Is she dressing herself for HIM or for some other reason?

Readership: All
Theme: Transactions
Length: 750 words
Reading Time: 4 minutes

Intro

In the past few posts, we’ve looked at why women choose specific clothing and makeup — and overall, it’s NOT for men or even to make themselves more attractive to men.

In general, the P_ssy cartel strictly forbids women to do anything specifically to appeal to men’s interests or to win a man’s favor.

But in a private relationship with a man, a woman will let a man believe she’s wearing her clothing, hairstyle, makeup, etc. just for him.

It should be noted that this is a form of honeycraft intended to soften him up and entice him to be compliant to her whims.

Bardelys the Magnificent observed,

“Yes, women overall dress to conform to the herd. Until they find a man they want to attract, then they do what they think will catch him. I’ve seen many women completely abandon a style of dress to catch a man and then go right back to the old way like nothing ever happened once he’s no longer in the picture. It’s surreal to watch.”

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This is easy for a woman to do because men are prone to think a woman dresses up because she wants to look more beautiful, or BETTER than other women, or to make herself more appealing to him.

But her true motivation may very well be none of these reasons.

How can a man know if a woman is truly interested in meeting and matching his opinions and preferences or not?

The Compliance Test

Gentlemen, here’s the test to determine whether a woman is wearing her clothing, hair, makeup, etc. just for you.

How does she react when you demand a change?

What does she do when you tell her you don’t like a particular style, or you ask her to let her hair grow longer, or to wear a different dress, or different makeup, or no makeup at all?

If you tell her your opinion and it is different from her own, does she respect your wishes or does she bloviate and follow the herd and/or her own preferences?

If she complies to your preferences, then she might be true.

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If she pouts and throws an indignant tantrum, and insists on doing things “her way”, then it’s a clown show for the P_ssy cartel, or her own convenience, or her own ego.

Most women will go the route of “My body, my choice”, thus proving my point raised in previous posts that women will usually NOT seriously consider what men prefer.

To single men: If you find a woman who dresses to please you, and only you, who wears the clothing you prefer, who grows her hair as long as you like, and who values your opinion more than that of her female peers, then you’ve found a rare and valuable gem. Such behavior deserves to be rewarded.

To men yoked with the blessed burden: Call your girl out on how she’s always trying to “fit in” to the chick clique.  Pressure her to conform to YOUR expectations and/or what YOU deem is appropriate.  Reward her if and when and only when she cheerfully submits.

Case Study — Jill’s Hair

Early in their marriage, Jack made it clear that he expected Jill to have at least shoulder length hair and no funny colors. Several times, Jill went to the salon and had her hair trimmed shorter than that, just to assert her egotistical free will and to sh!t test Jack. She complained that having long hair feels ‘hot’ and is so much work to take care of. Jack consistently responded with anger and solemn-faced disapproval, saying things like, “Now you can pretend to be my husband for a while.” and “Why do you want to make yourself sooo middle-class?” This always aroused Jill’s rebellious indignation. Arguments and silent treatment followed.

But over time, Jill grew to accept Jack’s demands and has come to appreciate the fact that long hair is more beautiful and feminine (1 Corinthians 11:15) and her body is not her own (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). It’s one of the ‘requirements’ for being happily married.

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