A lot of people have noticed a seemingly contradictory alliance between Christian Reactionaries and “PUA’s”.
Of course, it is not a contradiction at all. We recognize in each other something that is missing all around us: Truth.
The truth that female sexuality is easily manipulated and taken advantage of. The truth that female power destroys both churches and attraction.
Don’t fight it, we fit together.
Of course, not ALL Christians think this way.
I smirk a little when I come across the occasional self-congratulatory more-Christian than thou guy in the Orthosphere who talks down upon game. They talk as if being a pussy who thinks a True Christian Girl is all sunshine, rainbows, puppies and innocence is what being a Christian requires. Because game only works on SLUTS, it wouldn’t work on your Christian wife, daughters, and cousins, right? Right??
That type of wishful thinking is what has eroded the church and will continue to erode it. If Christianity will succeed it has to stop pedestalizing its women. Believe it. And that’s why we fit together. Because you’d rather have me in your church than a female minister.
Because you know you need strong men speaking the truth and if you see a strong man speaking a truth that benefits Christianity you’d be a fool to shut him up.
Of course, that is only step 1.
A Christian may cheer on my assessment of the state of gender relations but when I get to the part where I sleep with a girl on the first date, they’re left scratching their heads. A Sunshine Mary quote:
Their response to reality is to teach men to be pick up artists while at the same time complaining about what a mess society is. But they are trying to ride two horses. No one can be entirely self-focused while also being society-focused because there are times when the interests of the self are at odds with the interests of a healthy society.
Touché.
If PUAs understand what damage unleashed female sexuality does to society, why do they spend all their time unleashing female sexuality?
Every guy has different reasons and there is overlap in many cases. But here are some of them:
1.) Guilty as charged. Society is broken and won’t be fixed any time soon so let the looting commence. We’re sitting back poolside chain smoking cigarettes because our Stage 4 Lung Cancer is terminal so instead of living with unpleasant chemotherapy we’re going out in flavor country. This is the group that Christian Reactionaries tend to reflexively box all PUAs into, but that would be a mistake.
2.) Male privilege. We want to get married with kids one day but since promiscuity is far less damaging to a man we are sowing wild oats. Due to mercy and time constraints, most promiscuous sex will be had with girls who already ruined themselves for marriage anyway, thus the net cost to society is minimal. The rare girls who want commitment before sex are jettisoned until the time is right. (And no you fag, this doesn’t mean game only works on sluts. It works on all girls, some just take longer).
3.) Society has failed the average man. The social structures that used to allow an average man to marry an average girl with only a career and good reputation no longer exist. The average guy with middling SES or worse finds his female peers the most effected by the obesity crisis, the divorce industrial complex, the lack of a good churchin’. If you saw the prospects the low-caste man is expected to consider for marriage you wouldn’t blame him for saying fuck the grinding life of sacrifice, time for some conspicuous consumption and asshole game. What are his incentives to keep the barbarians from storming YOUR ivory tower? Society has to be fixed from the top down, you can’t berate the pawns into kingly virtue. Don’t hate the player, hate the progressives who destroyed his chance at a nice married life. The vast majority of guys who get heartbroken and then google around for tips on women are in this category.
4.) Weakness. We’re human. It’s never been this easy for a high-status man to run the table on pleasures of the flesh and with our sexual utopia dangled right in front of our dick it is hard to resist. Maybe you know gluten is bad for you but if you live on a wheat farm, what are you gonna eat?
5.) Male hamster. Some guys are high-time preference simpletons and rationalize this by framing their relentless pursuit of pussy as an ideal rather than accepting harsh truths that unleashed sexuality harms more people than it helps. “I leave them better than I found them!” is what these guys tell themselves. These are the guys who have eyes but do not see, guys like Mark Manson, RSD, YaReally, and Blackdragon. You would be a fool to ignore their highly proficient pickup advice, but if they gained any influence they would take us back to mudhuts as fast as the feminists. Many guys who do a quick Google for “how to get laid” will eventually click around to some of this advice. Luckily sanity is just a few more clicks away.
6.) As Jesus said, You shall always have the bad boys among you. Certain guys are destined for the player lifestyle but they understand that life is best lived and enjoyed in the confines of a civilized world. Just as the entrepreneur needs workers, the player needs to be surrounded by beta males content to keep society humming along. These guys understand a society’s carrying capacity for true players is low and the world would quickly see warring alpha clans and a surfeit of unpleasant sluts if every guy’s foremost intent was to arouse lust in as many women as possible. The best Manosphere example of this type of guy is Krauser who gives us the quote “When you’re inside pussy paradise you are very glad there’s fortified walls keeping the barbarian horde out.” The higher and stronger you build those walls with religion, slut shaming and the like, the fewer guys will scale the wall.
This post has ended, let us go in peace.
