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PURGE WEEKhappy_discus/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:28 PM
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What the fuck is flirting. Shit feels like I am insulting them. I don't want to be mean towards anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:49 PM
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I texted her and I'm meeting her cat this week. And we're probably going to meet up again too. Maybe skating or baking or something like that. Maybe she does like me as a friend or more. Probably just as a friend. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:13 AM
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Making her feel uncomfortable. Because I am weird or too much. For example, I texted her today if she wasnts to hang out again even though she hasnt responded to the other two. (They were cat pictures.) This is the third text in three days. The only people I've met as a date more than once were either love bombing me or crazy in other ways. I dont know shit about dating and stuff. Also I am always overthinking everything. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:06 PM
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I'm very afraid I will develop a crush on her and it'll be awkward because she won't reciprocate. I know I only saw her once so far and we'll probably won't see each other for days but this is the first time I enjoyed a date fully. If it was a date. I really don't know and I'm very scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 11:44 AM
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I think I went on a date yesterday. I'm not sure if it was a date. It seemed like one but it could have been just friends meeting up. I really don't know. It was great though. If it was a date it felt very natural and easy going. That's very rare for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:02 AM
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I need clear communication. If you want me to do/provide something you'll have to tell me. I struggle with irony and insinuations. I hate dishonesty. Just tell me the truth. I can't read most social cues and body language since I usually don't look at people while talking to them. I'll think about more later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:58 PM
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I know but neurotypical people don't want to date me and I've got lots of communication issues with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 08:10 PM
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A few things: Communication differences, Sensory sensitivities, Anxiety or overwhelm, Need for emotional support I cant provide, Probably health issues I cant help with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:25 PM
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I'm neurodivergent myself and struggle to connect with neurotypical people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:50 AM
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I've come to the conclusion, my standards are unreasonably high. I want someone physically attractive who's also neurodivergent without any of the negatives. That's not possible. So I'll have to stay single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:31 AM
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I personally don't have a problem with her looking through my phone or any phone privacy. It just depends on the context. If she wants to know what I post on Reddit or look through my Instagram thats fine by me but it can't come from a distrust angle. If you don't trust me I'll just leave. I would never look though since you either show me or its irrelevant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:50 PM
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Yesterday I took a picture of myself and for the first time I really like it. It's a weird picture but it's so hot foe some reason. I hate taking pictures of myself and I usually look either goofy or just outright disgusting in them. But not this one 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:18 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:39 PM
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I should really make a post about how any form of romantic or sexual interest in any other human is almost always morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:22 PM
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I dont have any social media apart from reddit and instagram. Instagram seems to be out of fashion with GenZ. I'll try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:18 PM
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I like your thinking. I'll definitly try it. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:17 PM
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How would you go about it? I can't just ask her: "Are you gay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:01 PM
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I already asked her friend. She doesn't know her age, sexuality, relationship status, or interest in relationships. They are friends though. I should have mentioned it in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:39 AM
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I don't know her real age. She could be as young as 22 years old. Are you sure about the Note?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:37 AM
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I need your advice. Last week on Thursday a friend of mine brought along her friend. We were at the student club. Her friend is really cute and her personality was great too. At least the parts I could see, since it was the first time we met. We talked about philosophy, because she's studying philosophy and a bit about cats. I like cats. I would like to get to know her more. We will be going out with friends tomorrow evening to a student party. But there are multiple problems. 1. I think our age…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:06 AM
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I don't think that's a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:02 AM
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If she's gay I'll try to set her up with one of my friends. They're hopefully a good match. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:23 PM
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Yesterday I was out with friends and one of them brought a friend along. She was cute as hell and we had a few great conversations. She's probably gay though. And I am definitely not her type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:46 AM
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I've yet to meet any autistic women that were interested in me. Most are either gay or asexual. Or I'm not their type. All of which is fine. I just haven't met anyone different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:58 AM
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I wish I could be friends with people first before I date them. But it feels almost predatory and most of the time both genders see it as a dishonest way of dating. I can't do normal dating. I want to get to know a person first. I'm very autistic and have to mask heavily in order to participate in society. I have to determine first if a person is safe to unmask around them. Only then I can even think about dating them. But that's not possible in our current dating landscape. At least not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:59 AM
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Staring at the floor and walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:43 PM
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I accidentally looked up one of my best friends' skirt and feel terrible about it. I then made a conscious effort to look everywhere else. I think she noticed. I don't want her to think of me as a creep. I would never ever look under someones skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:54 PM
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Apparently dating has really gotten frustrating in the last two years. I've been trying really hard but not even a single first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:09 PM
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Could you be more specific which kink apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:12 PM
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Not to brag but I've got four likes on Bumble 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:38 PM
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I am celebrating my birthday today. Were going to fundraising party afterwards. Hopefully I'll meet cute people. I really want to try flirting again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:58 PM
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Do I really got autism related food adversions or did my parents just make the worst food imaginable. My mom never uses any spices and tends to overcook everything. Meanwhile my dad just made the same food every single day. Chickenstrips, pasta, sauce nothing else. Now that I am cooking for myself I actually like food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:16 PM
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Going out again. Maybe this time I get a chance to speak to the random girl flirting with me. I didn't do it last time because I was scared. Women scary 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:24 PM
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Why do random women talk to me? I was at the dorm party and for some weird reason multiple women tried to strike up conversation with me. Why is everyone talk to me? I'm autistic as fuck, why not talk to a human instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:55 PM
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I've had another yearning dream. I really wish I could start dating again but I fear my ex has now spread so many lies my reputation is ruined. I can no longer go to the student bar alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:47 AM
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Anklyosaurus my beloved 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:16 AM
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I'd rather not have them at all. Even asleep they are stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:37 PM
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Last night I've had two long dreams about a friend of mine. It wasn't even sexual just really cute. We were flirting and cuddling and stuff. I hate these dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:23 AM
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Cbat Time 🦟
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:16 PM
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Women 👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:12 PM
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I met a really cute girl yesterday. Sadly she was only interested in my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:00 PM
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WHY ARE MY FRIENDS SO HOT???? I look like a hobo in comparison. I makes no sense. I maybe need to work on my selfesteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:52 AM
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I don't think she's in a well enough headspace right now to make a rational decision. I genuinely believe she can pass the exam if she studies. She won't study though if we keep asking each other to party.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:41 PM
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I kind of want to go out tomorrow evening. But I am honestly scared to ask my friend since she should be studying for her coming exam. I feel like my unemployed loser ass is dragging her down with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:22 PM
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Thanks bro <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:47 AM
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I went to a BDSM convention on Friday and Sunday. It was great. I went out to a queer party on Saturday evening too. I even managed to get my best friend to give her number to a girl checking her out. I knew both of them beforehand and they would be a good fit. Weekend was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:45 AM
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I found out yesterday my ex girlfriend has been not only claiming I gave her a STD but also spreading other lies throughout university circles. This has supposedly been going on for a year now. Makes me want to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:34 AM
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Women are the root of all evil. If women wouldn't exist I wouldn't exist and I wouldn't want a relationship. It's so simple. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:31 AM
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Going out this evening. How would I proceed if I saw someone I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:31 PM
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The left isn't what it used to be. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:28 AM
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What's your passion right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:19 PM
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Where does one meet people liking autistic 28 year old guys with issues. Hes working on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:36 PM
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The house party was good. A friend of mine invited me to go out together too. I wish I had known earlier, so I could've brought her along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:57 AM
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I am going to a house party today and the only single women there are ten years younger than me. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:30 PM
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I wish women would treat me like a dormat. Maybe kick me too as they walk all over me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:27 PM
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Thats a threat. They are looking for you! They are comi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:12 PM
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Q4W: Whats your favorite dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:49 PM
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Yes and its mostly my fault for not trying to escalate things at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:38 PM
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Have you seen their prices? McDonald's is an expensive date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:14 PM
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I truly believe everyone here is normal. It's just that humans online behave closer to their true self. Offline everyone is just pretending to be normal and sticking to social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:06 AM
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I've done it again. My friend is now dating a woman I've introduced to him. I hosted a party a few weeks back and both were there flirting the whole evening. It wasn't even planned for them to date. This is the third time in a year I've done it. My roommate went to pride with me and now hes dating someone. I guide others to treasures I cannot possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:02 AM
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Horticulturist at the university botanical garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:45 PM
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I've got a job interview on Wednesday. I applied to over a hundred jobs but no one wants me. On the topic of no one wanting me. I made a hinge account. Its going well so far. I've got 0 likes and no one finds my messages funny. I can feel it working...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:45 PM
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My best friend has a date on the Weekend. The girl basically picked him out at the party we were at, initiated conversation, talked to him the whole evening, asked for his number and planned the date. I don't know why people argue women don't initiate. You are just not hot enough if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:38 AM
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Women are way too hot. We need to do something about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:47 PM
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She had, still has, Genital Herpes. I don't even know if I am infected. Never had any outbreaks. The percentage is between 10-30% depending on the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:06 PM
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Its not about reducing risk in general. Life happens, I cant stop that. I can reduce the risk of others getting infected though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:50 PM
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The risk of infecting someone isn't 0% and I am not willing to take that risk. I've thought about it for about a year now and there's no other conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:26 PM
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I really don't know. I just regret telling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:17 AM
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Ex girlfriend possiblity gave me a incurable STD. Therefore I can't date again. (I did a STD test but it can be a false negative. If it is a false negative more testing won't help since those will also be false negative.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:16 AM
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I regret telling my friends about my ex girlfriend and why we broke up and why I am no longer trying to date anyone. I wish I didn't do it. Biggest regret in the last few months. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:52 AM
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I'm really depressed today. I went out with a friend yesterday. She's honestly so cute. The weird thing is I don't even want to date her. I'm just depressed about nothing. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:25 PM
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For some reason I completely lost any interest in women again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:58 PM
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Disagree, you can't be Left wing and subscribe to Hasan Piker. He is an enemy of every anti-capitalist person. Class equality can only happen if every single millionaire stops existing. My personal experience does validate your point of left leaning women wanting high earnings in their partner. But I personally think that is because we are approaching a stage of capitalism that's pushing us towards a neo-feudalist society with only very rich people at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:02 PM
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Very big fan of women. Big fan of men and everyone else too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:53 AM
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Feet my friend. Like hands but we walk on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:40 PM
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It's very difficult to defend a foot fetish without getting ridiculed. Just because I defend it doesn't mean I got it. A foot fetish is just as viable as every other fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:13 PM
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I'm trying to map the Iran Israel conflict for a friend. I'm losing my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:02 PM
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Me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:01 PM
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How could I respectfully ask a woman to sit on my face? I don't want to come across as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:08 AM
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I've looked into it and decided I don't want it. In addition I can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:19 PM
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It could be worse. Imagine if I was autistic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:18 PM
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I really want to get back into OLD but I simply don't have any good pictures anymore. Since I had to shave my head because of hair loss I just look worse. In addition I can't use any pictures from last year because I still have hair in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:12 PM
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Sadly not. I often wish ducks were bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:41 AM
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That's a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:36 AM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:20 AM
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Yes, my photography skills are unmatched. I once took a picture of a duck in full HD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:19 AM
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It reduces the numbers for sure. But only the respectful ones will stop approaching. The creepy ones never cared enough to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:16 AM
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Lilith is my queen and I will not stand for this slander.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:13 AM
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My biggest date fumble was me accidentally taking out a condom five times in the span of a minute while searching for a lighter. We didn't meet again. So, If you ever need someone to fumble a baddie. That's my expertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:11 AM
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I know you guys can't feel my feelings but is this emotion, I'm feeling confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:18 PM
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My personal goal this year is getting to the talking stage more often. Once people talk to me they either discover they like or hate me. If it happens frequently enough. It should be way easier to get a few dates this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:46 PM
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Dick Cheney dies and the US immediately goes back to the jungle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:18 AM
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I'm from Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:29 PM
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May I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:41 PM
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Do women introduce their friends to each other in order to get them to date? Because I've never seen it happen before. Yet I keep hearing stories about it online. It seems very prevalent in the US but nowhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:42 PM
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I feel like I'm being strung along? I'm not sure if this girl is even interested in me. Because I am showing more of myself and it's certainly not coming over correctly. I'm so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:41 PM
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I might meet the stoner girl again. She randomly texted me yesterday and we met today for a smoke since she had to leave early.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:28 AM
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Okay, one more silly question. Do you always have to be hyper-aware to recognize where your body parts are in order to use them at least sufficiently? Or can you do that without having to actively pay attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:23 PM
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Sounds plausible I'll try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:27 PM
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Why am I disappointed with myself. I did nothing wrong. These women just aren't interested in me. Not much I can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:27 PM
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How often is taking cocaine still trying? Some girl on OLD told me she tried cocaine twice. She's also talked about taking LSD in a Indian nature reserve once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:49 PM
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Merry Christmas everyone 🎄🎁
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:18 AM
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Thanks again everyone for the great advice. I'm no longer getting any replies from her. It was fun while it lasted. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:35 AM
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The first time I met her she was with some guy from some other floor. And they seemed pretty flirty. I just assumed they were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:13 PM
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Guess who's back. It's me! And I bring more stupid questions. How do I ask her if she's got a boyfriend? I was thinking about: "Is your boyfriend also smoking?" How do I determine her interest? How do I tell her I'm autistic. I was thinking about: "I feel like I should let you know I am autistic as fuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:48 PM
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Update for those still interested. She keeps texting me and I've been texting back. I'm actually enjoying the conversation. I've been poking her with some hot takes of mine. She's coming back to the dorms tonight so we might meet up for a late night joint.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:17 PM
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It's the front page. My personal page is only Minecraft.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:31 PM
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The more posts I read on Reddit, the more I think that women don't like men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:21 AM
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I had to try anyway. Not trying will always be worse than failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:55 PM
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I'm back with an update for those that are interested. I asked her out and got shot down, because she won't be here until New year. Since I'll be gone for a week after New year, I guess that's it. Bad luck. I tried at least. I might ask out this other girl that keeps sending me snaps. I'm really not sure if she has a boyfriend though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:32 PM
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That's a great idea. I'll stand out this way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:18 PM
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Hello humans. I need human advice. Can I text her like this? Hey, what are you doing tomorrow at noon? I'd like to go ice skating if you'd like to come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:19 PM
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I feel like I have to clarify something. She invited me to the pub quizz as we were chatting. It was a very spontaneus invitation. I had to decline her invite because I was supposed to go out with my friends. But they are very late. She knew about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:47 PM
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I have to clarify. She invited me to the pub quizz as we were chatting. It was a very spontaneus invitation. I had to decline her invite because I was supposed to go out with my friends. But they are very late. She knew about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:46 PM
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Stoner girl texted me today and we talked for bit. She invited me for a pub quizz today. But I didnt go. I'm really confused by her. Is she into me? Why is she doing this? I'm confused as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:32 PM
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I can assure you that smoking is definitely not rare for university students. At least not in Germany. Especially after it's gotten legalised. I'm still very confused about it. I'll just have to chat with her once we see each other again. Maybe invite her for some tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:24 PM
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She didn't go to the gym. Because it was too cold. I don't know why she was sitting on the rooftop terrace then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:16 PM
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I just ran into the stoner girl from the 6th floor again. She came all the way up to me on the rooftop terrace just to strike up a conversation. We chatted and smoked a bit. Very unusual behaviour since it was freezing cold and she was in gym clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:30 AM
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Half of the pictures are someone else or with way better lighting/angles. I dont think the hair makes that much of a difference. Dont get me wrong it does make a difference but not this much. I can prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:35 AM
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Happens 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:53 PM
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Just a few neon-colored Christmas decorations and the DJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:43 AM
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I went out with a few friends and my crush. All evening she was staring at something behind me. And whispering to her friends. Really confusing. Had a good time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:15 AM
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I tried to clean install windows 10 on my old pc because it was getting slow and 11 didn't work. I fucked it up. It won't turn on anymore. I was working on it since 2pm. It's now 1am. I'm going to bed. I hate Microsoft so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:48 PM
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I've got no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:00 PM
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I don't think any of the women I've dated were attracted to me at all. I heard from mutual friends that they thought I was ugly. I knew this information beforehand but it still stings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:24 AM
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This one is for the germans here. Unpopular opinion but Sächsisch is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:55 PM
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Although I appreciate your positivity. My experience teached me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:43 PM
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True, its called pebbling. I still want to do it if it was more acceptable. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:33 PM
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I don't know how any doctors didn't diagnose my autism. I used to gift people rocks until I was fifteen. I couldn't have shown more signs. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:18 PM
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I think I finally figured rizz out. Rizz is being honest to them if you're attracted to someone not caring about the outcome if they say no. So for example if I meet someone I can tell them, your hot and stuff and as long as I make it clear I will stop if you say no but I won't make it awkward and change my behaviour it's okay. So you can be a horndog and as long as you make it clear from the beginning and respect people's boundaries it's positive? Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:22 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOY5VXYCSAN/?igsh=NmZ4c2tqMTliZ3pi I think funny profiles work more on Americans than. I'm not insinuating Europeans are humourless. I made a profile similar to that and it didn't work. It's weird, since I personally think it's very funny. And definitely more creative. Has anyone made a similar profile and can attest to my findings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:35 PM
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Are you sure? Because none of them knew about it. I was just helping out at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:17 PM
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I shaved my head and finally feel hot now. A few girls were flirting with me yesterday evening at a party I was hosting. I would post a picture but showing myself online is icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:10 PM
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I agree with the belief you hold and the ones the other people hold are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:54 PM
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I sadly can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:35 AM
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Because the German government decided it. I am studying history and philosophy in the Bachelor of education program. And for some reason Latin is needed for both, although I've never needed it so far. And I'm at the end of my studies. I could have written my bachelor thesis next semester
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:50 PM
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I didn't pass Latin. My studies are now over. I can never become a teacher. All my hard work in the last five years is gone. Shit day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:03 PM
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A few weeks ago I downloaded Tinder again. Not a single match and no likes. 😐 Very frustrating. Even more frustrating is the crush I've got. I want it gone. The girl is never ever interested in me, so I am wasting my time and energy. Why can't it go away. I met with her and a few friends on Saturday. She was stunning. It's so weird. I never saw her more than a friend and now it flipped completely. I want my friend back. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:42 PM
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Q4W What's the best dating app in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:14 AM
1

How does one obtain this good "aura"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:33 PM
1

In every sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:21 PM
2

How does womens attraction to men work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:19 PM
2

I’m the first guy who I know that gets a message from a girl saying she’s home alone, and it’s meant literally. No innuendo whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:24 PM
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My paln was just to chill and see what happens. Thanks bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:16 PM
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Okay and Tom and Marie got nothing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:11 PM
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Tom is Maries roomate and very good friend. Yes, but only because I asked. We talked on the bus about it. It was mainly me talking though since she was either laughing or sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:52 AM
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So, I went out on Saturday we were at the student bar, partying with two friends and their extended friend group. The party was great; I had a lot of fun. We had some drinks, smoked a bit. Well, they smoked, I only smoke weed. But the night was really nice. I didn’t get home until six in the morning. Still, the evening was a bit weird overall, for three reasons. First, I kind of feel like I’m starting to develop a crush on… let’s just call her Marie. Nothing dramatic, not one of those crushes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:14 AM
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Finish my bachelor and master. My bachelor should be done by next summer. And the master is only three semesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:04 AM
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I've got a crush on a girl from my friend group. I'm not sure how to act. I know for sure she's not interested. And I want to keep our friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:18 AM
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I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:21 AM
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I've decided to become hot. How does one achieve hotness?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:08 AM
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There have to be some people attracted to me? It's statistically impossible for no one to be attracted to me. I've ran the numbers through Chatgpt. 1️⃣ Total number of 21- to 35-year-olds Germany has about 84 million inhabitants. The 20–39 age group is around 20 million. For ages 21–35, that’s roughly 12–13 million people. 2️⃣ Share of singles Statistics on relationship status show that in the 25–34 age group about 45–50 % live without a steady partner (single or not married). For ages 21–35, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:46 AM
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What is your biggest hear me out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:21 AM
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I've been there once. Can't say for sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:25 PM
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At what time does the rapture happen? I've got terrible back pain and would like to leave early.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:29 PM
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I am definitely not going to heaven. My life will remain normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:45 AM
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Two more days until my Latin exam. I am freaking out. And I am sort of developing a small crush on a friend of mine. I don't want to. :( I know for certain she's not interested. She told me after her last relationship she'd rather be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:31 PM
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I don't get why people use hair conditioner or moisturizer. Why would you want to add back grease after you get rid of it. If I do the dishes I'm not adding oil back to the pans after cleaning them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:55 AM
1

I've got bad genes. My dad went practically bald at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:02 AM
1

I get nightmares very often. Some are about school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:01 AM
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No, I have to pass Latin to finish my degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:00 AM
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I'm fearing my exam next week. I've been studying around eight hours every day for the last three months. I'm not ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:14 PM
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Fashion sense, dedication to go to the gym, BALDING, money, pimples In general: Me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:12 PM
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I sometimes think about a guy I used to play with in a small clan. One day he just disappeared. We later learned he killed himself. It's been over ten years. I wish we could have played more games. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:17 PM
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Yesterday I went to the student bar with a friend. It was really fun to talk and hang out with her. We laughed a lot. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:27 PM
1

Are you asking me or him? Because I for sure don't have enough sex to answer this question. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:12 AM
1

It's a mandatory exam Ihave to pass to get my bachelor's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:29 AM
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It's a difficult exam i have to do in order to complete my bachelor's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:28 AM
1

It counts and it's a great choice. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:21 PM
1

What's your favourite ice-cream? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:17 PM
2

Dude has a breeding fetish and tells everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:16 PM
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I feel like I might actually pass Latin. If the text isn't too difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:15 PM
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I talked to a cute girl a few weeks ago because she, for some reason, was really interested in us studying together. I texted her again yesterday and she seems no longer interested. My message: I'm starting to study at the bursary this week, if you'd like to study together. :) Her message was something like this: "Thanks :) Tomorrow’s the last day of the mentoring intensive. After that, we’ll see. 🤗"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:16 AM
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There are women among us. 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:11 PM
2

Too blurry. I can barely guess the colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:01 AM
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14 likes so far. No matches yet. I'll keep swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:41 AM
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I feel you, that sucks bro. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:19 AM
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Everybody can get likes from pots or people living thousands of kilometres away. I'm definitely not handsome and to be honest my profile is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:10 AM
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Well, we haven't matched yet. So I don't know about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:08 AM
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14 likes so far. I'm not giving Tinder any money. It's 100% just bots and one human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:13 AM
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I should set up a gofundme for my Tinder Platinum subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:18 PM
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I've got no idea. I don't think I'm insanely good looking..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:45 PM
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What if I am even pickier in dating now. Just narrow it down even more. Or if I try to widen my search.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:00 PM
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I've got no idea. I was at a party yesterday and don't remember typing that message.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:08 AM
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I don't get the concept of dating. I mean there's a lot of stuff there. I can see the bigger picture but I don't get it fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:58 PM
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Dolphin shorts are made by God.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:01 AM
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For every women and man are women and men that are more women and men but also less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:25 PM
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I'm on vacation with my friends and they just keep teasing me. It's almost bullying. I'm always made fun of. :( I'm so annoyed that I'm doing stuff on my own now. I went to a seal rescue station. So many cute sea puppies. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:08 AM
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Why can't I look like this. :( https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMyVuTJOJuk/?igsh=OWV5MWZhZXJlYWh6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:26 AM
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Why can't I look like this. :( https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMyVuTJOJuk/?igsh=OWV5MWZhZXJlYWh6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:25 AM
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I don't think I am suitable for a relationship. I need way too much time for myself and value my peace and quiet a lot. The other person would have to compromise a lot. I don't think anyone would be willing to compromise to this extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:19 AM
2

It's Payday 2 music for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:16 AM
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I don't think not doing the test is worth the risk. If your school finds out it could mean repercussions for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:14 AM
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Women are mystical creatures like Trolls, Gnomes, Fairies or Unicorns. I don't understand them at all. Imagine being that pretty or magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:13 PM
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I talked to a therapist today. He told me to go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:04 PM
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Yes ☺️ The battles were amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:30 PM
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I watched pirates of the Caribbean 3 yesterday. Keira Knightley 😍 Orlando Bloom too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:18 PM
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A cute girl at the club smiled at me but I could not talk to her because I was too scared. I don't know why I am so scared again. It used to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:40 AM
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I got my haircut and left. Sorry bro. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:46 PM
1

Känguru Chroniken von Mark uwe kling. Kangaroo Chronicles by Marc Uwe Kling. It's a banger. If you ever have the chance to read it or listen to the audio book, do it. It's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:26 PM
1

A really cute girl sitting next to me at the hairdresser. She came in and smiled at me. She's reading though so I can't talk to her. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:54 PM
1

I don't understand. You want me to hug the doorframe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:37 PM
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I plan on going back to therapy once my healthcare provider pays for it again. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:34 PM
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I have a few friend groups. It's a different kind of loneliness. And pets are not allowed in my dorm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:33 PM
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The last few months have been weird. I've had no interest in women, men and anybody else, not even horny, but simultaneously I've felt lonely and touch starved. I don't know what's wrong. I've been busy but I've also been busier before so I don't think it's me being too busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:11 AM
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<image> Saw butterflies a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:41 PM
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I work at a flower shop now. I enjoy it. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:30 PM
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That's rude but true. Next argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:08 PM
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Why is pink singing about trust fund babies? What's your favourite song of all time. Mine is wind of change by the Skorpions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:06 PM
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How do you deal with longing for a different life? I mean I can't change the past but I would have loved to enjoy school or find teen love or enjoy sports. Life has changed a lot and it's way less simple now. (Mods this is not a woe is me. I am genuinely interested in solving my problem.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:04 PM
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I know very few men in relationships but almost every woman I meet is in one. Who are women dating then? I really wish there were good statistics for it. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:43 PM
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I don't think that's true. I know a few happily single men. All of their relationships ended with her finding someone better. Relationships are inherently transactional be it a physical or non physical transaction. As soon as you no longer provide a benefit to someones life they leave and find someone better. I'm not saying that's bad. It's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:11 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:43 AM
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My friend made out with a girl. That's good 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:23 PM
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I'm way too horny lately I'm thinking about talking to women again. And women are scary. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:18 PM
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Everyone, I just hit the jackpot. I was about to take the bus down from the student bar, and a taxi just hailed me and said, "Come on, I'll give you a lift," and it didn't even cost me anything. Absolutely honorable! I must have thanked him hundreds of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:06 AM
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That's actually a good idea. Should I give it to her directly or leave it with the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:47 PM
1

Its a really small shop and never empty enough. Almost always there are people waiting behind me. Talking to her is very difficult since there is always some grandma being impatient and breathing down my neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:47 PM
1

That would be quite difficult, since its a really small shop and never empty enough. Almost always there are people waiting behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:46 PM
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The cutest woman I know works at a small shop which sells baked goods from the day before. I wish I could approach her. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:01 PM
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Do what? It's the exact same thing everyone tells me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:30 PM
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I'm sorry. :( The biggest improvement to dating was going to university. I had no chance in my hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:05 PM
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I went out partying today. There were two cute girls there. They tried to talk to me and one of them made out with a friend of mine. I feel like the shy one was flirting with me. My friends keep telling me just to do "it". But when it comes to talking with strangers I just shut down. I can talk to people just fine if I know them a bit. I know the basics and how to proceed but acting on it is impossible for some reason. Still had fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:22 AM
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I am a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:07 AM
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It's a type of allergy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:35 PM
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Q4W: Would you date a guy with really bad hay fever?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:21 PM
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I like playing Stardew Valley. Me and my friends are playing together. The farm is currently closer to an industrial farm than the cozy farm the devs envisioned but we're having so much fun. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:08 AM
2

I can't tell if you are joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:23 PM
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Maybe I should start writing smut. I'm a good writer and women love smut. It could be my avenue to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:25 PM
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Party wasn't great. Half of the people left at 10pm and the rest at 1am. :( I feel like they had a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:23 PM
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Sub is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:27 PM
3

If the US President can ignore the supreme court you can ignore your ex. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:49 PM
2

Even if your Ex is there. Just have a good time anyway. He's got no power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:32 PM
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Maybe I should propose to Margot Robbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:30 PM
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I don't think they are gods. They are still out of my league. Sometimes you just have to accept the facts. Not everyone can be Henry Cavill. Someone has to be Adam Sandler.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:25 PM
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Really cute women in the clubhouse today. :( Because even though one or two of them have been staring at me the whole time, I just don't dare to talk to them. If they were all ugly, then it wouldn't be so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:57 PM
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I feel for him. My feet are huge and there are apparently very few companies selling my size. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:18 PM
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The main problem about Mens fashion is it either caters to tall muscular men or twinks. If you fall anywhere in between it will look awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:18 PM
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Difficult day today. I miss my ex a lot even though she was a bitch and the girl I talked to for a few days ghosted me. Summer has begun too so there are pretty women everywhere. I used Apps for a bit but it completely destroyed my confidence. This is not a woe is me post. Life is going well just dating, love and sex is far from optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:19 PM
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So far I planned a chill space outside, beer pong and techno in the basement. If everything works out it'll be a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:30 PM
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Big birthday party on Saturday. Really excited and terrified, considering it's my party. I really hope my different friend groups get along. And my neighbours don't call the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:26 PM
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I was just at Kaufland. I don't understand why everyone is shopping today and then acts like they're shopping for the first time in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:18 AM
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Do women not realise they are hot or cute? Because I met several women that seem to be oblivious to their hotness or cuteness. The hottest thing a woman can send me is a video of her early, the morning with her morning voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:15 PM
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I don't understand. I do understand its not just "checking the boxes" but at some point there has to be something I am forgetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:48 PM
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I have no idea what I am doing wrong. By all metrics I should be able to get a girlfriend. Yet I keep falling. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:24 PM
1

The description of dicks is usually very detailed. And they tend to be either large or comically oversized. I've read descriptions like "his dick was a long as my forearm." That's about 9,4 inch or 24 cm. The average penis size is around 5,7 inch or 14,55 cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:03 PM
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No. Modern romance novels and Tiktok bullshit warp womens minds. To be fair, Tiktok bullshit warps everyones mind. In my opinion, and I read a lot of modern romance, the tones have shifted since 50 shades of gray. The guys are way more "stereotypical dark triad guys" than before. Its always a very tall, very muscular and comically large endowed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:54 AM
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That's a cop out answer. I am asking from a purely hypothetical standpoint. And you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:26 PM
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Do you care if the person isn't a loser? For example your best friend since highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:50 PM
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The best part about finger food is always the sauce. For example a mozzarella stick is always just a tool to carry an amazing garlic sauce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:47 PM
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Welp, she's moving away tomorrow. And it's really far, so we probably never see each other again. Great. The one fucking time I find someone interested in me they fucking leave. I am honestly pretty mad. But there is nothing I can do about it. So back to the Apps I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:01 PM
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She explicitly told me: "Not yet."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:17 AM
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I had another date today. We were outside chilling in a field stargazing. We walked around. I tried to make a move, but my hand holding got shot down. Not sure how to proceed. I am not that interested in a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:11 AM
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What kind of snacks do you eat? Pussy 😎🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:12 AM
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we can tell. Oh. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:09 PM
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Stuff has happened since yesterday. I texted her and asked her if she wanted to hang out again. She apparently had lots of fun and wants to hang out again. She also confessed that she had told me the wrong name. And was really embarrassed about it. We have sent a few messages. But I am really at bad texting. So the messages kind of fall flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:58 PM
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No, we were outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:06 PM
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A bit of a disappointed discus. Just chilling, getting ice cream, and smoking weed. And I earned €2. Because it was €8 and a red note. It was fun, though. Politically good understanding. As I said, too bad, because it would have been worth it. Should I write her? Because I don't think there's any interest. Beyond the herbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:54 PM
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Matched with a girl on Tinder an hour ago. She messaged first and I asked her if she wanted to hang out, eat ice-cream and smoke some weed. For some reason it worked. I am on my way now. I am terrified. 😶‍🌫️ I have no idea how to act, what to do, what to talk about and what the expectations are. 🫠 My friends are just telling me you'll manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:47 PM
1

Yes 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:05 PM
1

Why can't I look like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:48 AM
1

He's definitely not always winning. His party got the second worst result in its history under him. He's literally the last guy they got. They tried everyone else first. He even left politics for a while because Merkel beat him so badly in the race to become party leader. He knowingly lied throughout his whole campaign, only to change his stance completely. He got so much hate for that. And he collaborated with the AFD once. He's very much disliked. According to an April poll by research institu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:49 AM
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Friedrich Merz is definitely not progressive. He's staunchly conservative right wing. Some of his ministers are good friends with governor De santis. But he's universally disliked, even in his own party.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:33 PM
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He will try for a second round. If he fails again it will be over politically for him at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:30 PM
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In case you missed it. Germany held its chancellor election today and Friedrich Merz lost. This is the first time in its history this happened. This is a historic date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:56 AM
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Q4A: Minimum and Maximum age you are willing to date Mine: 21:35. Am 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:19 PM
1

Why is she doing the Elon salute?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:18 PM
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Her hopefully becoming the opposite of you implies you being bad and raises the question. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:11 PM
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My sister is so smart. She's getting the best grade in her classes without trying. I am so proud of her. I wish she could see how smart she is. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:41 PM
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I wish I was able to send more messages on Tinder because I am so much funnier while high. Objectively funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:16 PM
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I want to the big Party. I had a great time. Met lots of new people. It was really fun. I was quite sad, about my friends changing their mind and not going to the student bar with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:33 PM
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I am now going to the big party, because my friends cancelled on me, I barely know anyone at and I am already fucking done with this evening. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:31 PM
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No, absolutely not. I get extroverted once I am a bit drunk or high. Otherwise not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:22 PM
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Question: Should I go to a really big party I barely know anyone with my friends or go to the student bar with my other friends. The first one cost €20 entry fee and the second one might not happen because my friends might be tired. But I promised my friends to go with them, if they go to the student bar. I am really stuck. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:51 PM
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Remember men, always yell WOWIE when it goes in. Women love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:55 PM
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I installed it again a few days ago after not using it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:24 PM
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I would do that but her profile is as bland as a British dinner. The only thing she has on her profile is a picture of her playing tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:57 PM
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Do you have a better idea? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:24 PM
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I matched with a 10/10 on Tinder a few hours ago and I have no idea what to write to her. "I don't want anything serious/open for commitment on Tinder” and so does she. I thought of: I'm glad you don't want anything serious because your ass is melting me. 😎🤙 or Too bad you don't want anything serious, because I'm serious about that ass. 😎🤙 But that's so bad💩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:07 PM
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Okay, thanks. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:44 PM
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(Stupid question) What do I say then? I can't just say: "Hey I had fun, can I give you my number?" After not speaking much to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:07 PM
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I went out with a friend yesterday. He was invited by a group of girls. It was honestly crazy seeing them flirt with him all the time while I was completely invisible. One girl basically begged him to sleep at her place. I would have loved to flirt with her friend but she's so far out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:38 PM
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Why am I crying over the Phineas and Ferb ending. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:43 AM
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Taking my ADHD meds completely removes any hunger feelings. I don't like that. I struggle with eating too little already and this is making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:01 PM
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Snacks, alcohol, little bit of food. It's a house party after all. (I've never been to a house party nor organised one.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:42 PM
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Friends and acquaintances I invited to my birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:11 PM
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Hey guys, I'm celebrating my birthday on May 24, 2025. Come by at 7 p.m. at (address) preferably already eaten. I'll do the shopping for everyone. If you can't make it or have special requests, just let me know. You're welcome to bring someone, of course, but please let me know in advance. :D Do you think this is good as an invite? I created a WhatsApp group and sent this message in the chat and in the group description. I am panicking because I don't want to annoy them. This should not be so st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:31 PM
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Build a perving-inator and zap him with it. Or talk to him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:53 AM
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Question: Are you saying women never settle for less than "Alpha" the definition of what's alpha changes instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:51 AM
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I am organising a house party for my birthday in may. Do I ask everyone individually or do I just create a WhatsApp group with everyone I want to invite?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:06 PM
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Happy Easter 🐰 It's 4.20
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:59 AM
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I hate OLD with a passion. So I guess I have to try irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:18 PM
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Basically everyone. Mostly the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:21 PM
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Yep, I asked out a girl in highschool and got bullied relentlessly for it. I just told her I had a crush on her and if she wants to go to the zoo together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:35 AM
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I tried to clean my bong and broke it. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:26 PM
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I don't think I am entitled to casual sex. That's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:26 PM
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I am not risking getting ostracized from society again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:30 PM
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My current goal is not a relationship. My last relationship was so stressful i don't think I'm ready for another one. I'd rather have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:47 PM
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You are telling me I should look at women from a purely sexual standpoint? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:17 PM
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That's very reassuring. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:16 PM
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I am genuinely so scared of making women uncomfortable that I'd rather not interact with them at all. I used to be better at it but it's gotten worse again. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:07 PM
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They are definitely real. Just so rare you will probably never meet one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:26 PM
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Controversial opinion of the day: If a woman tells you she's a switch, she really means she's a sub. No problem with that of course, I just don't like it when people lie to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:00 PM
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I was at a birthday party on Friday and had a blast but I sent this message to friends ( I don't know if we are truly friends because we don't do much apart from partying and sometimes I help them out in dire situations. I consider them friends. I have no idea how they feel.) because I was so drunk and high: You're all so cool. 😎 Their response was: Whaaat Thank youu *we You're cool too I have no idea how to proceed from there. I want to ask them to hang out again or maybe party. But I am so emb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:41 PM
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It's such a banger book. Maybe my favourite of the whole genre. It's stupid, fun and way too relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:42 PM
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I look up at the stars and I see the same stars humans thousands of years ago have seen. It's a connection to both the past and the future. Trillions and trillions of stars, planets and everything else. It's so humbling. In the grand scheme of things, what is a human life in comparison to the age of a star or the universe. Yet here we are. Thinking and exploring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:25 PM
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Drove my friends to the airport because the train they wanted to take left 15 minutes early. Thank you Deutsche Bahn. They called me a sweetheart. Yay 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:30 PM
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Most of them are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:04 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:03 PM
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Told my friends I used to be an incel because we talked about the male loneliness epidemic. I have no idea if they hate me now. I should not have done it and I am now panicking. At least the weather is nice today. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:45 PM
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I talk to a few queer friends at the. Lgbtq party. Apparently it's not a very cis thing to say: "I'm willing to sell my soul to look like (Name)."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:02 PM
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Edge of Glory ~ Lady Gaga sounds like a gooner song. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:50 PM
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I'm sitting on the bus. We are barreling down a 30kmh road with 70kmh. The bus is creaking and rattling like crazy. I fear for my life. On the other hand there are people eagerly waiting for me, so I'll get there faster. If I survive. If I die spread my ashes in a porn studio parkinglot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:18 PM
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I watched the Minecraft movie a few days ago. I have never ever been this bored by a movie. The movie isn't fun or funny. It's not even so bad it becomes funny. It's just awful. All of it. Almost none of the actors tried at all and Jason Mamoa tried too hard. I could have watched Paddington in Peru. Instead I watched this garbage. I didn't even pay and still was scammed. The cgi is made by blind people and the story was written by a five year old in crayon. Has anyone who was making this film ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:06 PM
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I have no idea. I met mine at the student bar. I saw them playing UNO and asked if I could join. Since I've been there very often, I went there alone almost once a week, they let me join and we exchanged Instagram. I kept asking regularly to go out and that's how we became friends. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:29 AM
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My ETF is so fucked. 32% Tarrifs on Taiwanese goods. Most of the world is run on their chips. The tech sector is fucked. Link On the more positive side. I'm going to watch the Minecraft movie tonight. And I was invited to go party tomorrow. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:33 AM
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Wild story. Now I don't feel as bad about me smoking weed next to the cemetery anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:23 PM
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The best spot to watch the sunset is right next to the cemetery. I feel so weird sitting there next to someones dead grandma enjoying life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:03 PM
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Just make shit up like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:02 PM
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I don't like it when people tell me hard times build character. It's enough, my character is built now. The hard times can stop now, I'm evolving in the opposite direction. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:24 AM
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I went to the student bar yesterday and one girl told me she had to tell me something important but then she changed her mind and didn't tell me. I am both curious and worried about the topic. I hope it's not something bad. We talked a few times and I've met her boyfriend. Her best friend flirted with me once. (I'm not sure though, I could be mistaken and she was just being nice.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:55 PM
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I invested a month ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:48 AM
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Invested all my money in ETFs. It's going as expected. I lost around 50 Euro in a month. US government is ruining world trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:00 AM
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Ask him what his favourite dinosaur is. Or something else out there. Ask him about his opinion on different realitys. If the convo is dead already might as well send it and try to revive it one last time. This is your chance! Either he texts you back or it wasn't worth it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:50 AM
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Brooooo, online dating is so weird. They're all so strange and fake. Like they're not even human. On a more positive note. I had an amazing week. I visited a friend in his university city. I went out yesterday and had a great time. Although one girl wanted to tell me something, but didn't choose to do so, so now I am worried I did something bad. My friends are coming over tomorrow evening. And my studies are coming along. Oh, and I watched Andor. How did Disney allow that? The show is amazing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:13 PM
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I have no idea how to approach women outside of a context in which we either get introduced to each other or they approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:36 PM
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I wish that was me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:56 PM
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E-girl and tomboy style are so hot. ❤️🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:39 PM
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Thank you for your advice. It seems pretty straightforward. I will try this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:50 PM
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What's your favorite pudding flavor? How to get god tier rizz?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:34 PM
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All of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:07 AM
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Maybe I am confusing dominant with direct conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:39 PM
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I wish I could date a more dominant woman. Because that makes it easier, to understand everything if she tells me what she wants instead of me having to guess for everything. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:58 PM
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I understand. Some cross contamination with food is normal and generally safe. Cooking generally destroys any bacteria and stuff. So if you roast them well it should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:06 PM
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Trains 🫶 🚂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:02 PM
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You won't die. But if it smells terrible I would not eat it. With food I would always rely on three senses. Eyes, smell and taste. If any is off always proceed with caution. You won't die. Just maybe a stomach ache.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:02 PM
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If that's true, I've missed so many clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:58 AM
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How to flirt? Me can't flirt well, me feel like caveman. Me need advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:10 AM
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I like my friends. 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:37 AM
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Women are real and they are on their way to get you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:11 PM
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Apparently 93% of true crime listeners are women. Why is that? Link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:30 PM
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I guess you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:31 PM
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I always thought highschool drama would end after people went to university. Apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:06 PM
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I can't believe I had a discussion with a 35 year old man that doesn't believe in peer pressure and is more stubborn than a fucking five year old. Why am I wasting my precious time with this? Maybe I can outsource it to AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:18 AM
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2,5h :( 7 machines with 15 repeats on 3 sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:22 PM
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They are 25 and 35. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:16 PM
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I'm German. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:16 PM
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Full body workout. Mostly machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:16 PM
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I had a fight with my friends because I told them the training regiment yesterday was too much and I don't want to go to the gym again. They told me I was being ungrateful and I should voice my discomfort next time. I guess: I'm nauseous, my head hurts, I have stomach cramps, I feel like throwing up and I want to gp home. Isn't clear enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:35 PM
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That's a robbery. I pay 3.6k for a year, to live on campus. With tuition and food included. 6.6k
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:29 PM
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I feel you. I went to the gym because of back problems. It did help with my back problems. The pain there gets masked by all the other pain I am in. :DDDDDDDDDDDDD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:09 PM
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I don't know what the names are. I mostly used the machines. For legs, shoulder, upper chest, more leg stuff, arm stuff and even more leg stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:40 AM
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The gym experience with my "friends" was absolutely horrible. I did the stuff they said but I almost threw up and I was extremely nauseous. I told them multiple times: "I need a break! This is too much!" But they just laughed. I came home afterwards, threw up and then cried for half an hour. I'm not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:32 AM
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10:28 AM
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:29 AM
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I've been lying here for hours. When do I stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:51 PM
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They are turning the fish gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:33 PM
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Going to the gym again, for the first time in months. I am so nervous and I have no idea what to do there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:32 PM
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I don't understand how to flirt. Stuff that's flirty for one person is either irrelevant or harassment to another person. That thin line in-between is so difficult to hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:05 PM
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I saw her at the student bar first and then she was in my Latin class and now we talked at the student bar again. I didn't initiate the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:40 PM
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I have her number. What do I do now? I never get this far. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:45 PM
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The more drunk I get, the more I believe I'm attractive and that people like me. Also, one girl blew me a kiss. I did get her number, since she basically forced me to accept it. She was really cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:58 AM
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I got offered a makeover yesterday, because some store here thought it would be good PR. I said yes and they tolk a picture to send to the boss so she can decide if I fit. She said no. :( Apparently the style they picked out wouldn't have suited me. It really crushed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:28 PM
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I have never felt so cool in my life since I wore this leather jacket from my dad. I found some big sunglasses too, so now I look like I am from TopGun. 😎 And people have complimented it. Wtf is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:41 PM
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It must be the leather jacket my dad gave me yesterday. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:17 AM
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I got a Reddit warning for encouraging violence. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:04 AM
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My stoner friends didn't get that message.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:26 AM
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I've been going out alone a lot. With friends it's just more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:26 AM
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I want to go out with friends but they either don't have time (damn you spring break) or they rather stay in and smoke weed. I just want to go out and dance. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:50 PM
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Are conservative men more often in relationships than left wing men? My personal experience is varied. Since in my smaller home town this tends to be the case. But not in the university city I live in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:13 AM
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You forgot the link. :( I cant click there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:54 PM
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Which hand do I use for a high five? For example if they use their left hand, do I use my left hand too or the right one? I gave someone a really awkward high five yesterday and want to learn for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:01 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:23 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:19 AM
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I was just in the student bar, now I'm waiting for the bus, I was invited to an after-party, also with the woman who wanted something from me. But now I don't think she wants anything from me anymore. I declined. I have to study tomorrow. And I told the story from Saturday to a friend and she said that's normal to be overwhelmed and I should have more confidence since I am not a ugly guy. (I think she might be lying to make me feel good.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:11 AM
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I don't think the chivalry one is bad. I'm making a hyperbolic statement about me "losing" to men saying racist shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:34 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/aJ5m7jjxVh I am losing to these people. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:42 PM
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Every girl deserves to be a queen and I am Robespierre. /s (MODS THIS IS A JOKE!)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:18 AM
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I almost never have a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:16 PM
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When other people see me as something other than a guy that just happens to be there. It changes everything and causes me extreme stress. Because then I can't just be myself without judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:58 PM
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Going out partying is no longer fun when I have so much pressure on me every time. :( I like dancing and being myself. I don't like others invading my happy moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:03 PM
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Now being sober. I looked at myself in the mirror and came to the conclusion that the poor girl must suffer from lapse of good taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:15 AM
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I didn't reject her. She told me she wants someone else this evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:48 AM
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Is it bragging if I tell you I went home alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:34 AM
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I think one of the girls here is flirting with me. I don't know, I'm very drunk. I could be wrong. She said rawr and said that I'm hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:02 AM
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I don't like catfishes. I'm vegetarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:45 PM
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Going out this evening. Anything you people want me to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:55 AM
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10 bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:51 PM
1

I don't think that's true. Want to bet on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:28 PM
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Two. I speak English and German.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:26 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/y0i61367hole1.png?width=730&format=png&auto=webp&s=01b93462993c585d92ffe697b830ad5f386a4645 Saw "Babygirl" a few weeks ago. Film was okay. But Esther Rose McGregor is insanely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:48 PM
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I guess the correct answer to "What's your biggest red flag?" isn't "My Antifa-Flag."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:52 PM
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I have genuinely no idea how to take good pictures for OLD. I feel like my pictures are good but the results are saying otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:24 PM
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That is easy. Fuck the Michelin man, Marry Tony the Tiger and kill the pringles mascot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:28 PM
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My bio: I AM PURE CHAOS CULT IN HUMAN FORM. 💥🌀 I eat gingerbread at the outdoor pool, am the first on the dance floor, am outside as often as possible, love Minecraft more than anything, study philosophy and history, and am up for any kind of nonsense. Shared apartment parties are my battlefield. 🔥 Hiking? Sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:13 PM
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I can't ask them to meet after two messages. That's apparently creepy and serial killer behaviour. I'm trying to avoid that. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:12 PM
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They don't swipe right on me. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:09 PM
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Online dating is so boring. These people have no drive, no passion. Just the same few redundant questions and boring topics. Even if I try to make conversation or talk about interesting stuff they just pivot back to the same old stuff. :( (Thanks for reminding me to comment here.) :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:08 PM
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Online dating is so boring. These people have no drive, no passion. Just the same few redundant questions and boring topics. Even if I try to make conversation or talk about interesting stuff they just pivot back to the same old stuff. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:01 PM
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Not sure if that argument is good. Since that assumes all women that get beat and all women that date drug dealers are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:16 PM
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Nothing I can do No need to be angry or sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:15 AM
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To be honest any person that's interested in me is not only competing with others, not that there are many, but also with my own life. They have to add to my life a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:02 AM
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Why does everyone hate fun and always assumes the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:27 AM
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That's not my intention. I'll change it then to be crazier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:26 AM
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Is this unhinged enough? I AM PURE CHAO CULT IN HUMAN FORM. 💥🌀 During the day I philosophize with Kant about parallel worlds, at night I dance until reality pixelates. 🕺✨ I bake cookies that distort the space-time continuum. 🍪⏳ Minecraft is my temple, shared apartment parties are my battlefield. 🎮🔥 Hiking? Sure, but only in dimensions you don't know. Swipe right if you're ready to turn the universe upside down with me. 🚀👀 I'm thinking about making it crazier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:20 PM
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My opinion on: Women 😍 Men 😍 Everyone else 😍 I wish people would think the same about me. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:28 PM
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Sucks to be them I guess. I'm not paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:34 PM
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I hate this Bumble notification: "Someone is trying to match with you! Find out who it is." Why don't you stop asking me for money and just tell me. Thinking about making a completely unhinged either Tinder or Hinge profile. With stuff like: "I love Minecraft more than anything in the world." Which platform would be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:08 PM
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You want to make a normie account to see how many dates you will get? Could be an interesting experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:13 PM
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Thanks 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:13 PM
1

What does HTN mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:11 PM
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None of these people have ever met any Balkan women. They are definitely not S tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:04 PM
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France and Germany should be both S and F tier at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:02 PM
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What does Stacy even look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:02 PM
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Ten biggest red flags in women: Horse girl Nazi Feminist in name only Woman Not like the other girls Not independent STD Hates Christmas Policewoman Studies medicine or is a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:01 PM
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Oh, sorry. My answer was a bit rude. I didn't expect people to remember my posts. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:21 AM
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Yes. But I find very few men attractive. It only happened three times so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:26 AM
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I went to the club again. The guy I have a crush on was there. Didn't talk to him. He didn't notice me. A few girls wanted me to dab. Declined. Made an online dating profile. Today is not a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:18 AM
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I went to the semester ending party. It was too crowded and generally awful. The guy I invited didn't come. My friends made me drink way too much alcohol. I am so drunk. And I feel awful. I'm thinking about downloading dating apps again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:58 AM
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My ex-girlfriend told me she has herpes after we were dating for two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:30 PM
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Just got the results back. I don't have a STD. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:01 PM
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No. That's spam from either bots or the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM
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I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:04 PM
1

No worries man. I'm not mad people aren't following my posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:37 AM
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I posted about cute guys a year ago. This is not news.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:33 AM
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I have now added him on Instagram and he followed me back. I then asked this: Hey, this is [Name] from the LGBTQ party, are you going to the end of semester party at the [Student-bar] tomorrow night? He did not respond. :( Everyone always tells me people date via friends of friends. Turns put that's a lie. I guess I just go back to dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:09 AM
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Yesterday in an alcohol fuelled act of confidence I asked a friend for the Instagram of a friend of hers because he's really cute. She gave me his Instagram. Would it be okay to text him? I don't want to make things weird between me and the friend group and I fear losing the good thing I have there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:04 PM
1

What AI rates someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:04 PM
2

I wish there was an objective way to judge my appearance. :( I genuinely want to know where I am on the appearance scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:26 PM
2

I will try. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:04 PM
2

Went partying today. Met some people and got loads of alcohol for free. I have no idea why people keep buying me shots and drinks. I am very drunk. Again! I wish I talked to that cutie girl that was staring at me on the dancefloor. Her hair was so pretty. Red curly hair. But I didn't talk to her because I am a coward. Love you all. You guys are so nice to me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:18 AM
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I don't think the people at the student council like me. We had our semester final session and went for pizza. Only two people talked to me the whole evening. :( I really tried to make conversation and maybe new friends but it seems like I'm not that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:13 PM
1

Unicorn vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:01 PM
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I hate how cute many women and men are. Stop being so cute it's distracting me. :( I need to concentrate on studying. I have to go to the student council semester ending get together tomorrow. I am not sure I want to go since I quickly get extremely overwhelmed by them. Saw a very hot woman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/share/reel/BAJOxteYdo Going to a kinky flea market in March. Excited but scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:40 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:46 PM
3

I personally think if the Left wants Men to move to the left all they have to do is ban dating apps. My hypothesis is: Men that get no pussy and get all pussy tend to be more right wing. Men that get average amounts of pussy vote more left wing. Therefore if you ban dating apps and even the playing field men should move to the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:32 PM
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Q4W: Where is an acceptable place to give someone your number?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:19 PM
1

Because neither of these people are real. If I thirst over Kevin Hart I don't thirst about the real "him".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:52 PM
2

Is it morally wrong to be horny for people you know? Please settle this debate for me and my friend. For context: I was at a party and there was super hot/cute guy. So cute/hot that I had an instant crush. But I was afraid that I would fetishize him. Because he is a trans man. But he would have been super cute/hot even if he was a cis dude. Sorry if that doesn't make sense. My view: For fictional characters or celebrities or strangers it's okay. But not for people you know. And I think it reduce…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:13 AM
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I have found out the same thing as the user describes. My best working profile was about Minecraft, Star wars, Philosophy and Space. Although the likes never amounted to any good dates or any relationship. So it seems women/men/others like brutal honesty on dating apps but don't really like the person behind it. And there seem to be things you better keep hidden. For example if I wrote "I am autistic." on my profile I would get zero likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:03 AM
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I just don't see the point of working really hard just to get someone absolutely insane. The amount of work does not get justified by the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:55 PM
1

I'm very much into women. I just despise dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:45 PM
1

Sadly I don't have his number or any social media so I can't ask him out. :( I could message his friend. Since I have her Instagram but that's probably a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:44 PM
1

I didn't know that either until last year. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:43 PM
2

I don't even know if it is worth self improving and trying hard in regards to dating just to end up with someone batshit insane. And it's not just women. Most people seem to be absolutely deranged. I'm not willing to search for a needle in a haystack. And then if you find someone remotely normal you have to be attracted to them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:59 PM
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I don't know how I can say this. But one of the guys that was at the party on Saturday was super hot/cute. So cute/hot that I had an instant little crush. But I was afraid that I would fetishize him. Because he was a trans man. But he would have been super cute/hot if he was a cis dude too. Sorry if that doesn't make sense. I'm confused. Because that's never happened to me before. I've never dreamed about anyone afterwards or wanted to kiss someone after meeting them for the first time. Never...…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:59 PM
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The correct answer to someone complaining about no one wanting to make out with her is not. "That's rough."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:09 AM
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I'm a little drunk, so my perception is clouded. But I'm 50% sure that 4 women/men/others flirted with me this evening. I'm 70% sure about 2 of them. But I was too overwhelmed to respond. The evening was still really nice. 🤗 I didn't spend a cent because they bought me everything. 3 shots and a special drink callea blue hand grenade. That was really tasty. The Mexican wasn't. That was just OK. The shot, that is not a person. It's kind of unfair that everyone is so hot. I mean wtf. Almost everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:19 AM
1

I love fruit tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:50 PM
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I don't know bro. She talked about her type and it's apparently paul mescal. I don't look anything like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:48 PM
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I worked for a few years before going back to school and then university. So I am a bit older than my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:45 PM
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There's a really cute girl on my student council. I really want to ask her out but I can't. And it would be inappropriate too. I suspect I'm way older than her. All her friends are 20 so she's probably in the same age bracket. Me nearly being 27 is too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:07 PM
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I dreamt last night I posted a picture of a hot alternative girl on here (PPD) and the woman responded that it was her. She was living in Munich, so I went to meet her. I suddenly remembered I'm scared of women so I woke up. Later I dreamt I was being chased by Kermit the frog. So i don't know what is wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:48 AM
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Yes. They were moderator approved. The interview was via Zoom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:56 PM
2

I did an interview with someone a few months back. They were looking for incel men to interview. I wonder how many were willing to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:51 PM
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I'm abusing the free electricity and internet in my dorm to set up a Minecraft Server for my friends. I thought about growing weed in my room too. Maybe a bitcoin miner. None of these things are banned. :) In other news. I should have been more careful when dating. If someone tells you after two months of dating, that they were in love with you after the third date. Or they want "our" children to have your eyes. Or they want to marry you in the future. That's a red flag. 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:23 AM
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I really want to start dating again but can't. At least I don't have a STD. Did a full STD check. Still have to go to a specialist to find out what it is. I'm so fucking angry. Why did my Ex never disclose she had an infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:34 PM
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Q4W: Would you consider meeting someone, for a date, from Reddit? This is a hypothetical question. I would never meet someone from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:13 AM
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Honestly, I don't miss my Ex. I really expected it to be worse. I don't even miss sex. I do miss eating pussy a lot, but that's it. I really thought I would be crying for days. I guess life isn't like the romance novels I usually read.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:09 PM
1

I'm not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:42 PM
2

I genuinely like this Subreddit. People, at least in this thread are so nice and supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:35 PM
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I don't want to brag. I just like to talk about my day. I don't have someone that listens to stuff like that. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:37 PM
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I'm a bit hungover today. But I had a great time yesterday. Met lots of fun people. The barkeeper girls gave me two rounds of shots for free. Just because I am in their class. They insisted on me coming today again. I don't know why. I don't normally drink. I usually just have a chat with them. I don't think they want me there so I spend money since they gain nothing from me spending a lot of money. Because it's mainly funded by the university. They wanted me to join their study group too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:14 PM
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Thanks. I had a really good time. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:39 PM
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At the student bar again. Partying, my best friend is with me and we are both drunk. She keeps buying alcohol. And wants to play wingman now. So many cute women here. Typing is really difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:50 AM
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But I like potatoes. :( If you suggest that it's Tate propaganda, I can assure you my intentions are purely philosophical. I don't think the human trafficker has any idea what he's talking about. His version of Aristotles teachings is a perversion of the original meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:09 AM
1

You have no idea how many women are interested in philosophy. It's mostly a female field. At least in university. And even those not studying it react positively if you talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:56 AM
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A lot of people would benefit from studying Aristotle. His doctrine of the Mesotes describes virtue as the golden mean between two extremes. For example a "good" person is getting the right amount of anger if they have been wronged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:28 AM
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I don't understand. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:27 PM
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The amount of parties and other events I suddenly get invited to despite changing nothing in the last few years is astonishing. I have done nothing and suddenly everyone likes me around. Feels very disingenuous. These people don't really like me. I feel the same about dating. If you would never have given me a chance just three years ago, you don't really like me now. I imagine if I got really hot it would be even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:06 PM
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I don't know. I didn't do anything with them. Because I have to get a full STD screening first. I want to make sure I didn't catch anything from my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:22 PM
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I had an amazing time on Saturday. The girls were fun and kept buying me drinks. One asked me to drive her home but I had no car that evening. She was really disappointed about it. The other keeps messaging me on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:38 AM
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Finally no longer sick. Immediately got a message from a girl asking me to go party with her and her friend. On my way now. My ex-girlfriend gave my stuff to a random guy at the dorm I live at. No idea why. I repeatedly offered to pick it up. Now I have to arrange a meeting with a guy I've never met before and hope he didn't damage anything. It's so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:52 PM
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Its okay bro. The stories do sound made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:53 PM
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I'm not. And that's rude as fuck. :( No seriously. Check my profile. I'm here a lot. I'm neither a troll nor larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:32 PM
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They were rainbow coloured and really comfy. I like warm and comfy socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:32 PM
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Two observations My biggest regret in the relationship is giving her all these gifts. She didn't appreciate them and knowing her threw lots of it away.I want my stuff back. Mostly my sweater and my thigh highs. I didn't watch any porn nor masturbate while I was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:25 PM
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My city has very good public transport. Busses run every 15 minutes until midnight and then every hour. With the addition of the 49€ ticket I can use every train and bus in Germany. Apart from ICE. So it's way cheaper than driving, and parking. Parking usually isn't free in Germany. In addition some parts of the city banned cars so I can't drive there anyway. Also you don't need to stay sober if you go partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:44 AM
1

I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:34 AM
1

Everyone sometimes does. And other times you like being a dude. That's completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:51 PM
1

Most of the time I travel by public transport I see a really cute girl and I just wish it was me. I mean everyone does this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:35 PM
1

I don't think I am jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:36 PM
1

I don't understand. Why would that make me Blackpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:46 AM
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Speaking from experience and observations most women are attracted to men with the typical Captain America look. At least in university. They also seem to be only interested in fucking them not relationships. Maybe women here are just a different group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:46 PM
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I'm confused why everyone is claiming men don't want women to take the initiative. And then only list conservative men. Men make up more than 43% of liberal voters. SourceThat's not insignificant. In addition the US centric leaning of this discussion is leaving out most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:40 PM
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I feel like my next relationship should be started as a friends with benefits or just friends. Because dating in general is just hell and really difficult for me to slowly warm up with someone whilst under the pressure of the other person expecting me to do everything and the looming "I love you." four weeks into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:34 PM
1

I used to until I had a girlfriend. But I haven't since our breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:39 PM
1

I'm only half joking. I'm really trying to have a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:31 PM
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I'm now trying to have a hoe phase. I'm in the kitchen trying to spin plates but so far I've only broken two plates. Can't get them to spin right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:19 PM
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Now that my friends are dating again, I'm alone again. I'm still going out, it's just not as fun as it is with friends. Thought about going to the gym again to look better but the amount of effort in order to look like Captain America is just too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:44 PM
1

How to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:02 PM
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I asked my friend again to give me some advice. He's still refusing. If only I was a cute girl. So I would not have these problems. On a more positive note. I'm slowly learning Latin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:44 PM
1

That's sadly not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:38 PM
1

I am observing I just don't understand how he does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:05 PM
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Sometimes I wish I was a cute girl. But that's not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:10 PM
1

I don't think my friend is doing it on purpose. He might just not see a point or has no idea how to explain it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:05 PM
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My friend doesn't want to let me know how he manages to talk to people that easily and get women interested in him all the time. He claims it's easy I'd just have to drink alcohol. But alcohol only makes me annoying, not interesting. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:21 PM
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I think, while the Semester break was on we had a great thing going on. But with the Semester starting i struggled to make time and needed lots of alone time. We also stopped communicating well. So it stopped working.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:55 AM
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She was. I luckily didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:48 AM
1

If you write it like that. It sounds way worse than it was. But yes, she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:47 AM
1

I luckily didn't catch it. It was close though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:46 AM
2

I feel like I made a mistake by breaking up with my ex. She really loved me and fought for the relationship but I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:42 AM
2

Single again. Don't want a relationship anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:24 PM
2

I will send glitter to the department for education in my area as a retribution for making me take a Latin exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:54 PM
1

Yeah Bro. That's the spirit. Just fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:55 AM
2

Why can't men and women not just date each other? It's so easy. Just needs people to be attracted to each other. That's all that's needed. It's genius!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:19 PM
1

A few days. Afterwards I always used sunscreen and never had that problem again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:36 PM
2

It worked really well for me to get rid of my akne temporarily. But I got a nasty sunburn afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:44 PM
3

I went to the chocolate market in my city. I love hot chocolate. 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:40 PM
1

I am not made for relationships. I need lots of time alone and I struggle with providing emotional support every day. It's too tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:01 PM
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I'm happier now that my girlfriend is visiting her parents at home and we can't see each other for two more weeks. I don't think I have it in me to break up with her before christmas. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:32 PM
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I'm happier now that my girlfriend is visiting her parents at home and we can't see each other for two more weeks. I don't think I have it in me to break up with her before christmas. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:32 PM
1

Thanks bro. I really needed that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:54 PM
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Every time someone mentions CBT I don't think of cognitive behaviour therapy but cock and ball torture. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:52 PM
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Me going to every Christmas market possible. I went to four already and they started last week. I LOVE CHRISTMAS SO MUCH!!! I made 5 kg of Gingerbread cookies last weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:20 PM
1

She's blocking the messages. He just makes more Instagram accounts and buys new phone numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:44 PM
1

Since I am autistic my needs and wants are different than most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:05 PM
1

Yes, that's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:29 PM
2

That's not nice to call her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:23 PM
1

I don't think I am a good case for that argument. Since I am not a average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:22 PM
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Probably. I don't think relationships are for me. I don't care about sex and i have friends foe everything elsw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:13 PM
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I talked to my girlfriend about me needing more time to study alone and having less time to spend with her. She didn't take it well. :( Especially since her creepy ex is still messaging and trying to blackmail her. I'm starting to dislike this relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:09 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/GenZ/s/3A5pgUtvn6
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:13 AM
4

I just saw the statistics on GenZ. So it really was a incel revolution. Most young men voted Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:00 AM
1

It's nothing. I just wanted to celebrate. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:20 PM
2

Good. Just a bit annoyed that her second comment after getting the news of me being healthy was: "What did we learn? Don't overreact!" Third one was: "Now we can finally fuck again!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:42 PM
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It's not herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:32 PM
1

Yeah I am that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:39 PM
1

Which rabbit hole? :0 I love rabbit holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:25 AM
2

Quite good. I had a psychologist appointment today and the weather is beautiful. The symptoms have lessened as well. Maybe it's not herpes. I have a doctors appointment for screening on Wednesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:24 AM
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I will become a weed farmer for myself. I already like gardening and smoking weed. Why not combine the two. :) Thank fuck its legal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:01 AM
3

Spending my Sunday morning in a doctors waiting room isn't what I had planned today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:00 AM
1

It's genital herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:05 AM
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No, she hasn't taken any antiviral since last year. Apparently that's not necessary if you have no outbreaks. I will go to a doctor as soon as possible. But it's holiday week next week and most doctors are closed until November 4th.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:27 PM
1

That sucks for him. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:23 PM
2

I'm not 100% sure but the spots look like textbook cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:23 PM
2

It's not as bad as that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:42 PM
2

Genital Herpes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:42 PM
1

I can't :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:42 PM
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I'm so fucking mad right now. This bitch gave me a STD. I cant ever get rid of that shit. WHY WOULD YOU ONLY TELL ME AFTER TWO MONTHS OF DATING.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:13 PM
2

Open PPD, read one comment, got called out, leave. Great Comment in question: "The good guy's qualities are generally that he wants a girlfriend and wants love and affection. He tends in his inexperience to be polite and non threatening with women because he's been told assholes are impolite and threatening and is afraid to flirt or be sexual since he's been told creeps and assholes flirt with women. He makes up around 20 to 30% of young men today. Most of these men will go with the first girl t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:37 PM
3

I just had one of the worst experiences of my life. I was out with my girlfriend and her friends at a tavern. It was so loud, crowded, uncomfortable and warm. I had a awful time. I wanted to cry the whole time. But I had to pretend everything is fine so my girlfriend doesn't get mad at me. I already made her very mad once this week and I don't think I can survive another fight like that. Before anyone asks. No I can't tell her I'm uncomfortable. She will make a big deal out of it and project any…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:05 PM
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I might be very autistic. But I can assure everyone here. It's definitely not just being friendly. I talk to lots of different people and I notice if someone is being friendly rather than flirting. It's all pattern recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:16 PM
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Why do women keep flirting with me? Go away I have a girlfriend! It's so annoying. I get it, you only want what you can't have and preselection is real but at least pretend to not be stereotypical RP characters. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:05 PM
1

I'm not eligible for food banks. But I looked into "Too good to go" and that seems promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:03 PM
1

I'm not eligible for financial assistance or soup kitchens. Germany is very strict with that. Because technically I could move back in with my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:02 PM
1

Were still together. She told me nothing happened and she was just exhausted. I believe her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:01 PM
1

I lie to everyone about me forgetting to eat. I don't forget to eat. I deliberately eat very little on Saturday and Sunday became I can't afford to eat two meals a day. If I pretend to forget my friends only think I'm a idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:35 AM
1

I am not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:52 PM
1

She promised me it was nothing and I believe her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:52 PM
3

The moment I have a girlfriend girls/women aggressively flirt with me. I look and act the same. I was at the club partying yesterday and there was a group of Indian girls waving, smiling and winking at me. I've never met them before. They offered to by me shots too. I politely declined their offers. The same evening a girl I went on a date with came up to me and started heavily flirting with me. She declined my advances before so I just walked away. Something similar happened on Thursday too. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:15 PM
1

I'd love to listen to the playlist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:24 AM
1

It's a joint bachelor party.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:22 AM
1

She was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:21 AM
1

Sure. I wouldn't ask here if I didn't want honest answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:08 AM
1

Hm. I'll think about it. I'll try to sleep now since me lying awake panicking doesn't help at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:04 AM
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Seems a bit harsh. Why should I dump her? Edit: Not a troll. This is my first girlfriend and I am extremely inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:02 AM
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That's me. Why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:01 AM
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I'm really worried right now. My girlfriend is currently on a bachelors trip. The whole trip was going great. But yesterday they went out partying and later to a stip club and afterwards the messages became weird. She was sending so many text and voice messages on the other days but since yesterday night something has changed. No more pictures, rarely any texts, the voice messages are really short too and if I text her I get told she will tell me everything once she gets back. The last video I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:55 AM
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I don't know. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:17 PM
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Hm. I'm pretty stressed right now because something happened on the excursion and I don't know what, but I'm not allowed to know. She doesn't want to talk about it. And there's something else too. Because when I mentioned Christmas she was very defensive and didn't want to talk about it. And her friend told her to never tell me about it. (The second thing.) It's apparently something with immense amounts of baggage. I actually just wanted to give her a nice bowl for her rocks. I'm scared. 😭😭😭 I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:11 PM
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I'm not a virgin anymore but I was one two weeks ago at 26. Many people didn't care but sometimes people thought less of me. The girl I am dating didn't believe me at first and her friends still don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:09 PM
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I don't tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:34 PM
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I don't think this relationship is going to last. I'm always sick and we can't meet up because she's always on excursion. In addition she's funny, outgoing and popular. I'm none of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:25 PM
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I'm already doing that. 🙄 I want a relationship too. Not just meaningless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:45 PM
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It's doomed. :( Her best friend is already trying to break us up by telling her "you're moving too fast", "hes only in it for the sex", "you're too clingy and should be more distanced" and so on. Why are women like this. I haven't initiated one sexual act. It's her wanting to fuck me every minute like some cat in heat. Why does her best friend dislike me so much. I've been nothing but kind to both of them. I can't do anything about the guy she's dating not wanting to commit to her and her being …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:30 PM
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When is it acceptable to ask someone to be my girlfriend? We've been dating for a week now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:15 PM
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Still dangerous enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:08 PM
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At least my best friend is definitely getting choked by her boyfriend. She passed out multiple times form it. I don't know why she proudly tells this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:35 PM
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Was talking to a few girls my best friend and I met at the mensa. She knows everyone for some reason. And the topic of sex came up after my best friend told them I was dating someone. All of the girls agreed that choking is the hottest thing ever. THAT SHIT IS SO DANGEROUS! They are playing with fire. Someone is going to die from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:29 PM
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I like the Christmas decorations in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:46 AM
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I'm getting sick again. I hate this. The one time I got something going for me, this piece of shit body can't even fight off a cold and gets sick again. Can't wait for her to lose interest because we can't see each other for a week. Since that's usually the time it takes me to recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:34 PM
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I haven't asked her and I don't want to push her since she has some fear of commitment. Also we only met on Friday so it would be quite fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:13 PM
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I really hope the girl I'm dating becomes my girlfriend. We had three dates so far and I really like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:00 PM
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You can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:33 PM
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We slept together in my bed. And we fucked a lot. She seemed to enjoy it. At least I think she did. I tried to make her cum as often as possible so she wouldn't get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:19 PM
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It will be our third date so far. She sent me a voice message telling me she's thinking about me every second of her day. So I think it's going well. I like her a lot she's so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:18 PM
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I miss CDs and records so much. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:10 PM
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I was telling my best friend about me having another date this evening because my date really wants to see me again. (We had a date on Friday and Sunday evening. She slept over at my place.) My best friend wasn't even excited for me, she just told me I should not forget to study and work. Quote: "There're more important things to do than date." Girl, you were the one coming home from your vacation two days earlier than planned because you were afraid you couldn't see your boyfriend for three wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:09 PM
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I will probably have my first time on Sunday evening. I had basic SexED but there a few questions remaining. I was asking ChatGBT but the answers were quite inconclusive. :( I already fingered her and licked my fingers afterwards. Is that safe? I just assumed she is clean but didn't ask. I bought condoms and baby wipes. Do I need to buy anything else? I have washcloths and towlels. Do I need to get anything else? Is there anything else really important I should prepare and think about? Thank you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:27 PM
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I don't need my luck anymore so you can have it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:55 PM
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So we met, baked, and talked a lot. Then went to the spot to star gaze and talked some more. She came closer slowly. We then made out for about 4 hours in a field. And I made her cum with my fingers. Then drove her home and went to bed. Because I was so tired. I definitely had fun on the date. :) We will meet again to watch a series together. I'm not fully certain if she likes me. Might have to ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:54 PM
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Date went well. Some things happened. I will make a comment later. You people are not ready for the news. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:50 AM
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Everything has to be perfect so the date doesn't fail. But I can't get rid of the fruit fly infestation and the kitchen is despite my efforts still dirty. I can't make it perfect. I will fail. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:59 PM
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I was done. Deleted ever app then matched with her. I didn't even want to text her but she texted first and didn't stop texting me for hours, sending me essay like messages. So I rolled with it and said yes to her suggestion of a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:44 PM
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Really nervous because of the date tomorrow. I don't want to fuck it up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:30 PM
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Were making fudge and will eat it watching the stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:02 PM
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I talked to my best friend about the girl I'm seeing on Friday and she told me I should not text her so much, even though we texted a lot in the last few days because I seemed desperate and she disliked my date idea. Were baking together and then go watch the sunset/stars. I don't know why she's not excited for me. :( Her boyfriend is really excited for me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:02 PM
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Bro. Do not approach her on LinkedIn. Try getting her insta or something. Approaching on LinkedIn is creepy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:29 AM
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The girl I'm seeing on Friday is so cute. OMG I am going to scream. Can't wait to get disappointed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:59 PM
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I'm rooting for you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:59 PM
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I wish I could help you. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:47 PM
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Why is it scary? :0
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:46 PM
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Date on Friday evening. We're baking together and then watch the stars. :) She seemed really excited to meet in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:48 PM
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It works for me but I also happen to enjoy her music and happen, at least users here tell me every time, to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:35 PM
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That's a good thing. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:34 PM
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Put it in your OLD profile. And if you have Spotify connected to your profile stream Taylor on repeat on mute on your PC to boost up the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:34 PM
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That's such a American thing to do. You'd be declared insane in Germany if you did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:01 PM
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Why haven't you taken the Taylor Swift pill yet? It's the easiest way to get dates. Swifties throw any standards out of the window as soon as they realize a guy also likes Taylor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:35 PM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:52 AM
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Controversial take before bed. Demisexuality isn't real. You just have social anxiety or some other problem. I can accept every other type of sexuality. But Demi is not real. Dating is making me dislike women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:28 AM
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Incorrect. I would date maybe 10% of them. Most are either too hot/ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:26 AM
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I like short hair and I love buzz cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:52 PM
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No. Because I'm new at the gym and have no idea what to do. Assuming I knew what to do, I'd say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:29 PM
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9/10. Hair too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:28 PM
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What kind of deranged individual does such a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:26 PM
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Helped out a grandma at the store today because she couldn't reach the top shelf. She thanked me a lot and was really nice. Why can't more women be like adorable grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:26 PM
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I usually text this after a few messages and get ghosted: Hey, I'm not a big fan of long writing sessions because a lot of personality is lost in text messages. Would you like to meet up for a coffee this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:47 PM
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I paid for a month. I will use the month until it's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:45 PM
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Taylor swift is the only Wingwoman I have. I want to take a break from dating. I get 5 new matches. I hate this I wish I could give these matches to someone who wants them. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:39 PM
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I tried and they don't seem interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:22 PM
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Why does no one believe me when I say they aren't interested. I asked them if they were feeling better amd they gave me a two word answer. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:22 PM
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I have and they gave me a two word answer. Why does no one believe me when I say they aren't interested. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:21 PM
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I think Germany might be easier and I don't have problems getting dates. I csn get first dates. People just lose interest after the first or second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:50 AM
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Because they talked about depression and other issues and they said multiple times they want to make out with someone but don't want the other person to think it means something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:35 AM
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I'm officially burnt out from dating. I'm dreading getting matches, because the conversations are so boring, bland and stressful. I can't wait for the paid month to be over so I can uninstall them and stop talking to women for months. I should have asked out the person that was buying me drinks a week ago. I still have their Instagram. I invited them to party on Saturday but they didn't come because they were sick. So I didn't ask. I could ask them how they are feeling. Or wait until we meet in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:14 AM
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Women only want the best man. I'm not the best guy in my city so I am not wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:19 PM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:32 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:31 AM
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The more I date the more I struggle to see TRP as false. I dislike TRP because sweeping generalizations and dehumanizing of others are wrong. Still, they seem to be right more often than not. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:03 AM
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If someone tells me they are not in a good headspace to date and I see them two days later making out with someone on a party and exchanging numbers my opinion of them will definitely worsen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:54 PM
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I whish I had friends that want to go out with me. I'm fine going out alone. I just whish I didn't have to do it every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:16 PM
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By "spat in the face" I mean, behavior like, going on a date with someone even if you know you never have time to meet up or if you know you will move away soon, or if you know you're not in the right headspace to date. It's just plain disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:15 PM
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I just wish I knew how to change the inevitable outcome. I don't want to get shot down every time, succeeding once and getting a girlfriend would be quite nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:45 AM
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I'm having fun on the date. Everything else is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:45 AM
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Bro, this sounds insane to you but you have to believe me. It's worse now. I didn't get a single date from 18-24 and now that I get dates it's even worse. I'd rather not get any. Because this way I get my hopes up at every date, I put in effort and try to have a good time. Only to get spat in the face every single time. Trust me it's way more cruel if you see the the cake and never get it than to never see the cake at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:25 AM
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Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Dating sucks! Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I am screaming into the void. Thank you void for listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:17 AM
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I don't think the problem is her looks but her personality. She doesn't want to put herself out there and she self sabotages by thinking no man is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:15 AM
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I'm looking for a relationship, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:13 AM
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I don't get it. I meet these people on OLD why would changing the name make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:37 AM
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Don't know, don't care enough to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:18 PM
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Bro, I'm not on dating apps to "meet up and see" thats wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:18 PM
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I will make it short. Date Monday was great, suggested another date. Got shot down again. Shes apparently not in the right headspace to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:45 PM
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I'm vegetarian. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:01 PM
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I don't know yet. I am stressing out because of it. I'm very good at baking but not that good of a cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:55 PM
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Second date on Thursday. Movie evening date. First we cook together and then watch Pirates of the Caribbean. Since I've never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:41 PM
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Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:23 AM
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I met her on OLD. I have to be quicker than other guys or she just jumps to the next guy offering a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:10 AM
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Date went well, I had lots of fun and she seemed too can't wait for her to lose interest. I already offered her another date this week but she hasn't responded yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:34 AM
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I'm meeting these women on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:33 AM
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I don't want to go on a date tomorrow. It's always the same topics, the same bar/cafe and it always ends with them not being interested. It's so boring. I'd rather go out alone and dance than waste another evening on people that aren't interested to being with. In other news, the person from yesterdays party now follows me on Instagram. I send them a message because they needed a password for a university course. They haven't replied. I feel like I shouldn't have helped them. I like helping peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:03 PM
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Again I could misread every sign. They maybe weren't even straight or Bi. I was really drunk because they kept buying me drinks and shots. So I didn't trust my senses. I am going to bed now since I am still drunk. I will answer any messages in a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:20 AM
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I have and she doesn't think it's appropriate for me to do that since I might make someone uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:18 AM
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Yes but I am also looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:13 AM
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She's obsessed with her boyfriend. I don't think she has any feelings for me other than being my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:59 AM
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How would I know they want to make out? I could misread the signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:58 AM
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I didn't want to make them uncomfortable and potentially ruin a friendship. I also don't want to potentially assault someone because I misread a few signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:55 AM
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They were extremely cute and hot. Honestly 100% my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:26 AM
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I might have fucked up. I went to the club. Talked to a few people. Met some queer boys, girls and a few im between, and one of them seemed really interested in me. They talked to me at lot, bought me a drink after I mentioned I get really talkative drunk bought me some more drinks. Held my hand (they held other hands too) always was near me. Asked for my Instagram. I didn't try anything with her. Because they talked about wanting to make out without someone but the person shouldn't think it mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:08 AM
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She has a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:07 AM
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Autistic. I just ask friends if they know anyone they could set up me or try to talk to friends of friends while meeting friends. They either are not interested or taken. And my friends don't want to set me up with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:07 AM
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My best friend is Bi. I go out with her very often. She doesn't want to play matchmaker for me. And hates it if I want to approach girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:59 AM
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I'm already trying that. It isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:06 PM
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First three are good. Not going to try the last one. I hate touching strangers or strangers touching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:55 PM
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Don't know. I don't know them. I only know they are probably students as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:54 PM
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Going out alone again. If I see someone thats potentially interested in me. Like holding eyes contact, smiling what do I say to them to start a conversation. I feel like completing them is a bad idea and only shows me being interested in their body. Every advice welcome. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:36 PM
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Thats a great idea. Thanks bro. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:20 PM
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Our dorm management is refusing to repair the freezers. Now they are broken and everything inside is rotting. I LOST 10 EURO OF FOOD FROM THIS. THATS MY WHOLE FOOD FOR THE WEEKEND. I will send them a bill with the damages. There's raw chicken inside thats now contaminating the whole Freezer and since the watee from inside is leaking out its also contaminating the room. 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 Thats a health hazard. On a different note. I got a date on Monday evening. Were going out for drinks. (Her suggestion.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:04 PM
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I like dancing. I can't dance and I don't care. I will go on the dance floor and flop all over the place. I've now befriendet the club staff so well, they don't even ask for my student id and play every song I request. It's slowly becoming my bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:36 PM
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Me trying to hold any conversation on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:31 PM
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Women and being made fun of. I got bullied until university and many of my bullies were girls. Also I don't want to make others uncomfortable because it probably, don't know for certain, happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:35 AM
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Now back from partying. Had a great time. 4 different girls smiled at me and held eye contact. Didn't talk to any of them. Too scared. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:42 AM
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I wanted to go out with my friends today and they canceled last minute. :( I will go out alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:07 PM
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Half of my class failed the exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:28 AM
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Hey X, What does the duck say when it has a full house? “Quackpot!” :D No response. I'm convinced women are the most unfunny people on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:02 AM
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You see profiles and then like or like with message or super like (maybe with message idk it hasn't worked yet). Then you start chatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:07 PM
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They will. I will never give up. I managed to pass the hardest exam of my semester without studying and only filling in 50%. Nothing is impossible. :) I'm hoping things will work out for you too. Bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:02 PM
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Installed Hinge. That app sucks. UI is terrible and the women seem worse than on Tinder. Going to use it for half a year and report back to you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:54 PM
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Do women even feel attraction? No woman was ever attracted to me therefore the answer is No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:41 PM
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We are still fighting. We need reinforcements. Send more troops and shitty n-count threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:40 PM
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Everything is going great in dating. Everything is good. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm not going insane. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:21 PM
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Thanks for making me aware to my mistake. I have corrected it. It wasn't my intention to misgender them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:31 PM
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They haven't told me their pronouns yet. And I won't use their name online. I can't dox them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:48 PM
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I'm meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:47 PM
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But I'm also bottom of the barrel. So she's at least my "barrel match".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:54 PM
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I could ask another student out on a date, we spoke briefly at the end of the semester. She is quite nice but possibly autistic. She also doesn't like being addressed with female pronouns. She is also potentially aromantic and asexual. I remember her carrying a flag that looked similar to this at the Pride Parade, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:47 PM
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I don't get it. Where's Peter to explain the joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:50 AM
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I don't get it. :( Do I try again tomorrow? Do we, as in me and you go somewhere? Do we, as in we the subreddit, try again? Your comment is very confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:25 AM
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I asked another girl out today and got shot down again. She won't be here until October, since she's staying at her parents place for the summer break. I hate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:02 PM
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My main problem is, I don't know what I did wrong. From my friends, my therapist and my families point of view, I did everything right. I always tell them I must be doing something wrong to fail this often. I don't what I am doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:47 PM
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I don't know if this is allowed here. But honestly I haven't felt this bad in a long time about getting shot down again. :( I know sometimes people just have no time and education is definitely more important than dating. It still sucks, because I rarely connect this well with someone on the first date and rarely allow this much physical contact on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:49 PM
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Do you guys, girls and everyone else think I should wait, hoping that my date will still have time next week. (She said she would write to me if she had time, but I don't think she would have time because 4 homework assignments, an essay and then work leaves little room for other activities.) Or should I write to another student who smiled at me at the end of the semester get together and ask her out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:23 PM
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She told me she's busy from 10 am to 10 pm and goes to bed afterwards. I don't think your idea will work. I will definitely try it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:34 AM
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She told me she is busy from 10 am to 10 pm and goes to bed afterwards. So I don't think your idea will work. I will try it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:33 AM
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Why would I know that. I'm as confused as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:19 PM
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We met from university.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:18 PM
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Some of you might remember. I talked about going on a date today. It was the best date I've ever had. We talked and laughed for hours. It was so much fun. She has no time to date. She has way too much stuff for university and she has to work too. I just cant take it anymore. Currently ugly crying in my room eating Greek yogurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:06 PM
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We are going for a coffee. I would never do archery on the first date. Let alone use a person as a target. That sounds dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:08 AM
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If I don't tell them. Would it still be a problem? Consent, at least in my opinion, requires someone else to be at least knowing about the situation existing. Still, a interesting question. I will definitely ask this in one of my ethics classes and report back with my findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:57 AM
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Want to bet how I'm going to mess up this date tonight? Might make a joke at a inappropriate time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:51 AM
2

Alright secured a date for tomorrow evening. Thank you again. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:24 PM
2

That's a great idea. Thank you bro. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:56 PM
1

I want to send both. To different people. Thank you for the advice. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:52 PM
1

I want to send both. To different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:49 PM
2

Chad would write: "want to bang? 🍆" and succeed. But I'm not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:48 PM
1

What do you guys think about this: Hello X, unfortunately we weren't able to talk at the end of the semester, but I would like to get to know you better. Would you like to go for a coffee this weekend? 😊 And: Hi Y, I had a lot of fun last night and would like to do it again, would you like to go for a coffee this weekend? 😄 It sound better in German. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:39 PM
1

It's not liking women. The point is that it looks like I want to date every woman in my social circle. Which is a no go in Germany. You instantly look like someone only going for sex or someone that sees women only as a potential dating partner not human. Which is also very bad for your social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:29 PM
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Most people seem to like me. I get recognized frequently at the cafeteria. In philosophy other students talk to me without me starting the conversation. I'm, at least in my opinion, a well liked person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:30 PM
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Are you sure this would be a good idea? They all know each other and we see each other regularly. I'm afraid it would ruin my reputation. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:38 AM
1

We had our student council semester ending meeting today and it left me with a few questions. Should I ask one of the philosophy students if she wants to go for a coffee with me because we had a good chat this evening? Or should I ask one of the other two who I haven't spoken to much/at all, but one of them spoke to me briefly, came over especially for that, and the other smiled at me several times that evening. But that doesn't mean anything. But I don't want to ask everyone either, because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:56 PM
1

I know but it happens IRL too. Even my friend always assume the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:54 PM
1

I know but it happens IRL too. Even my friend always assume the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:54 PM
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Why does advice, even irl, given to me always assume that I'm some disgusting person with absolutely no social skills living under a bridge. :( I might not be the most attractive person and might not have the best social skills but I'm not that bad. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:45 AM
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I always try to be nice and be myself. I don't think I reveal too much about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:46 PM
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If I am able to get first and second dates that means I am physically attractive enough to date at first but my personality is so bad they lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:37 PM
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I know I'm probably not her first choice. I want her to make a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:50 PM
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Since she hasn't told me she isn't interested anymore I have texted her this message: Since you aren't free this weekend I have a proposition. Would you like to cook with me on Monday evening, and maybe watch a film later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:10 PM
1

I get dates, that's true. But I can't go further than a second or third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:31 PM
2

Thank you for the advice. I will definitely follow it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:25 PM
1

I will. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:53 AM
2

I'm already in therapy. My therapist told me quote: "I can't help you anymore. Your dating struggles are beyond my ability to help you."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:53 AM
1

I am desperate enough to be looking for advice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:52 AM
1

I'm tired of never succeeding in dating. What steps do I have to take in order to get a 100% success rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:39 AM
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I come to inform you that I fucked it up. I was late, the play was terrible, I didn't manage to close the distance between us (physically), I walked her home and didn't hold her hand and she told me she hasn't time on the weekends after I offered a choice of things to do on our next date and we "maybe see each other next week"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:57 PM
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women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:32 PM
1

Two questions: What characterizes someone as needy? What makes someone become unattractive? (Assuming you were attracted to them before.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:43 AM
1

I don't get what's needy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:45 AM
2

It's already falling apart. Our date on Thursday is already in jeopardy. And she seems to loose interest already. This is faster than usual... Going to bed now. Our conversation. Me: I just checked for the theater tickets, because I wanted to reserve them. They are booked out on Thursday and Friday. :( I'm currently looking for a alternative. Her: Oh no, that’s a shame:( Thanks for letting me know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:05 PM
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I HATE SHELDON SO MUCH! I HATE HIM. I'M NOT SHELDON, I SOUND NOTHING LIKE HIM. STOP TELLING ME YOU'RE LIKE SHELDON. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:02 PM
1

What would make her lose interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:12 PM
2

She's written on her OLD Profile "sending memes is a greenflag". So I thought me might like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:59 PM
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How can I keep a womans interested until we see each other again on Thursday? I'm afraid she'll lose interest. I'm not that good at texting. I'll send her a meme later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:42 PM
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I hope I do. I think I text her to little.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:16 PM
1

Yeah, we met on OLD. She seemed excited to go on another date. So we're going on another one on Thursday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:02 PM
1

It hasn't happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:58 AM
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I haven't used it yet. I didn't use it last time. Maybe that's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:06 AM
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I noticed a pattern. Every time I meet someone in the context of dating, I get excited to do stuff with them try to get to know them and every single time they lose interest a few days/weeks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:02 AM
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That's genius. Thank you. :D I also plan to have a picnic under the stars with her. The Perseids are currently happening and it's always quite beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:50 PM
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Okay, date over. It was really good! We want to go to the theater this week and then I'll see what else I can think of. 😅 Unfortunately, the theater is on summer break. And only one play is on and it's market square. But I'm not sure if that will be any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:43 PM
2

Very pretty picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:19 PM
2

I don't think it will be similar. People hated Hillary way more and Trump was way more popular. Still think Trump is going to win again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:18 PM
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Date later today and going to ask out a different girl too. Wish me luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:17 PM
1

Yeah, but I already know how they work on me. I want to see it on other people. And I can't use anything with clitoral stimulation on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:53 PM
1

Yeah but most toys are made for a female genital configuration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:48 PM
2

Got all these cool sextoys and no one to use them on. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:25 PM
3

Is it fine to not text after after arranging a date. I haven't texted since Friday because we arranged a date on Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:32 PM
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I act the same around women and men. Awkward. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:05 PM
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94f. It hasn't cooled down at night for nearly a week. Idk what temperature the parking lot had but you couldn't put your hand on it. My shoes also have black rubber soles so they heat up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:08 PM
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It's so hot here one of my shoes has melted onto the asphalt. Thats bad. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:50 PM
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Feel you bro. My parents always told me I was basically perfect. That's a lie. I honestly wish you the best. You seem to be a good person, maybe you will be lucky one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:17 PM
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Question regarding pants at the bottom. I told my best friend if she could set me up with someone if she wants. She told me she doesn't know anyone. This is a lie she's the most extroverted person I know. Doesn't matter though. Date planned on Monday. 😎 Going to ask out a different girl on Monday too. It's the last time we see each other till wintersemester. So I have to take my shot. Also question for those good with clothes. Can you recommend me good looking shorts for someone thin and tall. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:14 PM
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Same, I would do them but the health risks are just too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:36 AM
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Most Women really have no idea how much effort a muscular body takes. I talked to a few of women at a party. One of my friends is very muscular and they think I can achieve such a body in 3-4 Months. That's impossible naturally. At least for a normal person. Many also thought the Marvel muscle body is natural. I fear for our public health system, since two of them are in medical school. HAVE ANY OF YOU EVER SEEN A SCHOOL FROM THE INSIDE????
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:29 AM
2

Revenge is like a two-headed viper. While you watch your enemy go down, you're being poisoned yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:18 PM
1

I watched it because people kept recommending it. Was really boring. Same as community and the office. Just boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:15 PM
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Texting on online isn't that hard. Ask a few questions, make a stupid joke and either the woman shows interest or it's a dud anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:14 PM
1

Q4W: What is your favorite part of a male body?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:30 PM
1

I think she's just inexperienced in regards to dating. In addition to underestimated how much time you need to invest and that you have to decide what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:52 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:37 PM
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I might stop dating the girl I'm currently dating. She just told me she doesn't have time for the next few months. I can compromise on not being romantic, even though I'm very romantic person, but I can't compromise on never meeting. It didn't work with my ex and it probably won't work now. Why date me if you don't have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:30 PM
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I don't do drugs. It's called philosophy and I study it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:33 AM
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Time isn't real. Evidence one: A moment for example shopping, can be in the future, then now and then in the past. Therefore shopping is all of the above, which is impossible. No things can be in the past and now. I will now propose a solution to this problem. The moment shopping is not one moment but three. Shopping in the future is one, shopping currently and shopping in the past is one. They are all equally happening. All of them float in a sort of "balloon" of moments. In other news. Everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:39 PM
1

I will focus on my studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:17 PM
1

For me personally winter doesn't work in regards to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:10 PM
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I know but for me personally winter doesn't work in regards to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:10 PM
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I wish summer wasn't over yet. Only two more weeks before bad weather returns. I didn't have enough time to find a girlfriend. Winter time is awful for that. And people are way more open to date in summer than winter. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:50 AM
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I can't date multiple people so I currently date one person. So I stopped searching for other people to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:20 PM
1

I'm not Chad. I'm just a normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:54 PM
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I went to school till 9th grade, changed school, took two more years to graduate, went to high school, dropped out, went to trade school, dropped out, went to high school again, graduated, and went to university. I changed one of my subjects after 4 semesters so I'm a bit behind in my bachelor. Also Latin has forced me to delay my bachelor even more. I want to graduate next year but probably can't because of Latin. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:31 PM
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I'm a university student. I work at my cousins flower shop sometimes. My parents pay for my education, since I'm not eligible for student loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:26 PM
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The moment I stop searching, women really want to talk to me. If this doesn't work out I might ask out the cute girl with the FNAF lore sticker on her IPad. I really like talking to her. Our age gap might be too big, since I'm 26 and she's 22 I think. Also some girl talked to me about her dating life and wanted to give me advice on mine. Was really weird, since I didn't start the conversation and she's 20. Am I that much behind children want to give me advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:10 PM
2

I haven't paid for anything yet. We split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:26 PM
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I'm a romantic person. I never asked her about being asexual so she could be asexual too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:42 PM
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She told me she doesn't know if she's aromantic. I could be lucky. Honestly I don't know. Maybe because I am a retarded idiot or because I'm sick of dating and stupidly believe that this time it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:35 PM
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I get a lot of dates. Just nothing comes out of them. Currently dating someone possibly aromantic (she might not feel romantic attraction). So nothing will change for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:20 PM
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Talked to my friends about dating someone possibly aromantic (she can't feel romantic attraction), they really hated the idea. My best friend told me to break it up and try date someone else. She was adamant I was only hurting myself and I should date someone who's interested in me romantically. I told her about my matches on OLD and the one that really was excited to talk to me. My friend wanted me to date the girl from OLD. Got really angry after I told her I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:19 PM
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I consider myself involuntary celibate. But I got nothing to do with the incel movement or any other incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:13 PM
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I know. I just can't date multiple people. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:17 PM
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I can't do it because it makes me feel bad. And because dating is incredibly stressful. Social interactions are stressful in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:23 PM
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My dating history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:18 PM
1

I didn't ask her if she's asexual too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:24 PM
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That's a good question. I might be a idiot. (We met IRL though)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:23 PM
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Okay I decided to commit to date a possible aromantic person. It probably won't work out, since she already seems disinterested. And hasn't texted since lunchtime yesterday. Unhinged take: If I discover my professor uses reddit I would drop that course immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:45 PM
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After I decided to date one person for now because more is just tiring me out. SUDDENLY I got ten matches. And one of them texted a lot. I apologized and wished her well but it feels like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:16 PM
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I wish I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:40 PM
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Because I'm attracted to these people. And because the ones that aren't weird would never date me. And bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:34 PM
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Aromantic – someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction. She didn't talk about being asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:33 PM
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Date went great. But she thinks she might be aromantic. Help. :( Aromantic – someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:18 PM
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Unhinged take before I got my date. A Picknick under the stars is the best way to start becoming more physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:45 PM
1

Yes, without question. We're going to be so happy together. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:18 PM
2

I can't believe the Democrats really nominated Biden. He's the only person I can think of that would lose to the orange wannabe dictator.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:53 PM
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That's what I've been doing. She just answers them in short sentences. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:50 PM
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Are you sure? Wouldn't it be a bit too early to ask for it. I mean I would love it if she sat on my face but we haven't had our first date yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:49 PM
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19,5 ft sounds a lot. Maybe you should see a doctor about it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:07 PM
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surprising your sexual needs means:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:06 PM
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Tomorrow will definitely be shit. I really don't want to be disappointed again. :( Sure, we write a bit but she always replies and I initiate practically everything. I don't think she's interested in me. That's okay but then she shouldn't keep me waiting. That's just annoying. I hate it so much when people don't tell me if I'm annoying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:04 PM
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Unhinged take before I go to bed. Why are we trying to limit women sleeping around? Let the sluts frolick in the fields and the chads fck them. It really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:31 PM
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I'm going to be honest with you. Many people suck at texting so she could be interested but her texting skills suck. Do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:27 PM
1

She choose cookie with white chocolate chunks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:45 PM
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I love making profiterole. The name is so funny in German, the German word is Windbeutel in English it would be cream puff/bag. They are really fun to bake. :) I know your point is a different one but I really enjoy baking. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:44 PM
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The first one, yes. The second one is reserved for dates. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:41 PM
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I'm having fun texting someone. Thats new. I don't think she's having fun. But honestly I don't care anymore. If someone doesn't enjoy my shitty memes and ridiculous questions we probably won't get along anyway. Now to my question and a few examples: If you could be any pastry, which one would you like to be? The best part of a Kinder Egg is the crunchy yellow part in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:27 PM
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That's the plan bro. It's way easier for me to establish physical contact that way. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:39 PM
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No, just regular viruses. I'm not that special, at least not in terms of viruses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:37 PM
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I will use this joke. Thank you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:36 PM
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I can't stop winning. I'm currently sick so I couldn't meet up with a girl a met a few days ago (different one than last week). She told me this morning she's not feeling well and wanted to reschedule the date to Friday. Were going out for Ice cream and will see a play later that day. She's really excited. We texted a few times today. For once I am hopeful. Maybe this time things could work out. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:07 PM
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I'm vegetarian so, yes. But my diet hasn't changed in over 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:01 PM
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Doctor as usual didn't care. I got new a appointment later this week. German Healthcare in rural regions isn't very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:54 PM
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It's like I have a cold every two weeks. Which is unusual to say the least. It's always headaches, coughing, and a sore throat. Sometimes my voice is affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:34 PM
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I eat half a lemom every day. I eat lots of fruit and vegetables. I got bloodwork done and I'm not missing any vitamins. It's very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:25 PM
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But I want to. :( Lets chat at the urinal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:14 AM
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Guess who's sick, sick again. I'm sick, tell a friend Guess who's sick Guess who's sick Guess who's sick Guess who's sick Guess who's sick Guess who's sick Guess who's sick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:10 AM
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That's what I was trying to prevent. I don't know how to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:52 PM
1

My best friend is a conventionally attractive woman and she has 3-4 guys hitting on her in her via messenger every week. She talks about it every time because she has a boyfriend and it's annoying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:12 PM
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We would have had the date on Wednesday. I asked her on Friday. This means I have to cover 5 days until we meet up. In 5 days other possibly better looking and funnier men are competing with me for her attention and a date. I can't just sit back and hope they will fail. I feel like I have to make my deal more secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:42 PM
1

We didn't meet on OLD. We both organized a party together and helped at the event.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:15 AM
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My texting skills are bad. I simply bored her so much she canceled the date. I really tried though. Asking her about her day and talking about her cats. I like cats. I talked about myself and the cats I meet while I'm on my regular walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:14 AM
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I simply tried to make conversation. I tried to ask about her day and her cats. At some point it turned into a interview and she got bored and canceled the date. I guess I shouldn't have texted her and just waited for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:12 AM
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I simply tried to make conversation. I tried to ask about her day and her cats. At some point it turned into a interview and she got bored and canceled the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:11 AM
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It's nothing bad. I just managed to bore her, by texting so dryly, so much she canceled the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:10 AM
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I did it again. If you ever need someone to fuck up a date before it even happens, send me a text. I'm the expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:05 AM
1

How? I can't just randomly message people on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:56 PM
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Honest question: How do I become a interesting and funny texter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:48 PM
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I can send her cat pictures of cats I meet on my regular walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:04 PM
2

I can give you a few million of Zimbabwe dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:56 PM
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Stupid question: How do I keep my date interested despite my suboptimal writing style? Our date is on Wednesday, since I didn't have time before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:55 PM
1

It's perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:32 AM
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Is there a male version of this meme? This is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:22 PM
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I've got the date. We're going for a picnic at the park. She's really excited for it. Can't wait to fuck it up somehow. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:21 PM
1

I asked her but she didn't respond yet. If I get a answer I'll update you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:09 PM
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I asked her but she didn't respond yet. If I get a answer I'll update you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:09 PM
1

If someone names their cats several times but not roommates or a friend, is it safe to assume she's single? I met someone from the organization of a party, I was helping with. And someone from the student council, who I would like to get to know better but I don't know if it would be okay to ask them out on a date. She mentioned her roommate but nothing else. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:10 AM
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8 Euro. And it's honestly very expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:51 PM
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I meet so many funny, cute and hot women currently it's a crime I'm currently single. If only they would do something about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:40 AM
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I'm no longer a women enjoyer. I joined the dark side. Women hater now. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:13 PM
1

That's probably Hyperhydrosis. If you only got it at your hands and feet it's maybe curable. Try speaking to a dermatologist. There is a electricity therapy that works on hands and feet. It stops your body from producing sweat there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:14 AM
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Rent a Airbnb there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:10 AM
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I feel the same. Dating is making me miserable but the alternative is worse. You just have to become dulled. It's the only way. I'm rooting for you to succeed. Most of us are going to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:08 AM
1

Hyperhydrosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:04 AM
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I thought about your advice and come to the conclusion I don't like it. Masking is incredibly taxing on my mental health. I mask a lot. It's almost a different personality at this point. I'm not willing to do that with someone I'm romantically interested in. They probably will like "me" but lose interest instantly once they discover the real me. I'm not socially retarded. I get along with friends and strangers. People nowadays rarely dislike me. In addition I don't know how to mask over text mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:42 PM
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I am in a autism support group, they can't help me either. And I don't want to mask every time I spend time with my partner. That's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:10 PM
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Have you tried online dating (insert any app). Have you tried cold approaching at parties. Have you tried joining clubs to meet people. Have you tried being friends first. Have you tried meeting autistic women. Have you tried cold approaching women anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:16 PM
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I don't understand. I can't just invest 50% of my energy because that doesn't work. I already tried it in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:18 PM
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Free fertilizer. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:14 PM
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For some reason I can't link my Bumble profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:13 PM
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I have. I'm just very touch starved and wish I had a deeper emotional connection with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:01 PM
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My uncle had chickens. They shit a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:58 PM
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I would be so happy to have chickens anywhere near me. I envy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:54 PM
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Everyones advice for my dating struggles has been so unhelpful. Every conversation is the same. Even my psychologist told me he can't help me anymore. "Have you tried X" Yes "Have you tried Y" Yes Okay then I can't help you anymore. Keeping trying X and Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:54 PM
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My main problem is, text messages from me often sound robotic and formal. My spoken language is completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:57 PM
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Breeze isn't available in my area. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:34 PM
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I already moved on. It's just annoying it's happening so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:27 PM
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I usually use it after the fourth message.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:03 PM
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More or less after the third or fourth message.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:02 PM
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I always use this message: Hey, I'm not a big fan of long writing sessions because a lot of personality is lost in text messages. Would you like to meet up for a hot or cold chocolate this week? So far it hasn't worked once.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:32 AM
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This is a rant, don't read too much into it. I AM SO SICK OF TEXTING: WHY CANT WE JUST MEET FOR A COFFEE AND TALK LIKE HUMANS. YOU GET NOTHING FROM TEXTING WITH ME FOR DAYS EXCEPT YOU WASTE YOUR AND MY TIME. ALMOST ALL PERSONALITY GETS LOST IN TEXT MESSAGES. To balance this comment here's a picture of my pet rabbit I had. :) https://preview.redd.it/2mwics2qh39d1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2498e7246f323cb957510ddd58ff437af58e929
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:54 AM
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If big, tall, or small. I'll date them all. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:25 PM
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I like masculine women and feminine men. And masculine women are more often than not gay. I got a buffet on feminine men though, so at least thats working for me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:45 PM
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I don't seek out gay women. The women I'm attracted to just happen to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:22 PM
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You didn't have to say that. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:33 AM
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be me meet hot woman talk to her personality is great > ask her out gay repeat be me ...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:06 AM
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That's okay. More for me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:21 PM
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I don't think she's straight. I saw her the first time at a LGBTQ+ party. She came with a adorable couple of two guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:20 PM
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I hate facial hair. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:49 AM
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I was joking in my last message. It's your preference after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:27 AM
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I forgive you for being blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:20 AM
2

The hottest women are flat as a plank, tall and got a buzz cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:16 AM
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To her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:13 PM
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That's mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:26 PM
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Okay. Must be: Woman Alive Not obese Willing to leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:28 PM
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Now taking girlfriend applications.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:12 PM
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We are talking about facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:10 PM
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No, she was cute but she had a lady's beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:17 PM
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No, she was cute but she had a lady's beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:17 PM
2

I called off a second date because, even though the first went well, we talked for nearly 4 hours, I'm just not attracted to her. Makes me feel like shit. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:08 PM
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Told my date I'm autistic. Because I learned it's a big dealbreaker for many women. She then called the date off. Well, well, well if it isn't the consequences of my own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:44 PM
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It's the ✨autism✨. I will do a face reveal in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:40 PM
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No women. 😎 /s THIS IS SATIRE!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:36 PM
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I like return to the king more. Eowyn slaying both figuratively and literally is just amazing. And I like Gandalfs speech about death.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:35 PM
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Feel you bro. Time moves way to fast nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:32 PM
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Nothing will ever come close to my love for Minecraft. I can never ever love a person or thing or experience as much as I love Minecraft. I will die on this hill mad out of cubes. On a slightly different note. I got a date on Friday. Can't wait to hear my favorite line again. 🥲 "Lets just be friends."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:31 PM
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If I learned anything. Men suddenly become way more attractive once they turn 25. Even if you don't change one bit. You will make it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:16 PM
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I guess it sounds like I'm humblebragging. I'm sorry it wasn't my intention to brag. I'm just frustrated about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:15 PM
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What is zaddy? I must be getting really old if I can't understand the internet anymore. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:09 PM
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I'm 26 since may.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:08 PM
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I don't want to date a child...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:08 PM
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I'm 26 since may. They are all around 18/19. One was 17. I shut that down instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:07 PM
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If someone would call me daddy. I would go get milk and never return.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:06 PM
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Why are these young women suddenly so interested in me. I'm way too old for you, go for someone your age. And apart from two they are way too immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:29 PM
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Yesterday evening my roommates had a big party I couldn't attend because I'm still sick. I could hear them having dancing, singing and having fun. I really wanted to join them but I couldn't. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:12 AM
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Some piece of shit stole my food from the freezer. I'm so mad right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:20 PM
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Women are kind of cute. I like women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:15 AM
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I eat fruit and salad almost daily. I don't know what my bodys problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:07 PM
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I'm sick again. 😡 I wasn't sick for nearly two weeks so I guess it's time again. I'm so mad. WHY CAN'T MY BODY FIGHT VIRUSES LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BODY. 🤬😡🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:03 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:02 PM
2

Even Platon talked about the downfall of society. And he lived over 2000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:59 PM
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Whoever invented short shorts and whoever invented mini skirts should both be awarded a medal and get a statue in their honors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:00 PM
2

Is cheesecake a pie? If not I choose apple pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:01 AM
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I'm 26 since end of may.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:40 PM
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I'm 26 years old. I don't know if that's too much of a age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:40 PM
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I'm German. Everyone drinks beer here. 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:39 PM
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There's a really cute and funny girl in my philosophy lecture I love talking with. But she's way too young, being only 19 and probably not interested anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:10 PM
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Half of 2024 is now over. Did you reach your relationship goal or are you still working on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:26 AM
2

I can never tell if you're trolling since some people would make that claim unironically. Please be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:52 AM
2

I just had one of the most insane conversations on OLD I've ever had. She told me she isn't interested in casual sex. Okay I didn't ask and my profile clearly states my desire for a long term relationship. She then told me she's in a open relationship... I just told her that's not what I'm looking for and wished her well. I don't get it nor do I care enough to ask. It was a funny conversation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:50 AM
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You're back! We missed you so much. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:42 AM
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Some of my great great grandparent had to get cursed by a witch, otherwise I cannot explain why after 8 years of trying to get a relationship I only had one really short one in which the girl hated my gut and was insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:19 AM
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I'm just autistic. I read a lot of self improvement books.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:43 PM
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They told me I was attractive and funny. A little bit awkward though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:52 PM
2

I am Caucasian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:07 PM
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How would I know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:07 PM
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Had a date with the Chinese foreign student I was dating. And just as users on here predicted, she only wants to be friends with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:37 PM
1

I've never related so much to a frog. Or is it a toad? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:07 PM
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I haven't answered yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:06 PM
1

Some citys have bakerys/stores that sell bread from the day before but on a discount. Good whole grain bread can keep you full for extended periods of time. And its perfectly fine eating bread from the day before. Saves me a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:42 AM
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It has been almost two months since this girl ghosted me and she just returned, pretending nothing happened and taking up my offer on a city tou two months after ghosting me, like that's going to happen now. WHY DO THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE?????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:37 AM
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Update to yesterday: We had lunch at the cafeteria. It was very noisy and crowded so we couldn't even talk. After that we went for a coffee at the cafeteria at thw university library. Which was quite nice. I will meet her again but I'm not sure if she's interested. She seems interested in meeting me but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:37 PM
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Okay, I will meet her. You guys changed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:03 PM
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It's the place students eat their lunch. It's like a student cafeteria. English is not my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:54 PM
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"I don't have time to drink coffee with you. Let's go to the university canteen instead." ~my potential date I don't know if I should laugh or cry. I don't think I will meet her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:36 PM
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I get no benefit from thinking this way. This isn't helping in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:13 PM
1

Are you referring to the comparison? Or the grade school incident?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:16 AM
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Southern Germany, in a small university city called Tübingen. I honestly don't know why it happens so often. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:13 AM
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Aaaaaannnddd she lost interest and ghosted me. Dating is probably the most depressing, soul crushing, time wasting action I've ever participate in my whole life. This is worse than those anti aggression classes I was forced to do in grade school because I was getting bullied and having to apologize to my bully because I lashed out since the teachers refused to help me. Also I miss lilith. Where did my man hating queen go. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:22 AM
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She has way higher education than me and appears to be wealthier too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:29 PM
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I honestly had a great time on my date. She's really cute and funny. She's also hot, which is a nice bonus. The language barrier wasn't that much of a problem although her German isn't good. If she's down, we will definitely go out again. She also gave me her phone number which is a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:26 PM
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Q4all: How did you meet your current partner? If possible please also state your gender. Serious answers only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:30 AM
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Attractive people should be banned from going outside in Summer. /S I hate seeing good looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:09 PM
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I got a first date at the city museum on Wednesday. I also went out alone on Friday and Saturday, since my friends never have time. Im going out on Thursday, Friday and Saturday again. Maybe I'll meet someone nice, of not I really don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:01 PM
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I am 26. She probably gets BAföG. It's a student loan of some kind. Or she works beside studying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:43 PM
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Shes 30...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:02 PM
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If she had apologized, everything would be fine. I will probably answer her texts and maybe go on a date with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:44 PM
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She's a university student and our university was closed this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:12 PM
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My goal is a long term relationship. I'm not interested in one night stands, hookups or short term fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:20 PM
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Apologize for answering so late. I would only drop people after the sixth or seventh date. Or if we agreed to stop dating other people besides each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:26 PM
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That's way too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:17 PM
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Some women are beyond delusional. They ghost me for weeks and after, presumably the guy they really wanted, didn't wanted them, they come back acting like the conversation didn't end two weeks ago. I'm not going to jump for joy because you suddenly remembered I exist. You already showed me, you have no real interest in me. Why pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:12 PM
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I miss the old PPD. It used to be so much more entertaining. Threads like "Why women/Men are the root of all evil ever" were so common. It was very funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:59 PM
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Everyone forgot my birthday again. :( Happy birthday to me. On a more positive note, I got a date with a cute exchange student from China. She really wants to go to a museum together. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:01 PM
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I wish I had someone to cuddle with. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:53 PM
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I need Gordon Ramsay to judge these bland dating app conversations I'm having like I'm food on kitchen nightmares. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:11 PM
1

But IRL also isn't my thing. Don't know what my thing might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:47 PM
1

Liking pizza would be great, since I love to bake pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:59 PM
1

I swiped left for about 10 minutes no one peaked my interest. Just sad. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:58 PM
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Womens dating profiles are so bland and boring. Oh you like to drink wine and go on vacation. I too like to drink water and breath air... So incredibly boring. 😴 None of them are putting in any effort and it's making me feel uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:13 PM
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Q4M: Which good alternatives to online dating exist? This is a question for Men. Highly subjective, but serious, opinions welcomed. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:26 PM
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Q4All: If misogyny and conservatives values are a turn off for most women, why do the right wing frat bros (Maga level of right wing) never seem to struggle finding girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:16 PM
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Q4W: Which good alternatives to online dating exist? This is a question for women. Highly subjective opinions welcomed. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:32 PM
1

The story definitely works better in person. Because I'm able to make gestures, play with my voice and be sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:26 PM
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I was telling a funny story. So I guess it could be meant to be funny. Still, I don't like getting insulted, even if it was meant to be teasing or humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:53 PM
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I don't think it was meant to be teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:17 PM
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I don't think it was meant to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:17 PM
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Why are women so rude on OLD. I was telling her a funny story about me mistaking one small spoon of Baking powder as one big spoon and having the cake spill out of the baking tray. She just replied: "Who would be so dumb to make such a mistake." I stopped replying after that comment. Normally I never ghost but if someone is this rude I will ghost. Why match with me and be rude af. I hate OLD so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:32 PM
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Southern Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:01 AM
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Saw the Aurora Borealis today. It wasn't as visible as I hoped but looked quite magical. Maybe I'll visit Sweden in winter in the future and see them fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:58 PM
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I've never used Instagram. I don't like the idea of just messaging random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:18 PM
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After using BlindMate for weeks now and getting a few matches. I can conclude, the app is not good. I can get matches but no response on messages. In addition it's really hard to write a good first message if you are only able to see one part of their profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:06 PM
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Women are so cute when they are excited. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:27 PM
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Setting up a android emulator on PC works. It kind of defeats the purpose of the app but if they wont use it I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:51 PM
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Not that I know of. Im currently trying a emulator for android to swipe for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:33 PM
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No they are not dating. Most of them are either happy single or in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:33 PM
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I've now used blindmate (the app in which your friends make your profile and swipe for you) and gotten quite a few likes but no matches. Mainly because my friends, even those that insisted I use the app, lost interest and stopped swiping. So far the app is a 2/10. Women enjoyer. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:11 PM
3

I crave Greek Salad so much. Why are its ingredients so expensive. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:19 AM
1

I feel very mixed about living at a dorm. My roommates are very dirty and loud. Otherwise it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:59 PM
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I didn't get their number, and I didn't try to begin with. Still, maybe they got bisexual or straight friends I could date if they deem me good enough to introduce me to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:18 AM
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I tried but didn't succeed. Will try again in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:58 AM
1

That's correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:58 AM
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Party was good. Did meet some queer girls, boys and everyone else. They were really nice and "adopted" me since the friend I was there with abandoned me for her boyfriend who just happened to be there. What a coincidence... Didn't get someones number because I'm apparently inherently unattractive. Some guy showed up at three talked to two girls and got both numbers. Still had fun. Even though I will regret going to bed at 5 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:57 AM
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Going out to a LGBTQ+ party today. Maybe I'll meet someone nice. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:27 PM
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It would've cost you nothing to not comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:22 AM
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The bear, man debate makes me very sad. I'm not dangerous or a rapists or all of these other things suggested. :( Do women seriously think so low of men, they'd rather get mauled by a grizzly than to spend time with men. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:39 PM
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Could be better, could also be worse. Got ghosted by three women last week. So I uninstalled Bumble again. I'm currently trying out a new app but to no success. I will approach in person again if the opportunity arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:10 PM
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If I die getting her off, I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:02 PM
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I hate online dating. All I've ever wanted was a GF to cuddle, love and sit on my face. :( Also whats up with all of the choking stuff recently. Why are women suddenly so much into choking. Choking is inherently dangerous. I'm not going to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:45 PM
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Our dorm party day is the worst thing I've ever been part of. I hate every single second and person here. Jumping off the building would be way more fun than this. This is the most disappointing event in history. Rant over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:59 PM
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I set up dates with three different girls. Now there's no one left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:29 PM
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Thanks. I really hope things will improve soon and I find non toxic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:28 PM
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I'm so sick and tired of women ghosting me. It's frustrating and rude. Just text me: "Sorry I'm no longer interested. Wish you the best." Just copy and paste that shit every time you lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:22 PM
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I'm trying out a new app called "BlindMate". Not by choices, my friends think it's a great idea. The concept is your friends swipe for you and fill your profile with information by answering questions. No matches after using it for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:35 PM
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I really like RED because of its positive energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:04 AM
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Other guys have figured out my tactic of going to Taylor swift themed partys. Before I was the only guy and unrivaled, now there are way more guys trying to hit up girls. (They don't succeed because they don't know anything about Taylor. It's honestly embarrassing. Just read the fking Wikipedia page.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:37 PM
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I got autism so I can relate very well, it's still a bit rude. :( I might just post my OLD profile so people stop calling me "chad" or "handsome".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:37 PM
2

I would try to reschedule not just ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:22 PM
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Why do people suggest dates and then cancel a day before the date? Why even suggest a date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:00 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5h9ncow46pwc1.jpeg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d7b9058ea671d73f569e460246aa912645d4c09 Sir a second girl has canceled the date this week. (She canceled because shes not feeling well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:55 PM
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Her BMI doesn't matter. My last date was over the "acceptable" BMI and I still had a crush on her. I just thought it was funny imagining a guy bringing a scale, calculator and tape measure to the club measuring people, whilst everyone else is dancing and drinking. If my bad joke has offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:31 PM
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Yes. I love to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:39 PM
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This is a joke. My humor is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:35 PM
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I lift her up and put her down on the scale. I can't just guess. You have to be accurate. If shes 1% over, shes done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:21 PM
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I've explicitly stated in my profile I'm looking for a serious relationship. I even told her that while chatting with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:13 PM
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Me getting ready for the club includes grabbing my scale, tape measure and calculator to determine the BMI of any woman I'm interested in. THIS IS A JOKE!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:12 PM
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Question for older women (30 and up) :) If you were dating a guy younger than you what would you expect from him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:04 PM
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The first thing my woman friends tell me once they get a new guy is his dick size. Women care about bick dick way more than the internet is willing to admit. The most prevalent insult on demonstrations are "small dick energy" and "asshole".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:40 AM
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I've never felt so insulted. Please just call me slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:59 PM
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First woman already canceled our date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:35 PM
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I usually split the bill. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:08 PM
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I can't afford takeaway. I eat at the student cafeteria every day, sadly they don't open on Sundays. My main problem is Sunday, since everything is closed on Sunday. Saturday is fine, there's a bakery offering food from the day before that's incredibly cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:00 AM
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I thought lots of attention from women would be great but all it does is stress me out. :( I got a date with a slightly older woman (33) than me (25) coming up on Friday. Also my fridge broke. So I got very little to eat for the next two weeks. My friends are very concerned about me eating only two apples in a day. Don't know why though. It's not that I'm starving myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:21 AM
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Got rated a three by users on here and a three to five by friends. I don't think I'm chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:21 PM
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Nearly every one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:20 PM
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Bumble is spamming me with matches that seem to be really interested in me. Why am I suddenly that interesting. Nothing changed about me. It can't be the premium ending because I bought three months of premium and its not even month one. I don't get it. This must be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:33 PM
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Me: Maybe I'll take a break from dating. Reddit was right. Universe: Here are three Bumble matches that call you hot/cute and want to meet up next week. You know what, I'll throw in two girls from the student council suddenly being interest in you as a bonus too. Me: WTF is happening. I'm scared. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:55 PM
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Being social, outgoing, knowing certain social cues or signs in dating. Learning what women currently want. Clothing style and grooming rules. Missing opportunities. I was okay at socializing before covid came. And now have to claw back painfully. In short everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:12 PM
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Q4all: How does one prevent burning out from dating? How does one recover without taking a break from burning out from dating? Taking a break is not a option, since that would destroy two years of progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:38 PM
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I can't go for sex on the first date. I'm wildly uncomfortable with this idea. I need a bit of time to get comfortable with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:33 PM
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By trying things that didn't work. I can come to a conclusion about ways that will work. Basic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:51 PM
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