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circle_s_ranch/r/askMRP20/12/19 11:55 PM
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circle_s_ranch/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/19 07:07 AM
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Not having kids makes it that much easier to make a clean break and not have to coordinate logistics with regards to the kids.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 10:35 PM
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Thanks. If it weren’t for the kids, I would have the day I found out. Kids add several complex layers that I’m in the process of working through. For example, she would have been working this whole time. Also, I don’t want her to fuck up my kids more than she has. Plus divorce will cost me and my kids - she doesn’t give a shit or doesn’t understand. But I totally get what you are saying. Thank you.
/r/askMRP24/12/19 08:35 PM
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Thank you - enjoy the holidays, as well.
/r/askMRP24/12/19 12:12 AM
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Very good point regarding no fault state and not letting them decide.
/r/askMRP23/12/19 01:38 PM
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Thank you. This is helpful! Yes, but worthwhile to confirm in case there was someone that looked like me. Hard to think though. I couldn’t imagine walking from a child I have raised always thought was mine. That would be harder than this mess.
/r/askMRP23/12/19 01:38 PM
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It’s a horrible contract. I learned this recently. Regardless of what happens, neither option will be what I set out for in life. It will require changing how I view these things in general. It’s all bad.
/r/askMRP23/12/19 04:17 AM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP23/12/19 12:50 AM
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Thanks for the responses. My first concern in this has been my kids. It’s been a real nightmare. I know it’s supposed to be about “me”, but they are at an age where they need my involvement. My “beta” traits were being a provider and too much of a mr. nice guy, always putting others before me and trying to keep everyone happy. Obviously, I have learned that was wrong.
/r/askMRP23/12/19 12:23 AM
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Thanks. This is helpful. Both viewpoints.
/r/askMRP23/12/19 12:01 AM
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Thank you. Good feedback.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 11:10 PM
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Really? I never said losers go to yoga. That has zero to do with why he’s a loser. Don’t spin what I said. Also, who talks shit hiding behind a keyboard when someone is looking for feedback on a fucked up situation. Not looking for sympathy here, but what you are saying is not correct.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 10:56 PM
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Yes. I did not grow up in the states. My wife did.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 10:32 PM
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Good point. And a definite concern of mine. Thanks for your response.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 10:29 PM
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Thank you for your feedback. I know that is an unpopular opinion here. I can only say it’s complex because of my love for my kids and the limited amount of time I have with them while they are young. It’s hard to explain every detail, but the thought of another man raising my kids stops me from leaving immediately. In addition to that one critical point, I have other concerns that I need to work through before making a final decision. Thank you for your response.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 10:27 PM
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What part was righteous? Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 09:13 PM
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Sorry. Ha! I grew up in Australia. Mate. Meant buddy. Homie. Friend. Etc.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 09:12 PM
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One reason and one reason only. Actually 4. My kids. All 4. I would think owning your shit would include protecting your kids from a bad situation. It’s complex.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 08:55 PM
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It’s a conflict of the two, but appreciate the feedback.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 08:53 PM
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Thank you. Had some issues accessing this after I posted. But I’m here and very appreciative of all perspectives and advice.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 08:52 PM
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Thank you. I believe this to be the best option for me for the next 6 to 12 months.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 08:51 PM
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I think leaving is a bigger setback at this time. I would have been the loudest on here about leaving until this happened to me. I think divorce will be easier after 6 to 12 months of getting my shit together. If it was ongoing or happened again, I’d be gone. Things are stable to where I have control and can work on myself. Unfortunately, I didn’t know how bad of a contract marriage was when I was younger or I would have not gone down this road.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 08:48 PM
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Very helpful. Great perspective. I am trying to figure it all out. Something else that I briefly noted is the well being of my kids. Their life would permanently change for the worse.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 08:39 PM
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It’s definitely an internal conflict. My kids are 6, 8, 9 and 12. Since she hasn’t worked, and I have, it would be bad. I’d be looking at every other weekend and one night per week with my kids. I’d have to move out. I’m in one of the worst states for men.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 07:08 PM
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Thank you for the feedback. Yes, if I knew what to do, I wouldn’t have posted. It’s a struggle because the outlook of immediate divorce is rough base on my situation. I would have been the loudest on here about leaving if it weren’t for my kids. That’s where the complexity comes from.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 07:04 PM
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Yes, I’m in a no fault state. One of the worst for men. Thank you for the reply.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 07:01 PM
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This is part of the struggle. I am starting to realize I cannot forget.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 06:47 PM
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Yes, I meant buddy.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 06:45 PM
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