Ha! Men don’t ‘pine’ for a woman, he simply gets horny or drunk (or both) and then forgets all about his lil ‘feelings’ once you allow yourself to play the fool/he jacks off. The latter of the two is infinitely more agreeable in my opinion, because then only one of you will feel like crap afterwards. NEVER allow yourself to be at the whim of a man; most of them don’t even deserve women anyway