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Why would you date men if you thought this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:18 PM
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Or some people get hurt but don't go on about it before the first date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:03 PM
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I think the issue is when they bang on about their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:02 PM
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I think that's a red flag there pal. Dumping all your drama on someone you just met lacks etiquette and is just straight up shitty flirting. Avoid anyone who bangs on about how bad their ex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:46 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:43 PM
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I do a 'friendsmas" every year and honestly it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:33 PM
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Oh that's quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:48 PM
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Some times it takes a while to find work after finishing uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/wvqf82/the_unheard_holiday_inceltines/ Which one of you did this? Jimcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:11 PM
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They have a lot of problems, but that are unique to them. If you talk to them enough, you'll learn it isn't all Rosey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:29 PM
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I was told there wouldn't be maths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:39 AM
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I hate to say it, but I think older virgins (men and women) should keep it hush hush.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:55 PM
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soaking wet Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:23 PM
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It doesn't really touch on 94" much. They basically got greedy. They sold 250k tickets, crammed them in a tarmac airhanger during a heatwave and didn't provide basic amenities for them. People were dehydrated, hungry, unable to use toilets, listening to aggressive music, on drugs and incredibly pissed off at the organisers. Oh, and they had the wonderful idea of giving all these people candles during a riot to 'send good vibes". They also had no security so anyone could get away with violence an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:21 PM
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You definitely would have. There was a bunch of rapes and a gang rape at one point. If that happened now, it would all be on camera and the guys would be in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:05 PM
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You should watch the doc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:51 PM
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Has anyone seen the documentary about Woodstock 99' on Netflix? Really made me say 'wtf' put loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:37 PM
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They exist because these women what a fat arse and a really toned stomach/waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:51 AM
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It looks terrible in person anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:46 AM
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I feel you. My ex was the craziest most vibrant person I ever met. He was wild eyed and full of energy, the absolute life and soul of the party. He always treated me like a princess and there was never, ever a dull moment with him. He also had no sense of accountability and was low-key narcissistic. He could never say no and one party turned into a three day bended where he often passed out or pissed my bed. If I ever brought up his flaws, he would ramble on for hours about how his actions were …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:41 AM
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In the UK working at a school or nursery pays peanuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:06 AM
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Learned from a young age that men don't respond to you when you're too keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:01 AM
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Depends on how you define player
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:19 PM
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I found out recently that an acquaintance of mine does sex work sporadically. She has health issues so it's an easy way to make a quick buck. I haven't asked her much about it, but she likes a drink so I'm sure one day she will give me all the gossip on it lol. A lovely person, always has a boyfriend and when she parties she hits if really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:03 AM
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I needed to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:58 AM
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People are definitely getting married and having children older than they were. It is really common for people to do all that in their mid-thirtiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:17 PM
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Also, do you have pictures of your skin? You might be getting worried at normal lines that every 20 yeah old gets..
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 09:37 PM
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Most people have lines, that's how skin works. If you want to slow down the process wear SPF every day, moisturise regularly and start using retinoids in your late twenties. The detrimental effects of aging (if you believe that) starts around mid thirties for most women, and they still look hot way into their fifties. So not, under any circumstances - rush into marriage and kids. Date around and find out what you want from men, then vet the living hell out of them.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 09:36 PM
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White rappers and rock and roll also get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:48 AM
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Resilience is great, and I consider myself pretty resilient. However, too much resilience and stoicism can be a bad thing. Men are literally killing themselves because they're too scared to ask for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:46 PM
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Hands down the funniest MRP I have seen in a long time. The comment section is..chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/wbbe9y/so_i_made_a_thing_some_people_might_find_useful/ If anyone fancied a chuckle..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:26 PM
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No thanks, I would rather the law didn't get involved in people's personal lives. Countries that punish infidelity have worst societal problems than any western ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:51 AM
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As a rule of thumb I won't do anything sexual that doesn't turn me on. Fortunately, my tastes usually gel with most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:56 AM
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Calling a dog a dog isnt gaslighting. If you say something that is defined as misogynistic, you are a misogynist. hatred of, aversion to, or prejudice against women Whether that's a good thing or a bad thing is a whole other conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:23 AM
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She didn't like the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:23 AM
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I'd she's a 5.5 I'm definitely fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:29 PM
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If that's a 6, Im fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:29 PM
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Noncing and neckbeards are discussed a lot on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:16 PM
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Ego, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:15 PM
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I am still legit angry about two rejections that happened over two years ago. And I didn't even want to have a relationship with those guys. I often go over situations where they ask me out in my head and I reject them. So if this happened, I think it's fair to say I would so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:02 PM
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He just can't help himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:59 PM
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Which is why bare Knuckle boxing was actually safer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/justneckbeardthings/comments/wf199b/comment/iirbyd1/ Going to use this in the sub more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:54 PM
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I worked in customer service from 16 and at a bar when I was 18. Having to make conversation with random people really helped with my social skills and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:17 AM
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I'm extremely happy with my dating pool of men and how they treat me. 😜🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:06 PM
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They're welcome to date someone else, by all means !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:58 PM
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I'm very nurturing and love giving my man lots of belly rubs and compliments, I also love cooking for him! I'm told I'm quite funny and I make him snort laugh all the time. I have a healthy libido and love making him orgasm. I look after my appearance. I look after my mental health as much as possible and care about his. I have big 34DD titties, a 33" waist and toned legs and bum. (Ok it's not the perfect figure but men seem really happy with it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:42 AM
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Yes, this resonates with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:36 AM
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If it's hidden then it's just cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:53 PM
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Yep. Trust me, if I could be hands free I would! I love being tied up, but hate that I can't PIV orgasm that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:15 PM
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I've literally tried everything. Grinding doesn't even come close :/ I need to manually pull my hood back and rub my clitoris directly. What I tend to do is rub it whilst he penetrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:41 PM
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There is still a minority of women who can orgasm for penetration and not external rubbing. For example from doggy style. Because with some women the 'underside" of the clitoris can be stimulated from the vaginal wall, IE through penetration. https://www.livescience.com/43528-clitoris-size-orgasm.html Of course as that's the minority, the majority of us need to grind/rub/hump. Mine needs to be spread open with the good pulled back to get sufficient stimulation, as mines smaller than average. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:56 AM
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Only 20% of women cum through PIV. This is because of the size and location of the clitoris on the individual woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:09 AM
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Link?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:06 AM
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I was sexually active for about three years before I had an orgasm at all. That was because I purchased a vibrator from an Anne summers party. For a while I could only orgasm with the vibrator, and then eventually with my hands and then eventually with a guy. I have a near 100% success rate orgasming through sex - but then I have usually been with unselfish lovers (ONSs and BFs). Like most women, I can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation. So either oral sex or mine/his hands. On my own it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:03 AM
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He did a public apology and took accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:57 AM
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I think the main criticism is that he's built up a career telling people with addiction and depression how to deal with it. And now he's faced with addiction and depression, he won't take the advice that he himself sold. Also the all beef diet is just straight up stupid. Like c'mon man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:39 AM
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TLDR: Young men should study the blade.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:36 AM
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Corporal punishment and abuse in childhood. Children will grow up thinking their parents have a 'default' and 'bad' side and they learn to accept that. They then accept that in a partner. He beat me? That's just his bad side, his default side will show soon! These men deliberately choose women who they can manipulate. This is why it's not uncommon to see some women who have exclusively had abusive relationships, and other women who have never had an abusive relationship. Sunk cost fallacy. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:15 AM
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I didn't actually think about wealth. People often get rich by having fewer morals and standing on others. It stands to reason that because women prefer men with money, they will naturally be drawn to a higher percentage of arseholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:35 AM
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AFAIK, women with mental health issues are more promiscuous, so they are more likely to have sex with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:34 AM
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Women en masse are not wishing for a sex drive like men's lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:32 AM
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Yeah, the bullying is going to be incorrigible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:13 AM
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If their self esteem is really low, they're less picky than average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:31 PM
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Haha, no, I've always carried weight like this since I was a teen. I have a healthy BMI/dress size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:13 PM
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Says who? If that was the case these men would be LESS attractive and sexually successful. They aren't. Why? Women with mental health problems and low self esteem are two-a-penny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:04 PM
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Have you never heard that sociopaths are 'charming' ? They win the love of others by making other people feel special and important. 'Nice" guys don't want to be contrived and duplicitous. If by 'nice" you actually mean sycophantic and a push over, then no - women are (generally) not drawn to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:03 PM
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They're very open, but they don't sit there and count them up either, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:38 PM
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I feel bad for the kids of pornstars. No way can you avoid seeing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:35 PM
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I don't know anyones n count, it just isn't something discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:34 PM
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Oh well, it was fun whilst it lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:29 PM
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If I did make such an agreement, I would most likely dishonour it by seeing other men behind his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:28 PM
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Graphic tees and cargos screams teenager lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:46 PM
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Guess I'm unlucky cause I have super toned legs and bum, but fat around my belly and tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:45 PM
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Well it's predominantly women who use the term 'fatphobic" - and I think the way it's framed is complete bullshit. Should people be lampooned for being fat? Absolutely not. Is saying being fat unattractive and unhealthy fatphobic? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:41 PM
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It think there's so little academia on the root of fetishes that it is hard to comment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:35 PM
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Have you ever met any gangsters or been to a prison visit? They are dating and fucking women who are from the bottom echelons of society. And what are they acting as? Nice guys? So why are the actual nice guys getting laid less than those pretending to be nice guys? Yes, they wine and dine them and lie through their teeth. They pretend to be the men these women want to date. They also specifically date women who fall for that shit or have low self esteem themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:25 PM
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You do realise that dark triad men can act? That's one of the main characteristics of being a sociopath. They pretend to be someone they're not so they can get what they want. Violent/criminal men date and fuck women you guys would not touch with a ten foot barge pole. Those women would literally scare of you're average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:09 PM
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These men start of 'nice" and their true side (being a bully, being manipulative) usually starts to show after the woman has invested in him. At that point, it's a case of sunk cost fallacy and/or thinking they can change him back to how he was. Women from abusive homes normalise this behaviour - they think most people have a good/bad side and they compartmentalise this. Abusive men will deliberately pick women who they suspect will tolerate abuse. This is why you offer see some women who have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:04 PM
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Honestly it's my Achilles heal. Theres 200 calories in a pint, yet I really struggle to stay away from it. I tried drinking spirits and mixers but I knock them back too quickly, likewise with wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:54 PM
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I'd the woman in these scenarios has any inkling that he is seeing other women, there's no incentive for them to be faithful and it basically turns into a hush hush open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:50 PM
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There would be absolutely no incentive to stay faithful to him if he was seeing other chicks on the side. The only women who do this are desperate - which is why you don't really see it in advanced societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:48 PM
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Since when do people applaud" slutty men? Slutty men are frowned upon in conservative circles, and liberal circles couldn't give a fuck. And as I've said before, being a man slut isn't an achievement. A man just has to have low standards and he can easily get a huge notch count. Look at squaddies ffs. 'any hole is a goal'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:23 PM
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Biologically speaking, men peak mid twenties. That's when they're at their physical peak and have more energy. Everything else (game, status ext) has to do with the individual man and what he does. Some men peak at 20, other mid thirties. Likewise with women. We have a biological peak and everything else is self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:21 PM
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I don't see places like India ever being more enticing than the west - especially with global warming fucking everything up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:01 PM
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Or any western country, really. Plenty of Indian doctors in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:38 PM
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The problem is this creates a problem for the country those immigrants came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:08 PM
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I'm not opening that rarted link, but I gather you're trying to point out that ugly women can still get laid. A guy giving them shit sex when they're absolutely desperate does not appeal to these women. They want a boyfriend and their looksmatch would be also ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:53 PM
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I'm talking about about all encompassing attractiveness. Mid twenties men look better, have more energy, are more fun and thats when they (usually) fully develop their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:51 PM
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As none of us were there, none of us can really comment on what happened. Sometimes men give of a vibe of being too desperate, too awkward or simply just a bit different to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:19 AM
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I see you've never been an ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:12 AM
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Less than 5% because I have a mixed social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:43 AM
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The detrimental effects of aging start showing in men at around thirty five. That's when they start to get crows feet and receeding hairlines. Men's 'peak' (of you believe that shit) is around mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:40 AM
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No I meant fortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:29 AM
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Yes, poverty leads to a higher crime rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:27 AM
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There isn't a single woman on here who are fortunate enough to have a partner like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:58 PM
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I can't read the first part of that quote without hearing Me Burns lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:55 PM
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I do sometimes have periods in my life where I like to be single for a while. Usually I I tend on staying single at least a year but I always meet someone and fall in love lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:54 PM
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Back when I was younger and low N count - I found guys who ask this wierd. I would probably assume the worst and discontinue contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:52 PM
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Can't you just date women who also have a bad face?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:45 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:43 PM
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I don't know about the rest of Europe, but in the UK this doesn't really exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:42 PM
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Haha, touche.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:40 PM
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Western and northern European countries have high rates of single motherhood, yet they're the safest countries in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:27 PM
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“Wow, you just sort of go right in there eh?” That just sounds like banter tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:21 PM
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Turning someone down isn't "entitlement'. Has the word lost all meaning now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:34 PM
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There's possibly more than OP is letting on. Either way, turning someone down isn't 'entitled'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:33 PM
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Seems like a wierd thing to say mid conversation. Whatever happened, it put her off him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:59 PM
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I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:39 PM
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TRP is meant to apply to all men and women. That's what AWALT/AMALT is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:29 PM
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Could I see these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:12 PM
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we should continue this conversation sometime Why would you say this whilst you were already having a conversation with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:11 PM
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I would rather guide my father inside my mother than fuck Elon, HOWEVER - he obviously has something that she finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:59 AM
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We know exactly what this would be like as it would look just like relationships in the gay community.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:24 AM
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That quote always hits me like a ton of bricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:51 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:58 PM
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My boyfriend and I both quit porn a six months into our relationship, after a conversation about it. I want to be enough for my boyfriend and I want him to save up all his sexual energy for me. Additionally, I feel uncomfortable with the industry itself and how it treats people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:39 AM
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Men love it when you have no sense of control during an orgasm. So don't worry 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:57 AM
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What's wrong with your orgasm face and sound? My eyes roll to the back of my head and men love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:53 AM
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I always wonder this. I guess the good looking swingers don't talk about it much because they don't want to get hounded for sex? Or they're not that attracted to their partners and have permanent wondering eyes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:49 AM
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So the issue isn’t “intelligence.” The issue is programming and software engineering attract a hugely skewed proportion of men with very poor social skills. You hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:44 AM
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It depends how intelligence is manifested. Being quick whirred, having very good social skills and being able to hold a good conversation is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:40 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:36 PM
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He literally looks like a potato now. He's a great example not to abuse alcohol and drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:33 AM
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And men and women tell me I look 23 when I'm 31. Some people are shit at guessing ages, and they often say you look younger than they think to be polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:07 AM
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Yeah Reddit is full of both men and women claiming they look 10-15 years older. In actuality, the majority of people rarely look past five years older OR younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:38 PM
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Not disagreeing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:34 PM
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Yeah. I know lots of super rich kids/people with high levels of stress and mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:34 PM
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Haha, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:07 PM
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Nah, complete rubbish. Sorry. As a woman who's attracted to men - attractive 40 something's are rare. Both bisexual men and women pertain to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:00 AM
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What's wrong with duck duck go?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:56 AM
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You should WANT TO be rejected at that point. If I could vet out a similar thing I'd do it immediately lmao And you vet out by going on dates and getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:18 AM
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There’s no wall, there’s a league I'm going to use this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:11 AM
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Roosh also said that at forty he is undatatable and that men should not wait to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:05 AM
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I like a bit of grey on a beard. Wrinkles are ok with me as long as they're not on the forehead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:02 AM
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White guys get wrinkles in their mid thirties and often receding hairline a set in by that age. Men have to be extremely lucky to hit the wall that late..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:01 AM
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And older. My kids dad met an older woman after we split up and she had the baby rabies. They had a child after two years, which is way too soon. He was already stressed out by working full time and seeing his daughter every week - now a toddler is in the mix. The poor guy looks absolutely haggard when I see him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:59 AM
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It would heavily depend on the individual parent, their support circle and their economic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:56 AM
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Money and education ain't everything, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:55 AM
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Only you can answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:53 AM
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Nah for some men it's the chase, and others it's the 'she put out too soon' thing. It's not a conscious things of course. Some men just get 'the ick".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:53 PM
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They will reduce it. Because pumping and dumping on one date is much more common than what the guy in your example is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:27 PM
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But it is much more common for men to pump and dump on one date, than the example you gave. And also they are not necessarily lying, some men genuinely lose interest in a woman after fucking her - or they think she's a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:26 PM
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Women aren't going to make decisions based on the example you are giving. Like yeah - some men might meticulously plan dating women and dumping them. The majority of men, however, are not doing this. You don't make decisions based on exceptions, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:12 PM
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I don't make men wait, I just understand the logic behind why women do. Every human factors in effort and result with every decision they do. It's reasonable that most men do this in regards to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:11 PM
1

That was an additional point. My main point being that baldness is a very common insult used towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:11 PM
1

Going to a date and texting a woman every day for three months isnt worth one pump and dump. Men on here say it quite a lot, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:11 PM
5

He's a terrific actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:52 PM
1

Pivot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
1

That wouldnt be worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
0

What if I told you that even as male, you can have sex with men as easily as women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:55 PM
1

I just said the discussion regarding baldness exists outside of incel spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:53 PM
1

Well that's part of it. As a woman it's easier to style hair so that it isn't obvious. It's pretty hard to cover up baldness and a peanut head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:59 PM
1

Baldness as an insult predates incel spaces. It's very easily observed in culture. Much like dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:58 PM
5

Unless you have a really strong desire to have kids, don't have kids. It really doesn't matter what the reason is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:50 PM
1

I mean, baldness/balding is a very common insult used towards men. Like I said, incels talk about it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:49 PM
1

Right. Thinning hair doesn't seem that bad at all. I would hate to be a man and have it recede though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:45 PM
1

I hear women talk about physical insecuries a lot, but thinning hair is rarely mentioned. Those women usually just cut it short and that's it. Where as with men it seems like a death sentence, especially if they don't have a nice shaped head. In short - I would rather deal with aging skin than be man experiencing receding hair and baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:43 PM
5

Maybe when I'm older and really bored of my partner. At the moment I still feel immensely excited about fucking him and don't have wondering eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:38 PM
5

Yeah but I would much rather deal with female hair loss than male hair loss. I rarely see noticeable receding hair on women. In fact, I didn't realise until you pointed it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:36 PM
3

https://duckduckgo.com/?q=brad+pitt+2022&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fbi.im-g.pl%2Fim%2Fb0%2F7d%2F18%2Fz25681328IER%2C92nd-Academy-Awards---Arrivals.jpg Unfortunately, we have to stop using bras Pitt as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:29 PM
1

Most men I know say they want kids one day. But at the same time I do see men having second children with women just because that's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:24 PM
2

Q4W what do you like and dislike about older men physically? I really find peppered hair and mild crows feet sexy. However I am completely adverse to any form of sagging or receding hairlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:22 PM
6

I've hung out with enough squaddies to know that the only big trick to getting a high n count is to have really low standards. You're average Joe could easily get a high n count, but (understandably) most men aren't willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:09 PM
8

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:06 PM
6

Ah so incels just aren't trying enough. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:05 PM
2

The majority of people are terrible at guessing ages. Especially if that person is younger for older than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:04 PM
11

Men also deal with baldness which women don't. Bald/balding men have been very vocal about the effect that has on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:02 PM
1

It's not an anxiety thing. It's a 'he's probably wierd and I should avoid" type of thing. However I'm in the UK and etiquette and social conventions are somewhat different here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:15 AM
2

Of course it helps avoid them. The smash and dash ones won't want to expend time and energy dating you without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:13 AM
1

It is so alien to me that I would walk away very quickly to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:06 AM
3

Most women aren't hooking up with randoms at bars. The ones who do are usually under the influence of a lot of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:03 AM
2

I said 'most' women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:52 PM
1

I find it really sexy when a manly man puts on his glasses around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:37 PM
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I don't 'withold' sex myself - but I will try and answer. Being pumped and dumped is humiliating, ESPECIALLY if the sex is bellow par (which it usually is first time). Many women need to feel a connection with a man to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:26 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:42 PM
2

Whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:19 AM
2

Virgins and incels are distinctly different. The latter specifically refers to men with the online rhetoric. Most adults don't use the word incel as an insult. The ones who do are unusually immature or very young themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:09 AM
1

When you have kids and hang out with them, you'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:47 AM
1

I mean the concept and rhetoric is dead. Society doesn't high-five guys for being sluts. Either they don't care or conservative folks think they're degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:08 AM
1

No one uses the term 'stud" or praises male promiscuity in 2022. Most men can be 'studs" if they party a lot and/or have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:58 PM
1

I mean, anyone CAN have feelings for an ex - you take that risk with anyone who's has a previous partner at some point. However, with mum's and dad's, the chances are significantly lower. The majority loathe each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:50 PM
4

In most cases the ex is absolutely detested by the woman. Because things have to be pretty bad for them to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:06 PM
-1

It actually doesn't lol. Most single mothers get into new relationships pretty soon. Desirability will mostly depend on how she looks, her personality and to a lesser degree - her financial situation. For example, in the UK a single mum can work 30hrs a week and still have a two bed flat/house. So she wouldn't be a massive drain on the man's finances. If she was in a less developed country and would be a drain on a guys money, she would generally struggle much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:03 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:11 PM
1

You're conflating two different rhetorics by very different women. Thinking something is viscerally gross (sex dolls) does not mean you think something is Immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:09 PM
5

Someone who doesn't follow trends and isn't a free spirit. Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:41 PM
2

I feel like you're only going to be able to date men or much older women with this list
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:28 PM
2

You should probably date men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:51 PM
4

I fundamentally disagree with their core ethos and goals. But I also think it's nice to have a space to rant about men and dating without women going 'well achshually, not all men". They have some pretty good memes and they over lap with vindicta which was a really useful sub for me. Anyway, it's died along with TRP now so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:35 PM
1

They should have much larger fines for dog owners who don't pick up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:06 PM
4

Which ethnicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:58 AM
1

No I mean if their husband is hooking up with other women, the wife will hook up with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:24 AM
6

Women en masse are not saying going for a date with a man is risky, they are specifically talking about hooking up - which is completely understandable. Also it's completely understandable that hooking up with someone is not worth it at only 40% chance of orgasaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:47 PM
2

If he doesn't like larger women, why is he matching with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:28 AM
6

Most the women on this sub like him and his rhetoric. He's more likely to annoy male users than female users
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:26 AM
17

It's a risk -reward thing. Risk: if I go to a guys house that I've just met, there's a very low chance that I could be raped. And rape is one of the worst things that can happen to you and many people never recover from it. Reward: a very low chance the sex will result in an orgasm but a very high chance the sex will be 'meh". This is just the nature of hooking up for women - we rarely enjoy the first time sexual encounters with men. So is the juice worth the squeeze? For most women, no it is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:23 AM
2

Why are so many men answering a Q4W?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:44 AM
2

Mine has some cool artwork and an LED strip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:37 PM
1

What has that got to do with gatekeeping
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:30 PM
1

But those wives are also seeing other men. I don't think most men aspire to have a wife who does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:16 PM
1

men that have to decide if their partners are worth spending their life with Exact same thing applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:43 PM
1

Genital warts took me two years to get rid of. It was dormant in the person who gave it to me. Not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:52 PM
1

They do in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:44 PM
2

So why don't you just date gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:10 PM
1

Maybe a relationship just isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:40 PM
4

Find some people to jam with, or better - learn drumming as they are in high demand. Once you have a handful of people you jam with - start inviting them and their friends over to parties and go to some gigs together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:24 PM
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If women are this completely alien species that you have absolutely nothing in common with - then a relationship with one isn't for you. Just seek out an escort or invest in a good flesh light/ sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:22 PM
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Both. I work at a school that has a reputation for being very SEN friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:58 PM
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I dunno, I work with autistic people and whilst there is a LOT of overlap with redpill rhetoric - it's not the common denominator here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:05 PM
3

Daddy issues (they seek a partner to fill a parental void), transactional relationships, lack of physical attraction and less in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:05 AM
2

I assure you the daily mail is not 'pro feminist' lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:50 PM
3

It's never, ever too late to make new friends and pick up new hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:43 PM
13

I would not pay attention to any statistics around happiness and life satisfaction. Some of those 'studies" say that progressive countries have the happiest people. Others say people living in the third world are actually happiest - despite high mortality rate, incorrigible weather and relentless diarrhea. Different cultures and demographics will analyze and express their feelings differently - some being more candid than others. There is a general consensus into what makes humans happy. And tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:49 PM
2

A lot of people text their drugs first. We have the technology !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:42 PM
2

I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. Sorry !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:41 PM
1

We have to reclaim the word like black and gay people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:06 PM
5

That's why people take drugs. It lowers their inhibition and makes it easier to talk to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:03 PM
1

Women are the gatekeepers of commitment imo. My point being a woman can be so picky that she only likes 0.1% of men in a room and still have casual sex. That's not having sex indiscriminately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:28 AM
1

You said 'sluts' fuck indiscriminately. I am disagreeing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:49 PM
1

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:29 PM
9

I don't like people but I want a relationship with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:29 PM
0

I am a lot more picky regarding looks for a relationship compared to a hook up. After all, I have to look at them every day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:25 AM
3

You can be tough without asserting dominance over other people. For example, guys who are very outdoorsy or are good at sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:24 AM
2

The current music and party scene is still banging !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:19 AM
1

I have bonded with people at festivals and still been incredibly close to them ten years later. We don't see each other that often (because of the distance) but when we hang out we just carry on where we left off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:19 AM
12

There was a green text a while back about an incel who was introduced to the rave scene. I think a lot of them would benefit from it. Not because of the casual sex element, but because it's a generally open and friendly space. You can head to a rave completely alone and easily make friends within an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:15 AM
1

You can be a slut and still be picky, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:12 AM
1

Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:42 AM
1

Well that's tough shit I'm afraid. All anyone has the power to do is either self improve or lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:00 PM
3

I would do everything in my power not to have children and bring them into such a hellish world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:59 AM
4

I've been on this sub for longer than I care to admit. The GENERAL consensus is that self improvement will increase the average guys chances of getting laid, it will NOT turn you into a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:16 PM
3

No, you're just not listening to their whole argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:52 PM
6

It's universal common sense that good looking men can acquire sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:23 PM
1

I really don't understand how a man can remarry/start a family so soon after the death of their wives. My friend's Stepmother died and her dad was married less than a year after. I also know a dad who's wife died and he had another woman moved in and up the duff in less than three years. If anything even happened to my bf of two years, I wouldn't even think of dating in the first few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:12 PM
1

I'm not sure what your actual question is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:02 PM
2

I think their struggles with the lifestyle, government and cultural differences outweighs the positives, to be honest. Also, a lot of the time western men only have better luck in these countries as the women are in need of your money. You'll not only provide for her, but your new extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:55 PM
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No, because generally the 'chat' doesn't happen until after a couple of months of shagging. I have been shagging someone, been besotted and they have rejected a relationship with me. It sucked, but it is what it is. He was ridiculously good looking and at uni at the time, I was a single mum. So it's completely understandable tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:02 PM
1

If they were lying, I didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:14 AM
1

Lower his standards for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:13 AM
9

If I was intending to pull I would be slightly bummed but I would get over it pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:40 PM
1

Obviously fuck buddies are not exclusive, lmao. That does not need to be pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:55 PM
3

It's not one or the other (passionate sex or bang bang splat). Many men DO use lots of foreplay during a hook up (pretty sure 99% of mine have eaten me out) it's just that often it's hard to 100% relax or he hasn't honed it to the specific way you like it. Like I need his fingers to do something specific to get me off (very gentle come hither, I hate fingers going in and out).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:55 PM
1

Ok? In the context I was using, it meant ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:51 PM
3

Hook up and ONS are often used interchangeably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:47 PM
12

My thoughts exactly. Relationships from that generation looked pretty shit and I'm not surprised that women don't find it appealing. It's literally the 'lol I hate my wife/husband' generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:21 PM
3

I have a few older friends and their relationships tend to be more traditional. I can see how that does not fulfill women as much and they get tired and bored of it after so many decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:00 PM
-1

Correct. So don't make your partner unhappy by making them do is sexual acts they dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:50 PM
0

A mixtape of 'your" songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:38 AM
1

So just have relationships with women after passion and attraction has been established?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:20 AM
4

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:32 PM
2

Oh I misread what you said, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:32 PM
1

Imagine marrying a dude and you're not the best sex he's had.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:31 PM
2

Aw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:29 PM
-1

Why don't you just do things because you want to do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:28 PM
5

I'm the opposite. I think it's unhealthy to view certain sexual moves as something a man is 'owed" through commitment. I like what I like and I refuse to do anything that I don't like. I just need to trust someone enough to do anything that puts me in a vulnerable position. A guy I have just met is not this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:07 PM
10

The ONS women was no doubt very kinky with future boyfriends. Both men and women are quite vocal about how awkward and below par ONS sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:03 PM
1

Sounds like the average college student when they have a deadline tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:41 PM
10

Some women won't do certain sex positions because they don't like how their tummy looks. A lot of the kinky stuff requires a feeling of safety and thus isn't suitable for a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:39 PM
11

As a rule of thumb - I only have relationships with people after we've had a passionate love affair. Chemistry and attraction is hugely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:35 PM
20

A relationship is often a passionate love affair to begin with, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:02 PM
93

Women definitely are not more relaxed when they have casual sex. They're often more reserved, usually drunk and don't know your particular preferences/ kinks. All the exploration happens with either boyfriends, husband's or fuck buddies. They also know your particular turn ons and can cater to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:00 PM
1

I believe all three of my long term boyfriends cares/cared about me immensely, even if they didn't always show it. They have always checked in on me, gone out their way to make me smile and I can just tell they derive happinesses by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:47 PM
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I actually tried to get into selling feet pics and old socks, as it was a nice lil side hustle. I could never get over the disgust at hearing what these men had to say about feet and pretending to go along with it. Well maintained feet doubt disgust me, but sexualising feet does
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:03 PM
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Yeah. Younger me likes brooding, artist men with floppy hair and a skinny frame. As I've got older I've started to like more muscular men and prefer a more outgoing and amiable personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:59 PM
1

Depends on the age of the child, how many hours the guy works and how often each of us has to get up in the night to do the feed. If you can't compromise something like this, you probably are not suitable to be raising a child together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:40 AM
14

There is the old joke: Why was the bride smiling as she walked down the isle? Because she knows she’s given the last blowjob she’ll ever have to give. Never in 31 years have I heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:36 AM
1

A holding pen for Jerry Springer contestants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:28 PM
3

It's actually called 'farm emo'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:40 PM
2

The first one would probably just get 'the ick" and either sabotage the relationship or simply end .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:37 PM
4

I'm pretty desensitised to stuff thanks to the internet - but hearing the details of what he did was beyond disturbing. Some things are worse than sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:34 PM
5

As a woman I would be completely broken if a man physically cheated. I think most women would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:16 PM
2

It's pretty fucking hard to be NEET if you're not disabled. Even in progressive countries. Bunch of hysteria over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:51 PM
7

Not starting a family doesn't mean you withdraw from society. You just fill that void with your friends and hobbies. Most single, childless men have normal jobs and do normal things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:23 PM
2

The idea that you need to self improve to exceed in life is about as main stream as it gets. Mainstream = bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:28 PM
1

So women are happier with men who treat them better? That means that dread game is BS. Quite the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:11 PM
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Dating takes a certain amount of commitment and energy, and sometimes you're not in a position to do that in life. Especially if you have just come put of a long term relationship. Some men are lovely people but not relationship material. For example he might be respectful and fun but travels a lot or likes to party too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:03 AM
3

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:57 PM
6

Russia gov are loving this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:45 PM
9

No abortions are murder. Correct, they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:44 PM
2

Most bi men also prefer dating men because dating women can be harder. Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:22 PM
8

They won't 'set you up" but they can widen your social circle which allows you to meet new women who you could potentially hit it off with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:10 PM
1

Lol very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:20 PM
2

I'm sorry you're going through a hard time and I sincerely hope you find peace in life and get the help you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:51 PM
2

Well then you're in no position to talk about how much women enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:51 PM
2

Imagine telling on yourself like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:01 PM
1

Ryan gosling is in his 40s and Brad Pitt is in his 50s. Of course young women aren't swooning over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:38 PM
0

Women like men who lead and dominate other men, they don't like men who lead and dominate the smaller, weaker sex lol. For women it's about a man protecting you when shit hits the fan. For men it's an ego thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:15 AM
1

Yeah that's the impression I had. Also a lot of crazies. There's London crazies and then there's NY crazies..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:56 PM
1

But the drag is lit !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:45 PM
1

I had some of the best days of my life in New York. Incredible city (I would rather guide my father inside my mother than live there though).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:12 PM
1

Stereotype is gay, so either Edinburgh or Brighton.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:05 PM
2

Doesn't matter, what you're talking about is not 'using" by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:53 PM
1

Gizza bo'le o' wa'er, ta mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:42 PM
5

even oral, she wants the man to take her and do things to her. Licking a women's vagina for her pleasure is not 'using her'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:25 PM
1

I have actually had my (pretty shit) trainers complimented my a rando sitting next to me on the train.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:36 PM
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Bri'ish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:35 PM
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Haha, I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:35 PM
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Bless you. Totally a normal thing to do, I usually can't stop men from sucking and playing with them tbh!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:10 PM
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I was called it quite a lot when I went to the states, usually by black men. I was mid twenties at the time. I found it quite endearing actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:10 PM
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Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:08 PM
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He's quite handsome, probably if I was a decade older. I'm not a fan of his bio, but that's just me. I'm sure he's a hit with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:08 PM
1

Did you not see that episode of BoJack ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:55 PM
8

What do you mean by 'used' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:42 PM
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Do you communicate with a 'fuckdoll", do you please them and go down on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:16 PM
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Does anyone actually like slow PIV? (Male or female?) Slow sensual oral is the shit, but I've never met anyone who like slow PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:58 PM
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The key word being "otherwise".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:50 PM
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The studies say only around 30% organs from PIV. There are also studies that it's to with the distance between the woman's urethra and her vaginal opening. Basically the clitoris has an 'underside" and the location of it determines whether or not it can be stimulated from inside the vaginal wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:49 PM
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Lol no way. Im in my thirties and guys aren't like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:18 PM
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How old are we talking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:54 PM
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As it should be ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:51 PM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:40 PM
2

The moment that robots can completely replicate human beings, this question will be the last thing on your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:06 PM
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I used to think that (maybe that's younger guys) but Imo men are obsessed with the female orgasm and enjoy that by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:04 PM
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Rough and shit in bed is the worst combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:00 PM
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I've encountered quite a few of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:49 PM
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But dominant doesn't mean being rough or 'making her feel used' (as OP puts it). It could be simply leading in the bedroom and picking you up and moving you to certain positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:47 PM
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Women are always telling men to expand their social circle and go to parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:44 PM
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That's not bad advice though. If a man attempts to meet women in the wrong context, he is going to be rejected hundreds of times and that will seriously damage his ego and mental health. It's much more sensible to hit on women when they're in a sociable context as they are less likely to tell you to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:42 PM
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Bare in mind "dominant" doesn't necessarily mean rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:38 PM
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I think it goes: Dominant with moves > gentle with moves > dominant with no moves. Even if you're really into hardcore rough sex, if you're not stimulated in the right places - you simply won't get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:32 PM
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Orgasms come from clitoral stimulation, so it can come from both types of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:15 PM
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And if the lead up has lots of orgasms, then it's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:12 PM
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Most women want something in-between, with a lot of attention on their 'special button". At the end of the day, good sex is judged by how hard and often you cum. So if you did that, it's doesn't matter to her how you did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:29 PM
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