Hi ladies,

I want to preface by saying I’m very untrusting of men’s intentions in general. Not in an empowering way, but I’m scared I attract narcissists as I dated one and attracted one on an app. So I met this man, we met up last weekend, he took me to a really good steakhouse and gotten me some expensive liquor, and was very gentlemanly. I thanked him for the date and that’s it. He texts me yesterday asking to hang out today, I agree and then he sends this.

I’m a planner, but I didn’t want to come off too interested so I fully expected him to set a time, I saw noon had come and told him about my meeting. I feel like he’s either: a) using push and pull technique acting interested when I’m not attentive and pushes back when I am. B)a barc who wastes people’s time or c) he actually had something come up or he wanted to see me after work all along so we had more time to meet. Idk what to respond, should I see him or not? I really am interested. I need to get over my anxiety in narcissistic behavior, it’s just so common.