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Remember, not all men, but always a man. Including when the wife murders their children, it's always the man's fault. Legitimately disappointed with so many of the posts on tiktok and X.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:42 AM
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Nobody cares about the man. In fact some are even blaming him saying he failed her. And that the kids deaths are on his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:32 AM
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And research shows that most domestic violence and abuse against kids comes from women and their mothers. So... Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:14 AM
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Man: breathes. Feminists: He's a rapist and the scum of the earth, all men are like this deep down. They aren't depressed enough. Always a man. Why don't they help themselves? Lindsey Clancy: murders her children one by one with exercise bands. Feminists: Oh her husband made her do it, Leo's don't kill their kids! He framed her! He's the problem! No way she could have ever done it! Let's donate nearly a million for her. He married too fast after! Why aren't more men seeing this? You can't make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:13 AM
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Men as single parent. You know I never actually thought about this. But everyone I've met that had a single father growing up were always the best and kindest and reliable people I've ever met. With nothing but good things to say about their parents. Meanwhile most people who grew up with a single mother always had some behavioral issues or otherwise growing up, many not speaking to their mother anymore. I NEVER put one and two together and I'm not sure how to feel about that. Is there any studi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:05 AM
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Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:41 PM
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And some women also being bad judges of character, dating toxic, Misoginystic assholes because they're sexy and hot. Doesn't make the entire male gender a problem. Almost like there's flaws on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:51 PM
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No, women lie. Men lie. Many say they will date a guy if he's kind and compasisonate, or whatever else. That's what's always said. Then rationalize red flags as sexy or positive if the guy is attractive enough. Everybody lies, Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:45 PM
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It already happens in some aspects but not because they're undesirable or single. In switzerland you can opt out of the mandatory conscription (male only), but at a hefty tax cost for your entire life. Even if you are unfit for military service through chronic diseases or genetic problems You are punished for being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:40 PM
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Also send them to wars so they can be removed from the genepool at a faster rate. Might as well go all the way, right? Men already kill themselves 3 to 4 times more than women do (80% of all completed suicides are male). So why not apply measures that drive that rate up more? Jesus christ. I hope this post is satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:38 PM
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And if the guy is physically attractive enough, even shyness and insecurity can be rationalized as something sexy or cute. We cannot underestimate how physical attraction will distort every normal convention. It's funny how that works, isn't it? Had a friend in college who was 6'2 tall, extremely insecure, absolutely could NOT talk to people properly much less approach someone, men or women. But women always rationalized it as a cute trait. Because he was physically attractive, and had decent mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:28 PM
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Didn't say to take advice from bitter single men? Those are the ones that goes without saying that people love to imply. There's a lot more Blue Pilled men that are single than otherwise. And they all say the same advice that clearly has not worked for them. And women tell them what they think they want. That actually happens is very different. Cue the "I don't care about height, they just need to be kind and nice!" And they get together with a 6'2ft tall chad with barely any social skills other…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:52 AM
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Never take advice from blue pill men either. And it's best to learn to differentiate misguided advice and people just gaslighting you. Some have had reasonable success in life and can not understand that others don't that results in misguided advice. Others will just gaslight you. You can note when all they say is "Go outside" or "Just be kind and shower".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:16 AM
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I love this analogy. Especially poignant because women had men's help getting to where they are today. Gee it's almost like in society one side needs to help the other!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:26 AM
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"It's all men's fault". The comment. Classic. This is why we'll never get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:12 AM
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Politics reach to most levels of society. If it's societal, it's political. Therefore all they stated has roots in politics that eventually lead to such.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:39 PM
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This "Not my problem" mentality of their will eventually reach a boiling point when birth rates plummet. Oh wait, they already are. If you take the asian countries as estimates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:35 PM
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Remember, it only matters if it affects women. Men aren't supposed to have emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:32 PM
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It also needs to stop being used as a term to shut down men when they rightfully point out discrepancies and problems in social scenarios today. Don't deny that woman play a part in it, everyone does. It sounds more like you're just blaming the men instead. The articles only show a part of the real problem, and a huge chunk of all of these articles and surveys are self reports and not categorical of the real thing. Plenty more men than you realize are lonely, they just won't admit or report it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:26 PM
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It is also only ever used as an argument to shut down ant critiques or grievances a man night have in today's dating market and general society. It's used as a catch all term to shut down and avoid any and all responsibility, much like the patriarchy argument women like to throw around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:19 PM
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She's done for thos several days straight now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:26 PM
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Thank you for this. Mad respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:01 AM
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You should do your own thing. But don't expect it to get you anywhere with women. You gotta remember the old rule still. 1 - Be attractive. 2 - Don't be unattactive. You can do whatever you want as long as you check these two.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:57 AM
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We'll agree, because it's not used to gaslight us this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:56 AM
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If that was the case then Incels wouldn't be a thing. Hell, most of Gen Z men wouldn't be single either. You can be as decent of a guy as you can ever be, put in the effort and you're not guaranteed to get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:43 AM
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See you again tomorrow!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:57 PM
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Because they are told that being nice will draw people towards them, and that being kind and a good person "A girl will find you eventually". By women. Oftentimes by their families, especially their mothers. We're literally raised being told that by our authority figures, moms, teachers, girl friends. And when most find out that it brings nothing that was promised or told to them it would. They understandsbly get upset, especially when absolutely horrible men get women throwing themselves at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:49 PM
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We're not transforming anything, you're the one twisting it and putting these words in our mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:42 PM
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I think I've seen you in some other threads here, you're married iirc?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:12 PM
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Lady, I don't think you know what entitled means with how frequently you're throwing the word around. You're ignoring every argument with the same word and "it's not women's fault". You're just yelling to be the loudest in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:10 PM
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The whole existence of the "Pills" came about precisely in part because most women will say one thing and do another completely different thing. Those followings or derived subreddits didn't pop out of nowhere. I too have been told exactly what you've been as a kid, my own mother and family and friends growing up. Though it goes for men too, pay attention to what people do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:03 PM
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Yes. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:43 PM
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Well let's see. Since you asked for more details. He's a raging alcoholic who has almost got into a physical altercation with my uncle, he's extremely dismissive of her feelings and agency especially in social situations, almost never says anything nice about her. She has admitted that he has never hit her, but has screamed and threw insults at her during arguments, and refuses to have pets and made her leave her cat at her parent's house, he calls pets filthy and useless. He also consistently t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:18 PM
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Well there's a few. Most as things that work for women but not for men. "There's someone out there for everyone, just work on yourself and someone will come eventually!" Is a common one. It works for women but not as much for men because social roles still dictate the man must chase and engage first, leaving the case of a woman being the one to approach first incredibly rare. "Just be yourself!" Shouldn't have to say anything else about this. "You need to be kind and emotionally intelligent, gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:03 PM
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I think most Ugly men are more lonely than anything else, now sex is a part of it yes, no denying that. And being mindful of how many people your partner has already slept with is something a lot of girls do too, it's completely fine as long as they're not overboard about it? Ugly men are already treated unfairly, a lot of then have insecurities about it. Go figure. Also nobody likes being settled for, women especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:12 PM
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Everybody knows nice guys finish last, this isn't a secret. But it's not all about sex. OP completely misrepresents. The normal man is frustrated because most advice given to them, by women, is terrible and doesn't work. Not because they're not owed sex, nobody is. Said women at the same time completely contradict themselves the moment they find a man who they are really attracted to. In fact most men who truly care about sex as much as OP says are the chads who have no shortage of options
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:05 PM
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Mostly from being told straight up that I'm short and unattractive. While I'm glad to receive feedback and directness, but height isn't exactly something I can control, while I have worked on myself on things I could. Only to still be rejected, personality could be one of the reasons too, but I've also worked on it, tried being confident, being sarcastic, funny, kind, tried being an asshole, everything. Nothing. Once you've been rejected enough, you learn to observe when and what people find you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:16 PM
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Constant comparisons to people who are taller (it's worse as a guy), I'm mostly seen as incompetent first before I actually prove myself as competent, I can read body language pretty well and it's very obvious that when I'm with my 5'10 friend and another who is 6'1. Even if I am busting myself in the gym and am more physically fit than they are, every time everyone will look at them first, even if I am the one engaging and leading the conversation (which I usually do). It's a lot of small stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:27 PM
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It's always been wrong. Imo. It's an old custom that refused to die for several hundred years. Back when Men held the most financial output and women were mostly held as trophies or forced to be house wives. With the advent of feminisn and women getting more rights, to nowadays in 2026 where many women earn just as much if not more than men, and also enroll and complete higher education more (with several grants and exclusive scholarships), and among other things they fought for for decades to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:42 AM
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I was grown and raised to believe women want a man that can reasonably provide for them, and offer them comfort, both physical and emotional. I was also raised being told by my mother that I was dangerous and that I'm inherently an oppressor for being a man. There's that too I guess. Emotional availability should be the basis of every relationship imo. That goes both ways. They want someone that respects them and understands them, someone they can rely on and to care for their children, if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:38 AM
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I'm surprised this isn't common knowledge. Are we dead ass that people never thought about this? It's literally Supply and Demand. Men are usually single because they don't have a choice, and dating advice is useless at the best of times. It takes considerably longer for a man to find a girl than it does a girl finding a man. Men have to actively fight their hormones and very instincts to accept being single. Women have an abundance of options, especially nowadays, so she can very well just choo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 06:29 AM
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I mean, we should. That's basic logic isn't it? Thing is, but we're also told to suck it up and "be a man" when we end up in bad and toxic relationships. By both men and women, mind. That's the accountability we're held up to. I'm not trying to argue with you, I'm literally saying I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:30 PM
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Oh, they are. Everything is involved in one way or another. The reality is, toxic people are rewarded with attention and praise and everything else. Doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. This is exacerbated if they are physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:17 PM
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Someone that constantly apologizes, from my lived experience, are one of two things. Extremely insecure, or emotionally manipulative. My mom was the latter. So I got hands on experience. I've seen both men and women do it. And you can never guess which unless they establish a pattern, but as social norms go if a man apologizes a lot he's judged a LOT more harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:12 PM
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Not at all. Plenty of toxic women also get into relationships. Toxic and abusive people almost never have any issues getting onto relationships. I've seen it happen to both genders in my life. From toxic girlfriends making my friends miserable (and getting thek to leave the friend group, it happens a lot) and the other way around. I call and say what I see each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:08 PM
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I literally didn't do anything but sure. Pop off. You must live such a sad life if that's how you act.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:37 AM
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Accountability. Cue most comments immediately deflecting any possible blame, and shifting goalposts. You can't make this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:01 AM
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It's fine for men to be shitty and inconsiderate. Considering how many toxic men manage to get into relationships and lead fruitful social lives, because mostly by their looks and status. You'd certainly think so. It's not fine for anyone to be like that but things aren't exactly fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:59 AM
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Why should men born today be blamed and apologize for stuff that's happened before they were even born? This is exactly what they mean, you're shifting everything away from responsibility and onto "But some people did some stuff 50 years ago and didn't apologize".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:56 AM
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Comment saved. Thanks chief!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/26 09:46 PM
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The Vast majority, especially women, love to deflect any possible accountability or responsibility by saying "Oh but X group does it too, so I don't have to care/do anything". It's ingrained in society at large. It's worse because Women actively perpetuate it knowing that fact as well. I've been groped, and SA'd as a teenager in high school by a female teacher at some points as well, of course it wasn't considered with any weight then too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/26 08:53 PM
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Men are by all accounts "Disposable" by society at large. Works perfectly for feminism, it was never about equality anyway, having men die and essentially be disposed of is beneficial to it, so nothing will be done. Thankfuly some men have become aware of it and aren't playing ball anymore. It's funny, because feminism rose with a lot of help from men too. But now they won't raise a finger for the men being actively murdered in wars, worked to death in backbreaking jobs and highly dangerous jobs…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:23 PM
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If anyone, women or men, wants to be friends first. Then your chances of actually getting with them romantically will be astronomically low. At that point all you are is a safe backup to settle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:47 PM
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You can always find women arguing and putting values on men. "Low value men" "high value men". But you don't see that nearly as often on the men's side. Or at all. Who sees who as objects then, truly? That should be all the answer you really need.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:20 PM
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There's plenty of "Chads" out there with the diction and personality of neanderthals and they have no shortage of women throwing themselves at them. So I find the argument that women care more about personality very dubious and debatable. Why not just say men and women are basically the same when it comes to looks and sex? Why women be put on a pedestal of "Actually we like personality more". If that was the case women would often be in less abusive relationships, no? Very "Actually men do it MO…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:16 PM
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Sounds like projection. Most men aren't threats or even have bad opinions towards women. But sure, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:22 PM
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Summary: While I don't agree with the OP's statements about gaslighting per se. There is some nuance to what he says if you deconstruct things. At the end of the day. Women have full right to approach, this is 2026. There is little reason a girl can't approach other than simply not wanting to or wanting to hold onto gender roles (of men being the ones approaching). They don't have to of course, nor should they be expected to. But then, neither should men have to either. Equality and all. But let…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:59 PM
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If someone can't differentiate the few from the many that aren't threats or aggressive. Then they're the problem. Why should the vast majority be treated like possible villains because of the actions of a few (whom women can and still go for in the first place). Poor excuse on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:53 PM
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Summary: Above average man cannot understand why below average and average men don't like the current dating structure and pressures of today. Or better yet, man has had some success. Cannot empathize or understand men who haven't had success and aren't happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:05 PM
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I feel this is a trap question. Especially as most options are of violent consequences. When that's not the case? When the biggest factor is repeated rejection and the mental strain that it entails + the pressure of having to approach. I've bene humiliated openly when I was rejected, several times. After enough times you just don't see the point anymore. Edit. Also noticed too, none of the options even consider the man's emotional state. Because of course rejection itself doesn't hurt you at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:32 PM
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"Suitable", "High value" men. Say you only see men as objects without saying it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/26 04:30 PM
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It hasn't killed the younger gen men. Sure as hell turned most of them to the right and conservatives though. Imagine making a huge part of your movement about how the white young man is the oppressor (they literally didn't do anything) and blaming them for what their grandfathers did. Yeah, surely that'll make them take your side, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:07 PM
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As a Brazilian, that's just the tip of the iceberg. It's gets so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:20 PM
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Meanwhile th average guy has to pull teeth to even get a girl physically attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:42 PM
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Kind of. But they shifted the post about men killing women first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:07 PM
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Let's also ignore they're also more likely to abuse their children in general as well. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:48 PM
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They're more busy killing their children. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:44 PM
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This is such a weird take, not that it's wrong but there's plenty of men who don't treat women as people who have no issue finding a date? Look at the top 10% of men a lot of women go for? And MANY men treat women the best they possibly can, see them as important and do everything for them, only to not have that easier time dating. In fact. Same for women too, sometimes even more treat men as objects only to have hundreds flock to them. They simply treat them like crap and jump to the next guy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:55 PM
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It helps, only of they want to help you. From experience most of my friends who are women don't offer or want to offer advice or help, most of the time they just say "Just improve yourself and someone will come eventually".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:50 PM
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At least from some of the questions I asked, it was pretty straight forward about things.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 06:10 PM
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Out of all of them, I was the most surprised at Grok. It will call out both men and women equally, it's brutally honest at times and I find it great.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 06:06 PM
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Seriously. So many more women do it than people think. Especially nowadays when they know they can just get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:20 PM
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Brave post op. But considering the subreddit you posted it on, you're more likely to have more success talking to a wall. Fron the comments, nobody even wants to acknowledge anything you said. Or even consider any of your articles posted. Which I guess proves your point. This sub is a poorly disguised men hating echochamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:32 PM
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Oh, I do get them showing up on my feed. Especially Shortguys. But those subs don't have anything of substance that I can learn so most of the time I stay out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:39 PM
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Be 5'10ft tall or higher. If shorter, hit the gym even harder, it's the only shot you have. Personality is good, but nobody will give you the time of day if you're short and not buff. Unless you live in a country where the average is 5'6ft tall or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:47 PM
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You can barely even find any subreddits for RP anymore, because reddit quarantined or banned them because other women subs complained. Meanwhile you get completely dedicated hate subs in Girldinnediaries and TwoXChromosomes still up and running.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:38 PM
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Modern young men grow up being told that they're not needed and that they are dangerous because of what his great grandfather did 50+ years ago. They go most of their lives at school being told they're the oppressor while being told to shut up and not be a burden, by an increasingly higher amount of women. And they say Feminism isn't a hate group...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:34 PM
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If you need the best examples. Ask a male nurse. Those guys see it all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 07:00 PM
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It's good to be in this sub. I can rightfully call out that people who always makes it a competition are completely deluded. Nobody will deny Misoginy that has been a thing for longer. But acting like Misandry is "Ok" because it's "not as bad" is just idiotic. To say nothing that it opens the way for even more radical abuse under the guise of "It's not as bad!". I can say that here without being attacked, try saying that in an Askreddit hot takes thread and see what happens.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 06:59 PM
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What decades of being told they're not needed anymore, are inherently evil and toxic, are treated terribly during their formative years, does to the male population. Gen Z men have been dealt the literal worst hand possible. I also like that when discussions of worth are made, it's always in relation to Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:15 PM
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I'm telling you, in a few years or a decade this will reach critical mass and we'll have a catastrophic collapse of most sectors. Things are not looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:03 AM
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I agree with everything you say. And that's what I meant when I said "failing". I just wanted to word it in a way it wouldn't get me reported or likely harassed. The rate of which men are being employed has also plummeted as well. Many jobs are basically women exclusive now. Like nurses and doctors (I say this with a heavy heart because the best nurses and doctors I've ever had were actually men)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:31 PM
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In order to make themselves seem better, yes. Hundreds of thousands do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:27 PM
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It's doubly funny when you do some digging and find out that Lesbian couples divorce each other more than both gay men couples AND heterosexual couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:23 PM
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Neither side will ever accept any blame or responsibility. This has been shown by feminism for decades. "Men should open up more". Men are punished for doing so, their vulnerabilities used against them and made fun off for doing so. "Just improve yourself someone will find you eventually". Nobody will find you if you just wait, it won't happen unless you're in the 10% of men who are legitimately attractive. At the end of the day it all boils down to. "You weren't attractive enough". To 90% of ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:21 PM
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To say nothing that a lot of studies nowadays is done primarily by a female group of researchers, men are also failing higher education at exponential rates. Which will be inherently biased to one side. There's so much nuance that gets overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:32 PM
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Yes, it includes sexual coercion. 44.6% of women and 32% of men. Had it done by intimate partners. Edit. Let me get the other numbers for you. Edit 2. Forced penetration rates are of about 12.2% women and 1.4% of men (Reported victimization is also at 0.4% for men. Which might or might not be misrepresented or just unreported). Edit 3: Sorry this is general, the study doesn't document sexual abuse of children that I could find.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:12 PM
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The entire "Men do it more" or "Men harm more" is moot when both sides just perpetuate it. And there's nothing more to be said on the matter. As for domestic abuse. Women do it almost as much, if not more than men. Especially to children. As someone who has been on the receiving end of emotional and physical abuse growing up, because of my mother. I take any notion sweeping women perpetuated abuse under the rug insulting. You can't hide it nor deny it, if a side does it too, then it has no right…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:00 PM
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Because "Just improve yourself" is a common talking point that usually leads nowhere. It's used to shut up any man that currently has an issue because it's assumed it's their fault. Improve yourself for yourself, not to he likeable to others. Because if someone didn't like you before the chance is higher that they still won't like you after you've improved. A lot of women speak as if it's a meritocracy, that if the guy puts in work they will get something, when in real life that's anything but. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:30 PM
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Both men and women need to ask themselves what value they bring to each other. But that doesn't fly, apparently, it's only a problem when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:37 PM
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Personality hasn't been the most important thing for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:35 PM
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No, you see, the true feminist ideal is that the average man stops trying and leave them alone so they can chase after the 10% of men. They want the average guy to swear off relationships and stop complaining, how dare a man who's not tall, rich and muscular think he has value and actually look after himself and hold others up to a standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:27 PM
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I hope you know. I'm stealing that image. But I'll upvote you because I'm not an asshole. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:23 PM
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Simply put, men fought alongside feminists to get them to where they are now. They saw the struggle and helped. The same feminists who now won't raise a finger to even so much as aknowledge that men deserve rights too. So what you're saying is Earl Silverman was not attacked and harassed and eventually took his own life because society (this includes women too btw) doesn't care about men? He just decided to just give up because some people go angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:39 PM
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Watch out, someone will scream "Patriarchy" and will make the entire conversation abolish women and feminism of all blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:36 PM
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It's an argument diversion tactic. By screaming about the Patriarchy you shift the focus onto the men instead of the actual context of the argument. Notice how it's usually feminists using The Patriarchy in their arguments to absolve feminists of any guilt or accountability for how modern society is in its current state? It's a scapegoat. They use it to throw you off and make you NOT focus on stuff that's obviously their fault or partially so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 07:44 PM
1

I'd argue the guy also has just as much a burden during times that their partner is pregnant. From the pressure to work hard to make sure they're ok, to taking care of them if need be and any complications. I've never seen my dad as stressed as when my mom was pregnant with my sister, he was worn down with worry and responsibilities.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:27 AM
1

Also don't forget dying in wars. And still dying in wars today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 08:33 AM
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"Patriarchy" is used as an excuse to minimize any accountability. That's all there is to it. It never makes any sense when it's used.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 12:16 AM
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I am more and more often reminded of what Florence of Nightingale said about women. Check out Women have no sympathy, by Florence of Nightingale. Don't ask why it's in ifunny, probably because it got removed anywhere else.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 05:12 PM
5

It's incredibly simple in a pragmatic sense. The man has more to lose in a divorce than the woman, and she has more to gain. She has the advantage, she knows that. And if Feminism has shown anything in the past decade, is that they love that. Very few men will initiate a divorce themselves because of the same reasons, this also leads further down the "Happy wife, happy life" rabbit hole where the guy lets their wife control every facet of their life, because the woman can just choose to take 50%…
/r/MensRights24/06/26 04:56 PM
8

Liberals will look at this and wonder why the left is losing young men to the right.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 05:12 AM
2

I have even less respect for Male feminists who agree to and support misandrist views. How far down can you go, for a group that actively hates your existence?
/r/MensRights15/06/26 04:47 PM
1

And then they wonder why men all over the world are going conservative.
/r/MensRights08/06/26 06:43 PM
3

DNA tests should be obligatory. The fact a lot of women vehemently refuse to do them says a lot. The fact that in some countries like france a paternity test is illegal is such a massive red flag against the rights of men. You should have the right to know if the kid is yours or not, who decided that was wrong?
/r/MensRights08/06/26 06:19 PM
2

Mind sharing the study? I'm interested in checking.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 01:59 AM
3

What does it say if you ask it "If making jokes about men, calling them useless, and undermining them as people is fine, how come it's not for women? Isn't that a bit hipocritical?"
/r/MensRights03/06/26 07:10 PM
2

Isn't that the blue pill? Or is that one just endless cope.
/r/MensRights03/06/26 03:47 PM
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They want average men to leave girls alone and only for the genetically gifted, super attractive ones to come to them. They hate when the word Hypergamy is used.
/r/MensRights03/06/26 03:00 PM
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Expanded further: After years of being treated like garbage and disposable by women, they are surprised young men are not playing their games anymore.
/r/MensRights03/06/26 02:58 PM
1

The Blackpill is inescapable. They want a guy like you... Just more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:37 PM
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These comments are not doing a great job at proving OP's point wrong. They're actively reinforcing it by doing exactly what they said happens. Truth is someone or some community needs to be a punching bag and RP is the easiest target, so no arguments for them will ever get through even if some make decent points (obviously not the ones making wide sweeping geberalizations). Men get no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:39 PM
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