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Field ReportSaniJo/r/seduction12/09/20 05:32 PM
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Outer Game SaniJo/r/seduction31/08/20 05:08 AM
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Just checked this after some time and I gotta say thank you! You made my day kind stranger^
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:25 PM
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YAAAY! You go man, really happy for you!!
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:03 AM
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Woaaah, you pulled a smooth one over there, good job! Hope many more realize this!
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:32 PM
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Well eye contact that lasts obviously longer, maybe even slightly raised eyebrows. Just approach, you got nothing to lose. If she is up for a talk it means a start of a great connection, if not she is still just a stranger. Good luck!
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:30 PM
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Just say hey, smile, look around and take in your surroundings. What is a remark you can make about it? I’ve come across a guy when I was waiting for an elevator he said: ah finally home. I said long day, huh? And we started talking. He basically just told me he was tired and opened convo with that so my point is you can basically say anything and if a girl is open to it she will continue the conversation. If you are wearing white shoes for instance say something like “damn didn’t know they’d be…
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:52 AM
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Sure, though you have to know that i grew up in s huge household with mostly males so i maybe im more open towards this kind of approaches.. Mostly men approach me like in Mcdonalds or at the coffee shop or gas station when im inside deciding which cookies to buy but basically you open with making any kind of remark. For instance i was in mcdonalds ordering bunch of food and a guy who was behind me ordered just like a menu and a milkshake. So he went to stand beside me to wait for order and he w…
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:01 PM
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My pleasure! Just remember you miss all the chances you don’t take;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:47 PM
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It soo is but then look at the definition: to glance with amorous invitation or challenge.. hehe sums it up perfectly. Anyway i spelled it wrong facepalms.. its Ogling not oogling x,,)
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:30 PM
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Woah, this is amazing, im soooo happy to hear girls taking matters in their own hands! You did right since I would also probably think she came with him for a reason especially when they were alone. Truly happy for you and hope it works out well!
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:28 PM
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Seee what if hurts more than if you approached and he gave you a cold shoulder. You would have moved on and not think about him again. Even if it was unlikely he would give you the cold shoulder.. you miss all the chances you dont take. Is a fact;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:55 PM
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Agreed, all of the respect for my confident girls out there! My point is just do it.. its like im promoting nike but in dating:,,,
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:31 PM
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That sucks but then some other girl would say “sure, why not”;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:30 PM
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You should own the sloppiness! Next time if this happens just smile back at her and mouth her something like “so good” and if she giggles/ seems amused you are good to go:D
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:15 PM
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What is your problem? If you read other comments i never said ONLY men should approach women. I keep saying if you feel confident and bold enough go and approach and that goes for men and women.. in this post i am encouraging men to approach shyer women who give them hints.. I never had an intention to hurt anyone and i appreciate your opinion but now Im ending this discussion because you really don’t understand me wishing well. I wish you all the best:)
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:12 PM
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Yes yes and yes exactly this. I keep thinking how did we get to the point where we were brought up with this idea and never generations seem to be all about ‘gender equality’ etc. Im not saying gender equality is bad but then it has to get to the point where women will have to start carrying massive objects and doing hard physical work right? But they won’t do that. Because the body of a woman is build different to a mans just because the evolution made us like that with a purpose. I agree men t…
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:00 PM
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This is so good! Good luck!
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:50 PM
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You don’t have to agree with me but all I am trying to do is to encourage men to get out there and shoot the shot. All men aren’t evil and creepers actually most aren’t. But if you don’t agree just downvote the post and move on:) no bad feelings
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:48 PM
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This makes me frown alot.. i will probably never understand how can one cherish fame or money over the genuine feeling of being loved by a person that you love in return just as much. Might sound overly cheesy but yeah you get my point. Some people are grose.. goes for men and women but sadly in this society men are still portrayed as big bad wolves when women can be just as bad if not worse.. Thank you for kind words, means alot. Also the last sentence you wrote should be put on the highest bui…
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:46 PM
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Yes, this is so important! You never know if you just locked eyes with your might be perfect match if you don’t even try. My opinion, give everyone 5mins of your time. If you bond great, if not part ways.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:40 PM
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I agree on that one, I just realized i didn’t specify what playing hard to get means for me. I am not fond of the games either but just by a man approaching a woman like you said earlier he had to be pretty interested in her. Knowing that woman gets her dose of validation but still she didn’t give in and kept the feeling of being worthy of him coming to approach her. But other than this i don’t like the “games” either:)
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:38 PM
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Believe me i feel you on a whole another level. But its really just like riding a bike. When you sit on it for the first time you have no balance, you have no idea what to do other than you have to keep the wheels going.. and then you fail for 4,5 maybe more times but in the meantime you start getting the stability and skills and suddenly you are pro! Just do it, you’ll be fine!;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:33 PM
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This!!! And then you are laying in bed at night and asking yourself what if i did it.. sucks more than meh she didn’t like me, you at least get over it with time. But what if stays forever..
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:30 PM
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Yes exactly my point! Thanks for explaining it better than me, I couldn’t agree more!
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:29 PM
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I think whoever is bold and confident enough should approach no matter the gender. But many men don’t “subtly flick their lips” believe me and if women got that encouragement im sure more of them really would approach.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:28 PM
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I never said I’m right, it’s just my theory at the moment, as I said im still in my really early twenties so I don’t consider myself any kind of expert. Also I do realize how hard it is to approach a person because i myself too needed alot of time to get over my anxiety surrounding it. I based my assumptions not on the fact that i had less success rate when i approached but later when things started developing men that i approached usually assumed i’d then have for instance sex with them right t…
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:25 PM
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Just do it, it’s basically like riding a bike. The first time you do it you’ll most likely fail but if you keep on trying you’ll be soon able to ride it effortlessly. Just don’t give up!
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:18 PM
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Yes I saw those posts but I am speaking on behalf of all the women like me out there who wish to be approached and are not living drama queens afraid of all males.. it really makes me sad that some women are like that but then even if you get a cold shoulder you should be proud of yourself for even having the balls to approach. And honestly if that kind of a women turns you down you just won because you wouldn’t want someone with that state of mind as a potential partner..
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:16 PM
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But then it is related to physical attraction. Im sure you’ve been in love. When you are near your crush/ so you tend to be all smiley and giggly and flirty. Smile is a generally positive response and ofcourse it’s not always related to physical attraction but there are different smiles for different occasions.. i never said you can’t smile, you just don’t “flirty stare”/oogle if you want. Its a big difference..
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:12 PM
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Well i rarely smiled when it happened to me too.. but if the eye contact is long and clear it means the same.. we girls get self conscious too, probably even more than men since always and that’s why it has always been considered a man has to “man up” and approach. Im not saying its the only right way, and im sure the right one will find you sooner or later;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:09 PM
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I think you didn’t really get that i tried to defend the men here:)
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:05 PM
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Understandable, but your well being should always be your priority no matter their feelings. If they don’t respect your boundaries why would you respect them? Goes for both men and women..
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:02 PM
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Yes exactly this! I am lucky i grew up in a big family of mostly males so i realize that. I hope your comment gets upvoted alot so women reading this can see it and hopefully can get to this realisation too.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:00 PM
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The world would be such a happy and easygoing place to live at if we all were honest and knew basics of mutual respect
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:41 PM
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If you believe in fate then you are most absolutely right
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:38 PM
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Ofcourse, I wouldn’t post it if I wouldn’t be!
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:37 PM
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Well we can agree to disagree right:) Also the part “It’s 2020, women don’t like men and men are now women”. This should be in history books from now on LMAO. Sums it up perfectly!
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:36 PM
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Then she’d think the same and is not confident enough, and you two never meet:(
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:28 PM
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I can see where you’re coming from and i’m sorry men who you tell them “no thanks” don’t understand your boundaries. Also don’t get me wrong nothing wrong with being kind.. Anyway most women are not as bold as you and will rather give out subtle hints and hope for men to approach them so I still think men should approach women no matter what. Because even if they approach you and you don’t like it you have to always show them clearly that they are crossing your boundary even if you have to say “…
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:26 PM
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Yeah don’t get me started with masks.. im so sick of that sh*t man.. Anyway you can still see if she holds eye contact. Like i stated in the post if she holds its longer than if she’d want to acknowledge presence of an acquaintance then she’s most like interested. Same for the case when she gets caught looking, looks down/away and the back. And don’t talk down on yourself. You might think she will be disappointed by your face when you drop the mask (pun not intended) but what happens when you wi…
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:20 PM
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Yes exactly!
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:12 PM
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This is a really really not thought out response. If you think a man coming up to you to say hi is creepy you have serious issues yourself. If a woman came up to you and said hi, i like your dress you would start a convo because its a woman. But let me tell you something women are creepy too! If you don’t like someone don’t smile at them. If you smile and when they approach you say they are creepy its your own fault, and it’s mean because you are literally asking for it yourself then crying. The…
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:11 PM
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Honestly I’m not 100% sure on my opinion about it yet since im only in early twenties myself. However I think that men, as I stated in my post, even if they don’t admit it, subconsciously still like the chase. Men have it in them since way back from our ancestors to “get food for the family and chase big bad wolfies and show off to women who is the strongest”. Not literally if you get me but if a woman gives in too fast I think men lose respect for her just as fast. Also the chase brings the adr…
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:05 PM
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I didn’t mean to specify it to an age group but ofcourse flirting differs especially that from early teens and mid to late twenties. Anyway if they look at you, look away and then back again they are most certainly interested so go for it!;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:52 PM
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Well I can only say based on my experience and those of my friends but for the first one I’d say 1. They might be shy, and when you caught them oogling they panicked and looked away and if they are single and interested will probabbly look back again sooner or later or 2. They were just oogling and were caught but are not interested Second one I’d say means attraction, almost undoubtably. You don’t hold eye contact with someone for that long if you don’t try to make a point in some argument or a…
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:50 PM
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Exactly my point!!
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:44 PM
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Yes I completely agree, but as i stated i feel like alot of men subconsciously still like for a girl to some degree to play hard to get. Im sorry for your condition, I believe im not aware of what exactly it might mean in terms socializing? Could you explain please. Anyway you could start just by smiling back. It’s a great first step on this weird journey called dating ;)
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:44 PM
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Well im not a professional but i would say be more gentle with yourself. i assume when you see a pretty girl looking/smiling at you your thought process goes something like “oh she’s looking at me” “she’s pretty” “she’s too pretty for me/out of my league” “maybe she thinks im weird” “um ugly” and you feel horrible. Instead next time try to acknowledge those bad thoughts but push them aside and programm gentler ones in your head so it goes something like: “she’s pretty and she’s obviously checkin…
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:40 PM
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Exactly that. My pleasure, if at least one of the men who will read this uses the advice, it’s worth it!
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:14 PM
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Ah yes, so fed up with masks and panic:( better late than never right?
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:10 PM
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Work on your self esteem first, i can guarantee you once you accept yourself it gets so much easier because the end result doesn’t change anything. And remember you are good enough, you are good looking, you will be more than good enough for the right person!
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:09 PM
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It’s all right, you’ll start a conversation next time:)
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:57 PM
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My pleasure:D
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:56 PM
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Okay but what if its the case? It’s always a 50/50 chance so why not try..
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:55 PM
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Worth a try!
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:49 PM
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Exactly!
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:49 PM
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You are absolutely right, but im all about encouraging men to approach women more:)
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:46 PM
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I don’t agree.. if she smiles its a clear sign she likes you. You should shoot your shot
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:23 PM
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I hope that was the case:,,)
/r/seduction31/08/20 10:42 AM
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Yeah, I can only guess.. thank you for responding tho
/r/seduction31/08/20 10:42 AM
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