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Nah yeah my fault😂I have this bad habit of feeling like we’re all in the same country, and left does mean different things to different countries as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/26 02:51 PM
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Yeah but besides giving men a place to vent the right doesn’t care about men either. Neither side really does. It’s just as men I think we gravitate more towards the side generally speaking that will at least listen to us and not treat us like we’re aliens. I think that’s what lost the left the election in 2024. Every cycle they play on women’s emotions and start drumming up fear in women so they can get their votes and around that time the misandry towards men starts to increase. Like wait unti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/26 01:09 PM
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Because they only care about men when it’s also affecting women. This is my biggest problem with the right. They listen to men a lot more but only to help women. It’s never about helping men FOR men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/26 12:12 PM
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I’ve noticed this. This is why I’ve stopped opening up to them about my personal issues. They’re bad enough where anyone with the slightest bit of empathy would be like holy shit I’m sorry but feminists always in the back of their minds will always believe their situation is worse because in their minds I’m privileged
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/26 12:10 PM
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I mean I’d actually argue that CURRENTLY misandry is probably worse than misogyny. I could get behind the fact that misogyny is worse over the course of history but present day? In the year 2026? The amount of change feminism has caused is astounding. Meanwhile from the individual level, open misandry is literally accepted in society. Women will feel comfortable openly saying and doing things to us that are hateful and won’t even think anything of it. Thats how auto pilot their behavior is. I li…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/26 10:43 AM
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As men sometimes we just need a break from society. We need a good laugh. Been a pleasure working for you bro🙏🏾😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/26 10:34 AM
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I’m probably gonna be looking for a minute bro😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/26 12:38 AM
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I’ve encountered it a few times from the women in my life I care about. Specifically when I got abused by my ex gf and got false rape and DV accusations placed on me. My big sister who’s bipolar along with some other things was ready to take a flight down here to put hands on her since both my ex and my sister knew I would never do it myself. My big sister is one of three women in my life I know for a fact would catch a body for me NO hesitation at all, she’s very protective of me lmao so I knew…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 09:50 PM
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Yeah we can rephrase that term to maybe household or something but you know EXACTLY what I mean
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 09:12 PM
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The in group solidarity part is 100% facts, I find this to be the most peculiar phenomenon from women, they always do this, we’re seeing it now with the Lindsay Clancy case, they are pro women no matter what, even if it means cheering for another women to escape from jail after murdering her 3 children. Never mind the fact she admitted along with her defense she did it….to them it doesn’t matter…it was the dad who did it. They’ll even go to the length of blaming other women for the bad behavior …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 09:11 PM
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I’m gonna check her out, she sounds familiar
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 09:07 PM
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But what if I’m laughing so hard that like I want to stop but I can’t? I feel like both emojis could be used there😂💀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 09:06 PM
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What if I’m literally doing both?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 05:09 PM
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I agree, I’d say most women nowadays will say some misandristic shit even if it’s a slip up at some point because it’s been so normalized in society they don’t think anything of it. In fact they think if you have a problem with it YOURE the problem because “hit dogs holler” I’m adopting this attitude too. The minute I hear any type of misandry come from a woman’s mouth I’m immediately shutting down because I know she’s not safe to open to with any of my problems since I’m a male abuse survivor, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 05:08 PM
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This is a long list, got my work cut out for me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 05:05 PM
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I was getting ready to say this. A lot of people don’t do a truly deep dive on the origins of feminism. When you do you really do find some dark shit. The founders would be proud of the state of men and women today. That’s what I mean when I say it was never about equality. The movement never was born for that purpose. It was literally to destroy the family unit. I don’t say this to sound like a conspiracy theorist or anything but that’s honestly what it truly was about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 05:02 PM
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I’m just looking for hope man😭he took that away from me💀😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 11:48 AM
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He definitely is, deep down I know he’s right and I agree with him, that’s why I busted out laughing when I read his comment💀I just want to find someone who can be the acception to the rule😭💀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 11:47 AM
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I meant to say that, I was just going to work but a shit ton of women were attacking her in the comments, my thing is why did they even allow that to stay up? Tells me they aren’t actively keeping it clean of misandry. I don’t want to see any of that shit, I’m tired of it. If you post anything misogynistic in here or in any feminists space it rightfully gets taken down immediately, that’s cause the moderators here are serious about keeping the space clean of what it is they’re trying to avoid. T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 11:46 AM
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I agree, that’s the general consensus with feminism and a lot of male problems today. From an individual level there are women that do see and care about our problems. There are women that will 100% call out misandry and call a spade a spade. But as far as like the general culture? Extremely hateful
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 11:16 AM
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One of the first posts on there was about misandry not existing and it’s just women being tired of men. Like why didn’t they delete that if it was really a place that’s supposed to be safe from misandry? They not on their shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 11:07 AM
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I was thinking this…like I’ve even tried looking up on ChatGPT specifically feminist channels that aren’t misandrists and when chat gives me the results I’ll go and do my research and the first two videos I watch on their channel I’m like “okay…I might be able to actually get behind this….” The next 30 videos you can’t get past 3 minutes in either of them without hearing some accusatory bullshit towards men. Generalizations, etc. It’s like they’ve become the men they hate because feminism taught…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 11:04 AM
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😭chill💀that’s crazy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 10:32 AM
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Yeah like with any ideology there’s always going to be certain corners of it that are really extreme and they start to infect the rest of the movement when let in and before you know it the entire foundation of what the movement was is gone at the roots, feminism uncensored is garbage now, ask feminists I completely muted as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 10:32 AM
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😭bro has no faith whatsoever
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 10:30 AM
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I don’t think they understand that if they want our help, hating us is counterproductive. They say they don’t but then fail to call out the ones that do because from their eyes “she’s a traumatized women who’s had bad experiences with men” does that excuse anything? Fuck no, I was abused by a woman and I don’t go around saying I hate women….if men like me went around saying they hate women because of our bad experiences they’d lose their minds, but when it’s reverse it’s totally okay?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 10:19 AM
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This honestly sucks cause I’m pretty moderate when it comes to my political beliefs, literally smack dab in the middle, I’d even say there’s about a 70% chance I’m voting blue in 2028 depending on who they roll out as the candidate. If I don’t like them I’ll just sit this cycle out. I love to hear both sides talking points for everything and I feel like feminism does have good points for certain things. But the MINUTE they start getting into men being the fault for everyone’s problems, and start…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/26 10:07 AM
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I don’t mean to sound like a doomer but we never will, both men and women when it comes to bias prefer women, so everything pertaining to their problems, hatred towards them, etc, gets all the empathy. Some women do the blatant levels of misandry we have today for what it is and will call a spade for a spade but a significant amount of them refuse to do this. Same with the men. They’ll use the, “it’s not as bad as misogyny” card. On an individual level? I feel like some people are already waking…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/26 01:19 AM
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Where were you the past day and a half with the guy that kept tryna argue that women are just as efficient in combat as men? Bro really believes this to be the case because of a group of Kurdish women who beat Isis. Never mind the rest of the known world and what we know to be true lmao. I feel the only true fix is to draft congressmen’s sons and have them fight. Not put women on the front lines too because that would only get more people killed trying to prove a stupid point about equality that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/26 05:14 AM
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Aight bruh we’re arguing past each other at this point, not about to waste my time anymore, I said what I said and it’s obvious we don’t see eye to eye, you have a good day man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/26 07:29 PM
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So you seem for some reason, incapable of not being able to understand the difference between capable and optimal. Let’s start there. Capable - having a skill, power, or necessary qualities to do something well Optimal - the BEST,bmost favorable, or most effective result possible Something can have the CAPABILITY to do something but at the same time not be the optimal choice to do something. In order to understand this you need to be able to believe that 2 things can be right at the same time an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/26 01:52 PM
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Youre arguing just to argue at this point because everyone knows the point of a draft. But if you looked at my comments and actually read the post I said while I do not agree with a draft i understand the difference reasons why men are looked at as the tools to get the job done. Doesn’t mean it’s right but men and women are different and as long as that reality exists which will be for forever people will continue to draft men to fight wars. This is why I said that doing away with the draft whic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/26 11:38 AM
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So you support overthrowing the current system? Cause the politicians backing it are the ones that really support it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/26 07:55 PM
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Saying that men are stronger on average means that if you were to pull 100 random men and 100 random women, the male group will possess higher physical metrics. Physical metrics are extremely advantageous in combat situations where life or death is at risk. Showing me an elite group of women who can fight does not change how the math works for the general population. There are other things that go into deciding the winner of battles. Morale, ideology, discipline, and situational intelligence are…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/26 11:04 AM
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No it actually proves the gap is bigger than I was even talking about because the YPJ had to rely on US firepower, drones and modern optics to bridge the gap so that they could stand a chance at beating the men of ISIS. They didn’t beat them in hand to hand combat because they would’ve stood no chance because of what I said earlier about the biological differences between men and women and 2. The change in how wars are mostly fought nowadays. Also I said women are CAPABLE but they are not OPTIMA…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/26 04:45 AM
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It literally doesn’t, my argument is men on average are better at combat than women are because we are stronger, faster, hit harder, more durable, heavier, etc. If you’re one of those people that don’t believe in reality a quick google search will literally prove my point. Nothing was disproven, this is what it says on Google if you search are men better at combat than women “on AVERAGE, men possess biological advantages such as greater muscle mass, higher bone density, and superior upper body s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/26 04:16 AM
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Because I can go where I want? Nobody restricts me in life, and reality isn’t automatically conservative all the time. Just because someone brings up biological realities doesn’t automatically mean they’re right winged dimwits. And you’re arguing the exception not the rule. You’re essentially making the 1 woman out of 1000 women that could be stronger than the average man logic by bringing the Kurdish up. Why is it that not a single navy seal is a woman and has ever been a woman? Why is that the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/26 03:16 AM
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I’m assuming you asked that question cause you were trying ti say that if women were worse at combat we wouldn’t be seeing war period, that’s how I read the question and that’s why I responded the way I did
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 10:51 PM
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Yeah we definitely still would, hasn’t stopped us from getting in any of the wars we’ve ever been in, invading the countries we’ve invaded, etc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 09:42 PM
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I see your perspective but let’s look at it from another because I seriously only posted this for discussion lmao. Let’s say like you said since wars are a fact of reality and human beings will never stop fighting them, that we are about to be deployed to Iran for ground combat. Wouldn’t you rather be surrounded by men who you know would probably give you a better chance at surviving the conflict or on the ground with women who have shown through studies to be a liability in combat because the o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 06:14 PM
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No it’s not that he had a different perspective than me. I’m actually very accepting of other people’s opinions. It’s just that he was saying things like the selective service system isn’t sexist or a good example of misandry in the system because an actual draft hasn’t been used in the past 50+ years and it only would be a good example of sexism if we actually had to use it and our lives were at risk. Never mind the fact that only one gender has to do it. And i think there should be one standar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 03:05 PM
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So you’d be okay with putting women out on the front lines too in the name of equality? Would be a lot of deaths bro
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 03:33 AM
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You’re correct, that’s why I think we should start involving the congressmen’s sons like you said. That’s when they would truly hesitate when the time came to decide for war or not
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 01:24 AM
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The gender differences are so drastic that your most inefficient average man 9 times out of 10 is still more efficient than your most efficient average woman. I can’t get behind that bro, I got a 23 year old little sister and an 18 year old niece for whom I would gladly be lit on fire by a flamethrower if it meant making sure they never had to come near war in their lifetimes. This goes for all the other women I care about in my life. I AGREE with sending the congressmen’s sons though, they’d sw…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 12:00 AM
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They are fought the most efficiently when men are the soldiers because we are far more efficient at combat and violence than women are, like science has shown we were literally made for combat, women were made for child rearing, our genetic makeups are literally built for efficiency in different jobs, that’s what I was tryna say not about the war itself
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 11:39 PM
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What’s funny about feminism though is like the type of behavior and beliefs we’re seeing from women nowadays has been seen before in other great nations in the past. Any time countries get comfortable people get more individualistic and feminism will pop up and make progress during those times. But when wars pop up feminism kinda disappears and everyone reverts back to what is natural for most people and what has been natural for thousands of years because it’s gotten our society to where it’s a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 10:59 PM
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Right like the most realistic thing we could do right now is make things gender neutral because it’s not going anywhere. It’s not disappearing anytime soon. But as long as we only require one sex to be victims of it it’s not equality. So that leads me back to my original point: put women in logistic positions and the men wouldn’t still have to fight. Men would still be getting used as cannon fodder though which is horrible and that’s another problem that wouldn’t be solved either. Not an easy fi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 10:47 PM
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So then how would you suggest we make things equal? Because the women wouldn’t be ideal to send to invade countries, and in a country like the USA it is so unrealistic to just say get rid of the draft even though I wish we could because of how war hungry of a nation we are
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 10:42 PM
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This too
/r/EverydayMisandry15/08/26 07:16 PM
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Yeah
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 06:43 PM
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Why is passive resistance not possible anymore?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 05:43 PM
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One of the best answers in my opinion💯didn’t even think of that, these war hungry politicians that want wars because of the profit? Make sure their son’s names are in that hat with ours. I think that alone is probably the single most effective way to get them to stop starting wars, because they consistently start wars without having to deal with the repercussions of losing loved ones. They don’t have to offer up their sons to die. So they don’t care about what happens to us, only the profit. It’…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 05:41 PM
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So you’re saying we should overthrow the government or something? What do you think is the answer?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 05:30 PM
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I am too don’t get me wrong I just don’t really see how it’s realistic to just do away with it in today’s day and age, especially in the current climate of the world. In December they’re making automatic registration mandatory for 18-26, we continue to ramp up combat in the Middle East because 🇮🇱has us in a chokehold and won’t let go, Ukraine isn’t slowing down, China and Taiwan WILL happen we just don’t know if it’ll be a violent combat operation or not (I’ve heard from several people that ther…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 05:02 PM
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Just because women are capable of combat though doesn’t mean they’re optimal. Can you give a woman a gun and tell her to go shoot someone? Sure. This is what Israel is doing now and has been doing. Are women the best people to use to go fight wars? No they’re not, wars are fought much more efficiently when men are soldiers, societies can even recover from the extreme loss of life a lot easier as well when the men are the tools that are used to fight, it’s so fucking horrible to say but it DOES h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 04:56 PM
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I’m gonna focus on the men’s point because women already aren’t required to do selective service, if they were to reinstate the draft tomorrow, I think they could probably pull a decent amount of combat ready men to fight and by combat ready I mean in shape, regularly active, etc. But I don’t think when it comes to quality they could do something like triple the number of soldiers we have and still keep the same quality that they would ideally want if that makes sense. So selective service from …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 04:52 PM
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I don’t agree, we haven’t had to actually use the draft in 50 + years yet we still managed to get into like 3 of the 7 potential ww3 flashpoints of the world. China and Taiwan which will probably happen as we get into 2030, you Iran and the Middle East and Ukraine and Russia are all happening now. Our government will do whatever it wants, I highly doubt selective service not existing would stop them from getting involved in serious engagements. In fact it’s already been stated as a national secu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 04:27 PM
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Even if this is true these people that are misandrists turn off their phone and then go out into the real world, those will be the ones that continue their misandry in public but hide it in the form of a joke. “I was just joking!” “We’re just venting about our bad experiences with men” so it exists in real life, just hidden and disguised
/r/EverydayMisandry15/08/26 04:00 PM
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I agree but what do we do about it? It is 100% a bodily autonomy issue but the issue is with how many ops we have as a country, and the fact that we have the literal mother of all ops as “our greatest ally🇮🇱” we continuously get into wars we have no business being in. The past like 10 years we have consistently tied the line with countries that could cause huge global scale wars and nuclear armed countries, getting rid of the draft isn’t really realistic when you look at it like our country is a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 03:49 PM
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I would normally agree however this is the most unrealistic fix as our country is always at war and sooner or later will need a draft again if you look at history. History also shows us though that a fix is to extend it to women but keep them out of the fighting entirely that way both genders are forced to serve
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 03:45 PM
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Good enough lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 02:45 PM
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What do you think causes this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 02:09 PM
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The amount of men arguing that we’re exaggerating and only bringing up blatant misandry to distract from misogyny is truly frightening. Like our biggest enemy is truly other men, if we got enough men to say enough is enough and finally change some shit, write some laws to protect us like we do to protect women, we could actually change shit. But nah half of us are too busy pandering to women’s issues which have had all the attention for the past like 100 years while our issues are either just be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 09:30 PM
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And that’s exactly why I checked out, I’m serious when I say the minute I get the slightest hint that this person isn’t here to debate in good faith which most aren’t? I just abandon ship. Especially for certain male specific problems cause I know they’ll end up saying things that will just upset my inner peace. The reality is society is more so set up like the following: your elites that run the world and most of them are a very small percentage of men combined with an even smaller percentage o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 09:14 PM
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It’s funny you say this because I just had a convo with someone and I was trying to say something similar. This other person was a feminist and she couldn’t seem to understand that the men they complain about when it comes to power and wealth are literally the top .1% of men. She literally told me she agreed with my point when I said that most men are not at the top of the totem pole and so most men that you’re going to encounter in life as a woman will be like most of us here. You’re average Jo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 10:59 AM
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Warmed my heart💯🙏🏾
/r/EverydayMisandry13/08/26 12:24 AM
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Number 2 has happened to me so many times that I absolutely refuse to share my experience in any group that I know won’t look at my experience with a good heart, that’s most environments nowadays if you’re a man. So I just sit and watch now. Say little but watch everything. This way I can see the ones that are worth opening up too if I choose to do so. I’m waiting for this learned approach to get me deemed as an emotionally unavailable man next
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/26 10:50 PM
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Only culture in the world that we see this in as well. No other culture has this aversion to men in such a grand scale
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 06:11 PM
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Nope, not at all, like I said since I want a family so I have a plan to counteract all of this and I’m actively working on now. The reason I brought it up is because like someone commented, the 2 are interconnected. In the west more people off putting off marriage and kids till later on in life for career. Both sexes are doing this, I’m a man and I’m doing it as well, however because of the biological clock that women have they have a finite amount of time to find a family and kids unlike we do …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 02:52 PM
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100% true, I don’t have many friends but the ones I do are very close. After I escaped my abusive ex gf and fought literal withdrawal symptoms the loneliness was horrible. BUT, having friends to talk to and do things with? Eased the loneliness feel 100% until I fully healed. I still think about the fact that I’m single and stuff now because I’m human, I want a family, and I do want connection with a woman, but because I have friends it doesn’t feel like it’s the end of the world that it’s not so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 12:20 PM
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It’s coming faster than you think, I’m older Gen Z/ millennial and I’ll be 30 next year, the women my age are going first, I don’t know if I’ll really feel sorry for them though. Like part of me is like I may because they were TAUGHT the things they believe by a feminists that are determined to destroy the family unit, but at the same time the amount of vitriol I see towards us? I’m gonna just put my head down, work on my degree so I can become a digital nomad and get out of here so I don’t sink…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 05:52 AM
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No it’s not bro, theres actually more men that don’t have a single close friend in their lives that they keep in contact with than men walking around without having sex for years. Most people only have sex in relationships, so there’s a lot of women as well that aren’t having sex. They’re just on their boss babe shit thinking it will bring them happiness and for some it will but for most it won’t. When you add in the fact that a lot of male spaces have been watered down and lost completely it’s …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 05:49 AM
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Yes 100% plays a role, this is also why I think depression in women, particularly Gen Z is going to shoot up in a few years. Because once they lose their attractiveness because aging is a natural thing, they’ll notice how difficult it is to find someone and they won’t have that same safety net they do now when they’re young. That’s when they’ll be sounding the alarm for the “female loneliness epidemic” and society will lose its mind trying to fix it in a way we will never see for the male loneli…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 05:31 AM
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This is true as well, Costa Rica doesn’t have an army but we protect them, good take💯
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/26 09:37 PM
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Costa Rica doesn’t have an army, this is actually a fact, you guys are both right, isn’t UNIVERSAL per say but it still affects enough men on this planet where it’s in fact a problem that needs to be discussed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/26 09:11 PM
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You see this with any topic where the focus is men because anytime you do this you’re giving women the perpetual victim card. When men have a problem it’s men that are the reason for it. When women have a problem that too is the fault of men. Any attempt to remove accountability for horrible behavior and individual choice from women will be attempted
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/26 09:09 PM
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This is incorrect, a 15 year old boy could severely harm a 30 year old woman if he wanted to. I’ll never forget the time my mom officially stopped whooping my ass when I was in trouble, I was around 15 and I was a late bloomer with puberty. It seemed like once I got into high school and started football, after a year of weightlifting with the team puberty decided to kick in and I grew about half a foot over the summer and put on like 30 pounds. I was still small though, only like 5’7 130 pounds …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/26 10:50 PM
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Ah yeah I feel you, guess I should’ve clarified first, that way any potential lurkers we could have who still may have had something to say about it have no ground to stand on💯got it, I’ll make sure from now on if I’m ever touching that topic to clarify before I get into it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/26 12:38 AM
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I agree 100%, did I sound misogynistic in a way where like if you were someone trying to intentionally not hear what I’m trying to say you’d easily misunderstand it? Like did the feminine woman part make it sound like we want slaves or something? Genuine question as well man, I’m a very open minded person and I like to take criticism in and use it to help me improve as a person. If there’s blind spots with the way I say something, with something I believe in, etc, I like to be told so I can exam…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/26 07:14 PM
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I would actually say anti men. We’re shamed for anything exclusively male nowadays. Our biological makeup and wiring. Preferences in dating is the biggest one I can think of right now as an example. Men are always going to be attracted to women who are fertile and look youthful. This has been show time and time again. We cannot help this. Yet we are constantly told that if a man in his late 20s wants to date an 18-19 year old he’s a pedophile. That word literally has a completely different meani…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/26 03:02 PM
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It’s funny how they have no difficulty whatsoever acknowledging difference in the genders but only when it benefits them. But if we say something like “men are bigger faster and stronger on average than woman and for that no one wants to watch women sports because the athletes tend to be way better in men’s leagues” all of a sudden it’s a problem
/r/EverydayMisandry28/07/26 02:16 AM
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If that’s what you say🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 03:13 AM
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No I’m not, I’m saying if you took the group of women with high body counts in the USA for example, filtering for women with specific traits like I mentioned earlier would probably automatically filter out a lot of them. You’d then still have some left, and from there it depends on personal preference. Correlation doesn’t equal causation so those women may not cheat on you but they still may be at higher risk because of their past behavior. Just because someone may be at higher risk for somethin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 03:02 AM
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It is not the end all be all but it is certainly a risk factor. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. As far as your last point okay, that’s fine
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:54 AM
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The way our brains are wired, because of evolution, most men look at it as a risk factor, like you’re probably more likely to cheat or end up getting impregnated by another man if you were promiscuous in the past because past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. And I honestly feel that yall shame each other more than we shame yall, we just make our preferences known and if you don’t like that we filter you out and pick accordingly from the ones that understand our preferences and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:47 AM
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I said correlation doesn’t equal causation. And that after you filter out the women I’m referring to, it comes down to the man’s preference, but a majority of men would still be uncomfortable doing that because of the paternity issues. It’s biology and you can’t change that, it’s how we’re wired. There are some that wouldn’t care but that’s not majority. All I’m saying. And what that man would be okay with, what a high body count is, it’s subjective, I’ve been told my number is unrealistic and i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:39 AM
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No, that’s why I continued to repeat the traits that she had. Those specific traits aren’t exclusive to those disorders. There are normal women who have those same exact traits. Those women tend to have higher body counts. Do they make up all promiscuous women? No, BUT they are definitely there and worth filtering out. After that it depends on the man but like someone else mentioned to you there’s also biological and paternity reasons why most men have a problem with their woman having a promisc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:24 AM
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He’s got a point, for example my ex gf was abusive, she had BPD. I don’t know if you what that is so I’m just gonna explain it. BPD is one of the 4 cluster B personality disorders, with NPD, ASPD, and histrionic personality disorder. People in this category CRAVE attention, external validation, and to be wanted by others. My ex gf not only abused me severely, but she even cheated on me as well. She was a mix of BPD with NPD and ASPD. She actually has a history of cheating, and is a serial cheate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:06 AM
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I agree, in the grand scheme of things, when it comes to all our other problems, it’s probably at the bottom of the list of importance. BUT I will say when it comes to picking a life partner it should be considered because the traits that sometimes can correlate with a woman’s promiscuity can sometimes be what lead to our other problems. Family courts because of paternity issues, divorce, suicide, depression and mental health etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 07:27 PM
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Most terrifying thing are the comments, a bunch of women AND men, agreeing with her. One guy said “as a man, this is fine”
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 09:25 PM
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I agree, at least while she heals, I even shared the post with chat gpt and it acknowledged that she’s clearly hurting but there were some things she said that really concerned it. When the guy responded she just said it was a good example of male entitlement, and a bunch of other stuff that you could use to tell that she’s heavily into that radical feminist stuff. She told him “you didn’t message me so that I could reject it if I wanted to” which I can see why she would want that because that’s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 11:35 AM
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There was a post I saw on a feminist page the other day where the OP, who was a women who’d unfortunately been in 2 different relationships with men who abused her severely, and she wanted a “safe space” from men who say they’ve been abused by women because her two abusers claimed that had happened to them before they abused her. A man who obviously hesitated to comment but still did because he wanted to help basically told her that she was valid to feel the way she felt and he understood becaus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/26 10:25 PM
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I saw that, they were stunned, also it’s crazy how this bleeds into AI, I remember one time I was trying to talk to chat gpt about the findings of that study and it said “this doesn’t prove anything about misandry in the USA because this study was done in the UK” I was like it’s a known fact that western anglosphere culture heavily mirror each other, like we all the same cultural issues and problems, we just all sound different when we speak English and have different accents….stop tryna act lik…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 09:17 PM
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It’s like people have trouble holding nuance, especially when that nuance challenges their identity. If their identity is that of a permanent victim and you see the other group as an oppressor and you truly believe this it’s IMPOSSIBLE for you to then be able to believe that maybe we oppress that other group too no matter how hateful we can sometimes be towards them. If someone corners with their own logic this inability to hold two conflicting beliefs and understand nuance makes them visibly un…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 05:04 PM
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Oh nah yeah I understand that size doesn’t correlate whatsoever to fighting ability. Been training long enough to see that time and time again, plus I’m an amateur Muay Thai fighter and Muay Thai specializes in Close quarters, and my boxing is probably my best attribute to my Muay Thai cause I’ve been told that several times by people I train with, BUT like you said if those big guys grab you and your not the best in the clinch?(im OKAY in it but the clinch is probably my weak point at the momen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:05 PM
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Literally what happened, like the original post just said “guy tried talking to me and he asked me “do you always look this nice” I replied with “do you always put such little effort into your appearance?” He looked shocked and slithered away. ALL it said. Implies bro just tried a normal approach. She literally wouldn’t have elaborated had we not came at the fact that she could’ve way kinder to bro because we were assuming that’s all that happened because that’s the only info she gave in the pos…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 08:25 AM
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Men, the movie that came out in 2022. Like every single male character is played by the same actor and they all show different elements of what feminists would have you believe is toxic masculinity. Honestly movies are great way to show misandry is a lot more casual and so lowkey exposed in the daily diet of every westerner that we don’t even know we’re getting it if we don’t know what to look for
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 05:32 AM
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Another good example, I saw on a feminist forum the other day some woman had a man try and cold approach her and she snapped at him and embarrassed him according to her story. This is all she said in her initial post but after people were asking her why she had to be so mean she elaborated 3 days later and said he did say some creepy things to her….she only elaborated after people questioned her because what she said in the initial post made her look like she just wanted to embarrass him. But a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:47 AM
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A lot of women kind of just pile onto trends they see online without identifying with them. I know this because I have friends in different countries, both men amd women and I see their ig stories. Bears actually don’t exist in every country(I didn’t know this lmao, I only learned this when speaking with my foreign female friends). However this didn’t even stop some of them from piling on to the man vs bear trend. I asked them if they had ever seen a bear before and they told me no because they …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:38 AM
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Well mine does acknowledge double standards but it’ll do it in a way that makes me feel bad for noticing it almost, like I was wrong to point it out and be annoyed by it💀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/26 08:10 PM
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Deadass, I thought I was the only one that peeped, the ego on her man…that man dodged a bullet…this is why they say if a woman rejects you don’t take it personal because rejection is just redirection from what was bad for you
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 05:12 PM
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This is true
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 11:35 AM
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I’ve noticed this too with chat gpt. Mine will actually sometimes offer pushback to me but I’ve noticed it will lie if I say something that we know to be true and it’ll try and invalidate my claims by saying it’s just my experience and we can’t generalize even if I say a fact, if it implies that women aren’t like perfect
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/26 11:05 AM
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She edited the post overnight and was like “I’m attractive so I can tell when men actually want to get to know me right away, anyone who is derailing and centering the comment on the male experience will be blocked and reported, etc.” Like bro….the whole point of pushback was to get you to see just because a man comes to speak to you doesn’t mean you have to be rude if you don’t like him back. I literally didn’t disagree with anything else they said in the comments. Feminist are headaches I swea…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 10:59 AM
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The OP literally edited the comment and said anyone trying to derail the convo and center it to the male experience will be reported and blocked…all for basically agreeing with their right to reject men but saying that there’s no need to be rude to people just because you don’t want their attention…you can’t make this shit up bro😭and nah I didn’t get banned yet but I probably will because they apparently been reporting the comment I made about Elliot Rodger when I wasn’t tryna promote hate. They…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 10:55 AM
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They literally reported my comment lmao, yeah they aren’t good people,definitely hate men bro
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 10:46 AM
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Quite literally, they want to complain about incels but then don’t seem to see that by brutally destroying a man for trying to talk to you you may be fast tracking that man into becoming an incel himself by making him depressed, giving him low self esteem, and making him go find answers about his perceived situation.like why hurt that man instead of giving him a firm but polite no, and sending him on his way with his confidence intact so he can still go approach the woman that may say yes? They …
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 06:49 AM
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Fucking disgusting these women are that act like this, and we’re in a time where they’re extremely dangerous because they have so much places to hide since we’re the focus of every bad discussion in society at the moment. They’re lethal asf. Like if I have a son I honestly don’t want to raise him here, we don’t address female bad behavior so they run rampant unchecked and then the good women don’t correct them because women don’t speak up about things especially when it pertains to themselves an…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 01:39 AM
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I’m glad she mentioned TWD because it’s been my favorite show since its inception! Let’s get into it! For context I don’t even watch tv much but I’m a BIG zombie fan, I’m currently on my third rewatch of the show and will be getting into the spinoff series as well. Her claim is men show their nature. She missed the point of the show severely, and Robert Kirkman would be highly upset. The following is a list of female villians in the main show that caused multiple deaths: Alpha, Dawn, Pamela, Lea…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 07:06 AM
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You called it a shit take I’m still waiting on you to answer the question for what I should’ve done instead
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 12:42 AM
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Thank you so much! It’s interesting you’ve noticed too that so many of the men you meet that have stories similar to mine are on the autism spectrum because it honestly is a thing. Like they look at us like prey or something I guess because our social skills aren’t the greatest and we tend to not notice things that neurotypical people would. My social skills are actually a lot better than most would think, but I still lack in some areas and I guess she definitely saw those and exploited them. Al…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/07/26 10:43 PM
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The democrats literally didn’t have a candidate bro lmao what did you expect majority of the country to do?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:01 PM
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Literally contradict themselves every time they open up their mouths to speak and they don’t seem to understand it. And thanks to trumps shenanigans with Iran I won’t be voting for him again so it’s either I vote blue in 28 or I sit out and watch, a lot of people are in my same position so I’m pretty sure dems will get power again in 2028 so they’re gonna get renewed strength
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 03:21 PM
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As a moderate man who voted for Biden in 2020 and Trump in 2024 this is exactly what it is and I’ve tried explaining it to people on the left but they are so far up their own asses they won’t listen. All 3 of your points I see even more so on a daily bases towards myself. Women and men of the left both haven’t been very empathetic about my recent history of abuse from my last relationship when I’ve tried opening up about it. Each time I’ve had my experiences completely dismissed, I’ve had people…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 02:28 AM
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I was actually in that thread, I encourage you to visit it because some fascinating shit happened. I literally was like “that’s just abuse , mental health issues and manipulation, my bpd ex gf used to do things like this regularly. She threatened one time during our relationship that she would kill herself if I didn’t find find her rabbit that SHE lost. In her first relationship, her ex got tired of the constant abuse from her so he cut her off and when she got in contact with him, she proceeded…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/26 07:18 PM
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They say all these in reverse💀
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/26 03:07 PM
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As someone who’s ex gf was and still is highly abusive I REALLY hate when they do this with abusers as well, like I get the reasoning behind it but at the same time that exact reasoning is why I believe toxic women are especially dangerous nowadays because if all the attention is on screwed up men, you give women like her PERFECT cover to hide and continue to do what they do.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/26 02:57 PM
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It’s funny because Kamala Harris in her book states the reason why she lost was because of manosphere content creators. So now it’s like they obviously KNOW the problem but they refuse to address it in an authentic way. Whenever you hear them talk about men and our problems if you listen to what they say it’s always fix the problem so women benefit, it’s never for ourselves. Even for 2028 election you can see this, 2024 showed them that you even though women have serious voting power and are eas…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 02:31 AM
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To your point about Nikki’s feelings being left vague for Bear in the movie the creator of the movie actually did an interview I believe and it’s on YouTube. I saw it a few weeks back. Nikki did like Bear. So the creator was going more for the theme of shoot your shot because you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. But feminists got a hold of the movie and are basically saying “no, THIS is what it’s REALLY about”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/26 07:51 PM
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I agree with pretty much every point you made,however if you do research on feminism there’s a reason why it gets such a bad rep. Its founders were very openly anti male. They’ve been quoted to have wanted to destroy the nuclear family, wanted revenge on men, etc. Margaret Sandler was racist as hell and created planned parenthood to basically only target black communities and the babies. Its origins aren’t as bright as people like to pretend it is. I understand the goal a lot of people in modern…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 07:27 AM
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Wait what do you mean?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 06:19 PM
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I most definitely do understand your point, people who are actually abused deserve that understanding, I think what OP was getting at is people completely look over abuse when the male isn’t the perpetrator which is crazy because female vs male abuse is like almost exactly the same if not worse than the amount of male on female abuse because let’s not forget those are the men who actually reported
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 05:58 PM
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BPD and NPD are both cluster b disorders. Depending on the individual all cluster b disorders bleed into each other. My ex like I said was diagnosed bpd and she at least had narc traits if it wasn’t full on comorbidity. But when you hurt her ego and she felt like she needed to destroy you and she split on you? She started to act more like a sociopath according to chat gpt lmao. Some of the more borderline evil things my ex did to me you could argue are more sociopath like. All the cluster B diso…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 05:38 AM
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This seems like the best way to do it if you don’t want to go through the frustration of dating apps
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 06:02 PM
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Well the thing about abusive relationships is like I believe a good majority of them aren’t one sided, so we don’t know what happened. It could’ve been two sided. Also you have to consider if amber heard truly was of the cluster b those videos you saw could’ve been reactive abuse. Those aren’t the same. My ex did that to me actually. After I was discarded I did a forensic analysis on our relationship and realized we didn’t even actually have any real problems. So to get me to act crazy she had t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 05:50 PM
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I don’t do very well on dating apps, I get matches here and there but they mostly never lead to anything. Bunch of time wasters really, I’ve had hookups off of tinder yes but my point is the type of woman I want is hard to get on dating apps. Diamonds in the rough exist both on online and real world dating but I just have better luck in person cause I have charisma that can’t really be shown through text sadly. I’m not the most exciting texter lmao. But I’m gonna just take the approach you said …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 11:37 PM
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Thanks man, yeah I’m kinda coming to terms with the fact that it might really take a long time to find someone because the current dating market is so full of emotionally immature people both men and women and then people don’t want to take accountability for their bad behavior so if they’re traumatized they’d rather bleed on others than to take responsibility for their own shit and be alone like my ex….smh….i saw an interesting study that actually said online dating actually is a cesspool for p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 09:10 PM
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I know, you got any tips on how to get back out there? Especially when dating is so bad now? I was gonna try finding women in my areas of interest. Like hobbies etc. That way rapport can be built naturally and it’s not forced because I enjoy doing those things already and it’s more genuine. Cold approaching doesn’t really work much because people are so hesitant to talk to strangers nowadays. I remember one time I told a girl at a park in broad daylight she had a nice shirt and she looked at me …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 08:01 PM
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I’ve actually never tried seeing what’s in that sub, thanks for the suggestion lmao I’m gonna go check them out
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:58 PM
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It’s cause they don’t actually care lmao they don’t have empathy because they constantly walk around with a victim mindset. When you put yourself as the victim 24/7 you can literally convince yourself that the group that’s “oppressing you” are inhumane and you deserve revenge. And you can literally shut off your empathy. Thats what we’re seeing here with men. What’s crazy is if you took the same treatment that we get in society and put it on any other group, people would immediately say treating…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:58 PM
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I literally didn’t though! That’s the thing lmao I mostly come in here and just read now, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m over my own experiences so I no longer really need to talk about what happened to me and no longer really need people to listen. I still have trauma and trust issues yes and I’m still fucked up from it but I know that those issues will get fixed to mostly 100% as I date more honest trust worthy women and do a better job filtering like I want to. I have nothing but love in …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:53 PM
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Stalking you on subs completely unrelated? That shits scary….gives off abusive energy too…like imagine wanting to control someone so much that you are willing to settle for it being online having never even met the person. You’ll just settle for stalking them everywhere and monitoring their posts and online activity. Shits creepy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 10:56 AM
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Lmao what’s crazy is didn’t amber heard have bpd too? Pretty sure defense attorney said she had it or something….looks like my point still stands
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 10:53 AM
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You speaking nothing but facts, I got in trouble with them too for trying to point out that certain abusive personality types like my ex or anyone else in the cluster b family will often rewrite the narrative after they discard you at the end of the relationship and blame you for everything. Paint you out to be a demon, etc. So that they can secure their next supply and still look innocent and for that we shouldn’t just automatically believe people when they say they’ve been abused. Unfortunatel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 10:37 AM
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More than likely, however nothing misogynistic was even said, that’s the thing, like they clearly want a group for both men and women to come together that were victims of abuse, I’ll give them that part but the minute you bring up the truth about abuse and how even though it happens to women more, women are pretty much just as bad when it comes to being the aggressor now all of a sudden you’re being misogynistic? Another interesting story I thought of just now, one time on that same sub I got i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 10:26 AM
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As someone who was a victim of an abusive relationship a year ago and was severely depressed and suicidal this really warmed my heart🙏🏾I’m much better now but I still have depressive episodes randomly when I think about what was done to me, self esteem issues as well and I’m just trying to get back to 100% myself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 09:49 AM
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Same, ex gf was diagnosed bpd either narcisstic traits. She abused me in every way possible, cheated, and the dessert was a discard coupled with false rape and domestic abuse allegations. Over a year ago and the trust I have towards people specifically women im not gonna lie has dropped severely in comparison to what it was before meeting my ex. I still judge by individual behavior but it’s hard to unsee in just about every woman out there traits my ex had so I’m just fucking scared to put mysel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:50 AM
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Went through something very similar literally a year ago to the day. Ex gf was diagnosed BPD with narcissistic and anti social traits. Much like your situation she was a completely different person when we met and she was actually upfront and honest with me about her condition. However she wasn’t upfront with me about where our relationship would inevitably end up so I didn’t think anything of it when I was looking up BPD and saw all the toxic coping mechanisms they have. Worse experience of my …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 12:27 PM
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This is actually a solid observation though cause they say that men are becoming more conservative while women becoming more progressive but really what it is is men have actually not moved at all and women are going further and further to the left. This has been shown. I’m more of a moderate now but I used to be a die hard leftie until I started peeping this stuff you seeing now. Next step is you’ll start to see that even women that are center left more so still have harmful beliefs about men t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 02:24 PM
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