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Meth heads at the gas station are pretty bitchy too. You enjoy yourself though, but I'm either having toxic free relationships or no relationship at all, and lucky for me, I have a toxic free relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:44 PM
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While I don't think what you're saying is entirely false, I feel like we're not examining social media, phones, and cultural movements that have reduced the amount of men and women intermingling in spaces where they can meet. Think about it, if you're a fella and the only way to have some fun is to go down to the local bar and shoot some pool, you're a lot more likely to meet and talk to a cutie there and form a relationship. Now too many people, myself included, socialize entirely too much on c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:47 PM
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Whatever you say, you talk about relationships like someone who has never had one. I was making fun of your deranged outlook on life anyway, not talking to you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:38 PM
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Complains about fantasy novel perceptions of relationships and sex. Goes on to explain relationships and sex like a fetish Omega-verse mpreg universe. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:33 PM
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You cannot accuse me of being bad faith because I'm not engaged in a debate to begin with. I just gave OP an honest answer. I'm sorry honesty is 'bad faith' to you, but again, I'm not debating, I'm answering. Why do I think Red Pillers generally aren't progressive? Because of the hostile comments Red Pillers often times make against progressive ideals. Why do I think I'm not deluded? Because my life objectively improved in almost every way when I gave up the Red Pill (and black pill too). This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:53 PM
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See this is what I'm talking about. People whine and bitch that blue pillers are so mean and snide. But this is fine, no one calls this kind of behavior out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:40 PM
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Because that's literally the point of the sub. To argue. Duh. This is such a strange thing people use against progressives, blue-pillers, or whatever. "You guys believe strongly that you are correct (just like everyone else), you can be snide (just like everyone else)." Like what do you genuinely expect from us? To be weak limp-wristed people who just apologize all the time? I don't get it, with all due respect. I think red-pill ideology/religion is funny and sorta worth mockery, mostly because …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:34 PM
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Sure whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:12 PM
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Oh I see. I thought the point was the jokes people have been making about the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:07 PM
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You should avoid using the phrase "snapped" because that's not really a thing. It's a deliberate decision. Male abusers use this excuse all the time. I "Snapped" or "I blacked out". It sounds better than "I decided I was going to torture my spouse because I was angry."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:02 PM
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That's a strange goalpost to have as far as pointing out an overly lenient punishment for a heinous crime. But okay? Seems like pointing out lenient punishments is better than mocking a horrific torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:58 PM
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I kind of don't see a reason why you shouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:54 PM
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Oh sorry. I forgot to mention that the story you linked didn't share their sources. But I'm almost certain they are talking about this study(link).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 06:54 PM
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The study in question mentions that female offenders that target boys are the punished less harshly than male on female and male on male offenses. They did not examine female on female sexual crimes as they couldn't find enough examples to form an opinion. This disparity is specifically about male on male sexual violence, which I think lends to the theory that this is mostly seeing homosexual sexual violence as somehow more abhorrent when in all honestly, they are not any more or less awful. It'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 05:01 PM
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I feel like this explanation falls into the trap of explaining all male behavior through the lense of masculinity. I think if you ask a lot of them, a lot of them will express that they are pessimistic about education actually helping them in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:14 PM
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I just find it weird and off putting that you (or whoever we're talking about) use women (or men) for sex who wouldn't want to have sex with you if it wasn't for them having to make rent. If they wanted to have sex with you, you wouldn't have to pay them. I guess my question is, you don't feel weird having sex with someone who doesn't really want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:24 PM
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What does that even look like in practical terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:11 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:09 PM
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That's right women you better start dating greaseballs or you're going to get cheated on by chad! this sub sometimes is a fucking riot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:47 PM
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Then shut the fuck up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:04 PM
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Oh I know, it's an embarrassing obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:49 PM
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It's not hypocrisy when I said straight women can have preferences too you absolute yapper. and I'm a bisexual man, it's right there in the flair. And you can have whatever dumbass opinion you want on men's masculinity, I just don't care about it. I have feminine traits and I prefer women who can deal with that. Which are usually bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:47 PM
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Oh that comment about bisexual people struggling with their sexuality in a way that's different than homosexual and heterosexual people is totally fair, as a bisexual myself. There's so much pressure to be bisexual 'correctly'. Do you really love men enough? Is it just a phase? Are your homosexual experiences valid and genuine if you then find love with a heterosexual relationship? Lots of questions and not a whole lot of answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:26 PM
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Lmao straight women are allowed to have dating preferences stop being so dramatic. This whole thread is about straight women and their dating preferences. What I'm curious about is, why are you whining that I prefer bisexuals? Does that bother you or something? And of course you, a straight woman, has something to say about men's masculinity. That's exactly why my preference is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:16 PM
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Remember when an entire website existed specifically for married straight men to cheat on their wives with other women? I guess it's different when straight guys do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:20 PM
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Oh I agree, this point of view is stupid as all hell. Just saying that it exists and people have it. You may be right that some men's attitudes are changing, but take a gander at the Bible or the Koran. Virginity was extremely valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:58 PM
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I hate answering honestly because it makes me sound very judgmental. But it happened once, and simply. No. She was a greaseball with a profoundly strange personality. One of the first things she told me when we first met was that her dad raped her. Talk about being put aback.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:54 PM
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It's the idea that being penetrated by a penis is a tainting act. That you are less than for it. That's why virgin women are so 'highly valued' and women who have had lots of penetrative sex are called things like "dirty" and "sluts". As for why it's not called misandry? Because even merely muttering the word "misandry" causes people to have conniptions and crash the fuck out for some stupid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:50 PM
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This is exactly why I have a strong preference for dating bisexuals just in general. Genuinely less judgmental, uptight, and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:47 PM
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I genuinely do not give a single fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:39 PM
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lmao stop coping haha. "They'll cheat and bring home diseases" haha okay honey. Oh it's your life experience? So you're telling us you had STD's brought into your bedroom? Tsk tsk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:24 PM
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It takes average intelligence to understand that you cannot accurately judge anything without at least first observing it. Sum of its parts? Brother you haven't even LOOKED at it, much less 'parts' of it. You can't even point to any episode or scene to defend yourself. This is the level of thought. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:10 PM
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You can't understand the basics of anything without first at least observing the thing you're trying to understand. You haven't even looked at the thing in question and yet you've already formed a fervent opinion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:53 PM
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lmao how the fuck do you """""""""""""""analyze """""""""""""""" something without even so much as fucking observing the material in question lmaaaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:36 PM
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I think people accept statistics that flatter them and reject those that do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:47 PM
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The West is also a patriarchy that is also led by males. The fact that one group of males is way more rapey than another group of males proves that rape is not inherent. Plus it's just kind of stupid if you think about it. If it were inherent and males rule society, then rape wouldn't be illegal, or even a negative word. Men wouldn't try to hide it, men wouldn't have to cover their buddies back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:41 PM
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False accusations are usually extremely obvious with even a little bit of investigation. That's why it's a big news when it actually works. Most false accusations are levied at "fictional men". You know "some guy did it I don't know who, dad." Shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:31 PM
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I mean yeah there are conditions arriving at that. Glad you didn't let Tate off the hook though. Blaming feminists for this is entirely irrational in my opinion. Covid completely interrupted their lives and damaged the economy. Right when they should be socializing the most they were trapped at home, being brain rotted by social media designed to farm their engagement, perverting their socialization leading to a great many of them feeling like outcasts and misfits with little hope. And what do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:15 AM
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So does sending radical messages to kids over and over and over and over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:14 PM
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You didn't show us how Tate isn't radicalizing his audience. Explain to me how one can show woman hate over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again and it not radicalize the audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:09 PM
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Indeed, you are stupid. Sexual violence has long been identified as one of the most alarming and upsetting things women experience. It's mentally retarded to abandon that plank. Might as well just stop being a Feminist at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:45 PM
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Be a political movement, not a group therapy session. Even among women, people who have suffered from rape and sexual assault are a minority of the population. By centering the needs and wants of these people, however noble your intentions, you have alienated the majority of the population. This is stupid. Ending sexual violence is one of the central planks of feminism. If you aren't going to center your own platform planks, then what are you even doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:26 PM
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I didn't accuse you or anyone of critiquing boys for being molested. I'm just saying that boys really aren't "worshiped" for being molested by teachers or women in general. Just not a thing that happens. At least never happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:37 PM
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I'm a little more aware of what it's like to be a victimized little boy than you are, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:34 PM
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You can do both! You can talk about male violence and oppression of women AND talk about female sex offenders. It advocate for boy survivors of women, AND I financially support women's shelters and I support anti-rape initiatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:10 PM
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How many high fives do guys give each other when they hear about some predator teacher raping her underage student. This doesn't happen. Boys that are molested by teachers are typically bullied by their students, not congradulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:06 PM
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I think it's more that you hate the answers you get and just instantly refuse them as "BS".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:12 PM
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Blue Pill means you're anti-red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:37 PM
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Yall need to grow TF and talk with your spouses, partners, boyfriends and girlfriends about what you want out of a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:01 PM
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You really should pull yourself up and stop whining it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:05 PM
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Well, can you quantify how much being a woman is a mitigating factor? You said it's serious, but how serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:29 PM
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Children survivors of female attackers report very similar levels of trauma and distress. There's just not a good reason to let female child molesters off easy just based off of a stereotype. You should examine each case and punish accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:55 PM
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Just throwing this out there, I'm pro-feminism, but I absolutely have to change how I talk about sexual trauma when I'm around feminists. For example. I can say "People don't take male sexual trauma that seriously." here. But I couldn't say that same sentence around a feminist. (It implies that some women might not take this issue seriously, which is misogynistic slander)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 10:31 PM
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Oh, my work mates are all other women. Just me and my boss are male here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:28 PM
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My work mates have told me they've never felt attracted to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:09 PM
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Straight people do not FEEL sexual attraction to same sex people at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:57 PM
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Man if you actually talk to and date real life women in the 3d meat space, you'll quickly realize how stupid and untrue this all is. Some women apologize too much, some will never admit fault. They're as fucking different as you are from the next guy. anyway, I like men cause they have nice fat cocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:53 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:43 AM
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lol congrats on your internet argument, goober lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:32 PM
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When someone puts an "S" at the end of the word, what does that imply to you? (I'm talking about the overall incumbent failure in the US AND Europe)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:29 PM
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Hey, I hate Trump viciously. But I will co-sign on fuck Bill Clinton that man is the devil. Both of them were Epstein's good friends btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:22 PM
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Has the previous elections not dispelled this illusion that Reddit is the world for you yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:20 PM
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By intentionally not solving an issue now so that you may campaign on it later. Republicans killing their own bill so that Trump can campaign on the border is a great example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:22 PM
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okay (though I don't think women's rights should be a political tool either)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:41 PM
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Your theory would hold more water if not for the fact that many of the most animated voters for women's rights went and passed state level abortion protection. We literally solved our biggest campaign issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:25 PM
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Raping a woman could cause extreme harm to her. This is a negative consequence, so therefore, never not in a million years would I do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:12 PM
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Ive seen nurses lecure male victims about why male SA is less traumatizing. Why do women constantly smother men's testimonies like this? He just said "I've seen nurses lecture male victims about why male SA is less traumatizing". The proper response is "Wow that's horrible" Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:02 PM
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"The rates of feminism" lmao Look man, you should help people because it's the right thing to do you sociopathic weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:16 AM
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Yeah, obviously and sadly. It's really frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:59 PM
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whatever you say homie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:49 PM
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Yourself you goobers. Yourself. Get off your ass. You don't have to build something yourself fellas, you can support something that already exists, and there's a few things you can support if you really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:44 PM
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My life got 10x better when I dropped the Red Pill lmao. Once you realize that people, human beings, are more complicated than any Red Piller can understand, man the world really opens up. You realize you can just find different kinds of women that behave in the way that you like haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:42 PM
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Women generally like having sex with men that can socialize with them. Being friends with women passively trains you to socialize with women. It's not anymore complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:11 PM
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This is basically the modern traditional wife tract and what traditional women actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:04 PM
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Stays a virgin until marriage, gets married young, spends her twenties and thirties having multiple children back to back, and lives to serve her husband (3 home cooked meals a day, laundry, cleaning, childcare daily etc). No degree, no career. Complete financial dependance of her partner, submissive to all his wants and needs (even if you don’t agree), obedient. This reads a little like a fetish, doesn't it? I think I would be a modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:51 PM
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What even is "it's" in this sentence you wrote? What is the point of your post? Do you disagree? Do you think women should have to choose between chasing down a deadbeat dad or going without?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:02 PM
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If we need child support to convince men to wear condoms than we're fucked. Honestly this policy sounds like it was invented by ten year olds. It could save the tax payers billions per year if we didn't have to pay police officers or judges. Instead, we could just give the single parent/mother child support if her partner abandons her. You can tax the single father hard af if you really want to punish him. I don't care. The point is that the mother gets the payment guaranteed every month by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:48 PM
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I haven't made any children in my relationships lmao. Nice try. Where's the mod warning for this little insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:45 PM
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wtf no I just think it's better for children that they always get guaranteed child support. I don't get why you're like, on purpose, being silly about that lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:40 PM
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She actually thinks the parents pay the police officers, the lawyers, the judges that make child support system even work. Oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:22 PM
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Please, try not to say stupid things. Men already can evade responsibility, so we're spending tons of money to get barely a few guys to fork over a few hundred dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:12 PM
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This is why I think child support should be given to all single parents by the government. Ignoring how helpful it is to children and their parents that child support arrives every month without a fight, think of all the money and effort we could save not hiring a billion lawyers, police officers, judges just to force a dead beat dad to pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:46 PM
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This is what almost anyone who ever complains this way is really talking about. Men women, blue red. It's almost always people wanting to sling piss and stay dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:10 PM
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There's no such thing as a good girlfriend that cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:30 PM
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I'll let you believe that <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:51 PM
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Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:18 PM
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To be fair, feminists are the only people in the entire world that has to frequently say "I know that's what the words I used said, but that's not what I meant" Like it's only yall lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:57 PM
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I thought women attempted it more and that's why it's no tragedy that men die from suicide way more than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:14 PM
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I'm agreeing with you but you're being dense. Thinking with eugenics and evolution will literally dehumanize us and that's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:04 PM
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No one cares about what women want. We're talking about what's best from a species genes point of view, and that's maximum reproduction. I'm illustrating why this kind of thinking is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:45 PM
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Man, I'm glad I'm only concerned with having a soft squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:06 PM
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Name one? Hint: this is why creatures split into species
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:43 PM
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Well I mean, your biggest problem is that evolution absolutely doesn't work like this. it's way way way better for the species that as much reproduction as possible happens. The more gene combinations a species has, the better. So mediocre women should find whatever mate that interests them and they themselves can land. also this is ignoring the fact that we're sentient creatures that may desire something beyond our species proliferation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:48 PM
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The Top 20% of men would have to want you. And that's where 80% of women are going to find disappointment. Strong powerful women won't allow mediocre women to have her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:18 PM
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Imagine being literally inside your partner and thinking "omg I'm just the safe option" like bruh. That's how you know they haven't yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:01 PM
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The amount of RPers complaining that they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:35 PM
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False rape accusations are bad. There? Have I solved this conundrum? Also you can check my account. I almost exclusively talk about boys being molested by girls. That's my target. I just recognize that these 'false accusation' discussions aim seems to be to discredit sexual violence claims. Also false accusations are used against male victims too. That's why I'm really against this conversation because it only serves to shut up victims truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:04 PM
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False rape accusations, if you notice, are an entirely different class of crime that take place for entirely different reasons. It's like insisting we talk about robberies too while trying to talk about sexual crimes. they are totally unrelated issues. It's dishonest to insist that both be talked about at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:48 PM
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Metoo wasn't an injustice and "false accusations" is just hysterics. The problem of rape is actually several times bigger and more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:43 PM
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almost all female offending is against children anyway and I will continue to repeat this until it gets through people's skulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:44 PM
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I mean yeah sure, I was hoping that we do not tolerate adults sleeping with teenagers yeah. (I'm not uniquely mad at female offenders)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:24 PM
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Ignoring how annyoing it is to spam. They shouldn't be placed with a child molesting mother, but unfortunately, the trauma caused by such crimes is not believed. That's what we mean when we say we aren't believed. They believe it 'happened', they just don't believe it 'matters'. That's why you don't hear boys being accused of making it up like girls are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:14 PM
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I'm not really mentally prepared to debate intellectually, but I can promise that I take these crimes seriously. I take female offenders more seriously than most people, but I feel like the notion that female 'rapists' equal male 'rapists' kind of betrays common sense doesn't it? I didn't really see in your source that supports this idea. Certain kinds of male victims report majority female offenders for certain crimes, but not rape specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:56 AM
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Sorry, I struggle with the black and white thinking that goes on in this sub, even if I myself use the same kind of thinking myself. Nothing social is a silver bullet. But being nice absolutely does matter. People like kind nice people, and being well liked will absolutely make your life better and more successful. You still have to have the other traits to be successful, but being nice will absolutely help you in every part of your life. Being nice is good, and men should strive to be good, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:51 PM
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Edit: I cannot be reasonable on the topics of suicide. Sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:37 PM
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Suicide rates are caused by a combination of factors: most suicide differences are caused by a difference risk-taking behaviour, a lack of respect for or interest in seeking care for mental health (I will get back to this), avoidance of consequences (ex. Men are more likely to be caught for pedophilia, and pedophiles are more likely to kill themselves to get out of prison time), and suicide method. Oh fucking God here we go again with "men who kill themselves are evil" bullshit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:04 PM
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OP do you have friends? Like no offense, but is the concept of being a nice fella being a good thing, even if it doesn't get you free pussy really that hard to grasp? Like honestly. No offense but I'm convinced some of you guys misunderstand on purpose just so you can keep coping that none of this is your fault and you have no power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:39 PM
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That is true, however, the profile of a attacker depends on the demographic of the victim. For example just for males, men report female attackers rarely (relatively speaking), but young boys report female attackers very often (relatively speaking again). Overall, female offending is very rare. For certain specific demographics, female offending is relatively common. I think this causes a mental disconnect between the two sides. Not to mention the problem of COCSA. I feel like most people aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:58 PM
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I think you've described a boring person though. This sounds boring. With all due respect this is a hard circumstance to consider. Even women that are losers with nothing going for them have at least something interesting about them. Maybe they hyper-fixate on a hobby or topic ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:44 PM
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Honestly when I'm profoundly attracted to a woman, I imagine how we could like, homestead survive in the wildness for some reason. Like we'll find copper nuggets and make metal tools and start to thrive in our jungle hut with our little farm. I think there's something very ancient in my brain stem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:35 PM
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I would not have a committed relationship with a completely boring woman. I personally must be somewhat excited by my partner to want to commit to her. Like I need to think about her often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:21 PM
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I'm against people using drugs. Why are people still using Drugs? Clearly, I must be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:04 PM
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I cannot recall the last time I've heard a real life man actually say and mean 'gold digger'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:44 PM
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Imagine men outbreeding women. imagine it becomes a culture-war talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:24 PM
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There's lots of different reasons. Some of their motivations nearly mirrors men, that is, they derive sexual delight from sexually abusing someone who is helpless against them. A few women will experience genuine pedophilia and will act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:53 AM
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They exist, but almost all of them are child molesters. Obviously there's a whole lot less of them than male offenders. I don't get why everyone tries to imagine a woman violently attacking a grown healthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:13 AM
2

They're relaxed around him because they assume he knows his place and wont try anything. He's most likely there because he's married lets get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:40 PM
3

Most definitely. My first girlfriend wasn't super attractive when we first met, but the more time we spent together, she became more and more irresistibly attractive. I can accept that a woman may experience the same thing with me, and i'm fine with that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:12 PM
1

That's true, I apologize. That was unfair. I mean, it's hard to communicate my experience. I went through it too, I've been single essentially my entire life. So I really do understand how it feels, I really do. I mean, all I can say dude is that I think you shouldn't count out women who have lived a life like yours out so soon. LIke, she's a woman that cannot find a man at all. They're not going for chad. They're not...you know. stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:22 AM
1

The exception does disprove the rule when the rule said "This is impossible". I'm sorry you've had bad experiences, but giving up like this is how you become a virgin for life. You're right, most of the women you think about on the dating market are looking for experience. So all I will say is, if you're looking for women in places where women go to find dates, you're going to have a bad time, because both the women and the men in those places are experienced and that's what they expect. I'll co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:28 PM
1

You're ignoring the experience of a man telling you he literally did that thing you said was entirely completely impossible. This is cope. Tons of other young men have had the same experiences I'm talking about, they just get swept under the rug because it's inconvenient to acknowledge. This is literally you, you guys always look past the fact that getting into relationships is normal for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:06 PM
1

I'm not enabling your silly little cope. You can find women even if you are inexperienced. But frankly you're going to have to figure out why you never got with one up until this point first. I think that's the sticking point isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:45 PM
1

Yes, I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:33 PM
1

lala land? Homie, how about you stop being such an anxious wreck and pair up with a woman just as inexperienced as you? It works, if you can act right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:55 PM
-2

Yeah yeah women are evil we get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:58 PM
-6

I personally think being super anxious about being a virgin is more unattractive than the mere fact one is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:48 PM
-1

facing a man's feelings of inadequacy. I honestly think this is a bigger problem than the actual reality of being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:28 PM
-3

This is just going to make you seem like a bad fuck with a hair trigger dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:08 PM
0

Nah, having trauma doesn't mean you're dysfunctional or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:11 PM
0

That isn't 'wrong' though. Makes perfect sense actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:51 PM
3

What's wrong with sexual assault victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:36 PM
1

Okay? never said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:03 PM
1

shrug, enjoy your life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:26 PM
2

Not many times, just enough to know the effort really is worth it, if you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:20 PM
1

Guessing you've never been in love before, sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:16 PM
1

Because I like doing the courting? It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:45 PM
3

So do you recognize the female privilege in not having to pay for dates? your date might sexually assault you and kill you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:32 PM
3

I honestly feel bad that women have to deal with so much bullying on account that they're smaller. It happens a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:13 PM
1

I have some male friends. One is married, the rest are single. Most of my friends are female. I get along fine with my siblings. My sister got a doctorate's and a Masters, my brother is in prison right now. I'm somewhere in the middle. Yes I have some trouble talking. I have low social patience and I'm quickly turned off on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:34 PM
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Blue Pill isn't a real ideology, it's just something we call people who reject the Red Pill outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:30 PM
0

I honestly do not see how you came to that conclusion. The whole "If I saw a woman being raped I'd let it happen" from the Men's Right sub comes to mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:57 PM
4

While I'm not going to complain about women wholesale, I do wish women would engage in courtship more. Not all the time, not 'equally', but a selfless show of romance means a lot to me every once in a while. It makes me feel more like a loved person than a useful product. In that regard, I have noticed more laziness, which sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:17 PM
1

It actually kinda sucks lol. Maybe it was just because we were very young adults, but man, it was very dramatic if I said I wasn't feeling it atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:15 PM
1

Kim Jung Unism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:13 PM
1

Absolutely. I'm not explicitly monogamous, but I do not play any of this 'open relationship' mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:27 PM
1

Have you considered that porn and stone-age religion exist on the same planet at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:13 PM
1

I'm actually normal, most people can do this no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:00 PM
6

I think the blue pill needs to take off the kid gloves and just be a lot more honest. Skill issue. You suck at socializing and this is going to fuck over all your attempts at love. Fix your socializing skills. This is something everyone can do, including autistic men. I am on the spectrum, so I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:15 PM
1

"Don't take it personally" means "Don't hate the person who rejected you". I think you may have misunderstood what it means to not take rejection personally. It doesn't mean you don't think about it, don't consider what happened, and how you can fix any of that. Taking rejection on the chin with a smile shows confidence. It shows a "Your loss" type mentality. A little poise. It's a much better look than throwing a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:22 PM
2

I disagree. I think it was a perfectly normal reaction to an open secret we all had about work culture. Maybe I just have this unique ability to not creep out ladies, but I never had a problem with this 'moral panic'. But I mostly appreciate the fact that metoo elevated the discourse about sexual violence to the public sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:18 PM
-2

claims to be leftist, dying on the hill of anti-leftism. Dude's going to vote fascist because progressives are annoying sometimes. Amazing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 09:18 PM
1

Ah sorry, I thought you were talking about prostitution outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:45 PM
1

You've left the topic that we were on. Giving a woman money specifically so she'll have sex with you is the topic. Me paying for a woman's dinner so we can enjoy one another's company is not me paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:26 PM
1

Well yeah, traditionally the man always picked up the check, but that was during a time when women weren't allowed to gain gainful employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:18 PM
1

Yes. Because the expectation is that you, as a male specimen, should be able to attract through your own virtues, persuasion, and presence. I know male ego's are shit on a little, but I like to feel a little smug when my partner desires me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:49 PM
1

Bad idea. My dad tried to do this for me. I didn't want to have sex with some random girl. It wasn't a good day and he was all pissy asking if I was gay the whole day lmao. What a fucking doofus. Plus I'm sure what he was trying to arrange was a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:47 PM
2

Why are we playing make believe that it isn't largely women's desires to have children that motivate women having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:31 PM
1

This is the most solid advice in the comments so far. Chatting like this makes you a better conversationalist for sure, and besides, you might meet someone important besides a lover. A better boss maybe never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:34 AM
1

It certainly doesn't hurt. And even if you aren't fit, the whole point of chatting with someone is to influence how they feel about you. I'm not sure how to politely say "skill issue"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:18 AM
1

Sounds like you're letting internet strangers talk you into depression. I don't get it, but good luck with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:12 AM
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I think "being mad" at a gender, just as a concept, is highly regarded. But you're free to do whatever you want. It's when people whine about how much they hate [x] gender, and then display resentment when they cannot find love with [x] gender that grinds my gears to dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:45 PM
-1

I guess we just disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:25 PM
1

It is secondary to this. You merely need minimal attractiveness to be considered, but it's personality that will seal the deal long term. You also need at minimum, some kind of job for a relationship, but that doesn't mean that what job you have is the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:20 PM
-1

Fair enough, but I think you can get a little closer without worrying too much homie. It's worth it, for the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:03 PM
0

So you haven't ever been accused of molestation or rape either?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:46 PM
1

Indeed. You just have to be physically attractive enough, it's the behavior that will make or break you long term. But you do need that minimum required attractiveness, which the vast majority of us can reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:45 PM
1

I dunno man, seems like the RP is only breeding misery, anxiety, and self-doubt. Plus, I don't want to resent the people I would like to make love with lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:37 PM
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Brother I have never been accused by a single woman in my life ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 PM
-1

Yeah but you can learn this skill from just having cold conversations period. It takes practice, but I can strike up a conversation with a man I've never met before now. Chatting up a lady is basically the same thing imo. It's really not hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 PM
0

Molestation literally means putting your hands on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:11 PM
2

Oh the RP men have gotten unimaginably salty lately. I really don't understand why the hostility toward women from the RP is so fucking severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:58 AM
2

Honestly this has always been my thought. Like literally, what skin is it off my back? I bet I could refuse to be alone with you, specifically you, because we're strangers, and you'd take it better than how a lot of guys are taking this bear thing. Which like you said, is about a perfect stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:01 AM
3

Older women with money have been chasing young men for centuries. There's just more of them now. "older"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:49 PM
3

I was tricked and groomed into being someone's 'little brother' and then was sexually abused afterwards until I started going to kindergarten. Not really a 'grievance' I hold against women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:52 PM
2

Hey seriously that story sounds super familiar! I get that too, friendly extroverts are lovely. Are yall still friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:29 PM
0

well I gotta give credit to my sister, she is a very sunny outgoing person. And a doctor now geez. I wouldn't blame it all on socialization. Ever notice how men's idea of a perfect day is sitting all alone in nature or something like that? I think women are more extroverted than men. I think introverted children are assumed to be doing 'fine' when they really aren't, and it takes someone engaging with them to figure out those issues, girls included.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:01 PM
1

I think a lot of us correctly assume that the comfort of a woman is the most desired by the victim, most of the time. But I'll cop to the fact that while I have offered comfort to people in my life, it's always draining and very difficult. I know that's true for everyone but, I feel completely unprepared. When I was a boy, I noticed my mom and my sister would have long emotional talks about this and that when my sister was upset. I didn't get it then, but now I really wish I would have had those…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:28 PM
1

You already did care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:32 PM
-2

This complaint is not gendered at all lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:35 PM
1

If you're willing to become a sociopath just for some pussy, I suggest that you may already be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:33 PM
9

This is an evolved form of 'Where's my hug?'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:13 PM
5

What about this situation bothers you? Like you have to understand, if women were using date rape drugs against other women like men do, they would guard their drinks against other women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:10 PM
6

The government has the duty to be fair and equal to the citizens. The constitution doesn't say that a woman absolutely must let you talk to her and let you hang out around her drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:06 PM
28

"A study of patients presenting to an emergency department having had a “spiked drink”" Isn't the point of a date rape drug is that the victim isn't aware enough to seek emergency services? Seems like a poor population to study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:04 PM
1

I'm trying to live better in my thirties because I'm the one that has to deal with my stupid life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:56 PM
4

Okay and? I was molested by a woman when I was a little boy. Since anti-rape campaigns absolutely refuse to touch this topic with a ten foot pole, I'm happy at least someone is willing to talk about this issue at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/24 01:02 PM
1

"The friendzone" wasn't supposed to be a complaint levied at individuals, it was supposed to be about men lamenting that no matter who they ask out, everyone just wants to be friends. No idea why 'friendzoned' evolved into something different
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:04 PM
2

(I wouldn't actually want this) Imagine making other survivors describe their attack using this kind of language. "Made to Filate" sounds a lot less serious than "Raped".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 06:52 PM
1

Sure, you can talk about "Child Sex Abuse" or you can even talk about "Male sexual violence against women as a peculiar result of the Patriarchy.", you can say "Sexual violence against men". You can have specific conversations. I'm sorry I most likely cannot be convinced otherwise, because as I've said, the only reason I've ever anyone insist on using different verbs is because they think sexual violence against males is less severe, and that it would be 'disrespectful toward real victims'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:31 PM
1

Notice how you called all three snake attacks "Snake Bites"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:15 PM
1

That's what "different' always means, each and every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:00 PM
1

Listen, no offense, but I think you just have a pretty severe bias about this topic. The whole reason you want these two topics to be treated differently is so that you can suggest that sexual crimes against males are fundamentally less severe/more acceptable. Also, who exactly gave up on who, what are you talking about? The entire reason we're even here right now talking about this topic openly is because men have insisted over and over and over again that this topic is important enough to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:50 PM
11

When you're talking about martial rape, who gives a fuck about some godman dowry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:17 PM
1

They also complained. A lot. Like incessantly. They also specifically complained that other people (men) should help them. People love to forget that complaining is part of the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:13 PM
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I agree, there are tons of open contempt for women that it's strange to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:09 PM
2

Honestly those are some really decent principles to live by. Some of them seem a little blue-pilled, like the whole Nexting thing is basically another way of saying "Respect her wishes and yourself by not chasing what doesn't want to be caught."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:08 PM
40

I have been noticing a very real bias against female perpetrators. It's pretty clear talking to some people that they do not take your trauma seriously only because of your attacker's gender. Hell some people will come right on out and say exactly that. Not only that, but survivors with female attackers are tone policed. All. The. Damn. Time. Honestly, I have been chastised for taking this situation "too seriously". "if you actually cared, you would be worried about REAL victims" Is something I'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/24 05:27 PM
1

Shrug. If we had all the answers we would have solved violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:38 PM
1

Neither female or males are made violent by experiencing abuse. Boys become violent witnessing violence happening to other people. Principally, his father's violence against his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:19 PM
1

No amount of copium will change the fact that carelessly stating your preferences is going to be a bullet for someone else. That's why I don't talk about my preferences with women. Besides, I don't like having to answer for what I find attractive. I'm sorry this cuts both wa
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:24 PM
1

A coomer is anyone who's so horny that it becomes their personality. Like a stoner who puts up neon weed lights on their walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:13 PM
2

Only for the first four hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:34 PM
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Blue Pill works, I'm healthier, stronger, back in school, working on my career, socializing with the womens, making new friends. Life is really great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:29 PM
1

Yeah well, you gotta give if you want someone's mouth on your piss stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:23 PM
1

I'm left on the ground, twitching as a desiccated near-corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:19 PM
1

It's really not that difficult to understand. She wouldn't personally have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:18 PM
2

It's a perk of having the entire world prance around our whims and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:17 PM
1

"Old used up single mom" No wonder you're so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:14 PM
1

I'm 5'5" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:11 PM
2

I don't get it. If women can get any man that they want, then the only possible reason women are single is because they're choosing to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:51 PM
4

I found someone because I'm a bit of a catch homie. Don't be a crab in the bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:49 PM
0

Considering I'm thirty myself and date women my own age, sure I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:53 PM
4

You may be onto something. Even when I was super black-pilled, I internalized everything and didn't blame others. In that regard, it could be hopeless like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:50 PM
3

I was single for fifteen years. I decided I was single because I wasn't good enough. I worked hard and made myself good enough. Now I have a girlfriend. I'm not sure what else to say. How could I have been doomed to failure and now not? Maybe God is grading on a curve?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:16 AM
1

Don't forget female rape victims who end up having to not only give birth to their rapist's baby, but then have to share custody with their rapist. Why couldn't you just have said "That's wrong"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:13 PM
1

To be honest, I'm not really super interested in getting into a fight with Feminists like that. And no I did not read any of the context, I literally just saw your reply in my feed and thought to reply lmao. But I really, really agree with you that we aren't ever the authority on our own experiences. It's strange and bizarre to have anti-rape people argue with you about what you experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:22 PM
2

I want to second this as something that I feel as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:00 PM
1

If it were so innate as you put it, then the society (which men are in control of) wouldn't be stopping men from raping. Or at least...you know...saying it's bad on paper and occasionally hitting the most obvious and worst offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:48 PM
2

Not saying that women 'rape as much as men' that's silly. But seriously, ask some men when their first sexual interaction with an adult woman was. You'll sometimes get some very low numbers. Mine was five. On of my friends as 13. Neither of us reported nor recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:48 PM
1

You can get people to bash baby's heads in if you teach them that's right to do so. Also no all rape is done by a monster who specifically wants to do a horrific crime. It's also selfish entitled boyfriends who think "it's not a big deal bro chill lmao".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 02:18 PM
1

It's offensive that people only split hairs like this about female sex offenders/male victims. Hardly ever see anyone say stuff like "Well, she was post-menopausal so there was no risk of pregnancy, so it wasn't as bad." ​ No one says that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:18 PM
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