I just want to thank this sub so much. A year ago I got out of a 6 year relationship with a narcissistic individual. This moment in my life was very impactful. I’ve been broken up with almost every time in my history of dating. After this I knew there had to be something wrong with me to be in relationships where I’m always the one broken up with. I looked into all different kinds of material to help me find ways to become a better person and got into therapy. Come to find out I was heavily codependent and a pickmeisha. I’ve dedicated this whole year to finding out who I am, what I want, just all out pouring into myself. I found this sub and I was hooked. It displayed so many truths I’d never known. I took in a lot of the strategies and though I didn’t consider myself ready to “date” anyone there were a few guys I hung out with who had interest in me. In these situations I was able to use what I had learned from this sub. I’ve been seeing someone for a few months and he has been very impressive. I can compare how we’ve been to my last relationship which is so much better. I feel like I can actually be my truest self and maintain my own life while also being a partner to my love interest. So now I finally feel ready to be in a healthy committed relationship. I am excited for our future together. And even if it doesn’t work out I’ll be fine with that too. I know that vetting is an ongoing process and I will keep adhering to the strategies from this sub. But anyway I just wanted to say thank you to this sub because it has been a huge part of my Glow Up!