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Insecure in what sense? That you think she might have ulterior motives (like guys salivating over her and getting attention from guys, even if she doesn't plan to date them)? Maybe it makes you feel like you aren't enough for her? Or do you just think in your preferred type of monogamous relationship she wouldn't do this even if it was innocent? I think this is a relevant distinction. No perhaps upset is the better word. Just the image of another man getting sexually satisfied from looking at vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:19 PM
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Thank you for your comment, it was really insightful, and that's saying something for a comment from this sub. Is this really what you think? If it is, it's completely immature and unrealistic. Even when covered up in normal casual clothes, men can stare and ogle. You can only fully avoid this by going Taliban mode and covering her up. Let me clarify my position because there might be a misunderstanding. So yeah I am aware that sometimes, no matter what a woman wears or does, she'll get sexualis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:16 AM
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I can't believe I'm asking here of all places, but here we go a classic question: So I have a gf and like anyone else she likes to post pics of herself on her socials. No it's not super sexual stuff, some of it is borderline like she posts dance trends from tiktok, she shows her midriff and she looks good and sexy, let's say it's not overtly sexual but it's something most guys would go "damn what a hottie" when they see. Okay so I am okay with her feeling good and posting herself if she wants to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:20 AM
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Southeast asian here. Living in asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:22 AM
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Would definitely make it easier if so. But unfortunately doesn't look that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:13 AM
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Looks like im going exclusive with one of the girls im seeing. Deleted my dating apps. Looks like I'm finally entering into a relationship after 6 months of a manhoe phase. Let's see how this turns out. Gonna have to start rejecting the other girls im seeing so that's always gonna be rough but you reap what you sow lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:10 AM
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Dude it's not lazy if people come crawling to you. It's supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:37 AM
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Rule 6 on the sub bro: No Soapboxing or Promoting an Agenda: This means keeping red pill, seduction/PUA, incel, pinkpill, purplepill, FDS, and blackpill material out of /r/dating. ...Users found to be engaging in such rhetoric will be met with an immediate ban I mean, u can say it's an unreasonable policy but the rules are literally there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:26 AM
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The ones that you thought to yourself "Hmm should I go for her? Nah I'm not interested". Those are rejections. The ones that you go "Hmm should I go for her? Yeah let's try to make small talk or hit on her" are not rejections And the ones that you go "Hmm should I go for her? Nah she's way out of my league I don't have a change" aren't rejections either. But the first scenario I described? Yes, those are rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:18 AM
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More varied but still in general bigger is better (to a point, just like height). The point is it's shallow (judging someone on a superficial feature)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:17 AM
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maybe he just doesn't have the confidence/bravery, maybe he doesn't want to risk making things awkward I already mentioned nuance this in my previous comment if you actually read. just because a guy doesn't approach doesn't mean he'd reject an approach from the girl. You are confusing how rejection works. He would reject an approach, he just wouldn't do it in a mean way because men don't have to be defensive when getting approached by women. E.g. you are at a club and a massive 'land whale' goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:15 AM
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If I lowered my standards significantly, then almost certainly. Unfortunately I am stacysexual. Then you will be an incel unless you lower your standards. And it's your choice what matters more to you, having sex and relationship but someone who you don't find that attractive. Or being alone but keeping an eye out for "the one".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:05 AM
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If you think I'm clearly wrong it should be easy for you to prove it. Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:04 AM
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Rejection only includes potential partners. It doesn't include people you don't even know exists lmao. Like, you are at a work event and see a friendly girl. If she was attractive, you might have flirted with her. If she was not attractive, you wouldn't flirt with her. This subconscious choice to decide whether to engage in courtship or not is how male-on-female "rejection" works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:00 AM
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Guys "reject" women by not approaching them in the first place. Women "reject" men by actually telling them they aren't interested. It's really two sides of the same coin: Filtering potential partners. It's more complex for guys because there are guys who don't approach a woman because of their own social anxiety, which isn't actually a form of rejection so there is nuance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:54 AM
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Breast size
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:50 AM
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Being an incel is less about your sexual history and more about your ability to attract women. In your case, forget your past and ask yourself: "If I started searching for an intimate relationship, could I get one within approx ~6 months". If the answer is no, then you are an incel. Being an incel means you want to be in a relationship, but you can't make it happen even though you try hard. On the other hand, if you are pretty confident you can actually get a relationship in that kind of timefra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:48 AM
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Nope. Closest thing was a cashier randomly mentioning that I look like this celebrity haha. Was quite flattered but i never heard of him before so was confused
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:40 AM
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Yeah this is probably the truth. I'm already quite demotivated to check my matches or convos. This girl is just constantly on my mind and basically occupying all my attention. Might as well go exclusive at this rate. Ive got another girl ive been a quite a bit attached to and she really likes me so idk how im gonna break the bad news to her...she knows I'm seeing multiple women but man I think she's in love...wonder what to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:32 PM
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Nah Im not chad level but i do have good conversational skills. If we click, i can swoon a woman off her feet in like a single convo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:40 AM
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Idk, I'd say a 6.5/10 on a good day. 5ft9 tall. Saving grace is I have a top job in finance. I'm asian and live in Asia and women are more conservative here so a good and stable job goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:15 AM
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Matched with this girl last week and I'm glad my nervous humour works on her. Love is out there, guys, even for us redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:07 AM
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i mean it's human to get jealous, and it's completely valid to think "what if he's just playing with me and leading me on while doing the exact same to other women". I don't think they are unreasonable to think this. of course, the solution is to be honest and reassure them that i'm not just some player looking to maintain a harem, but what exactly can I say haha. The red pill route is easy, I would just say "stop being jealous,it's destroying what we have", or "cmon baby you're being unreasonab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:13 AM
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Yeah fair enough to be honest. if she goes, then that's the risk i take for having multiple women...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:55 AM
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I know this is probably a first world problem but a girl i'm seeing is having a hard time dealing with the fact that i'm seeing multiple women. it's obviously a problem i have with all the girls im talking to, but i do make it clear that i'm not fully committed to them alone and I'm seeing multiple women. but obviously each one gets jealous. There's one i really like and i might go exclusive with her eventually but she wants exclusivity right now which I'm not ready for yet. What can I do to all…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:43 AM
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accidentally recognise the value of inventory as revenue. This is insane. Like, this could not possibly been a competing explanation to "they delivered it to the customer".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:00 PM
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Someone could (obviously wrongly) recognise revenue when new stock has arrived, which means it is a revenue recognition issue. What do you mean recnogise revenue when new stock arrives. You mean, someone sees new inventory, and..records the value of that inventory as revenue on the firm's books?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:45 AM
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Even then my point stands that "recognising revenue after goods are delivered" is obvious in context to refer to delivery of goods to whomever they need to be delivered too. There's no good reason to nitpick there. Did you really have some genuine confusion about the possibility that 'delivery' could mean delivery to...a supplier or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:34 AM
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Let's see if my CFA knowledge checks out here. c) Recognising revenue after goods are delivered It's not a revenue recognition issue because that is exactly when revenue is meant to be recognised under IFRS/USGAAP. So it's not an issue Don't give crap about 'to whom are the goods being delivered to', of course it would be in reference to the customer. It would be like complaining about answer A and saying 'But what is the sales channel being stuffed with?'. Anyway D is an issue because if you mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:25 AM
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Lemme give you some advice that you won't take but you'll eventually probably realise. (Assuming u are trying to Netflix and chill with a new girl and not your spouse or something lmao) There exists a "sweet spot" when spending time alone with a new girl where you want to get her in the mood but at the same time don't want to make it seem like sex is what you are most interested in. If you work too hard at sexualising your encounter, if this is detected, it will actual turn off a girl. So the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:21 AM
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I msged her, very chirpy, even asked me for a call which is very unusual from a girl late at night (no make up). Sent me a cute pic too so i wont complain. We called and had a fun convo. She's nice and good body but im not interested enough to make her one of the girls im talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:56 AM
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U can check my recent comments
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:37 AM
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Due to popular demand im here yet again for suggestions to hit up one of my matches. Blue pill suggestions only, red pill is delulu. Ain't that pretty so normally id unmatch but the dog is cute af so gonna message her. Im thinking "I need a girl who looks at me the way ur dog does", and then transition to sharing pics of my cat. Any suggestions? She has an empty bio
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:20 AM
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So yesterday I asked help for a pickup line on one of my matches. After some encouragement I decided to go ahead The pickup line How it ended And as usual, blue pill strategies win. Be yourself, ask genuine questions. And u can connect with people easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:45 PM
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So do you acknowledge that you were mistaken when you said "you just did" in reply to my statement that "I never said I gave you evidence"? I need to make sure you are capable of processing reality, otherwise it would be moot to keep engaging on your new request. If you are still under the impression that I claimed to give you evidence of something, then I have to establish that I never did make that claim. If have fixed your misunderstanding, then I can move on to your subsequent request.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:49 AM
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I hope you realise by now that its not me who supposedly gave you evidence, but I'm guessing you have problems reading usernames lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:23 AM
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Please quote where I stated that I gave you evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:10 AM
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I didn't say i did
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:04 AM
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Maybe they're cheering uncomfortably then. But they're still cheering. Where are you getting these beliefs from? Why is it that when given evidence that are unlikely to cheer on other men to physically attack women, you still hold the belief that they do? You must have been exposed to extremely convincing evidence that this is the case, and I'm curious as to what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:42 AM
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How much have you worked on yourself. Gym, hobbies, social status / career?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:39 AM
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I've never actually thought about doing this before. Sounds fun. Will try this next time haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:34 AM
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Ikr. It's a waste of their energy to be so critical haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:39 AM
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Ok this one is the winner. I'll get back to you with the results HAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:36 AM
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Haha I have a feeling sexual imagery is not gonna make for an effective first text 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:39 AM
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Someone give me a pickup line for one of my bumble matches. Her name's Katana so I wanna do a joke about that. How's "If i was a japanese swordsman you'd be the one for me ;)". Pretty milquetoast but it's the best I got. Alternatively. Ill just ask her about her interests as I usually do with my matches and eventually when she says something witty or intelligent ill say "You're sharp, Katana is definitely the right name for you ;)" Blue pill suggestions only pls. No aloof bad boy stuff, that's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:28 AM
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Women feel more comfortable scouting out their social circles before going for dating apps. It's not like it's hard to get a date in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:04 AM
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I live in asia. Am asian too. But now that u mention it i lived in uk for 6 years and mostly got with eastern Europeans and asians. So i guess western girls aren't that into me HAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:32 AM
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I'm absolutely nowhere near as attractive as those guys. I'm 5'10 and my face is at best a 6/10. The only thing "chad" about me is I make bank in finance. Apart from that only normie stuff like gym 3x a week, skincare, doing interesting shit like travelling and hobbies, luxury car. Completely achievable by anyone. Join the blue pill and just be yourself. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:18 AM
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Idk how this wasn't a fumble lmao, threw in a random response since the match was expiring and i was about to head to bed. But since I went for a blue pill (be genuine, even if its lame) line, it worked. If I went red pill I don't think it would have worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:53 AM
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It's a card game where you draw cards from a deck. Each card contains a question that you ask the other person. These questions are actually quite interesting and meaningful, so is a great way to get to know someone better. Some questions are designed for getting to know superficial details more (e.g. What was the first thing you noticed about me), to details about your relationship ("What is something I need to hear, right now"), to really deep questions ("What has this conversation taught you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:27 AM
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Went out with a girl yesterday and played We're not really strangers for the first time. So damn fun 100% recommend. I wouldn't recommend for a first date but I've known her for a few months before we went on a date and it was really fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:20 AM
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Ngl tho im a god at guitar ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:02 PM
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Does anyone have a shitty skill that girls somehow like? So I picked up singing like 4 months ago and I'm not good I know it. My friends and family make it clear lol but I've gone out with like 6 different girls in the last couple months and as we get to know eachother I would eventually share that I'm taking up singing, and not a single one has said anything bad! They're literally like "I actually really like your voice, it's nice! Sing more for me don't stop" And it's such a mood booster, gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:50 AM
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Looking for suggestions for captions/quotes on my bio which indicates i'm single. I've had a few girls I'm talking to keep thinking I'm married or in a relationship and if i can put a convincing quote in my bio i think that would work. But it can't been too obvious because it will come off as desperate (e.g. no 'single and ready to mingle' shit)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:33 AM
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And people will hide their cheating if it affects their future. Doesn't make it ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:38 AM
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It's in everyone's interest to hide things which make them less attractive. Doesn't make it okay to hide things, especially if you know your partner would want to know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:44 PM
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OP's conclusion relied on a cherry picked example that conveniently left out the broader scope of animal behavior concerning unrelated offspring. This is not true. OP brings up the fact that male humans have a preference for raising their own biological children as opposed to adoption, which he uses to argue that getting cheated on as a man increases the risk that you will unwittingly raise a child which is not biologically yours, which increases the emotional harm caused by a woman cheating (as…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:48 AM
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No it doesn't. He used it to indicate that the preference for males to rear their own biological children is strong, he didn't use it to suggest that males only ever want to rear their own biological children. To do so would require no exceptions whatsoever, which your article correctly refutes. But OP's entire discussions and conclusions remain valid on the assumption that males have a preference for rearing their own biological children. The fact that this preference is not absolute does not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:49 AM
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I apologise for the Elliot Roger part, I didn't want to imply that you were on the path of becoming like him and used it solely as a throwaway tease to lighten the seriousness of my post. I get that platonic relationships are important too, which is why I’ve been trying to work on that too. It’s not so easy either though. It’s just not something that causes me dread and despair like my sexual failings have. I think you should narrow down what exactly is it that you desire. Pure sexual experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:01 AM
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Adoption definitely happens in the wild and researchers aren't even entirely sure why, so it would be false to assume all males have a biological instinct to invest solely in their own children. He never made this assumption. He said that men have a biological instinct to invest in their own biological children. This is categorically different from your assumption which contains "solely in their own children". The word solely changes everything because with it, then it means men only ever want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:31 AM
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I’m not that simple-minded, but it certainly doesn’t help that I’m 5’5, can’t grow facial hair, have a childish voice, and am constantly told that I look like a young boy. Well unless you're not mentioning something like severely ugly face, these things, while detrimental, shouldn't be so strong a barrier that you would be stuck a virgin for so long. Definitely only puts you in the bottom 30% of men. Gonna be a lot harder to get laid but we aren't yet in virgin4lyfe territory. Besides that, what…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:14 AM
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Why did your perspective change?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:05 AM
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Can't be that bad. Are you severely disabled or something? Crippling neurodivergence? What is it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:04 AM
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Goes both ways though, more women having more casual sex means the top males have greater access to variety than ever before, and this makes it difficult for women of all kinds to lock-in Mr. Right since he is living a greater life of abundance than ever before. It also creates social pressure to put out more, which a lot of women are uncomfortable with: "if more and more women put out more then men I'm into will lose interest if I don't do the same."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:03 AM
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Technically it's okay to leave anyone, it's your life after all and if living without someone makes you happier than living with them, go ahead. But obviously that's a very non-committal approach to life and the point of entering into marriage is that you are acknowledging a very strong level of commitment that's supposed to go above and beyond "Meh I'm just not into you anymore".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:57 AM
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Not exactly, this applies to most men but the more attractive guys have a much easier time. The obvious solution is to portray a higher SMV so you can join that club. Easier said than done, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:30 AM
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Not catching feelings too early is good, but if it happens because you subconsciously think every girl your dating has an unacceptable sexual history, it can cause problems down the line. E.g. when you actually find the right girl and want to do a long term relationship with her, then unless she's a virgin, it'll take her a lot of effort to prove to you that she doesn't have that kind of sexual history and this might cause trust issues in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:26 AM
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Sacrificing your life for someone else is not bare minimum territory wtf. If it was your kid, wife, mom, sure. But your gf? No way that's "bare minimum"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:56 PM
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Yeah I mean he's a good person for having saved her but at the end of the day people are people and if you're not what she wants in life (cuz of drugs or whatever) then she's gonna leave you because there's no such thing as having a moral obligation to stay with the person who saved you. That being said, he's still a hero and if life was fair he will find the happiness he deserves. But life isn't fair lmao don't go sacrificing yourself for a gf guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:42 AM
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These passport bros are usually low status / wealth guys, so they go overseas where non-western women are less critical about it since the guys in their area are even worse off. There are other things to it. Some people just have a thing for foreign people, etc. Becuase how tf would u know millions of women dont want u? Think about it logically ? I don't think many passport bros actually think "No western girl wants me". If you see all this passport bro stories, only a tiny minority of them says…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:18 AM
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Yeah. So what if they have a personality that makes them treat you better / with more respect? Looks all the way, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:05 AM
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You made a claim about what's legal in most western countries, you can't just shift to America now I'm not just shifting to america. I am using it as an important example of the passport bro experience. If we wanted to group all western men together (Let's take U.S. + EU), then that's a total of approx 700 million people. Of those 700 million, only ~90 million of them live in countries/areas with legalized prostition (only nevada for the U.S., and Germany and some other countries in EU.) Therefo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:52 AM
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I'm aware it's not legal in America. That doesn't say anything about other countries A huge proportion of passport bros are Americans. So if your criticism is less applicable to them then this is a valid point against your argument. Are you really that attached to what's legal or do you really think it's less immoral or even risky to go to the Philippines somehow? I think it is extremely important to consider what is legal because arguing that a dating strategy which involves a crime is better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:30 AM
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Prostitution is some level of legal in most western countries and tends to be not very risky for johns regardless. It isn't. Like, let's take the U.S. for example, prostitution is only legal in Nevada, therefore anyone who lives anywhere outside of the state will basically be a passport bro anyway because he has to literally fly to another state. And saying 'well illegal prostitution isn't that risky for John's anyway' is not an excuse. How can a strategy which involves committing a full on crim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:38 PM
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My definition focuses on love, yes. But your definition doesn't, I am trying to show that your definition has issues. I showed an issue with your definition (that someone who only wants prostitutes and chooses to do it overseas counts as a passport bro), by pointing out that it is much easier (socially, and financially) to have sex with prostitutes overseas than in the west. Even if we factor in travel costs, this is still true. First of all prostitution is illegal in most western nations so you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:01 AM
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If someone who travels overseas for sex is a travel bro, then all those sex tourists who go overseas to places like Thailand just to see prostitutes would fall within this definition. If so, then these people are definitely using a good strategy, because prostitutes are far more available and affordable overseas than in a western country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:41 AM
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What's your definition of passport bro then. To me it's someone who is actively searching for a long term relationship with someone who is overseas. Usually through online dating or temporarily travelling there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:44 AM
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I wouldn't say it's a legitimate strategy if it doesn't work The fact that there are people who successfully marry foreign women by through online relationships / temporarily living overseas shows that this strategy does work. If this strategy didn't work, then there would be no passport bros who actually married their wives. An easy google search shows that this is not the case. I highly doubt that someone who genuinely can't find someone to love in their entire country of origin is going to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:22 AM
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There aren't many people choosing this at all. Of course only a minority of people with pursue this strategy, that doesn't make it any less legitimate of a dating strategy. It's very unlikely that anyone truly can't find anyone in their own country yet somehow can find some romantic paradise in a different country where everything is harder, yet some people delude themselves into thinking it's the case. Like I said, for those who choose the passport bro life, they've already tried (and failed) t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:00 AM
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Maybe something about why you two broke up caused your Mom to dislike you? Maybe if you broke up from cheating on eachother, or something. There's usually more to it than just 'oh my son is single now I care about him less'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:07 AM
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The main thing to consider is that men become passport bros because their local options are worse. If a man's local options were in fact better, then there is no reason for him to spend the money, risk, and resources to finding a foreign wife. Being a passport bro is sort of like a Plan B strategy to dating. And most people only do this when plan A (modern western dating) is no longer working. You can't really tell these guys to just go back to Plan A when it isn't working for them. If plan A wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:06 AM
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For every girl in a relationship, there must be a guy too (the one dating her). So how is it possible that 70% of women are in relationships, when only 30% of men are? (it's possible if we assume multiple women are dating the same guy, or that some women consider themselves in relationship when they guy they're dating considers himself just casually dating. But do people agree with these assumptions?)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:34 AM
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Neurodivergent with ADHD. Bro it it's a double edged sword but when it works in your favour it really fucking works. Really helps with making jokes and flirting, spontaneous date ideas etc. Makes me someone who is more of a risk taker and fun and girls love that shit. Obviously I look decent too, looks are still #1 but I guarantee you my ADHD has probably let me get more short term flings and lays that I would without it. But the drawback is that it makes me not into long term relationships so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:06 AM
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The problem with picking one extreme is that you cause the opposite extreme to vote against you. So it's a double edged sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:29 AM
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It may be harsh, but it's better to break up with a girl with a past like that than staying with her. I think there's some wiggle room. Like, to me to "have a hoe past" is to maybe have casually slept with 10+ guys. For someone else it's 5+ guys, for other's its 15+. So it's not universal and a matter of preference imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:48 AM
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I mean, a hoe is a girl who goes around sleeping with lots of people. If a girl does this for a few years, then stops, then she literally has stopped being a hoe. Closest thing I can think of is a person who smokes then quits smoking. They definitely aren't a smoker anymore, but there are consequences from their original habit of smoking that will follow them for a long time. One of the issues surrounding this discussion is how guys are supposed to act when they hear that a girl has had a hoe pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:31 AM
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How many children did your grandparents and their siblings have? My dad has 8 siblings my mom has 3. I have 2. Seems like they could afford procreation more than our generation. Well depends what you associate as the costs of procreation. My grandma gave birth in her home, so didn't have to pay hospital bills. I'm not sure if a doctor was present at birth either since the nearest clinic was in the next town/city, so no doctor fees too. I could definitely do that if I wanted to but in the modern …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:23 AM
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So a small, family owned business vs working for other people that don’t care about you? I'd definitely prefer working a desk job for someone who didn't care about me vs working 16 hours a day of hard labour for myself. 100% A family owned home vs living paycheck to paycheck to afford a roof? Hey, at least I can buy a meal with my paycheck. My grandparents literally ate what they grew and that is insane. Imagine having to work 16 hours a day of labour OR starve. in this world I just work a few h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:10 AM
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I guess. Lived in some mountainside village. Grandma had like 6 siblings so they all shared the farm together, so I guess co-ownership. All worked manual labour basically all day. Radio at night was their entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:52 AM
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That's why I said "main" factor. The fact that outlier examples that have to due with health exist is something I am aware of and people in general are aware of. Again, how can you call it the main factor. We have identified 2 factors so far: Desperation for a Relationship, Physical Attractiveness. How do you know desperation for a relationship is a larger factor than physical attractiveness? You don't. You're misunderstanding me. I'm not saying that it is too early to be snatched up at 18. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:39 AM
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I was talking about the regular population I understand, but my point is that there are definitely factors other than how badly a guy wants a relationship which will help/hinder his chances at finding one. Like, I said, such as his physical attractiveness. It's really hard to say "Well, how badly he wants one is the most important factor". For something to be the determining factor, it needs to have over a 50% influence in the result. Who knows, maybe it's 40%, maybe it's 50%, maybe it's 60%. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:25 AM
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Maybe your experience is different, but my grandparents lived on a farm working all day, so I'd take being a wage slave over that, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:01 AM
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I think the main determing factor in whether someone wants to be in a relationships is if he is pro active and wants to be in one. Main? Hard to say, it's usually a mix of his attractiveness, his standards, and how badly he wants a relationship. For example, even if a guy is desperately looking for a relationship, if his standards are unrealistic (to him, a relationship means having a woman who will do anything for him, like a servant), or if his attractiveness is super low (severe birth defect,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:58 AM
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Men tend to be more willing to grind alone or not settle down as fast whereas good women usually tend to not want to be alone. This has nothing to do with the situation we are talking about. We are talking about the number of men who are actively in the dating game, who are both really attractive and actively looking for a long term relationship. These men (the ones who are both really attractive and actively looking for a long term relationship), will very quickly leave the dating game because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:50 AM
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The argument is mainly aimed at women want to find a guy who is really attractive and also willing to commit to them for a long term relationship. If a guy is really attractive, he would have gained the attention of a lot of women, and if a guy is willing to commit to a long term relationship, he would probably find out relatively quickly, and therefore only spend a short time in the 'dating game'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:41 AM
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Your CMV is flawed because you said "There are no benefits to having kids as a women". This can be proven wrong by finding a single benefit to having kids as a woman. Here's one, children can offer lifelong companionship and emotional support to a mother, often to a far greater extent than any romantic relationship could. You can see many stories of a woman's romantic relationship deteriorating to the point that she divorces her partner. But mother-child relationships are far more likely to last…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:41 AM
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The purpose of school isn't to fit in with anyone, it's to receive an education, so why should that stop you from going back to school?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:04 AM
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Like the whole wall concept. That a woman can't be pleasing to the eye beyond 30? 40? 50? Etc. That's not what the wall concept is. The wall concept does not mean that women cannot be physically attractive after 30. It means that men tend to go for women who are under the age of 30 a lot more than they go for women above the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:03 AM
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Social equity is the idea that no matter who you are, your skin color, your gender, your sexuality, or your gender™, you should have the same social opportunities as a white man Sure. That means as a black trans man who approaches a white woman you should be equally as likely to be successful marrying that woman than a white cis man. No. It doesn't mean this. Social equity, despite the words that make up the term, does not refer to equal outcomes in social interactions (such as making friends, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:05 PM
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You make a good point. There is definitely an epidemic of male loneliness, but it isn't because male friendships are lacklustre or anything. A strong male friendship is incredibly positive, but those kinds of friendships take years to build and can be few and far between. Superficial male friendships are definitely not that great. Good to have a drinking buddy, or gaming buddy or sports buddy, but as guys we can't really open up to acquaintances like that. Female friendships are better in the se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:58 AM
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Can't change your past. It sucks that people judge eachother on their past instead of present. But it is how it is. Once a cheater always a cheater isn't strictly true, but people don't care. Once a hoe always a hoe isn't strictly true, but people don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:34 AM
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what memory does it bring up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:14 AM
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Yeah you probably have an intense need to experience the same love and affection you thought you had with ur ex, but because of your experience, it is basically impossible for you to develop newer relationships to reach that level. And this creates a negative cycle. As I said, external things like a therapist, or getting lucky and finding the perfect girl can help you break out. If that's not possible. Then good luck. Just remember. A lot of people have successfully made it, so it's definitely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:04 AM
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Fair enough. Just don't forget, your life is even more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:59 AM
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Then Id suggest taking more serious therapy sessions. I see a clinical psychologist, for example. Therapists are like doctors, sometimes you need a different opinion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:56 AM
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The posts in your profile don't really give me enough detail. But im sure the therapist, over 7 months, gave you more than "just be yourself". For example, did he suggest any stress relief exercises, suggest building stronger family and friend relationships, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:54 AM
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What did the therapist say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:50 AM
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How hard did you try with therapy? Ive gone and so have some people I know and it worked wonders. It wasn't easy stuff either. People I know got rped as kids etc. Came out much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:50 AM
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If that hasn't helped then you might have some trauma or something. Therapists are great with that because they study how the brain works. They might tell you something you didn't even realise, and this can help speed up the healing process.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:48 AM
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Give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:46 AM
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I still can’t move on from a girl from three years ago. Normally building healthy relationships with a new woman helps you realise how toxic the last relationship was. Start building your future. Go get a gf, even a short term casual one, and you can baby step your way towards more meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:45 AM
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the n-count, and more commonly age are just quick numbers that us guys find really handy at making snap decisions about a woman. If a woman tells you she is 60, then no matter what, you are going to make assumptions about her sexual fertility, her youthfulness, what kind of activities she would be into, etc. If a woman tells you her n-count is 1000, then no matter what, you are going to make assumptions about how much she values emotional attachment towards sex, how able she is to enter into lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:16 AM
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Strictly speaking it doesn't count towards N-count. But if you have an N-count of 3 and get trained by 10 guys but with dildos instead of dicks, your N-count wouldn't increase but you'd be considered more of a ho than a girl with an N-count of 4 but they were all long term multi-year long relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:58 AM
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I thought you said "i put in a little bit of effort to become an athlete, which has helped me in the dating game, but I see guys put in 100x more effort than I did, but it didn't help them in the dating game"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:55 AM
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Oh, well in that case yeah of course you can win a game and still see it is as unfair. But your argument about "it's not fair for me to put little effort and achieve more than someone who puts in a lot more effort" but that's nothing unique to the dating game, it happens in sports with taller basketball players having an innate advantage over shorter ones. It happens in the workplace with smarter people having an innate advantage over dumber ones. etc. When redpillers talk about unfair they talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:48 AM
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You said that during college you put effort into becoming an athlete. You also said you see people put 100x the effort that you did. So that means...they did 100x better, like becoming an NFL athlete?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:42 AM
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Happened to me. Had all the signs of ADHD but got straight A's until college cause I happen to be bright. Once I entered the workforce and my work became more mundane I suffered immensely and getting a formal diagnosis and pills basically saved me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:25 AM
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Personally I think he's been unhealthy for society because he re-enforces the whole "Become an alpha male and dominate" mentality, which only benefits really competent guys, and average guys get crushed by unreasonable expectations. It hurts the group but benefits the few. So it's a belief system which I think is harming society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:23 AM
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I see guys who put in 100x the effort and they don't get any dates whatsoever. How do you put in 100x the effort of a college athlete? Like, join the NFL?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:21 AM
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If it makes them feel better, why not. We all have our insecurities, and if we can fix them, then why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:20 AM
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Thanks for your explanation, that makes a lot of sense! I wouldn't be surprised if she literally didn't know the passwords to her own accounts, and he took advantage of that. Yeah this could be it. It's a shame that many marriages have basically one person managing all the money generated by the couple. Of course the idea is that you should be able to absolutely trust your spouse with your money, but when a divorce happens...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/20 03:21 AM
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They had joint accounts and he locked her out If the accounts are held under their joint ownership then both he and she would have control over the cash held in them. It wouldn't be necessary for her to ask him for cash held in the accounts as the OP tweet states. Moreover as a joint owner she should be able to unfreeze those accounts at will.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/20 03:14 AM
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Jay Cutler get to unilaterally seize all of her assets If those are her assets then she should have immediate access to them to pay for the $5 million house and wouldn't need to ask him in the first place. Or am I misunderstanding the situation?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/20 03:06 AM
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