Hey ladies, I’m new to this sub. Something recently happened between my boyfriend and I and it was so unprecedented that I still don’t even know how to handle it. A friend recommended that I come here for advice. So my boyfriend of 18 months and I have had a great relationship to this point. We met in college and he’s a great listener, takes me on the best dates and has always been respectful. We moved in together 4 months ago and he’s been casually bringing up spicing things up in the bedroom which is something that I am hesitant to do. Anyways, a few days ago my friend was going through Tinder and found a profile that had both me and my boyfriend’s name on it. The profile said something like “couple looking to experiment with another girl.” There were pictures of us together as well as some of him alone and me alone in a swimsuit. I was petrified when she sent me the pictures. I love my boyfriend but this seems unforgivable. He hasn’t brought it up to me and he doesn’t know that I know. How should I handle this?? Please help!