I am generally negative to porn because it quickly turns into obsession in men. I feel like men took something good and turned it into another instrument for their own pleasure that oppresses women and hurts everyone. But porn doesn't have to be that way. I believe there is a way porn can not only be not harmful for men and women, but even benefit them.

I'm talking about high quality ethical porn where the female pleasure is prioritized, and where female actresses actually cum, and men should watch it for learning purposes. Perhaps the most famous ethical porn producer is Erica Lust, and btw having women behind the camera makes a huge improvement in porn quality.

As for porn stars, I personally would recommend videos with Owen Gray. I don't know how female co-stars don't fall in love with him because he directs 100% of his attention to the woman. There is a lot of foreplay, he maintains eye contact and his empathy levels are so high that he practically mirrors the woman's facial expression. He knows how to make a woman cum, and I wish men I had sex with, learned from him. He is that good.

I know it's a controversial topic. I feel like I have missed a lot because I was always very embarrassed by my body, sexuality, desires. For me personally, exploring my own sexuality is absolutely necessary to feel comfortable in my own skin. And I do sometimes watch porn, read porn and (Oh god) masturbate. I don't like when people are porn negative, but I totally agree that porn addiction is a huge problem in men.

I think women should reclaim porn and sexual freedom, take it back from men and have it focus on women and their sexuality.