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Try running. Occupy your mind and don’t let it run wild... Wake up early and have a set schedule. Work towards cooking better or just new recipes... Google up new words every day and try remembering.. Read a book and... Try healing... Try focusing on what’s to come and not what it was... My mom used to say... What is yours is put aside. I had a guy I loved for 5 years and have never told him, and I thought he was the love of my life. Now... Years later, my happiness lays elsewhere. I’d say to fo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/21 08:16 PM
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Usually... I’ll be on the side of communication... Of how you need to talk to someone to improve your relationship and grow together as a happy family. What I see here, it’s him trying to get validation from someone else that he is always right, in every fight. It’s the way he was raised and he won’t change... Respect isn’t taught, respect is earned and if you don’t have his after so many months, when will you have it? To me... He looks like he is not only looking to seek validation for his wron…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/21 08:19 AM
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Is she taking any medication? Usually birth control pills can be a cause of this. Maybe try switching to other method? If not, then you both are in different places in your lives and although I am pro trying again to see what you can fix, if sex is really important for you, then it’s time to move on...
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:51 PM
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Hey... I’m sorry for what you’ve been through... I was once in your place, I was away and I couldn’t do anything about it, just financially supporting everything....What you can do for them is make sure they know you care about them. Your dad might go into depression, sure. But make sure you’re the reason he might wake up every morning... If you want him to recover, therapists suggest sometimes giving them a new interest/hobby or... A pet. I know it sounds bad but giving them a reason to wake up…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 08:50 PM
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For Christmas I have sent my mom a card with a small poem made by myself. It made her tear up. It’s not the first time I’m doing it. Now every year she’s expecting poems on her birthday. If you’re not too good at them, you can always ask a friend or your partner for ideas and help.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 12:57 PM
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As a person who’s missing church groups and interactions among church people, I understand your point of view. I think that an hour a week or two hours a week couldn’t hurt anyone if you went to a church and took part in a women group. Maybe you can discuss with your husband about your feelings. That doesn’t mean you’ll put your feelings over his but more like making him aware of your situation as well. He could be so focused on his work problems and trying to be a good provider that he might ov…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 12:37 PM
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That I do know. Do they know it too? No.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/19 06:16 PM
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Also in UK feminists want to erase the word “gentleman” from dictionary just because women can be gentle too. Not all they say is valid. And even if it’s valid, sometimes it’s silly or illogical.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/19 03:21 PM
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I’m in the verge of moving soon too. I have moved a couple of times in the last 2 years but not with my SO. The first time was so stressful and I left things on the last minute. Now I have the things packed up quite early because in the previous weeks you’ll be more worried about shipment, where to find containers and so on. And for sure you’ll lack something, it always happens. The point is... If you can eliminate stress, do it!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 04:22 PM
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How did you know it was time to move on? I mean so many years with someone makes the habit so much bigger and your own little bubble more comfortable. So how do you say stop without feeling you have done the wrong choice?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 12:49 AM
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Well, considering you are in a LTR and not a hookup, that means that the relationship is serious. If it wouldn't, then you wouldn't get a girlfriend and just fuck around whoever you can. And yes, I was talking about not telling a woman(who you already know she agrees to the idea of having kids At Some Point) of your idea and actually putting your idea into practice, might feel like betrayal for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 04:10 PM
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As a woman I would feel truly betrayed. Honestly I think a person who really wants kids and one that doesn't shouldn't stay together. If now the importance of this matter doesn't really stand out, in the future it certainly will. I just turned 25 and I already feel like my clock is ticking somehow. If my boyfriend would do this to me, I would feel like I have waisted a lot of time and invest lots of feelings in someone who didn't really deserve everything if he didn't even have the courage to te…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 03:00 PM
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I don't either but I do know people who love themselves in spite of all the flaws they have. Or at least they say they do. You never know what to think with people. If you like yourself with zits on your forehead then there's a big chance you might actually love yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:37 PM
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What do they do then? Laugh about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:28 PM
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Might.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:28 PM
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We all are lovable to the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:14 PM
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Well, they take their mediocrity as intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:14 PM
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I hope you don't. We all have flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:12 PM
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We all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 07:32 AM
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True. Even yourself, you don't love yourself for who you are. You love yourself only for your good sides. If you would saw what a lying ass you are, how average-minded you are and the intelligence you try to convince the inner you that you have more than your brain can physically do, then you wouldn't love yourself. We all see ourselves more beautiful than we are, smarter, etc. and we love ourselves based on those illusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 11:22 PM
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Yes, there are those girls who f*ck the whole football team but when they want drama, farting fake glitter and shit out their mouths about guys who "raped" them is easier always. And because of it, some innocent guys get jail time just like that. It's sad and scary at the same time sad to think that at some point someone's son could be one of this girl's victim.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:31 PM
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I(F) was actually talking to a coworker(F) today and we were both discussing that campaign, #metoo, where people admit being abused. I somehow think it's all levels wrong. This is not the way to do it, this is only attention seeking and as a woman, seeing it from other women makes me feel sick. What are the authorities there for then? Society shapes the way we think and if they say we should make out of our whole life a drama and be pitied, then that's what people do. The sad part is that the at…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:37 AM
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I think it's only natural that if you ask something from her, you should give it back too. Yes, she should shave as a woman in order to be cleaner, but it's just not working for you to ask and give nothing in return. Taking always without giving won't work. If she will do it then you would be an ass and trick her into not doing it, be sure you will not get another one. And surely you WILL want another one. As a woman, I wouldn't even consider it if it wouldn't be from both sides. I also wouldn't…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 09:57 AM
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Well, from a woman's point of view, yes. She is attracted. If when she's drunk she complains about things you do, be sure she had them in the back of her mind even if it might be a possibility that she doesn't know it yet too. I say she is into you because: -She kissed you. -She looks at you sneakily( there are also some body language signs to see if a woman likes you when being in a group than the ones you mentioned but I'm pretty sure if I will tell them to you, the answer will still be yes) -…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:00 PM
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You just have to decide what you really want from her. The rest is simple.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:09 PM
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And? Are you willing to take the risk?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:39 PM
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The thing is, will you be able to be with her? Will you get over the fact that she cheated her boyfriend for you and that one day you might just be in her now boyfriend's place?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:55 PM
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As a woman, I see it from another point of view. I have also lost my virginity pretty late. I loved a guy for 5 years and I never told him. Relationships were never my strong point, I had my first real good kiss at 23, last year. I always thought the same thing, that guys are all the same, I didn't want to fall in love anymore, I wanted to be left alone rather than try all over again to a new disappointment. What I tell you is to be natural. Many men pretend to be other people and women can feel…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:55 AM
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I actually said the same thing to my boyfriend. He is not skinny but not fat either. He said he should do more exercise. Now the thing is that I didn't stop him but I obviously told him that I don't see him fat as he sees himself but normal. I would like him to know that I would love him in any shape and size because I fell in love with his mind and heart first and then of his body. I want him to feel special so I told him that if he is trying to lose weight for me, he shouldn't do it. The thing…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:51 PM
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Well, prepare for the worst though. It won't be easy.:p
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:44 PM
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To me doesn't sound like arrogance as it might sound to others but lack of patience. Do you know what people want to say before they end their sentences? Do you want to do everything yourself or just don't want to wait for other people to do it and you just do it yourself? That's perfectly normal somehow. Might be that you just need to work on the patience part. Best way to do that is to go do some volunteering in places where old people are. It will stretch your nerves to the maximum but it wil…
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:40 PM
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