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Online men’s group? Don’t overthink when things don’t go according to plans. Learn to enjoy it regardless. Have an overall plan and let it flow. With time you’ll be able to control most of it. Also you don’t need to communicate everything through words,s you can just look her in the eye and say it without uttering a word.: smirk .. Yes I allow it here, I’m taking you here, I know you like it. Ect…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 08:00 PM
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You say you’ve read the books, but clearly aren’t applying its most basic levels, let alone internalizing it. At some point you gotta decide if your gonna do this for real or keep waisting yours and more importantly everybody else’s time. Those lifts are pathetic at your stage. My teenage boy lifts more than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 07:23 PM
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I think you nailed it with “moving in the direction and purpose on my chosen path”. It’s probably to vague for beginners though. Totally agree with point 1, 2 on friends. As I mentioned it was my biggest win rebuilding and expanding those friendships.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/26 03:54 AM
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I figured out what I wanted in some aspects of my life, and that made me realize I have more options and paths available in other areas I hadn’t been focused/preoccupied with before.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/26 05:45 PM
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It really is. There really isn’t a problem free life. Just problems we can or want to address and ones we don’t/can’t. Anyway a problem free life would be boring or death itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/26 05:34 PM
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Takes time dismantling most ccs and we pick up new ones on this road. I like her. I like more other stuff in my life. She follows but could do better, and has been improving. There’s always an itch that it’d be easier/better to start over, but that also has its downsides. I’m in no rush so just letting it be for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/26 05:25 PM
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Takes time dismantling most ccs and we pick up new ones on this road. I like her. I like more other stuff in my life. She follows but could do better, and has been improving. There’s always an itch that it’d be easier/better to start over, but that also has its downsides. I’m in no rush so just letting it be for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/26 05:24 PM
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Make an awesome life. Then figure the rest out. Learn to climb, parachute, ride a bike, mma, or whatever you fancy. Those “fun outings” sound like slow death to me and if they end because she shit tested you and you didn’t pass seems like you have much more reading to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/26 02:47 AM
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That’s when I realized: the rental guy hadn’t given me the engine kill switch I fucked up. Fixed it for ya. Relationship: When my wife asked what I did that day I just responded: Office, nothing. Which is totally fuckup. I don’t know why I did, it was fully automatic and I left it there. Didn't want to disappoint mommy. Actually quality is spot on. I tell or show what I want and get it. The only problem is quantity which is rather a logistic problem, which i am the one responsible for. Do you kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/25 12:51 AM
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Do you feel like the prize?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/25 02:25 PM
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So I had to admit to myself and to my manager that I was unable to perform at some reasonable level what BP faggot fantasy is this? men just do what needs to be done, they dont fucking complain like a fag they cant perform and need time off and other bullshit, your manager is a bigger fag for not firing your ass on the spot. If you need time to recharge get a fucking hotel sleep for 20 hours and then own your shit. youve been here for 10 months and can't lift a fucking bean bag much less your bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/25 03:35 PM
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no cry, no blame
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/25 03:17 PM
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Don’t just initiate before going to sleep. It’s predictable and boring – women are turned off by both. This and search the sub plenty of ideas Assuming sex is important to you.. what do you think is the signal when rejected and the next best thing is tv.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 04:17 AM
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Try integrating that on a higher level So you have nothing better to do than watch tv? If you’re only initiating once a week it won’t give you enough reps to develop oi. Can’t really fake not being butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/25 03:01 AM
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My mission is to lead myself first. To build things that solve problems with strength and clarity. I act with integrity and intent, creating value for others by choice, not obligation anything your really passionate about? this reads like a woke political speech although most of them, while good riders, are very blue pill types. Felt good to be a leader among men. so what, most people are bp. how did you lead? I initiated when I wanted and went about my day when I was rejected in a way that I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/25 05:13 AM
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Wonder why you’re still clinging after running the whole program?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/25 04:50 PM
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You’re right for the most part. I know the research, but yeah i should dial in first what’s within my control.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 01:42 PM
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And butt plugs.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 01:38 PM
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True. I need to dial this in, it wasn’t a top priority as I felt I was fit enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 01:38 PM
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cool story, but are you fucking?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 12:01 AM
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in my case its pushed me more into action, especially the ban made a bunch of shit click
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 11:47 PM
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OYS #/34 Stats: 41yrs, 5’9”, 182lbs, 19% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology. Some posts that sent me down the validation/desire rabbit hole this past week: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/ETN34AnniE Sent me down a rabbit hole of validation vs intimacy/desire. I understand…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 11:42 PM
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Specifically talking before and during sex about the things I want to do and doing them. Trying to push through and disengaging if I’m not getting it. More generally I think gaming more and turning the vibe in general more sexual. It was -2/10 before it’s now at 4/10 of what I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/25 03:43 PM
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OYS #33 Stats: 41yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology. Listening to TWOTSM and I get why it's not recommended for newbies. A lot of stuff that sounds metaphysical or mystic depending on the frame you look at it from. A kid being shown a magic trick for the firs…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 09:57 AM
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Pure GOLD. Deserves being its own post.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 09:27 PM
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OYS #32 Stats: 41yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology. Listening TWOTSM and I get why its not recommended for newbies. Pursue life with an unrelenting drive to explore, innovate, and grow. Fitness: Lifted 4x Lifted heavy and hard this week. Doing daily pull-ups…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 08:28 PM
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Lift STFU Sidebar You’re welcome
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/25 03:14 PM
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some people are just built different
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/25 04:57 PM
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whats up with your bench press, fractured pectorals? you are 3 months with a bodybuilder and what have you got to show for it.... js Bullshit yourself all you like, one of your split personalities knows the truth: I'm unsatisfied with the results. I just got fat. what a fucking surprise Go to r/fitness and post your shit there include all medical conditions. Also include a history of your half-assed attempts. Alternatively just keep lying to yourself. Its pathetic to see the same shit every week…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/25 04:55 PM
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"I want you to change this" - I've got it babe / fog / NI / AA "What are you gonna do about it?" - (raise an eyebrow - i already told you ive got it, or i dont care about it, what else is there to say? continue doing what im doing without uttering a word) "Can you please answer me?" - (amusement as when my kids ask "are we there yet?") "Is this gonna keep going?" - no answer - correct And we'll stand there until I say "alright I'm off to the gym"? - better yet just go and dont say anything STFU …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/25 04:31 PM
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Ego hurt, I think because I didn't quite expect the rejection. Angry, l guess it's from the frustration. Back then it was anger towards my wife, for not putting up, but I realize now that I need to be angry at myself. For not being the man I could and should be It helps to figure out why you feel angry which is just a surface level emotion. I used to get angry and figured I was angry at me for not having game or percieved SMV to be able to talk dirty slap her on the ass or whatever. So I worked …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 01:55 PM
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I Imagine once the trasformation is complete, it shifts from "this is the work and effort I need to make to manage and to keep the relationship" to “"keeping” her may not be worth it, not because it’s hard, but because she may not be that valuable".
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 01:34 PM
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i dont know how thats what you took from my reply, just remove yourself proportionally
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 01:19 PM
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Bench Press? Be consistent. You are changing reps and changing weight. That’s why a program works. Can’t lie to yourself. Try to stick to a program. I doubt you can’t do squats with proper form with just the bar. Go up from there and take it slow. Add your girly excersided after your main workout. I have 2 herniated discs and you know what cured all my back problems? Squatting and deadlifts. I started with just the bar and added 10 pounds every week. I never felt back compression until I got to …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 12:02 AM
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I've gone through this or more accurately I'm still going through this OYS28. I've tried everything from pushing her back to keep distance to pinning her down so she feels helpless. The only thing I can say works is removing myself from the house for either several hours or a whole night and then coming back and stating this isn't normal or acceptable behavior. She'll hamster all kind of bs excuses, but I don't engage and just repeat myself until she either cries or looks for comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 10:39 PM
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or just go caveman until you figure it out it sounds like you are doing too little, not too much
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 10:30 PM
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our room and demanding I come up to talk lol, did you go?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 10:21 PM
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What's interesting is that classic broken record from WISNIFG is used against me here, the questions were just getting repeated. Eventually I said 'I'm not talking about it again' and fogged some more in the face of emotional reactions. This used to happen to me as well. Add more tools to your repertoire and eventually start exiting (because you have better stuff to do). First you'd leave the room to work on something in the house or go to the gym, if she chases you around you can always just le…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 10:18 PM
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What lifting program you running? what are your compound lifts numbers? If you can't even commit to a proper lifting program why tf are you wasting our time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 10:10 PM
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First one was late/lazy and got shot down. Second had better timing and setup, still a no. were you gaming and kinoing during the day? also what did you do/say after the rejection? She threw a deflection about only getting attention when I want something from her. its either sex or [cooking] and your no good at the latter, and just leave Why do you think your ego got hurt? why are you angry?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 09:33 PM
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OYS #31 Stats: 41yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology Pursue life with an unrelenting drive to explore, innovate, and grow. Fitness: Lifted 4x Back in the game after being sloppy in the lifting department. I realized this week, most of my fitness goals are tied…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 09:11 PM
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Never stop initiating until you stop being butthurt and really are OI. It’s all over the sidebar. You need to do shit not think about it. In this case until you’re comfortable with rejection. You’ll enjoy them eventually and really not care maybe have something else planned, or just tired and turn around aleep. Whatever. Just initiate 3-5 times a week until you’re better calibrated. Rejection isn’t bad. How you handle it can be.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 03:49 AM
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Are you fucking? Initiations? rejections? I think you are probably leaving some important stuff out. Also at this stage I’d start fogging and AA a bit to practice. If you don’t know what do to STFU is always neutral, but to really increase attraction you have to pass shit tests. Not just ignore them. Have some fun with it when you’re ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 12:07 AM
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Yes is my dad/mom, not in-laws, and its funny because she respects my dad but never stops complaining about my mom, but talks to them openly nevertheless, while shying away from talking with her parents about anything sentimental/problems– some unresolved insecurities I guess. However, this is bad. I have established VERY clear boundaries with my wife: Discussions about our relationship are only between us. Never, ever anyone else. I've thought about this for a while and I don't think its someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 04:25 PM
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I ignored them, and I ignored her pissy mood and further shit tests for the next few days and was just happy and care-free. are you passing shit tests or just ingnoring them? why
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 02:27 PM
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OYS #30Stats: 41yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology Pursue life with an unrelenting drive to explore, innovate, and grow. Fitness: Lifted 3x Haven’t done a 1rm in over 6 months. Focusing on a cut this next 3 weeks. Avg 1400cals Relationship: My mom came to spe…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 01:34 PM
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Yes I’ve said it with words and now through actions. “I won’t be spoken to like that” or “you want to try that again” leave if it escalates
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/25 02:41 PM
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OYS #29 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology Pursue life with an unrelenting drive to explore, innovate, and grow. Fitness: Lifted 2x I’ve been skipping days mostly because of travel but also the drive to push at the gym is gone. Got a checkup and T is…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/25 03:43 AM
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Deep stuff. Awesome Frame to have. Thank you for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/25 08:01 PM
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I thought about this more and yeah I'm definitively butthurt about the disrespect. Deep down I knew something was off and prob the reason I wanted to post it. I know I shouldn't. If she does that shit I have better things to do. I'm not goign to tolerate disrespect, but I realize my default was to punish (disguised as playing) and that was dumb.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/25 04:21 PM
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Stop fucking around in the gym. Do a program like StrongLifts or others where you are forced to do progressive overload and stick to it for 6 months at least.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:00 PM
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Read: WISNIFG, MAP, NMNNG, MMSLP, TRM:Y1, Sixteen commandments of Poon, HtWFaIP, Art of Seduction, Book of Pook, The way of the superior man I find it strange you've read all of these and haven't learned how to STFU and fog properly. Jus reread and internalize WISNIFG, NMNNG until its second nature and read all the posts about STFU and fogging. Did I say STFU? STFU until your such a retard at it even you know your being retarded. Recalibrate back after.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 04:27 PM
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I’ve got the other part covered.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 04:23 PM
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Lifts: SQ 5x240 lbs, OP 5x118.5 lbs, DL 5x298.5 lbs, BP 5x177.5 lbs, BR 7x180 lbs build my body into an impressive shape My son benches more than you But I do need to set a deadline for how long I’m willing to go without nuking things I want my libido to push me to action Start weighing things to say, but started noticing I’m still briefly trying to get into her head about how she will react. better set a deadline for when to stop sucking so much. when your ready to nuke things you wont care for…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 04:19 PM
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I didn’t say that. I said I don’t see her turning around. Maybe eventually, who knows.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 02:57 PM
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Yeah, some butthurt definitely involved as part of it was a reaction to her outbursts. It started as a joke and got a bit out of control I admit. This was not what I wanted and I know it wasn’t productive.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 02:49 PM
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OYS #28 already 1 year of MRP Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 180lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. 2xWISNIFG, 2xNMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology Pursue life with an unrelenting drive to explore, innovate, and grow. Fitness: Lifted 2x Haven’t posted in a while, but things are going well. My frame’s solid, MAP is mostly done, this…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 12:33 PM
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OYS #26 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 180lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Practical Female Psycology Pursue life with an unrelenting drive to explore, innovate, and grow. Fitness: Lifted 2x, BJJ 3x, surfed 4x Tried BJJ this week and loved spending time with my eldest. The professor was great, which seemed to in…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 01:05 PM
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well how did it end?
/r/askMRP04/12/24 08:34 PM
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Believe what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/24 02:40 AM
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Why are you spending time and effort on your soon to be ex-wife's resume instead of trying to fuck other girls?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/24 02:28 AM
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Yell. I've done and seen the latter, I know the difference. I think not showing enough emotion is a bigger problem for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/24 01:47 AM
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Ok. Either way I don’t express my emotions correctly as you’ve pointed out. Yelling included.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/24 12:22 AM
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Yes that’s likely true. A few weeks ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 01:14 AM
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Shit. On the money. It’s still amazes me how you guys know exactly which cord to strike. Thanks it does hit home in many ways. Specially the gravitas comment. I’ve noticed this about me. Let me try to answer the question again. I like her. I like her more than other women. She has spark and is feisty but can be very fun in the right scenarios. She is a tiger mom and a fun companion. I still find her pretty and sexy even though shes put on a few. Those are some of the reason I’d like to keep her …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 11:05 PM
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I'm probably too predictable. Do the same outings and plans over and over. Most new things/trips I do with the kids or alone. With my wife pretty much same script for everything and I shake it up very rarely.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 08:35 PM
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She does add value to my life. Household management and parenting in particular and is pretty competent at most other things that matter to me. Sexual and emotional side is lacking.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 08:28 PM
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What would be a better approach here? STFU and turn around
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:32 PM
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When something similar was brought up in person I told her she can go get one of them other husbands she likes so much. I don't think she can fathom me not being her beta bitch. She has a regular line she used to say to friends. "I know my husband would never cheat on me, he doesn't have the time he is way too busy, even for me"
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:18 PM
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OYS #21 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 180lbs, 17% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Be an inspiring and wholesome father and partner who will lead my pack through discoveries & great adventures. Fitness: Lifted 2x, HiiT 1x, soccer 1x Relationship: I can't seem to get unstuck from bad sex. I'm able to get as much as I wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 04:55 PM
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OYS #20 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 180lbs, 16% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, 2xMystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Be an inspiring and wholesome father and partner who will lead my pack through discoveries & great adventures. Fitness: Lifted 2x, HiiT 1x, soccer 1x Been slacking on the gym. I should change my routine and start training early mornings a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:38 AM
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Pook, heartiste. It won’t tell you what or how to do it but it’ll give you a feel of what frame looks like.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 01:19 PM
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Hobbies? Work? Passions? I’d be reading all the sidebar all night if I were you. All of horns posts all of jacktenofhearts posts. Take it slow until you’ve internalized some of this shit. It takes a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 03:38 AM
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Is every other part of your life great in the sense that you love it or in the sense that your wife and/or others like it love it? Make sure this isn’t a CC
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 01:18 AM
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You got shit on a ton so I’ll get right to the point. This post reeks of validation seeking from your wife. You weren’t gaming her, you were trying to trick her into having sex with you. I know I’ve been there. Continue building a solid frame. Have you read all the sidebar? All of jacktenofhearts posts? After that read some books on gaming. But if you don’t have a solid frame all of it will fall flat.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 01:12 AM
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Isn’t losing your boner because of anything external validation seeking behavior?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 11:23 PM
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Spot on. “A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people’s business.” You’re probably judging others because it’s hard to do shit yourself, so it’s easier to judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 11:07 PM
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It’s true, I did fail a bunch of shit tests that night. It wasn’t in public yet it was on the parking lot. She always behaves in public. Reputation to uphold I guess. But still, I can’t see myself doing that in public. In my house I could.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 03:09 PM
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She is branch swinging or trying to on her free week. Why wouldn’t she?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 12:55 PM
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One idea is to take stories which have impacted you maybe as a child because I'm sure you remember how you felt and build around them a good narrative with some sprinkles on it, or just make it up before hand. Just make sure you tell it like a book would tell a story. It sounds stupid for most guys, but if you watch any good speaker they are really good and "weaving" stories with big ups and downs. They dont explain how they feel they describe whats happening and that gives you the feeling. Anot…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 03:42 AM
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it has been unilaterally rescinded he just doesn't know it yet
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 03:22 AM
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OYS #19 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 180lbs, 16% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Re-reading Mystery Method. Haven’t been reading much the past few weeks. Be an inspiring and wholesome father and partner who will lead my pack through discoveries & great adventures. Fitness: Lifted 3x, HiiT 1x, soccer 1x Starting a cut fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 03:15 AM
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I do spend too much time/attention on her. Thanks I will.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/24 01:43 PM
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I’m giving her a chance to change. Shes shown she can and I understand she is a reflection of the decisions I’ve made in the past. I have no moral qualms about this I’ve thought it through and yeah I won’t put up with this behavior forever. I will pull the trigger after 12-18 months of MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/24 12:35 PM
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You’re right, good call. I was measuring and thinking about it like that even though what I value the most is my time. Not worried about pulling hotter/younger, it’s easy in the circles I’m exposed to. I’ll just need practice. Good post. More important point I got was that getting what you desire won’t necessarily make you happier.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 09:27 PM
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Yeah liked it and thought it was the right thing to say, and thanks for the breakdown it helps.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 06:31 AM
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That’s right. This level of disrespect was daily or weekly 6months ago. Now it’s once every two months or so. I wanted to work on the sidebar before doing hard boundaries on pretty much anything, but you are right it’s time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 06:29 AM
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I got this base covered already.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 05:46 PM
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We didn't fuck, but a couple of drinks on one, 300-400 on the other. I see the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 04:57 PM
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I probably have wife goggles still, but both are in way better shape and have hotter bodies than my wife. My wife does have a prettier face. Id also rate her an 8.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 03:52 PM
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Once every couple of months she'll escalate to nuclear shit test and when I don't comply she'll feel the only option she has left is to hit me (with a mean 95lbs frame). This has happened 2-3 times, because I leave before it gets to that, but I know if I stay she'll get there. One time a year or so back I had to pin her down when she went full berserk scratching and all.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 03:43 PM
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Lmao
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 02:52 PM
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Not much practice tbh. Was doing it more 3-4 months ago. I’ve had 2 girls at that point from that time. With one of them I still banter from time to time. 28/33 pretty hot both of them, hard 8
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 02:51 PM
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OYS #17 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 17% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves , Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Frame. Dread. Re-reading Mystery Method. Haven’t been reading much the past few weeks. Be an inspiring and wholesome father and partner who will lead my pack through discoveries & great adventures. Fitness: Lifted 3x, HiiT 2x, Run 2x Heavy lifting this w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 01:43 PM
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What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/24 01:20 AM
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STFU LIFT & SIDEBAR - or - GTFO It’s simple really, but I bet you’re gonna keep listening to that shit on repeat instead of following the sidebar. Keep stepping on your own dick and see you again in 6 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/24 10:16 PM
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STFU LIFT & SIDEBAR - or - GTFO It’s simple really, but I bet you’re gonna keep listening to that shit on repeat instead of following the sidebar. Keep stepping on your own dick and see you again in 6 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/24 10:15 PM
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I am sure all these books does not have a formula for my success or I am not made for greatness. Not sure what this means, but yeah there is no one formula for success These are tools like any other and how you use them and incorporate them through time will bring you closer to your goals. Take any sport, there is no formula for success, there is learning different skills, tactics, and strategy and then adapting them for your own style to become great at it. Also which books have you read alread…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 04:56 PM
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He weighs 35kg and height is around 4’4 I need to do a better job of letting him know where he is at.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 04:39 AM
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How much does he weigh? Sounds like you're hamstering here. ill weigh him tonight I'm guessing you told her exactly this. It's not you saying she can or can't go - but that if she does go, she doesn't get to be a bitch and be stressed out when she comes home. I honestly didn't think about it that way, but it is a part of it, when she is back home I would like her fully engaged. Also I want her to know she can't use my resources however/whenever she likes. Wanting to fit in and have friends is pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 07:30 PM
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He is 10. The habits are what concern me the most. He isn’t fat but a bit chubby. Another 5kg and he’d be fat. He eats dinner then late at night is hungry and wants a snack or cereal bowl. He also eats like an adult, a full steak and isn’t satiated. I see a bit of anxiety in the eating behavior, can’t be sure though. When on vacations he puts on 3-4kg and then he plays sports and comes down a bit. But I think he is starting to feel it, he doesn’t want to take his shirt off at the pool ect…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 05:56 PM
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wrote down the feedback I received last week and I have no longer been initiating at night, but I still haven’t been initiating outside of bed so you wrote it down, congrats boy! the feedback is initiate always, and better to initiate outside of bed, but if your to pussy to do it outside of sleepy times then do it then so you at least calibrate Plateau continues. what workout routine are you following, those lifts look ok, but i have a hunch they really suck and you haven't been doing any progre…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 05:38 PM
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"Are you disappointed?" Me "yes, I am disappointed" I'll give you one shot. Better massage and sex afterwards. Not going to lie I felt powerful in this situation. Felt like I was in my frame. This sounds butthurt even if you weren't, and you know this but you cannot negotiate desire, just obligated compliance. My personal rule of thumb is if I think I'm in my frame I'm not. It does feel powerful because your sticking it to her, just not in a good way.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 05:15 PM
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OYS #16 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 175lbs, 16% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 310SQ / 290BP / 330DL Read: Sidebar. WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Re-reading Mystery Method. Rian Stones YT videos. Be an inspiring and wholesome father and partner who will lead my pack through discoveries & great adventures. Fitness: Lifted 4x Good workout week. New workout routine is definitively helping and leav…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:51 PM
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This was a fun read. you’re probably too young to see the potential here but if you internalize the sidebar and oys you be bossing round those feminists in a year or two.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 04:25 AM
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What were your numbers?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 05:34 PM
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I told you because it seems you’re DEERing and being butthurt instead of being OI. Guy friend is just a notch level above this basic stuff but it’s still a shit test. If you can handle the guy why are you asking us about it? Seems you’re intimidated by him.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 05:00 PM
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Wife goggles at its finest.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 04:50 PM
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Post your lifts and hold yourself accountable. Otherwise stop posting and come back in a year or so when you’re ready to put in the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 04:42 PM
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Do you even lift bro?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 04:31 PM
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Think you’d benefit from some game material. Book of pook, heartiste, mystery method
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 04:22 PM
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It really depends on the situation. If you’re starting out and you just walk out that reeks of butthurt. So yeah just continue doing what you were doing and read some MRP stuff. After putting in the work you’ll start to feel less butthurt. Maybe half the time you do feel butthurt, half the time you don’t care. At this point you’ll really want to do something else instead of just sulking around. So go do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 04:12 PM
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You’ve been telling me this for a couple of weeks now and I’ve read it before but it only clicked now.. Myo reps sound great for isolated work. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:48 PM
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I had a period about a year ago where I went full “inspector faggot” on my wife. I told myself I did it because I wanted info in order to execute better my game and relationship (pre MRP). This quickly escalated into me being paranoid about everything she did. To this date I consider it the most unattractive and dumbest thing I’ve ever done. In your case this is doubly so because instead your wife is using it as a way to fuck with your head. Think of it like Any other shit test and use the tools…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:45 PM
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Why are you getting fatter? Why are your lifts so low after 27 weeks? I know 14yos that bench and squat more than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:28 PM
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OYS #15 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 174lbs, 16% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 295SQ / 285BP / 320DL Read: Sidebar. NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Re-reading chapters of NMMNG and Mystery Method. Rian Stones YT videos. Be an inspiring and wholesome father and partner who will lead my pack through discoveries & great adventures. Fitness: Lifted 3x Not the best gym week because of travel. The times I did t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:52 AM
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3x a week won't get you anywhere. Lift 5x (I did it with Strong Lifts) never ever skip even if your sick just do what you can that day and in 6 months you'll more than double those numbers. Until I got myself to the gym religiously my energy levels were that of a 6 month baby.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 04:38 PM
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This was really fucking hard to read, like scratching nails on a chalkboard for 10 minutes straight bad. Brother, just lift like an animal 5 days a week. Follow a program, tell your trainer you want to follow that program (strong lifts is the simplest for 6 months at least) and increase weights every session until you start puking. If he doesn't recommend it fire him and tell him to go fuck himself, which will help you practice some assertiveness. Read everything on the sidebar 3x and forget abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 04:28 PM
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Because I asked
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 01:02 PM
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Got it this is the archived post Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 06:00 PM
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Thanks for the insights. Is it this one - post for noobs with boobs?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 05:32 PM
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She put you in time out and is icing you out to see if you will go back in your box like a good boy. Sit with that discomfort without acting on it and see what you notice about yourself. I did sit with it for 4 days. I waited for her to come to me, but I should have listened and STFU. So all the other vision stuff was couched in there to really just say this. Sounds like some nice guy stuff. Good catch, mostly true. Stop needing to be understood and just be. I'm close to this, I know it, it just…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 05:20 PM
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She did ask at the beginning of the talk “Do I fit in any of those plans?” But I see what your saying, and this was mostly a technicality. I’m not attractive enough yet. I get your point and it’s true.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 03:55 PM
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OYS #14 Fuck format, don't want to make this too long. Previous OYS Decided to initiate 5x/week and learn from the experience. Some hiccups because of the nuclear shit test I got this week Earlier this week, I felt on top of my game, confident I’d stay OI no matter her reaction. But after the nuclear shit test and her complete withdrawal, my hamster has been spinning. This isn’t a strong frame. I need to just forge ahead I need to let go of resentment and ego. My wife never loved me as I imagine…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 02:29 PM
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Thanks, I’m going to learn how to do this intentionally.
/r/askMRP25/08/24 06:13 PM
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Thanks, read through all the nuclear shit test posts, man those were supernovae shit tests. Main difference is my wife shit test aren't so overblown as yours, so she won't recognize her behavior is bad. I remove affection and attention and she doesn't seem to care most of the time. Passive aggressive behavior and shit testing can last for days or weeks. No fucking yet. So dread isn't high enough I guess.
/r/askMRP25/08/24 06:06 PM
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I personally did not care and wanted to anyhow have a good time with my brothers' family, which I did. The real question is why didn't you care? Lastly, living with another couple for more than a month was also helpful. It shows you how no relationship is perfect and we all carry baggage. Also, we tend to lose gratitude towards what our Partner does do well when we are fixated on what they are not doing. Mehh this sounds like some BP bullshit excuse, but what do I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 03:23 AM
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Your job is like your wife. Its painfully clear you are in other peoples frame and thats why you hate it. I don't know what you do, but I know you'll hate the next job just as much. I think this is mostly exhaustion I used to think this too. Its not, its weakness. Plan things and do them even if they are small. Stop rationalizing so much. Professionally, I have a lot of budget and team to build something, which is my main goal. So I’ll interview better when I have a product and not a science pro…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 03:09 AM
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Action: buy the belt. Better buy a fucking robot to train instead of you Then I found your OYS15: OHP 85, Squat 155, Bench 127, Row 162, DL 215 Just quit now and stop making excuses
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 02:34 AM
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How can you be cutting if you haven't gone down? Just do a 1000-1200 cal/day cleanse for 15 days if you are serious about it. Most food labels are off by 20-30% so you could be eating much more than you think. I DEERed and left to sleep on the couch. wtf happened here? The next day was silent treatment on both sides where is the OI?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 02:19 AM
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What are your t levels? Most doctors work with shitty ranges.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 02:15 AM
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My 10yo has better lifts than you. If you don't lift 5 days per week you ain't even getting started.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 07:59 PM
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I am also an anxious parent. I try to make sure my little girl has no negative experiences and nothing bad ever happens. I've heard you say now many times you are anxious and stressed. This sounds a lot like what my wife would say. Maybe focus on fixing this. Is it possible to be an anxious and stressed oak?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:27 PM
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OYS #13 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 174lbs, 17% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 295SQ / 285BP / 320DL Read: Sidebar. NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Re-reading chapters of NMMNG and Mystery Method. Snapshot: Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs. BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:16 PM
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Women like stability. Yes they are attracted to alpha qualities sexually but also like beta comfort qualities. Even when you’re improving, deep down she wants it and the relationship will be better for her eventually— the shift and instability scares her subconscious mind.
/r/askMRP19/08/24 05:37 PM
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Read mystery method and book of pook. Lifting will help with BJJ so no excuse for doing it 2-3/week plus it’s a great go to after rejections. You should be gaming other chicks and raising your own perceived SMV if you are looking that good. Also what’s the financial and work history here? Is she a SAHM?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 10:08 PM
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Fuck I’m such a retard. Guess that would make me unattractive though.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 10:06 PM
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Maybe they have good beer or vodka. Who the fuck knows. If you truly believe in something you don’t give a fuck about them mocking you in fact you welcome it and banter about what they believe in and have fun with it. Problem here isn’t that it’s bad to leave those places/people but that you are doing it from their frame. If it would have been from yours you wouldn’t have mentioned it like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 10:04 PM
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My comment wasn’t regarding sex. I’m not going to stay in the current relationship as it is for the next 5 years. We weren’t even discussing sex, but she knows to weponize it. Regardless you are right I should have just let her hamster about me not being around instead of engaging with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 04:05 PM
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Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 01:46 PM
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OYS #12 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 176lbs, 17% bf (inbody), wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 295SQ / 285BP / 320DL Read: Sidebar. NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Re-reading chapters of NMMNG and Mystery Method. Snapshot: Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 01:40 PM
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You know just checking on my mistress, smirck, ass smack, go do something else. “No really” blank stare Really she does this amazing thing with her tongue. you’re still my favorite though.. for now
/r/askMRP02/08/24 07:32 PM
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I would read and do the MAP first if you haven’t. Also read all of jacktenofhearts comments Fights and blowups are one of the easiest things to control and reduce with the right toolkit. Maybe you’re not really STFU as you say you are and it definitely seems like you aren’t gaming and having fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/24 07:11 PM
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Did you read the sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/24 05:32 PM
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Thanks. Watching now
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 01:04 PM
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People should put the song Dancin’ Around My Grave Experimented with a bunch of different stuff no matter what society expected. Hope I inspired some people into believing and bettering themselves. I really hope my kids are able to think for themselves and make their own life choices (have frame) and not some marketed institutional version of life. Life would be very boring either way and counterfactuals are stupid but answering the question — immortality; just chill and enjoy the ride.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 03:36 AM
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ROFL this is the funniest shit I’ve read here. Have you spoken to her about it in the 26 normal days? If she is so logical then make a plan with her during those days even film it and do as the plan says no matter what. Let her go nuclear leave the house for 3 days.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 03:22 AM
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This is the way.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/24 01:08 AM
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100% right brother. Thanks I’m a whiny betch. I just realized I would game another woman, take her out, and get her energy flowing to get in her pants but I’m expecting my wife to just suck me off because she is my wife. CC all the way down.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/24 06:50 PM
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OYS #10 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 1rm: 295SQ / 285BP / 320DL Read: Sidebar. NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste. Iron John. Re-reading chapters of NMMNG and Mystery Method. Snapshot: 4 month journey Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventure…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/24 01:48 PM
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Thanks for this write up, very helpful to understand why the game dynamics work.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/24 12:26 AM
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I had similar problems. AM and AA work great here, to the point of her falling in your frame if she keeps asking while you tease at stupidity of it all. Just remember it has to be playful but serious. Then just STFU. Like you’d do to your daughter. How far along are you on the sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/24 10:10 PM
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He is one of the mystic naturals. No need to read no need to lift. Just thinks and magically everything happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/24 09:49 PM
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Read the sidebar & STFU My bet is on you being Unattractive
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/24 09:21 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 180lbs, 19% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids 1rm: 295SQ / 285BP / 320DL Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 70%, Rollo, Heartiste Snapshot: 4 month journey Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and didn’t lead. Great father and provider, but sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/24 06:27 PM
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Look up opinion openers from mystery. Just frame it as you were having a discussion with your friend and want her opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 09:43 PM
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Why did you set the divorce talk boundary? Looks like a CC to control her behavior. It seems you don't want to divorce her, or don't feel ready to do it and from how it reads she is just a little girl yapping. On the other hand the gift boundary does feel congruent.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 09:25 PM
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My question for those of you who have read this, does the captain have to put his first mate on blast if she is not doing her share of the deck work? How is this approached? First thing I thought while reading this was– has this guy actually read and internalized the sidebar? Stop looking for shortcuts and do the work... or don't and come back in 5 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 03:06 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18.5% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 225SQ / 260DL / 240BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste Snapshot: 4 month journey Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and didn’t lead. Great father and provider, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 07:59 PM
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Rode a bike, spent quality time with my kids, spa and sauna after a hard workout, climbed a glacier and had a cigar with an old friend. I don’t feel as stuffed of CC as I used to. I might be doing things she likes but I like playing around with them and I don’t think I’d feel bad if she rejected it OI. I have to be mindful here, but I don’t know how else to explore what Id like out of a relationship. I’ve had nothing but bad mental models (transactional) about relationships since forever, so I f…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 03:19 AM
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Sort of an experiment at the moment, but you're right I shouldn't expect anything in return. I tried a couple of weeks back being more sexually aggressive, which didn't feel natural and didn't go very well. This feels more natural to me and she never refuses and seems to like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 05:18 PM
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On lifting my recommendation would be to make it 4x weekly above everything else. 2-3x is just maintenance in my experience and you wont get bigger. Strong Lifts is real easy and takes 45 mins if planned correctly. also, why has the sex dried up?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 05:11 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 178lbs, 18.5% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 225SQ / 260DL / 235BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, TWOTSM, Alpha Moves 50%, Rollo, Heartiste Snapshot: Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and didn’t lead. Great father and provider, but saw her as a bi…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 01:20 PM
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That’s right and it did. I knew it was stupid once it was out of my mouth, now I know why.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/24 10:27 AM
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That’s right, I am. I’m aware of it it’s just it’s always easier to focus on the tactics than on the strategy. I’ll be more aware. Never thought about using a safe word. I should do it. Thanks.
/r/askMRP03/07/24 09:36 PM
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Epic. I need to have the guts to pull this one but I will try it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/24 12:46 PM
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This is pure gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 07:26 PM
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She was standing right next to me almost crying after last nights event and said it wouldn’t hurt you to give me a hug. What would have been a better response? Thanks for the cheat code.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 03:56 PM
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Mostly when she looks/asks like she needs it in a supplicating way instead of a demanding tone. I might be completely off base here as I rarely get comfort tested as mentioned in previous OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 03:38 PM
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Too true. Will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 03:28 PM
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Yeah cuddles aren’t free when you go giving them out, but when she asks for it in nice way it’s a comfort test. No need to caress and pander here, a quick one would do. Coffee maybe was a mistake. I was just getting mine and texted her if she wanted something.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 11:24 AM
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24 hours later: Jfc is this a self-induced mini main event? shit just went nuclear She always gets a little nutty during or right before shark week, which started today, but things explode when I least expect them to. Lots of screaming and crying. Threw a glass at me that hit me on the arm and broke on the floor, then tried to hit me while I held her at arm’s length to prevent her from getting hurt by the glass. “Wish I never married you.” “You and your family are all the same shit, you don’t re…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 09:47 AM
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OYS #6 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 176lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 275SQ / 260DL / 245BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Pook, The way of the Superior Man, Alpha Moves 30%, Rollo Snapshot: 3 month MRP journey. Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and didn’t lead. Great father and …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 09:46 AM
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Thanks, this makes sense.
/r/askMRP30/06/24 05:24 PM
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Smh, I know. I’ll get it right next time
/r/askMRP30/06/24 05:24 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 176lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 245SQ / 270DL / 230BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Book of Pook, The way of the Superior Man 80%, Alpha Moves 30% Snapshot: 3 month MRP journey. Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and didn’t lead. Great father…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 08:21 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 176lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 265SQ / 285DL / 240BPRM 290SQ / 320DL / 280BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Book of Pook, The way of the Superior Man 80%, Alpha Moves 30% Snapshot: 3 month MRP journey. Classic case of not owning my shit. Thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive and d…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 12:19 AM
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Been lifting since 2018, but seriously since 2022. I can do much more in SQ and DL but I’ve got two herniated disks I don’t want to mess with, and they still bother me some. Heavy squats compres my lower back and I have to do inversion rack. DL and SQ aren’t my max. SQ RM was around 300 and I still wasn’t pushing it as hard as I could. BP RM is 275.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 03:06 AM
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Why are you letting her go on a trip you clearly don’t approve of?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 07:42 PM
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That’s right. CC. I was playing a video game in order to get some reaction. Thanks for pointing that out. I know what a clear comfort test looks like. She’ll be visibly stressed and sad and will talk to me about her problems, I can take care of that, but those are extreme. I’m wondering if I’m missing more subtle ones. She does compliance tests a lot but most are shit tests. Tbh I think she isn’t sufficiently attracted. I’ve stopped unattractive behavior, but I’m not attractive enough yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 02:02 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 175lbs, 17.5% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 265SQ / 280DL / 230BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Book of Pook, The way of the Superior Man 70%, Alpha Moves 30% Snapshot: 2 months since discovering MRP. Didn't own my shit; thought success in business and finances would handle everything and she’d meet my needs (fucktard, I know). BP ideals, too comfortable, not enough adventures, became unattractive. Great father and provid…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 01:04 PM
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Guy comes into a bar. Says the world is messed up. And that by the way he ain’t no drunk. Downs a whole lot of bottles. Blacks out Wakes up the next day. Proceeds to do it all over again. World sure is messed up I tell ya.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 08:33 PM
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This makes total sense. I’ve noticed the sex is usually better when she initiates. Usually after a trip or before I leave. So maybe stop the sexual comments completely and even stop initiating for a while and wait. She usually initiates if it’s been 5-7 days.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/24 04:51 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: 40yrs, 5’9”, 176lbs, 18% bf, wife 36yrs, married 15yrs, together 17yrs, 5 kids - 5x5 265SQ / 280DL / 230BP Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, SGM, MAPx2, Mystery Method, Book of Pook, The way of the Superior Man 50%, Alpha Moves 30% Snapshot: 2 months since discovering MRP. Lifted and applied Dread poorly for the past 2 years, which made some things better but the core relationship worse– mistrust, disrespect, resentment. Didn't own my shit; thought success in business and finances would handle e…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 12:10 PM
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