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The best thing of bachata is that you really really don’t need to chase anything Follower will come to you Ask me how I know haha 🫢👌
/r/seduction17/02/26 03:01 PM
1

Move your attention to other stuff. If she message, leave her on read. You are welcome
/r/seduction15/01/26 04:11 AM
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i would leave it on read. if she is not rescheduling, move your attention to other stuff from her. always put yourself first.
/r/seduction01/01/26 05:56 PM
1

what you realize women use guy for attention and experience. Like how they like free samples at costco.
/r/seduction11/08/25 02:57 AM
3

Remember she is still a stranger you just met. Move on
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:35 PM
1

Just be straight forward. take her number and ask.
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:44 PM
1

Like other said. You will see it Example: Instant reply, a lot of effort on conversation, extra joke and laughter, a lot of information, extra helpful, double or triple texting
/r/seduction15/01/25 03:13 AM
4

Just chat a bit and ask her out?
/r/seduction29/12/24 06:10 AM
1

For me, it’s my personal development When you realize her look is just the exterior, it isn’t a good representation of who she is as a person
/r/seduction15/12/24 08:11 PM
25

Work and cheating. Neither is good. both of them at once, pretty sure it is a terrible mix. I think you are making good money too. dont throw it away for 1 girl. Get an escort if you really are that horny. Trust me, it is cheaper in the long run.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:33 AM
14

Man up. Break the news to her face to face, gently. When me and my ex broke up, we grabbed dinner that night, talked in the parking lot afterward. we drove away in separate cars and moved on with our life.
/r/seduction09/11/24 05:51 AM
46

My confidence isnt dependent on the girl liking me back or not The other areas of life like maturity, positive, personal growth are my real focus.
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:02 AM
9

Like you apply to multiple jobs. of course, you will be rejected continually.
/r/seduction03/11/24 03:39 AM
9

Brother. This is not a "seduction" issue. In a long term relationship, it is about are you two compatible. are you able to run this marathon going.
/r/seduction29/10/24 08:04 AM
1

Shoot your shot.
/r/seduction26/10/24 04:25 AM
13

This is my take. Do something most women dont do. Be mature and openly communicate you need time and patience instead of using all those tricks and hints oh, also get fit and be stylish
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:10 PM
1

Be patient. The progress will take time. Keep going
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:48 AM
7

Tell her we are not friends
/r/seduction02/10/24 04:22 PM
1

you will have some work to do, brother. Took me years to gain my confidence and overcome all these emotional scars caused by the Asian culture
/r/seduction29/09/24 02:03 AM
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I'd say yes. I grew up in the Chinese culture. If your parent brag other kids achievement to your face for years, Having confidence as an adult will be hard.
/r/seduction28/09/24 05:52 PM
7

I would talk every single cute girl if i am in school . She is 1 in a hundred.
/r/seduction27/09/24 02:58 PM
2

I just start doing this. After 6 years with my ex, i do this because i need a new hobby badly. Meeting women there is almost a side benefit.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:21 AM
5

Whatever it comes to your mind
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:20 AM
12

Same here. 32yo, came out of a 6 year relationship last year. right now, I am happier than ever. You need to sharpen that pencil man. You got so much potential
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:31 AM
1

Its a number game. Shoot your shots your conversion rate may varies.
/r/seduction08/09/24 12:08 AM
5

Stay away and go meet new girls. There are millions of them out there.
/r/seduction25/08/24 05:54 AM
4

Keep being you and meet other women. No need to talk about other women in front of her.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:30 PM
12

I’d respect her decision
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:59 PM
37

good fitment Most guys shirts and Pants are too big for their size. O. Work out. No one likes a belly.
/r/seduction17/08/24 05:12 PM
2

Cafeteria, Quad, Or join a Club. I will give you one. Hiking. fit women always like natural.
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:35 AM
15

Yup. If you grew up in a restrictive culture/family, talking to women is difficult Strip club is a quick way to condition your mind
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:06 AM
1

"Taking a girl's number or Instagram doesn't mean anything" number means nothing if the connection isnt there.
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:29 AM
4

"dont be so serious"
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:48 PM
4

It is not the career that kills it. It is your decision of staying average, choosing to stay at that boring unfulfilling job that will kill it. When you are an ambition, aggressive, goal oriented person, you will come out like one when you interact with people. At the end of the day, self improvement is the ultimate end game of meeting women. habit is everything
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:17 AM
5

Brother. I take cold shower plunge almost every morning. Worked 8 years straight without a vacation. My dad abandoned my mom n I when we moved to the state. I was almost homeless during high school. I walked my high school graduation alone “Easy for you to say” 😉
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:12 AM
20

You mentioned you did so much self improvement. What kind of self improvement? What exactly did you do Based on what you wrote so far. I don’t see it.
/r/seduction05/06/24 07:40 AM
10

Hmmm no. I would filter her out The whole alpha male concept is immature n dumb
/r/seduction03/06/24 09:25 AM
19

give him your number and tell him we should hang out. then Jesus takes the wheel #bold
/r/seduction28/05/24 08:28 AM
1

By talking to more people, not just your family and bros.
/r/seduction25/05/24 05:01 PM
2

Feel free to share what did you ask and what was her reply.
/r/seduction24/05/24 05:02 AM
11

Why not ask her out and find out yourself? Truly hope you are not officially employed by her school tho.
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:49 AM
1

Nope. spent fraction of that $30k refreshing up all your clothes and shoes. You dont even need big name brand. just good fitting and style. I also recommend toastmaster and a gym membership FYI, i am Asian myself, living in CA. I would stay the f away from all those gold digging girl.
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:15 AM
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This is the part where you should focus on "The two girls I fucked came very naturally, I feel like making efforts got me nowhere" when you realize 95% of the sexual connection has nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:07 AM
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Second this one.
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:07 AM
1

Start small. Say hi to some stranger. Next step, try small talk to some random stranger Next step, key here, hit on girls you dont find attracted to. If she rejects you, it is literally a big fat of "Oh Okay". Most guys only talk action when they see the girls they are attracted to. Thats literally like you going to learn how to zero a gun while you are clearing room.
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:21 AM
79

Ask her out. Jesus
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:54 PM
12

there are 2 approaches. you ask 2 times and thats it. Or if you actually like her personality and you actually enjoy just chatting and the interaction, you can be a bit more patience. she may catches feeling eventually. Your choice.
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:34 AM
1

You didn’t do anything wrong. People do have a live outside of you and have their personal boundary
/r/seduction26/04/24 12:27 PM
145

Good response. If she said she has a BF, just leave it. bs or not.
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:31 AM
1

soo....you want my dick pic?
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:47 AM
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Girth is more important than length. I have a big knob and it is easy for me make them cum with simple foreplay + my pounding. sorry not sorry for the unintentional bragging.
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:40 AM
7

There isnt such a thing "coming off too strong" She knows you are interested in her the million second you extend the conversion topic. or that extra happy good morning you gave her. Just make your move.
/r/seduction18/03/24 01:56 AM
3

I love the book. Because he states in chapter 1 that self improvement is the ultimate end game of meeting women. I 100% agree.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:34 AM
3

You just have to remember that she is just another stranger that you just met on the internet.
/r/seduction02/03/24 09:50 AM
3

pretty sure that was a compliance test. Its ok, my friend. have fun with the next girl.
/r/seduction02/03/24 09:14 AM
1

practice practice practice. Talk to other strangers into public. start with other guys, older women. people you aren't interested in
/r/seduction25/02/24 07:17 PM
5

Models By Mark Manson. I am on the First chapter. I used to follow Stephen Erdman on YouTube. He switched to confidence conditioning now instead of a dating coach service.
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:35 PM
1

Do whatever you feel like. Have fun
/r/seduction19/02/24 04:13 AM
8

Its a journey. Its a Marathon. Be patient. I lost my V card at 22. got into my first relationship at 25.
/r/seduction19/02/24 01:47 AM
50

Yes. i realize porn alone give guys a bad impression what sex should be like. Most US porn lack foreplay.
/r/seduction18/02/24 07:26 PM
1

Both my ex and this girl i have been talking to...only gave me 1 test. the compliance test. Everything else, i reply with usual mode, nice, kind, funny and mature.
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:36 AM
69

I came out of a 6 years relationship last year. There are few decisions in life that are very impactful. Who you choose to go long term with is one of them.
/r/seduction16/02/24 09:22 AM
1

went to a yoga & beer event today. This was a meetup event. Organized by this 23 years old decently cute asian girl that works at a bar and used to work as a drink girl at strip clubs. There were me and this young guy. Young guy keeps all his attention on the asian girl, pretty sure he signed up to the event just to hang with her. I do talk to the 23 years old. but spread my attention to rest of the women at the class. hell, i didnt even talk to her for a decent portion right after the class whe…
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:06 AM
7

Ask her out. Take your shot.
/r/seduction12/02/24 02:54 AM
1

were you doing cold approach?
/r/seduction30/01/24 04:25 AM
6

Did they give one word reply right away or after some exchange? If they are giving one word reply right away. They are not in the mode to connect, lot of time, it’s not your fault. If this is after some exchange, it can be that you are too serious and boring. Or something happened At the end, we don’t know what is going on with the girls life
/r/seduction29/01/24 04:38 PM
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Personal development. Communication, maturity, positivity, empathy, fitness, mental growth. Career
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:59 AM
1

Follow, thank you for the list
/r/seduction14/11/23 04:09 PM
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