Men need to grow out of the lust and poverty mentality that is killing masculinity.

Readership: All
Theme: Cultural Demise
Length: 800 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes + 2 videos totaling 28 minutes

Baby Red Pill is not yet Weaned off the Tits and @ss

Manospherians can all agree that a man should be honored, respected, and sexually desired by a woman. But there is also the deeper conviction that women should treat a man like a virtuous mother would treat her young son, except breastfeeding is replaced by proliferous images depicting scantily clad vixens with plump mammary glands and enough cleavage to burp in.  This can be seen in almost every current Red Pill video.

Of course, these are men’s spaces, and men find the feminine form inspiring, so it is what it is.  However, seeing how many men do not possess the mature mental state required to accept this sort of adult inspiration as an artistic form of beauty, nor are they in a position to make good on that inspiration, it is thus more or less a vector of lust that instills and perpetuates a poverty mentality.

In this video, Casey Zander went off the cuff to express his frustration in catering to the lusts of the masses of men on his channel.

At the 2:00 mark he says,

“[Producing this content] really affected my mental health to where every single day I would not like the channel and I wouldn’t even really like doing this, and truthfully I started to hate who I became, because… what you have to realize and understand is when a man has lust at the forefront of his brain 24/7, […] whether it’s titles, tags, thumbnails, anything of the topic of discussion, I think that it turns you truthfully into a weaker man and it also turns me into a weaker man.  When a guy has lust and pleasure at the forefront of his brain 24/7 and all the topics and the things that a guy’s studying or researching or doing or improving on is strictly to get women, you become super weak…”

As I recall, lust is a sin.  Maybe this is precisely why lust is a sin.

Baby Red Pill still needs Hugs

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As I described in Men’s Altruistic Idealism in an Age of Apostasy (2023/7/28)),

“There is some degree of projection on the part of Men.  Men imagine women to be Moral Agents who are Strong and Independent enough to be lovingly empathetic to men. Therefore, men expect women to be actively affectionate, kindhearted, and considerate of their wants and needs.”

Much like a mother would be (or should have been).

There is also the idea that men should be able to be emotionally open and transparent to women.  (This is a complex irony.)

The juxtaposition of these deeper beliefs is precisely what produces all the disappointment and psychological outrage when men discover that the tit is ice cold and the milk is sour.

But this is not how a HEAD behaves.

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Red Pill Apostle alluded to this failure of men to recognize their God ordained roles as HEADS when he wrote that…

“Women are not that complex. They want time, attention and some validation, especially in areas that they lack self-confidence. The whole situation is much like the way a good parent guides and builds up a child.  Once you stop seeing women as equals and start seeing them as needing guidance and protection, much of what we discuss here gets easier.

What I mean is that I can get frustrated with my boys or with Mrs. A, but the correct appraisal of their natures helps me with patience and understanding even if I am still the arbiter of discipline. It is much easier to be kind and understanding when my expectations are appropriate.”

“Husbanding, not for the faint of heart.”

Epilogue

I expect that the next phase of the societal wide Red Pill Awakening will be when the predominant majority of men shake off their Blue Pill delusions regarding women as irrational but enlightened “equals” with a pisstol holster, and begin to grow into their rightful place as authoritative Heads having a sphere of authority and influence.

For this to happen, men must take it upon themselves to wean themselves off the witch’s tit of lust, accept the present state of reality, and become more comfortable with their place as the instigators, movers, and shakers of society.

Forsaking this deeply held idolatry / pedestalization of V Power will be difficult and painful to men’s ego investments, and it will require work, so this may be a slow transition.

Update

Casey Zander posted the following video with an update in which he makes reference to God. He is almost going full Roosh. Almost.

Casey Zander: The Emasculation of the Modern Man and the Toxic MANOSPHERE (The END of Casey Zander) (2023/8/3) Length: 7:39

H/T: Thedeti

Zander then deleted the above video on 2023/8/6.

Fortunately, Thedeti was able to provide us with some video excerpts and an audio of the original.

One doesn’t build a legacy by deleting published content.

I would guess that Zander is now discovering what Roosh discovered in 2019 — that when he abandons the idolatry of the lust for p00n, he loses the monetary support of his idolatrous followers.

Let us pray for him to stay strong and not look back (Luke 9:62). We can also pray for him to not simply delete his older content as Roosh did, but to reframe it in terms of his faith and testimony.

H/T: Dead Bedroom Dating

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