Each of us gets to write the rules in what we want out of a relationship and who we want to have it with and when.

The price you pay for nobody wanting to follow YOUR rules is called "single" "Single" isn't the end of the world, or the worst case scenario.

Sometimes you get lucky and someone wants to follow all or some of your rules if you do the same, and that's where "compromise" comes in.

If you think your rules are going to apply to anybody else's relationship you are mistaken.

The only relationship you can impose rules on is your own and nobody even your partner is required to follow them.

There are no alphas, there are no betas...YOU rule your destiny and no one else