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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
282	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society	Debate	RadDudesman	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:24 AM

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1	Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptable My "crew" all vanished after high school. Thf only one who didn't died.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 09:09 PM
1	Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptable I already know how to read the fucking room. The problem isn't me. And of course I'm "flying solo". I don't have a group to go with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 05:20 PM
1	Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptable That's a lot of bullshit, I've tried to join groups at bars and they're never interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 05:11 PM
1	Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptable This is the problem. Nobody should have to lower their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 05:10 PM
3	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society There are no jobs that pay enough to be able to save enough to move	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:46 AM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society Lack of small talk isn't the issue, it's that's all there is these days. It never progresses beyond small talk	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:32 AM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society The majority of the "third places" are either dead, dying, or unaffordable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:30 AM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society It makes sense to me. Why would I go to someone else's house just to do what I was already doing at my own house? There's only so much you can do at someone's house before it gets boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 05:18 AM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society With this recession, yeah. Going out is expensive. Staying home costs nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:17 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society It doesn't fix anything. It doesn't help anyone, it just distracts them from their problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:13 PM
5	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society Family doesn't count. And I don't live in a rural place. I have no desire to move, but even if I did, I'd need money and a place to live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:11 PM
4	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society There's a clear correlation with the population's declining mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:07 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I've always been as friendly and outgoing as possible yet I still have no real friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:05 PM
5	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society No, I live in a city with a population of over 69,000. Telling an isolated people to abandon their family and be even more isolated isn't good advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:36 PM
3	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society This is my reality. Even as far back as my childhood, I'd try all the time to go outside, but there were never any other kids to play with out there, so I was forced back indoors. Things aren't any different as an adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:30 PM
2	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society We have no right to play god and mess with nature. The human brain is not designed for solitude. We need to fix society instead of drugging people and messing with their minds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:20 PM
6	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society There has been a HUGE decline in the number of close friends people have. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:15 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society The American Psychological Assocation did a study on porn and all the doctors found that it had no negative effects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:13 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society Even when I did go my friends' houses, they didn't want to do anything but play video games, which I could do at my own house. Granted, there was nothing else to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:09 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society Teens have nowhere to go. The places they traditionally hung out have ether closed down or become too expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:00 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society The internet has never been a satisfying substitute for real life connections.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:56 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society The human brain isn't designed for prolonged solitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:54 PM
2	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I'm outdoors all the fucking time. I can and have spend an entire day outside and not meet anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:53 PM
6	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society Dying in your 60s is not optimal. There's a reason we evolved living in tribes; it was necessary for survival. That's why loneliness exists. It's meant to motivate us to find a tribe, because if we don't, we die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:19 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I've been trying for over a decade now and it's just as dead in spring and summer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:40 AM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society It's not possible to live solo because people who die much earlier. You can't live if you die in your 60s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:34 AM
2	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society The bullying doesn't bother me, the fact that I'm still isolated does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:11 AM
3	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I don't know where to FIND a social circle. Every hobby I've tried has been empty and I don't have the money to keep going if I'm not going to meet anyone there. I can't afford to keep driving 10 miles to empty places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:05 AM
3	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I went to school, but nobody lived near me, so I had no way of seeing them outside of school. I'm 29. Plus I had major problems with bullies at school. I got depressed and lonely because of it. School ruined my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:02 AM
2	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society Social media has nothing to do with it. I don't use it. Yet when I go out, every place is empty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 03:18 AM
0	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society It's got nothing to do with technology. I barely use it and spend most of my free time out and about. Still don't meet anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 03:16 AM
2	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I can't reach out to new people if there are no people. My old friends are long gone and I have no way to contact them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 03:15 AM
5	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society It seems quite a lot of kids and teenagers miss the window to develop their social skills and close friendships And no, a lot of them just never get the opportunity. Where I grew up, there were never any other kids outside. I had no one to play with, so my only option was to stay inside, because whenever I did go outside, I couldn't do anything out there because I was the only one out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:59 AM
3	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society I already barely spend time online. I spent most of my time out and about and still can't find anyone. My friends all vanished after high school and I have no way of contacting them. I tried the hobby club, but it's always empty. The last thing I need is even more work, I'm overworked as is. And I'm not religious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:54 AM
3	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society There's nothing the individual can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:44 AM
1	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" The issue is that do leave the house a lot, but I can't find anyone anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:08 AM
1	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" I can't control the fact that people are narcissistic assholes who bullied and abused me for no reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:07 AM
1	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" That goes both ways; if society doesn't owe me anything, that also means I don't owe it anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:06 AM
1	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" Sex s a human need. Not having it causes health problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:02 AM
1	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" It used to be easy to meet people. All you had to do was go outside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 02:01 AM
1	what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially? Young people are not choosing to stay home. Even when they do go out, a lot of them struggle to find anyone else their age. Money is also a factor. Staying home costs nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 04:34 PM
1	what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially? They're chronically online BECAUSE they are isolated. The isolation came first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 04:30 PM
1	what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially? Those things have vanished. I tried all of them there was nobody my age there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 04:26 PM
1	I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big deal Alone and lonely are two separate things. You ca be surrounded by people and still be feel lonely. In fact, lonely people often feel WORSE when they're around people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 03:16 AM
1	I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big deal This assumes that they have friends in the first place. Most lonely people don't have friends (and in many cases, have never had friends), so it's not a matter of "not talking to your friends". You can't talk to people that don't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 07:24 AM
1	I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big deal Loneliness is not self imposed at all, and has nothing to do with being in a group or not. You can be surrounded by people and still be lonely. Lonely =/= alone. Loneliness is a mismatch between a person's desired relationships and the ones they actually have. Furthermore, things were not like in this in the past. In the past, forming connections did not take effort. You just lived your life and these things happened naturally. It was the default, and it took more effort to be isolated. Nowadays…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 03:41 AM
–	"Male loneliness epidemic" only exist if you measure men to the standards of women. That's not what we prefer, it's the only choice we have. I DO get off my ass and go out into the world, and I still don't make any friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 03:37 AM