This sub is full of ladies of all ages, and I wish to start off by saying I'm 17 and I've lacked the strong support that I needed growing up. 

2018 was my biggest mistake. It was the first time I was asked out, and I did everything to seek his validation because I really believed in it. I went onto male-dominated forums to seek advice, constantly trying to improve myself and suit him. I even got a new wardrobe to be more presentable. Then he ghosted me this February. I was really upset and asked all my friends what I had done wrong because I did everything guys on the internet said they wanted in a girl. Even met up with him, only to let him joke about me the whole time. It broke my heart and everybody just told me I'd get over it but I couldn't stop wondering where I went wrong. That was when I found this sub. 

Over the past few months, all of you Queens out there really helped me grow in character and spirit. During the 7 months I: 

Managed to get into the top 10% of my school Lost 6kg and experienced a massive glow-up with Korean beauty products Had my art displayed in a gallery  Started writing poetry and am likely to be featured in a 2021 publication

The old me would be sorry for the humblebrag, but I am proud of my progress. I would not have been able to do it if it weren't for the advice in this sub. I don't think I would've ditched my desperate behaviour if I didn't see how strong and dignified all of you are. Thank you all for giving me that strength.  I LOVE YOU QUEENS!!!