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I‘m not trying to get in your panties. Yeah I get it. DARE not DEER. Hold muh frame. Ego bad. Here’s a post of mine under a different account: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/q71qu3/the_mrp_mods_are_all_faggots_other_shit/
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 04:19 PM
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You’re tiring to reply to. I‘ve already made my claims. My responses are verbatim.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 04:03 PM
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I responded to every comment. You‘re the one here taking „nah“ personally. You want internet brownie points and for me to say you won? Okay bro, you won.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 03:23 PM
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„Things I Will Do This Week“ is a plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 03:11 PM
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I‘m not out-of-shape, but I‘m not in great shape either. I‘m working on getting in the condition I was prior to Covid, if not greater. I‘ve lifted weights for 13 years. I‘m not new to weight training. I was varsity weightlifting in high-school and I‘ve kept it up ever since. Also, I agree on pursuing the mission. I agree completely… I‘ve been putting a great deal of more thought into it and I‘m getting closer to starting it. I know action proves my want, and I haven’t taken action yet, so I’m al…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 02:57 PM
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I need to make more money, yes. However I won’t negotiate how I spend my money, nor am I interested in convincing you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 02:37 PM
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OYS 3 24yo, 5'9, 205lbs, married 2, no kids READ MMSLP, MAP, SGM, Archwinger posts pdf (1/2), MRP top posts pdf x 2 (currently reading) MY UNATTRACTIVE TRAITS/PROBLEMS IN LIFE I'm not under 12% bodyfat. I make minimum wage. I do not own a car. I have a drivers license that is going to expire in under 2 weeks. I make less than my wife. I owe my wife money. I have under $100 in my savings and checkings account. I never buy household essentials or cleaning products and instead use whatever my wife …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 09:01 AM
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I'd say 17% bodyfat is accurate as I said earlier. I'm genuinely not new to lifting nor am I lying about my stats. I'm not a huge fat gorilla belly, and I'm also not yolked AF. You can very clearly see bicep definition and chest muscle through clothing. Besides, again, I will return to my former shape (pre-covid) quickly. Even then my sex life was the same. So the only true possibilities here are: My former shape wasn't good enough either It's something more than that Both of the above
/r/askMRP26/03/22 06:57 PM
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I like the way you put this. Good question.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 06:52 PM
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I understand. Everytime she fucks me she feels like a rape victim, aka, I'm not attractive enough. But what I'm trying to figure out here is, what is making me unattractive? Why am I presently unfuckable? I know you don't have a precise answer for me. I'm just trying to move in the right direction.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 04:40 PM
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Good idea bro. I'll grab you a stool so you can get on the bed
/r/askMRP26/03/22 04:36 PM
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I've read this post before, and whilst I agree with it, the problem with this post not aligning with me is that my wife is the breadwinner. She isn't putting out to prevent financial ruin as she makes more than I do. We also don't have children. She could however be putting out because she doesn't want to lose me (yeah I know, you doubt that) or that she just doesn't want to hear me whine or be cold towards her. I get the point though. For some reason, I'm not attractive enough.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 04:14 PM
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I'd reach so low because I'm beneath the minimum perchance
/r/askMRP26/03/22 04:05 PM
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Definitely looking to do this. Currently in the process of looking for additional hours at work or taking on an additional job for the weekends. I like this advice.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 11:46 AM
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I basically never game her. So yes, this is something I need to start doing.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 11:44 AM
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I'm very clearly muscular. Admittedly without abs showing without flexing. I'm slowly returning to my former shape. That being said I'll agree that I am unattractive intellectually, socially, and emotionally (hell, maybe it's physically too). So, if that's the case... How do I become attractive intellectually, socially, and emotionally? What am I missing here? And don't say sidebar. I've read the entirety of the MRP compilation pdf multiple times, I have read MMSLP, some of rational male but ple…
/r/askMRP26/03/22 05:42 AM
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5'9, 24 nearly 25, married 2 years. Haven't weighed myself in a minute but last time I checked I was 205lbs. I've been lifting for a long time, over 11 years on and off. Been out of the gym for awhile due to covid and have finally rejoined since things are opening up again. Going 5-6x a week plus I average 12-15k steps a day. Bodyfat is about 17% but will quickly get lower again once I'm back in the gym for awhile (been out for a good 1.5 years). All of this being said... Even 1.5 years ago... b…
/r/askMRP26/03/22 05:16 AM
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And what is the bare minimum for being a fuckable husband?
/r/askMRP26/03/22 02:50 AM
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Well since she doesn't initiate, she presumably never has a desire to get fucked by me, in which case I'd never fuck her at all.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 02:46 AM
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Breaking up with him over screenshotting pictures? Really? I mean if he is still talking to her and flirting with her and/or has fucked her -- thats a problem. But don't play it as if you've never been attracted to someone other than your boyfriend. Was it wrong of him to try and shame you and was it wrong of him to have screenshotted her to begin with while in a relationship? Definitely. Is that worth breaking up over? Lol, if you're that insecure than sure. What he's done shouldn't be consider…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 07:50 PM
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Is being less unattractive not being more attractive...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 11:44 PM
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Funny. Be more attractive. I get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 11:00 PM
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I really don't want to get into a looks vs. frame argument. I don't agree with you, I still think looks are drastically more important when it comes to attracting women, but it doesn't matter which is more important. Lets agree on this -- both are important, it doesn't matter which matters more. Also I mean, if I could get either of those online, and can actually get a better job because of it in a months time, can't say I'll do it but sure. Point me in the right direction. Just looking for a be…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 03:47 PM
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I've been squandering time on the mission. I just haven't done it yet. I have no excuses. Also yeah expected a response like that. It is a covert contract, but it doesn't mean that it likely won't happen. I'm led to believe it will. Otherwise I'll dread for it once in my mind I find I deserve it (which isn't now). Also I have read the sidebar, a good bit of it too. I don't take every word as prophecy, I 100% think that looks are paramount when it comes to attraction. Frame, confidence, OI, princ…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 03:24 PM
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I agree with your claim that I could be more attractive. I'm working on it. I think bodyfat is the main culprit. I'm definitely not fat, but I'm not shredded with abs all the time either. Though... if I was... I'm sure she'd skip work and be licking icing off of them right now... I'm already bigger than most guys my height, but yeah I could definitely benefit with losing a little bit of bodyfat, and to maintain it at a low level of bodyfat. That and losing the little bit of body acne I have, mai…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 03:00 PM
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Those are my real lifts. Pussy out on squats and skipped them for a long time. Deads I can probably do more on but I should change my grip. I've been juicing since 18, and lifting since 13. I can and will juice whenever I want. I owe her $2k, since I spent $2k of her money, why isn't really your business -- but I owe her it. How can I afford it, because I haven't been paying back my debt and still owe her $2k. I'm confident it was a particular steroid that killed my dick, this just started happe…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 02:11 PM
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Just made the post now. Check it out. Also cheers for actually reminding me.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 01:20 PM
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OYS #1 STATS: Age 22, Wife 20, 0 Kids, 5'8", 205lbs, 15% Bodyfat LIFTS: Bench: 315 x 4, Squat: 315 x 4, Deadlift: 315 x 2, OHP: 135 x 8 SUMMARY: Ongoing slight problems with the wife. Still having trouble dieting perfectly and getting to single-digit bodyfat and maintaining it. Still haven't begun working on my mission as of yet. Cannot currently go back to school to improve my income, will hopefully be able to soon. Still working on my lifts. Bought some clothes online this week, some of which …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 01:18 PM
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Do it. Looking forward to it myself.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 12:46 AM
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Yeah your diarrhea of the mouth and assumptions about my effort in life beyond a reddit post makes me no more obligated to write you out a novel in response. You can think what you'd like. I however have read the sidebar, am not new to this information, am lifting, and am working on my life mission (which she isn't my mission). You're right about me still attaching my ego to sex, don't think I'll ever squash that -- and honestly I don't want to. I get that's what's advised by MRP. But again, I d…
/r/askMRP03/11/19 11:50 PM
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She said no and I fucked her anyway...more than once...
/r/askMRP03/11/19 11:29 AM
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Definitely agree with this. No clue why others couldn't get this point. Was the reason I've taken a break from initiating to begin with. Was never my intention to disregard her no, but yeah it's happened more than once. I care enough to give her some space. The rapey part is the whole reason I think it's a comfort part to begin with. She was quite giddy with me just a month ago...
/r/askMRP03/11/19 12:12 AM
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If you read the title you'd come to find the whole reason why I made this post. It's a question. A simple yes or no would suffice -- followed by an explanation why. Generally that's how questions work... And don't flirt with me, you're the cutie who can't bench his own bodyweight.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 10:01 PM
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Good comment. Thank you for this advice. I brought up the topic of sex and I'm the one who suggested that she should only initiate (for a few weeks). We fucked last night, but yeah I'm definitely a high-sex-drive guy, I'd fuck daily if given the ability. I was doing that for awhile, and she would starfish for half of it, but just recently she's told me I've crossed a boundary and have basically raped her by misinterpreting one of her "no's". I made the suggestion of letting her initiate as a res…
/r/askMRP02/11/19 09:56 PM
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I touch her constantly (almost entirely sexual though). I'm also the one who suggested the only letting her initiate. Also it's probably a bit of both. I think I'm higher SMV than her, so she fucks to keep me, and sometimes I'm a whiny bitch ngl -- so for that reason too (she's caught on to me playing cold and just going to the gym whenever she rejects me, I guess I'm just too visibly butthurt about it).
/r/askMRP02/11/19 08:38 PM
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Important piece of info is I've basically raped her, not intentionally, but I did. Her no's dont always mean no, sometimes they mean maybe, but sometimes they mean no. I've gone and fucked her anyone when her no's meant no (and I interpreted them as maybe's). Pretty critical point. Aside from that I'd say your advice is solid. I'm not happy with starfish. Ty for the comment. Actually good advice...
/r/askMRP02/11/19 08:00 PM
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I have a good bit of muscle, but yeah I definitely could use more confidence and frame with her. I show a lot if negative personal traits and mate guard/snoop/show insecurities waaaaayyy too often. I'll work on it. Cheers.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 07:34 PM
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Not looking to walk away. It's been 2 weeks aha. Things can be fixed.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 07:23 PM
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This is the best and most constructive comment I've seen. Genuinely appreciate it. Will work on some more things. Have begun to make a "list of all of my unattractive traits" as another user has suggested me in a different comment. Cheers guys.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 05:57 PM
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uh huh. next.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 05:50 PM
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It's difficult though. She'll say no, but really sometimes it means "maybe" and then other times she'll say no, and it means "absolutely no" and both times I've gone anyways and done it without knowing she actually meant "absolutely no" a few of the times. I don't end up learning about it until later. I really am still not fully convinced this is an attraction problem, but genuinely a distrust and lack of comfort problem. It is rapey. Wasn't ever my intention. But in womanspeak: no doesn't mean …
/r/askMRP02/11/19 10:19 AM
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I didn't initiate last night and we fucked. Is that still a sign of maintenance sex or is she actually into me? Perhaps she does have a lack of attraction... I guess I'm just still in disbelief. I'll work on it a bit more. I know a few things outside of frame that could be improved here and there. Frame needs to improve too though...
/r/askMRP02/11/19 10:08 AM
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Lol you're retarded. Never stated I regretted anything. I don't regret anything. If you read any of my comments it doesn't seem that I'm blowing my lid over her not wanting to fuck me. Of course I'd like to solve the problem. Not losing my shit over it. "Wake up. Do the work." Pretty vague. Great help there.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 09:57 AM
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Not posting in OYS yet. Made this account just for that. Will this coming Tuesday. Not fucking her isn't the goal. Knowing she wants to fuck me is the goal. Her initiating (and hopefully often) would be a surefire judge of that.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 11:03 PM
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I think you've slightly misunderstood me. She basically feels borderline raped by me if I'm to be perfectly clear. Her comfort with me is decently gone according to her. I've misinterpreted her hard no's as soft no's MORE THAN ONCE and fucked her anyway. I'm pretty sure she's sexually uncomfortable with me now due to this. I'm not testing her either. I'm just trying to get her more comfortable with fucking me again as she claims to feel completely used and uncared for and as if it's like I just …
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:30 PM
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No I haven't. Not going to. I don't have problems with being a pushover. If anything I'm too much of an ass...
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:20 PM
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All the steroids must have shrunk them aha. But no jokes aside I'm still thinking she'll initiate. It's only been 2 days since I said I'd do this. Don't think I'll go nearly a month without sex (if I do I'll lose my shit). I've still been squeezing at her tits and slapping her ass occasionally but yeah I haven't done any hard initiating. Maybe it is an attraction issue... visual or otherwise.. not sure... ty for the comment.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:15 PM
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I've picked up on how she initiates. But yeah it is a bit more covert. Only once has she overtly initiated with me. She is stressed with work as of late, and her family -- but honestly if she was down she'd be down. Not sure what to think...
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:10 PM
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She doesn't exclusively starfish -- only been that way as of late (2 weeks). She also doesn't EVER tell me when to have sex and never has done that. Either I wasn't clear or you didn't read my post. I made the suggestion of allowing her to only initiate. Is there a possibility this could be a comfort problem moreso than an attraction problem? She'll 100% still let me fuck her if I try at it but it's just been mostly starfish lately. I stay in shape. I'll agree me frame isn't perfect. She claims …
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:08 PM
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As said in my initial post, I know I likely shouldn't have done this. Also I'm the one who advised this as a solution. She also genuinely has been quite starfish lately and "feeling used and uncared for" is her reasoning for it. We genuinely have NO fights in our relationship over any topic ASIDE from sex. I'm actively trying to find a solution to this. Again, I'm the one who suggested only letting her initiate, however I said I'd only do it for a few weeks. Honestly I genuinely am beginning to …
/r/askMRP01/11/19 09:59 PM
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I'd agree. My frame isn't solid. I'm not new to TRP and I've done a good bit of reading. But yeah I definitely have work to do in frame. I'll have solid frame a few days (I'm convinced) but then I'll definitely up the sweetness and softness and just wanting to supplicate to her way too much. Goes in circles repeatedly. Don't seem to know how to balance the both as advised in MMSLP. I'm working on it -- but I agree completely.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 09:35 PM
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As long as I maintain attraction... I'd assume exactly this... Would this not be: A good judge of her sexual interest in me A good way to prevent myself from ever looking needy Only downsides (I'm seeing) are: Horny often No sex ever if I'm not as attractive as I assumed Am I wrong here? If so, please explain.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 09:27 PM
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Read the title.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 09:24 PM
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