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| 1 | How can I deal anxiety going to crowded places?Maybe start with less crowded places at first and slowly move up to more and more. | /r/seduction | 21/08/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | 19M India — how do you actually meet women IRL when you hate dating apps?Interesting. I have been trying things here in Banglore, mostly it has been cold. I know this place isnt as "reserved" as i see it through my eyes lol | /r/seduction | 21/08/26 05:51 PM |
| 2 | 19M India — how do you actually meet women IRL when you hate dating apps?"Roasting" is another way of saying you look down on women. Banter is extremely fun, it brings a lot of rush in body. Its kinda exhilarating to meet new people and flirt with them, but the thing is, to feel all that would require you to be in your game, the frame and time. There is nothing "boring" about it tbh. | /r/seduction | 21/08/26 05:36 PM |
| 6 | 19M India — how do you actually meet women IRL when you hate dating apps?23M India. Cold approaching wont work here, but of course for the top 0.1% the rules are different. I have met women mostly through my university and social circle. My job does have fun coworkers, but I seriously dont want to lose it. There are many clubs and opportunities to meet people here, like there's a hiking club, there's a yoga society in my apartment comprised of mostly women, I have been learning Bharatnatyam for a while and I have met women there too. So, lot of fun opportunities for … | /r/seduction | 21/08/26 05:17 PM |
| 6 | What If the Gym, Money and All That Still Don't Get You a Relationship?Your post almost assumes women dont have inherent virtues to them, which is kinda wrong. It also assumes that something meaningful and a mentally satiating expirience doesnt exist anymore which is also wrong. Getting a six pack is a lot harder than getting laid or even if it does not, the man in the mirror would surely appreciate your hard work and knows you are capable of something. If you have worked hard, loved yourself to the finish line, it doesnt even matter a lady holds your hand to the e… | /r/seduction | 18/08/26 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Social circle approach problemsNope. Stop with the pity party and relax a bit. Think from his perspective, he cant approach a girl for you and show her a picture with a question of yes or no. Most workplaces don't work that way, and neither they should. You need to buckle up and at least not keep your dating game hang on the belief of a friend, take the reins in your own hands bro. This whole incident is stupid imo. | /r/seduction | 18/08/26 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Social circle approach problemsBro.... reading that was kinda sad. Why are you latching on to your friend like that bro, take a hint dude | /r/seduction | 18/08/26 03:00 AM |
| 82 | Is being too handsome/jacked to be approachable a thing?The bond's name, James Name | /r/seduction | 17/08/26 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce a left-feminist girl (don't blame me she is too cute)As every other girl on the planet. Show her a good time and wait for her a answer. | /r/seduction | 15/08/26 04:57 PM |
| 3 | AFCs finally pull off 2 man (infield report)Wow. Didnt understood shit. But good for you | /r/seduction | 15/08/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Are we cooked. Or is age truly a number..She was probably looking for something long term in same levels of life. There are all kinds of women out there, which dont mind such gaps if you make worth it tbh. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | The dopamine spike of day dreaming the situation.Thanks. All the best, get professional help when you need to | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 04:25 AM |
| 1 | The dopamine spike of day dreaming the situation.ADHD medication did help me, but it didnt make me more than make me normal. I used to have Tourette like symptoms where I blurted out things, stood up admist conversation cause i looked at something more stimulating. So, the medication just made my nerves normal than anything. She was one of my social circles at the uni, we were friends then more than friends over lots and lots of dates. | /r/seduction | 13/08/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The dopamine spike of day dreaming the situation.I am in a relationship, but I dont thing 4 is a number you would like to hear. I have approached only 4-5 girls in my life. But surely, it did help me in communication, day to day activities and work. | /r/seduction | 13/08/26 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Approached a girl with no inital intention of getting a number and got the number. Next steps>So at this point I'm not sure if she gave the number to network or is interested romantically. It may seem this way, but it was a good interaction. | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:12 AM |
| 1 | The dopamine spike of day dreaming the situation.I used to have a daydreaming problem too, and combined with my autism and speech issues it actually hindered my daily activity. I used to daydream of studying and excersizing all while lying down in bed. If you have ADHD complications, you need to sort it out with a doctor. Tldr for the non medication side - find triggers, try breathing excersizes (when you daydream you breathe faster, so slow down your breath), dont keep your body idle etc etc. Lack of sleep, anxiety etc causes jt too. | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Guys that cold approach and are successful with it, are they usually players?Its actually the way the converse. Things moving too fast makes their alarms go blaring, while Things stretching out unnecessarily goes wierd. | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | 23M Virgin: Seeking actionable steps and script examples to transition from cold approaches to hookupsGetting ignored is also an expirience in itself, dont be so shy tbh. No one cares if a girl brushes you off. | /r/seduction | 10/08/26 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Ego and laziness???How do you determine if a lady is interested in the first place? Glances, reciprocation of smile, eye contacts etc always have felt a decent start, but what exactly assures attraction is something I often think about. | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 04:59 AM |
| 1 | My first field report - I failed but I was successful at the same timeI am glad you have got it going. It would get better when time passes. | /r/seduction | 07/08/26 04:58 AM |
| 3 | I [22M] meeting GF [33F] first time. How do I make sure I do good for my "first time" and be less nervous/self conscious?Dont think much about the sex stuff, it will happen when it needs to. You are going oversees, its a new place. Look around, ask questions, do try to understand how things work over there and have lots and lots of fun. | /r/seduction | 06/08/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How’s this for an opener?Naah. Imagine being in the place of the lady. | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 05:22 PM |
| 100 | Officially done with dating apps>worked so hard getting lean and muscular, fixed my style, skin care and hair That's actually very commendable, more than any right swipes or dates. It was just a girl looking for a free meal, there are better experiences out there. | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | anyone deal with haters?I haven't heard a woman say it my entire life. | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 05:14 PM |
| 10 | So you Forget her name?.Just ask her tbh, there's no point running around. | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Talking to chicks Online vs IRL. What do I actually say SO SICK of this>A man must be assertive and assured. Reading your texts is like a little boy asking his mum a series of questions. Seems like that to me too. But questions are usually the ones which initiate responses, also, how does one steer conversation to flirting? Why should a girl give a shit what I am saying rn out of questions tbh | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 03:42 AM |
| 21 | I learned cold approach from my dadIt was a great read. Thanks for sharing | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Wedding EncountersCongratulations, it was a nice read. | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Need help with Cold appeochNo problem, here's my advice. Go say hi to her when you get the chance, introduce yourself and ask her name. Do it a few days, and then her Instagram and offer a date. It will all be fine. | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Need help with Cold appeochHave you at least said Hi to her or introduced yourself? | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 09:15 AM |
| 5 | SEDUCTION MATHEMATICS: VALUE + COMFORT + ATTRACTION + LOGISTICS = INTERCOURSEAfter traveling “The Whole Road” of dating highs, lows, and “in betweens“ however, the plot twist is that none of this ultimately matters without having True Knowledge Of Self, Passion & Purpose, and the unwavering focus and consistent discipline to become The Best Version Of Yourself (For yourself, not for anyone else.) How does one achieve all this? | /r/seduction | 02/08/26 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Understanding Why Women Seemingly "Lead You On" By Making You Their OrbiterYo, thanks for sharing. May i know how to cultivate those values you said about? | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 06:52 AM |
| 6 | When I look at these dating coaches I see typical white or black guysI am not THAT much expirienced in women, but I know its okay to be a south asian short guy. I dont want to deflect saying worse exist, as it would not help you. But I think..... there are a million people like you, I dont think everyone has problem dating. | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 03:47 AM |
| 0 | I next her, or not?Whats with the animosity | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 02:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle your friends?Do you think its deliberate? | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 10:25 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with a friend who is more handsome and tallIts kinda cringe writing it, but i would remind her what she is missing out on or nudge her to show I acknowledge her attraction and kinda make fun of it. I do love watching their eyes shine up when they see something they like, even if that's not me. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 07:08 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with a friend who is more handsome and tallI think its fine. I would've teased the girl for it though before moving on. Dont think much about it :) | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 06:58 AM |
| 16 | How to deal with a friend who is more handsome and tallDo you think its deliberate? | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Would you date if you were in my situation?You can date in your same fraternity for now. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Casual vs serious profile? (Online dating)I think most apps allow you to display what you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:14 AM |
| 1 | ConfidenceHere's my perspective. Confidence isnt an inherent quality. I have three notions, it comes from utter ignorance (which is extremely common and is attractive too), or its a byproduct to the investments you have made in yourself or in your presentation (which attracts different kind of people, but is attractive too). The third is unshakable belief/faith in yourself, but it in a pragmatic way which in itself takes a little courage to do so. A finance bro or high earning man would wield a different … | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:01 AM |
| 16 | People with extreme anxiety, how do you manage to cold approach?The only way to get rejected is to get rejected tbh. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 16 | Mean but sexy7/10 sweet and cute > 10/10 mean bih. I am of fragile ego and i am not used to assholery, especially from women in my life. I have bad expirience from one of those, I don't want to expirience that ever ever again. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Tijuana Red Light DistrictProstitution isnt seduction. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 07:51 AM |
| 1 | questionYayy food | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 07:24 AM |
| 13 | Any questions involving seduction, ask awayI wanna know why you can answer stuff, atleast gimme your feats as such. A small intro before AMA | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Rate my openerMaybe look through her photos and open her through the hints she provides? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 01:29 AM |
| 13 | How to make women feel the "spark" for you?You cant. She wasnt attracted to you and used an excuse. My notion of 'spark' was - an attraction which pulls women off their feet. When I look back, I had girlfriends at my ahole phase who must have felt that 'spark' cause.... reasons. You never know what a woman means by it, niether its your problem. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What to say when girls lick their lipsMaybe they are frank castle | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25?❄️ | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25?Prostitution is looks maxing. Guess we get to learn new things everyday. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:32 AM |
| 18 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleplease don't advice me to get on dating apps, those things are rigged against men. But yeah let me know if some of you are going or whent through something similar. First of all - dating as a WHOLE is rigged against men. Women get to choose, and men do the approaching that in itself is one sided. And second, say whatever you want, people do get laid, make relationships and even marry through dating apps. Just saying "no apps dont work" is same as "no, approaching wont work cause i am ugly". Yeah… | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next sessionIn previous posts, you were critiqued in your openings. May I know, if its alright, why did you not tweak your lines? Were you nervous? Also, its alright. It happens sometimes. When we were clubbing, my roommate went to talk to a girl but the girl's bodyguard fridge stopped him and asked "Why did you even think she would talk to you". Our whole group of 7 turned to her side baffled, my man was almost on the verge of crashing out too. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Field report #2_1 with video recorded (in spanish) | Shame again | Less nervous | All failedBad opner imo. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I can talk to girls now, how do you actually get dates?Interesting. Where i can learn more? | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 11:30 AM |
| 3 | I can talk to girls now, how do you actually get dates?Its impossible to not feel fear actually. What i think, the inertia becomes smaller and smaller as you meet more women but fear still lingers. You kinda have to push through fear every time. Confidence is an inherent quality of a man, its nothing to do with fear. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 10:18 AM |
| 5 | Best girl of my life… worst outfit of my lifeThats really neat. Congratulations on the date | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Im afraidThat's great! | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Im afraidGo for it. Do post your report on approaches, it will help us greatly. All the best ! | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Becoming attractive after weight loss?Thanks for the advice ! | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Looking for PDF or Ebook BooksI have never "cold approached" someone as this sub's people do. I have dated 3 people, all were whithin my social circle. I don't have any tips other than being yourself, being an attentive listener and always be ready to walk over and interact rather than keeping it in your head. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you charm bad bitches?Yup. Exactly. The term 'bad boy' doesnt make any sense. Its just like a misrepresentation of a masculine archetype like 'goth girls' for alt women. But "like attracts like" is a flawed statement too. I have seen few of seniors and family who are reserved and cool have hot headed fierce women for their girlfriend/wives. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you charm bad bitches?What is "a bad boy"? | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Good openers for Latina cleaner at work?Do you say hi to her? | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 08:55 AM |
| 0 | Do Women Really Have That Many Options?How? Can you give me more detail? I am tought and learned that money is the foundation where a social circle is formed. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Do Women Really Have That Many Options?low quality men What makes a man high quality? Money aside of course. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Looking for PDF or Ebook BooksNot exactly. When I was in prep school, i didnt have time to approach women. All i did was brush up some basic concepts, practiced emotional regulation and hobbies. I also worked a lot on my humor. It didnt took more than 1-2 hours a day and help me improve socially a lot. | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | officially am a redditorCan you critique your profile from a female perspective? | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Asking a former student for a dateIs there a considerable age gap? Then wait for it to end. If not, atleast try to get to know her. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Everything in this subreddit is useless in AmericaAre you always this confrontational or are you just grumpy? | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Everything in this subreddit is useless in AmericaWhat the fuck you talking about smh its not that deep | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Field report - failedYou can get all the theory from FAQ of the sub. Can I get more data on HOW do you get rejected, when do you realise it? Do you enjoy talking to women? | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 03:21 AM |
| 10 | Field Report 4 (24 approaches all up)Cool. Its commendable how many approached you do tbh. You take rejections well. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How realistic is Peter Parker’s transformation in Spider-Man 3?>Was Peter actually becoming attractive because he became more of an asshole, or was it because the black suit made him more confident and assertive? Is the movie making a point about confidence rather than being a jerk, or is there some truth to the idea that people respond better to someone who’s less nice and more dominant? You can understand it as a spectrum. You can be a social butterfly, sweet, caring, listening and very chirpy with everyone, or restrain your voice only to special people, … | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Bro, You're Not Gonna Change HerI think I am. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Saw the same girl a few times on my walks, smiled and waved today. What’s the natural next step?Late night fan fiction | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What is the best strategy for picking up hot girls as not so tall guy?Usually it wouldn't be a youtuber who would decide how i behave. But if it helps you, who am I to judge. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 07:50 AM |
| 2 | What is the best strategy for picking up hot girls as not so tall guy?No no that's the opposite smh.... women are looking for a good time too yk | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up 10s and 9s that guys constantly hit on?Me | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a passive observer during night game?Well, i dont usually go to pubs for when the first time i went i was kinda alone. But the music was good so I grooved a little in the corner among the tens of them dancing. I can dance on my own, it was dark anyways. It was fun yk, no one cared i was alone or what i was doing, i had my shots paid my tab got up to leave. Did I talk to anyone? No. Did i have fun? Yeah, absolutely. So when you are alone right, have fun in that too. No one told you that you have a mission to get home a girl or you f… | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel invisible to womenOne or two for 100 approaches..... is not bad at all imo. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I feel invisible to womenBro dont do that if its not your thing. It will come out as cringe. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….I would say the process of attraction, conversation, the thrill of the first move and the sexual tension of it all is more exhilarating than the sex itself. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | You are gonna be the next ladies man, mark my words .. Prepare yourself!This sounded more like an MLM pitch than anything. Even jumbled sentences are more meaningful and coherent. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Should I try something again?May I know what went wrong in your date? Also, I think the ship has sailed. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.I understand and agree to the statement. And I am not saying looks force people to be rude with you, but it can very well be a contributing factor. People tend to overlook certain linguistic and behavioral fallouts in conversations if your looks can fill the gaps. People tend to get more 'tolerating' is what I am trying to say. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.You are extremely not in the category of "chopped". Its not your looks bro. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomDamn. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 02:28 AM |
| -2 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.I see. Let me guess : Rate yourself out of ten in these parameters for me. Fitness, face shape, symmetry, hairline, eyes, skin health and voice (record yourself saying something sexy and hear it). | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.Are you coming out as overbearing or extremely pressing? Or... are you extremely chopped? Its difficult for me to analyze because I dont have a single data of your interaction. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What kind of guy get more girls?Maybe the one who doesnt has to know which type gets women. There isnt a single "type". My senior was a cool bloke, rarely spoke but what he spoke was enough for women to fall for him. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | how can i seduce my sisterEww man | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Where would i find a rich millionaire woman?You are just a witness if you are it does not affect you actively. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 04:16 PM |
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