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Are you a virgin at 28? Is this a source of frustration for you or do you not care? And if it is a source of frustration, then what is your interpretation for the reasons you are one? "Look your best, have an interesting life, be engaged in women" (to name a few). Difficult to see how that's "snakeoil". They're pretty common sense steps one can take to improve his luck with women.
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:45 PM
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If your success with women has been "none" (how old are you?) and/or you have no advice on how to change that...I'm reminded of that scene in The 40-Year-Old Virgin. "This doesn't feel right. Of course it don't feel right! What has felt right for you doesn't work! You need to try some wrong, dawg." Looking our best, cultivating a busy/interesting schedule, leading on dates, being engaged & interested in her, etc...all these things are practically in your control. And while it won't guarantee any…
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:14 PM
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There's some rather practical & actionable advice here and many indicated they took something from it. Have you had success with women yourself? What additional/different advice would you offer?
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:39 AM
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Hey brother. Good on you for putting in work at the gym. I covered a little of what I did in a response on this thread, but basically comes down to consistency + proper diet. Tire out those muscles consistently and give them the fuel they need to rebuild at a caloric level in line with your goals. You want to bulk up huge? You need a steady caloric surplus. I wanted lower body fat % and lean muscle so I ate my "TDEE" minus about 250 cals. Day in & day out. I cheated here & there but 28/30 days a…
/r/seduction15/07/20 01:55 PM
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Hey man. Just took a peek at your profile. Looks like you're having a tough time based on that post you started. Hope you can find something useful in my post to help you, but feel free to shoot me a PM anytime as well.
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:42 PM
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On the contrary…I emphasized the importance of listening to women, showing curiosity, caring about their values and likes. I’m unsure where you see “manipulation” in my suggestions. Feel free to point them out. I never was an actual “incel” (as I noted in my post) and am not at present (things are going well with the last woman I noted), but was nonetheless aiming to strike a helpful tone with my post/suggestions. Hopefully you were able to get something out of it as others indicated they have. …
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:14 PM
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If you want to step up your oral game, buy a vibrator or clit simulator that you keep in your bedside table. I'll use it on her sometimes or she'll use it on herself while we're having sex. One time, after having had sex around 8pm, we were going to bed around 11, lights were off and we're quiet and she suddenly says "hey can you grab that toy...?" and we start up again. Was pretty happy in that moment that I'd bought it.
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:27 AM
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I thought Manson's book was quite good. I sorta passively listened to Wayne's "How to Be a 3% Man" while driving. Didn't find it as useful/engaging however I strongly, strongly agree with (and have put into practice) his ongoing mantra of just "hang out, have fun, hook up." Early on stay level-headed, be busy with your life, don't be talking about your "future" together, don't be pushing for commitment. Just have fun with her and show her you're a quality dude (being good at oral never hurts, to…
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:15 AM
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Not at all friend. Just trying to tell a story so dropped some details about a few of the women. Figured any fellow Saved by the Bell fans would like the Kapowski description, e.g. No misogyny intended. On your last point...amidst the fun I am indeed seeking a "real connection" and things are going well with the last woman I noted. We're pretty into each other and I got the "what are you looking for?" question from her this weekend. She and the others I've seen in recent years have liked my "per…
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:01 AM
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Obviously true. There is no magic bullet. And I (a man in his mid 30s with a good job in a booming, populated city) am in a different situation than any number of others. But I tried to list things that pretty much anyone can do. Things that are in our control. They won't get you over the finish line, but they'll help ensure you're at least solidly in the race.
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:05 AM
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I have a job that keeps me very social which is an obvious positive. Couple that with the fact that I live in a massive city...I am often in the presence of attractive women just by virtue of living my regular life. But I've also been pro-active. I rarely say "no" to an invite to a social event. I went to a holiday party and literally every adult there was married except me. But I was social & ebullient and the married ladies have kept me in mind when they want to set up one of their single frie…
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:19 AM
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Point being that attractive women in their mid 20s are extremely sought after. A 26 year old who resembles Kelly Kapowski would not have even looked my way before I worked to improve myself. My intention was not to brag (rather, am hoping to help others) and in fact my preferred age range is more like 30-35. But it's illustrative of the fact that someone who works to improve himself can find interest from women thought previously out of his league.
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:37 PM
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Time between the two photos is several years. I started off slowly and learned more as I went. But there's no need to over-complicate. Consume the appropriate amount of calories (have some "staple"/go-to foods...mine are roasted sweet potatoes, overnight oats, omelettes, canned salmon), then work your muscles consistently. On the mental side: I've never really had confidence issues in general. I'm in sales, e.g., and can effortlessly get up and speak in front of a big group. But with women...des…
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:18 PM
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I calculated my TDEE then subtracted 250 which put me at about 1800 cals/day. My goal was to get low-ish body fat % and build/show some lean muscle. My goal was NOT to bulk up with huge muscles, which of course requires a steady caloric surplus. Again, I was/am not some "gym guru" but I was very, very consistent. I didn't lift insane amounts of weight (skipped the ever popular squats, as I mentioned) but did push myself to a reasonable degree. Consistency + proper diet.
/r/seduction12/07/20 07:01 PM
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