Nope_12278 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Not sure where I fit....		Nope_12278	/r/askFDS	11/02/21 07:13 PM
1	Not sure where I fit..	DISCUSSION	Nope_12278	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 04:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Im ruining things with a great HVM - what the f is wrong with me? If you’re not physically attracted to him, you can’t force yourself to be. I was seeing a guy (I thought he was okay) - but I hated his voice. His laugh sounded like nails on a chalkboard. There were other things (didn’t clean his bathroom, lots of childish things in his bedroom, didn’t put clothes away, dirty laundry on the floor, etc). I ended it because I just wasn’t into him. He’s nice enough - but I just couldn’t force it.	/r/askFDS	25/02/21 10:35 PM
4	Male friends, back rubs, and god knows what else... I’m the same way. Not super physically affectionate and don’t really respond well to it. He seems to be taking things slow and seeing what your reactions to certain things are. Just keep going at your pace, keep vetting.	/r/askFDS	23/02/21 10:32 PM
5	Male friends, back rubs, and god knows what else... He likes you. But it sounds like you don’t like him.	/r/askFDS	23/02/21 09:37 PM
74	Confused - is this modern dating? Leave him. He’s not exclusive. This isn’t normal behavior.	/r/askFDS	23/02/21 04:52 PM
65	Why do LVM believe they deserve only the hottest perfect woman to be their girlfriend? You’re gorgeous just as you are. If he can’t see that - his loss.	/r/askFDS	20/02/21 03:49 PM
2	Are emotional unavailability and commitment issues a real thing? Or i’s it just an excuse when a person doesn’t like you enough ? Yes. I was struggling with emotional unavailability, and have recently come out of it more with the help of friends and learning how to connect again after a toxic relationship. I’ve never really had commitment issues - but I did have attachment issues which I’ve been working on. But I also don’t feel emotionally connected when I don’t like someone, which can feel like emotional unavailability. I’ve learned what both feel like to me though and it’s different for everyone.	/r/askFDS	13/02/21 10:51 PM
6	Not sure where I fit.... Yes! I’m always trying to evaluate myself, and elevate myself. I want to be the best version of me - and work on me for me. Especially since I’ve gotten out of my toxic relationship - I want to be better, more mindful, and know myself better. I appreciate the comment(:	/r/askFDS	12/02/21 02:40 AM
12	Not sure where I fit.... I don’t know why it didn’t click that when talking about women who are “pickme” types, it is behavior based - but that makes more sense. I’ll reread through the handbook. To answer your question - I live for me. I don’t like the idea of living for another person - that’s actually why I left my ex. His last words were to me “I need to be needed” and I just noped out. I appreciate your help!	/r/askFDS	11/02/21 07:26 PM