I spent three years single. Just focusing on myself and doing my thing. And it was the most rewarding time ever. My life has been FULL of LVMs. From dad to boyfriends to male friends. And one day I said NO MORE. What the hell am I even doing?? Why was I spending over 4 years of my life trying to “fix” someone when I could just find someone who was already whole and fully functional for a mature relationship?? Sadly mindblowing, isn’t it?

Anyways, after much self healing and lurking here to soak up some TRUTH, I am now dating someone who literally sends me texts of gratitude for being with him- every morning. Constant flowers being brought to my house, always picks up the check, treats me like a GODDESS. And the best part? He KNOWS I can leave him at any moment. So he makes sure to not screw this up. Because I can be just as happy on my own. It is, and it always will be, a privilege to be with me.

So don’t give up on your happiness, my Queens. If you want a male partner, don’t settle for a SINGLE thing. That rarity of a man does exist. But if you want to just be alone? I don’t blame you... it’s pretty fucking great. At the end of the day, it’s about YOU. Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise.