The hottest girl you ever hooked up with.
Picture her right now.
In your head, picture how you picked her up and interacted with her. Remember the way she looked at you, the way she laughed at your jokes.
Envision the bold move you made, either in approaching her, or in escalating towards the physical, and her accepting the advance with happiness.
Picture her enjoying hearing you talk and touch her.
No social interaction is perfect so forget any mistakes you made or anything that didn’t go smoothly. That doesn’t matter. Focus only on the positives.
You should have a short mental movie of the experience. You should feel better about yourself just by playing this mental movie in your head.
Now, set two minutes aside every day to do this and affirm the experience to yourself.
The point is not to pedestalize that girl. You should switch in memories of other girls if you can.
The point is this:
You’re a little bit better with women than you think you are.
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Okay, this won’t work for guys with no success with women, but most guys with moderate experience in game have had flashes of success with a girl or girls a little hotter than their norm.