| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 102 | Something I can never get past | ThrashMetalHooligan | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 05:02 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Something I can never get pastIt’s possible that the stress of your marriage was contributing to your bad health. Stress releases so many harmful hormones into your bloodstream. Now that you’re divorced I bet you feel so much healthier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Something I can never get pastHow’s everything with the cancer? I hope you’re doing ok. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 01:19 AM |
| 2 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsI love all of your suggestions. I’ve been practicing Muay Thai and boxing for close to 10 years. I’ve competed in an amateur boxing, MT, and kickboxing fight. Although all my fights were close, and everyone I fought against said I was a ruthless little cunt, I went 0-3. So I gave up my dream of becoming the oldest junior middleweight boxing champion of all time. I still practice 5-6 days a week and teach boxing some days. I got to blue belt in JJ, but it was too hard on my body. I kept getting n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Something I can never get pastForgive but never forget. Forgiveness means letting go of your own negative emotions. They only hurt YOU and cloud your judgement. Stoic. Strong. Ruthless. Unaffected. Unbroken. I live by these 5 words every day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Something I can never get pastWas she cheating on you? If so I’m sorry. I can’t even imagine having to process that while grieving your father. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Something I can never get pastI was a true believer in marriage and family until she started perimenopause. I wouldn’t trade my kids for anything. But I am right there with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Something I can never get pastAnd I would be willing to bet that it didn’t match the situation. Meaning it wasn’t truly justified by any reasonable standard. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Something I can never get pastThanks for the kind words. Username checks out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Something I can never get pastI’ll keep that in mind when I start dating again. But I’m definitely going to take at least a year. Maybe more. There’s something beautiful about a well maintained older woman. Emotional maturity. Life experience. Financial stability. Credit score in the 800’s 😍🍆! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Something I can never get pastThanks that helps a lot. We have to own our behavior. We have to be able to admit when we are wrong. But we have to understand the difference between what we can influence and what we can’t. Sometimes our actions can cause others to treat us harshly. And sometimes we can do everything right and people are just ass holes. I own my mistakes. I would never claim to be perfect and blameless. But I never did ANYTHING to deserve being treated like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Something I can never get pastMy fuckin god! She chooses to be nice to everyone but me. What an epiphany you’ve given me. Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Something I can never get pastI don’t know if she was a good partner before and she turned into a garbage human being. Or if she was always garbage and I just didn’t see it. That’s one of the only things I can’t wrap my head around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Something I can never get pastFuck | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 03:02 PM |
| 3 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsI’m saving this post just so I can reread your comment in a couple months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:56 PM |
| 9 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsI will NEVER date another woman without finding out what their attachment style is. If they are avoidant, and not actively working on it in therapy, and not willing to take responsibility for her decisions, run as far away from them as you possibly can. Invest in some bear spray. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:53 PM |
| 10 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsThanks for the encouragement. I haven’t filed yet. I took this week off to get all my affairs in order and separate our finances. Going to hopefully have a consultation with an attorney through my EAP next week. Find out what my best course of action is. I don’t have an exact timetable for when I want to file but I’m hoping in the next couple weeks. I plan to take at least a year to work on myself before I even consider dating. I want to be financially independent and in a position where I don’t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Something I can never get pastIf they ever invent a Time Machine, im going to go back in time and $&ll every mfer responsible for the creation of TikTok. I think it was invented by our enemies to destabilize our civilization by destroying the nuclear family. I don’t care if I get called a conspiracy theorist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Something I can never get pastThank you kind internet stranger. That’s more than I’ll ever get from her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Something I can never get pastThanks. I agree with everything you said. I feel like someone who’s been in an alcoholic stupor for the last 3 years. In the last month I’ve had my moment of clarity. A switch has flipped. I’ve never felt stronger, more ruthless, unaffected or unbroken in my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Something I can never get pastThanks bruv. I’ve been struggling to save my marriage for a couple years. But in the last month something in my mind has clicked. There’s just too many details to get into. But a switch has flipped. And she’s about to find out what a ruthless fuckin cunt looks like. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 12 | Something I can never get pastFuck her. I don’t give a fuck why she turned into the piece of shit she’s become. Some behavior is inexcusable. Empathy is not an emotion. I can look at a complete stranger and understand on an intellectual level, what they are going through. I empathize with every person I come across in every day life. Understanding what someone is thinking and feeling helps me to better formulate my own thoughts and to respond to situations in the best way possible. I empathize with my wife. I understand that… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 11:58 AM |
| 22 | Something I can never get pastThe day my dad died, I was eating lunch at home. My wife was on a shopping trip with some of the hags. Spending money on schlock we don’t need and that I asked her not to spend. Not that we couldn’t afford it, but why squander money? Even if you’re Bill Gates. The nurse called me and said “Thrash, I think you should get here soon. Thrash Sr isn’t doing too good.” I don’t know why, probably denial, but it didn’t register in my brain that he was dying. I took my time and finished my sub. I wasn’t … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Something I can never get pastFuckin Slayer! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 10:45 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter