Wistful_wife- Archive

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8	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband		Wistful_wife-	/r/askRPC	30/10/19 12:05 AM

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2	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband In the middle of all this, a "frowning," unhappy, joy-less woman who does the right things and working on the right actions is not as good as a happy warrior woman who also does the right actions,but who is cheerful, upbeat and optimistic things will change because she serves a mighty God! God loves a cheerful giver. As one preacher said, that doesn't mean he dislikes those who give anyway. :) So yes, keep "giving" but do your best to do so with a happy heart that radiates in your actions. I thi…	/r/askRPC	31/10/19 05:35 AM
2	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband You are correct on just about everything you've written. To the point where it's a little uncomfortable and now I feel a bit cliche, haha. I'm not a serious spender and we see eye to eye on nearly everything else. "I want it, I got it" for me usually means I want a safer car to drive the kids in and to please let's replace the broken tile in the master shower. Or spending on mutually shared hobbies. He's financially quite capable. So maybe that accounts for the discrepancy, I get whatever I ask …	/r/askRPC	31/10/19 05:11 AM
1	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband I did miss the mission when editing in my rule 2. My mission is to be in a fully fulfilling marriage with my husband where intimacy is concerned. The weight (and laziness) is definitely a contributing issue and I'll go so far as to say we enable each others bad behaviors here. And that both of us are pretty resistant to changing what's comfortable. I do think it's an oversimplification of the issues at hand but at the same time I don't see how improving our physical condition would not improve t…	/r/askRPC	31/10/19 04:14 AM
1	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband Thank you. I appreciate your candor and insight.	/r/askRPC	30/10/19 09:46 PM
1	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband edited	/r/askRPC	30/10/19 05:35 PM
1	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband Absent is the "I respect him." The one the Bible actually commands wives to do. Correct. And I hope that I am coming across as sincere in wanting/trying to change that. I can change my behavior, I can change my attitude (and a couple places in your response has me seeing that I still have work to do on these) but it's a lot harder to change how I feel. I think this is what I'm really here trying to get counsel and feedback for. You're shocked that he wants to be with the wife he committed his li…	/r/askRPC	30/10/19 01:55 PM
1	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband Your anecdote resonates with me a lot because that is more or less the issue with our dynamic now, although I do not think my husband will leave. I don't want to make a laundry list of things he doesn't do but I do feel that I give him ample opportunity to do things on his own and/or with other men. Sometimes I'm too forceful even trying to get him out of the house because he works from home and honestly I need some space that I cannot get without him getting offended. But we have the gym member…	/r/askRPC	30/10/19 02:48 AM
1	Encouraging leadership in with non-rp husband Does he lift? Is he in touch with his primal self? No, he does not lift. He is quite overweight - not disabled, but affected physically. However, on my list of improvements is my own weight too, especially after my last baby (that is still breastfeeding). Worth noting that these issues between us were long before kids, and, like many relationship issues, just got worse after kids. In my opinion it's mostly on him to generate attraction by being the type of man that has passion for you and who …	/r/askRPC	30/10/19 02:41 AM