I’ve always struggled with understanding why Humor is attractive, but concept of Kingdom Rule helped me figure it out.
A man’s kingdom generates attraction in women through PSALMs and other factors many of which are social. For instance, charisma, humor, intelligence or mastery are things that are generally attractive to women. Charisma, intelligence, and mastery are more obvious to understand as they directly trigger a woman’s hypergamy.
However, humor remained illusory to me for a while. Humor seems to have a few concepts underlying it and many different types per AI:
- Slapstick: Physical comedy relying on actions and appearances rather than dialogue.
- Satire: Using humor, irony, or exaggeration to criticize people’s flaws or vices.
- Self-deprecating: Making jokes at one’s own expense.
- Dark Humor: Addressing sensitive or taboo topics in a comedic way.
- Wordplay: Using linguistic twists and puns for humorous effect.
- Observational Humor: Drawing humor from everyday situations and human behavior.
In general, much of humor is a deflection of the topic to something either off topic or contrasted between something else.
Some aspects of humor are attractive and some are not. For instance, self deprecating humor is almost never attractive to women except if the man is very attractive already. Usually the self deprecating humor will negatively trigger hypergamy as the man is unconsciously putting himself below the woman which will generate feelings of disgust.
Most other aspects of humor seem to trigger hypergamy from the perspective from altering the balance of Internal Locus of Control (ILOC). For instance, if a woman is serious about something and a man can deflect the conservation to something funny, this brings her out of her own feelings and centered feelings of her ILOC and into the man’s world.
This is very similar to the fitness/shit test responses such as agree and amplify which turn the test of a man’s fitness on the head by defusing the situation with something silly: “Does this dress make me look fat?” being defused by something like “yes, that dress makes you look soooo big that your gravitational pull may pull me right to you.” You could even classify this into a form of satire.
The unconscious pulling her out of her own world into your world flips her ILOC to revolve around you instead of her being centered on herself. Or if we go to game dynamic references then it’s out of her frame and into yours.
Indeed, humor is simply just another form of social mastery. I’d also classify other forms of social mastery aside from the ones mentioned like charisma and intelligence in the same way. Effective public speaking and story telling are similar ones that draw in not just men but also women in the same way.
