionist history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:06 PM
5

Are you saying that men haven’t killed women for being women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:02 PM
11

Rulers wielded their power above men and women. What makes you think the average guy had any form of political/societal power in previous centuries? I quite literally already said this in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:56 PM
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We’re debating over semantics here. Just like people use “homophobia” to mean hate when it really means fear of homosexuality or homosexuals, it’s the same of misogyny. Hate often stems from fear anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:50 PM
1

Misandry hasn’t always existed in its current form. It’s never been this wide spread. Sure there’s always been tiny pockets of man hating or radical feminism but they were always shunned back into the darkness. It didn’t exist anywhere near this level even 20 years ago. Can’t really say the same about misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:47 PM
4

Which is why I said “civilized history” not nomadic cave people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:43 PM
11

You don’t think misogyny has been used by rulers throughout history to weld power over women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:31 PM
1

Israel would be the oppressive power structure (misogyny) in this case. They are systemic. Palestine isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:29 PM
9

Sugar daddy and sugar baby are an equal exchange, not an oppressive systemic structure. A more accurate analogy would be “the slave master needs to stop being mean and the slave needs to stop trying to revolt.” In actuality, the slave master needs to free slave because if the slave is free there will be no need to revolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:28 PM
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I don’t get this. Be happy to play in your league or earn enough money to attract women you actually find attractive. Those are the options. The premise of the post was that he couldn’t date because he wasn’t a “provider type” I’m saying you don’t need to be a provider to get women, you just need to adjust your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:35 PM
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If this were true all the men in the trailer park would be single but a lot of them have multiple baby mamas. The most desirable women will always have their pick of the litter and more often than not they will pick a man with means. With that being said most men would save themselves a lot of heartbreak if they stopped attempting to chase those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:55 PM
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This seems pretty accurate. I was watching a live concert of a Mexican artist who was popular in the 90’s and thought “I’ve never seen a man act this sensual in my life.” The average man does not have gravitational pull like that. It’s extremely rare and extremely sought after by women. Just like the average woman, the average man is unsexy, a tiny bit awkward and clumsy. You can’t expect to be treated like you’re desirable to the majority of women like Sensual Chad when you’re Bland Blob Bob. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:55 PM
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I think women already widely accept this. I grew up with both parents working but my mom did all the cooking, the vast majority of the cleaning, she was the keeper of bill paying, main errand runner and grocery shopper. She took us to the doctor and dentist was in charge of all the school stuff. She cut the grass half the time in the spring and summer. But it’s okay because my dad changed the oil and the tires and fixed a leaky sink every once in a while lol. Even couples that go into marriage w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:28 PM
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See I don’t get this. This is absolutist thinking. Not necessarily aiming this comment at you but at men who think like this. If you find out woman tried anal with a guy before you but doesn’t do anal with you. That’s doesn’t mean you’re not desired. That simply means she hates doing anal and never wants to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:15 PM
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I don’t find it hard to believe that 70-90% men at least try to cheat in their lifetime. I think most men at least try. As in they orbit and flirt with an attractive female co-worker and get close to her in order to create an opportunity to have sex with her while having a wife of 15 years at home. They’re laying the groundwork for an affair. I see this all the time at work. Those men are trying to cheat. The only thing stopping them is the woman in question isn’t attracted or interested because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:24 AM
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Men and women usually cheat for different reasons. Sometimes these reasons overlap but generally there is a gender based pattern there. Women tend to only cheat when unsatisfied with the relationship. Men cheat whether they’re happy in a relationship or not and more likely to cheat for novelty than love. Men are also more likely to act impulsively and take risk so it makes sense. Men are more likely to participate in opportunistic cheating meaning if the opportunity is there and the risk is low …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:41 PM
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I did not conduct the survey or studies the surveyors adjusted the stats by comparing it to more private confessions. An example of this would be a direct survey shows 12% cheating (obviously people lying) but an anonymous diary or randomized response technique (similar to something like a coin flip) shows 28%, researchers recognize the gap and use it to calibrate honesty estimates in their report. The coin flip example would go like this: If heads, they answer truthfully to the sensitive questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:26 PM
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The same applies for men too. I wrote it under the men’s survey results that it was adjusted to account for men lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:54 PM
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I think what serial monogamy generally means for people is they stay in a relationship until the “feel good” juices run out. Like as soon as the honeymoon phase ends and the relationship starts to require more work or feel more complicated they bounce. Whether that’s 6 months or 10 years depends on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:53 PM
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A man who willingly does favors to women, gets out of his way to help women, who pays for meals, trips, etc without getting laid is accepted by the sisterhood, he is a slave in the female controlled plantation. These men are friendzoned, they get pushed around, they are never the first choice of anyone. He just sounds like a friend. I do all these things for my female and male friends and they do it for me. Does that mean they’re friend zoning me or I’m friend zoning them? Helping a friend isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:18 PM
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You’re trying to moralize biology. It’s the exact same with men. That’s why men lie and manipulate to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:29 AM
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Not quite. More likely to display soft manipulation tactics than women to get sex like lying. More likely to engage in violent acts with other men to come across as dominate to impress women and get sex. And less commonly: rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:21 AM
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We know. Which is why feminism exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:00 AM
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I never volunteer genuine apologies. The only times I say sorry to anyone is when they say something along the lines of “You did/said X and it really hurt my feelings.” Then I apologize and make sure I never do/say that thing to that person again. More women say that than men so I really don’t say sorry to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:54 AM
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You can’t expect a woman who wants a good life for her children to be in a relationship with a broke man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:47 AM
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I think men are more inclusive than when it comes to who they would have sex with. That’s true. The more desperate a man is the more likely he is to get into a relationship or have sex with someone he isn’t in love with to gain access to regular sex or to be able to procreate. This by no means equates to loving or even liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:45 AM
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Women’s biological imperative is to gather resources so their children have better chances of survival and success. Humans are constantly thinking both rationally and emotionally at the same time. This is how it has always been and that imperative can also coexist with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:39 AM
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Men don’t want female body builders. But it would be a lie to say that men want a woman whose mass mostly comes from body fat even when she’s skinny. That would make her skinny fat. Men want a woman with semi toned arms and legs and a flat stomach ideally. And if she doesn’t have a fat ass naturally they want her to build an ass made up of muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:58 AM
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Interesting that this post was approved considering it does fall follow the subs rules on what a debate post is suppose to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:24 AM
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There’s actually a study on this where researchers asked a group of men what their ideal body was for a woman. They responded: Visible curves (hips, waist) Body type is far FAR more important in accessing female attractiveness than her body fat does. Contrary to popular belief most women don’t have a hour glass type body (8-10% of the female population). The kind of body that naturally links its self to curves that are closely associated with womanhood. Most women either have a Pear (Triangle) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:17 AM
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Wherever the wind takes me, dawg. I don’t even know what I’m doing next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:00 PM
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This isn’t true. There are many women who will out right say “I only date men over 6ft.” Or “I’m only going to marry a rich guy.” (There’s even a derogatory term for this type of woman: gold digger). Women get absolutely dragged for stating what they want. Many men are in fact mad at the standard. Not the perceived gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:55 PM
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No one is fighting for it. The average woman simply doesn’t care enough to approach the average man. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:22 PM
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The more patriarchal the country the lower the standard of living as well. The most male center societies in the world are 3rd world and impoverished.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:03 PM
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Comparing a country that has greater gender equality to the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:01 PM
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Maybe, but that doesn’t explain why women would rather be dependent on a welfare state than be with the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:49 PM
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lol why did he disappear? Anyway, Russia has a horrible alcoholism problem in their male population as well has decades long domestic violence issues. Not saying these are the sole reason but it has a lot to do these numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:47 PM
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I believe more people point it out when women do it because we are taught to believe women are the ones desperate for relationships and marriage. When in fact, it’s becoming increasingly obvious that it isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:32 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:29 PM
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This statement is an unbiased observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:20 PM
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It would be interesting to compare it to Iceland which scores as the the most economically gender-equal country. Iceland, 2023: Married: 38.7% Single (never married): 31.8% Divorced: 14.1% Divorce rate may be low because not many people are getting married. Also very low population compared to Sweden. I'm not sure why you think that men pursue marriage more than women though I’m going off of the dating app stats regarding the gender of users. Most young Swedes (52%) have reported to use dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:11 PM
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Women definitely aren’t hyper independent in terms of need for connection. Having a solid support group of friends and birth family is important for a woman’s overall emotional well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:46 PM
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I don’t think this is necessarily the issue. I think the issue is most men don’t know how to be smooth. They don’t have the tools or social knowledge to articulate their feelings at an appropriate time. They don’t know how to be cool about it. They don’t know how to approach the topic. They also don’t know how to be okay with a “no”. They think being friendly with someone should automatically ensure romantic and sexual attraction when it’s never really worked that way. They’re extremely awkward …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:20 PM
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Most people who blame single mothers for bad people are arguing in bad faith. Poverty tends to breed violence. Most poverty stricken neighborhoods are more violent on average and have higher instances of individuals with severe mental illness, and undiagnosed and untreated trauma and PTSD. Most single mothers live in poverty. Do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:10 PM
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I’ve noticed men who love their woman more than their woman loves them have the most passionate long lasting relationships. What the kids would call a “golden retriever” man - “black cat” woman relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:47 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:45 PM
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I don’t know who made up this lie that gay men rarely fight. As someone who has many gay/bi male friends young gay men in particular get into fights ALL the time. They fight over dick and they fight over cheating. I would say they fight more than straight men. They just don’t report it. I just think whenever a woman puts her hands on another woman no one really gets hurt. A broken nail here a scratch there. Also gay men are less likely to report their DV to the police because law enforcement as …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:48 PM
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No one really makes jokes about women raping men. It’s always men raping women or men raping other men. This is in fact a reflection of culture and how rape is a way to dominate and oppress by taking away a person’s ability to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:53 PM
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Great so it’s not too much for her to ask the man who wants to impregnate her to get down on one knee. In fact that’s the very least he can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:53 PM
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A large number of men throughout history never got a chance to reproduce or have a relationship. It’s not like this phenomenon is brand new. Historians estimate that on average, about 40% of men have reproduced, compared to 80% of women. We’re only experiencing an intense disparity because there are practically no wars or mass genocide in western countries. More men are living longer and not dying in wars or being attacked by bears. Creating the illusion that there are more sexless men now than …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:24 AM
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A woman having to carry a child for 9 months isn’t reciprocated directly either. Is she a simp if she does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:14 AM
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Ehh sometimes yes. But sometimes women have causal sex with ugly losers who don’t have a job so take that how you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:25 PM
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I’ll give it to you straight. The sexuality of the average male is in direct opposition to biological mission of the human female. Men’s sexuality drives them to: try to have sex with as many women as possible to increase the likelihood that he has children and that he has enough so that some of them live to adulthood. We literally don’t need to do this anymore because most children live to adulthood but our lizard brain still thinks we live in caves with Saber Tooth’s circling outside. Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:16 PM
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I don’t see your point. Rape is also extremely common for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:50 PM
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The alternative is men approach because they’re biological more driven to or they don’t mate. Like 95% of animals in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:41 PM
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Women who want children don’t have time. There is a clock and those women can’t afford to waste time with more non-committal men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:35 PM
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I don’t see how this doesn’t result in more women being used. Say women start approaching the average man. He suddenly starts getting approached once a week. Is he going to settle down with the first woman who he likes? No, he’s going to take advantage of the situation and build a roster. Now it’s not just the “top 20% of men” who has a harem. Now it’s a good 45-50%. Women would literally be making fuckbois by doing this. Like a fuckboi factory. You see this phenomenon in cities where women out …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:28 PM
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You’re acting as though men never reject women or men never use women who seem too eager to be with them. It happens all the time. Women approaching isn’t a societal panacea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:12 PM
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One of the most hilarious instances of this is men being against women traveling. They think they’re traveling to have sex (which is what passport bros do and what most men would do if they could). It such a clear example of men projecting male sexuality on woman. Do some women have sex with a hot Italian while they’re in Italy, sure. Do most women? No. Being like “my girl can’t go anywhere on a girl’s trip without me!” Is just admitting. That boys trips are full of debauchery and infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:16 PM
3

Not sure the exact percent but I will say more women are suited to be “better partners” than men. Women show higher levels of being “self-sacrificial” in the context of close relationships. Willing to give up her own dreams and goals for the happiness of her partner and children (there are both biological and cultural reasons as to why that is). Women also rated higher than men in willingness to give. Give time, energy and emotional labor in the care of loved ones. Now if a woman wants a caring,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:02 PM
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SMV is something super online men use to see if women aren’t with their appropriate “match”. It’s a ruler for men to go “no, no you’re with a man hotter than you, you deserve to be arrested”. No one actually checks if them and their partner are exactly equally yoked in the “sexual market”. Women just know when a man is hot he’s hot. When he’s not he’s not. A lot of women can’t even articulate what exactly made a particular man catch her eye. It could be the way he walks, the way he holds himself…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:38 PM
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Gen Z has completely perverted the meaning of “simp” the original meaning of simp is a man doing whatever a woman wanted in hopes that one day she’ll like him back (she never does). That’s a simp. A simp isn’t a man in a happy, healthy reciprocal relationship who gets down on one knee to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:28 PM
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Sure, that doesn’t stop humans from pursuing it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:25 PM
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A lot of people love shallowly and opportunistically, more people than either sex wants to admit. Take sex away from a man for a year in a relationship and many will stray. Take a job away from a man for more than a year and a lot of women will stray. A lot of human “love” revolves around the success and fulfillment of our base biological function. If a man perceives he no longer has access to sex with his wife and therefore no longer has a chance to spread his seed, he will suddenly “fall out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:19 PM
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Oh I know. Which is why women tend to lower their standards as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:15 PM
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Casual sex isn’t the training ground for cheating. People who have the characteristics and personality of the type of person who would want casual sex are more likely to cheat. True Story: I have two male friends. Both bisexuals who prefer dating women. They’re the same age. Both get similar levels of romantic/sexual attention. One is in a long term relationship has never cheated on her and doesn’t even entertain women, we’ll call him Dean. Dean is very chill. Dean is a relationship guy through …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:36 PM
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I find men tend to be especially cruel to unattractive women who have front facing careers (news anchors, actresses, etc). Like them merely existing in a public sphere is a crime against humanity. I need to do more research as to why this is but women don’t nearly have the same response when they seen unattractive men in the same careers. Take Paul Dano for example. I believe he looks like a male version of Bella Ramsey but I’ve never seen a woman call him ugly she may say “he’s not my type” but…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:03 PM
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Yes, women naturally gravitate toward tall men because they symbolize status, dominance and a sense of security. Crying about it is as useless as a woman with no boobs crying about how men are more attracted to women with Sydney Sweeney-C cups. They can whine about but nothing is gonna change. That’s not to say a woman can’t find a short man attractive or a man can’t find a woman with no boobs attractive, they’re just not the obvious first choice on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:54 PM
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Fantasize? I would say about as much as men fantasize about two women. I wouldn’t be surprised if it were up toward “40-45%” of straight/bi women who have that fantasy. Now women who actually do it is way lower. I wouldn’t say it’s slightly more than the women who participate in gang bangs but less than 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:28 PM
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This just isn’t how the human male is wired. 1-5 is nearly impossible for the average man to do unless he already has built in high standards for sex (rare). Men are just less picky for sexual partners in general than women. Men’s lizard brain is wired to try to have sex with as many women as possible at as low of a cost as possible. How do you do that? Compliment women, get good a flirting and flattery. So a lot of men end up “hyping up” below average and average women in hopes doing so will ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:02 PM
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I think it’s actually pretty common, especially among teenage girls or young women but it’s rarer for a woman to do it to the guys face unless that woman is exceptionally mean or trying to knock him down a peg. I would say it’s as common as men mocking fat chicks with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:00 AM
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His wife was probably hot back in the day or he got with her before he was rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:51 AM
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No I’m talking about facial beauty + a nice body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:47 AM
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Exactly if you’re unsatisfied with your pickings just become more beautiful (for women) and richer or higher status (for men). There’s a lot more to attracting high status mates but that’s the foundation. Can’t change biology so you might as well change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:11 AM
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So do you want women who are genuinely attracted to you or do you want women who give you pity sex because they’ve “inconvenienced” you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:07 AM
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I live in a mid sized city that has a lower than average amount of overweight people so yes I see plenty of beautiful women out on Friday and Saturday nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:05 AM
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I regularly see men bullying beautiful women for being “too picky” telling them to lower thier standards and date an average man because he’d “treat her better”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:58 AM
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If this were true a lot less women would be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:56 AM
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Like the post says men can always move on to less beautiful women whose standards aren’t as high because they’ve never experienced dating a high status man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:52 AM
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I don’t think it’s an inconvenience. Sometimes we date people that we find out we aren’t compatible with and we have to break it off. It happens to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:46 AM
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Go out in the real world. There is no gender war. And the people who use “gender war” lingo off the internet and in real conversation are often looked at as weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:05 PM
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Ryan Shazier, former linebacker for the Pittsburgh Steelers who was rendered paraplegic following a bad tackle in 2017 was caught cheating on his wife. A woman who stayed with him while he was paralyzed and jobless and assisted him daily in his rehabilitation so he could walk. If this isn’t the biggest black pill I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:56 PM
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Median of 28.3, basically reaching her 30s. Marriage is also not a benchmark of relationship as you can see that second IPUMS-CPS, between the ages of 25 to 29 only 32% of women are married; How long do you think someone is in a relationship with their future husband before they get married 2-3 years maybe. These women have been with the man they marry since they were 24-26. The data doesn’t support your claim that women are settling for whatever in their 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:55 PM
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Median of 28.3, basically reaching her 30s. Marriage is also not a benchmark of relationship as you can see that second IPUMS-CPS, between the ages of 25 to 29 only 32% of women are married; How long do you think someone is in a relationship with their future husband before they get married 2-5 years maybe. These women have been with the man they marry since they were 23-26. The data doesn’t support your claim that women are settling for whatever in their 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:54 PM
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You forgot that I said it's the US, which follows hookup culture and 1.9 is not less than 1 if you know the math. Like this is funny for a country so engrossed into sex, there are still men who can't get laid. How many women are virgins at 25? On google it will tell in US men lose their virginity earlier but that's 2014 data about 10 years old while yours is 2019 so closer. Do pray tell. I don’t think the 1.5% of men who haven’t had sex by 25 is enough to make a fuss about. The issue isn’t even …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:51 PM
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That’s fine that you don’t understand. Just know that by the age of 30, most men have had sex. Women are having sex with virgins in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:44 PM
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Tell me a physical trait that you think prevents a man from finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:41 PM
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Why bcz they don't fit your version of reality? Because they’re a statistical anomly. That over 30 virgin men exist. Sure and they’re a very very VERY small minority. Also the data you provided doesn't state that there are no virgin men over 30. “For men over 25, 1.9% are virgins” And do pray tell how did you make this conclusion? Simply interpret the data. If 50% of men are virgins from 18-20 but less than 1% are virgins over 30. What does that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:36 PM
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The 98% of men under 30 who have had sex is also statistically relevant. This idea that women are shunning this large leper colony of virgin men is a lie. They a small minority compared to the 30 and under men who have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:32 PM
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Well, Manosphere men think any woman who is less than perfect is a demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:30 PM
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Tell me a physical trait that a man has that prevents any woman from finding him attractive at all and I will find you an example of a man who has that “irredeemable”unattractive physical trait but is in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:26 PM
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When they're in their 30s and her options highly dismissed The average American woman is married by 27. Again, your comment doesn’t reflect reality. It's 2023 social media is a reflection of real life, thinking that both aren't merging at this point is being disingenous. So I should take all the misogynistic attitudes I see men display on social media as a reflection of how all men are in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:22 PM
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I rather focus on data not anecdotes. But per Data Psychology: 50.52% of men between 18-20 are virgins. For men over age 25 (but not older than 30), only 1.9% are virgins. Women are clearly fucking 20-30 year old virgins because there virtually are none over 30. Women are fucking “late bloomers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:54 PM
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Yes UNTIL you apply it to today age; Being tall is attractive BUT from where the number 6 feet tall originate? Being fit is attractive BUT the kind of body that is defined as fit originates from where? Yeah a person having their own things is attractive BUT the salary and education threshold originates from where? Yeah confidence is attractive to woman BUT what they define as confidence is just a very small sets of traits. There are literally all types of men of all shapes sizes, colors, tax bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:52 PM
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Like being a virgin is unattractive? Why are there virtually no men over 30 who are still virgins? Clearly someone is fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:48 PM
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So if a woman stinks of BO and no man wants to date her does that mean men have a hive mind? There are things that are universally attractive and universally unattractive. All woman agreeing that having straight clean teeth is an attractive trait ≠ hive mind. There are men who are unatttactive not because no women will date them but because they’re just unattractive. Point blank. Period. I think “hive mind” is a c*ping mechanism used to blame a man’s lack of dating success on “women being sheep”…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:34 PM
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15% (16.5 million) of American men are step dads. You all can say things like this but they don’t translate in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:27 PM
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I don’t think their intent is to actually date women like this. Their aim in “whining” about these things is to keep other men from dating/falling in love/marrying them. Contrary to red pill belief, there is no shortage of men willing to marry single mothers, women with high n-counts, women taking anti-depressants or women with mental disorders like BPD. The men who complain see “bad women” having their cake and eating it too and it kind of throws a wrench in not only the convoluted theories but…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:51 PM
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Because misery loves company. You have to keep in mind that these men aren’t well adjusted. What sane person actively goes looking for revenge fantasy content for entertainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:38 PM
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No do what you want. But this pressure from men toward women to settle down as quickly as possible when many women don’t want to is counter intuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:29 AM
12

When I say live alone I mean live single. Not the literal meaning of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:21 AM
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Call me crazy but I think it’s okay that women (and men) don’t want to get married as soon as they turn 18. You have the rest of your life to be married. People need to learn what it feels like to live alone, learn what they like and explore ALONE before thinking about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:56 AM
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These are not atypical bottom lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:50 PM
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The majority of men are a lot picker about who they have a serious relationship with than men in this sub want to admit. And their choices in partners are heavily influenced by what their peers think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:45 PM
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There are not more women than men on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:37 PM
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A solution for this is for men to not be so easy but that won’t happen because men are sexually different than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:36 PM
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They’re editing out the 10 women with realistic standards and showing you the one woman with unrealistic standards and you feel for it. Look around most women are dating men who make way under 200k
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:33 PM
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Ask any guy here. Any guy would give a cute McDonald's worker a chance too but not a girl. You’re literally envisioning some cute 7 working at a cash register. I’m talking about a middle of the road 5 plain face, average body. That data has already been debunked. More than half of men lose their virginity by the age of 18 any man who is still a virgin by 25 is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:02 PM
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Actually she does. You wanna know why? Guys are smart enough to know when to back out. So they will shift attention to others. Girls don't. This is a lie. Check about 27 percent of guys under 30 are virgins or haven't had sex in atleast a year. Link to data?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:41 PM
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Does a Victoria secret model get the same attention as a frumpy plain woman? This idea that it’s unjust the average man doesn’t get the same attention as a good looking or successful one is absurd. The point is the average man will get sex and relationships. The point of contention is when average men act as if their plight is not being able to have a consistent harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:36 PM
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That’s not a real standard. Thats a boogie man men on the internet made up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:24 PM
2

I never said we shouldn’t. I gave the reason why it’s not taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:06 PM
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Male creepiness tends to be more overt and aggressive than female creepiness which often manifests as just bothersome and not a direct physical threat to the victim. Women are less likely to harm/or kill their victim You skipping over the verbs. “Tends to” and “less than” denotes that there is a chance but it’s less likely. I never said women can’t be violent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:01 PM
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I didn’t assume women won’t get violent. I said women are less likely to harm/or kill their victim which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:46 PM
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My comment shouldn’t have even needed to be made given how clear what she was talking about was. But I know men here like to avoid topics they have no rebuttal for and instead respond with shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:46 PM
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It’s not the “Women are Wonderful” effect to state a biological truth. Women are less physically aggressive than men. This is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:59 AM
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If men complained more about female creepiness and how it affects their life then it would be talked about more but men…don’t. I’ve only ever see people sympathize to male stalking victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:15 AM
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I think you can best identify the difference in creepiness among genders by looking at the actions of stalkers. Take a celebrity stalker for example. Men who stalk Taylor Swift have expressed they basically want to rape her and wear her skin. Women who stalk say a K-Pop singer basically are obsessed and fantasize about actually being with them, marrying them they may express that through social media harrassing them with deluded ramblings about how they’re going to have their children. They almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:06 AM
1

“I should have played games with her.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:58 AM
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You said you should have lied to keep her. I know all I need to know c
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:49 AM
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Why would we call it an enormous disadvantage when the average man will have sex with 7 people in their life time, get married and have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:34 AM
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Can you give us an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:29 AM
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Clearly so do most women since they’re with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:22 AM
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Sure but she’s saying that average men are just as likely to be on those types of forums and seeking causal sex (contrary to what men on this sub say) as an attractive man. The fact that she posted there doesn’t negate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:17 AM
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He was open to lying and manipulating her. Do you think he cares about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:05 AM
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Thank god she’s not naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:04 AM
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Average man don’t see anyone but Stacy confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:03 AM
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You don’t need to be on TikTok to recognize how they’re being influenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:01 AM
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She’s not complaining about getting messages. She’s making an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:58 AM
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Also, women are extremely influenced by groupthink and trends Trends that I’ve seen on the internet that have influenced what men want: All white men suddenly want 5’2” Latina Muscle mommy’s. Suddenly men have vocalized that they want jack “semi-dominant women” because they saw a few on Instagram a lot of men want anime-esque emo girls because they consume way to must anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:52 AM
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Nice job evading the topic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:46 PM
3

That’s endometriosis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:38 AM
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This question is asked every 3 days…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:26 PM
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Why do you need to prove anything to anyone? A sexual achievement is having sex with people/a person you like and that likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:03 PM
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That’s not as likely to happen as you make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:37 PM
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It’s not financially smart at all. Not every one has a good work ethic or a sense of responsibility. Sure you could marry the friend zone guy that you were never attracted to and nudge him into becoming attractive but it’s more likely that he’ll be the same or be worse in 10 years than better and resent you for trying to change him in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:32 PM
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Okay so she has to check off a litenty of boxes to make her “passable”. So why are you tell women to give a chance to the first guy who drops into her friend zone regardless if he’s trying to be better by his own Initiative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:22 PM
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Would you date a fat chick with a great personality in hopes someday she’ll look like a model? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:09 PM
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I actually dont think so becuase their whole experienced reality affirms that they deserve money purely for being who they are. There are men who give women money to just stand near them and look pretty so finding a man who will give you money for being with him and looking beautiful is definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:01 PM
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Women already know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:16 PM
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Falling in love with someone you’re around a lot and can relate to you isn’t elitist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:57 PM
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Again someone marrying a person for love who also happens to be rich or make more money isn’t a gold digger. You’re conflating two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:26 PM
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Again someone marrying a person for love who also happens to be rich or make more money isn’t a gold digger. You’re conflating two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:26 PM
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The definition of gold digger is “a person who forms a relationship with another purely to extract money from them.” A doctor marrying an another is not in the relationship to purely extract money because why would they need to?You’re conflating anyone who happens to marry someone who makes more than them as automatically being a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:15 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? Is a woman who is a doctor and ends up marrying another doctor a gold digger? Since you all are stuck on semantics, take an athlete who was dirty poor marrying their high school sweetheart then becoming a millionaire when he turns pro. She’s not a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:45 PM
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He was upper middle class and They were in the same socioeconomic status when they got together. She wasn’t gold digging in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:52 PM
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Well it depends on which women and wealthy men you’re talking about. If a woman like Mackenzie Bezos who was there before Jeff got rich, doesn’t wish to be cheated on is that not valid? She’s not a gold digger she was a ride or die and he cheated. Some wealthy men don’t see their wives as commodities because they love them and value their input. The women complaining about a rich man cheating on them are most likely not gold diggers. They just happen to be in a relationship with a man who is ric…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:46 PM
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You’re describing a below average man. There is a middle in between Not funny and hilarious. Lazy and greedily ambitious. Dumb and genius. You’re thinking in extremes, black and white and discounting all the men who sit in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:50 PM
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I think most gold diggers accept their role in the relationship. Thats why you see so many male celebrities and other rich men in open relationships because as long as he is providing her with money she is fine with him doing whatever. Most women after money know the relationship is going to be transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:48 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:45 PM
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Again we can debate facts. This is a debate sub after all but I’m not going to be baited into your emotionally charged arguments that accuse me of thing I haven’t said and x, y and z when I’ve never said such things. I maintained nuance because that’s why life outside of Reddit if like. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:59 PM
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Most men will end up married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:28 PM
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I’ve seen very average men take average women home at the end of the night. It’s not an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:27 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:21 PM
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Nothing I said was gender specific. Yet that’s what you made it. Don’t put words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:36 PM
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Which women are you talking about because different women want different things from a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:33 PM
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If the staff kicked out every man in the bar who hit on a woman there would be no men in bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:16 PM
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The police aren’t going to come in get you for trying to get the number from a woman at the bar or farmer’s market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:59 PM
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Think of him as a construction manager. He manages the construction project, lays out the outline, oversees and addresses any obstacles that may pop up in the project. Now think of women as the construction worker. She doesn’t the grunt work to make sure the project is done to completion. They are both necessary and without the one the job can’t be finished.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:53 PM
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Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:46 PM
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It’s not the majority either so you should be able to easily avoid women whose ego you claim to be inflated due to dating app use. Seems to me that men are keeping these apps alive more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:42 PM
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I live in a city. Men are more likely than women to have used a dating site or app in the past year (50% vs. 37%). Only 37% of single women use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:34 PM
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I have the greatest and only definition of Masculinity and Femininity Someone contact Merriam-Webster!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:33 PM
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Average levels of those things are enough for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:29 PM
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Setting the tone doesn’t mean the woman is on cruise control. Like I said women are naturally self sacrificial for people they love. She will help in areas where it seems like he is lacking. Then mental load will be equal but different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:26 PM
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Thanks to Tinder et al, an average - even below average - women can get inundated with likes and pick from dozens, if not hundreds, of potential partners. It inflated her ego, so the average guy - funny, interesting, loyal, useful, etc, - as he may be, is now beneath her. Most women aren’t on tinder. Or any dating app for that matter. She herself brings very little to the table, but she sets absurdly high standards; she’s short, dumpy, overweight and plain, but any man worthy of her attention HA…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:25 PM
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Hopefully she would be in control of them as well! I strongly believe men set the tone for a relationships because most women are already self sacrificial and relationship oriented. If you’re a passive husband, I’m sorry to say it but you’re going to get a nagging wife. The best wives I’ve seen are wives to men who possess the character traits I’ve listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:17 PM
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I’ve never been in a relationship but when I think of a guy who is a leader in the context of a romantic relationship, I think of a man who takes initiative, he’s not passive, he’s in control of his emotions during emergencies, he lets his partner know when she’s wrong in a tactful way, he doesn’t need to be told twice to do something. He not only has plans for himself but plans about where the relationship is going and communicates them to his partner clearly. He’s also a little self sacrificia…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:08 PM
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I don’t think it’s a gotcha per se, it’s more like we grew up with people saying men are protectors and your husband/boyfriend should be able to protect you so when they don’t or are afraid to it’s more like an “…oh” moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:52 PM
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Have average men suddenly stopped having the ability to be funny, interesting, loyal, useful, charming, talented, smart? Are average men just sentient blobs now? I don’t think so. Most women are with average men because (say it with me, class) most women are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:40 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:27 PM
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I think motherhood plays a larger part in what society deems femininity than her romantic relationships with men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:23 PM
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Would you love him if he had nothing to give you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:08 PM
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I think the insecurity is valid. We all want to know if we’d still be loved if we have nothing to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:07 PM
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I think it’s more socially acceptable for women to be curious about their sexuality than men for several reasons. Male virility toward women is a key aspect of masculinity. In many cultures the more women and sex you get the more masculine you are perceived. For a long time, gay men were seen as not fully men. For lack of the better term, “receiving” is seen as feminine, submissive and well, degrading. Its even seen as gay for even a straight man to be pegged by a woman. Many men are afraid to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:05 PM
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I’ve never heard someone say a man who prefers long hair is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:54 PM
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I don’t think all of the “yes of course!” responses are virtue signaling. There are some men who understand what women mean when they ask that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:41 PM
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Say it was a worm that had her personality and could talk 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:39 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:38 PM
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I don’t think most men work to be chased by women. Most men are content to just find one wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:36 PM
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Sure he’s not wrong. Women still need to ask “if I was infertile what would you do?” It’s a good vetting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:33 PM
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The reason why girls ask their boyfriends and husbands, “Would you love me if I was a worm?” is because women want to see if their man would love her if she was basically useless to him and all she has to give him is her love and personality. It’s a creative way of asking “Would you still love me if I became quadriplegic due to an accident?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:32 PM
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Put this only the list of things women need to question men on before they commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:28 PM
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Why are you in competition with 18 year old girls? Men are men. Women are women. I will never understand men’s undying need to be lusted after by thousands of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:27 PM
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The reality in relationships where people care about each other is they don’t want to see their partner overwhelmed. If a man (or woman) is making 200k and sees that their stay at home spouse is stressing about housework, errands or raising kids their natural inclination will be to try to ease the burden and help out where they can or agree to buy a housekeeper or nanny to help out. It’s the same in reverse. If one partner is stressed at work and the other is cruising, the partner who has more f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:16 PM
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While consensual prostitution does have its place in society - this wouldn’t work. There would be many men that would still be jealous or insecure over the fact that they had to pay for sex and women don’t. There’s a reason why the majority of men in countries where prostitution is legal still don’t go to them. It’s because paying someone to act interested in you for an hour isn’t validating. It says nothing about your actual level of attractiveness or your ability to charm the opposite sex into…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:17 PM
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I have no clue. Women already know so I’m not sure what they’re trying to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 PM
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That’s your competition. Of course they’re going to stab you in the back when an available woman is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:53 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:38 PM
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Find an asexual dude. Or a guy with a very low sex drive. To do this you’ll need to advertise up front that you’re asexual/have a low sex drive. That should weed out the men who you’re incompatible with. Sorry about your predicament but most men don’t want an emotional relationship with a woman if it doesn’t come with sex. It sucks but that’s the way the cookie crumbs. Sex drive does play a big factor. For many men, a woman could be mediocre in every other aspect of the relationship but if she’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:59 PM
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They don’t want any woman to have standards that excludes them. Not a 2 or a 9. No woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:52 PM
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If a very handsome guy were to be interviewed on the street saying he wanted x,y and z in a woman. Men wouldn’t be responding to him this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:38 PM
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And the problem is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:29 PM
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Thank you! Men on this sub constantly flip flop. Yesterday the only thing that mattered was if a woman was attractive, put out and was mostly kind. Now that I posted this, suddenly men here are saying they care about income, education and intelligence the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:25 PM
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Ah, ah, ah. That’s not what men on this sub said. They said men don’t care about a woman’s income or education.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:22 PM
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Has this sub gone insane? Are we going to pretend rich men don’t marry 8’s? You’re telling me this woman couldn’t snag a 250k a year doctor? Beautiful woman wants wealthy man men on this sub NO THIS CAN’T BE SHE’S ASKINF FOR TOO MUCH!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:19 PM
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Jeff Bezo’s new wife would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:13 PM
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I have eyes. I can see when women are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:09 PM
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They want Stacy to marry a 35 k a year, mid Amazon delivery driver so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:08 PM
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She’s not delusional she’s hot as fuck she can get any man she wants. Including a very wealthy one. Her standards are on par.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:05 PM
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Men are saying this woman is asking too much for wanting a man who makes $250k a year. Men have reached levels of peak delusion that they’re even getting pissed about Stacy wanting wealthy Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:02 PM
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It’s all good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:31 PM
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Sure if you want to improve yourself to date higher quality women then do that. If you don’t (and most men here don’t) then no one wants to hear your cry about how Stacy is disgusted by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:12 PM
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Men: Dating is hard for men. Women are shallow. No one wants us. Me: What’s your success rate? Men: I had sex with 2 women in the last two month but they were 3’s so it doesn’t count. I had to dumpster dive. No one is going to feel sorry about the male loneliness epidemic if you are discarding the women who want you. If 3’s is all you can get, that’s your league. Pining over a 7 while ignore 3-5 and screaming that women are shallow is incredibly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:06 PM
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I don’t understand this. They complain about women being hypergamou but don’t want to commit to the women they can actually get. They clearly aren’t that desperate for love and romantic acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:00 PM
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This isn’t a good question to ask here. You have to ask normal well adjusted men. Not a sub full of misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:39 PM
1

How is it not fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:37 PM
1

In that case I’m sure marriage would benefit them because the men you have as examples are rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:29 PM
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Most women don’t know knowingly share men so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:21 PM
3

I look better in the mirror than I do in a picture that somebody else took.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:14 PM
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Which is average for a young non fat person,so yeah ,makes sense. There are many ugly or slightly below average thin people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:02 PM
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Incels do try to get 6-8’s. Which is still way out of their league if you take the way they describe themselves into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:56 PM
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I already knew this. Being a 4-5, the difference between how men of all types of attractiveness treat me vs how they treat my Stacy friends is night and day. Not subtle at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:52 PM
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Have they tried vetting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:45 PM
4

Damn, you’re strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:06 PM
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Many women feel like they have to given we live in a society where people are pretty much forcing them into dating men they find unattractive. “Yea, he’s not cute but he’ll probably grow on you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:52 PM
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Except it does matter how interested she is. The more attracted a woman is to you the harder it is for her to get the “ick”. I think in most cases the ick is just women trying to justify not being attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:34 PM
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The men that I’ve talked to irl say it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:44 PM
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She should hide her go bag better just like the suspected father should hide the fact he swabbed the baby’s cheek and sent it off for DNA testing. In both cases it isn’t necessary for the other party to know you did it until it goes south.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:19 PM
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You’re only as attractive as the group you’re attracted to says you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:10 PM
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Being a virgin past a certain age is definitely weird for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:55 PM
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I’m not worth your time but you’re the one commented in the first place (and continues to comment)? Sure. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:51 PM
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Yet women tell men to be the provider and fill that gender role. Different women want different things. Sure, there are traditional women who want their man to provide. But most women have a full time career and are looking for support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:49 PM
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We’re on a debate sub if you have opposing opinions you can voice them and back the up with data. I won’t be offended. Promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:46 PM
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Men are more prone to overrate their own attractiveness. I think believing that you’re better than you are is a byproduct of testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:40 PM
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I wouldn’t mind dating a guy over 25 with no relationship experience only because I don’t have any either. I can’t speak for my more experienced counterparts. From what I’ve observed people make a lot of unintentional mistakes in their first relationship which is why it’s preferred that you have your first one at a young age. Also idk about you but being alone for a long period of time makes people more selfish, they have a hard time remembering that there is now another person you have to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:34 PM
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Thats why I included the gamers study even though it has nothing to do with heterosexual romantic relationships. It establishes causation. Causation of this behavior as explained in the study: “Low-status males that have the most to lose due to a hierarchical reconfiguration are responding to the threat female competitors pose," the researchers, from the University of New South Wales and the Miami University in Ohio, write. "High-status males with the least to fear were more positive." Low statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:59 PM
1

What would your conclusion be?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:54 PM
1

Are you denying the research?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:24 AM
1

That’s exactly what I said and why women date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:55 PM
2

You’re moving the goal posts with every response. And you’re saying what I’m saying men can’t stand a woman’ being more successful than he is because it makes him look like less of a man to other men. Has nothing to do with the action of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:45 PM
2

Not sure what that has to do with the subject of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:36 PM
1

Not being attracted to fat women is legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:31 PM
2

“When performing poorly, players increased negative statements toward women and submissive statements toward the men who were winning.” The research literally says they weren’t bullying the men who won. They were making submissive statements toward the men who won but were antagonizing the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:29 PM
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Low status women don’t care about status which is why so many low status men have kids with their low status counterparts. The problem only arises with low status men try to date up in status. Then they feel threatened by the women they run into.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:21 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:14 PM
1

You’re leaving out the part where successful male gamers were far more positive and supportive of their female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:12 PM
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Why are men being insecure over video games with women they don’t even know? Those women are displaying hypergamous behavior by beating them at a video game. A married female astronaut is no threat to them yet they tell her she should go back to the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:54 PM
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Let’s look at the results from the study of male gamers with poor performance reacting negatively to a female gamer’s success. If what you said is true men would only react to female success that puts them at a direct sexual and romantic disadvantage to women like careers. They got angry over something as insignificant as video games.They aren’t courting these women romantically and sexually they don’t even know these women so there’s no need to have a visceral reaction to these women simply exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:52 PM
2

Again, that’s not what the data says given men tend to reactive negatively to the success of women they don’t even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:47 PM
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Right? It’s a good deal!😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:07 PM
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I’m not going to dig through stats for this, because I simply don’t care. But I will say that I know a lot more women that have an attitude change when they start making more, than men. We’re arguing chicken or egg here. Did her attitude change as a response to a men’s attitudes changing towards her once they learned about her success? Did her attitude change because she realized her husband wasn’t going to pick up the household slack now that she works more than him? Did her attitude change bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:57 PM
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I’m saying as it is, in most cases women need to be hypergamous until men are comfortable with female success and being supporting actors in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:41 PM
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I don't mean to be rude, but this is obvious. Clearly not obvious to most men here. Apparently not because the modern zeitgeist says men who don't want promiscuous women are horrible misogynists, I’m not a promiscuous woman, I’ve never had causal sex and I haven’t had sex period. I can tell you why I don’t like men who shout from the roof tops that they won’t date promiscuous women. 1) they’re often hypocrites with high n counts and have fucked up ideas about women’s sexuality. 2) men who openly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:29 PM
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Usually women aren’t aware that a man is pitting them in competition with other women because he’s usually lying about seeing other women. Most women who know that there are other women no one longer want to be with that man. For obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:07 PM
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Find a woman who agrees with your ideas of tradition. If a man wants a woman who dresses modest, approach only modestly dressed women. Don’t approach a woman wearing a mini skirt and a crop top and expect her to conform to what he thinks she should wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:17 PM
2

Yea that doesn’t sound fair at all. Especially when he already has a job over there and you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:54 PM
2

Sounds like you’re in a pickle. If you move with him it’s uncertain that you’ll work out and you may resent him for convincing you to move when you didn’t want to. However if you don’t move, you could have missed your future husband. Idk if you do move you need to make sure he establishes some kind of safety net for you in the event that you two don’t work out. You are in a very vulnerable position and he needs to acknowledge that. He said relationships are comprise but it doesn’t sound like he’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:44 PM
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Depends on what he’s asking you to comprise. There are things that will put you at a legal disadvantage because you are his legal wife. Like if he’s asking you to co-sign a loan for him you can tell him to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:33 PM
1

I don’t believe that’s the main reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:31 PM
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I don’t think it’s that weird to think gay men are more likely to check the average man out than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:13 PM
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Harassment is UNWANTED. If someone likes when people say unprovoked sexual things to them, no matter how inappropriate you deem it to be. It’s not harassment unless the person on the receiving end regards it as undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:01 PM
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Maybe she likes it maybe she doesn’t. That’s up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:57 PM
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If them men who are the subject of it aren’t calling it harassment this it isn’t really harassment is it? It’s really up to whoever is on the receiving end to determine if it’s appropriate, not bystander.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:54 PM
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Don’t act like men don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:45 PM
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“American colonized this, Israel colonized that.” No one is talking about how that Ottoman’s destroyed the greatest empire Eastern Europe has ever known.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:44 PM
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I don’t think it’s wrong at all. Especially if in the initial stages of dating he did act like a responsible adult but as the relationship prolongs he becomes more dependent in a child like way. This will only start a domino effect. Which will build resentment and kill a woman’s sex drive toward that particular man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:12 PM
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You’re dumbing down what women want by calling it “attention”. It’s companionship and emotional intimacy. So many men make this hilarious mistake, Seems like you’re making a hilarious mistake as well.. Ive always said, if your woman has her back blown out due to the wreckage you unleashed onto her. Shes not going to be looking for more back action for a while. I don’t think this is accurate. If you suck at meeting her other needs you won’t even be able to display “back break action” because she …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:53 PM
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Yes money matters. Having a stable job that will exist in 20 years matters as well as being financially literate and responsible. The average salary for a man in my dating pool is 50k so that’s the starting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:17 PM
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Let’s not act like you cherish these women as people either with the way you’re running through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:14 PM
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Definitely by the third date. Before you commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:28 PM
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Just say you don’t want to get married and stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:23 PM
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It is dependent on attractiveness. There are women you would sleep with in private that you’d dare not be seen with romantically in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:01 PM
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I really don’t see the problem. Men put women in different categories too depending on attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:54 PM
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They’re using the long way to say “fuck unattractive men like you fuck Chad, you bedwench!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:50 PM
1

That’s mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:42 PM
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They’re too busy fielding offers from athletes and C-list celebrities. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:31 PM
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Totally original and definitely not ripped from a prophet of a certain major religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:28 PM
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I have 2 Stacey friends. It’s a humbling experience to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:23 PM
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I think everyone already knows having no romantic relationships negatively impacts people’s mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:21 PM
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Only for Chad 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:20 PM
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I think it’s fair. You can tell if a person isn’t fit by their pictures. It’s hard to tell how tall someone is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:52 PM
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That would be my personal hell.🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:43 PM
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I don't remember the exact moment it happened, but at some point I realized I could reverse engineer information to make myself more attractive so I started reading cosmo and consuming media targeted to women so I could make myself into the perfect mate. Mmm! I’ve seen this quite a lot. There was a trend a couple of years back where women said they loved men with mustaches and mullets. Now every man has a mustache and mullet lol. My advice to women would be avoid men who jump on trends just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:25 PM
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"if I didn't want you, I wouldn't be fighting for you right now, and I wouldn't have came home with you today" Was this a lie? Were you telling her what she wanted to hear so you could continue to cheat? I am unsure. I am not good at maintaining friendships. Do the men you try to be friends with look up to you or do they think you’re morally irresponsible? What percentage of men do you think are like you? Do you know why you’re the way that you are? Did something happen to you as a child? Any tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:42 PM
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I think both. Men feel like shit when they see other men get 50 women when they can’t get one. That’s social. Monks have shown us it’s possible for a man to go without sex and still be content but men of the cloth aren’t normal men. For men with average or above average libidos I think going without sex is naturally detrimental to their mental wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:38 PM
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I think so. I think the average man views sex like bathing. You want to bath every day or at the very least once every 2-3 days. If you don’t bath within that time frame you don’t even feel human anymore, your self esteem suffers because you know you stink, all you can think about is when you can take your next shower. Women don’t feel a constant nagging to have sex. Unless she’s ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:21 PM
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I’ve always been curious about men like you. I have a few questions for you: Do you like it when women fight over you? Does it make you nervous or is it an ego boost? Do you get joy/validation in seeing women cry over you? Or does it make you feel shitty? Would you describe yourself as a sociopath? Would you flirt/sleep with your male best friend’s wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:08 PM
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I think someone having an unhealthy need for external validation (not only from the opposite sex but in general) is the best way to predict infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:13 PM
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I feel like if you’ve defined the relationship and the other person agreed then it can’t be a situationship. Situationships include mixed signal, saying you want to be with someone one day then saying you’re not sure the next, leading someone on, or refusing to define etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:00 PM
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Here is the Google definition: Less than a relationship, but more than a casual encounter or booty call, a situationship refers to a romantic relationship that is, and remains, undefined. A key feature for situationships is there is almost always unrequited love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:54 PM
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That’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:53 PM
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I’m getting a lot of “situationship” content on my instagram feed. I don’t know how to tell y’all this but if you’re in the “talking stage” with a man for 3 months, y’all are fucking and he still hasn’t asked for commitment. He doesn’t like you, sis. I’ve never been in a relationship but I’m pretty observant. The difference between men who want to be with you and genuinely get to know you vs men who only ever had sexual intentions with you are STARK. Even if they’re lying it’s pretty easy to tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:49 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:44 PM
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That’s how a lot, if not most, men view women. If they haven’t been hit on by a beautiful woman they’ve “never been hit on”. If they aren’t around beautiful women they aren’t around women. If they haven’t dated a beautiful woman they haven’t REALLY dated. A man could have had sex with 20 average or below average women, in his eyes he’s a failure because he still hasn’t experienced a beautiful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:55 PM
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OP didn’t cite any scientific data. If you’re referring to his links those are anecdotes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:47 PM
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You’re making up stuff to be mad about. Seems to be a common thing on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:00 PM
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Where in the feminist handbook does it say don’t approach women? I must have lost my copy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:40 PM
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I’ll give you my experience. I’m 28 so I grew up in the midst of 3rd wave feminism. While there is a lot of pro-woman “go girls ra ra” on the Marco level. There is so much. I mean SO much misogyny on the mirco level. Especially for women and girls in religious environments. One of my earliest memories was of a grown 50 year old man snatching a game controller out of my hands at a video game shop and telling me “girls can’t play video games” and other grown men laughing. I said I wanted to be a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:32 PM
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Empathy is bad for well meaning mild mannered men. As in men who have too much of it. You’re trying to say being too nice is bad for pushovers and door mats. I agree but what you’re describing isn’t empathy. It’s the inability to stand up for yourself and speak up when you need to. Someone isn’t a default empath just because they’re too afraid to voice their own opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:16 PM
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Equal doesn’t mean the exact same responsibilities. It means equal contribution to make something work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:10 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:09 PM
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100% possible to get a good stable job. The problem is a lot of people don’t want to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:05 PM
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The average man and woman differ in sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:56 PM
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Well you would be correct. Both men and women aren’t going to find what they’re seeking on dating apps. Most men won’t find causal sex and most women won’t find a husband. Dating apps are just a hodgepodge of mess and if you actually find what you’re looking for it’s by dumb luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:46 PM
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I don’t think standards are rising I just think everyone is falling behind. 40 years ago it wasn’t a high standard to say you want a man or woman who is skinny because everyone was skinny. 40 years ago it wasn’t high standards to say you want a man with a good stable job but now it is because a lot of men in their 20’s either don’t want to work or want to work “self employed” jobs like door dash and Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:17 PM
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Well you’re in luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:59 PM
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Oh…well…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:42 PM
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I’ll also add that broke men hate themselves and have a mean streak. I’m talking men who make sub 30k before taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:41 PM
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If it’s Tom Holland-esque you’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:22 PM
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Telling women to rate static pictures is tricky. Because most of the ways women perceive attraction is through expressive body language and mannerisms. We need a study where a female focus group watches 5 minute video of 100 men going about their day and then rating them. I’m sure the rating would be completely different than having a woman rate a 2-D picture as if she has the same attraction triggers as a man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:19 PM
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I prefer almond milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:07 PM
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I’ve heard of it. I’ve never seen the source of the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:02 PM
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I went to high school and college. The range of men women dated ranged from ugly and beautiful. All kind of boys and men got girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:02 PM
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I’m going to buy it just to play the campaign mode. I hate playing online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:53 PM
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Could you link the data?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:44 PM
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Most women marry their looksmatch. Below average men with below average women. Average women with average men. Above average men with above average women. Most people also marry within their own socioeconomic status. So I’m not sure what you’re referring too. Most women aren’t chasing “Chad” unless they’re “Stacy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:42 PM
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We can’t discuss if you won’t expound on what you think a woman’s true place in society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:34 PM
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What are her hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:31 PM
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Question for men who have a serious long term partner: Do you try to take interest in the hobbies your partner has but that you don’t necessarily like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:30 PM
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Fr for men just looking to smash none of this matters, he just has to fuck her for bragging rights and a few moments of pleasure, the means are not relevant at all. Lying to women for sex might not be relevant to men because he’s not the one who has to deal with the consequences. I could say lying to men for a free dinner is harmless. Because it would be harmless for me. The man who payed may not think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:26 PM
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Don’t men claim that they find pretty much any woman attractive if she’s skinny? That’s an over simplification of what the average man wants made by the desperate men on this sub. The average man’s physical standards for a relationship are higher than “just be skinny”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:17 PM
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I agree and disagree. I disagree with your premise that men don’t like good women. They like good women in the way women like good men. Hot. If a good woman is good looking then yes they want her. If she’s ugly and they had to pick between her and the hot woman whose dramatic, rarely cooks and cleans but has sex with him every day they’d pick the latter. Just like women, when men say they want things in a woman the “also be attractive” part is silent. With that being said there are few men who g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:10 PM
3

How is Sleeping with Chad evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:56 PM
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I mean sure. Just know this is going to give more incentive for women to lie about things men care about (n-count, libido, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:55 PM
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I wouldn’t say there’s NO reviving it. You can it’s just going to take a lot of work and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:05 PM
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People naturally know what the limit is. Just like most people know when they’re talking too much or when they have shared too much personal info with a stranger. People usually know when they’re being overbearing unless they have some kind of learning or mental disorder. I’ve seen multiple women on and off this sub who have explained that being emotionally open doesn’t mean “use women as your emotional dish rag”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:26 PM
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The questions you asked aren’t in good faith because that lack the nuance that exists in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:17 PM
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Men on this sub like to think when women say we want “emotionally open men” we mean you can emotionally vomit on us 24/7 and if we say anything about it we’re liars who set men up for failure. 9/10 times when a woman is put off by a man being emotional it’s because the emotion he’s displaying is overblown for what the situation entails. I had a friend whose boyfriend started crying, like absolutely balling, because his favorite football team lost. Most women are going to think that’s weird and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:53 PM
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It sounds like she exposed a few liars and guys with attitude problems so it sounds like outdoor dates are a good filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:33 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:02 PM
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Then you weren’t a fuck boy you were just enjoying causal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:58 PM
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Women get the exact same backlash from men online for voice very basic standards. Especially if said woman is average or below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:40 PM
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He is overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:38 PM
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I know too many men who wed at 21 to good girls to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:13 PM
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The dating market isn’t trash. You just don’t have the skill to identify, attain and keep a good partner. Or you disqualify all the good partners because you’re picky (physically and/or emotionally).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:10 PM
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Is it evil or are you just mad you aren’t winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:05 PM
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I don’t care. More food for later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:13 PM
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Why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:03 PM
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I think he’s still reasonably handsome for his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:56 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:03 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/y60yCNlPaO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:58 PM
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Female mid life crisis: signs up for Pilates Male mid life crisis: trying to increase your testosterone to unnatural levels, flirt with a 18 year old girls to see if you “still got it”, buy motorcycle to prove you’re still young fun and badass, sign up for Ju Jitsu to prove you’re not a dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:57 PM
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Why does it seem like every non-masculine man has a sudden crisis of masculinity at 35-45. Where’s was this epiphany when he was 15? This seems like relevantly new phenomenon too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:52 PM
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This has everything to do with the red pill. Stoicism is a core tenant of the red pill. To attribute that to red pill would be so say red pill invented stoicism. Which is not accurate. It’s illogical to attribute things that are common sense to red pill when it benefits redpill. It’s as irrational as saying religion invented morality so anyone who is morally good is participating in religion. It can both be a core tenant of the red pill and taking responsibility for your life. A lot of what the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:45 PM
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There are athletes that practice celibacy to boost testosterone and mental focus, particularly in combat sports. What you’re referring to is mostly done by athletes who engage in combat sports like boxing, UFC fighters and the like. And they don’t go sexless for 5 years. Those who do it only practice semen retention 2 weeks (at most) before competition. The mere point is, there is already men that make 8 figures, that haven't been celibate, yet want women that are celibate and have a low N count…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:31 PM
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Kinda cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:19 PM
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This is why the red pill teaches men stoicism. This provides men with a level of self awareness and teaches them the power of choice. You can choose to be a shitty man because your child hood sucked. You can also choose to be a GOOD man (not nice) and accelerate beyond your means. Its all a choice. Feel sorry for yourself or pick yourself up by your bookstraps and get it done. Memento mori. This has nothing to do with Red Pill. Every good man who’s fatherless, that I know, doesn’t even know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:19 PM
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She clarified that he knows she’s using him for sex so no. She’s not lying or manipulating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:03 PM
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Okay let’s start by saying the example you gave is extremely rare. I don’t know any man who would or wants to voluntarily give up sex for 5 years let alone 15 years for work. Sex shouldn’t take up a bunch of time where it would distract you from your career goals. I don’t think living this way would gain you respect from women given its quiet a ridged way to live. I think what he SHOULD do is what he wants to do. I don’t think other’s opinions should sway what he wants out of a relationship part…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:53 PM
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I don’t understand why he’s made an issue out of a meme no one but him has seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:39 PM
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No one can control the family they are born into. You evaluate people on a case-by-case basis. Sure, having an absent father may be the root cause of why some men are awful people. In that case, that’s a red flag because he let the absence of him father dictate his morals and how he chooses to move through his life. However, there are men without father who turn out to be great people because they realize they aren’t defined by whether their dad was there or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:29 PM
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I’ve been on and off birth control for medical reasons since I was 14. I’ve always favored masculine men no matter my birth control status.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:38 PM
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How do you know the study was sponsored by Big Porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:54 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 PM
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You don’t need porn to ejaculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:01 PM
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Average looking men see at stacy and think "damn she's beautiful I stand no chance with her so I'm just going to admire her and that's it" I guess you haven’t seen the Instagram comments under a hot woman’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:00 PM
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It’s not helicopter parenting. It’s just parenting. You’re suppose to control most of what your child does (where they can go, who they can meet up with, what they can do etc.) up until they’re like 12. Helicopter parenting means you’re constantly hovering over them and micromanaging. That’s not what I described at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:40 AM
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You just commented (on my comment). That being lonely and sexless is why you’re on this sub. So if you have friends and are getting laid now why are you still here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:37 AM
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Who cares? No one has seen this meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:35 AM
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I don’t think I can argue with a guy who thinks 5 year old girls are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:26 AM
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Q4M: If dating was completely equal and fair where both men and women had sex with 30 people before they got married, would you marry a high n-count woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:02 AM
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So you’re say black pill is just c*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:40 PM
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You’re tweaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:39 PM
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Then his brain was poisoned and defective. He would have been crazy whether he was a 1 or a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:38 PM
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Doesn’t “chud” mean unattractive? She’s not unattractive at all. She’s a six so her male version would be a six and probably semi-sexually successful not as much as her though but thems the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:34 PM
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Based and slutpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:32 PM
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I would get downvoted to hell if I talked about my relationship dynamics. lol Well now I’m intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:24 PM
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Kindergarten girls don’t care lol as long as there’s not a booger on his shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:22 PM
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Not so much what I would tell them, more like what I would make them do. If there’s anything I’ve learn from this black hole of a sub is that men here like to blame mom’s for them turning out to be effeminate (and almost asexual presenting) men. The first thing I would do is involve my son in social situations early. I will literally force friendships on him from the ages of 0-10 if I have to. Anything that can guarantee he won’t turn out to be an asocial pariah. Next, if he turns out to be stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:16 PM
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You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:01 PM
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:/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:00 PM
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I think that’s most woman’s fantasy. A hard masculine shell with a soft, gooey center.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:59 PM
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But why do you need an ideology if you have no hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:57 PM
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I haven’t actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:55 PM
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But he does seem to have a backbone when he is adamant about something. I think you have guy number 2
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:52 PM
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I is what I is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:51 PM
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Jesus. I said bad boy not psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:50 PM
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But you said yourself you think you have no hope of romance so what good is black pill advice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:48 PM
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Seeks risks, spontaneous, occasionally gets into fights, care free, only takes care of responsibilities when it suits him, usually selfish and emotionally unavailable. May or may not have been arrested once or twice. Thats my definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:46 PM
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But what good is black pill doing for you other than feeding your negative thought process as a result making you more depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:40 PM
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Jeez okay. I’ll message you right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:37 PM
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Reformed Bad Boy who is now a sweetie pie>>> guy who has always been reasonably sweet >>>>>>> Life long bad boy>>>>>> Guy who’s been a door mat all his life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:36 PM
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Some one who has the ability to receive and give love in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:25 PM
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Nah I’m talking about why are you lying that men don’t want hot wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:01 AM
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Why lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:44 AM
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Park outside a psych ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:41 AM
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But do I really need plausible deniability? Yeah I guess it might a little weird if it’s truly platonic and it’s just us… but she’s the one who first suggested it. Yea you need it since you work together and see each other almost everyday. I’m not against just asking if it’s a date when I bring it up again and ask her. No one knows the situation better than you so you do what you feel is best. That’s just my two cents ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:06 AM
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Have a cook out then invite her. That way you can get to know her more/flirt/show off grilling skills but you have plausible deniability (“I was just asking you to a friendly cook out gathering”) if she turns down your advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:51 AM
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My response to another user that had the same question: Pretend you go blind/cant see them every time you’re in their presence. And marrying them breaks the spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:50 AM
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lol understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 AM
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Yes, if they’re juicy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:33 AM
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Exactly. I’ve been around a lot of beautiful women who have an issue within finding men who genuinely like them for more than a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:32 AM
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Traditionally unattractive women: Do you find non explicitly sexual pretty privilege of “hot” women annoying/frustrating? If you’re asking if I’m mad at them the answer is no. I’m envious of their situation more than I’m envious of them. But I know there’s down sides to being drop dead gorgeous which I will never experience like having a lot of stalkers, men hanging around you that you don’t want, having men feeling entitled to your time, men “falling in love” with your beauty but not who you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:25 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:21 AM
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No one is going to fault you for divorcing a cowboys’ fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:05 AM
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That’s sad, dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:04 AM
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That’s what you get for buying porn when it’s literally free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:02 AM
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Pretend you go blind/cant see them every time you’re in their presence. And marrying them breaks the spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:01 AM
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Q4A- would you marry a person who you get along great with, same lifestyle and future goals, you are completely compatible emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually BUT you’ve never seen what they look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:48 PM
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He’s slightly above average for a 40 year old white guy considering a lot of them tend to be over weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:44 PM
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Not if you don’t reduce calorie intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:57 PM
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Sure buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:52 PM
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Sorry, I’m not a dweeb that saves links.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:48 PM
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Why would you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:36 PM
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Insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:34 PM
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“Men don’t try to get women out of their league. That’s only a woman thing!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:33 PM
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Sane women don’t have the capacity to hate a that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:28 PM
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That would be a red flag if she’s stalking him/me or making threats towards him/me. I sign up to get a boyfriend, not to be murdered in my sleep by his crazy ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:18 PM
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It’s mostly autistic teens to 25 year old men. You can tell by how unrealistic, angry and irrational horny all their opinions seem to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:04 PM
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Let him speak!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:02 PM
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I was responding to the other user. And guys women don’t like would still approach. I don’t think approaching men is a remedy for being annoyed by men you don’t want approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:47 PM
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Creepy men would still approach. By definition they don’t know when to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:35 PM
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And yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:32 PM
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Sure. It’s just not a guaranteed “yes” like men claim it is when women approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:28 PM
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Tried it. Got rejected or IOU’d every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:25 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/il5yha8ulqxb1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f589de30de2911ddde07dae8070a886d6a67e223
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:20 PM
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You’re just pulling stuff out of thin air dude. Hypergamy by definition is about pursing up in socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:25 AM
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Awesome I guess those are apart of the 15% monograms civilizations I mentioned in my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:52 PM
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Explain that to the tribal civilizations that punished cheating on your spouse. Could you link to which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:20 PM
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I think talking about sex and stuff like that is weird if done at work or in front of family (specifically parents, grandparents, etc.) but it’s fine to do with certain friends. The ones being really open about it on social media are either trying to market their OF content or they’re looking for male sexual attention/simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:14 PM
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Humans are bad at a lot of stuff :p
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:38 PM
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I think it’s about 5-7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:29 PM
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I’m 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:28 PM
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I don’t overestimate. The times I’ve been hit on are 0 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:10 PM
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Very informative response. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:04 PM
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Well, I’m encompassing everything because that’s what humans generally mean when they say “monogamy”. They mean emotional/romantic and sexually commitment to one person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:55 PM
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Definitely. Monogamy is more compatible with modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:30 PM
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We don’t need to. We got monogamy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:26 PM
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Great points.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:25 PM
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Before civilization got to where it is now, there were tight knit communities where grandparents and other women would help care for children. Regardless of if the mother and father were still together. Us becoming less social and community oriented has made monogamy necessary because now, no one wants to take care of anyone else’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:16 PM
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lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:18 PM
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I didn’t say they couldn’t be in relationship. I said the odds of a relationship between two such people being toxic and unhealthy is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:14 PM
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Sure people can do the self work but a lot of people don’t. As evidenced by this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:09 PM
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I’ve never had a boyfriend or experienced a reciprocated romantic interest. With that being said being alone is a lot better than being in a unloving relationship. I’ve seen women stop eating, lose hair, have panic attacks over the thought that their partner no longer loved them or was cheating on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:05 PM
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That’s rarely how it works out. People who grow up in harsh and abusive environments tend to repeat toxic patterns unless they do a lot of self work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:02 PM
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Ahhh no? Firstly how are you defining true love? Is it a soulmate where both of you believe there is no other that you could love or be loved by more? And if so are soulmates even real beyond fairytales? Or is it a divine feeling of being understood? What you’re kind of describing doesn’t sound like actual love, it sounds like forlorn. Or having an unhealthy need to be accepted by anyone. Loneliness has a way of distorting what you will accept in the short term that you later find out you can’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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Socio economic status. According to men here, Women are hypergamous. If that’s true, Taylor wouldn’t have dated and sang love songs about a man whose net worth at the time was less than 2 million and hers, 800 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:41 PM
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Okay but that’s not what we’re talking about. The poster I responded to said Taylor is constantly look for a man like her or better. I’m saying she’s dated men way below her station.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:34 PM
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I don’t know if we can say for certain who break up with who in her relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:33 PM
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I think the ideal male fantasy, especially for less experienced men, is a woman who has slept with little to no men previously but wants to sleep with him quickly. But it’s a fantasy for a reason. Except it’s not a fantasy for many men. A lot of guys think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:12 AM
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Taylor swift dated a man far below her level for 6 years. They broke up because he couldn’t stand that she could get more attention for her accomplishments than he could.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:08 AM
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If so many men want to be fuck boys, then she’s going to run into one or an aspiring one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:36 AM
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Reading the room isn’t hard. It’s all about how much you’re willing to think before you act. People who have a habit of acting what they feel in the moment without context are going to have a really hard time socially. I don’t even think you need to make mistakes. You should learn by being observant. You should observe how others act in certain settings and act accordingly. You shouldn’t have to mistakingly burst out laughing at a funeral to learn that you shouldn’t randomly laugh at a funeral. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:16 PM
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Well you only believe that because you’re not getting picked. It’s like the kid who didn’t get picked for kickball in school now he wants nobody to play kick ball
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:06 PM
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He seems like one of the more well adjusted soccer players.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:02 PM
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That’s kind of lame. Let women have their crushes. I know men who have unrealistic celebrity crushes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:58 PM
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Why does it matter if she has mental issues? You’re just having sex with her. As long as she isn’t violent or a habitual liar it should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:53 PM
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Same. I think this is why alot of men try to have FWB’s and situationships with women who they know are relationship oriented. It give them the upper hand. Sleeping with a woman who wants nothing but causal sex is boring to them because they can’t manipulate her emotions because she doesn’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:22 PM
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I think men hate women who can have one night stands or flings without involving emotion because it reminds them they aren’t special and she probably would have fucked 50 other men at that party, you were just the one in her line of sight when it was time to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:14 PM
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Comic con would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:31 PM
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There doesn’t need to be a power play. We aren’t men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:23 PM
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She can get that from her female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:15 PM
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This isn’t a good source. This is only after 5 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:23 AM
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How come 48% of couples who marry at 18 end up divorced? Surely her husband is the only man she’s had sex with given they married at 18 and she should be able to pair bond with him no problem. If young marriage is the ultimate low-n count marriage how come the divorce rate for them is so high?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:33 PM
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I’m a sane man with 30+ bodies, Well we don’t know you so how would we actually know? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:30 PM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:22 PM
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Volcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:18 PM
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I don’t believe a man can’t go from cold approaching 300 women in his 20’s. Participating in years of causal sex and be able to marry at 30 and stay faithful to that woman his entire life. I don’t think that’s possible. He craves sexual validation too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:17 PM
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Define causal sex? If you mean one night stands I would agree (but I believe that’s the same for men too. I’ve yet to meet a sane man with 30+ bodies). If you mean FWB (not situationships) I disagree. As long as a woman is having sex with someone she knows and trusts, it won’t damage her and I don’t think it matters that they aren’t committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:12 PM
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I would rather not assume something at all, and instead - use actual scientific data and studies to form a coherent argument rather than using a personal opinion birthed from excessive estrogen. Could you link to some that support your argument? There are skewed distributions for women's preference. Men who most commonly exhibit these undesirable traits are not desirable, hence why they're virgins. You’re claiming two different things here. You said women don’t like virgins because other women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:26 PM
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I think it’s best you don’t assume what women think since you aren’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:19 PM
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Okay? That doesn’t make rich people infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:45 PM
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At External Locus of Control and yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:16 PM
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Shit is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:03 PM
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I believe women have high physical standards up front and lower standards as the relationship goes on. It’s the opposite for men. They have low standards up front and higher as the relationship goes on - especially as the woman gets older. Sure, small boobs may not deter most men at first because they’re trying to get laid. Fast forward to 10 years into marriage and the man is addicted to big titty milf porn and is having a hard time getting hard looking at his wife’s “boy chest”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:47 PM
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In this day and age, there is no real value for a woman to enter into a relationship with a man she genuinely doesn’t like. Unless he’s loaded, even then a lot of women won’t want to be with him. Men you don’t like don’t really bring value so why would a woman want to use a man she doesn’t like for the sake of saying she’s in a relationship? It doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:32 PM
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Most people are dating and married to their looksmatch. Women included.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:31 PM
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No. I think the association with disgust comes from women growing up being told that “men think about sex all the time” and “men will do anything to get sex” and “men will fuck anything”. So when you run into say a non-religious, 25 year old male virgin it contradicts everything you were told growing up. Some women will start to question why he hasn’t had sex since, according to society, that’s what men care about the most therefore there must be something off with him. I don’t believe this but …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:31 PM
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Yea, I’m more motivated to work during my on-site days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:27 PM
1

Do you all find yourself having more or less motivation to work on Friday?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:20 PM
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He needs to find a looksmatch who isn’t into causal sex. Stop chasing women who hookup with lots of men at once. For worse or better, They will put you in a hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:16 PM
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The crazy thing about this is he’s most likely ignoring his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:07 PM
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Men are arguing on Twitter that these two are looksmatched. Are men this obvious when it comes to looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:58 PM
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Women don’t mean ill will either though. Just because they don’t see you as a sexual or romantic prospect doesn’t make them bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:28 PM
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Put an ad out that you’re a hard working man looking for a wife. Thats how rural guy used to do it in the old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:11 PM
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The issue OP brought up is that there is no male role model living in the home. So it doesn’t matter if he’s bio or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:50 AM
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In my experience most single mothers aren’t even bad it’s just after a certain age boys don’t accept female authority and discipline, no matter how good it is. A mother could put her foot down and discipline identical to that of a father and a boy still won’t listen because they don’t respect women beyond her nurturing. I believe this is a completely new phenomenon fueled my a shift in culture and technological age misogyny. Boys without father tend to romanticize their father. The only thing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:47 AM
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A lot of single mothers were married women. Until they weren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:35 AM
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Are they less fertile or are they more likely to plan their children and have fewer? Making it less likely for them to have 8 “accident” children like lower income people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:20 AM
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I think women are just attracted to confidence. I don’t think it’s that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:02 AM
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I’m not looking for someone perfect. I’m looking for someone who can take a long hard look at themselves and be honest about things they need to change. If he realizes the mistakes he made and made it right decision going forward, that’s admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:22 PM
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Oh! In that case yes I would date him. I believe everyone is capable of picking bad partners. Why hold that against him if he’s learned his lesson?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:55 PM
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Such as sweet little thing 😍 Good luck with his pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:52 PM
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Yes I would be turned off and no I wouldn’t date him. We aren’t compatible and I’ll never be able to satisfy him because I’ll never come close to looking like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:30 PM
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This might be an unpopular opinion on here but I think most men and women are good people with good intentions. Most men aren’t violent manipulators waiting in the wings to fuck women over and use them for sex. Most women aren’t selfish, shallow hags looking to beta bucks some unsuspecting man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:25 PM
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Thought about building a tiny house on my parent’s property but I remember I’m scared of the woods a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:15 PM
1

Can I see your transgender cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:13 PM
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Thanks for the input!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:11 PM
1

Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:02 PM
1

Burundi here we come!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:00 PM
1

Sorry, i did it on habit 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:58 PM
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Hell yeah, I can still do something on the side though, right? Like painting or photography? Of course That would be ideal af. I'd probably feel a little guilty, but I'd be able to deal with it lol No need to feel guilt if you’re doing your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:56 PM
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Okay I have another question for you. Reverse the genders. Do you think women not wanting to be a SAHW to a man making less than say, 100k, are being delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:52 PM
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No cause she might choose this now but in about 4 years she could hit me with the "I've been feeling weighed down by being the only one working" line as women are known to not put too much logic behind decisions and instead focus on emotions as the deciding factor. So in the moment her emotions are telling her this a great idea, but like I said ealrier we gotta wait for the brain to follow (2-3 year gap). I feel like if you’re doing your job as a house husband like cooking, cleaning, running err…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:49 PM
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My job takes me roughly 10-12h per week. lol same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:43 PM
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Q4M: Your wife really wants to retire you early. She offers to support you as a provider and you a house husband/SAHD. She makes 60k a year. Your family would live fine (since you both desire a low key/ minimalist lifestyle) on her salary but some sacrifices have to be made here and there. Would you accept this offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:38 PM
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Some women are going to be annoyed others aren’t. Just like when you pull a prank on a random person some people will find it amusing others will want to kick your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:13 PM
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Treat them how I would treat any other criminal. No one is above the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:43 PM
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I think that depends on if you have an in-person connection with her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:52 AM
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That sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy. You would be surprised at how many women will date men who deem themselves to be undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:50 AM
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According to stats, 45% of men 18-25 have never asked a woman out in person. Which leaves me to wonder if a lot of men are lying about their dating struggles in order to make their woes seem more legitimate because let’s face it; no one is going to sympathize with men who aren’t even trying. Asking out in person is not just old fashioned, but also a risk of creepshaming. I.e. man are told to not pester strangers. Being labeled creepy is another boogie man men have made up as a defense mechanism …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:47 AM
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A tweet that I think will resonate with a lot of people here: Why are so many young men single? Are men excluded from a brutal mating market by society? It seems not. Men were asked: “When was the last time you asked a woman in person for a date on the street/in a bar or club/at school or class/at work/at a hobby or social gathering/other location?” 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a woman in person. Never. This isn’t primarily because of #MeToo either - between 60% & 70% of men cited…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:34 AM
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According to stats, 45% of men 18-25 have never asked a woman out in person. Which leaves me to wonder if a lot of men are lying about their dating struggles in order to make their woes seem more legitimate because let’s face it; no one is going to sympathize with men who aren’t even trying. “I’ve asked out 200 women and all of them said no.” creates a better victim narrative than “I don’t approach women at all, why aren’t any giving me sex.” I don’t even think men spend a lot of time chasing wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:30 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:11 AM
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Not necessarily. They’ll come en masse no matter what you do because you have what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:10 AM
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Where does it say she wanted Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:21 PM
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I don’t believe it works in the long term but if it’s a short term situation I definitely think it can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:38 PM
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I think he’s a 5 when he actually tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:36 PM
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The same way husbands get stuck in marriages that they feel like an ATM in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:06 PM
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Why are you associating sassiness with homosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:54 PM
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I’m not ignoring it I’m saying flirting is the equivalent. And “high quality sex” isn’t promised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:24 PM
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My point is what she’s doing is no different than what the red pill guys advocate for when “plate spinning”. Both are withholding what the other group ACTUALLY wants for their own personal gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:20 PM
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Men on this sub complain about getting zero attention from women. If a pretty girl flirted with them for a week their head would be the size of the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:14 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. Of course women like sex with good looking men but in the end they want a relationship. Of course men like flirting with pretty women but in the end they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:09 PM
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Pretty sure people who post personal info for clout purposes have personality disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:07 PM
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That’s awesome. Good luck to you two ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:02 PM
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And you’re implying men don’t enjoy flirting with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:59 PM
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Maybe. Don’t you think not fucking them is equal to not giving women commitment and stringing them along? Since men usually prioritize sex and women commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:41 PM
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Do you think she’s any different from the red pill men/PUA’s/men who desire multiple “plates”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:36 PM
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I think it’s because of similar lifestyle and experience. Fame is trauma. At the end of the day, you want to be with a person who can understand your lifestyle and empathize with your trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:33 PM
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It wouldn’t feel good if a person is only with me for money. But if they’re with me because they like me and the fact that I had money sealed the deal, I wouldn’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:30 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:28 PM
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Q4M: Do you see anything wrong with this woman’s behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:25 PM
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To put it in perspective, I think rich, famous men have kind of the same problem as women. They may want a wife but all the women around them are either gold diggers or clout chasers and it’s hard for them to find a honest woman with no alter motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:13 PM
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You’re right. It’s more cultural. But as for America, a lot of women will pay their half if they have no intention of seeing the guy again. Splitting bills after the first date is very common though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:34 PM
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He would lmao,you could be Monica Bellucci in her prime,most men,even the ones that paid on the first date, ain't gonna pay for everything fucking 6 months in a relationship. Oh definitely not. I’m just talking about the first date. It's a Matter of social values. Personally i disagree with it and its a bad thing. Same with the Similar thing women do lmao. I think things like this are ingrained. Men naturally want to impress to women they want. A way for them to do that is to pay for the first d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:20 AM
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Mmm I think there’s a little merit to it. A man wouldn’t let a 10/10 woman with a great personality who he’s been lusting after for 6 months pay. I’ve seen men say to women, “you’re not good looking enough to demand a man pay for you.” If that’s true then the inverse also must be true. Men are willing to part with their money if they feel like she’s worth it. I’m not trying to say it’s a bad thing because women do something similar to that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:34 AM
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Hey, I never said it was fool proof. Just like a woman having sex on the first date doesn’t mean the guy will want to be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:30 AM
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I appreciate you trying to help but I don’t want to be with a guy who’s only attracted to my “make-up face”. The thought of being alone actually sounds nicer than that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:32 AM
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Still a 5 probably. But I don’t wear make up most of the time unless I go to a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:17 AM
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If I knew the exact reason I would change it lol. I think it’s a mixture of multiple factors. I’d say I’m a 4-5. I’m not the most extroverted person but I’ve been told that I’m friendly and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:15 AM
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Yes I live in the US (in the south). I live in a predominantly white area and I am black, which suspect to be part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:12 AM
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Thank you but I already knew that. I was just curious about why he felt like he needed to make that comment even though he knew he was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:04 AM
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I’m not gonna lie, I feel for you. I checked your history and it looks like you kind of get off on taunting chronically single women and trying to make them feel insecure. I understand any frustrations you may have with dating or problems you’ve had with women but this isn’t really a healthy or productive way of moving through your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:55 AM
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I’m 5’6” 135 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:44 AM
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JDBF is a lie. I’m not fat. I’m heathy weight; still when I’m out at a social event I’ll see men approach better looking women and none will approach me. I’ve gone out of my way to ask men out and I’ve gotten rejected every time. And I’m not approaching “Chads”. I’ve approached average, ever below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:26 AM
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Well, from a woman’s perspective it signals interest. Just like men want to be desired so do women. Women’s thinking = Men wouldn’t let the woman they desire to be with pay so if he does make you pay, he’s not that interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:09 AM
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It’s not like they have to stop dating normies because they’re famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:22 PM
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I feel as though, for the average man, the pressure to marry in their late 20’s mid -30’s is the same as women. Not for biological reasons but for the societal implications it holds. I don’t know any men who are happy being the only single, childless man in his 35 year old friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:15 PM
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When a woman is 29-32 and single, she begins to prioritize finding a long-term partner for marriage and having children, this two things become her top priorities vs when she was 22-24 and didn't consider such things Isn’t that the same for men? These are called life phases. And they’re relatively normal for every human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:55 PM
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LGBTQ needs a new letter, M for men, LGBTQM. Men's sexuality is shamed all the time. Lol bro. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:57 PM
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See I don’t get this. Just because they’re around female authorities all the time doesn’t give them a free license to disrespect their female teachers. If I had nothing but male authority figures I wouldn’t lash out at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:03 PM
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Don’t male body builders film in the gym just as often?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:29 AM
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I’m not blaming everything on men. Why do you get so offended by non-offensive statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:47 PM
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I actually think this is where 90% of male dating grievances stem from; their inability to accept female nature and not get personal about it. I hear red pillers say they, “don’t hate female nature they just hate being lied to about it”…which…isn’t true. You can see a lot of men here are clearly mad about the way women are naturally. They think a woman not having sex with them immediately means that woman is trying to use sex to manipulate him. Women don’t see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:24 PM
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I was on Instagram and I saw a comment from a man that said women should marry young and have kids young and any woman who is unmarried by 35 is washed up. I’m summarizing but you get the point. I went on the guys profile. He’s an average looking dude who looks to be in his mid 30’s. His post feed was littered with half naked women he also followed hundreds of half naked Instagram models. He also appeared to be unmarried with no kids. This whole situation got me thinking. A lot of men with manos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:18 PM
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Well, now wait a minute. Men definitely do the same thing too. If a man isn’t attracted to a woman he’s not going to take the time to get to know her like he would for a woman he does find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:00 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:07 PM
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Not sure what you’re getting at. All races of men are more likely to commit crime than their female counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:30 PM
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Tingles = Hornty. A lot of women want to be with a man who they’re attracted to right off the bat. Wether she finds him attractive because he’s physically handsome or they’re intellectually compatible. I think the beef men have with that is they believe women should give the “slow burners” a chance. The men who aren’t obviously attractive to that woman; in hopes a woman will grow into finding him attractive. Idk I think men are confused and frustrated about female sexuality because women don’t f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:11 PM
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Let’s be realistic here. Men 25 and under probably want sex every day with a different woman a day or something very close to that type of situation. So yes it’s bad if they get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:56 PM
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Not really because I’ve seen men’s mental health the exact same way I see women’s. And I don’t know any who ignored men’s mental health other than people trying to troll on the internet. Mental health should be taken seriously regardless of gender and the person will problem should want to seek help if they which to find some kind of treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:41 PM
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Losing your job doesn’t give you free reign to act like an asshole to your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:35 PM
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Definitely the games. A lot of people are willing to lie or ignore their own feelings to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:06 PM
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Or it could be as soon as he started making less than her he started being moody, lashing out and not picking up the slack (as many studies suggest men do as soon as they lose their job or start making less than their wives) which inevitably affected their marriage causing her to seek divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:54 PM
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Studies show that as soon as the husband no longer has enough money, the divorce comes. If he has no money then what exactly is she getting in the divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:39 PM
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Which shows that she systematically benefits financially from the marriage. Wouldn’t that mean women have more incentive to stay married and pretend to be happy so she can swipe her husband’s credit card some more? If money is what a woman is after filing for divorce is the worse option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:26 PM
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Most people end up marrying within their own socioeconomic class. Meaning teachers marry cops. Walmart cashiers marry Walmart janitors. Doctors marry other doctors. Lawyers marry lawyers. This idea that a Starbucks barista is “preying” on a 6 figure CEO in hopes of divorce raping him someday is not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:24 PM
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Divorce raped isn’t a thing. It’s a red pill boogie man to help them feel better about hating women. Less than 10% of divorces end in alimony and long term alimony (meaning over a year) is almost unheard of. Also, The wife is less well off financially after marriage than she was in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:11 PM
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Men get half too. Ask Kelly Clarkson and Adele’s ex-husbands. Men had no issue with alimony laws then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:04 PM
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You’re not exactly proving anything here. Most people know women don’t want lazy husbands just like how men don’t want lazy wives. Most long term relationships turn transactional. But it’s not a one way street. If a woman stops having sex with her husband or something happens to her were she can no longer be an effective, proactive wife and mother most men will cheat or try to seek a divorce. It’s the same the other way around. If a man can no longer pay bills for a long period of time and he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:55 PM
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They definitely do just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:58 PM
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Men have said bang ugly chicks till you can get the ones you want. Is that not the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:51 PM
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Yes, that’s true. Some people are just natural flirts and flirt with almost everyone, even people they aren’t attracted to for shits and giggles. I’ll go a step further too. I don’t think people who flirt are leading on the person they’re flirting with. A cheeky interaction shouldn’t bind someone to any kind of commitment to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:15 PM
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I’d say it’s pretty common. Whether it’s a conscious decision or not idk. Especially for women who have been cheated on before. But i don’t it’s full proof considering I’ve seen men of various levels of attractiveness cheat or attempt to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:48 PM
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Something tells me these guys think a lot of normal, innocent female behavior is suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:44 PM
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No it’s not suggesting any of that. Yes, it’s eludes to lack of trust. Unfortunately those women exist and are not uncommon and they just like you are getting accusatory and defensive everything you're saying will come right out of the mouth of even the cheating woman Then test your baby in secret. A faithful woman doesn’t like to be accused of cheating and doing so will have consequences. Ask her and you’ll get your paternity test. You’ll also most likely get divorce papers. look at every femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:34 PM
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She’s not revealing his identity so I’m not sure what the problem is. I wouldn’t give a shit if someone went on social media and told an embarrassing story about me, as long as they don’t use my name or otherwise doxx me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:14 PM
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If a man is asking they’re accusing their partner of cheating and carrying out a 9+ month elaborate plan of convincing you that you’re the father. It’s actually worse then accusing your partner of infidelity. It’s suggesting your partner is manipulative, a habitual liar and down right evil. You’ve basically ruined the relationship if you ask for one especially when it comes back that it is your baby and now you have egg on your face. If you want to know so bad, swab the babies mouth in secret an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:57 AM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:31 PM
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They definitely do but that’s not my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:30 PM
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I will say, a man who continually gets publicly rejected is pretty much screwed unless they move to a completely different area and acquire a new friend group. Once women get wind that a man that she knows as an acquaintance keeps getting spurned, whether she knows the reason or not, she’s not interested in anything he proposes romantically. And I don’t even think it’s necessarily about status more like women are hyper vigilant and neurotic when it comes to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:00 PM
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Those worlds look strangely comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:51 PM
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Getting the weekly urge to live in a studio apartment in densely populated, crime ridden urban city with Blade Runner 2045 aesthetics and be apart of a underground net runner syndicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:44 PM
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I don’t think you can even call it “inceldom”. Respectfully, I think you’ve been pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:31 PM
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You would be correct espresso beans hold less water than regular coffee beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:28 PM
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2 cups of Lavazza espresso a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:20 PM
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I think it’s better in the sense that the average person actually has options to get with someone they genuinely like not just someone they need for utility reasons. I also believe there is less pressure to make a relationship work. Back in the day, if your husband cheated you were expected to forgive him, this is no longer true today where it’s pretty much frowned upon to forgive a cheating husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:13 PM
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Every young man who is capable of obtaining situationship gets into one. You can’t tell me a 21 year old man with options he’s attracted to wants to be with one woman. The only people crabby about it are those (particularly men) without those options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:08 PM
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Men with hotter wives are happier. Sure a below average man will marry his looksmatch for various reasons, perhaps he wants kids and she’s willing to give that to him, he’s scared of being lonely and will settle, she takes care of him in a maternal way and he rather have that with an unattractive woman than be by himself etc. But these men are most likely tolerating their wives. This is not to say they aren’t appreciative of below average wife but he’s not exactly happy to be with her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:39 PM
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Making a relationship “workable” sounds like a chore. It’s like you’re saying he’s attracted enough to tolerate her but not cherish her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:17 PM
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There are many dating issues incapsulated in this situation but the one thing I will address about this is I think men here lie ALOT about men being aware of their looks match. As you can see men will go great lengths to attain women out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:38 PM
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If I was attracted to him when he was fit, why in the world would I purposefully make him unattractive to me by making him fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:10 AM
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Does anyone ever get pain but then you get so preoccupied with doing something the pain goes away but when you stop, the pain comes back? Does that mean the pain is fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:30 PM
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No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:34 PM
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I get neither so what grandma said doesn’t translate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:30 PM
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Respect doesn’t really matter if no men find you attractive. “I wouldn’t date her but I respect her.” Yea, no woman wants to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:33 PM
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An ugly woman needs to dress slutty to get attention. Yep average and below average women HAVE to dress slutty to get any kind of attention from men. Being modest won’t cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:31 PM
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More revealing clothes will def attract more attention I need y’all to understand how ridiculous this sounds to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:19 PM
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As a woman who has dressed fashionably conservative, never posted bikini pics I can tell you without a doubt men do not pay attention to us. Everywhere I go they are like flys to shit when they see “slutty” dressed women. So forgive me if I’m less than empathic about their grievances on what their girlfriend or wife chooses to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:04 PM
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I wouldn’t call posting surfing compilations a red flag…some of his demands were reasonable and then he mixed in the unreasonable demands to soften the blow. That’s definitely a tactic that is used by controlling people. They say something that is reasonable and then mix in something that is unreasonable so when you refuse it looks like you’re the one who is acting irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:56 PM
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Should have never asked her out in the first place. He knew she was incompatible with what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:30 PM
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Dude doesn’t even look human anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:12 PM
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No thats a complete lie. Its lie because so many of these women take to social media and talk about women and empowerment and being "self made" and being independent. Go to any yoga studio in San Francisco and see who the owner is and what she talks about in talks at the studio or on social media. You’re arguing over semantics in the lives of people you know nothing about. You said yourself that you’re getting your anecdotes from social media. If a woman wants to hype up the yoga studio she work…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:41 PM
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Many such a case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:36 PM
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I don’t think running a shop is as easy as you make it sound. And yoga and fitness instructors usually teach more than one class or client a day. What you’re talking about his a stay at home mom with a part time job. There is no mass conspiracy to label these women as equal financial contributors. No one is doing that. Everyone calls them what they are, which is stay at home mom with a part time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:26 PM
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I find the infatuation with Joe Rogan worse actually. I give Elon a pass because he’s autistic but Joe. Joe is ignorant and idiotic in a malicious way. He claims to be open minded and “center” but he’s clearly and knowingly pushing an agenda and when confronted with opinions different from his, then he’s suddenly not “open minded” anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:27 PM
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No lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:06 PM
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True. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:40 PM
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So you’re not as ugly or awkward as you think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:44 PM
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I would be horrified that my son is becoming a coomer too. Tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:26 PM
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None of them find you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:25 PM
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What about pretend to be your friend online? How much would you pay then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:06 PM
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Margot Robbie looks like that when she’s caught off guard and without the help of professional makeup team. Yet men would still rate her at least an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:27 PM
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Ideal Male Body Type (According to Women) Ideal Female Body Type (According to Men) Very informative surveys about the “ideal” male and female body type. I have to say, I agree with the women who took this surgery about what type of male body type is the most attractive. I think this that type of body is what women mean when they say “dad” bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:25 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/pmrc0sh2ky8b1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=1db6600f1b8235df5c0f472cddc053d030d438d6 You’ve lost your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:21 PM
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250k likes on a tweet calling Zendaya “mid”. But yea, men automatically think any non-overweight woman is a 7 s/ 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:50 PM
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Nah you’re good. I could see myself falling in love with a guy who was my looksmatch (a 4). I’ve been attracted to “4’s” before. My standards aren’t outrageous. I don’t care how much a guy makes. What matters is that he’s financially responsible about the money he does have. I don’t expect a man to have traits or morals that I myself don’t already have. I have a height standard but it’s not ridiculous I’m 5’5 and I would 100% date a guy who is also 5’5 no shorter though. Most men are taller than…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:45 PM
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No. It’s definitely the risk taking and “devil may care” attitude. Women don’t like simps. They don’t like men who are doormats. They like men who are care free and do things because they won’t to do it. The guy going 50 down a dirt road on his dirt bike doing wheelies will always be more attractive to a young woman than the guy at the party nervously standing in the corner with his arms crossed and his eyes darting all over the room. “Nice Guys” are often “nice” because they’re too afraid to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:22 PM
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No deformities. I just have a combination of unattractive traits (body type, facial features) that would make a woman (especially a woman of my race) undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:12 PM
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Nope I’m normal weight. And one that requires a bone marrow transplant to cure it. I’m not going to name it because it’s extremely rare and I don’t want to blow my cover lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:08 PM
2

Yes, there’s no sense of collective community like that anymore. Everyone is “I’m taking care of my family, who cares about yours” the majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:02 PM
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Both but I’m not disabled in the “wheelchair” kind of way. Im disabled in a “I look healthy but I’m secretly severely chronically ill” kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:01 PM
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Long story short, I developed a chronic disease when I was 13. This severely impaired my socialization so grew up awkward never really learned how to form any kind of relationship plus I’m below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:57 PM
1

You hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:55 PM
3

Because they’re not looking for sympathy. Sympathy isn’t enough for them. They want women to change for them so they can get sex. That’s what the conversation always comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:49 PM
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That dynamic isn’t cohesive to the way society is now so no. Everyone is so hyper independent and emotional that the thought of living how we did when we first learned to walk makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:04 PM
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I feel like the culture of being entitled to instant gratification has really fucked up some people’s view on sex. No one in the world has ever gotten sex with the person they wanted when they wanted it 100% of the time. Even “Chad” strikes out. Even “Chad” has to settle if he wants instant sex. Saying you won’t be sexually successful until you’re able to have sex with a different beautiful woman every 3 days will lead to insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:56 PM
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Why do incels want people to believe the majority of men are incels when everyone knows thats not true? I’m a “femcel” and I can fully acknowledge I’m a anomaly. I think this is another reason people don’t take inceldom seriously. Incels try to inflate the problem to make it more than what it’s is. Average men aren’t sexless. That’s an incel myth. Go outside and you’ll see average married men and average men with dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:42 PM
3

Ag made everyone betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:22 PM
3

Biology has always been cucked. If you think about it. Back in the early days of humanity one woman would have children with multiple high ranking men. A woman would maybe have 5-8 different baby daddy’s (probably more since infant mortality rates were high). Men and women would often live separately due to men being out hunting most of the time. But there was no such thing as a “single mother” the community would help raise the children. A nuclear family as we know it wasn’t a thing. All women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:10 PM
3

This needs to be a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:51 PM
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Yea but you’re not her land lord. She didn’t sign a lease to live in an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:10 PM
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I only adjust what I feel comfortable with changing. I was comfortable with losing weight and getting fit so I did that. I wasn’t comfortable with wearing make up so I didn’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:09 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to ask someone to pay a mortgage that’s not in their name. With that being said it’s alright to ask her for other bill money like for utilities and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:06 PM
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I’ve posted from my prospective as an unattractive woman and I’m continually dismissed. I get down voted because they either think I’m exaggerating, lying or I do have men who are attracted to me I’m just extremely picky. I get downvoted to hell because for some reason some men on here think this is the oppression Olympics and if I sound like I, as a woman, am having a hard time finding someone they feel like they have to one up me by waxing poetic about how they AcTuCaLlY have it harder than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:02 PM
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Are you asking why people crave a lust for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:27 AM
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Pretty privilege gets canceled out by the fact that men and their opinions are more respected in the workplace by default. The same isn’t said about women. Also “good ‘ol boys” clubs cancel out any affirmative action or diversity politics in the workplace. Men in power will always care about the opinions of other men like them over “diversity hires”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:52 PM
2

What workplace disadvantages do my male coworkers have that I don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:43 PM
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I don’t wear make up because make up never really appealed to me and wearing it makes me uncomfortable. With that being said the expectation that I should wear makeup does hurt me socially and professionally as a person who fundamentally doesn’t like using make up. I’m treated very differently by co-workers and the like because I refuse to put on make up. The stereotype about women without makeup in the work place is that they look “unkempt” and unprofessional so I have to put in extra effort in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:52 PM
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Yes, for both biological and sociological reasons. The biological reasons have already been listed in previous comments. Sociologically—all groups who have been oppressed have a very strong in-group bias due to being treated second class. You’ll see it among gay or trans people opposed to straight people. You’ll see it in American Muslims and Jews opposed to American Christians. You’ll also see it in races for the obvious reasons and yes you’ll see it more in women opposed to men. That’s not to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:03 PM
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So four women agree on something now all women agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:16 PM
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Iconic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:10 PM
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I think the type of women manospherians hate more than anything are the women who live a life where they got to have their cake in eat it to. The women who were wild all through their 20’s and early 30’s married a desirable man their early, mid 30’s and had 1 or 2 when their biological clock strikes 11:59 p.m. What insults can they realistically hurl at this marvel of a woman? She got to sow here wild oats and saw none of the down sides manospherian say await those who dare ride the CC. They can…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:02 PM
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Let’s go deeper. Is there a reason why you think women are all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:43 PM
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The same reason people don’t like telemarketers. They’re both obnoxious, use “canned-pick up lines/sales pitches”, don’t know when to quit, they’re fake as fuck, they get aggressive when your reject them and even they don’t believe in the thing they’re trying to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:27 PM
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There’s a thing called going outside. It’s fun. You should try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:50 PM
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How are you upset with 2x and not the men’s rights sub we’re they say equally sexist and outrageous things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:30 PM
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It’s not just women. There’s a man on here who is mad that he only attracted 6’s. Sixes. As in clearly above average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:16 PM
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You don't need to have "no feelings" for a person to know that you don't have long term future but still want to date for a bit for fun. You need to lie. There’s no way around it. If a woman asks a man on the third date “what are you looking for.” He’ll need to lie and say “I’m looking for something serious.” In order to bait her into a relationship. Around the 4 month mark she’s going to pepper him with questions as to how serious he thinks the relationship is. He’ll lie again reassuring her he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:06 PM
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The sexually successful guys I know all got that way through flings and FWBs not serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:43 AM
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It makes perfect sense. He’s recommending that men be lying Machiavellian assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:41 AM
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Women not conciously choosing to be that way doesn't change anything. This is yet another instance of behavior that comes natural to women being considered evil or sociopathic when it is advised for men, just because for men it requires a concious rationalization of the strategy instead of being based on instinct. Because it leads people on. You’ll be lying to them. That’s why it’s sociopathic. Women who are serial monogamous believe their relationship is real and long lasting till it isn’t. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:37 AM
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Serial monogamy is the default dating mode for like half the women in their 20s in the developed world and nobody thinks they are sociopaths lol. So this is a game of tit for tat to you not actual genuine advice but something you recommended out of spite? Those women in their 20’s that you claim are serial monogamists (without any proof i might add) aren’t consciously choosing to be that way. Serial monogamy isn’t a traditional relationship style it’s usually a symptom of a bigger issue like aba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:27 AM
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I’ve found that the vast majority of serial monogamist aren’t aware they’re that way. They don’t see their pattern. Unlike when people choose to be polygamous or have an open relationship they’re consciously deciding to do that but not with serial monogamy. They go into relationships truly believing (at least for a while) that the person they’re with is “the one” before they break up with that person and a month later find another person who they believe is “the one”. People who are serial monog…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:22 AM
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Men are telling other men to go to different country to date women 3 attractions point higher than them because American men are so resistant to dating their American looksmatch. Who is more shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:08 AM
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??? I don’t understand what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:07 PM
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That cheap shit isn't going to last forever. She'll get tired of cheapo dates eventually, and then the price will keep getting higher and higher. All the while she has sex whenever she wants, even if it falls off a cliff. Famous last words before the dead bedroom begins. It never fails. Men assuming what women want and using it to justify never meeting a woman’s emotional needs to begin with. A tale as old as time. Just don’t be surprised when she stops giving you want you want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:43 PM
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I explicitly don't annoy my partner for sex she doesn't want because I'm not superseding my needs for hers. Good for you. You’re an anomaly. So what you're saying is that a women's love is contingent on the material goods and services I purchase for her? Are men who say they need consistent sex in relationships love contingent on sex? Some how, in your imagination, you’re imaging I’m saying that you have to give your wife jewels everyday and take her in $1000 dates every weekend when I literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:35 PM
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Dating, surprise gifts and other romantic guestues are undercut by whatever this crap you just said was. If men refuse to accept the way women feel love why should women accept the way men feel love? I’m sure wives everywhere had a time where they didn’t want to have sex with there husband but did it anyway and it sucked but they did it because they care for their husband. I know men don’t enjoy romance after they’ve locked a woman down but women still do. Why is it so hard to buy flowers every …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:19 PM
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If remembering to buy your own mother a gift for her birthday instead of tossing that responsibility onto your wife or taking your wife on a $20 date once a week is “a lot more labor” then I’m not sure what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:11 PM
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CMV: Since women feel love through thoughtfulness, romance and acts of service, withholding romance (dating, surprise gifts, other romantic gestures) and emotional labor from your wife is just as bad and erosive to a relationship as withholding sex from your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:06 PM
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All advice is overrated if you’re below average. Not saying below average people can’t find partners but they’re going to have to play by a whole different set of rules. The GenericDatingAdvice™️ doesn’t work for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:58 PM
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Oh awesome! The housing is very cheap there (relative to other states) but depending on where the job is located there might not be much to do (unless she’s an outdoorsy person).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:58 PM
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Yes? Like everywhere, most of the crime is committed in concentrated areas. If you stay out of the urban bad parts then you’re going to be relatively safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:44 PM
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Not bad if you live in the nice parts. It’s bad if you live in the bad parts. There are still people who live in old sharecropper shacks , with no electricity living on $50 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:39 PM
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I’m not moving the goal posts. It’s another one of the cons. In order for a woman to be a stay at home mom comfortably, without having to worry about how they’re going to afford food every week, a man needs to make at least 6 figures a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:29 PM
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It’s relevant because it’s on the list of cons for having that family dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:06 PM
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It’s irrelevant because most American men can’t provide a good life in a nice neighborhood for a family with one pay check. We’re talking about realistic options here. Not something that will only be a good idea if your man makes at least 150k per year. And Will you be willing to give that SAHM alimony in the event of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:04 PM
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If that’s how y’all want to get down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:57 PM
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Hiring a maid is surprising cheap. The average middle class American family can afford to hire one to come in every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:44 PM
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I think once you weight out the pros and cons, Being a SAHM is probably the worst family dynamic of them all followed by 50/50. The best family dynamic is both partners working hybrid jobs and hiring a maid to come in once or twice a week. I feel like outsourcing the mid-hard house labor is where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:41 PM
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I have been labeled creepy before as a woman. While being unattractive probably played a part, it was mostly because I was hopelessly socially awkward which led to some “creepy” interactions. I don’t blame people for calling me creepy back then because I would have thought someone who exhibited the same behavior as me was creepy as well. I did some introspection and worked on my social skills and social awarnesss and haven’t been called creepy in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:39 PM
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It was funny watching a guy who mocks feminists for being too emotional have a mental break down on live TV. It’s funny because it’s ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:16 PM
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Men have almost always made the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:27 PM
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What would you like women to do? Catcall average men on the street? Nothing short of getting on our knees and sucking the random dick of an average man will appease average men so what? If we give out to many compliments or ask to many men out on dates then we’ll be labeled a whore. There is no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:27 PM
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They’re not looking at the actual end result. “They’re thinking well 100 people gave her validation that she’s dateable.” Which is an incorrect statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:32 AM
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😈
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:55 PM
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Me: tells the truth in the most unbiased and sensitive way I possibly can. still gets downvoted because it inevitably hurts someone’s feelings even though I’m just regurgitating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:53 PM
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Yes on tinder. The odds are high of you getting 0 in a month because the ratio of men to women is 8 to 2. It’s a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:05 PM
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Sure. But it’s true. If if it makes you feel better most men will lose their virginity by 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:04 PM
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I wouldn’t say the number is zero considering most men will find a mate in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:53 PM
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Because it’s not the correct use of the word. It’s like calling a frog an animal. Yes, a frog is an animal but what kind of animal is it? A female can be anything. A female horse, a female alien, a female dog. A woman is a human female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:52 PM
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True. Every woman has the anatomy of a Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:50 PM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:47 PM
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Okay. I’ll try.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:22 PM
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Yea I’m on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:15 PM
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Is the ability the change a custom flair on PPD gone? I tried changing my flair, it didn’t work so I tried again but this time the “edit” button is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:01 PM
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Also high standards are placed on men because men are seen as the protectors of women. Men also claim they are protectors (even though there are many who aren’t). Women are viewed as protectors of children and maybe animals. That’s why when a child goes missing everyone is quick to blame the mother not the father. Or when a child misbehaves, the common saying is “that’s not how you mom raised you.” So yes, high standards are placed on men but in many cases especially those involving children, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:48 PM
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Because everyone is afraid of being “used”. Women are afraid of being used for their youth and body. Men are afraid of being used by their status and money. Trying to create equal standards is an attempt to level the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:42 PM
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The first step and de-pilling yourself is realizing men and women do not judge the other gender by the same standards that they’re judged by.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:35 PM
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Women seek “better” men because historically and biologically women are at a disadvantage. Women are the physically weaker sex. This weakness is exacerbated during pregnancy when the human female is at her most physically and financially vulnerable. In order to assure her and her child’s safety and security during the gestation and breast feeding period (and even beyond), a mentally healthy woman will naturally seek out a physically and financially dominant man to be the father of her child. Aka…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:53 PM
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In observance, I’ve found that men think quantity = quality. Sure, the average lookin woman may get 100 matches. Of those 100, only 50 will message her. The other 50 don’t think she’s attractive…actually they don’t remember swiping on her at all. They swiped on her just because they swipe on every woman so they don’t message. Of the 50 who actually message, 10 of them will be complete weirdos and eliminate themselves by being pervs or mentally unstable or it’s been revealed that they’re actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:35 PM
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I have the expectation to be good at my job. I have the expectation to pay rent on time. I have the expectation of being a law abiding citizen. I have the expectation to help take care of my parents as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:22 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:15 PM
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I think people want to think the worst type of people come here but I don’t think that’s true. I’m not “ran through” or overweight yet I am here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:52 PM
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I’m not sure. I’m not going to assume I have to see pics. But I’ve definitely seen ugly players in real life so the odds of there are ugly men being discussed on the board is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:47 AM
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No but I’ve had psychologically induced chest pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:34 PM
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black pill creates violent men. This isn’t shocking. Anyone with two brain cells could see it coming from a mile away. The thing that stuck out to me is he believes women who don’t know him are secretly out to get him and blue ball him. Men ignore me but I don’t really blame them for ignoring me, let alone hate them for it. Male inceldom is some weird mixture of inferiority and superiority complex mixed with narcissism and extreme delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:20 PM
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Not if i was happy in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:18 PM
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Say he’s laid off. There are jobs available to him but he believes those jobs are “beneath him” (jobs like dish washer, cashier etc) and he won’t work until he finds a job that was like the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:05 PM
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This doesn’t sound remotely realistic for most average women. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:45 PM
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I’m not married lol just curious on what the sub thinks is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:44 PM
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Q4Men: if you are the sole breadwinner in a traditional relationship do you think it’s acceptable for your wife to divorce you if you can’t provide for an extended period of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:42 PM
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I think you’re conflating two different issues. There are average men who attempt and succeed at getting at least one date with multiple women. These men aren’t in the top % and will never be successful as men in the top % but many do succeed in securing multiple dates at a time. Have you never seen an ugly man caught cheating? Those men aren’t in the top % yet they have a roster of ugly women they rotate with. Men of all levels of attractiveness attempt to sleep around and will try to chat up m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:43 PM
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Are you a man or a woman? Feel free to not answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:39 PM
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Thanks for the info and sorry for misgendering your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:39 PM
1

I’m guessing you’re choosing A too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:37 PM
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Would you allow her to cheat discreetly to get her emotional and sexual fix elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:34 PM
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Q4All: If your partner fell out of love with you with no chance of them falling back in love with you, would you rather they: A. Disengage, pretend to be happy but stay in the relationship for utility reasons. B. Break up with you immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:30 PM
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Of course but It’s not about investments. It’s about balancing out power dynamics so I don’t feel like the situation is inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:35 PM
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If it’s not enough money for me to stop working then I won’t make any changes since I’m still working full time. I guess I would do a couple extra chores here and there but I’m not going to wear myself out because then I would be miserable. If it’s enough money for me to stop working then I would take on the majority of the house management (cooking, cleaning running errands 90% of the tjme) and financial planning activities where I would allocate money to his account, my account, the savings ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:44 PM
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Amy Schumer is a low 4 on a good day. Even when she was skinny she wasn’t facially attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:24 PM
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Yes its unbelievable
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 02:47 PM
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Photoshop unrelated pictures together doesn’t make it true. Those aren’t her matches or her messages.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:57 PM
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When I was on my fitness journey, I started by working out at home because I couldn’t bare going to the gym. I lost about 10 lbs via home fitness and cal deficit, then I finally felt comfortable with working out in the gym. Being mogged by a bunch of beautiful people is brutal no matter how supportive they seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:52 PM
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None of the pills exist. It’s all a cope or deal with not having to confront the fact you aren’t desirable because of things in your control. Ask the question if I was a woman would I date me? If the answer is no, why do you expect women to take you seriously? Why are you mad that women are viewing you the way you view yourself? Are you a likable person? do you present yourself well? Or are you an anxious mess afraid to approach, always wearing the same 3 shirts on rotation and constantly slouch…
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 04:07 PM
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I am not a woman. I don't go by "what have you done for me lately" I will support her for life as long as she remains faithful and does her best for the relationship. You’ve contradicted yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:47 PM
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“According to the American Perspectives Survey, the gaps in relationship status between 18-29 men and women exist primarily in the cohabitating and married categories. There's no noticeable gap in those 'in a committed relationship', i.e. unmarried and non-cohabiting partners...” “I see this as good evidence against the meme that the pew survey demonstrates chad harems, as that survey didn't break down the types of relationships, it only showed a gap between men and women in a committed relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:37 AM
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So many incels here says they don’t find black women attractive and wouldn’t have sex with them even if they offered. How are they going to complain about being an incel when they’ve excluded entire demographics over what they can’t control?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 02:16 PM
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Fat men, skinny men, short men, tall men, average men, above average men all get judged by women. All these type of men are getting married on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:37 PM
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Think about it: *a short "butterface" girl with a plump ass would do great on Tinder, but a short bulked guy with a unattractive face would probably struggle * a ghostly pale darker chick is seen as a 'gothic mommy gf', a pale guy is seen as pasty and unattractive outside a niche subculture * plus sized women now pass as thick and voluptuous bbw's, yet overweight men are generally seen as out of shape ("dad bod" is a misnomer) * skinny women are still considered the ideal by a the mainstream, sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:48 PM
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Oh yes, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:38 PM
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No he just looks like a light skinned black man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:36 PM
1

It’s okay. Found out my dad is like 40% white which is funny because both his paternal and maternal grandparents are black.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:53 PM
6

I think people need to be more cognizant about how you talk about others on here. Especially on the Daily Thread. Stay civil and no personal attacks is against sub rules but several people have learned out to obfuscate it by making passive aggressive generalized comments that pretty much have the same effect as a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:28 PM
1

It sucks if you’re looking for genuine love. It’ll be fun if you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:52 PM
1

I don’t know what’s worse. Being a beautiful woman but getting a whole bunch of shallow attention from men who don’t care about your humanity. Or being an ugly woman and getting virtually no attention from men but once and a blue moon if you get attention, you know it’s genuine and they’re not after your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:47 PM
2

I said centrist, not libertarian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:58 AM
2

Getting drunk and playing PowerWash Simulator >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:48 AM
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That’s nonsense. Acting like a helpless Bambi like someone put a gun to their head and forced them marry a toxic woman. Makes me not feel bad for guys like this when they get mistreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:03 PM
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Don’t you feel you have a responsibility to vet a woman before you marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:59 PM
3

english teachers in Japan are losers Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:49 PM
5

Left this, right that. All the cool kids are centrists. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:43 PM
1

I’ve never dated but even I know not to date a man who is broke and miserable. Nothing good can come from a man with FOMO and a inferiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:34 PM
1

It’s worse. I was tracking him on the app. The guy literally made it INTO my apartment building before turning around and making off with my steak, broccoli and fried rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:12 PM
2

So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:09 PM
1

The former.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:08 PM
2

Freakin’ door dasher stole my Hibachi 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:59 PM
2

Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:39 PM
3

This standard is fine because I’m the same. As a woman who is a virgin. I don’t want a man who engages in or wishes to engage in casual sex. I’ve observed that these men tend to be more unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:08 PM
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Also another comment mentioned this but yeah typically masculine guys also beat the shit out of you for speaking out of turn, fully expect you to have sex with them when they want, not letting you leave dressed a certain way, etc Many non-masculine non-provider men are like this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:55 PM
5

Even you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:17 PM
1

Yea 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:48 PM
1

I rarely start a series and abruptly stop watching it. Even if I think it’s boring. But Daisy Jones and the Six is just awful. Im going to have to stop watching it. Bad writing and bad acting all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:45 PM
3

Look. I’m a simple woman, I see a bulge, I stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:19 PM
1

Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:55 AM
1

Never been on a date or in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:41 AM
3

Being a bad person with bad intention but not being able to carry those intentions out still makes you bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:16 PM
3

Really? Because the some of the worst men I know don’t get the chance to be terrible to women because women don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:57 PM
2

If you cross state lines to get an abortion and your state finds out you can still go to prison for having an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:56 PM
2

Only in states that don’t let a woman have an abortion if she gets raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:50 PM
1

Yes to both. Consenting to have sex with someone on birth control or with a condom ≠ consent without birth control of condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:44 PM
2

Not quite sure what you’re referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:39 PM
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Or it’s biology and also women not hedging their womanhood and femininity on wether men give them validation or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:35 PM
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I find it fascinating that the most awful men you’ll ever meet are convinced they deserve good, feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:02 PM
9

I haven’t gotten a compliment from a man (I wasn’t related to) ever, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:06 PM
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I get no male attention outside of family members and co workers. While I do get lonely sometimes I’m fine without it. I think most women would feel the same way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:13 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:37 AM
3

I don’t have an insta (just a finsta I use to browse and stalk) or a real Twitter account for that matter. Mostly because I’m a loser and would have like 3 followers. 2 of them would bots and 1 of them would be my mom lol. It’s actually really freeing not having a “real” social media account.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:27 PM
11

I’m not talking about those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:00 PM
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You all always talk about these mythical single high status women but all the female doctors I’ve ever had have been married. I also work in a position where I do business with a lot of people in high positions like CEO, CFO etc,. Some of them are women and the vast majority have been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:57 PM
3

I second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:38 PM
3

My mom loves that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:25 PM
3

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:32 PM
2

I didn’t have a copper one I had Mirena. But my god was I heaven. No period and no cramps of 5 years. Was a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:31 PM
2

Dude I need to get another IUD. I think I have endometriosis 😭The period pain I have is unbearable. Worst pain I’ve ever felt and have had broke bones before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:22 PM
2

I think trying to pin the woman are wonderful effect entirely on mothers is equally weird. That's some Freud levels of psycho analysis based on literally nothing. I think it’s disingenuous to completely dismiss it as psycho analysis nonsense. Studies have shown we get a lot of our attitudes regarding gender and sex relations from our experiences with our parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:34 PM
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That movie sucked. Parts of it were good but overall it was a mess. I like the subliminal (and not so subliminal) social commentary aspect of it. Ultimately, she made him pay for dinner, even though she has more money, because she can. Because she knows she is hot enough to make those demands, and that's the bar. It's a shitty way to treat people, but she's not wrong. That’s exactly what I’m getting at. As long as you’re beautiful there are many people you can treat like absolute shit and they’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:06 PM
1

This is what I’ve also observed. Men make up a narrative in their head then get mad at women like women are the ones who made them believe that narrative. Women haven’t put themselves on a pedestal. You put them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:53 PM
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I think men blaming women for the “Women are wonderful” effect is bogus. No one is purposefully trying to manufacture this effect. Most people are a product on nurturing mothers. Your mother breastfed you for about 2 years give or take. People are naturally going to associate the nurturing nature they experienced from their mother the first few years of life and project that onto other women. No on is trying to force this narrative. To say women have always been portrayed in media as omnibenevol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:42 PM
2

I was watching Triangle of Sadness last night and two of the main characters are models/influencers (a man and a woman) who are in a relationship. They have an argument over money and at the end of the argument the female model admits that she’s a manipulator who is just using the male model for clout and has no actual feelings for the male model. Despite this confession, the male model is STILL in love with her and tries to through the rest of the movie to win her over. And I just want to say h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:01 PM
2

I know a few women who have 3-4 different men. Does that mean men like to be in soft harems? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:31 PM
3

I don’t think not having sex for an extended period of time is unique to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:19 PM
2

Bananas are the ultimate food for me. If I eat two bananas for breakfast I don’t even need coffee. But I drink coffee anyway cause I like the taste lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:15 PM
5

You mean the same thing you do expect it’s for women?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:42 PM
1

Well I wouldn’t know. I’m not a socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:02 PM
1

This is how I view it. But the 45+ crowd is very easy to trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:56 PM
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I think the scariest thing about social media is everyone’s opinion is given equal weight. When you talk to someone in person, you can usually tell when they’re crazy or dumb therefore you can easily dismiss what they say. But you can’t really tell through a screen. There are so many people on social media with big followings who have serious undiagnosed mental illness like paranoid schizophrenia and other delusional disorders and they’re perpetuating these conspiracies that average non-insane p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:52 PM
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So it’s in women’s best interest that men experience scarcity and they all don’t get causal sex or else the dating market would be flipped the other way with tons of women getting sex but almost none getting relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:02 PM
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Doing immoral and unethical things to get your way? Isn’t that like red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:29 PM
3

All of the above. There are different women who are attracted to atleast one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:00 PM
1

I’ll pass on the trusting you part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:39 PM
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I’m not going to assume anyone is lying until I have a good reason to believe so. Writing long posts isn’t a good reason to believe someone is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:37 PM
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People who want to believe a certain narrative have a tendency to dismiss anything that challenges that narrative so you’re definitely on brand at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:35 PM
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I mean he’s gotten positive romantic attention from girls in high school. So he’s done a lot better than a lot of the men here who got none.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:32 PM
1

Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:21 PM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:36 PM
1

Not in American but I am in a third world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:11 PM
2

Be bofh🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:27 PM
2

Q4A: Sound I become a passport sis?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:24 PM
1

🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:37 PM
2

I’m ugly and I definitely don’t hate or get depressed looking at beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:32 PM
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Not meat but their Shamrock shakes are pretty good 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:31 PM
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Why is there basically the same number of obese men and women in America then 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:28 PM
2

Yep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:14 PM
1

Also you don’t even want to know how much I’d probably end landlord as a career path. You and me both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:12 PM
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There are people at my job who go on 2 hour jogs while participating in company wide Zoom meetings. People who don’t work remote really don’t believe it, but as long as you meet deadlines they really do not care what you do with the rest of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:10 PM
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I have moral qualms about the concept of evicting families in the first place. You might have moral qualms but actual landlords sure don’t. But back the first point. I’m not talking about everyone by my peers which on average make 6 figures. They can afford to have a kid. But no they clock in all these extra hours and work extra hard for what? A corner going excel sheets. They could cut it back a bit. Go from 120k to 90k + with kids and a reasonable schedule. But they don’t. Meh it’s their decis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:06 PM
2

Still not the same. The rate of just housing inflation has raised 4.23% every year if you do the math since 2000. The that’s 92.3%. The exact same type of house that you parents bought in 2000 would cost 92.3% more today. Not to mention, that wages and salary have pretty much stayed the same since then. Wage growth only grew 6.21% from 1963 from 2023. So you have housing, food, cars inflating fast but wages are moving at a snails pace. There’s only so much you can sacrifice before you see an evi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:49 PM
1

And when was this? The 80’s the 90’s? Not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:41 PM
1

That’s fine. The fact of the matter is the majority of families can’t live off one salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:35 PM
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Exactly. My job is so easy, low stress, great job security so I’m not looking over my back wondering if I’m going to be fired. As soon as I clock out. I’m done. I don’t even think about work till I clock in again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:26 PM
2

The average white collar worker works 3 hours a day. You can get away with a lot in remote work as long as you look like you’re working and meet all your deadlines in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:23 PM
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You can do both. We’re at the point where you can get a 100% remote job. You can technically be a stay at home parent and a full time employee at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:13 PM
3

Im definitely not complaining about their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:12 PM
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When I first joined I was like “aww you guys can’t be THAT bad.” Narrator: They’re that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:24 PM
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“A car with a four flat tires is more useful than a car with a broken axel.” As one of the “leftover women” I’d like to say: Lol who the fuck cares. They’re both beat up mostly useless cars. Miserable people trying to get a 1 up on other miserable people are usually the MOST miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:17 PM
1

I never mentioned Cher and Madonna were having sex with them until you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:13 PM
1

That’s not how burden of proof works…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:06 PM
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If you really care to see the truth for yourself, find a decent looking guys pics (not ripped or anything crazy), use his photos for a dating profile and see what results you get. Right now you’re just being dismissive of mine and other men’s experiences, and sharing an anecdote about supposed 4s getting laid (are you sure they did?) doesn’t change that You mean the dating apps were 75% of the users are men?Like I said, get off the interest and go meet a woman in the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:58 PM
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Lol Madonna and Cher are NOT having sex with the boy toy. Do you have secret access to their bedroom that the rest of us don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:54 PM
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Most mature women come to terms with Chad being unavailable to them for the long term. It’s not as big of a deal to women as men want to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:45 PM
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You know they created a cool ways to have sex and not get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:42 PM
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The rest of us plebs aren't going to get shit because rich assholes will have all the women. We'll be eunuchs -- either literally or metaphorically. Okay you’re exaggerating. This is never how it was at any point in human history.. Rich men maybe had 100 women in their harem max (many of them were slaves btw) Sure rich men had more women but since the start of civilization and society, there was always women left for most of the other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:41 PM
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Dude, you have to get off the internet. I like to think of myself as a pretty observant person. What you say is happening isn’t. I see men who are literal 4’s being able to hook up with cute women they meet in bars. You seem pretty neurotic and that’s what’s probably pushing women away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:36 PM
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Some do. I think getting gang banged was ranked like a top 10 fantasy for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:34 PM
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Honestly, women should be using their incomes to support Chad. Meh, I don’t think so considering Chad’s are accessible to the average woman. As long as you’re a 5 you a chance of sex with Chad. No need to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:33 PM
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I don’t think it’s as rare as you think. And I think that you think money can make up for a man’s looks. It can’t. Money doesn’t make women horny, money does however make women more tolerant of physical flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:27 PM
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Men who look like you get laid all the time. You’re in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:23 PM
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Like I said you may think it’s gross but they don’t care what you think so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:19 PM
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Oprah is borederline asexual. If she wanted men there would be men. Look at Cher and Madonna. They’re body counts are probably in the 100s and yet because of their money and clout there are still handsome young men always around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:15 PM
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I’m talking 1% as in money, power etc. not top 1% in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:10 PM
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You can think it’s gross but a woman with 500 mil in her bank account is going to have a harem if she wants. Wether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:07 PM
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I think the top 1% of men (and women if they want to) should be polygamous like it was through the rest of history. Kings, warlords, princes, sultans, emperors and other important men got harems because they had the means to take care of those women and the power to “get” them. The rest of us plebs should be monogamous because it’s the best way to hold society together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:02 PM
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has n-count of 300 Don’t you want this n-count? Why are you bashing him for being able to do what you want to do? while the guy who has a good job and is in good natural shape can't even get a date. This guy can get a date though. I would happily date this guy. I mean absolutely no offense but you don’t sound like a good guy. The difference between them and you is that they’re bad guys who are sexually attractive and you’re a bad guy who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:56 PM
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Okay. If this is your goal why not get roids and tattoos? From what I’ve gotten from you, sex seems like one of your main goals. What’s stopping you from becoming what you think women find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:26 PM
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Why do you want validation from people you deem as lesser than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:19 PM
1

Okay then you’re not after women you’re after sexual validation. I’ve seen some of your comment on here and you seem to have a negative view on women, why does not getting sexual validation make you so angry toward women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:14 PM
1

If your goal is to sleep with lots of women, buying hookers would be the quickest and easiest way to do that, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:11 PM
4

I figure it’s like some people are born easily able to comprehend music and can play any instrument by ear with formal training and then there’s those who can’t learn any instrument even though they tried. Some people just got it and the rest of us don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:52 AM
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It’s not cause I eat ‘em😈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:45 AM
4

This feels like it should be registered as a sex crime…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:42 AM
1

I’m not picking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:41 AM
2

Why you lookin’?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:36 AM
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Most choose the latter 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:50 PM
2

Subtle plastic surgery and Botox can do wonders. The problem is when someone gets addicted to it and it turns out botched.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:48 PM
6

Rad fems Vs Incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:26 PM
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Sure but generally people are attracted to people of similar looks. And I’m not necessarily talking about being in relationships with people more attractive. I’m talking about the sense of entitlement some men feel about attractive women. Like even some men who have trouble getting women of their own attractiveness feel entitled to hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:54 PM
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No one actually knows their own value level. Mmmm don’t know about that one. A wide variety of women find me attractive. That may be true but that shouldn’t give you a sense of entitlement over women out of your league. No one actually knows their own value level. I like 200 dollar steak dinners and I can afford them sometimes but to think I deserve a 200 dollar steak dinner every week just because I get it occasionally is kind of deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:44 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:41 PM
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Okay, I can understand the frustration men may have if they can’t find a woman of their own attractiveness to have sex with them but how are y’all going to be mad that a woman hotter than you is fucking hot men? How does that make sense 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:38 PM
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It is. But I’ve seen some people who think he didn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:39 AM
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Teeth are a 4. Not the worst set of chicklets I’ve seen. Very British though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:04 AM
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“r\popculturechat is better”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:02 AM
1

Who here thinks Alex Murdaugh killed his wife and son?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:54 PM
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I don’t really think you can compare. Until recent human history: Men were sent to wars they didn’t want to fight, killed by invading armies, enslaved, work harsh unforgiving jobs. Women were raped, tortured and killed by invading armies, enslaved, traded as wives to men who would abuse them, starve to make sure their kids were fed, died in child birth often. Each sounds like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:40 PM
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some of the strangest music ive tried to listen to is john coltranes later career stuff. the only way i can describe it is weird structureless noise https://youtu.be/7JDHvAm-od0 I’m sure getting high and listening to that would trigger psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:32 PM
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I’m more impressed with songs that focus around skillful storytelling and clever wordplay but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:31 PM
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Do y’all ever listen to abstract music and just think, this makes no fucking sense? Even though the musician tries to act pretentious like there’s some hidden meaning in their random lyrics. A good example of this is the last few Beatles albums in the late sixties. It’s very clear that they were just high as shit in the studio writing nonsensical lyrics to catchy melodies. Like their song “I am the Walrus”. Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:04 PM
3

Name a harder word to spell than “February”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:21 PM
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Lol everybody says that. It’s just me trying to say I’m neutral (no pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:48 PM
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My dad is getting older too and he’s just so tired all the time and he has arthritis now. It’s sad because he’s getting close to the age that his father was when he died and you can tell it’s making him depressed. He’s always loved cowboys and Westerns so trying to save up money so he and my mom can go on a cross country trip to Yellowstone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:38 PM
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Link to study: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/ This study doesn’t address what I was claiming. I wasn’t saying that men don’t do chores. I was saying it’s mostly women’s responsibility to “work out the kinks” in long term relationships. This study doesn’t show how many women had to make a list of chores for their husband in order for them to actually do them. Nor does it show how many women initiate …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:07 PM
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I’m not sure if this woman is unemployed or if her handle is satire but this is a strawman. There are tons of working women who are doing the same thing she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:49 PM
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I think the power in lifespan of a healthy relationship is equal or dare I say…heavily favors men. Men complain about having to initiate and court women in the beginning of the relationship but after they start living together I feel the responsibility then shifts to the woman to keep up the relationship. This is an example of what I’m talking about.. Even though their relationship was hanging on by a thread, he wasn’t really willing to address the problems in the relationship until she made a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:40 PM
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I’m not familiar with her but if what you allege she’s doing is correct, then she’s wrong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:51 PM
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I think people pleasers tend to think anyone who isn’t a people pleaser is mean. So if a man who is a people pleaser sees a man who is assertive and doesn’t go around kissing women’s ass for the sake of it he generally opines that with being a “bad boy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:46 PM
1

I personally think it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:38 PM
1

I live in a southern purple state that people from New Jersey and New England states love to migrate to for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:37 PM
3

Find me a woman attack a man’s appearance completely unprovoked and I’ll condemn her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:33 PM
1

Saving that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:06 PM
7

It’s absolutely crazy to me that men will say stuff like this completely unprovoked. Emilia largely keeps to herself, she seems like a sweet woman that doesn’t bother anyone yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:55 PM
-1

Women in first wave and second wave feminism were lashing out against their oppressors. Similar to the way Malcom X was lashing out against his. You can’t continuously kick a demographic and then be shocked that they view their oppressors in a negative light.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:29 AM
3

No. As long as he’s not a virgin because of something extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:53 AM
22

Tom because I’m a virgin as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:51 PM
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If I get married, it’ll be in a courthouse like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:49 PM
5

Sex is physical intimacy but you can have physical intimacy without having sex Don’t know. Never had it. But if I was in a relationship the chance of be performing duty sex is slim to none. I’d give him a duty hand job. Maybe duty BJ occasionally but not having duty sex. Never had sex so no. No but I think men should work better on detaching sex from their identity. I also think men should learn how female sexuality works and accept it as it is and accept how different it is from the average mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:03 PM
1

When you have options, the expectation is not there. You are not expected to work, you are expected to bring value. And if my only value was paying half the bills he would expect me to work. Like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:46 PM
1

That just means you don't bring enough value as a partner. If you did the answer would be a positive one. So then he would expect me to work. Got it. I am not understanding the sentence. Are you trying to say that I said that men expect women to pitch in economically? If men believe they have no incentive to provide for women financially (like you said), then that means they expect women to pitch in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:44 PM
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No. It is not. Men don't expect women to work/provide. If I got into a relationship right now and told they guy he’s going to pay our rent in full from now on. As well as my phone bill and car bill he’d look at me like I was insane. men don't make enough to support a family on their own is because there is not enough incentives. So then men expect when to also pitch in because you just claimed that their is no incentive. You just contradicted your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:34 PM
59

It is very much expected. The average man doesn’t make enough to support a family on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:28 PM
59

Isn’t contributing to the bills and making big purchases not a traditionally masculine role?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:39 PM
8

Lol why do men get so mad that other men are attracted to women they aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:53 PM
1

Lol okay OP we’ll pretend all of this happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:57 PM
1

Cool, it sounds like you both have a lot of respect for each other :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:52 PM
1

Lois Frankel is a very busy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:45 PM
1

I actually have a question about your situation. Is it a monogamous FWB or are you two allowed to see other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:44 PM
2

Yep I’m of the same opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:00 PM
1

I meant I would’ve*. Typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:55 PM
2

Okay that’s so cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:51 PM
8

I would also love someone who cooked and cleaned for me and put all of my desires before their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:50 PM
2

Spoiler: ! If had the option to get rid of Abby at the end of the game I would have taken it!<
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:49 PM
2

I take daily vitamins just because it’s apart of my routine and I’ve gotten used to taking them. I don’t think they’re actually doing me any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:39 PM
2

If you played the video game you know that she gets more likable. Except maybe not in the second game…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:38 PM
1

Don’t let them convince you that you don’t need workers comp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:25 PM
1

I need some show recommendations. What shows are like The Last of Us? Not plot-wise but directorial/production-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:19 PM
3

DUDE! I hate long meetings!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:08 PM
1

I don’t live in Switzerland. I put it in my flair to mean I’m neutral/no pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:53 PM
3

Jesus. Is men on PPD suggesting hebephilia is okay a regular occurrence here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:29 PM
1

Holy smokes. How did we get to debating if it’s appropriate for a 30 year old to romantically and sexually seek out an 18 year old to saying it’s okay for 30 year old to fuck 14 year old because some third world country says it is. By the way, in america, a 24 year old can not fuck a 16 year old even though the age of consent is 16. That’s still statuary rape. The age of consent means a 16 year old can legally have sex with another 16 year old. It doesn’t mean a 40 year old can go fuck a 16 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:14 PM
1

Are women’s irrational behaviors wired in our DNA?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:39 PM
2

The majority of women like benevolent sexism. I’ve never heard of a woman slapping a man who held the door for her. Y’all have to stop taking what a few reactionary people say online as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:56 PM
2

You wouldn’t leave Jack black for a “more Jack black” because that person doesn’t exist. You can’t be “more Jack Black” than Jack Black. Therefore, if she were to leave Jack Black for someone similar to Jack Black it wouldn’t be because she preferred that man’s looks better. It would be because she preferred something about his personality better. Which means she wouldn’t be shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:35 PM
1

Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:23 PM
2

You can always go back. A lot of tech schools offer information technology degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:54 PM
2

Data analyst 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:49 PM
1

A man will 100% leave a Mindy if Ana wanted to be in a relationship based solely off that fact that she’s more attractive. I don’t think women would leave a Jack Black for a Chris Hemsworth because she already found Jack more attractive than Chris. There are more men on average that have Jack’s features than their are women with Ana’s features.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:47 PM
1

Men don’t give up on shallowness. You think a man stops lusting after Ana De Armes just because he’s in a loving relationship with Mindy Kahling? Don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:29 PM
2

Yea, birth control fails but not at that rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:20 PM
1

That’s not what I’m arguing. I didn’t say women aren’t shallow. I just think men are more shallow than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:10 PM
1

Do you believe the comments would be different if the genders were switched?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:03 PM
2

Women are more shallow than men. There was a ppd woman that legit claimed she found Jack Black very attractive and Chris Hensworth pretty meh. No man is stating Mindy Kahling is hotter than Ana de Armas. This is contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:03 PM
1

Do you believe in leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:44 PM
5

I’ve never seen a woman who is a 4 in a serious relationship with a man whose an 8. I have seen the reverse multiple times. So I’m not sure why PPD men are convinced women are more shallow than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:41 PM
5

This is definitely a specific type of woman. The majority of women don’t spend their time hunting down athletes and celebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:38 PM
1

Okay. Do you believe in leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:37 PM
2

Q4All: How do you think the comments would be if the gender were reversed. Do you believe in “leagues”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:28 PM
1

Based and ambition-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:35 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:33 PM
1

I don’t think so. Everybody knows what Leo is about and how he operates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:22 PM
1

Congratulations 🎉 I hope it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:33 PM
3

Why are they so dramatic? 💀I promise, get you a cushie, low-stress desk job like me and it wont even feel like work. All I do is write up a few articles and bullshit a few graphs and spreadsheets whilst watching Netflix and YouTube videos the whole time. And I don’t work a minute of overtime. Working for corporate overlords is not THAT bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:27 PM
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Dude, in high school I had a crush on a guy the girls in my grade overwhelmingly found unattractive just because he would let me copy his work sometimes. I let my attraction be known plainly and he did not reciprocate. I don’t need you assuming what kind of men I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:11 PM
3

I just have to admire my coworker. She’s like 60 and she drinks 2 Dr. Peppers every morning before 9:00 a.m. and by all accounts she’s still in good health. A medical marvel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:08 PM
5

I find very few men unattractive to the point I would block them after we had clicked. After I build great rapport with a man, my physical standards for him plummet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:58 PM
1

Congrats 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:53 PM
5

Back when I was in college, the anonymous social media app Yik Yak was extremely popular. I remember a guy posting something I agreed with and I commented how I thought what he said was spot on. After that, we carried on the convo for a little bit and he asked me for my Snapchat. I didn’t have Snapchat but I made one because he was being nice and flirty and I was interested in getting to know him since I’d never really had a man pay me that kind of attention. We were going back and forth on Snap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:52 PM
1

May I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:16 AM
2

Q4All: What is your ideal relationship type? 1) Monogamy 2) Ethical One-sided non-monogamy (you get to sleep around with other people but don’t get to have romantic relationships with other people) 3) Ethical Two-sided non-monogamy (you both get to sleep with other people) 4) Polygamy ( you get to have multiple serious romantic relationships at once but can’t have causal sex) 5) Unethical non-Monogamy (you’re cheating on your partner without their knowledge or consent)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:07 AM
4

I have a good relationship with my father and I’m still defective. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:15 PM
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He’s a grifter. He says controversial and provocative things that make unsuccessful men feel better. He makes money off of boys and men who worship him like a prophet. He could easily start a legit cult. He itches a scratch of nihilistic narcissism ; a lifestyle many young men desire to live. A lifestyle of complete selfishness, materialism, immorality with minimal accountability. Many boys and men who follow him know they’ll never be able to obtain his lifestyle but they live vicariously throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:08 PM
7

He has none. The amount of men I’ve seen act out in anger as a first reaction proves this wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:16 PM
6

I’m trying to say that guy is average looking, 5 foot 6 on a good day, looks like he comes from a middle class home and still can’t get his shit together. Men here seem to think women are getting neglected and left because they’re chasing Chad but in reality these women are with average men who are greatly underachieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:03 PM
6

Men: women need to stop going after bad guys and dead beats it’s easy to tell which ones they are by looking at them what bad boys and dead beats actually look like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:44 PM
1

I don’t know. I think all her relationship post Tommy were a mess because he used to beat the shit out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:01 PM
2

Wasn’t the Pam the one who divorced Tommy. How are you alpha widowed if you initiated the break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:50 PM
1

He had to go back 12 days to find a comment he deemed “ban worthy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:34 PM
6

Back after being banned for calling a mod out on his hypocrisy 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:33 PM
1

🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:25 PM
1

Something about pudding makes me want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:23 PM
3

I’m not a radfem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:48 PM
9

Able to separate sex from emotion but when they don’t get sex they become emotional as a result. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:10 PM
5

They resent you because they want you but are afraid you are so scary and so picky that you will pay certainly reject them. Which is why people should ignore everything they say here. It’s coming from a place of emotion not a place of logic and rationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:04 PM
9

Bro, men here are hypocrites. How do compartmentalize your insatiable lust for women with your hate for us? Like if you’re going to be sexist atleast be a sexist eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:58 PM
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She never said she wanted to get bailed out by a nice guy. Making stuff up because you’re angry women don’t fuck you has to be the lowest form of communication on this sub. Half of the stuff you just typed out in your comment is made up to fulfill a revenge fantasy in you head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:24 AM
1

Q4A: If you’re a recovering alcoholic and the person you’re dating knows this, would you consider it rude if they didn’t ask if you were okay with them drinking in front of you before they order a drink on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:43 AM
2

I’ve never been pumped and dumped. Does that mean it’s okay if I think all men are trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:08 AM
9

Holy run on sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:04 AM
13

That’s your opinion and I have mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:03 PM
21

There is no worst one. They’re equally fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:44 PM
3

I’m honestly impressed that she didn’t get a case of severe “ick” and ghost him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:01 AM
3

I’m sad that I didn’t get to see him witness his first child say “dada” or smile or walk for the first time, but at least I got to see what kind of dad he was before I married and had a kid with him. So it’s okay. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:49 AM
1

Getting dicked down 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:47 AM
2

My friends usually talked about video games, pop culture and plants so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:46 AM
1

Interesting…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:28 AM
1

Do you think you might be trans?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:27 AM
6

I can’t imagine being retroactively jealous unless someone gave me a active reason to be. Like if he still flirts with an ex or something. But what is described in the post you linked is completely irrational to me. I believe it stems from the deep belief a lot of men have that they own their wife’s body even before they meet. Like she was made for him and just for him and any man she has sex with before she met him is like that man stealing something that he owns.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:22 AM
4

Stop asking us what you should do with your life. We’re losers. You don’t want our advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:14 AM
3

Soooo i might have infiltrated an all-male discord group by LARPing as a man. I was curious to see what men talked about when they believe no women are around…let’s just say men are a lot more shallow than they let on and a lot more critical of what they think of average looking women than this sub wants to admit which is really saying something…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:08 AM
3

I think I bl*ckpilled myself😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:16 AM
29

Manipulative stuff does work on men. How do you think gold diggers and OF models operate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:54 PM
10

Leave while you still can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:25 PM
4

How many women you know are marrying convicted rapists? This is a front page story because it’s a rare phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:42 PM
2

No, I used it correctly. But you tried. So you didn’t look up the definition… If its so bad like you say... why aren't those people choosing to be on their own then? Are they no choosing to be on their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:02 PM
3

This is entitlement on display. You may need to look up the definition of entitlement. There is a world of difference between no one wanting to be with you in any way at all versus someone will be with you but they don't cherish the ground you walk on. To tolerate is literally to suffer through something. That person feels like they’re suffering from being with you but is tolerating it. That person will most than likely neglect you and at worst abuse you. You think a woman who tolerated you is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:58 PM
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No actually it isn’t. Being tolerated means you’re being neglected. This is what I mean. Men think: having someone around = automatic intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:52 PM
3

I feel sorry for gay men. At least in hetro relationships men usually go into romantic situations knowing women have a different libido. Gay men go into relationships thinking all men must be high libdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:51 PM
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I think something men REALLY struggle to admit is a person they will TOLERATE and person they will CHERISH are completely different things. Men say, “yea you’re ugly. But some men’s standards are so low you’ll find someone eventually.” Like do you even hear yourselves? People don’t want to be with a “meh, you’ll do I guess” partner, they want to be with someone who truly feels lucky to have them. Like telling women in that forever alone sub that she can’t be truly lonely because some incel will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:48 PM
3

Women love dark triad men: confirmed :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:13 PM
3

I heard historians say that a main reason for Vikings to go on there raids where so they could gain access to women. This isn’t accurate either. They went Viking because stealing gold from other countries did wonders for their economy just like any other lucrative industry but with alot more blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:48 PM
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Don't you think for men to take that kind of risk they would be in a place where they have absolutely nothing to lose? No, I think they have a higher risk threshold and they really believe in what they stand for. I noticed that many revolutions started because men had no food. Well yea, people usually get angry when rich people are throwing buffet parties with their tax money while there are peasants two blocks away looking through trash for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:39 PM
5

Young men start revolutions regardless of success with women. I promise Maximilian Robespierre and Marquis de Lafayette had pussy coming out of their ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:26 PM
2

It is when you give women the impression that you never pay for dates. Not having sex in the first few dates ≠ giving that man the impression that you’ve never had sex. Women who make some men wait aren't exactly telling them "I just make you wait, not all guys". If he has a problem he can leave. You know how this goes. Why do you even pretend like there is no dishonesty involved? There is no dishonesty. You are literally projecting the worst intentions on what I’ve said. That’s not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:59 PM
1

I’m good, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:58 PM
1

His Gaston fetish is fascinating. I don’t think I’ve seen anything like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:44 PM
2

This is your fifth account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:40 PM
2

Sound science-based nutritional advice. Keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:37 PM
1

You’re about to darkagemaxx yourself right into the hospital with scurvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:33 PM
1

Are you a medieval peasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:28 PM
1

Is your only nourishment milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:26 PM
2

😏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:25 PM
3

False! That sweet, sweet nut milk is the nectar of the gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:23 PM
1

Just a few cents more will change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:22 PM
1

I am 😔 almond milk is superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:20 PM
4

Okay milk-enjoyerr, I’ll be honest with you. Animal milk is disgusting. There, happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:17 PM
1

Be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:48 PM
2

Lol zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:17 PM
3

Well, that’s because men have a higher threshold on what will turn them off. Don’t be mad at nature bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:05 PM
2

Are their husbands doing things to keep their wife turned on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:01 PM
2

The grass they use on professional soccer pitches does look rather tasty….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:00 PM
3

You would think if women hated men they wouldn’t want to be in relationships with them🤔 I think hate isn’t the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:55 PM
3

Most men are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:51 PM
2

I think the first date should be dinner (so you can talk and get to know each other better) and the second date should be an exciting activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:23 PM
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Thats not what you re arguing, not even remotely close, you re defending lying to get a benefit out of someone and excusing shitty behavior. I’m definitely not endorsing lying. I think there is a break in communication here. You think my intentions are nefarious when they’re the opposite. Nobody gets mad that virgins wont have sex on the first date, the real problem start when women who are far from prudes pretend to be prudes to manipulate the emotions of a man, im gonna be simple here, if we r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:57 PM
8

Sex does complicated things. It makes people think they’re in love when they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:13 PM
8

That’s not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:00 PM
2

Tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:48 PM
2

🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:36 PM
2

And y’all say women are complicated lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:35 PM
2

Victim blaming or adding nuance to the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:23 PM
8

The reality is men will tolerate an “undateable mess” because when you get down to brass tacks, that undateable mess still has what he wants — pussy. On the other hand women don’t want to date the male equivalent of an undateable mess because he doesn’t provide anything that she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:11 PM
1

Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:54 PM
2

Of course. I’m not dismissing the drug addiction, child abuse trauma, mental illness that alot of these guys have that make them angry. And I apologize if it sounds like I’m doing so. Nonetheless, contrary to popular belief, there are people who try to help these men and try to get them out of the cycle of homelessness. But at some point these men have to want to receive the help and a lot of them don’t want to, they’d rather be destructive. You can lead a horse to water…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:52 PM
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True but societally condition still has women thinking otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:39 PM
3

Expound. How does society treat them immorally?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:37 PM
15

You’re getting into the weeds here. Saying “I want go slow because sex complicates things” isn’t lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:36 PM
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Ehh I disagree…you have a very rose-colored view. Many relationships are hardly as reciprocal as you just stated. I know women who have done everything for a man and still got nothing to show for it. Vice versa, I’ve seen stoic masculine men with a “idgaf” attitude get cheated on. If someone doesn’t want to take you seriously — they won’t —no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:31 PM
9

I’ve found that the “travelers” are usually the less hostile type of homeless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:27 PM
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I just want to address something that keeps getting brought up by men’s rights activists. As someone who has volunteered at homeless shelters, I don’t think you can take the homeless stats and say men are oppressed. I’m saying this as nicely as humanly possible, homeless men are some of the worst men I’ve ever had the displeasure of being around. I want everyone here to volunteer at a homeless shelter for just a couple of months and unbiasedly observe the behavior of homeless men and everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:11 PM
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He’s hot back then but I would probably not be attracted to him if he looked like that today. Idk how to describe it. Guys with muscles seemed a lot less narcissistic back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:54 PM
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How is that lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:46 PM
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⁠We dislike those men because not only are they not loyal to their wives they’ll sell their homies for a 20. I must have missed the memo that men married to virgins, low-n count women are always faithful. ⁠They end up being screwed over in the divorce. The world self corrects these type of situations. Maybe. But this also happens in “regular marriages” so this is wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:39 PM
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As a woman who has never participated in causal sex, I get why women would make the man they want to marry wait. It makes logical sense to me given what men have told women throughout history. Men have TOLD women that they don’t take “easy” women seriously. Men have TOLD women that they don’t value sex they didn’t have to work for. Women think, “Men of value don’t value easy women so I won’t be an easy woman for him”. And that makes perfect sense. Can you blame women for having internalized what…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:17 PM
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I’ve never been friend zoned but I’ve flirted with guys, asked to meet them one-on-one at a later date and been rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:59 PM
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I’m the same as you but I wouldn’t say I’m “mousy”. I’m slighting more extroverted than the average person when I need to be. But my style could definitely be described as “homely, sporty tomboy” lol. I’ve noticed the same as you. Men seem to gravitate toward women who are more “sexually expressive” (extroverted or introverted, doesn’t matter) for lack of a better term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:46 PM
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I don’t think she’s promoting that women do sex work. The vast majority of women know the pitfalls of sex work which is why the vast majority don’t do it. As the title of OP’s post suggests, she’s just pointing out that many more men than men want to admit will take a whore seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:42 PM
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Notice how all the men in the comments are skipping over the fact that you said many of them are married…🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:34 PM
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There are a lot of men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:12 PM
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He doesn't have to give you a reason He’s trying to imply that men should be able to do that “because I said so” schtick that dads do. If I wanted to be treated like that I would move back in with my father. It’s crazy because my dad told me specifically not to get with any man who would treat me like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:58 AM
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Okay. Let’s say hypothetically we get into an argument about something. He swears his way was right. I give up and say fine we’ll do it your way. We do it his way and it goes wrong. This happens several more times. Wouldn’t I be justified in not wanting him to “lead” anymore? If he makes the final decision does he also take all the responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:58 AM
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I’m just calling out something that tried and failed to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:51 PM
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You slipped up. The fact that you said “there may be a lot of dudes there” tells me this is about control. If she was going to a dangerous neighborhood then yes, you need to worry about other men. If she’s going to a sleazy club, yea you should worry. But a concert? Nah. Doesn’t compute. There are a lot of dudes everywhere. Is this hypothetical man going to stop her from going to work because she has male co workers? I’m not completely disagreeing with you. There are legit reasons to tell your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:46 PM
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Sure that would make sense if there was a logical reason for not going. If she was going to a male strip club then definitely; that would be a reason to tell her to not go somewhere. But why is her going to see live music so triggering? When does she get to do things that make her happy? Or does she have to always sacrifice her independent happiness to make sure her man is happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:29 PM
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What would be a good reason as to why she couldn’t go to a concert? She would disagree because it makes no sense that you get to tell her what she can’t and can do but she has no say about what you can and can’t do and when.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:22 PM
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Excuse me for being ignorant but how does it maintain woman’s power in a relationship? Deferring would imply that you’re giving up power. It’s like saying an employee has the same power as a boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:17 PM
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