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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | Quenching the thirst!r/whoooosh | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Quenching the thirst!You need Jesus coming in you too | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 02:29 PM |
| -1 | Quenching the thirst!Wait until the second coming of Jesus you will get yours too | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 02:03 PM |
| -4 | Quenching the thirst!You need Jesus inside you | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Advice neededIt can make it easier for her to maneuver on the house. She would have more control. She can make it look like you don’t care. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Advice neededStay, do not leave | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Texas pending divorce, told wife I wouldn’t file as she is the one who wants it and had the affair. Now talking to her friends she wants me to leave the house and thinks the court will make her the primary care? I’m the bread winner she is a teacher (college degree and multiple banking certs)She is a teacher so she makes over the $30,000 threshold so…no they will not | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Texas pending divorce, told wife I wouldn’t file as she is the one who wants it and had the affair. Now talking to her friends she wants me to leave the house and thinks the court will make her the primary care? I’m the bread winner she is a teacher (college degree and multiple banking certs)They are wrong. What I wrote is correct. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Texas pending divorce, told wife I wouldn’t file as she is the one who wants it and had the affair. Now talking to her friends she wants me to leave the house and thinks the court will make her the primary care? I’m the bread winner she is a teacher (college degree and multiple banking certs)Texas has spousal support with very specific requirements and is a no-fault divorce state TEXAS DOES NOT HAVE ALIMONY | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Texas pending divorce, told wife I wouldn’t file as she is the one who wants it and had the affair. Now talking to her friends she wants me to leave the house and thinks the court will make her the primary care? I’m the bread winner she is a teacher (college degree and multiple banking certs)I am in Texas. It is reasonable that you get 50/50, that should be expectation, demand, fight for it, be tenacious It is reasonable that you get to stay in the house. However, one of both of you can fight for temporary orders to remove the other person. Typically the man gets removed because he is intrinsically seen as more capable. Don’t make a stink about the cheating stuff. Texas does not care, the judges who hear this crap all day long do not care. No one cares. What matters is the kid(s) As… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 12:41 PM |
| 4 | Texas pending divorce, told wife I wouldn’t file as she is the one who wants it and had the affair. Now talking to her friends she wants me to leave the house and thinks the court will make her the primary care? I’m the bread winner she is a teacher (college degree and multiple banking certs)Texas is not an alimony state | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Just had a thought after reading the "wait at least one year until after divorce to date"The best part of my divorce is the better relationship I have with my kids. I moved on fast so I know there is a huge desire to date. Just be timid and realize you are more damaged than you think. Own your flaws, own that you are a work in progress, but it is ok to date and start a relationship | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Just had a thought after reading the "wait at least one year until after divorce to date"There is no right or wrong answer on when to date. It is entirely up to you. People are going to find something to judge you about and it might as well be that. I have noticed women in particular being very vocal on when a divorced husband should date. I will say that divorce is hard and traumatic so take time to heal and recover. As you start to date you will realize no one should be passing judgement. They all have baggage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 09:56 PM |
| 2 | 401k Loan during divorceEverything is negotiable. You are asking a question with so little context. If you guys are behaving and being amicable it is probably fine. If you are waging war then no. Ask your lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 08:48 PM |
| 3 | My stbxw was served Last week. What’s next ?Mainly just giving paperwork to your lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 08:40 PM |
| 8 | Advice to men: Don't be fooled, nearly all cases in family court are marriage related. If you don't sign the marriage certificate, there is little chance you will end up in family courtBecause it is a “life-long” legal contract that we allow people as young as 18 and sometimes you get to enter into. When I was 21 I had no legal representation, no experience, no education, and no understanding of the legal contract I was entering into. It is a legal contract that has an entire system of vultures feeding off of it. You can’t tell me in 2023 there is not a better way to dissolve relationships and protect children | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Feel betrayed by my familyI call it the vagina mafia lol. It is tongue-in-cheek but it definitely felt like that. My dad was terrible at being a father and I never missed him after he passed except during my divorce. My brother is a broken sad man. I really could have used a male family member at that time but they were all gone. I muscled through but the V-mafia made it tough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 11:53 AM |
| 64 | 38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need adviceIf you are miserable at 1 year get out | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 11:48 AM |
| 7 | Feel betrayed by my familyMy family went insane(mother, sister, aunt). My mother eventually apologized. It caught me off guard but it should not have because they have always been crazy. I am working on trying to build a chosen family as replacements. I honestly have never had so much peace since the falling out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/23 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Do you have a silver lining?My relationship with my kids has never been better. I demanded 50/50 and live in a no fault state. She tried fishing for using them as leverage in the beginning but eventually buckled (I had to promise max child support). The time I get with them is really some of the best times in my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/23 03:19 PM |
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