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| 7 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doHumans insisting on objectifying each other (based on bogus social norms) is exactly the reason why we will go extinct earlier than physics command. I'm not saying that's necessarily a bad thing, fully depends on the perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel any empathy for men?So you see three people make a misandrist statement and suddenly all of feminism and anything that ever came out of a woman's brain is 100% misandrist? Again: do you understand that there is a -- human spectrum -- ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Do you have the ability of nuance? Of not looking at everything as either black or white? Do you understand the concept of sharing? Because it doesn't look like it based on that comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Yah all good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Do you feel any empathy for men?let us speak on our issues and go against the dominant narrative without canceling us as right-wing lunatics I don't do that. Can't speak for other people as I'm only myself. Humans are humans - they come in all forms. So you'll get as many takes on this as there are women (and men and people at large). It would be most sensible & productive to not shut down a good faith attempt at fighting male-harming sexism. Those who systematically do probably suffer from group polarisation & radicalisation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Kinda generalising here. But yes, sexist tropes that are harmful to men should be fought against. Everyone can (and should) contribute to fighting these. A person capable of empathy should be able to have empathy for those who are affected by these. Studies show women score higher on empathy metrics so it's well likely there is empathy there. Though men should take no issue if women prioritise and spend more energy on fighting sexist tropes that are harmful to women. The asymmetrical nature & or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I know what you mean. You'd have to be slightly psychopathic to not feel the weight of what it means to be human & alive in our day and age. What helps me is focusing on my part in my story. That's what I can control. I want to die knowing I tried my best and am happy with how I played the game. Even if nothing majorly changed overall and I maybe even got played. If every single one of us changes their approach on an individual level, the cumulative can make a real difference. Including who we g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | "Manslamming" is just more gendering a non-gendered issue.when that’s the most easy solution You think confronting and swallowing one's ego is the easiest solution for most people? (let alone having good situational awareness) I do this all the time. Well you're one of the good ones then. Move to my city, you'll be appreciated - by me, at least. So this narrative is just not true in my eyes. It's okay, we all have different experiences. We live in different places with different cultures. The world is not homogeneous. That a group of girls walked up an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?TBF, I think most problems are fixable. But the solution may often require a complete rework of societal architecture which faces massive vested interests. So, agree with you that the likelihood of complete success is not something I want to be looking into as it'll likely disappoint me. However: that doesn't mean we stop -> my comment mostly speaks of Sisyphian persistence (besides the strong ethical imperative). We must continue trying and now. We must fight this not because it is easy or poss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I literally never read this point getting made - yet it's just so true. Condoms are obviously not going to protect male rape victims from unwanted fathering. Vasectomies are a potentially reversible option but repulsive for a lot of people. A quick search gave me these pharmaceutical options currently in the pipeline: Multiple candidates completing early safety tests: YCT-529 (non-hormonal): leading candidate ; blocks a vitamin A metabolite (RAR-alpha) essential for sperm production. Status: Suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I agree with you though and think the mother should lose parental rights as well in this case. Yes, rape often results in orphans. That's just another reason why we need to end rape and end it now. (Also the sex offender would likely be behind bars if the system does its current job.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 02:31 AM |
| 2 | "Manslamming" is just more gendering a non-gendered issue.Coming for the Canadians, eh? Joke aside, I live in a big city (not in Canada ...) and elbow-checking seems to be the norm for every last person and I'm talking male, female, tall, short, young, old, whatever: it clearly has become a sport. City folks can be incredibly entitled and tourists aren't much better here. I almost feel like an idiot always making way for people. What I will say though, if someone does end up moving to give me space, it's almost always a woman (and usually someone who l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?a roman centurion would think differently But should we want to think like them? With that being said, fair & measured take on your end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?The 'heterosexual sex is about a dominant male conquering a submissive female' narrative is a social construct. Men historically held power in almost every way -> these unequal power dynamics often mirrored themselves in private relationships ; the boss & employee dynamic reoccured in households due to the manufactured economic dependence of women. This standard continues to influence how both men and women perceive appropriate sexual behaviour nowadays. This mostly thanks to cultural representa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?Many people in modern times try to detach dominance and submission from actions themselves, There is a need for this. Receiving vaginal penetration is not inherently submissive. If it was, this would make 'made to penetrate' rape claims void by default (void ab initio) as we'd have to work with the premise of the penetrated having been submissive (submission = act of accepting someone's authority, control, or greater strength / giving in). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?Being lied to about something so vulnerable in such a humiliating way would likely play in my mind for a long time. Assuming you meant lying in a sustained way? (as opposed to: it's your first time together and your new partner wasn't satisfied with that first experience and is trying to have a conversation about it) There is a lot of pressure on women to 'suck it up' and 'provide their end of the transaction'. A lot of women unfortunately collapse under it and end up providing validation even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.It would help if mainstream media would stop with it's narrative "self-fulfilled single women"/"desperate single men" and highlight som contented single men Fully agree. Maybe you're hinting at abolishing the social construct that is compulsory sexuality. Doing so would remove sexual activity from 'success metrics' (which are themselves all very ethically questionable). The MSM caters and placates to women because those are the remaining paying subscribers, I suppose. I think there is some of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.If you are unable to obtain something that is not owed to you or a birthright, it may not be your fault, but your response is your responsibility. Goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Condoms should be illegalYou know you could be doing productive stuff that meaningfully contributes to your life instead of making brain-dead rage-bait posts on reddit to entertain yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:06 PM |
| – | The rise in single males is caused by women only wanting to date married men.When was the last time you saw an actual honest and open "debate" on here anyway? This subreddit is just a thinly veiled excuse for the refugees from FemaleDatingStrategy to shit on men... Yeah, fair. Though from what I'm seeing it seems it's both sides of the coin converging to this sub to scratch & screech at each other. Maybe that's just what you get when you create a 'gender battleground' on a platform like reddit. So, I guess you're just pointing out the obvious I've been a little too reluc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | The rise in single males is caused by women only wanting to date married men.All goodies! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.Through manipulation of reality you can turn anything into whatever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:10 PM |
| – | The rise in single males is caused by women only wanting to date married men.Quiproquo. That other commenter isn't seemingly weaponising a myth, they effectively are. My comment was (unsuccessfully) trying to wittingly show support for your point ; regardless, I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:09 PM |
| – | The rise in single males is caused by women only wanting to date married men.And it seems *is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:35 PM |
| – | The rise in single males is caused by women only wanting to date married men.Also this entire post is entirely in bad faith. It's self-evident this is not the driving cause besides both men & women experience more single-dom. Albeit disproportionally for the youngest age group due to: women typically dating older than themselves and young men not wanting to date older but also not having many remaining options since younger than them means ... children ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:32 PM |
| 8 | Women should chase menI mean the entire post is just filled with anger. Somebody needs to work on their emotions and calm down before trying to come to conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.You know, being hateful reduces your life expectancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.The difference is that patriarchy makes 'manhood' of substance in the first place. You are a person. All you need to do is: be a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a man who makes less than you?🙌✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Hybristophilia contradicts hypergamyThe women falling in love with Ted Bundy are attracted to his perceived ability to protect them. Aren't we mind reading a little here? For all we know said woman could have had an ex that she misses and who looks just like him. There will be just as many reasons as there are interested people. Chances are, these people themselves wouldn't have been able to properly explain why they find that person attractive. It's also most likely related to that guy's appearance and media presence + the intell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Why don’t women get guns?And carry a reminder of danger at all times? How could that improve your sense of safety if it forces you to think about the danger you're trying to forget or feel better about? Also the rate of self-inflicted accidental gun injuries is not to be ignored and a gun can easily be taken from you and turned against you. Also brings about the risk of hurting someone when using a gun was not justifiable. For similar reasons, I don't keep a lion in my backyard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Would you date a man who makes less than you?My goodness, sorry to read that :/ but sounds like it somewhat worked out for the better now? Also wanted to say: great user flair! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.monks or anyone from having merely subconsciously forced themselves to be at peace with the unchangeable Okay I'm going to read through the lines that this is not what you think being a monk is about but just a point you wanted to make. The most obvious ego preserving path is to make that your entire life. In any other facet of life, this would be correctly identified as a mechanism I think that would be obsessive and count as rumination honestly. If I had a child and that child was murdered, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.You're kind of implying that aromantic asexuals and monks & scholars who live a life of voluntary celibacy are ... missing a core part of humanity? Not genuine? Not that I'm suggesting it's the solution. Are you suggesting the only solutions are to ... sulk? (as that other commenter said) Or violently take control of the situation I guess? What about people who lose the ability to have sex? Or connect with people enough to realistically attempt a relationship? People in prisons? What should they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.M'yeah, situation's not great, innit? What do you think would help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministWhen one side is suppressed from criticism a while another side’s messaging spreads both online and offline without resistance, you don’t reduce issues. Nobody should be exempt from criticism as mentioned before. Agreed that doing so would mean we are ignoring a part of the problem. Though maybe, based on systemic inequality, the more guilty group shouldn't be schooling the less guilty group about something (misogyny) that disproportionally hurts the less guilty group. Yes, on an individual leve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministThat’s where I push back on the idea that social media doesn’t matter because it’s not the majority of society. Possibly I wasn't clear in which case my bad. What I meant was directed to you: that you shouldn't buy into social media talk because it's not unbiased & reliably accurate or ethical. But fully agree with you that some amount of people do buy into social media talk. I have the same advice for them. Do people absorb social media propaganda at a huge scale? If so, we need to prepare for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.it's wise for a man to shut up, before he's branded an incel per default I feel so conflicted about that. I think this is also heavily American just like the incel phenomenon itself. There are many cultures where men don't get judgement for being vulnerable. America has built this stoic man stereotype but it doesn't help anybody. It's clearly problematic to not process negative emotions. Unfortunately the incel movement is so toxic for men at large and their image ; I find that tragic. A small g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministOkay, so: Do you believe humans are social creatures and can exhibit tribal behaviors even against logic? We all have instinctual impulses. Some are good, some are bad. Is it possible to act against them? Really depends on the impulse but those that involve enough time to self-reflect and analyse do provide you with a choice. If you are 'sound of mind', from there on, you have a level of moral responsibility. Though social pressure is non-negligible, would you join in on female genital mutilatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:47 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministwomen have a higher in group bias someone needs to explain that certain things they do is wrong regardless Women can do that. They can self-reflect and analyse their beliefs & behaviours regarding sexism against women. It's their responsibility to do that anyway (and I would agree with you that like most men, most women have not been doing enough in that regard). This just like men can self-reflect and analyse their own beliefs & behaviours regarding sexism against women - though the systemic in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:21 AM |
| 20 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.Looking at this solely through a gendered lens is a little strange. Rejection is difficult for anyone. It can potentially impact anyone's mental health. It can potentially make anyone feel: less valuable, less worthy, less successful, less whatever they think they should be. I don't think the claim that women get rejected less in a society with fairly equal gender distribution (like most of the US) is fair. Overall Rate: Approximately 42% to 44% of U.S. adults are unpartnered. Gender Split: Wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:04 AM |
| 3 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministI’m not sure how fair it is to snipe men from participating in a discussion that’s still technically about them. No, I'm not saying that. Men have to be part of the conversation. It's more about the way in which they do this. Men are best placed to explain the internal issues within the male group and educate each other for example. But perhaps their position for explaining the internal issues within the female group and educating women is poor. In terms of systems that’s gonna make men feel mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:42 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministI never said it was increasing for men as a whole. If anything I said it’s increasing for some which is true but not the majority as it was in my preface. Yeah, fair. Also men now didn’t create this society so men pointing out bad practices of the people who want to get rid of patriarchy yet enforce it is very fair. Most men do contribute to a sexist society (consciously or not). Actually, so do most women. The problem is just that pervasive and insidious. Creating the idea that men cannot have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | You should have to be sexually active or trying to be sexually active with the opposite sex to post or commentSorry but isn't OP basically claiming that this entire subreddit is only about sex? Thus potentially implying that men & women can only (and should only) interact in a sexual way? Thus potentially labelling themselves as just not well versed in basic sociology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Question/challenge for all (there's no flair for that sorry)yet some absolute fools seem to need to be told this over and over, which is very frustrating to actual smart people. Welcome to reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministYeah, the sexist trope has done damage on all sides. All sides exhibit misogynistic beliefs & behaviour to some degree. It should be corrected for all. Accountability for misogyny must be universal to be effective. It makes sense therefore to point this out on an individual level in people who aren't heterosexual males - as well. Though heterosexual male groups pointing the finger at any other group regarding misogyny would remain politically charged because of the historical power dynamics invo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 01:58 AM |
| 1 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenYes, but so are many liberals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:42 AM |
| 3 | If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that.And they may not make the same choice in every circumstance with every other person. Yeah sure. I mean people change or are indecisive about who they want to be. That's fine and my comment wasn't going against that. Nobody is expected to forever label themselves one thing. You can certainly take a different approach based on the relationship you enter one by one for as long as it is sequential / doesn't overlap without agreement. What I meant was: if you are someone looking for monogamy and life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | If you don't want to be exclusivity with a person, then you don't really like them.My point is that there shouldn't be an expectation. Do you mean that nobody should be monogamous? I meant: if both agreed to be exclusive, there would be an expectation for the agreement to be kept. If not kept, that's betrayal. Unless you meant that there shouldn't be secret expectations. That, I fully agree with. I don't see why you'd bring a person around to family and friends when you haven't even established a relationship yet Yeah, agreed. Brought that up because OP mentioned it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:22 PM |
| – | The "she provoked me" trend where women try to prove dogs have more self control than men is just another man hating campaignYeah, tiktok isn't exactly a source of wisdom, knowledge or quality data ... At best, it's silly kids trying to fit in or play the algorithm which is probably very gender debate wired. There is growing awareness of sexism and it's pervasiveness & detrimental impact but that shouldn't translate into some kind of overgeneralised gender mockery. No hard data seems to suggest that there is a genuine threatening man hating campaign. It's a social media buzz at most. Though it's likely the incel movem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenConservatism or capitalism? Only one of the two is truly fully against human welfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:08 PM |
| 6 | If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that.People should just be upfront on day 0 if they are polygamous or monogamous. Both parties involved. Talk about and if it works out, continue. If it doesn't, move on. It's so simple, the majority of people off the internet have figured it out ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want.I mean, simply, OP needs to decide what it is they want from a relationship and then look for that and stick to their criteria. Any concerns? Talk about it. No reasonable possibility of resolution? Leave that person and move onto the next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want.I don’t understand who these posters are talking about. Yes, reddit and redditors do not really reflect real life it seems. There is a plethora of sensible people out there (of any gender) able to be mature and humane enough to only have children with sufficient legal protection and a true wish to commit to parenting for life. Not everyone is a narcissistic sociopath but reddit will disproportionally cover that topic probably because: people tend to be more vocal about the negative and reddit is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | If you don't want to be exclusivity with a person, then you don't really like them.I mean, people can be non-monogamous. Psychology says it's not the healthiest but people should be able to do what they want provided it doesn't hurt others. So that's totally fine for as long as both parties know about it and agree to it. And that applies also if someone is 'whatever' and just goes with the flow. Not sure what OP meant but if the expectation of monogamy is there but not honoured, that's betrayal of course and unethical. So, boils down to the two people involved: them being hone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseLook, I hope you're happy and won't ever hurt anybody even with that thinking. Merry christmas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseOkay, like that other person pointed out - you have tunnel vision on this one. In all countries that are not the US (96% of the world): stats are very asymmetrical at women's expense. This is almost the most important point. In the US (4% of the world): slightly more men report experiencing non-severe violence which is at most a push/slap (5.9m vs 5m) whereas more women report experiencing severe violence (3.9m vs 3.5m) -> and this gap is only possible because the US has guns thus 'levelling out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingYeah, self-reflection at large is the most basic skill to have and a fair amount of people seem to be lacking it. The concept of league which is almost exclusively North American is pretty cringe & reductive but maybe a more wholesome & productive way of putting it would probably be 'know your worth and treat yourself with respect'. But anyway, I agree w you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?Very mature & constructive comment, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?Nobody should be divulging private sexual/intimate information about a specific person to other people without prior consent as a matter of ethics. Goes for both genders. This seems to be a big culturally accepted thing in America. Many European countries heavily frown upon this. A lot of countries also have legal provisions for this. Ethically speaking, she should not be complaining to others about her partner's performance just as much as he should not be complaining to others about his partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:02 AM |
| 7 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingOP is going for a looot of generalisation here. Everybody (so all genders) should be treating themselves with respect and care. That does involve surrounding oneself with people who fit with that aim. It's also an instinct for many (not all), to some extent. Applies heavily in romantic relationships but really, any optional human interaction. I'm sure both genders are guilty of having unreasonable standards, at times too high & at times too low. But there should be a minimum: walking into an abu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 13 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenThis. Very well put. Research apparently claims women are statistically a bit more selfless but honestly, as a woman, I don't think that should matter. It's hugely cultural anyway. The US is known for its individualism for example. You treat someone right, you should expect to be treated right in return if you have that relationship going on. If that doesn't happen, then talk about it. If you don't see resolution as reasonably possible, move on. For strangers, you can never expect anything. It b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseYou've been called out by me and others for exhibiting confirmation bias syndrome. Just don't take that into any class or workplace as it won't serve you well. Like the stats you just linked that show equal rates (with men actually being abused slightly more) that you now say “makes no difference”? One last time: all the stats I gave you put together = men exhibit more IPV than women - and this, in the country with the smallest gap on earth. (there is still a gap for non-severe violence, that ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discoursewhy didn’t you include the part literally right before the severe physical violence stats that shows 5.5% of men reported any violence compared to 4.5% of women reported any violence Because it makes no difference. We’re currently hashing out whether or not DV is equal, not the impacts. The impact is almost the most important bit. If nobody suffered from violence or if everyone even enjoyed it, violence wouldn't be a problem. I’m just trying not to get roped into red herrings There is no red her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseDid you just ignore absolutely everything else to feed into your confirmation bias? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseGoing along with all the rules you made up: Your country has a national survey looking at intimate partner violence (which does include MTP, psychological violence, etc.). The 2016/2027 report is out, the 2023/2024 report is in process. It seems in relationships, men & women exhibit roughly the same amount of psychological violence which is to be expected. When it comes to physical violence in relationships, it remains asymmetrical if we look at: - severe physical violence (anything more than a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourse1/ DV is a small snapshot of men-driven harm. The vast majority of lives - through human history - that were unnecessarily taken by a human, were taken by a man. War is a man's game. 2/ I'm from the UK: As of 2025, 30.3% of women and 21.7% of men in the UK have experienced domestic abuse since age 16. 72.1% of domestic abuse-related crimes involved female victims ; 90.9% of domestic abuse-related sexual offences had a female victim ; 69.6% of domestic homicide victims were female, and the vast m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they sayWe are all using “false” to mean actually false, not “unproven”. It's incredible you are everyone. You even used the words "malicious" and "fabricated". Now that is factual for once. That does not change the fact that you are making contradictory statements about the rarity of "malicious" and "fabricated" false accusations. With this, are you stating that the absolute statistics of malicious & fabricated false accusations are unknown? If so, On the one hand, that's the case for most social & cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".I guess we all have to learn the basic life lesson at some point: better alone than in poor company. Applies to all genders equally. Ideally one would learn it from their parents day 1 but not everyone is blessed with good parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:33 AM |
| 2 | What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they sayAnd philosophy and ethics and the list goes on. There is knowledge, know how, know that, know why and then there is know how to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseWell, as you speak to someone who doesn't even believe in or care for modern-day politics regardless of the inclination ... Simply put: Person on person: everyone should be accountable for everything. Gender is irrelevant. Systemically: you need to acknowledge critical theory findings in the scenarios you have laid out here because these are not equivalent. So the perceptive bias you describe is likely, partially fair. Systemic analysis is to some extent a shortcut and will always be partially i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 11:43 PM |
| -1 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".A dead bedroom is better than a dead woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseOP, you've got it backwards. Everybody is up for ethical scrutiny. Everyone, all the time, with every step. But the more frequently offending party will get the ethics finger pointed at more often. And that's what you're observing. But this goes both ways, though, not always. At times, trying to correct imbalance leads to the balance tilting the other way. That's problematic as well. Though, this is not in effect most of times. For example, when someone says that older men who specifically seek … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 10:57 PM |
| 4 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingMaybe people should apply critical thinking skills and see that experiment for what it is: A false dichotomy & illogical thought experiment that should remain a conversation starter but instead has turned into a polarisation and rallying tool for misogyny. What happened to having actual conversations? (instead of radicalising brainrot tik tok trends ...) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyFlair makes sense. Was being sarcastic (almost). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:41 PM |
| 3 | What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they saymy frustration is really with the outcomes of badly applied statistics Right there with you. Can we imagine for a second what the world would look like if everyone was mostly logic-wired and focused on science, reason and numbers? Crazy stuff. Current research suggests that between 90% and 95% of human decision-making is driven by emotional and subconscious processes (Zaltman & Shiv - Harvard Business School). So there's that. Most people have agendas based on emotions (and not logic). Not infre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Age gaps can have a power imbalance that favours the younger personThe younger person (usually female) ends up cheating or leaving infidelity is very common, and many times the older partner accepts it Would you have quality stats to back this up? But as these relationships progress the power imbalance reverses. Not sure what you mean to say here. If according to your logic, the youngest is exploited at first until the exploitation reverses at the oldest's expense -> nobody truly benefits because it's a toxic and coerced relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallywhen the dust settles What dust? Are you referring to: fine particles, acid rain, black carbon, micro-plastics or something else? I definitely would love to know what the dating scene will look like once all of that has finished precipitating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:04 PM |
| 9 | What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they sayWell put. Though, with This reflects a misunderstanding of both legal standards and statistical categories. you might be overestimating what the average reddit Joe is capable of or how pure their intentions are. Plenty of people just don't understand complex stats or words. And then there are those who just don't care to be truthful or accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Bro, you're advocating for something that is inherently not health augmenting and likely the opposite and you expect people to think that's a very sound & intelligent message? What planet do you live on?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:49 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"If you think drugs are the right way to have a good time, enhance your 'performance' or bond with people -> something is wrong with you. From a medical perspective, experimenting with a substance even just once is classified as substance misuse and always reflects some amount of inappropriate and maladaptive thinking patterns (even if mild). Doesn't sell me any dreams. For me, smells of weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .That argument is very frequently made. One of the main criticisms of passport bro culture for example. You just don't roam where these discussions happen. Also you didn't reply to that person's comment, you just pointed the finger somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Unfortunately, they are a part of society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .I mean OP is claiming that there are about as many women who like much older men than there are women who prefer men their own age without any stats to back this up. And proceeds to claim that women who oppose wide age gaps are just frustrated. As a rule of thumb: it is not a reasonable hypothesis if it has no stats or fundamental truths to back it up. OP completely jumps the gun to essentially share a personal belief without providing rationale or making a logical deduction. The current makeup … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Too many weird things in that case. I'm sure lawyers will be scratching their heads. As a woman who cares about women's welfare I can say: no one should ever record something like this or upload content like this online. Doesn't matter what genders are involved. It's simply not humane management of the situation. I feel like that's pretty clear cut and I can't see the doordash employee not getting charged for this for as long as there is enough evidence. The more debatable points are about the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:47 AM |
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