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| 1 | Girl from the past that used to flake eager to meet up now?Possibly unskilled and want someone as a guy-friend. Can potentially be a friend with benefit but I'm very weirded out about the boyfriend mention | /r/newTRP | 13/09/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | How can I get invited over to girl's place after date?Why the last seeing each other? | /r/newTRP | 19/08/21 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Is there advice on dating more succesful and older women? It feels like a power struggleOld enough, why? | /r/newTRP | 19/08/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or are the contacts I'm getting just do not have any patience when it comes to texting?Yes. I was thinking of just blunt reinvitation but that seems desperate | /r/newTRP | 06/08/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or are the contacts I'm getting just do not have any patience when it comes to texting?Noted! Any way to salvage similar scenarios though? | /r/newTRP | 06/08/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or are the contacts I'm getting just do not have any patience when it comes to texting?Pretty typical, and some of these are actually also my fault. Note, this scenario is an online dating then to a # exchange 1st week - In dating app, high exchanges. Didn't really pay attention to this one because I was busy/rotating, just leveled up to texting after week's end 2nd/3rd week - Actually just added her on whatsapp after a couple more texts because I feel like images can do better there. Still, exchanges are decent, we even had voice calls that lasted some good 10-15 minutes But my m… | /r/newTRP | 06/08/21 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Is it me or are the contacts I'm getting just do not have any patience when it comes to texting?Thanks. I've been trying to find something about the most typical issue I come across such as text convos dying down. I'd get 3 then 2 worded replies, then 1 emoji. Interest is not there anymore, is there a thread or advice regarding reboosting interests again? I can think of a few such as just randomly calling or gifs. The former sounds intrusive too though | /r/newTRP | 06/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] What are some creative pings for leads that seemed to have gone ghost? Is it ever a good idea to just be straightforward?Good idea, I started doing this when ghosting was inevitable and that sort of put some SMV. Insta posts also do matter too | /r/newTRP | 03/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What are some creative pings for leads that seemed to have gone ghost? Is it ever a good idea to just be straightforward?Another example: we've dated twice already, and we kept a good back and forth through texting/voice memos. Although the 2nd date felt a little off, our convos and her interest just died down by a lot. She did also say that her sister is coming over for the weekend. How do you not make it seem like you're desperate or at least not too spammy with the messages? | /r/newTRP | 03/08/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have templates for random out-of-the-blue texts or pings after a convo lost momentum?Date went well. I think closing it w/ a kiss and major escalation should have been better but we kept texting afterwards. I only ever use texting for setting updates so it just dries up and the replies are not with energy. High chance I'd get a "sorry, busy, not interested" | /r/newTRP | 25/07/21 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Don't use the new AskTRP website. They just want to monetize your attention.Question here, I tried registering to see if it's even working but I cannot. Is their website even functional at all? | /r/newTRP | 24/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 11 | Just having a small amount of financial success, I go out with women who see this value but it makes me feel good when I reject them, why?Probably, I don't see my personality as a part of my materialistic possessions too much. But we might be wrong because I just dislike women in general, AWAL at least the women who are 7-8, high strung, buzz around the guys who they saw drive in something fancy. They're brilliant poker faces too! | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeBeing a weak woman who lets her man protect her and make decisions for the family is mysogyny. Too much work for men these times around, how am I suppose to juggle an 15 hour work day and then have time to protect a woman? At the same time, this is how younger women think while it's a different generation and year | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeThis is refreshing because my view is a little bit similar too. I like this approach because as a regular, average, typical male, there is always a bigger fish. I can save the stress of trying to worry about what I can't control. And I like that it makes me a sort of outlier like you mention. But in the back of my mind, it could sprout unloyalty. I'll also add that it's the majority of women who want that sort of submissive lifestyle. Kind of sucks! | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeIf you feel you need to help other people because of your beliefs, you are not doing it altruistically: you are simply imposing your own beliefs on the world. So I'll refer to what you mentioned earlier, that true helping is basically just enhancing or helping them get reminded of their positive thoughts, sort of like guiding the already guided but they don't know it yet. You don't impose or suggest actual advice, maybe unless they ask for it? You just ask them "why" and let them figure it out t… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The more I understand female nature, the more I want to avoid females completely ?Not exactly what I tried to explain to you. What I mean is that: What if it's the OPPOSITE You're not older, successful or even at your peak in your life. So it feels like the leverage is more on an equal playing field if not, unequal, what if she is actually more of the breadwinner or have more of the "status" potential Example: An older, more successful woman with a better career OR it can even be a younger woman with a greater career outlook Then, she happens to stick with YOU, while you are … | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | The more I understand female nature, the more I want to avoid females completely ?What if it's the opposite? You don't really have that high value but are content and have a lot to do and go for, she's on her way, got her life in content, maybe even a better career. But she still sticks with you because she sees something. What if it's this?? This is rarely touched, the only typical thing I see here is: a guy having everything, high status etc and then women will follow but I really doubt most if not all of us are not even in the top 20% lol we're mostly 12-20 per hour worker… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | The more I understand female nature, the more I want to avoid females completely ?RP phases..? Can you list what they are? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeNever, ever, try to solve someone else's problems for them. Even your own kids. Certainly not a grown woman. Why not? Sorry I grew up in a religious household, I have this annoying feeling that I have to be good... And always help humankind because we're all in this together... I have to get this out of my beliefs because I even experience unfairness but somehow I'm okay with it? I don't even have the resources to help people yet I feel the need to If you truly want to help a women, give her enc… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeBecause of cognitive dissonance. Grapple with that. You also have to realize that you cannot force a person to do anything. Let alone force them to improve their lives. One can only change a person through manipulation to where they believe they came up with it themselves. Is that manipulation amoral? To which context are we coming from here? RP is generally about sexual strategies but what do you say about men who have plates or LTRs getting their SO's/plates' phones and deleting other men from… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Women who literally have no support or network to fall back to, should I be helping them? It often feels manipulativeWasting a woman's time by leading her on and taking years of her life without an intent to have children with her is immoral if you ask me, since woman have a limited window of opportunity to get pregnant. But I don't think it's common for men to put that much time into a woman unless there are plans to make the relationship more serious. Aha, then what would you say to the cases of single mothers, single parents then? Independent, successful single women are difficult to find and normally you'd… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Should we spin needy girls? What to do when she's needy?Me: "In out talk I made it abundantly clear that I wanted space because I feel suffocated. Let's see how that went...... Hmmm 74 missed phonecalls from you and 300 text messages. This all sounds great but I feel a little bit like I owe her, in financial or technical terms, I am lucky to be able to keep my job because she was willing to lend me her car to drive 300+ miles for 2 weeks. Even gave me 500 unannounced and said it was a gift. What would you even say to this then? I don't feel like I'm … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?Other extreme is dark triad alpha where a woman pays you and buys you shit for your love in addition to her giving you sex, but few guys can do that and I don't think it's not conductive to a "healthy relationship". I stumbled here.. And this one is interesting because I literally have one LTR like this and it's not for the weak-hearted, it crews you over. It's worse if she's a single parent but is downright successful and has you on the balls due to financial help Anyone else had experience wit… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 09:27 PM |
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